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And then she surprises us by sleeping for 10.5 hours straight without her sound machine on due to the power going out. WTF kid? 🤔🙃 #confusedparent #sleepregression #BabySophieC #babygirl🎀 #8monthsold #36weeksold https://www.instagram.com/p/CEW78iBgh_O/?igshid=uh6ynwcj5m7

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One of the most dejecting impacts of being associated with PCOS for women is their hormonal imbalance of the reproductive years. While this does bring in a sense of helplessness and grief, there is a ray of hope for women. Along with the ease of detection in PCOS, there is a ton of support available to show one that women with PCOS have had a similar number of children as women without PCOS. There are many myth busters with regard to this topic that will instill the faith in women. A few guiding lifestyle changes and medical support can make a woman’s maternal dreams a reality.

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Problems Of Parents

There are few common parenting problems, each parent face.I have been speaking with a number of parents for the last one month.They were parents from different walks of life. As I spoke with them, the results were revealing. Some of the most common problems, parents faced with their kids from 2 to 14 years old are

Unhealthy Eating Habits

Children are shy or don’t communicate properly with others.

[iowawaywardsouthernboy-blog]

Tomorrow is garbage pickup day. The kids took the garbage out and put new bags in the cans. We use plastic shopping bags for the small cans in bedrooms and the bathroom. I noticed this bag in the can in my bedroom as I was getting ready for bed tonight. What year is this again? And where the heck did they find this bag? #what #blastfromthepast #confused #confusedparent #confuseddad #childhoodflashback (at Bettendorf, Iowa)

[joy-of-mommingj]

Much much humbled & equally happy to be featured on 'The Hindu' along with these wonderful mom bloggers @confusedparent, @kidskintha 💝 Feel so nice to know about like minded bloggers through this article💐 Thank you very much @the_hindu for the feature😊 #thehindu #momblogger #instamom #featuredbloggers #bloggersofinstagram #blogger #happymoments #LearningandGrowingwithJ https://www.instagram.com/p/CEtwSs4FDdj/?igshid=uz1mlnhaqekf

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MEDITATE: MAY KIDS ENJOY THEIR PARENTS’ PRESENCE

Week 3

Confused parents are scary and dangerous. Their confusion might be contagious.

Have you met beautiful caretakers who are so well-rounded and grounded, it feels that they are holding the axis of the world itself? Do you remember kind grandparents whose wrinkles are shaped like the rays of the sun? Have you witnessed loving folks who are totally present for their children, preferring their company to escape? Have you seen responsible parents who do the work of creatively raising their children, ready to face their kids and their own challenges without numbing them out with technology?

Have you met me? If you have, you would know that I was nothing like those parents who remembered who they and their children truly were. I am just now starting to wake up to the sacred love time with these brilliant beings.

I spent most of my parenting life running away from my kids, because creating, working and connecting with my friends felt more fun. It also distracted me from my pain. It was easier for me to organize their pastime by taking them to classes or distancing them with movies than looking them in the eye.

Confused parents are scary. Absent-minded parents are dangerous. Parents tangled up in their stories are hurting themselves and their siblings. Their confusion might be contagious, as children are copying their caretakers’ attitude whether it is based on love or fear.

I remember seeing my mother’s sadness, feeling her disappointment, tasting her anxiety. In my love and loyalty to her, I couldn’t leave her alone, wanting to help her carry and ease her pain. Feeling joyful when my mother was sad felt like betrayal. She knows something about this space I was born into, that makes me feel unsafe. She is my mother, my universe, my God. There must be a reason she looks so tense, she can’t just be wrong. Her world was contracting with mine inside of it shrinking in the void.

It took me a lifetime to realize that none of that was true. These were my shadows I was seeing, and my own projection I was watching on the all-permissive screen of my divine mother.

I don’t know if someone loves my children as much as I do. I don’t know if something scarred my children more than I did. Still I am repeating similar behavior with my kids at times. I see them watching my tension and agreeing with things I haven’t even said. They can read me without me speaking out a word. Unawareness in parenting comes with a heavy price of casting the darkness on the worlds of the children.

One of the main reasons I am genuinely interested in being mindful is the comfort, gentleness, softness, love and conscious choices that come with it. Awareness lets me notice the moment my confusion is born and stop the fire of the pain before I throw it on people around me. When I am present I am being, I feel gratitude, I know I have everything I need, I am safe and at ease, I melt into love, I hold space, I am choosing my actions. I am light, and I am light.

May we all be present, and may our kids enjoy their time and space with us.

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