#coming out experiences

[dominants-dominion]

Since my blog was deleted at 40k, I had to start over, so here we are! This is my blog, I'm going to post what I want when I want. It's going to be alot of memes and horny posts. If you don't like memes and horny posts, please exit.

MDNI, 21+ ONLY! No exceptions.

No Republicans, Racists, or Religious people fuck outta here.

Have your age in your bio/pinned or you'll be blocked.

I am a 27 year old dom. I'm married to @submissiveebrat . We are in a 24/7 dynamic she is mine, and I am hers. In no way, shape, or form, do you have permission to call me any honorific. I'm just a regular dude to you.

Kinks:

Bondage

Breeding

Breath play

Consent

Cnc

Impact play

Forced orgasam

Master/slave

Humiliation

Praise play

Worship play

Temperature play

Somno

Wax play

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Master/Mistress

98% Dominant

96% Rigger

89% Degrader

89% Owner

87% Brat tamer

86% Experimentalist

84% Exhibitionist

80% Daddy/Mommy

79% Voyeur

I'm happy to help anyone with anything. Feel free to send anons over looking for advice or if you want to message me, feel free. Just don't send me nudes or try to sext just be respectful.

Let's build this community back up!

[alildritten]

Okay, so uh. Few days in already, but happy pride month all! And. Right now I’ve just been reminiscing on the times I’ve come out to people. Friends, my brothers. Even my mom, actually. And it’s just. It felt so nice coming out to the majority of them because I heard all this stuff about how aro and/or aces had to explain for the who-knows-what-time. Each time they came out. And how all these people kept getting all this crap happen and all that. And. When I came out for the first time, to my brother and one of my friends at the same time, they were both fine with that! And the best part was how my friend just. “Yeah, I kinda figured.” That felt so amazingly… idk? It just made me really happy for some reason. Maybe because I was expecting the worst, or just maybe how nonchalant they were about it? And knowing they accepted me for me, and they wouldn’t see me differently for it. And, yeah, my brother didn’t know what aroace meant, and that’s fine! It wasn’t really a bother, and he still accepted me :D

Though I must say, I do have a funny story of how someone came out to me. They’re a few grades younger than me, and have been a friend of mine for a little while. We finally got to see each other again, (in a class at the end of the day going into after school stuff, I had to leave for other after school stuff) and I went over to say ‘Sorry I’ve gotta leave so quickly but hi nice to see you again!’ Or something of that sort, and I greet them and they just immediately say “I just learned my crush is straight!” That line hit me like a truck. Not because of the implications, no, just because I wasn’t expecting that to be the first thing that’s said. We hadn’t seen each other since before the pandemic. And it was so funny. Thankfully we got to see each other the next day to talk, but still. It was so unexpected, and, I’ll admit, I spent quite a bit of the next day thinking about that. I was just like, “Is this how I learn another person I’m friends with is also part of the queer community?” And yep! Indeed it was. I love my friends :D <33

[littlemizzlinguistics]

Studying linguistics is actually so wonderful because when you explain youth slang to older professors, instead of complaining about how "your generation can't speak right/ you're butchering the language" they light up and go “really? That’s so wonderful! What an innovative construction! Isn't language wonderful?"

[mienar]

the wandering painter, part one

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[eydilily]

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[kayleerowena]

TRUE LOVE IS POSSIBLE ONLY IN THE NEXT WORLD, FOR NEW PEOPLE / IT IS TOO LATE FOR US

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[deanpinterester]

i cannot stress this enough: if your reasoning for clowning on the mcu is "they overwork their cg artists and animators" i 1000% guarantee that a show or movie you have been stanning for years also abused their artists and you just haven't heard about it because the production companies aren't in the spotlight like mcu productions are. that cartoon for kids? that incredibly animated movie? that non-marvel superhero movie? i've seen people declare their hatred for the way the mcu treats their workers and then turn around and gush about a show that i know for a fact was hell for the artists attached

and no this is NOT me saying "this means you should stop hating on the mcu uwu" it's me saying you gotta be aware that this shit is an INDUSTRY WIDE PROBLEM. you CANNOT "fix" it by refusing to watch mcu movies and feeling good about it. you have to be aware that it's EVERYWHERE. why do you think so many animation and vfx productions are sourced in canada? in india and the phillipines? we are not unionized.

i know it's hard to face the idea that your favourite show might have been made unethically especially when you've spent so much time hating the mcu for doing the same thing. you don't have to start hating your favourite show. just like...be aware. don't be smarmy about it. don't claim without research that a beautifully animated movie Must mean the animators were not working 16 hour days and weekends. i do think we can fix this 👍 but we can't fix it if 90% of us don't even realize what the problem really is

[cthulhum]

i lied theres no sex. were gonna sit down and watch supernatural while we analyze the way almost every character is queer coded especially dean

[dominants-dominion]

Coming out experiences!!

I did this on my old blog but if anyone wants to send in their "coming out experiences" to my asks I encourage it. Whether good or bad, so that way people who haven't come out yet know they are not alone out there!

Thank you in advance for sharing! 💜🏳️‍🌈

[spiderdaynightlive]

"oh hey what the hell"

bathroom's closed; wasp photoshoot

"what"

*reviewing my settings and lowering ISO* bathroom's closed. wasp photoshoot.

[xitsensunmoon]

My first ever comic con! And first cosplay too. Of course it's gonna be my boy :] Ramblings about the process are under the cut(Let me know if?? You would want me to elaborate with process images for any of the steps?)

The costume took me forever to make, as I've never done any machine sewing, sculpting, fabric dying or spray painting before but learning all of these was so fucking fun!! I never realised just how many different skills go into making a cosplay but it was so worth it!!!

Almost all of the clothes(except the hat) were purchased first as bases, but all of the detailing was added by me. All of the fabric used was originally just scraps that I was given for free so I needed to learn how to dye and dye all of the stars, they were originally white.

The sewing machine was its own beast that brought me tons of frustration from the lack of skill and knowledge (it was devastating to find out that 95% of fuck ups were my fault and not the machine's lmao). But as a result, a hat sewn from scratch, all of the fur trims, embroidery on the corset, stars and the collar(which is very hard to see on the pictures unfortunately) was all added manually. The stars and the stripes(on the back of the cape) were attached using heat-and-bond adhesive (I WISH I knew about such thing just when I started working on this. It would save me so much time and nerves.)

Then I found out about polymorph(mouldable plastic) and it has become the next thing I wanted to learn, to sculpt the claws and the fangs(yes, they're handmade jfksjs). The claws I then primed and painted in trillion coats because I wasn't satisfied with the colour of the spray paint. The fangs I moulded to my own teeth and then stained with tea to match the colour of my teeth :)c

As for makeup, I used Mehron Paradise water activated paints. At first I wanted to try to save money and bought myself Snazaroo instead, which unfortunately turned out to be a waste. Snazaroo didn't hold on my face for longer than 2 hours, cracking and peeling awfully. Mehron on the other hand survived 11 hours of me smiling, talking, emoting and such and didn't even crease at the smile lines(I'm actually shocked about that). It obviously works like any other makeup which means your skin texture and wrinkles won't go anywhere but Mehron's elasticity pleasantly surprised me. It did obviously smear from sweat and saliva(if you're eating and licking your lips) but if you don't touch the skin it just dries again, self setting. But if it's dry it's fully smear-proof. Highly recommend!

And last but not least, I've decided against painting my hands as it was very risky that I will stain everything I touch at the smallest hint of sweat. So instead I got myself gloves-tights(? Not sure how they're called but it's made from the same fabric as tights) and painted them with normal acrylic paint(did you know you could dye fabric with acrylic paint? I personally didn't), then heat set with an iron and voilà, they're reusable, my hands are not stained after an exhausting day and I don't stain everything I touch. It worked wonderfully which honestly was a surprise as I was really sceptical that acrylic paint will somehow stay in place.

I think this whole thing took me minimum of 6 months with big-big breaks for my school and life in general. But I'm really proud! This project taught me so many new skills and I couldn't have been happier about learning new knowledge, even if it sucked to fail in the meantime.

Everyone at the con was really nice and gave me a large confidence boost even tho it was my first time and I had no idea what I was doing. Taking photos with other people was really awkward/new for me as I hate cameras so I really had no idea how to pose/behave in front of one. But that's okay I think. This whole experience definitely made me want to do this again, so I think that will come with experience. Thank you for reading this far, hope you enjoyed this little summary :)

[hinamie]

hina... have you ever drawn nanami & yuji. pls i need to see them. my reluctant mentor and ray of sunshine. maybe eating together after a mission

cleaned up this request doodle from a while ago <3

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

In the shape of you, something new.

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[mildarka]

Big fan of immortals finding joy in very mortal things... like mcdonalds

[garliicgun]

this game breaks my heart…..! 💔

[deadeyedfae]