#cold and emotionless who?

[that-one-ao3-writer]

Posting him everywhere because I still cant believe we got a visual adaptation of this

[minho-knows]

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[markantonys]

i have spilled so much ink about gawyn but really i only need 2 passages to explain why he is Like That

1. My blood shed before hers; my life given before hers...That was the oath he had taken when barely tall enough to peer into Elayne's cradle. ... Gareth Bryne had had to explain to him what it meant, but even then he had known he had to keep that oath if he failed at everything else in his life. (LOC prologue)

2. From Morgase, Queen of Andor, to her beloved son, Gawyn. May he be a living sword for his sister and Andor. (ACOS prologue)

like yeah, no wonder he does what he does in AMOL. people will be like "gawyn is so stupid for not thinking about the fact that his death would hurt egwene" as if he's being maliciously stupid and careless, when in fact, he has such little self-worth that he genuinely does not consider himself a valuable human being whose loss would impact anyone or anything. his life given before hers. a living sword. this has been his mindset since toddlerhood and nobody ever noticed it enough to try and counteract it. gawyn is exactly what rand would have been like at the last battle if he hadn't had a mental health intervention.

[icewindandboringhorror]

"We can get through this by working together, reach out to your friends, community is all we have, a social network will be your security in the world, now is the time to lean on others!"

I do agree, and it's scientifically sound (pretty sure there is data about how people with better social networks live longer and etc) but also....augh..... what about the severe social issues, difficulty to leave the house, physical issues which lead to like zero socialization energy a majority of the time, etc. etc. Social support can be a replacement for structural support, but.. I guess I just wish it didn't have to be. Community is extremely difficult to build, even moreso if you're someone who has issues with social cues or group conversations or even just being around others in the first place. And blah, nuance, of course I'm just complaining or maybe being too negative or maybe misunderstanding, but, I hardly have the energy to brush my hair once every 2 months.. how am I supposed to maintain a wide social network and be active in a Community and Join Groups lol... sometimes it kind of feels like "er.. well if thats my only option then...... ruh roh". It's overwhelming

[keepthyfaithandthylight]

“How many tears I saw him shed over the violence of the revolutionary government and over the prolongation of a dreadful regime, which he only aspired to temper with institutions.”

Once, when scrolling through the frev tag I saw a letter posted by @orpheusmori (if memory serves correctly) that was written by a friend of Saint Just. It’s lived in my mind for quite some time, and the final line is one that can really put my mind in a chokehold.

So, as a result.. I had to draw this. Why is it that I always draw when I need to be sleeping…

[drinking-tea-at-parties]

If I had a nickel for every time I shipped a sad, self-destructive alcoholic with a dry-witted no-nonsense lieutenant with a gun want to dismantle the militant non-democratic government they work for set it fantasy Europe... I'd have two nickles but it's weird it happened twice

[cuntstable]

idk if i ever said this publically btw but when game of thrones last season flopped and everyone hated it i was CELEBRATING. because i mean the show was always flawed right but a few seasons earlier they butchered my sweetiepie sansa completely as a character and since everyone except the faithful sansa warriors hated her no one gaf. so i was rooting for its downfall and the dissapointment of everyone else from that point onwards because i was like 17? and full of hate. though i mean if it happened again now id probably also celebrate but more so just bc its funny and not for pure hate. though id still enjoy it because well a rose by another name would still have hater tendencies

[jackienautism]

“How did this all get so fucked up?”

[valkyurii]

everyday i go online and get exposed to the worst takes imaginable and everyday i have to fight the urge not to kill

[darlingpwease]

husband? sorry. husband? sorry. husband? sorry. husband-

[subsequentibis]

it actually rips my guts out and feeds them to me how badly charles wants dethklok to like him. like it could have been a setup where he doesn't really care and just wants the money & power managing the band affords him but he Does Care So Deeply. the getting sloppy scene is basically him begging them to say he's cool like that other guy they hung out with. dear diary my spiritual saviors called me a robot and it kinda hurt my feelings :( considering going on a massive bender about it

[kriegborderlands-moved]

honestly. this year wasnt great for me. a lot of betrayal and whatnot that i wont get into. but i guess i just wanna say. to the people whove stuck by me: thanks. it’s appreciated, even if i don’t show it that often. and to the new friends who were not weirded out by my constant mental health problems: thank you as well. i dont know how to end this im not good at sentimental shit

[bojjiphrog]

I love chapters with Harmony in them because the stakes are always extremely high

[scn-thedog]

"if i can't be loved i will be needed" x "all my love turns violent"

[primeministerofantarctica]

man. ik chris patton retired ages ago but if that movie gets a dub whoever replaces him as sousuke is going to have hard shoes to fill

[genderqueerdykes]

now that my post about breaking down one's idea of what a woman looks like has circulated for a while (thank you all), i'm now going to make this post, as i do not want people to derail that specific conversation, nor this one.

we also must break down our idea of what a man looks, acts, sounds, behaves, and presents like.

men are not cis, het, allosexual or highly sexual beings, tall, muscular, strong, hairy, deep voiced, broad chested/shouldered, emotionless, mean, aggressive, unemotional, uncaring, distant, cold, stoic, heartless, standoffish, bread winners, bad/absent fathers, macho, obligated to work despite disabilities, or obligated to be "the man of the house."

men are people. first and foremost.

men are allowed to express just like anyone else. men do not have to be pillars of their communities. no obligation. men are allowed to be disabled, tired, weak, emotional, caring, compassionate, asexual, aromantic, friendly, warm, in need of support, neurodivergent, mentally ill, chronically ill,and have personality disorders. men have their own struggles and we have to stop telling them to "suck it up" and "move on" and "pull yourself up by your boot straps".

we are forcing men to do this: this is a cage of our own design.

once we dismantle this idea of how a man "should" be, once more: we will move past radfeminism, patriarchy, trans/androphobia, and fostering a culture where this is an acceptable way to treat men. it's not. we must allow men to be diverse. we must allow men to be who they are on the inside