#codependantnomore

[theselfcaremaven]

This ancient blessing was created in the Nahuatl language, spoken in Mexico. It deals with forgiveness, affection, detachment and liberation.

“I release my parents from the feeling that they have already failed me.

“I release my parents from the feeling that they have already failed me.

I release my children from the need to bring pride to me; that they may write their own ways according to their hearts, that whisper all the time in their ears.

I release my partner from the obligation to complete me. I do not lack anything,

I learn with all beings all the time.

I thank my grandparents and forefathers who have gathered so that I can breathe life today. I release them from past failures and unfulfilled desires, aware that they have done their best to resolve their situations within the consciousness they had at that moment. I honor you, I love you and I recognize you as innocent.

I am transparent before your eyes, so you know that I do not hide or owe anything other than being true to myself and to my very existence, that walking with the wisdom of the heart, I am aware that I fulfill my life project, free from invisible and visible family loyalties that might disturb my Peace and Happiness, which were once my only responsibilities.

I renounce the role of savior, of being one who unites or fulfills the expectations of others.

Learning through, and only through, LOVE, I bless my essence, my way of expressing, even though somebody may not understand me.

I understand myself, because I alone have lived and experienced my history/herstory; because I know myself, I know who I am, what I feel, what I do and why I do it.

I respect and approve of myself.

I honor the Divinity in me and in you. We are free."

~Authors Unknown

#WeAreFree #ReclaimingMyTime #SelfCareMaven #Namaste

[polkadotzigzag]

Dear Candy, Icing, and Sweets: I know I’ve been eating you for basically every other meal, but this has got to stop. While I have treasured all of our time together, I recognize that our relationship has grown into something insane and completely unhealthy. You have been so great, but I need space and time to heal. It is definitely me and not you. I will never forget you. Love, Me PS I will miss you so so so much #codependantnomore #sweetkick #nottodaysugar (at Macon, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGGquXinNYc18rhXv0j0Cs5ccIUR7xDmNhNq1A0/?igshid=p1815hbyfwb6

[deraywrites]

#Repost from @viewfrommyfrontporch : @racoosmith ... thanks for sharing!!! #SpiritualMatters #ToxicPeople #CoDependantNoMore

[theselfcaremaven]

Thriving Survivor

I’m a thriving survivor! I’ve been doing this recovery walk a few decades now. This last narcissist really had me fooled! I’m sooo grateful to be free from the bondage of toxic relationships! Every day I choose my Peace, My Joy and my Mental health first, I am truly free! to live happily living authentically free from codependency!

[theselfcaremaven]

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