#cislesbian

[burningcandydelusion]

"Why don't lesbians like penises like they like vaginas?!"

[pronounpinbadge]

"i dont know what tra means i just saw conservative and hit reblog 😭"

lol. lmao even.

literal echo chamber. y'all don't ever think for yourselves. you don't even know what you're standing against. it's pathetic, really. tell me, on a fundemental basis, without bias or what your circle of mutuals have told you, and without mention of anything like "trans genocide", what do radfems actually believe and advocate for in the first place? feel free to cheat and do some research on google, you might learn something true!

LMAO i did my college A-level qualifications in sociology, i have turned in papers on radical feminisms views on gender and crime for a grade for my future. just because my 50 year old lecturer never told me what TRA stands for on radblr and gctwt doesnt mean i dont understand what im against?? maybe you should try getting an actual education in what you believe in rather than soaking your brain in the internet discourse septic tank

[roadhogsbigbelly]

"yeah homestuck might be kinda racist but DTWOF is cislesbian homonationalism" what the fuck are we talking about right now.

[rqprincex-meow]

Helo! Welcome to meow blog!!!

Meow has multiple typing quirks if you couldn’t tell already,, meow likes to replace “I”, “me,” and “my” with meow, nya, and other kitty-related words! Meow also talks in third-person, and meow refers to nyaself as “Meow”! Meow also abbreviates words sometimezz,, overuses punctuation, and uses z’s for s’s sometimes!!!

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[zocomi]

My cislesbian friend be like "i'm such a freank and wierdos. I'm so tolerant and open" bestie can't handle NB peoples calling themself lesbians or stories with incest

[1eos]

Ew Anti porn + Anti men freak + Exclusionist + BTS fan + Terfy rhetoric. Common cislesbian L.

me rn not only do i hate bts almost as much as i hate terfs but im literally watching porn rn

[whorangel]

as a trans lesbian i live in the fucking trenches cause why are most cislesbians transphobic and most non-lesbian trans people lesbophobic

[brainpal-gachapon]

Name(s): Darling + add more, feminine Japanese names, object and petnames (like Darling) work :3

Age: Age-fluid permateen

Prns: Shi / Dancu (ダンス) + add more plzz

Gender(s): Pan-fluid + add xenos !!

Source(s): Minori Hanasato + Haruka Kiritani (fictives) + Darling Dance (songtive) splitroject

TransIDs: Transalloromantic, but other than that go absolutely wild ! would love some transharmed/fuls and some transableds for conditions / disabilities !!

CisIDs: Ciswasian , cislesbian , add some conditions / disabilities please (MUDs accepted :3)

Roles: Socializer + love manager + add any more that seems appropriate !

ty so much!!

Name(s): Darling, Asahi, Izumi, Fumiko, Honey, Lace, Doll

Age: Age-fluid permateen

Prns: Shi / Dancu (ダンス) / Chi / Faun / Mae / Vix / Ai / Che / Vas

Gender(s): Pan-fluid + Cariadore + Seruadoric + Pathetiromantic + Cherishfated + Dardollic + Cuteabomination

Source(s): Minori Hanasato + Haruka Kiritani (fictives) + Darling Dance (songtive) splitroject

TransIDs: Transalloromantic, Transbullied, Transstarved, TransTBMC, Transshortshackled, TransAACuser, Transdyspraxia, Transepilepsy.

CisIDs: Ciswasian , cislesbian , cisbpd, cisnpd, cisdepression, cisautism, cisadhd, cisMADD

Roles: Socializer + love manager + Admirer + Euphorimate + Hyperérosian

[nxiousxpsistence]

misunderstandings shaping my interactions is not a bad thing

I am passionate about things and I enjoy talking about things I am passionate about.

I'll argue for full individual freedom and agency on a night out, yelling so I can be heard over the music, and I'll be labelled a poly right there and there, with all the connotations whatever mind I am speaking to has harboured before that conversation.

If they ask me what I mean instead of assuming it, we have something to go on with.

If I find myself trying to defend my position not against a question of what individual freedom and agency are and to which extent one can claim either or both, but a question of poly ppl screwing up things in general, it's a no go.

I'll argue for my fluidity in gender and orientation, and I'll be labelled a confused cislesbian, with all the connotations whatever mind I am speaking to has harboured before that conversation.

I will entertain the thought bc confusion is a precondition for clarity.

If they ask me to elaborate and perhaps offer their own take on it so we can discuss on an equal footing, we have something to go on with.

But if I find myself trying to defend my position not against a question of how this is perfectly personal, how my fluidity works, and how I can be sure what I want at a given time, but a question of confused ppl hurting others with it, it's a no go.

Same with my asexuality.

Same with my admittedly warped and hodgepodge idea of personal faith and my tangible connection with the divine.

Same with my deliberate opting out of cishet men in the dating pool.

Same with my particular non-adherence to the unwritten rules of queer dating and all the expectations of physical touch that come with it.

Same with my claim to NB finery with a cleavage so deep it can drown you.

And I am fine with all this. This is what my god (me) made me.

I don't care how I am perceived anymore. I just care about being perceived as pure me.

The realisation that I am a complex human being and ppl may shy away from complexities is a damning one, but a liberating one all the same.

I've proven to myself time and time again that I am fine without a crowd and I feel me only when a real and honest mind free from assumptions and presumptions and foregone conclusions and I are curious about each other. When I am curious about ppl I find interesting and their takes worthy of a second look.

(Why aren't other people? That I can't understand.)

I've got big balls and I cannot lie.

Or How I Made Peace with All the Walls I've Put Up Around Me bc They're Loadbearing Walls

[ryuutchi]

in the 90s and 00s plenty of cishet women were vocally uncomfortable being naked near cislesbians or being injured by a butch lesbian in sports bfr

Hi, I saw one of your latest posts talking about the gender "segregation" where you state that women's only spaces shouldn't exist. So, if that was actually real, do you think me, a cis lesbian woman, should I be using a changing room or a bathroom used also by people with penises?

I would feel very uncomfortable being naked near someone who is biologically a male and I have the right to say no, no matter how they react, cis women's feelings matter too and nobody can tell me when I should be uncomfortable, same thing goes for sports, cis women could get physically hurt if a biological male played against them and this had already happened in a school in the US.

This more confirms how you far left activists don't care about us

I do not care about people's disgust when it comes to means of segregation. Do you think that during the 1960s there was no white person who felt uncomfortable sharing a bathroom with someone with dark skin when desegregation hit bathrooms and locker rooms? Do you think there's no white person who feels that way now (hell, a big reason American suberbs are a thing is that it allows white people to live in white only places post civil rights laws)?

How is your desire to feel comfortable through segregation any diffrent? There is a group you feel uncomfortable with in a space so you want it segregated, I suggest you either not use that space or find a way to be more comfortable. Society may have a responsibility for you to be safe, but there is no responsibility for you to feel safe.

And do you think nobody wants to be segregated away from you? You're literally a queer person, there are people who do not want you in public because of the exact same uncomfortablity with you. You probably have way more in common with trans people than most cis people do. If many people were allowed to remove what makes them uncomfortable from society, you would be forced into the closet. This isn't a hypothetical, the same people pushing for removal of trans people from society have same sex relationships as their next target.

Uncomfortablity is not something society can or should protect you from.

[galaxy-dragon123]

blah blah post about trans spencer reid being important to me blah blah blah something about trying to explore your attraction to women as a trans man and it not being the same thing cismen or cislesbians experience it’s its own awkward thing and such a weird thing to navigate blah blah blah

[magirepo]

callout for laura @rarted on here @cislesbian on twitter

laura @rarted is a terf she runs the blog nongoldstar on tumblr and tags her posts as “terf safe” and makes flags for “sex based attraction” she has also made a carrd les(dot)crd(dot)co where she defines lesbianism in a transmisogynistic way

[ID: a screenshot of les.crd.co, the lesbian flag is cutoff the text reads “[ID: the labrys flag and a seven stripe lesbian flag next to each other. the seven stripe flag has three purple stripes on top. a white stripe in the middle and three stripes on the bottom that go from yellow to orange to red from top to bottom end ID]” text below it all in line breaks reads: “Definition, Glossary, Questioning, resources” below that reads “What is a lesbian? a lesbian is a female homosexual: a female who’s exclusively attracted to other females. lesbians aren’t attracted to male bodies. they aren’t attracted to penises. lesbians can only experience healthy attraction towards other women. this means a lesbian is only interested romantically and sexually in women, this is innate. sex with men is always and inherently traumatizing for lesbians” more text below reads “designed and managed by laura morais” end ID]

she is friends with and reblogs from open terfs just look at her blog. she might say she cant be a terf because she is non-binary but take one look at her blog and its clear she holds transmisogynistic views and agrees with radfem tumblr and terf tumblr.

proof below that she runs both accounts and the screenshots of her posts tagged as terf safe, terfs interact and the ‘sex based attraction’ flags and her ridiculous justification for tagging her posts as terf safe. her entire blog is full of dog whistles and transmisogyny

[ID: four flags the first in a purple gradient. one white stripe yellow stripe orange stripe and red stripe. the second flag is in a orange to pink gradient three stripes. one white stripe. and three yellow to orange stripes. the third flag is in a brown red to tan gradient. one white stripe. one tan stripe one orange stripe one red stripe. the fourth flag has a purple gradient. one white stripe and a pink gradient. the text reads “Sex based lesbian flags. for lesbians who define their identity as attraction to the female sex rather than gender identity. top row: lesbian, bambi lesbian flag bottom row: butch lesbian femme lesbian” the tags read “#op #flags #terf safe #lesbian #femme #butch #bambi #terfs please interact #terfs do touch #terfs please” the tags cut off. end ID]

[ID: a tweet from @cislesbian from twitter. she is quoting a tweet from @hutaoz that reads “3. share any other flags you use” lauras tweet reads “i use these! i made them myself. theyre the femme lesbian flag and the sapphic flag, but they mean my attraction is sex based instead of gender based” below are two flags the first in a purple gradient. one white stripe. and a pink gradient. the second flag has one lavender stripe one white stripe and another lavender stripe with a flower in between. end ID]

[ID: two flags. the first one has one lavender stripe one white stripe and another lavender stripe there is a flower in the middle. the next flag has one green stripe one white stripe and another green stripe there is a flower in the middle. there is text below the text reads “sex based wlw/sapphic and mlm flags. for women and men attracted to the same sex” the tags below read “#op #flags #wlw #sapphic #mlm #pride flag #terfs do interact #terfs please touch #terfs do touch #terfs please interact #terf safe” end ID]

[ID: a post from nongoldstar. said post has 3 flags the first flag has a purple gradient a white stripe and another purple gradient. the second flag is a purple to pink gradient. a white stripe and a tan to coral gradient. the third flag has a purple gradient a white stripe and a pink to purple gradient. the text below reads “ftm lesbian flags. for lesbians who are also trans men, transmasc, of female to male transgender/transsexual. from left to right: ftm lesbian, ftm butch lesbian, ftm femme lesbian.” a reblog from nongoldstar with a screenshot from someone whos username i have crossed out reads “why tf is this terf safe” nongoldstars response reads “i make flags based on anatomical sex rather than gender identity. while im not trans exclusionary or a radical feminist myself, acknowledging material reality often gets people called terfs, therefore im using the tag to indicate this post welcomes anyone who has been outcast as a ‘terf’ may they even be trans or not” end ID]

finally here is her previous callout idk if everything on it is true but it shows her history of being a terf

[this-is-krikkit]

@ tumblr ads, idk wtf you guys are seeing swifting through my data, idek if i like this better than instagram listening in on my convos and showing me appropriate ads, but you guys should maybe stop advertising birth control pills and erectile dysfonction treatments to the wlw in a cislesbian 3 yo relationship that i am ?

or not, yk, you do you. but like... your target's off. js.

[deadandphilgames]

what happened with terfs and dnp? sorry if it’s really obvious, i just logged on and my dash is full of it

from what ive seen it’s that people expressed that the “all dnp fans are lesbians” rhetoric is exclusionary and makes people of other identities uncomfortable.

particularly yesterday with dan drawing the dick people were saying “all of us wouldn’t know what that is because we’re all lesbians” which a) isn’t true b) trans/gnc/nb lesbians exist and it’s transphobic to imply lesbian means a person who doesn’t like penis.

basically it’s people saying “this idea that we’re all cislesbians makes me uncomfortable and it’s exclusionary” and rude anons doubling down on their “joke” and then saying terfy shit into peoples inbox

[jaylaswamp]

ok Ive been in my daydream plot for like 5 years and a big part of my protagonists story is that she's cislesbian but that's bc when i was setting my world up I genderbent rumplestiltskin from ouat to make him a lesbian as my base for my protag but I think I'm a trans guy and it would make no sense if my protag was a trans guy but constantly being in the mindset of a cis lesbian mass murderer (who's engaged btw) former teen pop sensation is really messing with my brain but I've worked so hard on this whole thing idk what 2 do. goodbye.

[spacebaubles]

A cislesbian's rebuttal to TERF ideology