#chiron in libra

[idllytarott]

astrology observations for sad people

— the signs who I personally believe are really misunderstood by their peers are often capricorns and aquarius because of their saturnian tendencies where they become the mature, bigger person or are aloof of how they're presenting themselves, they always think they know better or people feel very intimidated by their personalities and, because people don't understand them, they alienate them,

— aries and scorpio as they are very intense, over confident people, other's might feel put-off by them, they can be very controlling and have a "I don't care" kind of personality that doesn't usually goes well with others, their ways of always trying to make themselves clear and understood causes the opposite effect, they are often misjudged as villainous or mean,

— geminis are also put in a place of having to know better, not given a chance or space to mess up as they are very intelligent people and show it, others might have big expectations which are often not met since they prefer to do what makes them happy and makes them curious, they tend to over-inflate themselves, or the opposite, and people take their words too seriously or not at all, very polarizing sign.

— a stellium in 4th can be super difficult to deal with, specially if it falls on not easy planets like mars, or saturn, uranus, or pluto. These people are always dragged back to their family issues no matter how much they try to escape, their parents maybe gave them too much responsibilities as little kids or vented to their child without thinking of the consequences, if these people ever decide to have a family they should always consider if they're doing it because they want to or because it is what's expected of them.

— chiron in social signs as gemini, aquarius and libra feel very alienated at all times, having social interactions is a learning experience for them, whether is good or bad, I also notice people usually get obsessed with them? They don't respect these people¡s space or it could be the other way around, to me is a placement where you'll learn to not be socially inept or teach people how to treat you right for some reason?

— saturn IS a complicated planet, it depends on the person's other planets and aspects how they deal with saturn, a person with moon conjuct saturn has a harder time dealing with their emotions than a capricorn moon. Even when the energies are similar, they don't have the same impact.

— now, a person with a capricornian stellium or dominant does deal with the saturn energy much comfortably than a person with sun trine saturn, because they were born with it. I personally believe you accommodate, or your aspects accommodate to you as you grow and evolve as a person.

— a pisces stellium, specially if is on moon or ascendants, is very perceptive to other's opinion on them, not in a superficial way but more on a "does this person thinks i'm being fair or mean?" Let's not forget the sister sign of Pisces is Virgo, so these signs also share the analytical or more neurotic way of seeing the world. A Pisces Rising is very self-aware of how they come off to people or how they are seen, they might not show it or say anything about it, a Pisces mercury might be self-conscious about how they approach others, how their voice sounds or how they come off when talking.

— I do believe leo's have a harder time being appreciated by people, as they devote to other's so easily they could neglect themselves in the process. Is the kind of person who is always looking out for someone to make happy or to make them feel comfortable because is something they want reciprocated. But this is a thing that can happen to fire signs a lot, they can be overbearing or too kind to people that it ends up backfiring on them, they have a very childlike mentally.

— is true what they say, a 12th house stellium in a natal chart makes the person passive and/or too in their own world, they have premonitions in dreams, but I've also seen these individuals have a really hard time with sleep, they have paranormal experiences a lot that some of them are used to it. They can be in some sort of medication, but not all, and not always these people are medicated or doing substances, they have an easier time to have out-of-body experiences, like lucid dreaming or sleep paralysis, these can occur because these people are super sensitive and get easily drained and stressed. Is important they are taking care of their energy at all times, I've met many that have one, two or more 12th house placement where I've found out some other person has been doing some sort of witchcraft on them, or have a big negative energy that this 12th houser sucks accidentally.

— having a mercurial dominant or rising can be super difficult when it comes to feeling, they tend to rationalize everything too much, are easily distracted and indulgent, they are very, very anxious at all times on all situations, even if they show otherwise. they overthink things too much, are the kind to be incredibly self-aware or completely out of touch with themselves.

— the ascendant aspecting negatively the mercury gives the individual speech impediment or a very shy personality, an almost inaudible voice or a raspy one, people with this placement have a harder time getting their thoughts across, or people might misinterpret them.

— keeping the conversation going, mercury negatively aspecting saturn makes a shy and reserved person, someone who, as a kid or a teen, has problems with being heard, or people simply didn't care or asked for this person's opinions, they might had been very codependent on an adult or somebody else to talk or to get to be seen, as they grow older they learn to communicate rather excellently, they might want to treat their shyness or whatever problem they have with unwanted attention or negligence

— neptune in personal houses like the 1st, 7th, 4th or 10th is really tricky. you might ignore gut feelings bout certain individuals, or on the contrary, believe someone is good when they aren't. these people can be their own worst enemies as they are super perceptive of how they come across to others, or how others make them feel.

— neptune in the 1st is common on actors and models and singers, usually on famous people, because they can create a fantasy of how they want people to see them, or act like chameleons around people, this creates a series of identity crisis during their lives.

— neptune in 7th is prone to feel things that really aren't there? they convince themselves somebody hates them or likes them for just one interaction, these individuals are like a sponge in social situations and they take everything somebody tells them to the heart. they also are known to lie a lot to people on behalf of good manners, they like to be liked.

— neptune in 4th house has a really confusing or unclear family situation, they might adopt the role of the parent when they shouldn't, or are treated as a child even as an adult, something in their family, in what they think is normal growing up, isn't. the most likely to stay in a bad situation for many, many years because they don't know any better, or think it's normal.

— neptune in 10th, although it deals with fame and impersonal relationships, to me, is just as fundamental as the houses listed above. they don't see themselves through their own eyes, or feel like they depend on other's perceptions on themselves too much, they are confident, or pretend it really well. these individuals know how to act the part, how to commit to the bit, they never feel that sense of belonging anywhere, because they might show different parts of their personalities to different people

— for me, the hardest moons to have are capricorn, scorpio and virgo.

— capricorn moon is a strictly analytical sign, they don't feel comfortable in the moon as is where the emotions and insecurities shine the most.

— scorpio moon is a very intense sign, as opposite to the Capricorn, they can be super emotional, or completely numb, very extremist and their emotions are black or white, polarizing.

— virgo moon is extremely difficult, they don't like to have to feel things, they like to think and act with precaution and it's hard for them to let their emotions slip, the kind of friend who'd have the most practical advice to all sort of topics, a helpful hand in all situations, but when it comes to them as individuals, they let themselves be too much, their head is always at a thousand percent. From what I've gathered of this moon is that, yes, they are neurotic when it comes to certain things, but completely careless to others, and it's usually to themselves, you won't ever see a Virgo moon misbehave or dress bad, but they can hold a lot of suppressed shame or anger or sadness, like they tie it with a bow in a box and keep it locked.

— lastly, no aspect or moon or sign is bad, they are just more difficult than others, there are people with easy aspects, like sun sextile or trine jupiter, they are prone to idealization and inferiority complexes. it's true that a person that has the harmonious aspects is lazier or gets unmotivated way easier. nothing is really set in stone, you can have a moon conjunct saturn and a cancer mercury in 9th house, your way of expressing yourself is more reserved, but optimistic and even childlike. when it comes to astrology, every single aspect and sign, and house counts to describe a person.

[astroismypassion]

Libra Chiron natives often date someone popular, in the public eye or well-liked or even someone considered “high profile”. They also care about their and partner’s reputation more than they let on.

Speaking further on Libra Chiron natives, they are often described in astrology as having an inner wound relating to codependency. But what I found most often, a lot of Libra Chirons have Pisces Moon, Pisces degree on the Moon, Pisces IC or some sort of Pisces influence in the Natal chart that points to codependent (either the native or others relying on them too much, blurred boundaries) nature they developed in early life.

So with Pisces influence from early life and having Chiron in the sign of Libra, we can see a lesson native needs to learn in this lifetime, especially in adulthood, on healing codependency, avoiding people pleaser tendencies, being authentic and true to themselves, not shape shifting, learning the balance between detachment and being overly involved and mastering harmony between individuality and the collective.

[crystalsenergy]

Healing for Chiron signs 💚✨

Remember that healing is a lifelong journey, and it's okay to seek support from therapists, counselors, spiritual advisors along the way. Self-awareness, self-compassion, and a commitment to YOUR personal growth are essential for Chiron healing.

Chiron in Aries: Healing the wounds associated with Chiron in Aries starts with embracing your inner strength and self-assertion.

Tips: Cultivate self-confidence by setting and achieving personal goals that empower you. Face your fears head-on, and don't shy away from confrontations that help you express your needs. Explore physical activities like martial arts or competitive sports to build resilience. Learn to initiate and take action without the fear of rejection. Remember that your worth is not defined by external validation but by your self-acceptance.

Chiron in Taurus: Healing Chiron in Taurus involves nurturing self-worth and finding stability within.

Tips: Practice self-care routines that reconnect you with your senses and the physical world. Create a secure and comforting home environment. Work on building financial stability and managing resources wisely to boost your sense of self-reliance. Explore nature, gardening, or grounding practices to strengthen your connection to the Earth's energies. Understand that your true worth goes beyond material possessions.

Chiron in Gemini: Healing Chiron in Gemini requires addressing communication and mental challenges.

Tips: Understand that your curiosity and adaptability can be strengths once you embrace them. Develop effective communication skills by actively listening and expressing your thoughts clearly. Engage in activities that stimulate your mind and expand your knowledge, such as reading, writing, or learning a new language. Rebuild trust in your ability to connect with others by nurturing genuine, open conversations. Seek therapy or counseling to heal sibling relationships or childhood communication issues.

Chiron in Cancer: Healing Chiron in Cancer begins with nurturing and emotional self-care.

Tips: Create a safe and loving home environment that provides emotional security and comfort. Explore your emotional depths through self-reflection, journaling, or seeking therapy. Reconnect with your inner life and work on healing any childhood wounds or family dynamics that have left scars. Embrace your nurturing side and allow vulnerability to become a source of strength and connection. Understand that emotional healing is a process that takes time and self-compassion.

Chiron in Leo: To heal Chiron in Leo wounds, you have to take care of your level of self-confidence and self-expression.

Tips: Engage in creative activities that allow your unique talents and personality to shine. Embrace opportunities to showcase your skills and receive positive feedback. Cultivate self-love and self-validation, reducing the need for external recognition. Understand that true leadership comes from the heart and from authenticity, not just the ego. Recognize your innate ability to inspire and uplift others with your warmth and charisma.

Chiron in Virgo: Healing Chiron in Virgo involves addressing perfectionism and self-criticism.

Tips: Practice self-compassion by accepting your imperfections and embracing self-love. Engage in self-care routines that prioritize physical and mental well-being. Develop your skills in service to others, recognizing that your healing journey is deeply intertwined with helping others. Seek guidance from holistic or alternative health practices, and remember that healing often comes through a focus on holistic well-being, not just one way of take care of yourself.

Chiron in Libra: Healing Chiron in Libra involves addressing wounds related to relationships and balance.

Tips: Seek harmony in your human connections by practicing effective communication and conflict resolution. Cultivate self-love and self-acceptance, recognizing that your worth doesn't depend on external opinions or partnerships. Work on healing any past relationship wounds through therapy, self-reflection... Embrace your ability to bring people together and find beauty in the balance between giving and receiving.

Chiron in Scorpio: Healing Chiron in Scorpio requires facing deep emotional wounds and transformation.

Tips: Explore your emotional depths through therapy, journaling, or spiritual practices. Allow yourself to confront and release past traumas and fears. Embrace vulnerability and trust in your ability to regenerate and transform. Seek to heal trust issues by practicing forgiveness and rebuilding trust in yourself and others. Understand that your intensity and depth can be sources of strength and healing.

Chiron in Sagittarius: Healing Chiron in Sagittarius begins with a quest for higher meaning and wisdom.

Tips: Explore different belief systems and philosophies to find your own truth. Engage in adventures and expand your horizons through travel or learning. Find meaning in life's challenges and recognize that they lead to growth. Seek spiritual guidance or practices that resonate with you. Embrace your adventurous spirit and optimism as sources of healing and personal expansion.

Chiron in Capricorn: Healing Chiron in Capricorn involves addressing wounds related to ambition and responsibility.

Tips: Build self-confidence and overcome fears of inadequacy by setting achievable goals. Take charge of your life and career path, recognizing that you have the ability to succeed. Embrace your responsibilities and understand that they lead to personal growth and empowerment. Seek to heal any issues related to authority figures through therapy or self-reflection. Understand that your determination and work ethic can lead to significant achievements and healing.

Chiron in Aquarius: Healing Chiron in Aquarius requires embracing your uniqueness and ideals.

Tips: Celebrate your individuality and connect with like-minded individuals who share your values. Engage in humanitarian efforts or seek out causes that align with your beliefs. Challenge convention and explore innovative paths for personal growth and healing. Embrace your innovative and unconventional side, recognizing that it can lead to positive change. Find meaning in your friendships and connections with a community that supports your growth.

Chiron in Pisces: To heal Chiron in Pisces wounds, it's necessary to connect with your spirituality and explore mindfulness practices.

Tips: Use creative outlets like art, music, or writing as a means of self-expression and emotional healing. Set and maintain healthy emotional boundaries to protect your energy and well-being. Seek therapy or counseling to address any issues related to addiction or escapism. Explore your empathetic nature and use it as a source of healing and connection with others. Understand that your sensitivity and compassion can be strengths once you embrace them.

[astrobiscuits]

Chiron: where is our physical (and mental) wound?

I'm currently reading a book about Chiron (did you know it's actually half asteroid, half comet? me neither), which inspired me to make this post. I'm in no way an expert in medical astrology, just a curious owl that wants to learn more about every branch of astrology out there (my Sag Venus loves it!!🤭)

DISCLAIMER!!! I'm not a doctor. If you've been feeling any symptoms described here, TALK WITH YOUR DOCTOR, NOT WITH ME

Observation: Before we dive in, i'd like to mention that the position of Chiron in the houses is important. Not every house placement suggests having a poor physical condition. The most prominent Chiron placements when it comes to having a medical condition are: Chiron in 1st house (house of self, visible illnesses), Chiron in 5th house (illnesses since birth/early childhood), Chiron in 6th house (house of health, if Saturn is also sitting there it points to chronic illnesses), Chiron in 8th house (house of death, may point to severe diseases or poor reproductive health) and Chiron in 12th house (house of the unconscious, deals with mental illnesses)

Honorable mention to Chiron in 3rd house and Chiron in 9th house as they represent accidents while travelling. If Chiron is heavily afflicted in these houses (unless it's also conjuncting Jupiter), it may point to...let's just say you're gonna be in a hospital bed in a vegetative state, but remember, nothing has a 100% possibility of happening, you're just more susceptible to it happening. I suggest checking the position of Chiron in Solar Return charts for the possible timing of it happening (look for Chiron in 3rd house/Chiron in 9th house as it activates your natal Chiron)

Without further do, let's dive in⚕️

Chiron in Aries: frequent headaches, frequent nose bleeds, teeth problems (sensitive teeth, tooth decay), deafness, skull fractures, cerebral anemia, brain tumours, hemophilia, epilepsy, BPD

Chiron in Taurus: frequent colds, frequent voice loss, thyroid problems (goiter, hyperthyroidism, hypothyroidis, etc.), tonsilitis, OCD

Chiron in Gemini: lung problems (asthma, tuberculosis, pneumonia, etc.), speech problems (stuttering, cluttering, mutism), alzheimer's disease, ADHD, OCD

Chiron in Cancer: frequent stomach pain, prone to lactose intolerance, (for girls) breast lumps, breast cysts, breast infections, nipple discharge, depression, anxiety

Chiron in Leo: prone to insolation, frequent heart palpitations, chest pain, hypertension, hypotension, arteriosclerosis, scoliosis, kyphosis

Chiron in Virgo: frequent bloating, prone to gluten intolerance, chronic allergies, diabetes, rabies, autism, ADHD, OCD

Chiron in Libra: prone to acne, frequent lower back pain, disc herniation, spondylolisthesis, chronic kidney disease, kidney stones

Chiron in Scorpio: frequent pain down there, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV/AIDS, depression

Chiron in Sagittarius: frequent pain in the hips, prone to hips dislocation, cirrhosis, sciatica

Chiron in Capricorn: prone to knees dislocation, osteoarthritis, bone problems (osteopenia, osteoporosis), gout, depression

Chiron in Aquarius: electrical injuries, shin splints, osteofibrous dysplasia, ankle sprain, ankle fractures, poor blood circulation, schizophrenia

Chiron in Pisces: prone to break toes, athlete's foot, bunions, addison's disease, hormonal deregulation, aphantasia, psychosis, schizophrenia, anxiety

Yes, i'm aware of the fact that it's a generational planet and it moves very slowly through signs

BONUS: It's important to take into consideration all planets that conjunct, square or opposite Chiron (regardless if they're personal or generational) + the Ascendant for additional info about our illnesses

Ex. Let's take me as an example. My Chiron is in my 10th house in Capricorn squaring Saturn in 4th house (so double Capricorn energy) and Aries Ascendant. Guess what? I've got TMJ (basically a jaw disorder affecting the joints) and i've got it from my fam -_- (Saturn rules tradition i love my fam)

I also believe that having a heavy afflicted Chiron in general makes someone prone to having a medical condition, even if it's not in the houses mentioned previously (like in my case). However, these people are more focused on the main meaning of the house, not their health problems. They tend to ignore their health problems or they just don't care

I hope you enjoyed my post and found it insightful :)

What's your wound? Lmk in the comments your placements and your illnesses

Kisses xoxo

[ophelyia]

North Node conjunct Chiron

With the North Node conjunct Chiron, you may find yourself on a perennial quest to find a mentor. Maybe you didn't have access to role models as a kid, and you're still yearning to be witnessed and guided by someone wise. Or maybe you did have folks to look up to, and now you seek to replicate that experience.

Chiron is a healer, and you may feel drawn toward healing work, such as by concocting your own herbal medicines, or working as a nurse, doula, doctor, osteopath, chiropractor (or any other healer besides.)

The lunar nodes can tip into extremes at times, and one of your missions will involve learning how to internalize the mentor/healer figure. Does your search for outside knowledge ever deny your own wisdom? Does healing other people feel easier, somehow, than confronting your own aches and pains?

What if all these sides of you nourish each other? You can be the seeker and the sage, the healer and someone in their own stages of recovery.

[astronumerology]

Chiron in Libra Explained: How to Heal Wounds of Balance and Connection

In astrology, Chiron is known as the "wounded healer," a symbol of the wounds we carry but also the path to healing and transformation. Chiron in Libra highlights themes of balance, relationships, and self-worth, bringing forth the lessons we must learn in order to form healthy connections with others and maintain inner harmony. For those with this placement, the healing journey often centers around navigating relationship challenges, setting healthy boundaries, and embracing self-worth. In this article, we’ll explore the meaning, common challenges, and healing pathways for individuals with Chiron in Libra.

1. What Does Chiron in Libra Mean?

Definition of Chiron in Astrology Chiron represents the areas in life where we experience our deepest wounds and where we have the potential to transform pain into wisdom and healing. In astrology, Chiron’s placement by sign reveals the specific wounds we are likely to encounter and the lessons we are meant to learn through healing. For those with Chiron in Libra, this placement points to struggles within relationships and the balance between connection and self-identity.

Influence of Libra Libra, ruled by Venus, is associated with partnership, harmony, and a strong sense of justice. As an air sign, Libra values intellectual connection and strives to create harmony in relationships. With Chiron in Libra, individuals may experience difficulties in establishing equal, healthy partnerships. They may be inclined to seek validation through others, often at the expense of their own needs, which can lead to imbalanced relationships and self-doubt.

2. Common Wounds and Challenges for Chiron in Libra

Fear of Rejection and Conflict A core theme for those with Chiron in Libra is the fear of rejection or abandonment. These individuals may go to great lengths to avoid confrontation or disagreement, fearing that it will lead to disconnection. This fear can result in a tendency to suppress their true feelings and opinions, leading to unbalanced relationships where they feel unseen or unheard.

Struggles with Self-Worth and Dependency People with Chiron in Libra may grapple with issues related to self-worth, often relying on external validation to feel secure. This dependency can make them overly accommodating or self-sacrificing, as they may believe that their value comes from pleasing others. Such behavior can lead to resentment and exhaustion, as they may feel they must constantly put others first to maintain connection.

Difficulty Maintaining Balance in Relationships Chiron in Libra individuals may struggle to create balance in relationships, frequently finding themselves on one extreme or the other—either overly dependent on their partner or entirely withdrawn. This difficulty in maintaining balance may stem from a fear of being vulnerable or a reluctance to set boundaries, which prevents them from forming equal, healthy partnerships.

3. Healing Pathways for Chiron in Libra

Embracing Self-Love and Acceptance A key step in healing for Chiron in Libra is embracing self-love and recognizing that their worth is independent of others’ opinions or approval. Practicing self-affirmation and self-compassion can help them cultivate a stronger sense of self-worth, allowing them to feel secure in relationships without needing constant validation. By focusing on self-acceptance, they can build a foundation of confidence that doesn’t rely on external reinforcement.

Establishing Healthy Boundaries Setting boundaries is essential for individuals with Chiron in Libra, as it allows them to maintain a balance between connection and autonomy. Establishing boundaries can be challenging for those who are used to prioritizing others, but learning to say no or express personal needs is a vital part of self-respect. By practicing boundary-setting, they can cultivate healthier, more balanced relationships that honor both parties’ needs.

Learning Conflict Resolution Skills For those with Chiron in Libra, addressing conflict directly and fairly is a crucial part of healing. Avoiding conflict may seem easier in the short term, but unresolved issues often lead to resentment or emotional distance. By developing conflict resolution skills, they can learn to express their feelings and needs openly, fostering stronger, more transparent relationships. Recognizing that healthy relationships can withstand disagreement is a powerful lesson for those with this placement.

4. Positive Traits of Chiron in Libra

Empathy and Insight into Relationships Chiron in Libra individuals often possess a natural empathy and insight into relationships, understanding others’ perspectives with ease. Their personal experiences with relationship challenges give them a deep compassion for others’ struggles, making them excellent listeners and supportive friends. This empathy enables them to help others navigate their own relational issues, offering a kind and balanced perspective.

Ability to Foster Harmony Those with Chiron in Libra often use their understanding of relationship dynamics to create harmony in their own lives and in the lives of others. Their appreciation for balance and peace allows them to mediate conflicts, facilitate open dialogue, and offer solutions that promote understanding. By embracing their own healing journey, they become capable of fostering positive, harmonious connections around them.

Supportive and Balanced Perspective As they progress on their healing path, Chiron in Libra individuals develop a fair and balanced approach to relationships. They learn to value equality and mutual respect, and they strive to create partnerships based on these principles. Their experiences give them a grounded perspective on relationships, which they can use to support others and offer balanced guidance in both personal and professional settings.

5. Practical Tips for Working with Chiron in Libra

Practice Self-Care and Self-Validation Self-care is vital for those with Chiron in Libra, helping them cultivate a sense of self-worth that isn’t dependent on others. Practices such as journaling, affirmations, and setting aside time for personal reflection can reinforce their self-esteem. Learning to validate themselves rather than relying on external praise strengthens their confidence and independence.

Engage in Mindfulness and Relationship Building Mindfulness can be an effective tool for building healthier relationships. By practicing mindfulness, Chiron in Libra individuals can observe their thoughts and emotions without judgment, allowing them to understand how they react in relationships. Engaging in activities that foster genuine connection, such as open communication and shared experiences, can help them create more fulfilling partnerships.

Focus on Personal and Interpersonal Growth Growth is a continuous journey, and for Chiron in Libra, balancing personal and interpersonal development is essential. By working on personal growth, they become better equipped to form healthy relationships, and by improving their relationships, they gain insights that support their individual growth. This balanced approach to self-improvement can help them build a life that honors both their individuality and their connections with others.

Conclusion

Chiron in Libra represents a journey of healing wounds related to balance, relationships, and self-worth. By focusing on self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and developing conflict resolution skills, those with this placement can transform their relationship struggles into sources of strength. Chiron in Libra teaches that true connection begins with self-acceptance, encouraging individuals to embrace both their independence and their relationships. Embrace the journey of healing with Chiron in Libra, and discover the harmony, confidence, and fulfilling connections that lie ahead.

[libra-stellium]

Libra - Codependency - Romantic Relationships

These are just my personal thoughts but let me know if you feel the same or not!

When it comes to astrology and broad characteristics of the sun signs I don’t usually comment whether they’re true or not true bc I personally think it depends on environment. One of the things for Libras has been that they’re obsessed with romantic relationships and I have seen Libras that were like that and I’ve seen Libras that weren’t and personally I haven’t been obsessed with relationships so it always felt a little meh when I came across that interpretation.

Butttttt lately my environment has been changing and I can see how I too could become obsessed with romantic relationships lol

I recently went no contact with my mom (5 weeks ago? Ish) bc she’s a narc and I have been realizing how codependent I was with her all these years! Of course I wasn’t obsessed with romantic relationships bc with what energy?? Lmao dealing my mother took it all!

And with having gone no contact I’m now looking around and I don’t have anyone in my environment that I’m their first priority. I’m an only child, dad is where he’s at, no contact with mom, other family members are the type to be like “my problems are the worst no one understands me” so they’re not thinking about me at all, I’m single and my friends have partners, children, siblings and parents.

Like for me to be someone’s first priority is only possible with a partner! That is so scary 😭 bc it’s so easy to get into the scarcity mindset and lose yourself in that relationship just to keep them around bc it’s like “they’re the only one” 🙃

Codependency doesn’t happen immediately it’s just over time you don’t upkeep your boundaries, you keep giving until you’re spreading yourself thin, you don’t speak up for your needs and that fear of being alone and abandoned creeps up. That is so scary to me!! Bc it would take so much to come out of that lol

All this to say my eyes are now open to my Libra intimacy issues and if you see a Libra obsessed with romantic relationships have some empathy and look around to see if there’s anyone in their environment that truly puts them first! 😭 Bc if there’s no one where else do you expect them to go to feel prioritized? There’s only so much that self love and prioritizing yourself can do for you!

[thelucidlabyrinth]

The Asteroids: Chiron

Personally, Chiron is one of my favorite objects in space! Extraordinarily interesting, there are many wonders to this wonky, odd space rock that makes Chiron completely unique. Chiron in Science: Once thought to be an asteroid by global science, Chiron is technically what is known as a minor planet. If you, like me, had never heard of the term minor planet, it is basically a dwarf planet,…

[alfascorpiionux]

Things to focus on/develop ~ astro observations ✨

Moon in 8th house - emotional self-sufficiency; being your biggest emotional support; letting go of old resentments, attachments and learning to move on; learning to channel your emotions through art/journaling/cooking etc.

Gemini Sun - being constant, reliable, true to your word;being honest and not lying/twisting facts; being there physically and emotionally for people you love; less over-explaining and quarreling;

Libra Moon - learning to make decisions by and for themselves; so many times I see these people always asking for advice on what to do or struggling to make decisions even when it comes to important things in their life; also learning to speak your mind instead of letting emotions build up inside you and acting all passive-aggressive; it’s okay not to agree just let us know;

Leo ascendant - and always wanting to appear polished, put-together, perfect. Lots of emphasis on being clean, well-dressed and having nice hair. Sometimes it’s okay to tone it down a notch. Many imperfections about yourself are only in your mind, very few if anybody at all notices them; also you know what diplomacy is, I guess? Sometimes it’s better to reach an agreement/compromise than to relentlessly pursue your point of view. It’ll attract enmity on the long term and people finding subtle ways to put you down behind your back, just saying.

Virgo Mercury - learning to talk about how you feel and don’t always fret the small print; being vulnerable is not a weakness;

Stellium in 11th house (especially in air signs) - accept yourself first and foremost and stop trying to fit in with crowds; some people will always judge you and not like you. You’re good at being a social butterfly and it likely brings you benefits but don’t lose yourself in always gaining other people’s approval. It’s better to walk alone than constantly clinging to people who bring you down or are just not right for you.

Ascendant square Mercury/Mercury retrograde/3rd house Mercury(possibly) - take time to improve communication skills, it’ll serve you big time in the future. Don’t hurry when you talk and think it through before you say something. Don’t just blurt out the first thing that comes to your mind; it might come out messy. Don’t butt into conversations or try to dominate them. People won’t be more interested in what you are going to say, it’ll just reflect poorly on you.

Lilith-Venus aspects(especially the square)/Lilith-Moon hard aspects - don’t blindly trust women; this aspect is said to attract both admiration and jealousy from women. It adds extra charm to your appearance but can also spark enmity/bad intentions in others. Beware.

Moon-Jupiter aspects (especially square) - take care of your weight!! Make sure to eat healthy food and exercise regularly. There could be a tendency to put on weight. You’re a connoisseur of life and very curious person by nature so it makes sense you would like to try out new delicious food/beverages, but don’t give in to excess.

Sun opposite Moon - this aspect suggests a conflict between the Ego(Identity) and the emotional life of the native. Sometimes these people have zero clue what they are feeling and if you ask them they might just shrug. Or they might suppress their emotions in favor of their intelect/rational side. This can lead to big internal turmoil, crisis and even depression later on. My advice: don’t ignore what you feel. Speak about it or write it down. It’s important to at least be conscious of what is going on with your emotional life. Is it sadness/annoyance/boredom maybe a sense of relief? Whatever it is, write it down. It’ll make you feel better, I promise.

Sun in 5th house - you cannot make up your mind about who to be with, am I right? Many people attract you and make your heart flutter for different reasons. Your interest may be short-lived. You definitely love a nice figure, beautiful clothes and an “expensive-looking” appearance. Personality-wise you like a good sense of humor, a beautiful smile, solid social skills and if the said person is desired by many others, it might awaken your interest even more! My advice to you: make up your mind. Who is the person you truly want to be with? What is their personality like, their values, interests, life-goals? Will they align with yours? How will you be supporting each other along the way? Solve the conflicts that would arise? Don’t get too picky or cocky though. Just as your chosen person will try to be the best they can be, you shouldn’t succumb to laziness, complacency either. Nobody is perfect. We got to do the best we can with what we have.

Virgo Moon - you’re way better and more than you ever give yourself credit for. Be proud of your accomplishments and all those times where you persevered when everything seemed to be going wrong and you couldn’t see the light. You’re a hard-working, very resilient and pragmatic person. You likely always help those in need especially your family/friends/acquaintances. They’ve always got somebody they can rely on to give them a car ride for example or cook them delicious food. Life is not always black and white and you’re certainly not the loser you might sometimes think you are. If only you could see the beauty I and other people can see in you!

Chart ruler in 12th house - oh boy, this one is quite annoying at times. People might just simply ignore your presence and not willingly. It’s like you somehow manage to blend into the background. Not one time have I heard people going “You’re here? I really haven’t noticed.” And it is not said with bad intentions. Your presence is calm, a little mellow and blends in easily with any crowd. Maybe you could be a spy? Just saying XD

The point with this placement (especially if you have many aspects to your Mercury, particularly the square) is to be patient! Do not raise your voice or butt into conversations you are not welcomed in. Wait to be invited, stay silent or better yet: leave. If it’s done repeatedly by the same group of people it’s not longer unintentional.

Also - protect your energy and make sure you sleep 8-10 hours. It might be that you tire easily, are susceptible to other’s energy, feel it when somebody is ill or suffering. You’re sensitive and probably empathetic to boot (regardless of other positions in your chart). Make sure you don’t overexert yourself or let others take advantage of your sensitive side.

Chiron conjunct Midhaven - it might actually be healthy and recommended for you to work! Especially if it’s the kind of job that suits you and that you find satisfaction in. With this aspect it’s possible that not having a goal/career will make you feel aimless/confused/irritated. This aspect suggests an ambitious, driven and hard-working individual that might find much more in their career than satisfaction, purpose and money. They might also find healing. These people are likely to work in healthcare and dealing with other people’s ailments and emotional wounds. But instead of bringing them down, it is where they actually find their place. Especially in the sign of Capricorn, these people don’t wish to lead easy/privileged lives, but meaningful ones where they leave a legacy behind.

People typically trust them because they sense they are trustworthy and share their problems with them.

Venus in Aries - this is not talked about nearly enough. These folks are courageous and very devoted to their loved ones, to the point where they would do almost anything for them! Venus is not just about your love life but also about your feminine side, your values and self-worth, your sense of aesthetics, creative expression, wealth&comfort and social harmony. It’d be silly to narrow it down simply to one domain: your romantic life. Sure, it plays a significant role when it comes to the way you express and accept love, what appeals to you most but it not all that it is!

A Venus in Aries person makes a dynamic and gutsy friend somebody that would go on almost any adventure with you. They could be blunt but you can be sure they will always tell the truth. They will speak up for you when needed and they could be plenty generous.

The point with this placement is to not get carried away or be too pushy. Many people are simply not ready to be as bold and honest and unapologetic as you are. They might just be unsure, more skeptical, or have a different way of expressing their attention/affection. Don’t always put demands on them or assume dishonesty at the slightest disturbance.

Edit-completion to Venus in Aries.

Hope you guys enjoyed reading my post!! Please tell me what you think and let’s have a discussion 🤗🌟

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Most Toxic Experiences in Astrology

Chiron can talk about where you had toxic experiences: 

Chiron in Aries | 1°, 13°, 25° | 1st 🏠 : the way you look / judging you from first interaction

Chiron in Taurus | 2°, 14°, 26° | 2nd 🏠 : money / consequences for not quitting bad habits

Chiron in Gemini | 3°, 15°, 27° | 3rd 🏠 : school & immediate environment

Chiron in Cancer | 4°, 16°, 28° | 4th 🏠 : family life / childhood, a parent

Chiron in Leo | 5°, 17°, 29° | 5th 🏠 : dating / romance

Chiron in Virgo | 6°, 18° | 6th 🏠 : workplace/daily life

Chiron in Libra | 7°, 19° | 7th 🏠 : relationships

Chiron in Scorpio | 8°, 20° | 8th 🏠 : sexual encounters

Chiron in Sagittarius | 9°, 21° | 9th 🏠 : college/religion

Chiron in Capricorn | 10°, 22° | 10th 🏠 : career/bosses/ father/reputation

Chiron in Aquarius | 11°, 23° | 11th 🏠 : groups / friends

Chiron in Pisces | 12°, 24° | 12th 🏠 : past memories 

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♇ people with cancer/moon in the 8h are likely into breast sucking or getting their breast sucked.

♇ people with neptune/venus or its signs in the 8h could be into listening to music while having sex, [mercury and moon can be involved].

♇ people with libra in their 8h, or even lilith in their 7h could be into anal play.

♇ i know it is said all the time that those with neptune/pisces in their 8h could be into feet play, but they can also be into being dominated because they represent feeling helpless.

♇ people with chiron/mars in their 8h could be into candle play.

♇ people with virgo in the 8h can be into bondage play, being blindfolded, leaning onto bdsm even capricorn. almost all of the earth signs beside taurus.

♇ taurus/venus in the 8h like to feel protected during sex, like their partner holding onto them tight, can also be into breath play.

♇ venus in the 8h and even neptune can be into mirror sex, not only leo. the symbol of venus is a symbol and neptune rules over reflections.

♇ mercury in the 8h are likely into dirty talking and having sex in their car, precisely in the back of their car.

♇ juno in the 8h are the type to fall in love with the people they have sex with.

♇ north node and mars in the 8h indicates liking angry sex.

♇ people with pluto, venus or mars in the 12h can use sex as an escapism technique, [can also involve if the signs mentioned planets ruled are there, for example scorpio or libra in the 12h.

♇ pluto/mars aspecting mercury can be into dirty talking.

♇ neptune aspecting pluto or mars can be into watching porn, even venus.

♇ leo in the 8h and being into doggy style...

♇ mercury-mars can be into mastubration.

♇ jupiterian women can be into size kink. [jupiter/sag in the 8h].

♇ 8h ruler in the 11h are likely to have friends with benefits. vice versa.

♇ pluto in the 8h doesnt always indicate big penis, because pluto is the smallest planet, though this can imply it can be a grower.

♇ mars in 8h...big balls. or just very round ones.

♇ cancer in 8h loving creampies.

♇ taurus placements taurus/8h loving to swallow cum, the type to spit in their lover's mouth.

♇ mercury in the 8h love fingering others or being fingered.

♇ aries in the 8h is an indicator could be into knife play, could like being orally mouth-fucked.

♇ pisces or neptune in the 8h could be into dressing up as characters or other personalities as it represents the mask or an act, same could be said with gemini/mercury as one its symbols is the drama masks.

♇ capricorn/aquarius/saturn in the 8h could be into edging, and ofc daddy dom.

♇ both leo and aquarius in the 8h can be into public sex.

♇ saturn in the 8h can be into quickies as well. even capricorn mars, or people with mars/aries in the 8h.

♇ air/water signs in the 8h can be very vocal during sex as well, can have very high moans while its kind of opposite with people who have fire/earth in the 8h.

♇ men with moon/venus in the 8h might be very submissive especially if they're hetero, they could be into women who can be dominant.

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What Not to Do Based on Your Chiron Placement

Chiron represents our deepest wound and the part of us that feels unhealed, rejected, or insecure no matter how much we try to “fix” it. Instead of embracing and working through this pain, many people unconsciously overcompensate, self-sabotage, or fall into toxic patterns.

I've been thinking about Chiron a lot lately lol and have been diving deeper into it. If you’ve ever wondered why certain issues keep showing up in your life, your Chiron placement could be the key. It might reveal where you're unintentionally making things worse.

So here’s what not to do based on your Chiron’s house placement. Take what connects, leave what doesn’t.

Chiron in the 1st House (Aries)

❌ What Not to Do:

Create a false persona to hide insecurity.

Brag or exaggerate to feel superior.

Constantly compare yourself to others.

Let self-doubt stop you from being authentic.

💡 The Mistake: Trying to “prove” you’re important instead of embracing who you are.

Chiron in the 2nd House (Taurus)

❌ What Not to Do:

Base your value on money, status, or possessions.

Hoard wealth or fear spending out of insecurity.

Self-sabotage financially because you feel undeserving.

Believe that financial success = personal worth.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking material security will fix inner insecurity.

Chiron in the 3rd House (Gemini)

❌ What Not to Do:

Over-explain or talk over people to sound smart.

Fear speaking up because you doubt yourself.

Interrupt conversations to prove your point.

Assume no one understands you, so you stay silent.

💡 The Mistake: Believing you have to “perform” intelligence instead of trusting your natural voice.

Chiron in the 4th House (Cancer)

❌ What Not to Do:

Stay stuck in toxic family patterns out of obligation.

Cut off family without processing your emotions.

Believe you’ll never create a loving home for yourself.

Seek comfort in nostalgia instead of healing old wounds.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking you can either erase your past or be trapped by it—when the real power lies in healing it.

Chiron in the 5th House (Leo)

❌ What Not to Do:

Seek validation through performance or creativity.

Avoid creative risks out of fear of rejection.

Compare yourself to others and feel inadequate.

Pretend you don’t care when deep down you do.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking you need applause to be worthy when true creativity is about self-expression, not approval.

Chiron in the 6th House (Virgo)

❌ What Not to Do:

Work yourself to exhaustion to prove your worth.

Obsess over routines or control every detail.

Fear structure and avoid responsibility.

Believe you’re only valuable if you’re useful.

💡 The Mistake: Tying your self-worth to productivity instead of valuing yourself as you are.

Chiron in the 7th House (Libra)

❌ What Not to Do:

Seek constant validation from relationships.

Fear intimacy and push people away.

Let relationships define your self-worth.

Stay in toxic partnerships just to avoid being alone.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking someone else will complete you when true healing starts within.

Chiron in the 8th House (Scorpio)

❌ What Not to Do:

Fear vulnerability and avoid deep emotional connections.

Use power or manipulation to control others.

Obsess over betrayal and hold grudges.

Avoid intimacy because of past wounds.

💡 The Mistake: Believing power comes from control when true strength is found in trust and surrender.

Chiron in the 9th House (Sagittarius)

❌ What Not to Do:

Play the guru or act like a know-it-all.

Overcompensate with degrees, travel, or “big” experiences.

Dismiss other perspectives out of insecurity.

Give up on searching for meaning out of fear you’ll never find it.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking external knowledge will replace internal wisdom.

Chiron in the 10th House (Capricorn)

❌ What Not to Do:

Define yourself by success or status.

Fear failure so much that you don’t even try.

Chase validation through your career.

Let others’ opinions dictate your path.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking your legacy is only tied to external achievements when true impact comes from authenticity.

Chiron in the 11th House (Aquarius)

❌ What Not to Do:

Try too hard to be liked and accepted.

Avoid social connections out of fear of rejection.

Change yourself to fit in.

Seek approval from the wrong crowds.

💡 The Mistake: Believing you have to earn belonging when true connection happens by being yourself.

Chiron in the 12th House (Pisces)

❌ What Not to Do:

Suppress your pain or avoid deep healing.

Escape into addictions or unhealthy coping mechanisms.

Over-identify with suffering or play the martyr.

Avoid spirituality or dive too deep into illusion.

💡 The Mistake: Thinking you have to either avoid your wounds or be consumed by them—when true healing comes from integration.

No matter where your Chiron is, the biggest mistake is trying to cover up the wound instead of working through it. True healing happens when you stop proving, stop performing, and start accepting yourself. flaws and all.

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Chiron: Your Wounds and YOUR HEALING Abilities

Chiron in 1st House: Empowers others, shows others how to fight for themselves, shares stories about and/or connects with those who are trying to heal the self.

Chiron in the 2nd House: Can be the shoulder others cry on, reassures others, and shares insight.

Chiron in the 3rd House: Heals others with words and story. Teaches others how to be healers.

Chiron in the 4th House: The healer of the family, family therapist, counselor, and encouraging.

Chiron in the 5th House: Heals through play, boosts others confidence, will believe in you, will give you something to fight for.

Chiron in the 6th House: Is there for you, mental or physical healer, sympathetic, supportive and devoted helper.

Chiron in the 7th House: Healing those relationship wounds, a couple's therapist, separation and union, sage advice.

Chiron in the 8th House: Will go with you into the dark, uncovers secrets, has been there and done that, a friend or guide during your transformative times, sees you.

Chiron in the 9th House: Sharing beliefs, fellowship in times of need, someone's reminder or moral compass, giving, inspiring, and open-minded.

Chiron in the 10th House: Providing, stable, knowledgeable, loyal friend or partner, an upright citizen, has practical advice, may be a good influence.

Chiron in the 11th House: A good friend, accepting, supportive, encouraging or motivational, socially in tune, and influential.

Chiron in the 12th House: Has strong hunches, empathizes with you, healer at heart, artist, healing with romance and affection, spiritual healer, different kinds of love.

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🎅❄️ Taurus Juno or Juno in the 2nd house, Juno at a Taurus degree (2, 14, 26) cares a lot about partner having a pleasant personality. But isn’t superficial in looks, instead they go for someone who has personalised and well-developed personal style, nice clothes.

❄️🎅 People might say that Gemini Sun women changed a lot of partners throughout life, but is not out of Gemini boredom or lack of mental stimulation, I noticed. Instead Gemini Sun women really notice the bullshit (excuses, lies, poor communication skills, poor time management skills, not making an effort in trying to connect) coming from men quickly and they just don’t accept it at all, they just move on.

🎅❄️ Aquarius Sun natives have experienced in their life at least once that one dream, aspiration, long-term goal of their wasn’t achieved due to obstacles, obstruction, restriction or last minute sudden change. That’s why they are so adamant later on of pushing through goals no matter what.

❄️🎅 Neptune in the 5th house, sometimes even Pluto in the 5th house, Pluto in the 3rd house natives love watching erotic movies, erotic thriller or straight up porn movies.

🎅❄️ Aries Juno, Aries Jupiter, Aquarius Jupiter, Pisces Vesta are one of those people that find it much easier NOT to be in a partnership, they are really whole on their own and usually have developed hobbies and interests with bunch of friends! They are definition of self-love, if you ask me.

❄️🎅 Leo Lilith attracts a lot of people, potential partners, but had troubles actually keeping them.

🎅❄️ Sagittarius over the 4th house people can be problematic when it comes to their partnerships. It’s like this person changes their partners often or can’t stick to them, making it seem like they pick bad partners. When in reality all of their previous partners were ideal (opposite sign Gemini), but they themselves have hard time sticking with one partner for a long time.

❄️🎅 Capricorn Lilith people when younger have been restricted and controlled by their parents (especially the father) and they tend to act much more controlling with age themselves.

🎅❄️ Gemini over the 7th house, Gemini Descendant are anxious once in a partnership.

❄️🎅 Capricorn Sun people are those people from a small country that end up going world wide. Many influencers, singers, musicians, artists that are Capricorn Sun are followed globally. Capricorn rules the public, broadcasting so they have a higher chance than other placements. One famous example is Italian singer from Måneskin Damiano David.

🎅❄️ Leo Aphrodite natives love the attention coming from many people, yet are reluctant to compliment others themselves. They love the spotlight and others finding them charming, charismatic and sweet.

❄️🎅 Ruler of the 7th house in the 5th house natives sometimes dress more modestly, because they feel like otherwise clothes overshadow their personality. And they personality is extra on its own.

🎅❄️ Chiron is so powerful in a Natal chart, so telling and revealing of what people are doing the most in life and what is important to them! Gemini Chiron always hanging with friends and not prioritising partners, family members. Libra Chiron always socialising, wanting to them up with people, always searching for the next partner. Capricorn Chiron: a workaholic basically. Aquarius Chiron: chronically online, always networking, always hanging out with acquintances. Sagittarius Chiron: reading, constantly on trips or planning them. Taurus Chiron: oh here we have a shopaholic, also someone who is always thinking and chasing after money, someone who does a lot of self-care and loves grocery shopping, watching films. Scorpio Chiron: spends A LOT of time on their own, a loner basically. Leo Chiron: either chasing a new crush or investing time into creative hobbies. You can tell so much from a person’s Chiron, about how they are spending their time. It also shows that you feel most confident doing, so if it’s in Aries/Scorpio Chiron, you actually the most healed, confident when on your own. If it’s Libra Chiron, you feel the most healed when you are spending time with someone meaningful one-on-one or when being part of a team, duo.

❄️🎅 Pisces Venus is unaware of their own beauty. They don’t see the value of beauty, because the value of intelligence, education was forced on them since young age. They internalised they need to be the smartest in the room to be noticed, appreciated, not the prettiest.

🎅❄️ You would think that 12th house shows how you like to sleep. But instead I noticed 8th house shows that. Aries 8th house: no pyjamas, Taurus 8th house: likes to sleep beside their partner, Cancer 8th house: teenage pyjamas or really light, summer pyjamas, Pisces 8th house: invests in quality sleepwear etc.

❄️🎅 Taurus Lust love other people sucking on their neck, ear, finger, anything really.

🎅❄️ Libra Suns have the most love hate relationship with Leo Suns. But usually they really like them and get along well due to both Libra and Leo Sun being confident and have unique personalities.

❄️🎅 Aquarius, Leo, Gemini and Virgo Eros love explicit films that have a lot of sexual scenes.

🎅❄️ There is the most chemistry when someone’s Mars touches your Eros and Lust asteroid. You are mosty likely to want to start something with them immediately.

❄️🎅 Taurus Lust, Libra, Taurus Mars, Taurus/Libra 7th house natives have their sex drive affected by whether they ate already or not. The first time after is also they always grab water or need something to eat.

🎅❄️ Jupiter tells not only what kind of wife/husband you attract, but also how you would behave as a spouse! Pisces Jupiter: you could make a lot of sacrifices for your person, Cancer Jupiter: you take care of the home and children, Sagittarius Jupiter: you may re-enter higher education after marriage or travel more.

❄️🎅 Sun in the 7th house attracts partners who after early stages of dating and after entering a partnership with them, become arrogant, selfish, demanding, bossy.

🎅❄️ Despite thinking otherwise, Capricorn and Aquarius Aphrodite people are attracted to younger partners.

❄️🎅 Scorpio Jupiter, Jupiter at Scorpio degree (8, 20) natives experiences a dramatic shift of power after marriage. Usually before the native is the one more in charge, but after marriage the power is likely more in the hands of their partner.

🎅❄️ If you have Aquarius, Capricorn MC, your career with pop off after first Saturn Return.

❄️🎅 Cancer Rising, Rising at Cancer degree (4, 16, 28) people get in the best shape of their life after first Saturn Return.

🎅❄️ I’ve noticed a lot of Scorpio Juno individuals having dysfunctional marriage, also having a partner that changes in a matter of a few hours.

❄️🎅 Cancer Jupiter can be really traditional. Thinking the main purpose of their marriage is to start a family after getting married.

🎅❄️ If you have hard time deciphering whether you would get along better with older or younger partners, look at your 8th house! Cancer 8th house: younger partner, Capricorn/Aquarius 8th house: older partner, Taurus/Libra 8th house: same or similar age, Sagittarius 8th house: 6 years difference, Virgo/Gemini 8th house: 3 years younger or older.

❄️🎅 Nobody talks about how in 8th house Synastry, we things are going less great, you get literally annoyed by everything they do, like how they chew, how they walk, tie their shoes, everything. You get literal physical reaction.

🎅❄️ If you have Taurus Moon, you have a mom that always asks “Did you ate already?”, but discards your emotional needs.

❄️🎅 If you have Virgo Moon, you have a mom that was always “a good girl”, punctual, a perfectionist, but wanted to be a bad girl so much.

🎅❄️ If you have Aries Moon, you have a mom that kinda “excused” physical violence, but not in the public, only in the home, in private to not cause a scene in public, it was normalized to her.

❄️🎅 If you have Pisces Moon, your mother is a bad listener, scatter-brained or has poor focus/concentration. She probably also felt like she doesn’t get much help from others at home.

🎅❄️ If you have Gemini Ceres or Ceres in the 3rd house, your mother asks you A LOT of questions.

❄️🎅 Sagittarius Chiron always has a partner who’s more educated than them! And they love hanging around well-educated people.

🎅❄️ Aquarius Jupiter could marry on the impulse after first or second Saturn Return! They might not be thinking of marriage, but then they suddenly marry. They also have very striking, out of this world beauty, they rarely look like some other person. They just look like “themselves” if it makes sense, they don’t have lookalikes.

❄️🎅 Pisces MC might have a fallout with their father after first or second Saturn Return and Pisces IC might have a fallout with mother.

🎅❄️ Venus in the 8th house Synastry: Venus person could come from a poor background, 8th house person comes from a more well-off family background.

❄️🎅 For Aries/Scorpio Moon natives often rings true the saying “how you get them is also how you gonna lose them”. I noticed they are prone to steal away people or their newly partnership is “overlapping”. For Capricorn/Aquarius Moons this saying is also true, but they usually date people out of their league, for status.

🎅❄️ Libra Suns love loud people in bed, they hate it if their partner is quiet. 🙈

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💔Chiron In the Houses💔

Chiron in your chart can tell you which part of your life is a touchy subject for you. Depending on the house it’s in, it can reveal the themes of your life that may have affected you greatly, or an area in your life that you may be insecure about.

Chiron in the 1H🧍🏼‍♀️

Something you may have struggled with through out your life is your appearance/self esteem. Those with this placement may have been bullied for their looks or something about them physically has been commented on/brought attention to plenty of times. The type of person to invest in plastic surgery they may not even need, or lose/gain a few extra pounds when their body is fine as it is. This placement, ironically enough; is found in people who overdo themselves with enhancements/plastic surgery/makeup etc even when it’s unnecessary. Prone to facial/body dysmorphia. What I find interesting however is that this placement usually naturally glows up at some point in their life as they get older, but the scars still remain; so they usually can continue being insecure for a long time and/or can seem to accept or believe any compliments given to them until they heal.

Chiron in the 2H💴

Similar to chiron in the 1H, this placement struggles with self worth/self esteem to a heightened degree, however instead of stemming from appearance it stems more so from financial instability/self worth in general. This placement could have grew up in a financially unstable environment and family where money wasn’t always present, and their needs were barely met; let alone their wants. These are the people who didn’t grow up with the latest video game, the newest car, the nicest house, expensive clothes/shoes. These were the people who had or barely had enough to get by growing up. Growing up they could have been surrounded by people who had more than them, or at least had more basic necessities than they did which in turn caused them to get judged or bullied. This is a placement that people are looked down upon for not having/affording nice things. This placement usually makes one an extremely hard worker growing up so they can have everything they didn’t have when young and not have to deal with it again. Without healing this wound however, these people could be prone to growing up superficial and judgmental just like their bullies in youth. They can start judging others who have less than them, and assessing others worth by what they have materially; because this is how they were treated growing up.

Chiron in the 3H🧠

These people could have struggled in school and may have been held back in grades. A slow learner, to say the least. They may have had a hard time learning and/or dropped out of high school or college. These people also may struggle with speech difficulties, could have grew up with a stutter or wasn’t able to speak/process things properly throughout their childhood and they could have been bullied for this. They could have been made to feel “stupid”, “slow” or “dumb” to their peers or family. They also may have simply grew up naive or very child like, maybe even sheltered and people could have traumatized them once they discovered the real world. This placement could also NOT get along with their siblings. People with this placement I know have been taunted, mistreated, or on the receiving end of jealousy by siblings both in childhood and adulthood.

Chiron in the 4H🏠 TW: ABUSE

These people could have had a very negative upbringing or family life. Home life was unstable, the father or mother could have not been very involved. I’ve noticed people with these placements could have been physically, emotionally or even sexually abused at home. Could have had a step parent that was abusive or one or both of the parents could have passed away. Some people with this placement could have been in foster care and/or traveled house to house to live with relatives/others who will take them in. They could of grew up with a lot of fighting in the house, I also noticed people with this placement could of had a parent that had an affair and this could of changed the whole trajectory of the home. If no abuse, then these people could have also been heavily mistreated or neglected in their family and almost treated like a stranger, and very outcasted within their family as well. These are the people who usually move out as soon as they can as they grow up and cut all contact immediately from family. Family could used the individual for personal gain. The family could have been extremely toxic, misogynistic, racist, overtly religious and/or diagnosed with mental illnesses such as NPD.

Chiron in the 5H🧑🏻‍🍼

These people struggle to be themselves and step outside the box. This placement is one where you’re afraid to accept any praise, as you feel you’re undeserving. These people usually feel like they’re not supposed to be happy or have nice things. They could have grew up with a negative, bitter family who influenced them to be overly humble to the point of self hatred. These were the people where the family could have threw things that they do for them in their face, even those it was basic necessities. “I put a roof over your head and food in your mouth!” this placement could of grew up feeling like they owe their parents something for bare minimum treatment. These people weren’t allowed to express themselves, to be themselves or to make their own decisions growing up. They were almost always practically controlled by their parents into being their personal robot. They feel guilty for enjoying themselves, loving themselves, having a good time or even just being happy. This is the ultimate placement that’s giving “If I can’t, why should you”. Not that it’s their fault, but I’ve never met a person with this placement who wasn’t the ultimate party pooper. Without healing, these people could grow up to become judgmental and bitter towards those who are living their best life. They could also struggle with fertility issues as well.

Chiron in the 6H🖊️

I feel like this placement is ridiculously hard on themselves no matter what they achieve in life. These are the people who I can honestly say are over givers, yet they feel like they’re still not giving enough. They could have struggled with keeping a set routine for themselves or even practicing basic hygiene growing up. But this is because this placement is a placement where nobody taught them anything that they know, they had to learn everything on their own. These people could be called lazy for wanting to take a simple break. Their lives usually revolve around work or doing their job. They can also be the type of people who is always trying to make everyone else happy except for themselves. I usually see people with this placement get taken advantage of because of their overly giving and forgiving nature. The reason these people are the way they are is because they grew up in a household that never gave them anything they have. They always felt like they had to prove themselves to others that they’re worthy of basic human decency. They do their best to help and do nice things for others because they were practically on their own soon as they came out of the womb. :(

Chiron in the 7H👩‍❤️‍👨

Oh boy, this placement is harsh. Those with Chiron in the 7H are people who have been deeply traumatized by love/relationships. These people usually end up with really bad partners who end up cheating, using, degrading and/or abusing them. I find this placement similar to Saturn in the 7H, however Chiron here is way more intense. These people feel like they keep going through the same cycle over and over in regards to love. They could have been traumatized by multiple relationships but the people I’ve met with this placement usually have that 1 relationship that changed their whole outlook on love in general. This is somebody who’s went through so many manipulative mind games in love that they start to lose hope. Once healed however, those with this placement end up becoming very mature and healthy individuals in regards to love and relationships. These people usually find “the one” once they start healing from the trauma of this placement. If unhealed, Relationships/marriage to people with this placement slowly start to lose its appeal once they get older because they put it in their mind that every man/woman is the same. Unfortunately, people who have been disappointed enough times with this placement start to turn so bitter that they become a misandrist/misogynist at some point in time. That’s why it’s important to heal if you have this placement, because it’s a harsh one that really starts to affect the mind internally.

Part 2 is on its way ☺️

[ophelyia]

South Node in Aries

While you're trained in social graces, a less acknowledged part of you is uncouth. Brazen. Hot- headed. Indiscreet. A certain wildness may rear up in moments of impatience when your accomplices fail to compute your subtleties: the complaints or boundaries you want people to understand, but which you struggle to voice aloud, thanks to your imperturbable tact.

You might consider your South Node in Aries your feral twin, who delights in the fantasy of abandon, or speaking without filter. If you totally stifle this rowdy side, the heat may gather, swelling up in ways you can't steer or manage. The nodes of the Moon are points we tend to stumble over. It's hard to get the right balance- though balance is a craft you're well-versed in.

Know that you're intrepid. You don't need anyone else to be whole. And also, you have a way of completing other people. You meet your co- conspirators halfway, and then some. There's magic in both impulses; the trick is to not idle in one extreme for too long.