#casual touch is such a thing for me
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I want to go out somewhere together where the lights are low and we can hold hands without being scared someone we know will see us.
I was watching someone building a bar on a cruise ship and she set up a little stage and some tables and a dance floor and all these colored lights and I could just picture my girl and I sitting at a little table or booth somewhere with music and lights and people dancing around us. I don’t really even know what I’m asking for here, I think I just want to go out somewhere without always being afraid.
#I just want to be able to dance with her#or hold her hand#or even just sit there with our shoulders brushing#and I know I’m being dramatic#I don’t really want to go to bars or parties or anything like that#but like#casual touch is such a thing for me#it hurts to not have that most places we go#or to always be looking over our shoulders#and it’s fucking infuriating to see other people have that freedom when we can’t#im just tired#wlw#wlw yearning#wlw romance#lgbtqia#bi#bisexual#bi yearning#bi romance#lesbian#lesbian yearning#lesbian romance#sapphic#sapphic yearning#sapphic romance
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suguru isn’t made for casual. he’s a “carve your name into his flesh and seal his devotion with blood” kinda guy. an “i’m for you and you’re for me” kinda guy. an “i’ll give you everything as long as you look at me” kinda guy.
casual feels like an insult to him. dedication is all he knows.
#[𐐪— rheya talks. 𐑂]#he’s just like me fr#you tell him you wanna keep things casual and he physically does not understand what you mean#one touch and he’s yours anyway#he expects the opposite to be true#lifelong devotion and everything#this remains true even after he leaves#cult leader sugu probably gets even worse about this bc technically he has no right to ask this if you#but he can’t help it#ANYWAYS#we were talking about attachment issues in psych lmao…#getou suguru x reader#geto x reader#geto suguru
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as you were king
#shirt fixing sans the daddy part but#this is still. something. to me#the pats and touches are so plentiful and casual now like#things that are still killing this 2014 phannie dead daily#this show is so silly and they’re always doing or saying different things#I love hearing about it but im so jealous of people that get to see it so many times#i literally barely remember anything#dnp#dan and phil#phan#tit tour#titspoilers#video
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Okay I had “The 12 Step Job” playing in the background today and looked up right during that first fight scene and how come I never noticed that there’s way more ot3 moments in this episode??? Like there’s the bomb scene and Parker’s hug in the end but these too??
First Eliot grabbing Hardison to hold him back from the fight.
Then I’m sorry they’re nearly holding hands and Eliot’s got his arm around him to move him along??? Real cozy for a guy who just dumped soda in your truck sir (but he shot a gun real well so maybe that did it for him 😂)(until Hardison revealed that he was not aiming there and moment ruined but still).
#sorry once again on the hunt for ot3 casual touches#glad I looked up when this happened it happens so fast#the whole fight scene is in fast forward#but I want to slow the whole thing down because I’m sorry Hardison what fight moves were those#sorry not sorry this ot3 makes me ill#carry on#leverage#the 12 step job#inde gifs#inde gifs: the 12 step job#inde gifs: leverage ot3 casual touches#inde gifs: leverage ot3#leverage ot3 casual touches#leverage ot3#ot3: hitter hacker thief
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I know little of the Keepers and their cultural norms, but I suppose it should not come as a surprise that matters of grooming and personal maintenance should carry a more pragmatic connotation for those who live in such isolation - or perhaps our friend is simply strange, regardless of his context. I must admit: it was no small comfort to me, in those frigid days heralding the twilight of the Dragonsong War, to discover that our champion did not share our Sharlayan intuition toward personal space. Our more guarded companions don't always share my gratitude for the attention, but I believe that after our long estrangement, even the coldest of hearts could not fail to be warmed by such a gesture.
Wolcred Week 2024 Day 1: Warmth | Home
ok as mentioned in the tags i didnt have time to render a complete scene for this but i found this old mspaint sketch that demonstrates the Vibe. tyagoa just walked up behind him after cleaning up from their meal
#ffxiv#wolcred#wolcred week#wolcred week 2024#valerianart#caption is alphinaud journal entry#please imagine everyone is making camp and sitting down i simply did not have time to draw the wider context U_U#to be perfectly transparent i am doing the prompts kind of ass backwards and the degree of effort varies#but come sit with me and imagine#we can hold hands if you want#anyway tyagoa does a lot of Fussing post-vault#at the time it's really the only tell that things are. well. you know how things are.#i think little grieving alphie would soak that up like a sponge but it would come as quite the shock to the other returning scions#shtola probably had to set some polite but firm boundaries#but tyagoa would appreciate that#he likes knowing what his friends like#and vhasoa was frequently touch-averse so he doesnt take it as an insult or anything#anyway i think it's a combo of [gestures to heavensward] and the way that traveling through the wilderness with a small group feels like#well#like home to him#that kind of shortcuts through all the Eorzean Social Customs that he's learned to navigate#i hc his tribe as being very casually tactile with each other#to the extent that something like this doesn't even register as intimacy#not to him anyway LOL
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It is truly fascinating how the common tumblr narrative around John and Paul somehow makes the guy who literally got violent multiple times over people insinuating he was queer appear more "on board with the whole gay thing" than the guy who said some awkward/dated stuff in interviews a couple of times.
#im not trying to defend paul here btw. or tear down john#i just find the reading of john as like the Self-Accepting King between them.... myopic#i mean. it touches on the whole Was It Reciprocated Thing really#the idea being: If We Assume Paul Reciprocated He Is MORE Repressed Than John Because John Hinted More Heavily That He Wasn't Straight#but like..#that's Exactly why some of us think.... maybe Paul IS straight 😭😭 or at least it's not nearly as big of a deal to him than it was to John#(perhaps because he's bi but treats it more casually than John ever felt capable of)#any reading of John and sexuality that concludes something LESS fraught than Paul's mostly benign slight weirdness/curiosity#seems to me.... like McLennon tunnel vision#like because John never gay panic attacked PAUL all that ugly stuff he did can be set aside.#also. look at the way people think about India#and the Get Back convo about it. it's all like JOHN'S NOT IN DENIAL. HE WAS CLEAR. HE WANTED IT. HE WAS ALL IN.#Was He?#anyways. i am becoming chatty these days.#as always people are welcome to discuss this with me even if we disagree#fiona.docx#jp speculation#discourse
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I have no plans of ever touching it in Bhavan and Jyothika’s story (mainly cause I am enjoying my blog being peaceful) but the drow twin courtesans did upset me quite a bit. And Halsin’s rather…inappropriate comment he makes in the game during you meeting the twins also upset me? Like a lot? Like it was hitting just way too close to home/toeing to a lot of what I’ve dealt with in the past with men lol
#I laugh but I nearly restarted my game to not romance Halsin after he said it#just reminded me of the men I’ve dealt with and dated#it also felt so out of touch for him to say?#like out of character?#but that might be wishful thinking on my part#anyways in my headcanon he doesn’t say it because he datedJyothika and he listened to her and her family talk extensively at dinner tables#about racism and what they deal with#similar to me and my parents lol#but he listens and learns and doesn’t make out to touch comments lol#anyways this post was made bc I saw another artist answer a question about their bg3 oc and casually mentioned the racism their character#experiences and seems indifferent about#and I just went oh yeah some ppl haven’t dealt with racism irl before and just think it’s a casual thing for their ocs to experience#I am not hating on the artist btw#it was just kind of wild to be reminded of that lol
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begging people in the lackadaisy fandom to maybe not just call random characters ‘sociopaths’ simply because they do bad or selfish things lol
#my posts.#like. it’s DIFFERENT if you’re genuinely hcing a character this way!#but to just casually call characters sociopaths is a little. hm!!!#and it’s ALWAYS used as a derogatory thing. like wow this person doesn’t care for others so they’re a SOCIOPATH#which. normal people can just not care for others. they can have low empathy and compassion.#this isn’t even touching upon the aspd of it all or how this indirectly demonizes ALL personality disorders#but uh. oh well i guess <3#( i say this as a person with a personality disorder btw. which is perhaps why it bugs me so bad! )
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non romance focused dramas always have the best love lines i swear like tell me why are saebom and yihyun more tender and intimate than 80% of romance dramas out there
#just the casual way they touch each other without making it a Thing tells me everything i need to know#happiness rewatch#pinelogs
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,,, sun-dappled sheets...
#the sapphics got to me okay. portrix real#it's so cute how they go from falling asleep tgt at the presses to having a room to share#adamandi#portia elizabeth harper#beatrix valeria campbell#it was a doodle and then i was like i want to make it softer so i painted it over and in the process rendered it somewhat#it's still quite sketchy akdhfj but u get the vibes!! ++ tried out using a Lot more noise than usual#so that's like the New Art Takeaway from doing this.#;;; i feel like every time i draw wlw fluff it's stepping back deep into my comfort zone haha but yes. soft cosy comfy etc.#my brain was not processing enough to figure out casual wear so this is kind of just the stripped down costumes akdhdjdh but yeah#bonus side note here is i was like hehe wouldn't it be fun if beatrix hand + portia ribbon. as like a nod to contrast how#previously it was strings on their hands instead. and now she cut them off bc portia and also smth smth about the difference#between tying (the strings) and choosing to hold (ribbon) and sjdhdhfhfh ue.#*incoherent noises* it's about the softness. the touching. the idea of choice- but less afraid of losing it- smth smth inherent trust also.#knowing tomorrow you'll still be there..#<- sorry there's a silly little conceptual thing in every adamandi thing i make i think#i would love to say this was For Adamandi Week but i do very badly with timed events so the truth is just. i woke up and saw#@/regret-repentir 's post (which is so so lovely actually) (credit where credit is due) and then spent the next 1.5h drawing portrix#the prompt was post graduation i think? but seeing as i didn't really respond to the prompt itself#it doesn't rly count in my head as a prompt response for the event. idk#it technically works. but also it feels like false advertising...#<blinks> fun times include this being the first time i've drawn adamandi characters entirely without reference. they have been blorbo-ified
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Thinks about how. Gloreth only starts looking at Nimona differently/strangely when her parents call her a "monster". Just throws that label with such a negative connotation on her. Gloreth fucking fights for Nimona immediately in the beginning saying that she's her friend and never once looks at her with ridicule until her mom just holds her by the shoulders and tells her she's a monster, straight in the eye, straight in the face. And just the word is enough to cause the change.
Nimona's getting fucking attacked and prodded and Gloreth doesn't even feel sorry for her just because she's now re-contextualizing everything around her but with that word. I'm so sick. She looks not in hesitance but at disbelief before she runs away. She sees Nimona trying to defend herself from literal Danger in any way she can (she's just a kid and she's fighting with people who won't listen, never will, people that she can't get through) but just sees that as more proof of her being violent, monstrous. She sees her friend all alone, with the odds and the world stacked against her despite them being. so similar but just tells her to go back to the shadows.
And like. Of course she believes those words calling Nimona a monster and takes them to heart. Her parents, the ones she would probably trust most are the ones that told her that. And she's young, she doesn't know much about the world or much better. And of course, her parents and the whole village don't know any better. They didn't see what she saw. They don't know or feel the need to know much more than the definition of the word "monster". But it hurts. God it hurts. It's wrong. It's not fair. It's really not fair.
And it causes this whole legend that will stay with Nimona to ridicule her for generations and generations and birth this system that she's trapped by and causes everyone to be so brainwashed. The one that makes people scared and build walls. That births unecessary distrust.
God. Even in the scroll illustrating Nimona and Gloreth, Nimona is portrayed as such a bigger and scarier threat than she ever could be or would be, until Nimona internalized and gave into those images and despair of course. It's not fucking fair.
Thinking about how when the villagers saw Nimona as a "normal" person they were happy for her just living her life and playing with her friend, she was just another kid being happy like she and every ("normal", apparently) person deserves to be, and they were allowing her to be happy then when they find out what she really is they hate her. They call her a monster and drive her out immediately. They don't look into the details that contradict the stigma, they just feel betrayal when they weren't even the ones who were betrayed (Nimona couldn't fucking help being who or what she was. And she was her own person. She was still. A someone. Why do things have to be different now?). I'm so sickkk.
Thinks about how Nimona feels so hopeless as to just. Accept and yield to that label. That label that was passed down to Gloreth. To the whole world. Such simple but awful words. Aughhhhhhhhhhh
Another post I saw talks about how this is a movie about how hate is taught. And oh my god it is. Hate it taught. It's done so simply yet so, painfully effectively. So devastatingly. And that hate teaches people to hate the world back. God I fucking loooove this movie
Also Nimona's such a Creature /pos /affectionate she's so relatable I fucking love her and I'm insane okay that's the post bye
#nimona#nimona movie#nimona gloreth#this is all to jsut say the trans allegory is INSANEEEHAUEORBHAEOH it. touched me.#watched this movie with some irls after never hearing of it befroe in my LIFE and. as a person who had. a very miserable june at home#and is still having kind of a miserable time at home#this movie made me feel. very accepted and loved :)#lmao at one of the emotional points with nimona one of my irls like dragged me in for a hug#because i was laugh-sobbing very loudly because being dramatic is fun LMAO exagerrated reaction y'know#and they said it's because they couldn't tell if i was actually crying or not#and while i don't think i was in that moment#i think i was genuinely crying at some point#not in an obvious way. just slight tears. and not the laughing kind#and it was great. what a great movie <3333#the fact these themes are also. extremely prevalent in another piece of media im currently hyperfixated on is sooo unfair you can't do that#also unrelated but i love how casually ballister and ambrosius' relationship is portrayed#it's so nice to see it just. be there. and be wonderful#all in all yeah great movie i am now sick for life <3#also i spent this whoel post misspelling “nimona” as “nimora” i'm :skull: good thing i reread and edit before posting
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it's frustrating reading a book, good or bad, and then it drops some casually offensive shit in your lap.
#c'mon Dresden Files did it HAVE to be something from Native American culture that they have asked us not to use?#really couldn't think of anything else?#I'll keep reading the book but only for the overarching plot stuff#it could be worse (though it might get worse) like they haven't used that term yet#and it puts me in mind of Handbook for Mortals and the repeated casual use of the g-slur#(not to mention that book's tone-deafness about what it means to be from a family that has owned land in Tennessee since the 1700s)#I often joke that The Dresden Files is like Handbook for Mortals if Handbook for Mortals was good and had a story#but apparently some authors just can't resist using things they really shouldn't touch
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The Leverage OT3 in Every Episode
Leverage (2008-2012)
01x10 The Juror #6 Job
#once again back on my bs#I really need to get better about selecting actual scenes with them#instead of just every moment they’re also standing or sitting near each other#will I though?#no probably not#also cannot believe it’s been nearly two months since I’ve posted in this series#I swear my goal is to finish season 1 by the end of the year#also happy that my editing and gif quality does look a bit better here!#shout out to lindseymcdonaldseyelashes for that#I literally have a degree in programs for this#and I decide to learn a new one to make gifs :)#I’m working on figuring it out because I like to make things harder for myself#so thank you for reminding me of the exact gif size so I can set it in the app I’m using#leverage#inde gifs#leverage ot3#ot3: hitter hacker thief#the leverage ot3 in every episode#the juror 6 job#leverage ot3 casual touches#inde gifs: the juror 6 job#inde gifs: leverage ot3#inde gifs: the leverage ot3 in every episode#inde gifs: leverage ot3 casual touches
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now that ur a marvel fan manifesting u become a dc fan too 🙏
ohhhh you gon have to manifest real hard brother
#snap chats#i say this as if im not a casual batman/superman enjoyer fjLEFAEJK#and i do mean Casual like. CASUAL casual#im contractually required to like superman cause of my pa but i do genuinely really like superman. maybe part of its sentimental but ANYWAY#i just mean that it takes a Lot for me to latch onto something. like A Lot a lot#like i really do enjoy a lot of things on a casual level i only get Category Five Obsessed with one thing every three years#if its anything when i was a kid i loved The Batman so so much and i still do. good show me thinks ...#i always loved bruce's nose in that and how he looked dressed as The Bat. he just looked real cute yk ...#like id get giddy when i saw The Batman on the boomerang channel schedule it was MY show to watch i wouldnt miss it for nothin#i loved it as much as i loved the spider man cartoon which is A Lot vcjlakaj i didnt play bout my superhero cartoons ...#i also loved batman the brave an the bold ..... i just realy liked batman as a kid ...#have not touched any comics tho bar comic summary videos on youtube so. Again you gon have to manifest real hard jALKAVKLJ#its so funny reviewing how much i actually loved superhero stuff growing up#and how. none of it was xmen 💀💀💀💀#well its xmen NOW and im bouta finish S2 of evo LETS GO GANG
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Janeway in 'Nothing Human' vs Tuvok in 'Resolutions' There's something here I know there is I can almost wrap my teeth around it.
#I can't watch Nothing Human bc the puppet really disconcerts me#but I cannot believe Janeway really came into B'Elanna's room after all that and the FIRST thing she says...her OPENER is#'Wow it smells awful in here~!'#DUDE....................TIME AND PLACE#HEHEHHE#C'MON MAN#B'Elanna: Is [putting it behind us] an order? / Janeway [normal!]: Yes.#'And what emotion is that?' C'MON MAN!!!!!!#Janeway & Tuvok#Kathryn Janeway#Tuvok#I can see why she and Tuvok are friends#'I understand you're upset but fall in line'#You can be upset but not if effects your work#<- Something which would be fine on a regular ship but is very difficult on Voyager#I think Janeway's certain coldness or ruthlessness which can be aimed at either friend or foe is an interesting#aspect of her personality#Ex: She and B'Elanna COULD have feasibly had a more touching scene together to close out the episode but they don't#I don't know if I'm explaining myself well right now I'm a bit ill and more than a bit tired#Something about uhh maybe....people under their command vehemently and emotionally disagreeing with them/their decisions??#you can disagree with me but not if you don't follow me anyway#Voyager a ship full of contradictions#they have to all work together and they are all closer emotionally than any other starship due to their situation#but they are also still 'at work' and are expected to follow orders. It's like a 'casual' hierarchy but it's still a hierarchy#and you can't fall too far out of line bc you're someone dear to me#but you're also a valued cog in the machine#and even though you ARE valued you ARE still a cog in the machine#but you're also my dear friend. and all of these things are true at once.#all of that of course but also Janeway & Tuvok are displaying a very particular kind of shared leadership style in these moments#Janeway is obviously on the whole MUUUCH more charismatic and understanding than Tuvok but still - when push comes to shove...
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Is it a casual thing to get high together and then fall asleep in the same tiny bed ?
#asking for a friend....#anyway... the adventures of foolishness with german guy continue...#i think this can still be a platonic thing btw? to sleep in the same bed#but i have a hard time analyzing it bc i have a crush on him lol#we did do a lot of casual touching in bed but u know that might have been mostly me sorry oops#i still dont think he likes me like that?#which is fine its just kinda torture when yr platonically in bed with the guy u wanna kiss but u cant !#but ill live#but anyway yeah.... how normal and platonic is this from a scale of 1-10 be honest pls#diary entries
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