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I hate the term 'careless mistake' when related to ADHD because a lack of due care usually isn't the cause.
Usually it's automated processes such as information processing, working memory, or attention regulation that leads to the mistake
If you're looking for ways to prevent 'careless mistakes,' please start by acknowledging you do, in fact, care.
Then let's find the root of the problem and address that. For example, you can set up the information in a way that's easier for you to process (eg. visual vs written)
Changing the way that you have the information is presented, such as going through the first time using words then the second time as visuals is particularly helpful.
Reducing compound items (where three steps are written as one single step) can help too.
Also, everyone normalizes to information, steps, or lists over time, so it is not abnormal, wrong, or bad to have someone else check if you missed something obvious.
If you don't have someone to check, put it down and check it later, especially after a mood shift or a cognitively different task. This can help you to focus on different details.
Combining this with changing the way the information is presented is particularly helpful, imo
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Gale + Reaction to the protag offering to become an Illithid to control the stones
"An easy proposition for the Emperor to make - 'become a mind flayer' - it has no soul to sacrifice. If it did, perhaps it would understand the weight of what it's asking of us. And why we might seek an alternative."
#bg3edit#baldur's gate 3#bg3#gale dekarios#gale of waterdeep#gamingedit#dailygaming#videogameedit#ch: gale dekarios#vg: baldur's gate 3#series: baldur's gate#gif: mybg3#'do not mistake me i want to live but i've been careless enough with my life in the past i can hardly stand by + watch you sacrifice yours'#gale has such a good heart and a kind soul
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i think about splinter walking in on the aftermath of caged lungs a lot

#canary continuity#rottmnt#like#pov: you are splinter. you have spent the past few months feeling Off#theres this odd air in your home that you cant place and some distance from your sons again#but you trust their independence and you tend to wane in and out again already#and theyve all been encouraging you to go out there and get a social life!!#even before the curse you dont know about yet theyve been nothing but supportive#maybe a bit pushy lately. but you think theyre just happy for you#teenagers are rebellious. youre sure theyll use your absence for shenanigans but thats a part of being a teen#so you go for a night out.#its a break from the odd tension youve felt#you come home feeling relaxed. lighter. youre smiling to yourself as you walk back into your home#for a moment its quiet and you can just breathe in the comfortable silence#and then you smell blood. not the faint clinging tang of it youd smelled for a few weeks and dismissed. FRESH blood#your veins chill with panic. dread prickles down your spine. you run towards the smell#and then you hear your oldest sons SCREAMING.#both of them dont scream like donnie and mikey do. they SHOUT a lot. they dont SCREAM#they dont scream like their souls are being torn out of their chest. not like that#(for a moment you freeze. and all you can think about is torn flesh and the snap of bones. cheering. blood caked across your bruised fists.#and then the panic hits you at once and you BOLT#and you walk into the culmination of fifteen years of your careless mistakes.#and nothing is ever the same again
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i'm boosting my ko-fi here i normally don't like asking for donations but money is a Bit Tight until i get paid again on the 1st
i have weird dietary restrictions (meat/dairy/eggs/soy make me, in varying levels, sick) so food shopping is really difficult sometimes and i'm stressed as hell
I can't really offer anything art wise (i have overdue commissions + the heat makes it hard to draw sometimes)
#my brother made things absolutely miserable yesterday due to careless mistakes and we ended up with less money than we thought we'd have#my mom has some money coming in from the wholesale art stuff she sells#but she has to spend money to make the product so like. uhg#mutual aid
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The portrayal of Gohan's feelings towards Goku by fanon vs canon really gives me a whiplash sometimes. For a lot of fanon, they make him so bitter or hateful towards Goku but then you turn to canon and you see Gohan about ready to throw hands with anyone who just so much as insults his dad lol
#dragon ball#son gohan#son goku#gohan#goku#i've seen about every argument on this topic at this point#i think if there were a more realistic exploration of this topic there'd be a lot more nuance and complicated emotions#goku's made a lot of mistakes and honestly it's by how dragon ball is written that gohan is as well-adjusted as he is#i'm on the side that goku isn't a perfect parent but he sure as heck cares about his family#but it makes me sad when ppl portray gohan and goku as extremely antagonistic towards each other#and i'm tired of goku's simple-mindedness being treated as pure callous carelessness/lack of care for his loved ones#gohan would legit beat someone into a pulp if he saw a lot of the things others say about goku lol#struggling jpg thinks
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Egon when a loved one accidentally almost destroys the world:

Egon when a stranger drops something on the floor (or when Peter causes the slightest inconvenience):

#𝙸 𝙵𝙴𝙴𝙻 𝙻𝙸𝙺𝙴 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝙵𝙻𝙾𝙾𝚁 𝙾𝙵 𝙰 𝚃𝙰𝚇𝙸𝙲𝙰𝙱. (CRACK)#𝙸 𝙲𝙾𝙻𝙻𝙴𝙲𝚃 𝚂𝙿𝙾𝚁𝙴𝚂 𝙼𝙾𝚄𝙻𝙳𝚂 𝙰𝙽𝙳 𝙵𝚄𝙽𝙶𝚄𝚂. (HEADCANONS)#is he quite this bad? nah not really#but he has little time for people he doesn't know making careless mistakes#and w Peter. he loves Peter like a brother. ofc he does#but we all know Peter is v good at pissing him off
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Public service announcement: Until/Untill (at this point it looks like they've stopped caring to the point they don't even know what the song is called) by Earth Pirapat is out on music streaming. This is the intro song for all of those that have been waiting for it. It's under "Untill" on music streaming for now.
#ossan's love thailand#ossan's love th#earth pirapat#until mv#ngl all of these mistakes/general carelessness surrounding olth is starting to feel targeted.#i don't want to buy into the twitter conspiracy mindset but it's getting harder and harder#Spotify
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oops // tess dyer
pictured: the exact moment Acolyte Dyer realized that there would, in fact, be consequences to her spilling an entire dish of powdered mandrake into her potion instead of the spoonful the recipe required.
#tess dyer#personal hc is that this careless mistake is how she got her perfectionist trait#and how she lost her eyebrows and original human skin#she was clumsy before that but learned her fucking lesson#visibly human teen tess is so cute tho#ts4 render#ts4 realm of magic#ts4 spellcasters#ts4 townies#ts4 townie makeover#ts4 premades#maxis premades#maxis townies#deadit#deadcanon#century scribbles
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i've been diving a lot deeper into adhd symptoms and comorbidities and misdiagnoses and whenever i tell my boyfriend something i learned that sounds like me he responds with something like
#idk he knows me more than anyone bc i can't hide the parts i'm ashamed of from him#last night he was like. yeah EYE think you have adhd but i'm just some guy#idk i'm excited about this not because i want to be Quirky for internet reasons. yknow. but bc i've felt like an impostor of a human being#and i have no sense of self and i can't get myself to do basic tasks and the thought of doing something i don't want to do#genuinely makes me want to throw up/my brain shuts down/i can't think or talk or function to the point where i can't work.#so i can't support myself. so i feel terrible about myself. and i've been in and out of therapy for 20 years and have numerous diagnoses#that have never really felt like they fully encapsulate what's going on. and like. i've kinda just internalized that i'm not as good at#being a person as everyone else because i struggle so so much. like yeah i did well in school but i had to sacrifice literally everything#else to do that. idk how everyone else is managing to have a job and hobbies and friends#i get to pick like. one now. i used to be able to juggle everything to some degree although i felt like i was being careless in all areas#except school. i'm so scared of making mistakes or starting anything or talking to new people or trying new hobbies#because i know it won't interest me more than a couple weeks MAX and i'll feel listless and restless again#and i've come to understand this as part of who i am at my core. i'm just someone who can't commit and isn't reliable or a good friend#i just want so badly for that not to be the case because i want so badly to not be stuck like this#idk im going home to talk to my dad this weekend and just rest because i'm really really not doing well#which is why i'm scrambling to try to figure out what's going on with me because idk how much longer i feasibly can do this#and i might be moving back to the pnw bc therapists in pa don't work with medicaid#and no psychiatrists near me are taking new patients. and i can't work to get on private insurance. but therapists in or do work w medicaid#so idk. again if youre diagnosed w adhd and this sounds not like someone who is consuming social media brain rot content about adhd#but rather someone whose experiences you identify with. please let me know. please please#i am reaching out to professionals also but things move slowly and i'm trying to compile evidence so i don't sound like i'm making it up
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do you want to play The Campaign For North Africa: The Desert War: 1940-1943 with me?
Sorry but no i don't really like strategies
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guys you wont believe this but ive accidentally messed up the exact same part of my doily twice this week and just got back to where i was and realized i'd messed it up in yet another, even worse way which requires undoing all of my rework. so i've made negative progress on it in the last five days
#its like two steps forward two steps back three steps forward two steps back two steps forward three steps back etc#whats funny is. if i hadnt undone it the second time and done a quick fix none of this would have happened#but i was so intent on it being Perfect that i gave myself a window to make a careless mistake
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I have a lot of feelings about Seon Ho not being at Yeon's funeral
I don't really think he was outright forbidden from going BUT
I don't think he was invited either
I don't think he felt welcomed
I don't think he could face them with all the guilt he was carrying i don't think it should all be on his shoulder but he clearly does
I do think that maybe if SOMEONE had reached out he could've been there
#genuinely not singling out hwi for once#he was grieving his sister and grief can make people careless and mean#i do think that his lack of care for seon ho before makes me resent him a bit more for the funeral thing since it feels less like a grief#thing and more like a pattern at that point#i also think that all his friends heard yeon ask for seon ho#and all of them could've pointed out he should be there or even ask where he was#at that point seon ho made mistakes and stupid choices YES#BUT he gave up soooo much for them time and time again#he literally got to them as fast as he could to warn them#he stayed behind to fight alone so they could escape#he should've been there#nam seon ho#seo yeon#seo hwi#my country: the new age#mctna#나의 나라#kdrama#aiden originals#am i queuing this right
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Random Dulce Fact: Dulce loves fighting.
Does he have a lot of experience fighting? Yea! Does he know how to fight? Sure! Is he GOOD at fighting?
... well.
He could be! He's in shape, he's got the size, got the dexterity! He doesn't cower or hesitate and isn't afraid to throw himself into the fray—but that's also one of his weaknesses.
See, Dulce likes fighting, but he doesn't exactly care about winning. In fact, it's less fun if he can trounce his opponent without a scratch on him! A fight is supposed to be conversational, a trading of blows, so when Dulce fights he isn't shy about leaving himself open. You can get a Lot of hits on this motherfucker.
That, paired with the fact that he frequently provokes strong people and groups (again, why would he want to fight someone weaker than him??), means Dulce's losing just as often as he wins. Largely by his own design. If he were fighting smart, or just taking things seriously, he'd probably be a lot less bruised and bloody.
#text dump brought to you with Dulce's current RP with Juno#we are having so much fun and Dulce is making so many careless mistakes#my man you are being outshone SO hard#Juno can only fight seriously and Dulce can only be a clown#dulce the delinquent#dol pc#fun fact#guys we should all talk about how our guys fight
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okay time to get ready for work, I will get through this and be as helpful today as I can possibly be!!!!!!!!! ☝️
#do NOT want to repeat my mistake of last sunday lol#and i don't want to make my coworkers worry again. they know about my bad habit of worrying about any and all mistakes#i always feel so bad when they try to calm me down. like. they don't need to..... but they still do. telling me not to worry so much#BUT I DO WORRY I WANNA BE GOOD AND NICE#but sometimes i'm a little stupid and careless... ach...
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Mine by Taylor Swift is theee SamJess song
#you were in college working part time waiting tables left a small town never looked back#you say we'll never make my parents mistakes#you made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter#like COME ON#supernatural#spn#spn shitposts#sam winchester#jessica moore#samjess
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editing my balatro gameplay footage and realizing that i could've played a flush in the game i lost and i probably would've won. oh my god i need to kill myself
#HOW DID I NOT REALIZE. I LITERALLY SAID ooh i almost have a flush! THEN GOT THE CARD I NEEDED AND IMMEDIATELY DISCARDED IT#DO I ALWAYS MAKE CARELESS MISTAKES OF THIS NATURE? WHO CAN SAY!#audie talks#balatro
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