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faithfromanewperspective Ā· 1 month ago
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still not convinced that anyone ever defined these 'great things' so i'm going to. defining them as whatever i am currently doing
what's wrong babe you've barely touched your potential even though all your elementary teachers really liked you and said you were gifted and that you were going to do great things
#this was my potential this whole time#i saw a post saying that to accept yourself you have to accept that this big imaginary potential never existed#and likening it to the way usain bolt can't maintain his 100m sprint speed for a whole marathon#which is something i've been saying for years. you run you brain you learn that it's just a part of your body like your legs#and sprint mode and endurance mode are very different things#and sometimes it's okay to choose sprint mode over the ability to work a 40hr week#but ideally you find whatever hybrid works best for you. i play on the wing in soccer and it involves a lot of jog jog jog SPRINT repeat#whereas i could never have the consistency of a midfielder#and the same goes with whatever my brain does. i gotta find an activity that can earn me money when i'm in jog mode#and that allows me to maintain a good warm pace for when i go into sprint mode and that's when i really shine creatively#(doing only anti-capitalist things of course because i am anti-capitalist by nature)#but the worst feeling is when the sprint is when you feel most alive. and yet your job drains that ability out of you#i think that's where we went the most wrong with gifted kids#sometimes you just gotta go outta the way and own it. celebrate who you are in all of your inconvenient ways. no one else is going to#accept that whatever potential you had. never did quite line up with capitalism and that's okay because YOU are worth more than it#can ever value anything you create to be#personal mental health tag
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psalmsofpsychosis Ā· 6 months ago
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yeah so i dont get the "wasn't that some fucked up shit? anyway i'm Rod Sterling" mentality some people have towards different narrative reads. It's all sweet and cool to want to explore all the different variations of a fucked up scenario, but i'm gonna need the reasons for it. I need the "why"; why are we exploring this thing? Why is it important to explore this story? what am i getting out of it? and no it's not about morality.
I dont need a story to teach me "good" life lessons, though that'd be lovely. I dont need it to be an exceptional and exemplary narrative even, but i need my discoveries to be purposeful and meaningful. Sometimes the aim for an exploration of say, a very tragic story, is to simply experiences the different flavours and nuances and complexities of a deeply held personal emotion; sometimes it helps us find the mirroring and connection and relatedness that we need to feel seen and heard and understood. Sometimes it helps you parse out your own bullshit by taking it out of your head and putting it in front of youā€“ i dont care what the reason is, but there's a reason. There's a purpose for every single endeavour you take on, even if you haven't discovered the reason yet. "i just want to experience a fucked up shit" lazy superficial thinking, dig deeper. I hate superficial and purposeless shit; and no i'm not gonna explore the 863796373th trending trauma porn piece of the day because "wouldn't that be fucked up?" nah. I dont care, it's got no use to me. I will absolutely respect the endeavour and make space for it if someone tells me something as simple as "it is relevant to me and my interests and experiences and my mental preoccupations, and helps me refine my humanity and my understanding of humanity in general", that is a lovely and true statement. But if someone keeps churning out worst possible fucked up sad scenarios one after another under the "wouldn't that be fucked up?" flag, i'm out, i dont give a fuck. take your sad shit somewhere else, i have absolutely zero space for purposeless horrible narratives that positively add nothing to my life and dont help me navigate it in any meaningful way.
#and no we dont say the same thing about happy stories because happy stories feel good. that can be a purpose in and of itself#if someone tells me that tragic stories make them feel good i can still make space for it; it's not as sturdy a means but it'll do just fin#i literally dont get the '' fucked up story for the sake of fucked up story'' crowd like ???????#you guys do understand that we live by the narratives we immerse ourselves into right?? you know that our worldviews and beliefs#and conscious/subconscious frameworks are all stories we tell ourselves right?? right?????#This rant delivered to you by me seeing that tumblr famous Tamsyn Muir quote 3 in the morning and like#lmaoooo no.#millenials leak their incessant nihilism into every fucking crevice of the arts and it's so tiring to watch.#no your constant deconstruction of meaning and purpose and value is not cute#no you're not subversive and revolutionary for creating the 85379637th Sad Shit Of The Dayā€” you're literally protocol behavior#and you couldn't be more in alignment with the moral status quo of our time.#no aimless and listless shock value traumatic stories are not fun and 'adventurous';#they just speak to you circling right back into the comfortable confinements of your socially acceptable superficiality#and vapid consumerism.#goddd i'm tired. lack of purpose frees these fuckers from ever having to align with any substantial endeavour in their goddamn lives#and they think it's so funny; it's not.#I expect something out of the stories i explore. ''tragedy for the sake of tragedy'' is the laziest thing i have ever heard.#humans are designed to be happy; they're also designed to engage in meaningful and intentional growth.#own up to anything to gives you a chance to grow and expand and change or get the fuck out of my face#this blog is an absolutely unsafe space for socially sanctioned neutered nihilism#i will hunt you for sport; it doesn't matter anyway right??
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tetradic-echinoidea Ā· 1 year ago
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I've been contemplating a lot about why I don't enjoy fanfic or fandom much anymore, and the closest thing to an answer I've come up with is that most of the time it just doesn't have anything interesting to say about the source material. The reason I would go search for fic is because I crave more of what I just watched/read(that I thought had something interesting in it), or I crave somebody to tackle something that was hinted at in the subtext, or someone who has an unique point of view to the story. Someone who looked at it and thought: now this I have something to say about.
I don't bother reading fic for media I don't care for intensely, so a lot of the "fuck canon" kinda fic just feels very boring and run-of-the-mill stuff copy pasted from one fandom to another to me. There's no moral judgement in that, it's just that most of the people who write that kind of fic clearly write if for different reasons than why I want to write or read fic, and that happens to be the dominant current in fandom at the moment.
I love character focused stories, I love eroticism, I love stories written from a marginalized perspective or bringing that perspective into an existing story. I think a lot of people in fandom spaces agree with me. But I would argue that as much as fandom claims to be transformative, most of the actual content within it is not. Even if the act of creating something just out of your love for it is transformative, the "product" at the end might not be. It's quite common for fics to regurgitate the same tired tropes, the same bland descriptions of sex and character dynamics and kinks without really delving deeper than the surface of those things. Even within fandom people bringing in new ideas and challenging the set ways of tropes or opening discussion about it are very often shot down, people resisting change and deeper analysis of what they create, wanting to shut down their ears and yell that what they are doing is transformative, and therefore the mere idea of change is bad.
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soracities Ā· 6 months ago
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Just because someone doesn't like rap or any other type of music does not make them racist or this or that.
no one is telling you that you need to love every genre of music ever made on planet earth but its naive to assume music happens in a social vacuum because it doesn't. there is a reason we value some genres and dismiss others and often that has nothing to do w "artistry" and everything to do with social & cultural hierarchies & its not radical to ask people to question why they hate some music off the bat or assume its all the same without learning anything about it to begin with.
also I need to make this clear -- rap, specifically, is not the same as pop or techno because there has rarely been any mainstream criticisms of it over the past 40 years that hasn't been tinged by some kind of antiblackness from the start. you don't have to personally enjoy it but you can also recognize that a genre of music created by a historically (and still) marginalised community is derided and dismissed BECAUSE of that marginalisation more than anything else, even when it's not your thing. that's all I'm saying.
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falesten-iw Ā· 3 months ago
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To Those Who Still Hold Onto a Shred of Morality and Humanity - Stand with Us and Donā€™t Forget Us.
Over 40,000 lives have been lost, with 70% of them being children and women. Among these numbers are my own family membersā€”many of whom Iā€™ve already lost.
My family, my cousin, aunt, their children, and grandchildren were all directly targeted by Israeli airstrikes. Iā€™m sharing a video of my aunt and cousin to reveal the harsh reality we are facing in Gaza. In this video, my aunt bravely shares her story about how the Israeli army airstruck them along with their children and grandchildren. Even if you donā€™t understand Arabic, just watching her speak will help you grasp the immense suffering we are enduring in Gaza. You can see the vedeo in this post.
The few family members who remain are in grave danger, and Iā€™m terrified of losing them too. We have a chance to make a real difference and give my 24 surviving family members a chance to live.
In Gaza, jobs are non-existent, and nonprofit organizations like the UN have drastically reduced their work on the ground. Basic necessities such as milk, food, and medicine are almost as expensive as gold. My family is struggling to afford even the essentials, and my mother urgently needs medication that we simply cannot afford.
Iā€™m also sharing another video that shows the daily struggle people face just to get clean water. The suffering here extends far beyond my family; itā€™s a genocide affecting every aspect of life in Gaza.
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mekatrio Ā· 1 year ago
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seto................
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#kgprambling#i sound like a broken record sorry but i can never get over him. kgp(r) is 10+ years old and hes the only character whose#never been anywhere near to resolving his character arc. my god#cuz literally the details of his arcs are only ever seen in novel 8 2017 and the manga isnt abt him#and even in the novel his own grief and anguish is written in a way where he is deliberately not addressing his own feelings#and even painting a false image of himself that he supposedly valued mary over everyone#(WHICH ISNT TRUEEEEE OH MY GOD i lose my mind when ppl take that at face value.#PLEASEEE stop taking things at face value. so much of kgp(r)s writing is subtextual)#but that aside seto is just crazy bc god the fact he continues to see someone who will bring doom to him and his family#just bc he cant bear to leave her to suffer in loneliness the way he had. SETOOOOOO#i cant get over that. its one thing for him to be like ayano and they both doom themselves for the sake of saving others#but seto wasnt just dooming himself he was dooming his family as well#BUT IT WASNT SOME YANDERE SHIT GODDAMNIT HELLO. shounen brave lyrics 'What if we could be saved#just like in a picture book?' i use the term 'dooming himself + his family' but he wasnt necessarily doing that#he was really and truly trying to defy that fate. he continued to meet mary in hopes of being able to defy their tragedy T_T#'If God didnt have anything for us beyond this summer; I wanted to create it with her'#AHHHHHHH DJSHCJMA how can you still think hes a yandere huh. CHASES YOU#seto tag
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spectorgram Ā· 11 months ago
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the letter
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theodore nott x f! reader summary: you get a letter from a secret admirer who wants to confess. your best friend is none too pleased. notes: jealous! theodore nott >>> word count: 1.4k
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You would think for a magical school, Hogwarts would have better heating or some heating spell, but the Slytherin dorms are frigid as usual as winter creeps up. You fasten your robe clasps and draw it tighter around you, simultaneously trying to tug your skirt down in a futile way to heat yourself up more. Your knee-high socks only do so much and you pretty much give up on the endeavor as you climb up the stairs and head for the Great Hall.Ā 
Youā€™re immediately greeted by the cozy warmth of the hall, spotting your friends, all swathed in green and silver robes and knits. Theo spots you first, sliding over and nearly knocking Blaise off the bench. ā€œBlood hell, mate,ā€ Blaise grumbles as you approach, kicking Theoā€™s leg lightly.Ā 
You slip into the space created for you, right in between Theo and Enzo. You stifle a yawn and ask, ā€œCan someone pass the eggs and bacon?ā€
As Enzo reaches for both platters, Theoā€™s eyes zero in on your legs. ā€œHow are you not cold?ā€
You frown. ā€œI am,ā€ you reply, piling your breakfast onto your plate, ā€œbut Pansyā€™s demon cat apparently thought my winter tights were toys and decided to scratch them all up.ā€
Pansy sighs, ā€œIā€™ve ordered you new ones, calm down.ā€Ā 
Theo drapes his robe over your legs and you smile gratefully at him. He smiles back and your heart flips. You donā€™t think youā€™ll ever get over how beautiful he is ā€”Ā all dark caramel curls and long lashes that frame those devastatingly blue eyes. Heā€™s been your best friend since you started Hogwarts and you knew you loved him at first sight. The longer youā€™ve known him, the more youā€™ve fallen for him.Ā 
Itā€™s a tale as old as the world itself: youā€™re hopelessly in love with your best friend but you value your friendship far too much to do anything to jeopardize it.
ā€œMailā€™s here,ā€ you hear someone say down the table. You look up to the ceiling, which has been enchanted to look like a sky thatā€™s about to break open and drop snowflakes from its clouds. Owls soar in through the openings at the top of the walls, diving down towards their intended recipients.Ā 
ā€œMaybe your new tights are here,ā€ Enzo says.Ā 
Pansy adds, ā€œI hope so. Then youā€™ll stop complaining about it.ā€
You snort, reaching up to grab a letter dropped by your family owl. You feed her a piece of scrambled egg as she takes off back towards the owlery. You tuck your parentsā€™ letter into the inner pocket of your robe just as another owl swoops overhead, dropping a pale blue envelope on your lap.Ā 
ā€œWhoā€™s that from?ā€ asks Pansy.Ā 
You shrug, using your butter knife to open it up. As you do, Draco grumbles at Mattheo: ā€œFor the love of Salazar, stop hogging the pastry basket.ā€
You skim over the letter addressed to you. You tilt your head in confusion and Blaise asks, ā€œWhatā€™s it say?ā€
Enzo peeks over your shoulder and his face breaks into a smirk. ā€œā€˜Meet me at the Astronomy Tower at midnight tonight. Signed, Your Secret Admirer.ļæ½ļæ½ā€ he reads.
ā€œWhat?ā€ Theo suddenly snatches the letter from your hand. You watch in confusion as his eyes dart back and forth. His shoulders tense and his mouth purses into a thin, hard line.Ā 
ā€œYou doing okay there, Nott?ā€ Matthew asks, shooting a simpering smile at his friend. Theo sends a glare back but doesnā€™t say anything, the letterā€™s paper crinkling under his grip.Ā 
Pansy asks, ā€œAre you going to go?ā€
You hesitate, surreptitiously glancing at Theo, startled to find that heā€™s gazing at you with an intensity youā€™ve never experienced. You pluck the letter from him and fold it neatly. ā€œI think so,ā€ you say. ā€œIā€™m interested to see who it is.ā€
ā€œBe sure to bring your wand,ā€ Draco says. ā€œJust in case.ā€
ā€œObviously,ā€ you deadpan. The conversation shifts into whether anyone was prepared for midterms coming up.Ā 
You fiddle with the letter in your lap. Theoā€™s silent for the whole conversation.Ā 
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You chew on your bottom lip as you reread the same sentence in your textbook for what feels like the hundredth time. The letter has stuck in your head the whole day. It crosses your mind that it could be a prank or a set-up ā€” itā€™s not a secret that Slytherin isnā€™t the most popular House among your classmates ā€” but you know you can handle yourself. Youā€™re more worried about how Theo was acting at breakfast. He didnā€™t say a word the rest of the meal, not even when Enzo and Mattheo tried looping him into the conversation. He just sat there, sullen and gloomy, and his mood seemed to worsen more when you handed him his robe back and said you had to get to class.
You sigh heavily, trying to play out every possible scenario that could happen between you and the letter writer. You check the clock in the library: 11:45; you need to head over to the Astronomy Tower.Ā 
You groan, gathering your things, sliding them into your bag, and making your way back to the Slytherin common room to drop off your things in your dorm. ā€œCacophony,ā€ you supply to the portrait, which swings open to let you in.
The common room is blissfully silent when you enter, a welcome contrast to the mess of thoughts in your head. Youā€™re about to head down the hall to your dorm when you collide against someone. You huff an apology but when you feel their hand on your shoulder, you look up to see Theo. He looks intense, eyes wide and glinting with sharp determination and his mouth still set in that frown from earlier. ā€œSorry, Theo,ā€ you say. ā€œDidnā€™t see you there. Where are you going at this hour?ā€
ā€œI was going to find you,ā€ he replies.Ā 
ā€œOh,ā€ you say. ā€œWell, here I am. Sorry, Iā€™ve got to drop this stuff off and thenā€”ā€
ā€œHead to the Astronomy Tower,ā€ he finishes for you, ā€œto meet your ā€˜secret admirer.ā€™ā€Ā 
You donā€™t like the way he sneers at the last part of his sentence or the way he uses air quotations. Youā€™re about to respond when he says, ā€œDonā€™t go.ā€
ā€œWhat?ā€
ā€œDonā€™t go,ā€ he repeats.
ā€œWhy not?ā€
He pauses before saying, ā€œWhat if itā€™s someone just having a laugh?ā€
You bristle, hurt, and you feel your temper flare. ā€œIs it so damn hard to believe that someone might actually have a crush on me?ā€
Theo laughs, razor-sharp and incredulous, as if he canā€™t believe that youā€™re saying something so outrageous, ā€œNo, itā€™s not.ā€
ā€œThen why shouldnā€™t I go?ā€
ā€œBecause I donā€™t want you to!ā€
ā€œFor Salazarā€™s sake, Theo, you canā€™t tell me what to do!ā€
ā€œI know that!ā€
ā€œThen are you trying to tell me not to go?ā€
ā€œBecause I bloody like you!ā€
Your heart stutters to a stop. You can only hear the sounds of both of your labored breathing and you suddenly canā€™t meet his eyes, trying your best to wrap your head around the fact that your feelings are reciprocated. ā€œHow long?ā€™ you ask softly, holding your breath.
ā€œSince first year.ā€
You blink. ā€œReally?ā€
He rakes a hand through his hair and sighs heavily, ā€œMattheoā€™s right; youā€™re so oblivious.ā€ Thereā€™s another beat of silence and he asks, a little shyly, ā€œHow do you feel?ā€
You canā€™t stop the smile that spreads across your face. ā€œI like you too, Theo. Iā€™ve liked you since first year as well.ā€
He echoes your ā€œReally?ā€ and it makes you giggle, ā€œI guess weā€™re both oblivious.ā€
He joins your laughter and you let your forehead rest on his chest as your shoulders shake. When it dies down, Theo shifts you off him and lifts your chin with his forefinger, any semblance of coyness gone. You gaze into his ocean blue eyes. Salazar, you could drown in them. He offers a charming smile and he leans close, just a few centimeters away, and says, ā€œCan I kiss you?ā€
Your eyelashes flutter and your voice comes out barely louder than a whisper, ā€œIā€™d be disappointed if you didnā€™t.ā€
Your lips meet, fervent and desperate, years of yearning releasing like water through a broken dam. Theo hooks his arms around your waist, pulling you as close as possible. You wind your arms around his neck, fingers toying with the hair at his nape. He walks you backward, slipping his tongue into mouth as he crushes you up against the wall. He deepens the kiss and your knees go weak.Ā 
Theo moves your bag off your shoulder and drops it on the floor. The letter that rested at the top of the pile of possessions falls out, laying forgotten on the ground.
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rqnarok Ā· 2 months ago
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LATCH | pervy!old man!logan x fem!reader
summary: you come up at logan at night and he finally gives in to his desires.Ā 
content warnings/tags: smut, mdni! little to no plot. old man!logan. unspecified age gap. soft dom!logan. sub!reader. pervy!logan. pet names (kid, kiddo, little girl, princess, etc). logan calls himself ā€˜old manā€™. fingering (f receiving). innocence kink. not proofread. wc: 1,5k
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Logan Howlett is not a good man.Ā 
ā€œIā€™m not a good man, sweets.ā€
He has not been a good man in years.Ā 
Still, when he scoops your sobbing figure in his arms on that day at the X-Mansion, he feels like a good man.Ā 
ā€œCā€™mon. Letā€™s go, kid. Iā€™ll take care of you.ā€
Ever since then, you look up to him as if he is some kind of savior. A hero. A good man.Ā 
And he starts to believe that.Ā 
At first, it started oh, very casualā€”innocently. By working himself to death for the sake of your comfort. Earning money so that he could see that smile on your pretty face when he gives you gifts: new dresses, books, foodā€”anything you want, really. Heā€™d give it to you.
You walk up to him one Friday, showing your brand new sundress that you bought using his money, ā€œLogan! It fits me so well, donā€™t cha think?ā€
The sight of you twirling around and giggling in front of him is enough to be his bad-day-cure, ā€œSpin one more time, princess. Donā€™t have my glasses on.ā€Ā 
He lies. He just wants to catch a glimpse of your cottoned panties in the process.Ā 
Logan perceives himself as a sick fuck when he starts seeing you in that way. But hey, he did say that he is not a good man, right?Ā Ā 
He tried to control it, he really tried. Composing himself and creating some moral values in his head in an attempt to be in charge of his corrupted desires.Ā 
But Logan forgot one simple thing: he can control himself all he wants, but he could never control you.Ā 
You may be content but you are far from stupid.
It takes you months to perfect this mastermind planā€”or so you call it. This mischief came into you when you decided that you had enough of Logan and his games. You know he yearns for you and you feel the same way, too.Ā 
He peeks over you soā€¦ hungrily and thinks you wouldnā€™t notice?Ā 
When you confront him about it one morning, he nonchalantly brushes it off by letting out a dry chuckle and mutters something around, ā€œWhat yaā€™ talking ā€˜bout, kiddo? Go ā€˜head finish your breakfast.ā€ Ā 
But you know! You always catch his yearning gazes andā€¦ hear him over the shower one time. Moaning and grunting your name when he thought you were out buying the weekly groceries. It upsets you that he does not give in.Ā 
So then, you concluded that you will determine to bring his temptation up to the surface and break his poor self-control through this little contemplation of yours.Ā 
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It takes a while to gain your courage and when you finally creep up into Loganā€™s room, the clock on the wall ticks at half past two in the morning. 2:30 AM.Ā 
Logan said heā€™d take care of you, right? Said heā€™d do anything for you, right? Well, you need him now, ā€œLogan? Logan? It hurts.ā€ You whisper into the chilly air as you shake him up from his deep slumber.
And yā€™know, heā€™s a tired old manā€”so it takes him a while to wake up. He grabs his glasses from the nightstand beside him and slides them right on. When Logan sees you standing sleepily before him in your nightie gown, Good Lord.Ā 
ā€œHey, heyā€”whatā€™s goinā€™ on, princess?ā€ Youā€™re all teared up and your lips are bitten red. You look heavenly in the shaft of moonlight that slips through the window and into Loganā€™s bedroom.Ā 
Your actions speak for themselves as you make your way onto his lap and nuzzle into his greying beard. ā€œTell your old man whatā€™s got you so upset. Cā€™mon.ā€ He wants to take a good look at your face but you are so latched to himā€”snuffling into his broad shoulder all gloomy and wretched.Ā 
ā€œHurts so bad.ā€ You repeat yourself as your arms make their way around his neck. ā€œHurts, Logan.ā€Ā 
ā€œHm? What hurts?ā€Ā 
Pure silence as your little fingers wrap around Loganā€™s wrist and place it on your knee. Then, youā€™re guiding him up up up and he knows where this is going but he could not stop it.Ā 
Fuck. He curses himself. Shouldā€™a know youā€™d pull some shit like this.
Finally, you stop his large calloused hand on top of your pussy. Itā€™s heating up. Logan can feel the warmth of your cunt through your thin white cotton pantiesā€”his middle finger twitches with the urge to palm you. But no. Thatā€™s not what a good man should do. He tries to remember all the moral values he has created in his head while he sighs deeply and closes his eyes.Ā 
ā€œKiddo-ā€
ā€œWant to cum, please, Logan.ā€ You take his face in your hands in the way that you always do and his hand is still on top of your clothed mound. ā€œPleaseā€¦! You said youā€™d help me, take care of me. Iā€™ll be good, promise. Please.ā€ His eyes open and he looks at your big eyes then your lips then your eyes again. Thatā€™s when you know you had him. ā€œHurts.ā€Ā 
With half-lidded eyes, you watch Logan lose his composure, ā€œYeah? Youā€™d be good fā€™me?ā€ His head goes forward as he pampers your face with gentle kisses and you gulp because you donā€™t know what to do now.Ā 
ā€œWhy donā€™t you lay down and let me take a look?ā€Ā 
His scent combination of beer, whiskey, and cigars lingers around you as you rest your aching body on his bed. Looking up at him all mesmerized and lust-filled.Ā 
Logan tries to soften his features for you. He thinks the heave of your chest moving up and down, up and down is one of the most beautiful things he has ever seen. He said heā€™d take care of you and thatā€™s all heā€™s doinā€™ now. Taking care of his pretty baby.Ā 
ā€œCā€™mon. Open up to your old man.ā€ He says, patting the sides of your thighs to part. And you did what youā€™re told, revealing the wet spot of your panties, and Logan curses. Mutters something under his breath.Ā 
ā€œYouā€™ve been touching yourself here, Little Missy? Thatā€™s what got you dripping?ā€ You throw your head back and huff a breathy ā€˜ahā€™ at the feel of his big fingers rubbing circles along the slick. Logan wants you to sing for him, ā€œUse your big girl words, cā€™mon.ā€Ā 
ā€œY-yes! Been touching myselfā€¦ā€ Your red cheeks heat up at your own answer, suddenly feel so little. Logan hums deeply at your reply, hooking his fingers at one side of your panties and pulling them aside. Oh, he can tell. ā€œMhm.ā€
You were in a moment of bliss until he stopped his movement and brought your panties back to its original place, ā€œShow me.ā€Ā 
ā€œL-Loganā€¦ā€ you respond by shaking your head erratically. Nonononoā€” this isnā€™t a part of your plan. This becomes humiliating. No way.Ā 
ā€œWhat dā€™ya mean no, princess?ā€ Logan grinsā€”he knows youā€™re playing something and he is not going to lose so easily. ā€œYou want me to take care of you, yeah? Gotta show your old man what you were doinā€™ so he knows what he can do.ā€Ā 
Well, he is not wrong. You let a huff defeatedly and roll yourself onto your front, shoving one of Loganā€™s pillows between your plushy thighs. And Logan is bewitched and hypnotized and fuck, so hard. His cock sticks up in his boxers briefs it hurts.Ā 
Through his lens, he attentively watches every move you make: how your nightie gown hikes up to your chest and reveals a glimpse of your breasts, how you roll your hips in circles, how you throw your head back up facing the ceiling. The noises you makeā€”sounds he not-so-accidentally heard when he passes your room at night when he comes home from work. This is what you've been doing?Ā 
ā€œAightā€™. I know the problem is, sweets.ā€ You slow down your movements as you gaze at him all doe-eyed. He places his palm on your back to still you. Your head lulls back and forth as you wait for his guidance.Ā 
ā€œYou need something inside. Have you had something inside, baby?ā€ He turns you to him oh, so delicately as if you are something fragile.Ā 
You shake your head slightly at his question, suddenly embarrassed. Logan is so hard at this. He can't hold back anymore. ā€œI see. ā€˜S alright, little girl. Lean on top of me. Iā€™ll show you how itā€™s done. Yā€™ just need to trust your old man, yeah?ā€Ā 
And you do. You always do. You love him.Ā 
He smiles down at you, showing the wrinkles and scars on his face. ā€œI love yaā€™. Give me some sugar first. Let me kiss yaā€™.ā€Ā 
The kiss is more than just a distraction. Itā€™s a repetition of him saying I love yaā€™ through his actions. What comes next is new to you, his large fingers probing at your entrance as you hiss and whimper and sob. Logan eases you open while kissing your inner thighs, letting you feel his scruffy beard. Raining you with his sweet praises, ā€œOh, thatā€™s a good girl, alright. My sweet girl.ā€Ā 
Then it leads you to it. The main purpose of your plan here in the first place.Ā 
The clothes you both had on are thrown all over the floor as he hovers above you, taking off his glassesā€”placing kisses everywhere he can reach. ā€œYā€™want it?ā€ And the tip of his cock finally nudges between your folds in an aching stretch and you mewl.
ā€œYour old manā€™s gonna take care of you.ā€Ā 
He always does.
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anantaru Ā· 3 months ago
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ā€” when he kisses you
including. zhongli, cyno, diluc, kinich
genre. making out & slightly suggestive, gn! reader
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ā€” zhongli
alongside zhongli, you feel his presence instantly, it reminds you of a comforting and reassuring constantā€” a cradling you wholly worshipped as the bustle of the harbor behind you faded away.
"thank you for showing me this place," your eyes glow as you said softly, glancing up at him, "it's beautiful."
with you, zhongli can leave his stern demeanor behind for once and actually smile, wholeheartedly, his golden eyes warm just by the mere sight of you, "it is a place i often come to for reflection."
"i thought you might appreciate its tranquility."
feeling a sense of peace wash over you, you took in the serene surroundingsā€” the gentle rustling of leaves and the soft trickle of a nearby stream creating a soothing melody as zhongli held you in his arms.
the moment felt perfect, almost surreal.
his gaze was intense, dragon eyes yet so tender when he looks at you.
before you could say anything, he leans in, his hand gently cupping your cheek to feel you on his cold skinā€” within this subtle second, the world seemed to pause as he fully leans in, his lips meeting yours in a slow, purposeful kiss.
it was unlike anything you had ever experienced beforeā€” his lips were soft, his tongue deep, and filled with a profound sense of reverence as he captured you.
your mind swirled with a mix of emotions as his kiss was turning measured, each movement precise and purposeful, as if he was savoring every secondā€” almost as if he was scared you'd one day, disappear from his lonely, immortal life.
the experience he held in life and the time he's conquered was evident in the way he guided the kiss, controlled it, drew you in and made you feel cherished beyond words.
as he deepened the kiss, a heated curl crept up your cheeks, your shyness growing with each passing moment.
you couldn't help but feel self-conscious about your own inexperience compared to his practiced, almost ancient touchā€” yet, zhongli's gentle and patient approach made you feel safe and valued, as if you were the only person in the world.
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ā€” cyno
"ughā€” today was exhausting," you exhale shakily, bound within exhaustion, yet your voice was barely above a whisper, not wanting to break the serene silence as you rested against cyno's shoulder.
and well, he? he simply looked at you, his eyes intense yet gentle, "indeed, it was," he agrees with a small smile playing at his lips, "but it was worth it, having you by my side Iimean."
the butterflies finish filling your stomach, and the spinning in your mind beginsā€” fuck, you adore him so much, and the sincerity in his tone made your heart race, "i'm glad i could be with you," you replied, your smile tight to your teeth like you're holding back a grin, "thank you for taking me,"
before advancing, he takes your hand in his, his thumb gently caressing your skin, "thereā€™s just something about you i cannot discern," he begins to ponder, his gaze never leaving yours, "that makes everything we do together feel special."
you knew what was comingā€” was this finally it? cyno has never kissed you before and beneath your nervousness, your breath hitched in anticipation.
his hand moved to the back of your neck, his touch firm yet controlled as he pressed you closer.
his lips met yours in a kiss that was anything but gentleā€” it was messy and raw, filled with a demanding passion that took your breath awayā€” it's as if he was waiting, storing this bubbling energy and deep want inside his heart for the longest time.
it pained him, fuck, he wanted to kiss you a million times already.
cyno kissed you as if he couldn't get enough, his mouth moving against yours with an urgency that left you feeling dizzyā€” truly, you could feel the heat of his desire inside each kiss and lap of tongue, in the way he seemed to pour all of his stored up emotions into every movement.
you moaned softly against his lips, your hands gripping his shoulders for support as he continued his fervent assault on your plush lips.
cyno's kisses were unrestrained, a chaotic mix of tenderness and hunger that sent shivers down your spine, no, it was beyond thatā€” well into the confines of your flesh, he took over as he nipped at your bottom lip, teasing you before deepening the kiss, his tongue exploring your mouth with a possessive fervor.
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ā€” diluc
the tavern was quiet after closing hours, even quieter after the last customer have left minutes ago as the dim lighting created a cozy, intimate atmosphere.
you actually favored this time of the night, especially when you helped your boyfriend diluc clean up the tavern, the clinking of glasses and the soft hums of the wind outside the only sounds that were almost as serene and familiar as his tender exhales.
in all honesty, he never wants you to help him, rather does he love watching you wait for him as he does all the workā€” yet he cannot lie, it makes his heart ten times faster when you really want to help him, just because you love him so much.
"thank you for staying to help," the master of the dawn winery says, despite a little awkward, yet his voice gentle as he wiped down the bar covered in wine, "you really didn't need to,"
"of course, diluc, no need to thank me," you reply, smiling at him. "i enjoy spending time with you, no matter what we do as long as we're together."
he glances at you in an almost shocked expression, like your little confession was struck inside his heart and carved there for eternity, a soft look in his eyes making your heart flutter, "thereā€™s something about these quiet moments that i cherish too,"
you felt a warmth spread through you at his words, they're always so carefully selected, so passionately exuded, and you keep sneaking little glances over to him while he finishes off his task.Ā 
as you finished your own, you too noticed how diluc was watching you with a contemplative expression and before you could ask what he was thinking, he stepped closer, his presence magnetic, his smile intoxicating.
he exhaustedly huffs out before nuzzling his head in your neck while wrapping one large arm around your waist.
you giggle, welcoming him and stroking over his silken hair as his lips brushed against the sensitive skin of your neck, sending a shiver down your spine.
the touch was soft at first, almost hesitant, but as he felt you relax into him, his kisses grew more confident.
dilucā€™s lips moved with a slow, unhurried precision, each kiss a perfect blend of pressure and tendernessā€” beyond that, he seemed to know exactly where to place them, as if he had memorized every inch of your neck.
the sensation was eye crossing, a mix of warmth and electricity that left you breathless and at his total mercy.
you close your eyes, your fingers gripping his shirt as he continuedā€” each kiss seemingly lasting an eternity when in reality, not long enough.
his mouth explores with a patience and care that enveloped you, all of his senses filled by your scent, the temperature of your body and your traces on his scalp.
the way he kissed you spoke volumes, a silent declaration of his feelings as the way you welcomed it made him feel safe.
when he reaches a particularly sensitive spot just below your ear, you couldnā€™t suppress a soft moanā€” and you're a sweating mess by now , yet diluc abruptly paused, his breath warm against your skin,
"did I hurt you?" he asks, concern lacing his voice.
"no," you whisper and tug him closer to you "it feelsā€¦ incredible."
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ā€” kinich
"kinich," your breath hitches the moment you open the door to your bedroom and find yourself looking at the mysterious man you've barely known for a week, a hand over your heart signalizing your surprise.
"you scared me."
"apologies, my dear," he drawls, smirking, his voice smooth and calm, " i didnā€™t mean to frighten you, i would never intentionally do such."
"ā€”although, i needed to see you,"
you smile at him, slightly awkwardly but granted, he did break into your home.
up till now, the tension eases as you placed your jacket on the drawer next to your bed, "uh, it's alright, it would be better if you could tell me next time."
kinich's gaze softens, a playful glint in his eyes, "soā€” you don't like when i surprise you?" he says, stepping closer, "the quiet of the night is a perfect time for surprises, no?"
you roll your eyes, feeling a warmth spread through you at his sudden nearnessā€” he's so close, but what was he thinking? what games was he playing and were you even able to participate?
fuck, there was just something different about kinich tonight, a confidence in his demeanor that made your heart skip a beat.
and as he moved even closer, you could feel the intensity of his presence and his signature musk, his eyes immediately locking onto yours.
"you want me to show you my actual reason for coming here?" he toys with you, pinching your cheek.
shortly after, he closes the gap between you, his hand gently but firmly pressing against your lower back as with a swift, smooth motion, he guides you until you felt back against the soft mattress of your bed.
the suddenness of it took your breath away, catching you off guard and as you looked up at him, his eyes glow wide.
"I couldn't help myself, ā€”couldn't get you out of my head," he whispers, his lips a hairbreadth away from yours, "you draw me in like no one else, you put a spell on me or something?"
without another word, he captured your lips in a kiss that was both confident and playful, a perfect blend of passion and control that marked the obvious in his personality.
his mouth moved against yours with a practiced ease, exploring and conquering with a fervor that left you wish for more, thighs clenchingā€” not to mention the intensity of his kiss which was simply overwhelming, in fact, you found yourself surrendering to it, letting him lead you.
kinich's free hand found its way to your hip, holding you firmly against the bed as he deepened the kiss in no time.
for the first time, you could feel the strength in his grip, the possessiveness in his touch, and it made you both a little scared and excited.
beyond second thoughts, his lips were hungry, his kisses demanding and full of a restrained desire that seemed to build up with every passing second he wasn't able to see you.
you melt against him, your hands finding their way to his chest, feeling his abs tightly as his tongue lapped around your own in a masterful dance that left you yearning for more.
"you're irresistible," he admits bluntly before releasing his grip on your hips and sliding his palm lower, "ā€”and every time i see you, i have to fight the urge to do this."
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alfheimr Ā· 7 months ago
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My Favorite Cheap Art Trick: Gradient Maps and Blending Modes
i get questions on occasion regarding my coloring process, so i thought i would do a bit of a write up on my "secret technique." i don't think it really is that much of a secret, but i hope it can be helpful to someone. to that end:
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this is one of my favorite tags ive ever gotten on my art. i think of it often. the pieces in question are all monochrome - sort of.
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the left version is the final version, the right version is technically the original. in the final version, to me, the blues are pretty stark, while the greens and magentas are less so. there is some color theory thing going on here that i dont have a good cerebral understanding of and i wont pretend otherwise. i think i watched a youtube video on it once but it went in one ear and out the other. i just pick whatever colors look nicest based on whatever vibe im going for.
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this one is more subtle, i think. can you tell the difference? there's nothing wrong with 100% greyscale art, but i like the depth that adding just a hint of color can bring.
i'll note that the examples i'll be using in this post all began as purely greyscale, but this is a process i use for just about every piece of art i make, including the full color ones. i'll use the recent mithrun art i made to demonstrate. additionally, i use clip studio paint, but the general concept should be transferable to other art programs.
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for fun let's just start with Making The Picture. i've been thinking of making this writeup for a while and had it in mind while drawing this piece. beyond that, i didn't really have much of a plan for this outside of "mithrun looks down and hair goes woosh." i also really like all of the vertical lines in the canary uniform so i wanted to include those too but like. gone a little hog wild. that is the extent of my "concept." i do not remember why i had the thought of integrating a shattered mirror type of theme. i think i wanted to distract a bit from the awkward pose and cover it up some LOL but anyway. this lack of planning or thought will come into play later.
note 1: the textured marker brush i specifically use is the "bordered light marker" from daub. it is one of my favorite brushes in the history of forever and the daub mega brush pack is one of the best purchases ive ever made. highly recommend!!!
note 2: "what do you mean by exclusion and difference?" they are layer blending modes and not important to the overall lesson of this post but for transparency i wanted to say how i got these "effects." anyway!
with the background figured out, this is the point at which i generally merge all of my layers, duplicate said merged layer, and Then i begin experimenting with gradient maps. what are gradient maps?
the basic gist is that gradient maps replace the colors of an image based on their value.
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so, with this particular gradient map, black will be replaced with that orangey red tone, white will be replaced with the seafoamy green tone, etc. this particular gradient map i'm using as an example is very bright and saturated, but the colors can be literally anything.
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these two sets are the ones i use most. they can be downloaded for free here and here if you have csp. there are many gradient map sets out there. and you can make your own!
you can apply a gradient map directly onto a specific layer in csp by going to edit>tonal correction>gradient map. to apply one indirectly, you can use a correction layer through layer>new correction layer>gradient map. honestly, correction layers are probably the better way to go, because you can adjust your gradient map whenever you want after creating the layer, whereas if you directly apply a gradient map to a layer thats like. it. it's done. if you want to make changes to the applied gradient map, you have to undo it and then reapply it. i don't use correction layers because i am old and stuck in my ways, but it's good to know what your options are.
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this is what a correction layer looks like. it sits on top and applies the gradient map to the layers underneath it, so you can also change the layers beneath however and whenever you want. you can adjust the gradient map by double clicking the layer. there are also correction layers for tone curves, brightness/contrast, etc. many such useful things in this program.
let's see how mithrun looks when we apply that first gradient map we looked at.
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gadzooks. apologies for eyestrain. we have turned mithrun into a neon hellscape, which might work for some pieces, but not this one. we can fix that by changing the layer blending mode, aka this laundry list of words:
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some of them are self explanatory, like darken and lighten, while some of them i genuinely don't understand how they are meant to work and couldn't explain them to you, even if i do use them. i'm sure someone out there has written out an explanation for each and every one of them, but i've learned primarily by clicking on them to see what they do.
for the topic of this post, the blending mode of interest is soft light. so let's take hotline miamithrun and change the layer blending mode to soft light.
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here it is at 100% opacity. this is the point at which i'd like to explain why i like using textured brushes so much - it makes it very easy to get subtle color variation when i use this Secret Technique. look at the striation in the upper right background! so tasty. however, to me, these colors are still a bit "much." so let's lower the opacity.
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i think thats a lot nicer to look at, personally, but i dont really like these colors together. how about we try some other ones?
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i like both of these a lot more. the palettes give the piece different vibes, at which point i have to ask myself: What Are The Vibes, Actually? well, to be honest i didn't really have a great answer because again, i didn't plan this out very much at all. however. i knew in my heart that there was too much color contrast going on and it was detracting from the two other contrasts in here: the light and dark values and the sharp and soft shapes. i wanted mithrun's head to be the main focal point. for a different illustration, colors like this might work great, but this is not that hypothetical illustration, so let's bring the opacity down again.
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yippee!! that's getting closer to what my heart wants. for fun, let's see what this looks like if we change the blending mode to color.
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i do like how these look but in the end they do not align with my heart. oh well. fun to experiment with though! good to keep in mind for a different piece, maybe! i often change blending modes just to see what happens, and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. i very much cannot stress enough that much of my artistic process is clicking buttons i only sort of understand. for fun.
i ended up choosing the gradient map on the right because i liked that it was close to the actual canary uniform colors (sorta). it's at an even lower opacity though because there was Still too much color for my dear heart.
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the actual process for this looks like me setting my merged layer to soft light at around 20% opacity and then clicking every single gradient map in my collection and seeing which one Works. sometimes i will do this multiple times and have multiple soft light and/or color layers combined.
typically at this point i merge everything again and do minor contrast adjustments using tone curves, which is another tool i find very fun to play around with. then for this piece in particular i did some finishing touches and decided that the white border was distracting so i cropped it. and then it's done!!! yay!!!!!
this process is a very simple and "fast" way to add more depth and visual interest to a piece without being overbearing. well, it's fast if you aren't indecisive like me, or if you are better at planning.
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let's do another comparison. personally i feel that the hint of color on the left version makes mithrun look just a bit more unwell (this is a positive thing) and it makes the contrast on his arm a lot more pleasing to look at. someone who understands color theory better than i do might have more to say on the specifics, but that's honestly all i got.
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just dont look at my layers too hard. ok?
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marxism-transgenderism Ā· 1 year ago
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I've mentioned this before but as I learn more about Indigenous history here I can't help but see more and more problems with how land acknowledgements are done. Like they're already bad cause they're so often simply a way for insititions to acknowledge that the land was stolen without actually doing anything to give the land back. But with that, they also create this false impression that only one Indigenous nation lived in any one area or state prior to colonization, isolated from the others.
Like I can't speak to other areas but here in what is now the "midwest" that is just laughably untrue. For one, trade links both between Indigenous people and with Europeans brought thousands of people together living in the same area. With that, the creation of the original 13 colonies sent dozens of Indigenous peoples fleeing their genocidal efforts westward. People like the Shawnee and the Lenape would settle alongside, intermarry, and trade with people who already lived here like the Miami and the Potawatomi. And far from some dystopic flood of peoples, the Indigenous nations here would build some of the most prosperous Indigenous communities that we have documentation of.
In Kekionga (what is now Fort Wayne, Indiana) Miami, Lenape, Shawnee, Kickapoo, Potawatomi, Odawa, Chippewa, and many others grew miles upon miles of crops which fed all. Incomprehensible amounts of high value trade goods from silver to dyed cloth to luxuries like cookware all flowed in in exchange for the furs Europeans sold back across the Atlantic. And it was far from an outlier. From the northern tip of Michigan to the confluence of the Ohio and Mississippi rivers, these communities thrived even in the face of growing colonial threats.
And it was specifically because of this prosperity that Kentucky raiders to the south and large land speculators like George Washington back east so desperately wanted this land. Indeed when the US invaded this land in 1791 and 92, it was these communities which built a huge confederation which dealt the colonizers the largest defeat they would ever face at the hands of an Indigenous army (nearly 3x the number of American casualties as in Custer's famous defeat) led by the Miami Little Turtle, the Shawnee Blue Jacket, and the Lenape Buckongahelas.
And so, from what I have seen, when land acknowledgements are done here, this multicultural history is erased in favor of only mentioning the Miami. But of course they often make no mention of how the Miami Indians of Indiana are still fucking here and are fighting to regain their federal recognition that was illegally stripped from them in 1897. Or how they even have a gofundme you can donate to which helps to restore the facilities they currently have and pays for the attorney fees in their fight for recognition.
Instead, land acknowledgements made by institutions like Miami University in Ohio or by individuals at places like Indiana University only mention the Miami, or sometimes briefly also mention the Shawnee. Thus, even in an effort to acknowledge Indigenous history, they erase this multicultural history and sidestep the issue of actually supporting and returning land the the actual Indigenous people who still live here.
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mostlysignssomeportents Ā· 5 months ago
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An end to the climate emergency is in our grasp
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On June 20, I'm keynoting the LOCUS AWARDS in OAKLAND.
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The problem with good news in the real world is that it's messy. Neat happy endings are for novels, not the real world, and that goes double for the climate emergency. But even though good climate news is complicated and nuanced, that doesn't mean it shouldn't buoy our spirits and fill our hearts with hope.
The big climate news this past week is the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration's clarion call about surging CO2 levels ā€“ the highest ever ā€“ amid a year that is on track to have the largest and most extreme series of weather events in human history:
https://www.noaa.gov/news-release/during-year-of-extremes-carbon-dioxide-levels-surge-faster-than-ever
This is genuinely alarming and you ā€“ like me ā€“ have probably experienced it as a kind of increase in your background radiation of climate anxiety. Perhaps you ā€“ like me ā€“ even experienced some acute, sit-bolt-upright-in-bed-at-2AM anxiety as a result. That's totally justifiable. This is very real, very bad news.
And yetā€¦
The news isn't all bad, and even this terrible dispatch from the NOAA is best understood in context, which Bill McKibben provides in his latest newsletter post, "What You Want is an S Curve":
https://billmckibben.substack.com/p/what-you-want-is-an-s-curve
Financier and their critics should all be familiar with Stein's Law: "anything that can't go on forever will eventually stop." This is true outside of finance as well. One of the reasons that we're seeing such autophagic panic from the tech companies is that their period of explosive growth is at an end.
For years, they told themselves that they were experiencing double-digit annual growth because they were "creating value" and "innovating" but the majority of their growth was just a side-effect of the growth of the internet itself. When hundreds of millions of people get online every year, the dominant online services will, on average, gain hundreds of millions of new users.
But when you run out of people who don't have internet access, your growth is going to slow. How can it not? Indeed, at that point, the only ways to grow are to either poach users from your rivals (through the very expensive tactics of massive advertising and sales-support investments, on top of discounts and freebies as switching enticements), or to squeeze your own users for more.
That's why the number of laptops sold in America slowed down. It's why the number of cellphones sold in America slowed down. It's why the number of "smart home" gizmos slowed down.
Even the steepest hockey-stick-shaped exponential growth curve eventually levels off and becomes an S-curve, because anything that can't go on forever will eventually stop.
One way or another, the world's carbon emissions will eventually level off. Even if we drive ourselves to (or over) the brink of extinction and set up the conditions for wildfires that release all the carbon stored in all the Earth's plants, the amount of carbon we pump into the atmosphere has to level off.
Rendering the Earth incapable of sustaining human civilization (or life) is the ultimate carbon reduction method ā€“ but it's not my first choice.
That's where McKibben's latest newsletter comes in. He cites a new report from the Rocky Mountain Institute, which shows a major reversal in our energy sources, a shift that will see our energy primarily provided by renewables, with minimal dependence on fossil fuels:
https://rmi.org/insight/the-cleantech-revolution/
The RMI team says that in this year or next, we'll have hit peak demand for fossil fuels (a fact that is consistent with NOAA's finding that we're emitting more CO2 than ever). The reason for this is that so much renewable energy is about to come online, and it is so goddamned cheap, that we are about to undergo a huge shift in our energy consumption patterns.
This past decade saw a 12-fold increase in solar capacity, a 180-fold increase in battery storage, and a 100-fold increase in EV sales. China is leading the world in a cleantech transition, with the EU in close second. Cleantech is surging in places where energy demand is also still growing, like India and Vietnam. Fossil fuel use has already peaked in Thailand, South Africa and every country in Latin America.
We're on the verge of solar constituting an absolute majority of all the world's energy generation. This year, batteries will overtake pumped hydro for energy storage. Every cleantech metric is growing the way that fossil fuels did in previous centuries: investment, patents, energy density, wind turbine rotor size. The price of solar is on track to halve (again) in the next decade.
In short, cleantech growth looks like the growth of other technologies that were once rarities and then became ubiquitous overnight: TV, cellphones, etc. That growth isn't merely being driven by the urgency of the climate emergency: it's primarily a factor of how fucking great cleantech is:
https://rmi.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/the_incredible_inefficiency_of_fossils.pdf
Fossil fuels suck. It's not just that they wreck the planet, or that their extraction is both politically and environmentally disastrous. They just aren't a good way to make energy. About a third of fossil fuel energy is wasted in production and transportation. A third! Another third is wasted turning fossil fuels into energy. Two thirds! The net energy efficiency of fossil fuels is about 37%.
Compare that with cleantech. EVs convert electricity to movement with 80-90% efficiency. Heat pumps are 300% efficient (the main fuel for your heat pump is the heat in the atmosphere, not the electricity it draws).
Cleantech is just getting started ā€“ it's still in the hockey-stick phase. That means those efficiency numbers are only going up. Rivian just figured out how to remove 1.6 miles of copper wire from each vehicle. That's just one rev ā€“ there's doubtless lots of room for more redesigns that will further dematerialize EVs:
https://insideevs.com/news/722265/rivian-r1s-r1t-wiring/
As McKibben points out, there's been a lot of justifiable concern that electrification will eventually use up all our available copper, but copper demand has remained flat even as electrification has soared ā€“ and this is why. We keep figuring out new ways to electrify with fewer materials:
https://www.chemanalyst.com/NewsAndDeals/NewsDetails/copper-wire-price-remains-stable-amidst-surplus-supply-and-expanding-mining-25416#:~:text=Global%20Copper%20wire%20Price%20Remains%20Stable%20Amidst%20Surplus%20Supply%20and%20Expanding%20Mining%20Activities
This is exactly what happened with previous iterations of tech. The material, energy and labor budgets of cars, buildings, furniture, etc all fell precipitously every time there was a new technique for manufacturing them. Renewables are at the start of that process. There's going to be a lot of this dematerialization in cleantech. Calculating the bill of materials for a planetary energy transition isn't a matter of multiplying the materials in current tech by the amount of new systems we'll need ā€“ as we create those new systems, we will constantly whittle down their materials.
What's more, global instability drives cleantech uptake. The Russian invasion of Ukraine caused a surge in European renewables. The story that energy prices are rising due to renewables (or carbon taxes) is a total lie. Fossil fuels are getting much more expensive, thanks to both war and rampant, illegal price-fixing:
https://www.thebignewsletter.com/p/an-oil-price-fixing-conspiracy-caused
If not for renewables, the incredible energy shocks of the recent years would be far more severe.
The renewables story is very good and it should bring you some comfort. But as McKibben points out, it's still not enough ā€“ yet. The examples of rapid tech uptake had big business on their side. America's living rooms filled with TV because America's largest businesses pulled out all the stops to convince everyone to buy a TV. By contrast, today's largest businesses ā€“ banks, oil companies and car companies ā€“ are working around the clock to stop cleantech adoption.
We're on track to double our use of renewables before the decade is over. But to hold to the (already recklessly high) targets from the Paris Accord, we need to triple our renewables usage. As McKibben says, the difference between doubling and tripling our renewables by 2030 is the difference between "survivable trouble" and something much scarier.
The US is experiencing a welcome surge in utility scale solar, but residential solar is stalling out as governments withdraw subsidies or even begin policies that actively restrict rooftop solar:
https://twitter.com/curious_founder/status/1798049929082097842?s=51
McKibben says the difference between where we are now and bringing back the push for home solar generation is the difference between "fast" and "faster" ā€“ that is the difference between tripling renewables by 2030 (survivable) and doubling (eek).
Capitalism stans who argue that we can survive the climate emergency with market tools will point to the good news on renewable and say that the market is the only way to transition to renewables. It's true that market forces are partly responsible for this fast transition. But the market is also the barrier to a faster (and thus survivable) transition. The oil companies, the banks who are so invested in fossil fuels, the petrostates who distort the world's politics ā€“ they're why we're not much farther along.
The climate emergency was never going to be neatly solved. We weren't going to get a neat novelistic climax that saw our problems sorted out in a single fell swoop. We're going to be fighting all the way to net zero, and after that, we'll still have decades of climate debt to pay down: fires, floods, habitat loss, zoonotic plagues, refugee crises.
But we should take our wins. Even if we're far from where we need to be on renewables, we're much farther along on renewables than we had any business hoping for, just a few years ago. The momentum is on our side. It's up to us to use that momentum and grow it. We're riding the hockey-stick, they're on that long, flat, static top of the S-curve. Their curve is leveling off and will start falling, ours will grow like crazy for the rest of our lives.
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If you'd like an essay-formatted version of this post to read or share, here's a link to it on pluralistic.net, my surveillance-free, ad-free, tracker-free blog:
https://pluralistic.net/2024/06/12/s-curve/#anything-that-cant-go-on-forever-eventually-stops
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rxmxa Ā· 1 month ago
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uranus through the houses + the future <3
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I saw this video the other day of this girl (colette bernard) who became a millionaire selling claw clips designed to look like teeth (her audience was dentists) but then she expanded when they were a hit so she has like cute claw clips designs for a dozen of professions. BUT all i remember thinking that stuff like this is so pluto in aquarius coded and weā€™re going to keep seeing people become successful more and more through their specific interests and hobbies.
she was truly self made and her passion for art changed her ENTIRE life (even though people told her it was a dumb idea). Pluto is gonna be in Aquarius for a long ass time and we know the significance it has on social changes, the collective, the government, community etc etc. This is a time for innovation and transformation, and with Uranusā€™s energy on your side, you can truly step into a future where you lead the charge in creating something new and lasting āš”ļø
the point is your weirdness, your out of the box ideas, the shit you think is straight up weird or maybe mee maw and pee paw call ā€œuselessā€ IS GONNA COME IN FUCKING HANDY!!! people are changing their entire lives everyday online and/or by finding their niche. so whatever ā€œweirdā€ idea or hobby you have, keep investing in it !! im not saying bc it will bring u money instantly (although thats always a plus) but bc it will bring you OPPORTUNITIES.
we all have our own claw clip tooth idea and we can look at uranus to show us the forward thinking/ innovative energy that can help us during pluto in Aquarius :) šŸ’™šŸ¦‹āœØāœØšŸŖ©āœØāœØšŸ’™šŸ’™
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uranus in the 1st house: moving forward by embracing your quirks and letting the world see the real you. dont ever ever ever try to dull yourself down. the right people will find you. dont shy away from shaking things up with how you present yourself or how you lead others. the visionary is YOU and during pluto in aqua you can inspire others to embrace their authenticity the way you do. in a way YOU are the ā€œunique ideaā€ so take full ownership. Dont be afraid to experiment with your style and image, especially in the moments where you are feeling the urge to try something different! Step into leadership roles that call to you! Volunteer for projects that require someone open-minded or that align with innovative (like new companies, organizations or small owned businesses that are producing/ delivering new kinds of products or services).
uranus in the 2nd house: think of unique ways to invest your money (ik theres a lot of debate with crypto) but anything thats outside the box could be a worthy venture. think about you can use tech to help you streamline your finances or organize your budget! just be open to trying new financial systems. this placement gives me the energy of investing something that others might see as SUPER random or specific but then it takes off years later. this is not me telling u to put ur savings in electric scooter stocks or something but to just be OPEN to sustainable investments that catch your attention that can help u and even ur community!! this also reminds me of tech inventors or investing in tech or USING technology as a way to help you determine the kinds of values you want to have and/or what you actually wanna stand up for.
uranus in the 3rd house: moving forward by shaking up how you show up in your online communities, or your social media presence. have you ever been interested in starting a podcasts or blogging more? (like those conversations you have with your friends about your interests or hobbies can go far or even commentary on the way media looks like and is being used now. Invest in learning new methods of communication you have been interested in (like buying that new camera or learning how to code or finally starting that youtube channel). Use your platform to reach more people!! This also reminds me of someone who disrupts the status quo with innovation in education like maybe writing new curriculum thats more aligned to our modern generation or any other platforms/ media that are up and coming and useful to students??
uranus in the 4th house: focusing on moving forward with your ideal home environment in mind. visualize it and focus on the ways you can start putting in into action! dont be afraid to start over and re-design! think about the ways you want your environment to be emotionally and physically stable for you and what its gonna look like (eco-living? smart homes? communal living?) this placement reminds me of those people that buy mansions or plots of lands with a group of friends and put their money together to help grow and live together! Don't beat yourself up if your idea of home or family doesnt fit the cookie cutter image (which is honestly going away now slowly and will def shift with pluto in aqua). YOU get to decide what home and family is and you can inspire others to do the same. Your idea of family has to align with your desire for freedom and emotional growth.
uranus in the 5th house: going all out in the ways you experiment with your art and creativity. You could be great at creating "futuristic" type of art haha (or investing in art forms that arent super popular or well known rn but you're ahead of the game and they could be popular in the future). Be bold in all areas that have to do with the 5h (think outside the box with how you express yourself artistically and romantically). Pluto in aqua will support you in u turning your creative work and forms of self expression into something that inspires people and gauges strong emotions from them! that claw clip idea was def giving uranus in the 5h energy. She was HAPPY creating it, it was a hobby first (5h) and then people told her it was useless or strange and she kept going anyway and she got to profit it from it, especially through social media (the 5h-11h axis). trust me when I say there is something out there for everybody. EVERYBODY.
uranus in the 6th house: pluto in aqua will urge you to break free from outdated systems and explore new ways to stay productive and healthy!! The traditional 9-5 might not appeal to you and thats okay because it doesnt to a lot of people and they have created their own way. Think about the tech-driven approaches you want to explore in your daily life (apps, the media you use, how you use tech in regards to your health). Think about how tech can help your productivity and your health!! This reminds me of my coworker who bought like this ultraface ring (I think thats what its called) but she loves it and its super high tech and fancy and shit and it monitors a lot of her health and its motivated her in her routines! The way we motivate ourselves looks different! You can move forward by exploring the most flexible options for you.
uranus in the 7th house: you can move forward by redefining what partnership + relationships actually mean to you. now more than ever its time to focus on partnerships where there is a sense of independence and equality. ESPECIALLY bc pluto in aqua is going to redefine and TRANSFORM (pluto) what community and friendships and relationships (aqua) look like in the first place. so be ahead of the game by surrounding yourself and nuturing your relationships with people that are not scared to break away from the norm and actually want to work together and are built to support mutual growth and freedom. dont stress trying to confine yourself to keep someone who is not open minded enough for you! find your person/ people.
part 2 coming soon!! šŸŖ©āœØšŸ¦‹
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isuckatwritingsobenice Ā· 3 months ago
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Thinking aboutā€¦
Alastor and Bill Cipher after the same s/o (headcannons)
Hazbin Masterlist // Disney Masterlist // Navigation
Warnings: Obsessive behavior! Alastor being sadistic, Bill being a bit weird because duh, wrote this with Human form Bill Cipher in mind, mentions of death
A/N: I really like this dynamic, even though itā€™s kind of crazy and a lose lose situation for the reader, but itā€™s still interesting to write about. I hope you all enjoy!!
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Alastor
ā€¢ Alastor isnā€™t just charming; heā€™s obsessed with making you see him as the ultimate catch. He meticulously plans every interaction, ensuring that you are always impressed and feel valued. Every compliment and gesture is calculated to win your heart.
ā€œWhy thereā€™s that smile I love to see my dear! Ever the beauty!ā€
Alastor canā€™t stand the thought of you being attracted to anyone else, especially Bill. He tries to mask his jealousy with his usual grace and horribly timed jokes, but itā€™s evident in the subtle digs he takes at Bill whenever you mention him.
When Alastor is alone with you heā€™s not above grand, romantic gestures. Picture him serenading you with an old-fashioned love song or setting up a beautiful, intimate dinner where he pours out his feelings and tries to convince you that heā€™s the best choice for a partner and way better than bill in all aspects of the word.
Alastorā€™s affection for you is deeply strategic. He genuinely cares, but heā€™s also careful in how he shows it. Heā€™ll often try to subtly make you see how a relationship with him would be beneficial, not just for personal pleasure but for gaining power and influence. Heā€™s a very strong man and his image is important, whatā€™s not to want about him?
ā€œDonā€™t you love this view dear? We could be here all the time, if you wished.ā€
Alastor envisions a future where you are by his side, helping him dominate Hell. His feelings are not just about the present but about creating a powerful, enduring relationship. He dreams of ruling Hell together, and heā€™s willing to go to great lengths to make that vision a reality.
But not all things with Alastor are good, you know how much he HATESSSS modern technology and well, itā€™s how the world runs now. this is something Bill definitely used against him
ā€œDonā€™t get intimated by a big screen deer man!ā€
Though he hates how Bills joke makes you laugh, his smile tightens nonetheless
Alastor will often put doubts into your mind about Bill. He is partially right, so it does make you wonderā€¦
ā€œWhat if he were to suddenly get tired of you? My dear, heā€™s traveled galaxies and destroyed universes. You wouldnā€™t want to be subject to that would you?ā€
or maybe something like,
ā€œThat little shape is no better than a toddler. He canā€™t even take proper care of his toys, breaking them when he gets bored. How pitiful.ā€
Bill Cipher
Bill is intensely infatuated with you. His feelings might come across as chaotic and erratic, per usual, but underneath, heā€™s deeply drawn to your spirit and individuality. He finds your uniqueness thrilling and wants to be the one to make your life as unpredictable and exciting as possible.
ā€œ Wanna see this guy dance with his eyes hanging out of his sockets? Gotta tell yaā€™ youā€™ll never see anything like it ever!ā€
Billā€™s way of showing affection is through wild and flirtatious chaos. He might sweep you into a whirlwind of bizarre, fantastical experiences, always with an underlying flirtation that makes it clear heā€™s very interested in you.
Bill knows how to push Alastorā€™s buttons. He often uses his chaotic antics to draw your attention away from Alastor, playfully teasing him and making a show of his own appeal. For Bill, itā€™s not just about romance; itā€™s about proving heā€™s the more exciting option, youā€™ll never be bored of him!
Despite his chaotic nature, Bill genuinely wants a deep connection with you, even if he does have a weird way of being about it. Heā€™s drawn to your complexity and wants to show you that his brand of chaos can be both thrilling and deeply meaningful. He might surprise you with moments of surprising sincerity.
Bill is not afraid to take big risks to win you over. Heā€™s willing to gamble with the very fabric of reality just to create memorable moments. His love is unpredictable and intense, and he hopes you will find that thrilling rather than overwhelming.
Bill is the type of guy to take you to a different reality for a date, wanna go watch marshans fight? no problem! upset about something? letā€™s go to this dimension where you can blow anything up!
Heā€™s definitely got jokes though, and heā€™s good at them too
ā€œHey furry, why donā€™t you cut that loose part of your hair? OH wait, itā€™s your EARS!ā€
Bill is no fool though, he sees EVERYTHING, so itā€™s really difficult to hide things from him, which means being with him also means you losing your privacy.
ā€œHeā€™s a sociopath dove, you canā€™t really believe that radio freak actually likes you right?ā€
He isnā€™t wrong, Alastor has proven multiple times he keeps people around because he needs them for something, and Bill loves this
ā€œWhat if you donā€™t satisfy him? What if he decides youā€™re not worth being with?ā€
or maybe heā€™ll say
ā€œ You never know dove, what if heā€™s just after your soul? Maybe he likes the fact you put up a good fight, eh?ā€
Both demons have their crazies to them. Picking Alastor means Bill might destroy your dimension and maybe rearrange his molecules. But picking Bill means watching Alastor rip hell to shreds at your expense, hurting anyone and everyone to get you, maybe even threatening whoever you love.
Dating Alastor means you can kind of live a normal-ish life
Dating Bill means you keep your dimension
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Looks like requests are open. Mind if I send one in?
Scenario: Their presence felt comforting to you despite everything that went down. You felt safe to open up about your insecurities to them also. Arguments are an inevitable part of any relationship, but this argument was probably the worst one you've had by far. In the heat of the argument they insult you on the very things you're insecure about. And your reaction to that was a tearful "Thanks for basically confirming that I really can't trust anybody."
How would Vil, Riddle, Jamil, and Azul react to this?
Azul Ashengrotto:
Azul, a man who was careful about allowing his weaknesses to see the light of day, knew he had taken advantage of your trust. It was only natural for him, a born businessman who had started from the bottom and was now securely at the top, to use every bit of information he had on you to prove a point; to get the upper hand in an argument that truly didnā€™t matter. Ā He had always fought to change his ways, to have his defenses up constantly, to not have his heart protected by reinforced walls, but it felt like an impossible task for someone like him.
Jamil Viper:
Jamil was the king of self-sabotage. At certain points it seemed he created his own obstacles, tossing them in the path of your blossoming relationship and becoming frustrated when it took even more effort to remove them. He tended to avoid arguments as much as he could but there were times, especially when he was in a foul mood, where he couldnā€™t help but feel the spark of anger and take it out on you. You canā€™t say youā€™d ever expected to hear such horrible things from him, the attack so direct it was unmistakable that he was trying to hurt you beyond recognition. You wondered if the relationship would even be salvageable after this as it wasnā€™t the first time Jamil had tested your trust, and even as he looked full of regret he bit his tongue, creating yet another hurdle that may truly be impossible to overcome this time.
Riddle Rosehearts:
Itā€™s all Riddleā€™s ever known. It was like falling back on an old habit you thought you kicked, filling him with guilt, embarrassment, and every horrifying emotion in between. It made him sick to his stomach to think that he was becoming his mother, the woman he had admired for so long before realizing the methods she used were cruel and unfair to him. He didnā€™t want to be her but it seemed a piece of her remained within him, not sure how to apologize to you if you could even forgive him for his harsh words. He valued your trust more than anything and it was an admitted weakness on his part that his temper got the better of him, but he had only said those things to hurt you in the way he was hurting, not meaning a bit of what he said.
Vil Schoenheit:
Vil was normally level-headed, with many of your arguments handled in a mature manner that left no open-ended questions. He disliked fighting but he there are some things he canā€™t help but get irritated over, and it can be difficult to rise to his standards at times. It almost felt like he was keeping a tally of every time you messed up or upset him as he had examples on hand to bring up, thoroughly ā€˜winningā€™ the argument to the detriment of your relationship. You had always worried you werenā€™t enough for him and words from his own mouth seemed to be prove that was the case, leaving you to shakily pack your things as you needed time away from him. If it proved a better existence, you couldnā€™t say youā€™d ever come back, a fear Vil had to live with as you refused to respond to his texts or calls while you gathered your thoughts.
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nananamiin Ā· 4 months ago
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tw || sukuna is himself šŸ’€ also this is written in my opinion and own headcanon. pls tell me what u think! :3 might make part 2
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I canā€™t honestly see Gojo maintaining a long term relationship without him having self destructive tendencies. Heā€™s not exactly a bad boyfriend, heā€™s surprisingly patient (learned trait as a teacher) and realistic, even cynical on a lot of subjects. But heā€™s has seen a lot, done a lot and been through a lot. His world has been shaken, destroyed and rearranged so he feels genuine unease and insecurity when he thinks his life is beginning to have some type of stability for once. Which can become Gojo becoming oddly unsure of himself.
He doesnā€™t understand a lot about himself even at 28 years old, which translates to him struggling to understand where he stands with you. He adores you, in the same way he adored Geto. Hell, he might love you in a more romantic manner than he loved Geto but that doesnā€™t change the fact that often when you two alone heā€™s in his own world. He doesnā€™t mean to be distant, but he overthinks a lot. He thinks and thinks and thinks and he gets lost in it. You have to reel him in. Heā€™ll learn to overcome this bad habit if you give him some encouragement and help.
Always somewhere doing something fighting God knows what. Itā€™s nerve wracking to see him come home after what seems like a week of him just in missions. This can really strain your relationship with Gojo and if itā€™s a casual thing, then I canā€™t see him putting too much effort into it. If itā€™s serious, he will try but try and do are two different things.
Not a very sexual man, he doesnā€™t have time to sit down and think about sex. Heā€™s comfortable being without it for the rest of his natural life, honestly. When he was a teen, of course he was hormonal and moody. But now as an adult, he thinks of it differently. Itā€™s not a necessity nor does he seek it out. Of course he wonā€™t mind if you initiate it. Itā€™d just be rare for him to make sexual advances on you unprompted. He also values consent A LOT. He hates things going unspoken because it wasnā€™t until relatively recently did Gojo truly did begin to understand people in general, so he wants you to be clear with him on basically everything.
His students, his work as a teacher, it means everything to him. It grounds him when heā€™s busy thinking about what if he had gone with Geto, what if Toji hadnā€™t appeared, what if he wasnā€™t the strongest, so you have to value that too. Thatā€™s a given in a relationship with Gojo and he might put his students before you. If it becomes serious and long term, he might want you to meet his students at some point.
THE master of bad puns and jokes. Thereā€™ll be a lot of unserious nights watching him reorganize his Digimon cards into his special folder for the 10th time or watch a romcom with him, just the two of you. These are moments Gojo loves and cherishes. He cherishes what you make him feel.
He canā€™t help but fall in love. Heā€™s desperately wanting to be who people think he is, to be professional, to understand the role given to him, but heā€™s human. And he canā€™t deny it to himself that when he lays down and does his daily routine of overthinking, his brain goes to you. And he has a disdain for it. The last time he got this close to someoneā€¦well, theyā€™re not that close anymore. Gojo wants to be both the strongest and the man he wishes he could be for you. But thereā€™ll be times he canā€™t be that man, he has to be the strongest because society needs him. And itā€™s emotionally taxing to both him and you.
Letā€™s be real, we arenā€™t him. We as people arenā€™t anything like Gojo so we donā€™t understand what itā€™s like being the sorcerer everyone turns to when shit hits the fan, nor will we ever carry that burden (I hope not). And that creates tension. Gojo is disconnected with people which can go both ways for misunderstandings. Heā€™s frustrated at himself that he canā€™t be what he wants to be and heā€™s frustrated at you for not being like him (maybe heā€™s even frustrated youā€™re not like Geto in the way you canā€™t understand him.) Youā€™re frustrated because you just canā€™t always grasp the severity or the way of life with being the strongest sorcerer and also frustrated because itā€™s just creating tension. But itā€™s not hopeless! Heā€™s learned that people do care for him beyond just his titles. And heā€™s learned that communication can make or break a relationship.
If you two overcome your differences, your fears, and become a long term thing itā€™s his LIFELINE. You are priority number one. That selfish, pretentious part of him really comes back, it really shines through when it comes to you. Youā€™re one part of his life that doesnā€™t depend on his strength, on this idea of his power bordering deity status. Youā€™re everything to him by not treating him so holy. And God he wonā€™t fuck it up. I canā€™t see him cheating, not even accidentally. He wonā€™t fuck around, because his devotion is so deep. And he expects devotion back. Heā€™s not possessive but youā€™re his.
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Probably the best dating option out of all the JJK men lmfao. Heā€™s responsible, impossibly patient, open minded, kind, humane and very intelligent. Not to mention, heā€™s hot! Heā€™s a total hunk with brains which is perfect for basically anyone. And heā€™s pretty sane, so thatā€™s also a plus. Heā€™d probably be the easiest to the date. He wonā€™t compare you to his exes, he wonā€™t ditch you, heā€™s great at communication and heā€™s shockingly very blunt about his emotions. And that can make everything much easier as heā€™s not very secretive. Also heā€™s very attentive to your emotions, itā€™s scary. He has to read people and situations quick to survive his missions so he has this eerie habit of reading your features scarily accurate.
Heā€™s quick to judge character or misunderstand someone, though. If someoneā€™s coming off as rude or as arrogant, Nanami takes them at face value. He doesnā€™t do soul searching psycho analyzing bullshit, if youā€™re a dick then youā€™re a dick regardless of whatever happened to make you a dick. Yes, heā€™s attentive and emotionally intelligent but in his field of work, heā€™s seen a lot of genuine freaks and weirdos. So he doesnā€™t think twice before judging someone.
He absolutely does NOT want you to be in any sorcerer problem. No. He canā€™t handle that. You could be as strong as Sukuna and heā€™s still battling himself on whether or not he should sit you down and talk to you about it. He doesnā€™t care if itā€™s selfish, he doesnā€™t care if the higher ups argue with him, the idea of you in this field of work haunts him and he hates it. Even if it helps people, he hates it because he knows at any moment you could be harmed or worse. Just this once let him be selfish in having you when all heā€™s ever done is be selfless and humane.
This may or may not upset some of yā€™all but Nanami is not a daddy dom. He doesnā€™t really care for sex much like Gojo. If it happens, it happens. But if it doesnā€™t happen, he doesnā€™t care. Heā€™s plain vanilla and he hates kinky shit simply because it just gives him a bad taste. He prefers if sex comes much much later in a relationship since heā€™s very traditional in the sense he wants a model family. Not to say heā€™s a slut shamer (my king is NOT.) but he will absolutely not find the basis of a good relationship from a one night stand. Or maybe he will, who knows? He just wants stability that wonā€™t come from someone fleeting is all.
He will stare blankly at a man joking about you in anyway thatā€™s mean spirited. That shit does not go with him because he will actually visibly roll his eyes and make a rude statement. Never ever think someone will disrespect you in his presence because heā€™d actually rather listen to Gojoā€™s Digimon rants than ever let anyone disrespect you. Even if youā€™re casual with him, youā€™re funny if you think it wonā€™t become serious with him. He has this charm to him thatā€™ll draw you to him. Can you tell I am in love?
99% of the time, itā€™s serious. Casual isnā€™t something he has the time for. Itā€™s serious and long term. Which means he expects for you to be committed, honest, loyal and humble. He canā€™t stand someone who isnā€™t those things and if you donā€™t embody that then he wonā€™t give you the time of day. He doesnā€™t play games, he doesnā€™t do situationships. Itā€™s all or nothing with Nanami because tomorrow he might not be able to visit you. And you bet your ass heā€™ll do a background check on you. Heā€™s SERIOUS.
He might falter in the way he canā€™t express himself at times. Heā€™s so used to just mindlessly staring off into space about the shit that happens to him that he sort of forgets he can also speak to you about his problems. And as mature as Nanami is, he does have his moods. He gets grumpy, he gets bitchy, he gets upset, but he wonā€™t take it out on you. Heā€™ll just silently deal with it himself, because thatā€™s the way heā€™s learned to handle the problems. It gets to a point that itā€™s unhealthy and he knows it, so heā€™s stuck in that situation of being aware of his shortcomings but he feels like he canā€™t do much about it. Itā€™s an awkward hell he can often trap himself in.
Thereā€™ll be some nights, where everythingā€™s dead, everythingā€™s still. Itā€™s just you and him in bed. And he suddenly just tears up and hugs you. And he silently sobs into your chest, clutching you like youā€™re his safety net. Because you are, he relies on you for normalcy. For love, for peace. And the way he needs it is like an addict needing their next fix. Thatā€™s why heā€™s so adamant about you not coming close to his line of work, because he doesnā€™t want to start coming to terms with that. Heā€™ll be dependent on you for emotional support because like every other sorcerer, Nanami has seen things that would leave the average man a shell of his former self. And sometimes Nanami cries to you because heā€™s so afraid that yes, he is a shell of who he was. You have to reassure him he isnā€™t.
An emotionally driven person despite his professional look. Heā€™s a kind, sweet guy at the end of the day who I can never see doing a mistake too unforgivable or having a flaw too deep that it canā€™t be overlooked. Heā€™s another man with you, a softer man. A man that lays with you simply watching a stupid movie because heā€™s got the time. And in that time, he feels normal. He feels average. Itā€™s funny; he left his salary job to be a sorcerer so he shouldnā€™t have any room to complain about normalcy since it was his choice. But still, we all strive for stability and a peaceful life. And itā€™s not a crime for him to want it too, you tell him.
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Iā€™m going to need every Toji stan to be so ridiculously for real and sit down and listen to me when I say this man is trouble. Heā€™s hot I canā€™t deny that but my god, heā€™s like an amalgamation of bad decisions. Heā€™d do casual dating solely to leech off of you if you have money and thatā€™s UBER broke man activities. Heā€™s also the type to have situationships he just either ghosts or ditches because he does not see it as worth it. Or heā€™d blow money like itā€™s nothing because he just doesnā€™t have impulse control when it comes to horse racing. Heā€™s like a walking red flag when it comes to casual dating.
Heā€™s down for casual sex but I canā€™t see him starting a relationship based on casual sex. So if you want something with him, itā€™s hard to start it simply because this man will identify that effort and shut it off or not reciprocate it. He thinks youā€™re nice, he thinks youā€™re sweet, but thatā€™s about it. Toji can be very iffy when it comes relationships. He wants something out of it, so youā€™d probably enter it knowing he has ulterior motives out of it. Sex isnā€™t a big deal to him anymore, he canā€™t see it as a big deal. Itā€™s just something he does to stroke his ego and to help himself when heā€™s in a mood. His way of being can be hedonistic. And destructive.
But, he isnā€™t just sex and gambling and eating. He is a broken man with a twisted way of love and caring because of the unfortunate circumstances he was raised in. And that isnā€™t up to anyone but him to fix. So donā€™t expect to fix him, because Toji wonā€™t do it himself. Heā€™s not a helpless case but I canā€™t see Toji doing much outside of just acknowledging it. Heā€™s also very VERY touchy on his past and on you trying to get closer to him besides anything thatā€™s casual couple things. Itā€™s possible for him to open up and be personal, but again remember he was raised in an abusive situation so he views things and himself differently than others. His understanding of the world is bleak.
Would he cheat? No. Probably not. He might see a good looking chick and stare for too long or might make a comment to himself but Toji wouldnā€™t cheat. Itā€™s not worth the screaming and breakup texts and comments. Heā€™s not the smartest man alive but he knows better. And to be brutally honest, he thinks it wonā€™t last long with you. Thatā€™s just how it is with him most of the time. He doesnā€™t see the need to cheat because A.) Either you or him will ditch the other or B.) The mess is too much to clean up.
He doesnā€™t really care what your input on his income and wasteful lifestyle is, itā€™s how he lives. And nobody tells him what to do. He didnā€™t leave the Zenin just to be told off by a person heā€™s seeing casually. And he hates it when someone does that. Itā€™s his life, not yours. But like I said beforeā€”Toji isnā€™t stupid. He is intelligent and resourceful. If he sees you truly, honestly, genuinely wanting someone and trying then maybe as you two are sat at another dinner date he looks over. And maybe as he looks over, heā€™ll see that same type of sheer joy he saw so long ago in her eyes. And maybe after years living his lifestyle, does Toji think to himself that maybe you wonā€™t flee if he stops being this pompous persona.
If every star aligns for it to happen, heā€™ll become gentler during sex. Heā€™ll start to think twice before overspending on betting tickets, heā€™ll start to walk you to your home. Heā€™s not impossible to work with but heā€™s extremely closed off and shut off from anything romantic after losing his wife. Selfishly, Toji compares every lover after her to her and he sneers at the thought of them ever measuring up to her. And yet here he finds himself awkwardly wanting to say more to you. But he canā€™t open his trap.
Heā€™s super not sure how to do PDA. Back then, sheā€™d initiate everything. So heā€™s left scratching at his head on how to show affectionate again in a way that isnā€™t sex or fake. If he really starts to feel for you, heā€™s going the extra step to make sure youā€™re on the inside of the sidewalk and heā€™s right beside you. I feel like thatā€™s the extent he can really show his affection, by doing really menial tasks people donā€™t think twice about. His hand lingers on yours when he hands you some groceries, his eyes stay on you as you talk. He hasnā€™t done this serious relationship crap since forever.
Youā€™re gonna have to correct a lot of behavior from him which is exhausting. Youā€™re gonna have to tell him again and again youā€™re not his dead wife so he canā€™t compare apples to oranges. Youā€™re not there for him to rely on to change his way for because youā€™re not a therapist, youā€™re his partner. Youā€™re not here for him to constantly depend on you emotionally to fix his deeper rooted problems, thatā€™s on him. Heā€™s a lovely man when heā€™s not constantly full of the negative things. But at his worst, heā€™s a dependent wreck whoā€™s always thinking of her.
If Toji really really does love you, heā€™ll go beyond the world for you. Heā€™ll kill and maim for you, heā€™d devote his life savings to your future with him. Youā€™d become something he cherishes more than money, more than his hedonistic tendencies, youā€™re everything. The air he breathes, the warm breeze, youā€™re his life. And he wonā€™t lose you. He wonā€™t sabotage himself to lose something he built good for himself and for you. Heā€™d honest to God turn his life around. But again, old habits die hard especially pertaining to Toji. So who knows if heā€™d really be up for it.
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No. Just no. Absolutely not. Let me say it this way; Sukuna genuinely has disinterest in anything that isnā€™t mass murder with a capital M. Heā€™d literally do everything in his power to be the most heart breaking, bigoted boyfriend imaginable. Heā€™s a wretched son of a bitch. Heā€™s the biggest red flag of the entire series. Sukuna is quite disinterested in romance and relationships as a whole.
Heā€™s a fun villain but as a lover? This man would not hesitate to be a terrible person. He has no problems beating his fucking nephew and murdering children, he has no problem being terrible with you. The only reason I can see him dating you is simply because heā€™s bored and he wants to see what the fuss is kinda like how he eat popcorn and drank soda in Shibuya. But donā€™t get it twisted, itā€™s all on HIS terms. HIS rules. He doesnā€™t give a shit what you care about or worry for. Your role as his partner is to follow what he says and if you donā€™t? Youā€™re the next pile of human mush.
If you were of use to him like Uraume, he might consider you something worthy. His relationship with Uraume proves that he can choose a more amicable and stable relationship but letā€™s be for real, he wouldnā€™t especially if youā€™re not as strong as him or someone like Gojo. Youā€™d be a plaything at best. And he doesnā€™t share his plaything. Even with Uraume, itā€™s a relationship that benefits him personally so youā€™d have to provide something of that nature for him to consider you as much as he does Uraume. And good luck avoiding all the comparison he will do to Uraume, heā€™s toxic LOL.
This can either go two ways which are 1.) you are his favored plaything. And that comes with pros and cons. The pros are that youā€™re somewhat under the protection of THE Sukuna. Thatā€™s about it for the pros because heā€™d be a possessive, controlling, dominating manchild who would expect you to bend to his whims and any backtalk would be met either a backhand or god knows what else from him. I pray for you if you stand too close to his male servants because theyā€™d be ripped in half simply because one glanced at you. Youā€™d be super isolated, your entire world would just revolve around him whether or not you agree with him. Heā€™d probably stroke your hair not out of love, but as if youā€™re his pet. His possession. And god forbid you do something he doesnā€™t like. That leads to him making your life an entire inconvenience to the highest degree.
Impatient and would probably roll his eyes and gaslight you at every turn and tell me Iā€™m wrong. Heā€™d probably laugh and clap if you fell and sprained your ankle.
The second option would be the Uraume route which is a subordinate that can provide him something thatā€™ll be in service to him. I imagine heā€™d be the biggest bitch ever and very particular so youā€™d have to deal with him but the benefit of that would be the fact that heā€™d let you stand close to him and have him cross his bottom two arms over his thick, muscled chest whilst one hand rests on the small of your back to keep you close to him as he overlooks his destruction. It sounds insane but I can see him thinking better of you after sometime as his subordinate. And even in this route I feel like the possessive, selfish streak will continue because youā€™re actually funny if you think Sukunaā€™s selfishness has any stops. He will be selfish and probably bodyblock anybody from staring at you.
I can see why Gege wants him so bad though heā€™s so fine
Honestly, with sex I feel like he really would not give a shit. I mean yes, he has his group of women, but it bores him. Sex doesnā€™t thrill him unlike fighting, unlike the ability to wreak havoc to a small town that has no choice nor power to defend itself. He understands sexual attraction but I canā€™t see Sukuna acting on it. He might find you attractive enough to keep you locked up in a dungeon or in a chamber but I feel like he wouldnā€™t exactly seek you out. Youā€™re more of an afterthought to Sukuna. And you better be comfortable with that because with him around thatā€™s not changing.
Best case scenario? You mean something to him like a useful subordinate he WOULDNā€™T kill alongside his other servants. Heā€™d like someone resourceful, quick on their feet, intelligent, witty and someone who can understand him which is really weird to say about someone who would skin a grandma. He wants someone to just get him off the bat because I really feel like Sukuna judges hard, especially if youā€™re someone heā€™s seriously considering giving respect.
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