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Do unironically and genuinely love that in fandom we will say "there is no platonic explanation for this" completely straightfaced and then go back to writing pornography tailored to our friends' turn ons, which we have extensive knowledge of, to gift them as an entirely platonic gesture.
#'hey bestie love of my life and good friend who I am in no way making a pass at: I wrote you some piss kink with crying. who loves ya baby?'#and we really aren't making a pass!*#blorbo touching his friend's hand is indisputable evidence that they want to fuck each other so bad that it's causing brain damage#but we're built different#*(I mean I do know couples who met through fandom so I guess sometimes people might be making a pass but usually we're not)
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what if maggie in golden grove
#akia art#olba#olba mc#maggie's impression is brought to u by my recollection of portland..i mean no offense oregonians#i was hoping to draw a couple sprites but got humbled by just the one so we're posting early (we're giving up#i'm neither patient nor skilled enough to try this sort of gorgeous rendering more than once 🤣#olnf's artist is built different LOL#i'm happy with it tho i think it's convincing enough in passing
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Jenson has never called Daniel the "golden boy", I've looked for it for years and always end up back at your blog.
and it wasn't even the only time boooo 🍅🍅 boo jenson loves the golden boy more than he loves you boo 🍅🍅
#1. you could have just asked where its from instead of being a rude CXNT PLS????#2. resist the urge to pretend like daniel was never fast or never highly regarded. like.#3. this genuinely wasnt the only time jenson has said that but now youve made me a HOARDER#4. research talent on 0 :/ sounds like a skill issue :/ could never be me :/ i would have found it in 5 mins :/ we're built different ig ://#daniel ricciardo#jenson button#f1
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It sometimes takes a lot of willpower to not be weird and parasocial with someone as fucking cool as you
if it helps to sorta break the facade, Im only revealing a highly curated selection (maybe 10%?) of my total personality, day to day shenanigans, and goofus behavior online. You're not exactly getting the full experience and while I may look cool its like that fleeting glance you get from the hot goth woman at the hot topic who looks like shes got her shit together because shes got some sick tattoos and a great fashion sense and huge knockers and long hair and I completely lost track of what I was saying
#ask and mew shall receive#We're all the same just a bunch of nerds#Except for the hot goth girls#They're built different
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SAY IT AGAIN CHAMP
#swerve strickland#he said 'an hour? oh no thank you. i knocked that man out in half the time. we're built different'#thats MY champ#aew#aew dynamite#dynamite lb#aew lb#will ospreay
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thinking about kab and the thing about her i think is she knows just enough to keep herself safe Generally but not enough to really predict what would happen should something more... complicated??? unforeseen??? idk whats the right word to use but something not covered by someones reputation and/or vids happen, believe it or not this also affects her view of clownpierce (we'll get to that)
for example, mapicc has a reputation for being an violent, angry, & impulsive guy and nothing else which makes sense but is incredibly surface level and something that only really works if you dont have a lot of experience working with him
another is reddoons, his betrayal after the base incident while shocking is not unforeseen but his reputation as being a guy whos seen as being a reasonable person whos fairly loyal to his team made it seem like something he wouldnt do even tho it absolutely is
regarding how it affects her view of clown, since he isnt perfectly aligned with his reputation she instead pivots in the complete opposite direction and forgiving basically every crime he does even tho hes something much more mild and complicated than either his reputation or her view of him will ever be (think madonna-whore complex which is especially obvious when it comes to kabs vs woogies view of him)
another side effect of this Just Enough amount of knowledge aside from being blinded by her own expectations is that it frustrates ppl who think shes oversimplificating things (like me and seemingly several other tumblr users as well) especially when she claims that shes objectively correct and the smartest in the room at any given moment
how this roughness in her analysis affects her in the server still has yet to be fully seen but we do still have at least a couple months until the end but 'til then shes just gonna keep stumbling as more and more complicated situations pop up as is typical in lifesteal to happen and eventually shes gonna have to learn to adapt or else she'll be suffering the consequences one way or another
#mine.txt#analysis#ig. this is very rough tho and is more just thoughts than anything#but i wanted a tag so i can get back to this later to see how right or wrong i am#another thing that affects this is the cc/c divide which is something she likes to take control of#one of the ways it manifests is that she likes to go in and out of it frequently which can be incredibly distracting#esp if youre someone like me who wants the lsers to just. be themselves and get immersed in whats happening around them#and it doesnt help that her and her character can have Very different feelings on a situation#basically the cc/c divide or at least how kab likes to use it affects the way she acts because shes got an idea in her head already#of what to think of the other ppl in the server which makes her inflexible when unexpected things come up#as opposed to when shes just being herself reacting to things#which is unfortunate but i think reflects on how outsiders vs insiders view lifesteal#the reality vs expectations of the audience are so incredibly different esp if you only watch the vids#so much so that while watching kabs vid my initial reaction was that she wasnt as big a ls fan as i originally thought#then realized no this seems like the exact sort of thing id expect from someone whos only seen the vids; particularly of the pvpers#(specified pvpers cause only watching the pvpers vs other kinds of players on the server are Very different experiences)#tho the thing about kab is she Does have insider knowledge!#.... mainly from ppl who dont log on a lot (ash and clown and maybe squiddo)#so naturally thats gonna give her a biased view of how the server works one way or another#the exception to this would be zam telling her about eclipse federation but i think either she doesnt know or severely underestimated#just how much lying; manipulation; keeping secrets; and yap sessions built on incompatible motives and morals happened#that made s4 the way it is not only in game but outside of it as well#''we're at our best when we hate each other irl'' - reddoons according to zam
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Dame Aylin is just like me fr because if I had the incredible good fortune to be bonded at the soul to Isobel Thorm, I would also be fucking her constantly and be the loudest, most dramatic Theater Kid Lesbian about making sure that EVERYBODY knew
#nothing but love for my autistic lesbian theater kid queen#rip everyone who prefers not to know these things about their coworkers we're just built different#bg3#bg3 spoilers#dame aylin#bg3 aylin#aylin x isobel#lesbian tag#mine: text#actual about me#baldur's gate 3
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Love that the team continued to uphold Lloyd being extremely mentally unwell at all times. Barely functioning but insisting its fine. Plagued by the visions™. Legitimately had a panic attack when everything started to go wrong. Completely willing to fuck over his entire physiology with weird dragon magic because "yeah that'll probably be helpful later". Waking up screaming and shrugging because its totally normal to have nightmares that horrifying on the regular. A+ on this assignment lads, you've broken Lloyd down to his bare essentials.
#ninjago#ninjago dragons rising#lego ninjago#lego ninjago dragons rising#dragons rising#lloyd garmadon#text post#talk#ninjago team#it was WILD to hear lloyd say 'my panic attack' like OH#YEAH THAT IS WHAT THAT WAS. COOL SO WE'RE ACKNOWLEGING IT#lloyd has zero understanding of basic mental health#and the parts he DOES understand he just chooses to ignore bc 'im built different'#my sweet summer child you sure were built different. you were built so different that you need like#triple therapy#lloyd is hanging on by a thread#that thread has snapped multiple times#somehow there is always another thread underneath for him to catch#usually this thread was thrown down by the others to make sure he doesnt fully plunge off the deep end#because frankly if he does it will go one of two ways#hes going to kill everyone in this realm OR himself#the fun part is figuring out if hes gonna do either of those things on purpose or total accident
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i mean it when i say we've gotta bring back askblogs. bring back making character chat posts with poor choice text colors over random backgrounds. bring back blogs dedicated to what outfits you think characters would wear.
fandom is an ecosystem, not a numbers game. these types of blogs/posts/etc still exist in concept, because people still want to make them and they're a great way to get your thoughts of an idea out in a simple format, but most people make them on like tiktok or instagram reels and that's where the problem lies. Those videos don't go anywhere. The format doesn't allow for the discussion to spread through the community and they're less likely to be engaged with in general. And to make them most people have to either show their face or figure out editing software, so the barrier to entry is higher (editing) and/or they have to forfeit an amount of privacy.
those types of posts/blogs are the first rung of the ecosystem. they're the perfect environment for younger members of the fandom to begin safely interacting with the larger community and putting their own thoughts and ideas out there. roleplay is the other major spot for that and those communities are diminishing as well, honestly (if you know of an rp forum board site, cherish it. and if you can make one, make one). they allow younger fans to begin engaging with the source material on a different/deeper level, but still at a very low barrier to entry, and begin conversations with other fans, which also helps them build skills which in turn may encourage them to pursue other avenues within the fandom (fic writing, other formats of askblog - which itself usually leads to art, cosplay, also fic writing, etc). Without those places to build those skills, they might feel discouraged from trying to begin when surrounded by curated people who have built their skills up for years.
And those conversations they foster also in turn help the community, by offering ideas to artists or fic writers to extrapolate on or building community jokes. And that text/blog format specifically is extremely beneficial, because it allows younger members of the fandom to remain anonymous and keep their privacy without concerning themselves with having any platform or having anything attached to them (very important for young fans figuring themselves out and navigating online community spaces for the first time, since they can remove themselves from spaces easily if they decide they don't like it and they're protected, rather than PUTTING THEIR FACE ON THE INTERNET). And those posts they make will spread a lot more into the community since they're in a significantly easier format to be reposted (few people are gonna be reposting tons of random short-form videos versus spamming their instagrams with reposts of 10 random fandom images yoinked from tumblr, or reposting to pinterest or something). Like, don't repost art, at the VERY least don't repost without credit, but also I am not ignorant to the fact that my art is not just the first google image result for "pjo pride" and related searches, but also the 4th, the 6th, the 9th, the 10th, the 11th, etc etc., and pops up in the search results before the official ReadRiordan does simply because people reposted my work more (most with credit, thankfully).
For fandom to be a community, it needs to perpetuate itself. There needs to be engagement with one another and conversation. If that bottom rung is cut off, then new fans won't be able to grow into the other niches of the fandom, and the fandom will be solely reliant on the source material and die out extremely quickly, and there won't be a community. There's no conversation! There's no reason to stay beyond the original material! But if you don't have points of entry for new fans, they won't have any way to build the skills needed to move into those niches, or engage with the community in a healthy way.
tl;dr: Bring back askblogs and character-based text post blogs. They are vital to fandom ecosystem.
#fandom#long post //#i know many people jest about tumblr posts being reposted often to other social media#but there's a reason for that! because few other social media these days are primarily text-based! and tumblr is a BLOGGING website!#we're built for sharing random essays! which means we have a LOT of word-heavy stuff#that other platforms can really only have in a different format - usually either image or video - due to character limits#and videos - even short form video - is far less engaged with because it takes more time to interact with#and short form videos of this nature ^ are usually only reposted in like. long-form video format compilations#which are pretty equally if not even less frequently interacted with#because most of those other social media platforms dont have good ways to easily share posts en mass like tumblr's reblog function#so even if those posts do get shared they rarely go far and even if they do they dont stick around#i also personally dont think it's coincidental that general fandom attitude shifts occurred circa 2016-2018#around the same time as the major shift away from tumblr due to the bans#anyways if you run one of those types of blogs i respect you immensely#you are underappreciated but you fulfill an important ecological niche#also i know rp blogs are still a thing but theyre much more scarce and rp communities in general are drying up
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KILL!!!!!!!!!
#my post#this is so mean. why did i make this#but also....... the gun is in your hands now#i'll admit that it's my fault for putting the gun in your hand... however i've no say in what you choose to do with it#will you pull the trigger and accept whatever happens from now on? will you give yourself into the role forced upon you?#no one will know anything if you don't say anything. there will be no consequences or repercussions to this choice#but you will know. and you will need to live with that knowledge for the rest of your life#a gun not fired is like an itch not stratched#in the end i have no control over what you do... but free will is a funny thing#the brain is very susceptible to suggestion... everything we see and experience will remain with us in some way#if that's the case then how much control do we really have in our lives? how do we separate what we really want vs what we're told to want?#things like hunger... desire... they're all things the body asks for. but are they things that we truly want?#or are they merely a mechanism built into us for the sake of survival?#everything blends into everything. your past actions will inform your current actions. you're the only one who's ever lived your life#you're the only one who will ever live your life#little variables and experiences we all share... but the order varies greatly from person to person. everything is just a series of events#the way i see the world is different than the way you see it regardless of how similar they are#what choice will you make now? and how does it differ from the choice you would've made a week ago? a month? a year? does it differ at all?#does free will truly exist? i think it does... but not in the way most people think it exists#you and i... we might differ on that thought. or we might not.#regardless of whatever i've been rambling about right now... refusing to make a choice is still a choice you make. life is ironic like that#does one of them really have to go? that's for you to decide now#i've merely chosen to put the gun in your hand. to make you aware of the possibilities#so i hope you realize what power your choices have#dca fandom#daycare attendant#yeah sometimes i just say things that i think are deep but they're really not#i hope the choices i make have an effect on others. even if it's just one person...#if i can make even just one person think about something they wouldn't have normally thought about then isn't that a win?#life is a series of choices... ''it'd be great if you could see a figure of light by the time you die'' ♡
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it's cool that you think l'amica geniale isn't actually about friendship. you can go fuck yourself
#jo in the tardis*#it's about this friendship between these two girls existing as a monument in the ruins of time#them melting into each other is a revolt against every violation of the body in their stories#because it's a violation of somebody's headspace with another's#when i say their stories i don't mean just their personal stories i mean every person that was responsible for their existence#everything is cyclic and everything is dissolving and the only thing you can do to rebel against it#is to be somebody's friend.#lenù wonders if she's important in the grand scheme of things throughout the whole book#but the culmination of it happens at the very end where her daughters disregard her work#and it's significant that it comes from her daughters. it means she hasn't done anything#she's her mother. with all her education she is her own mother to them.#only for lila to send those dolls... it's like... you and me exist as this fixed point in time.#this is how we're different. it's the whole plebs idea constantly being revisited.#the only way out is through a friend. it's not breaking the cycle. cities will burn and be built again#and change is unoriginal. you can only win if you build a city in someone else#l'amica geniale#platonic romance: you've read my book#this is the point because i said so.#2 in 1: little dot with the flames round it
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systems playing in stars and time are like minecraft mob generators for siffrin
#not us though we're built different and have no brain siffrins#our condolences to those of you who do /silly
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no honestly imagine someone who you were romantically involved with and lived with for a year in a nuclear-family situation saying that you have a "unhealthy, tangled up, crazy thing" with your brother and that they knew "the minute he walked through that door" it was over between the two of you. and then ALSO says "i'm close to my sister. but if she got killed? i wouldn't bring her back from the dead." like i would honestly just bury myself alive if i got read that hard.
#dean's just built different i guess. i seriously don't know how he lived through that without screaming crying throwing up etc#probably because it was all true and he knew it#but he should've felt a lot more shame i'm not gonna lie. your ROMANTIC PARTNER says she knew your relationship was over#as soon as you figured out YOUR BROTHER was alive. NO ONE SAYS THIS SHIT ABOUT SIBLINGS??? and especially the callout from someone who's#NORMAL ABOUT THEIR SIBLING...#like why do people act like we're insane and reading into it too much when this was literally said in the show.#by someone dean was essentially MARRIED TO no less#i just. phew.
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i keep going thru cycles of not giving a fuck and then giving a fuck so strongly tears pour out from my tear ducts
#spacie spoinks#those are what?#mood swings?#no man im just built different#its an entirely unique thing that im experiencing right now#no no we're not similar#no#i just said no#you're not listening are you
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I had a vision
#my art#rdr2#charthur#charles smith#arthur morgan#originally they were gonna be in a car but horse was funnier#i know it's not good for two people to ride a horse but we're going by rule of funny here#taima is just built different ig#also love the implication that it's still 1899 but they have smartphones and the internet for snapchat#and fast food
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The dislike for found family stuff probably comes from the way it's handled in fandom tbh. Mainly fandoms that have popular found family headcanons - like the Batfam fandom - like putting the characters into strict family roles and cut off any parts of their personality or relationships that don't fit those roles. E.g. in the Batman fandom people keep calling Dick everyone's "older sister" because they think of him as too stressed and undervalued to be the older brother in the dynamic or so so they tend to interpret him as always super cheery and soft and nice because his other traits don't fit into that 'lovable older sibling' trope. Stuff like that.
okay see i guess my thing is that i dont really connect that to found family because im too busy raising my fucking eyebrows over the blatant misogyny in calling him an "older sister."
#og post#ask#anon#NOT you anon i mean the ppl we're talking abt#like i just. it would never occur to me to have a problem with the trope over this lol im built different i guess
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