#but not at all in the same degree

[skruffie]

three years ago today (dec 3rd) I went back to the Seattle office for the first and last time since the pandemic to turn in my telework equipment. Barely anyone was there because... pandemic, so when I came into the office I wasn't sure where the motion detectors were and it was pitch black. Eventually the IT guy was there and he got the lights on, and the sun was starting to rise.

I had this rather uh, intense emotional reaction to going back to my cubicle that is a bit hard to describe because internally it felt like I was getting triggered by something, and I'm still resistant to describing it as being exactly that, but it wasn't pandemic stress that was triggered. It was remembering how overwhelmed I was with the work prior to the pandemic, including the beginnings of what would later become weekly panic attacks. I got really sad looking at the calendar I had up where I had begun crossing out each month in anticipation of when I'd get promoted and was forced to pause in March 2020. It was a lot.

The office manager was there at some point and I got closure on the office plants. She'd gathered them all in one location and kept them alive.

Eventually my supervisor came too and we organized some of the last paperwork that had been sent from the regional office I'd been working at, and around the late morning she was like "I guess this is it!" and gave me a container of stuffed cabbage rolls she'd made herself. This gesture was really bizarre to me and I didn't know how to feel, because up until that point all of the work I had done and my accomplishments and milestones had gone completely unacknowledged. I had taken on (my idea) paying the concrete goods vouchers for our office "temporarily" for the two-three weeks we were meant to be shut down and still doing it up until a month before I quit. When the daycares were shutting down, all the foster kids that had been in part-time daycare were getting their payment codes updated to full time so the daycares could still receive money even if the children weren't going. I spent two days converting over 300 codes manually. When the eviction moratorium was about to expire I emailed my supervisor like "hey, what's the protocol for this when we're going to be getting requests to pay rent for families that are waiting for their kids to come home" and found out within days, after my email was sent up to the CFO, that nobody in headquarters thought to consider that.

The regular feedback I got was that I was very good at customer service, but I just needed to make the payments and not try to undermine the authority of the social workers in their cases. I will never forget my first supervisor, after listening to me detail how I helped a social worker map out how a kid was getting from county to county using our transportation service "You think too much like a social worker" as a criticism. Years later I've had social workers say I was their favorite fiduciary and I was like HUH?? Asking them why, because in my head I was always late on payments and responding to emails, and they were like "You actually took the time to listen and help us with the complicated payment and placement problems."

That job torpedoed my physical and mental health, both of which only really started to bounce back within the last couple years. The stress of that job had me calling crisis lines during panic attacks not because I was suicidal but because I just needed somebody to talk to. I contemplated taking up smoking. The physical toll it took on me left me with PMDD-type/inflammatory physical symptoms on a monthly basis for years that is re-triggered by extreme stress; debilitating enough to where I tested multiple times for COVID when I felt sick.

Three years on I'm doing much better. 🖕

[aroaceleovaldez]

Nico referring to his mom as "Mama" implies he most likely at least used to refer to Hades as "Papa" and i 100% headcanon he still does but mostly in the manner of him having the entire Underworld wrapped around his finger for being the baby of the family

[wanna-bee]

TEEN WOLF nostalgia Favorite Characters, Season 2: Stiles Stilinski

[fear-no-mort]

shoutout to rick prime knowing evil morty for like 5 minutes at most and IMMEDIATELY dropping the whole “i don’t need a sidekick” thing for basically single-handedly proving that there is not one rick in the whole world that is immune to morty and every conceivable version of rick really adores this kid more than anything in the whole universe

[sukibenders]

Me, watching some YJS fans justify what Shauna did to Mari by using clips of Mari and Jackie giggling in s1 (normal teenage girl things), or Mari speaking the truth and trying to take Jackie's jacket (even though it was the middle of winter and the group were already sharing clothes), with said fans saying that they've would've done worse to Mari in response, acting like that makes them any better:

[cuppajj]

i think by the end of the baau plot Crepe should call Dark Choco dad (or alternatives)

i think these two would be a silly found-family

(please i need dadchoco content *sobs loudly*)

We are here for found family crepe and choco!!!

[theartofeggs]

ALSO ALSO QUICK I HAVE TO SEE ALL THE DRAGONS AS BABIES!!! ❤❤❤😍😍😍 AWWWWW

official baby chart <333

[cybertron-after-dark]

Being constantly surrounded by the presence of a loving God sounds great until you realize you never know when his freaky fuckin eyes are gonna show up to check on you.

And man. They do it a LOT.

[aroaceleovaldez]

the dynamic of demigods thinking which other demigod is the most powerful is always amusing to me because. like, we know the big 3 kids are all the most powerful. That's just a fact of their universe. And then we know nearly every character views Percy as the strongest demigod, and most people are very rightfully intimidated by him.

and you look at the powers of the Big 3 kids and there's Percy, but then you realize Nico is just kind of objectively more powerful than him but simply chooses to hang out in Percy's shadow like he's Percy's scary dog privileges. Like, the two of them are pretty equally capable of causing multiple different apocalypses. Nico just also has like four different instakill powers and it's not like he doesn't use them. He very much uses them! Not infrequently, even! And they don't seem to take a significant amount of energy from him! And other demigods are pretty intimidated by both of them! But Nico makes a conscious point to keep his cards close to his chest and not let on exactly how dangerous and scary he can be if he wants to. People are already scared enough of him without knowing anything about him and he doesn't like that. Percy doesn't think about that nearly as much, and so usually just goes in guns blazing and that's part of why he's considered a wildcard. And then Nico himself puts Percy on a pedestal, so those who do know more about Nico's abilities then presume Nico knows something they don't about Percy that implies Percy is even stronger than him.

And even on a meta level Nico's narrative role requires him to be functionally more powerful than Percy, because he very often serves the purpose of getting Percy out of situations he can't handle on his own. That's just part of his function as a character! But also narratively he can't overshadow Percy so he just takes a backseat of his own accord and that's very amusing to me.

[clumsypuppy]

learning abt friendship decay and "not reaching out to your friends for months at a time unprompted is not neurotypical behaviour" has me feeling a certain way

[pasdetrois]

Marina Dyachenko and Sergey Dyachenko, Vita Nostra (tr. Julia Meitov Hersey) • Mircea Suciu, Camouflage (2) • Agostino Arrivabene, Immutatio • Matthias Claudius, "Der Tod und Das Mädchen" • Henry Fuseli, The Nightmare • Dragan Bibin, Pull (edited) • Maria Kreyn, Angel's Back • Franz Wimmer, Death and the Maiden • Mel Chin, Bat and Dove • Ana Sanchez, Death and the Maiden

[anghelcode]

type of shit i ramble on twitter about

[superbat-lmao]

Damian Wayne stuck in a time loop.

It resets when someone dies, and since Damian is the youngest, it doesn’t matter how rocky his relationship is with the bat-siblings, each and everyone one of them sacrifices themselves for him.

And Damian is pissed off because he doesn’t understand why.

Grayson is obvious, he has made it clear that he feels affection for Damian and has made the most effort into integrating him into the family. Of course he would die for his little brother. And at first, Damian believes he finds this outcome to be the least acceptable.

There is also his Father, again, a logical expression of love. Damian can understand why his Father would die for him, even if he doesn’t want him to. Even if, in the first few loops, he wishes that anyone else would die instead. At least it’s a type of parental relationship he can understand in the abstract, even if it surprises him to see its true about himself. That even though he has several older brothers and is unsure of his place by his Father’s side, the man would do anything to protect him. It reminds him of his Mother, even though he’s sure if she were here she’d find a way for the both of them to live.

Brown is the first one to surprise him. They had worked together when Grayson was Batman and he recognized her competence, but he thought that’s all it was. A working relationship between professionals. A mutal, if grudging respect. He is shocked when she dies, how he had no clue she would go that far for him. How he refuses to let it happen again.

If Brown was a surprise, Cain was a shock. Damian thought of her as nigh invincible, unable to be touched. It was clear she was the best of all of them, that she had seen the hit miles ahead of him, had maybe even seen him brace for it. But she had chosen to let herself go down. He feels every bit his age as he begins to wonder if he’s even more powerless to stop this than he thought if his most competent sister chose to let herself fall.

Thomas was confusing. He was new, newer than Damian and not quite sure of himself. They rarely saw each other aside from school due to the mismatch in schedules. Thomas gave him a wide berth, respecting Damian’s space in a way his other siblings failed to do or intentionally disregarded. Damian didn’t think much of him. Couldn’t understand how Thomas hadn’t even paused, had taken the hit as if it was an unquestionable law of the universe. As if they were really brothers and not strangers. It was a sentiment Damian didn’t know how to return.

Todd was the worst. He had seen him, briefly, before he had come to Gotham from the league. His Mother spoke of him rarely, but with pride. He was skilled, if untamed. He avoided the manor and his brothers and their Father. The only one he usually sought was Pennyworth. That is why Todd was the worst. Because he avoided all of them. Because this family had already allowed him to die before and he had come back wrong. A painful reminder that their family has failed. And he fought so hard to remind them all of that failure, every way he chose to keep fighting to live, to prioritize his own life over their Father’s morality. Only to throw it away for Damian. To force him to watch how his brother’s second death shattered their Father and Pennyworth and Grayson in a way that Damian didn’t think they’d survive a second time.

Drake is incomprehensible. Antithetical. A cosmic error. Impossible. There is no love between them, no grudging respect, nothing. Damian can’t stand to look at the person who he feels is a disgrace to the costume Damian now wears. He is the one who dies for Damian the most. The one he can’t possibly understand. The brother he has the least time to question, who gives him the least answers as to his motivations. Who will both die for Damian and refuse to utter a word to him in the same loop. It is madness. Damian needs to prove himself above this embarrassment, and yet Drake chooses to be beneath him. To die for him. It is in spite of Damian’s skill that Drake dies, and Damian hates him for it.

[crrows]

daytrip to a chikubushima

[mothinabottle]

Lalita out there collecting gfs like pokemon 😔

"She's a bit rough on the edges. But she is still worth a shot-" The tall girl was interrupted by a kick to her ribs courtesy of the small girl trying to crawl away from both of you with all her might "OW-" "I'm not- LET ME GO." You were sure her shouts were going to attract some glances from passersby. But at this point it wouldn't change a thing. Their sole presence was akin to a circus show...or a car crash. Yes, that seemed to be more accurate. "I AM NOT UP FOR THIS BULLSHIT"

"Language. Jeez. As I was saying..." Hana was probably trying to contain her laughter by the look of her face. Her melodic voice carries on, yet you space out. Something told you this would take a while. At least it was amusing in a weird way.

It seems you've gotten involved with a weird pair. A package deal you are not sure you wanted in the first place. ++ Stress

Good luck

@m2nlight you just had to reblog when I was working on the response to your previous reblogs JASJA 😭. Love ya <3

[dolskele]

WIP of Luca and Jermy in the COTverse👍 aka moving out of DOLville to go to college

Adding onto Luca's lore, he enters college after he got shanked and woke up from a small coma (☞ﾟヮﾟ)☞

Other info: Luca forgets who his clients are as soon as the job is over, so he genuinely doesn't recognize Jermy