#but ily valentina

[odetolovers]

HIIII I MISS U ILY HOW ARE YOU

HELLO I MISS YOU TOO!!! i’m so good thank youuu how are you??

[scmantic]

for @alkaliineee where? catch me if you can

as if their first run in wasn't enough, now a man can't even get one drink in peace. of course she works here too. but he doesn't see her until after he orders, sitting on a stool at the bar, holding the beer he just got. he's three sips in. he can't just leave. so he does the brave thing and stays put, hoping this meeting isn't nearly as awkward as the first. when he accidentally makes eye contact, omar says, "um... i accidentally left my tab open.. do ya think you could... close it out for me?"

[thekingk0ng]

The world without Valentina hot sauce… don’t even want to imagine it!!!!

[s6rine]

random texts with your bf, oikawa tooru !

SYNOPSIS : texts between u and ur long distance bf!!!!!!!! 🎉🎉 TAGS : f!reader, crude humor, slightly suggestive i couldnt help myself 😭, cursing, death jokes, ooc oikawa, if u know how to speak spanish suddenly you dont, this was lazily executed icl 💔

A/N : thank u valentina for helping me with the spanish thingy ily <3 also should i do a gen taglist i have been considering since i think liz asked me if i had one

[luvrrgirl444]

chapter 3: stupidest man on earth

INSTAGRAM, IMSG!

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y/sinterlude sooo.. ik i haven't released a song in a hot minute but my new single "kill bill" comes out tmr 🤫🤫 came up w this song while i was hysterically cryin but i love it sm, so excited for u guys to hear it 🤍🤍🤍

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valentinagomez so proud of u even tho the song’s about he who shall not be named 🤢!!

⤷ y/nsinterlude VALENTINA STFU

⤷ valentinagomez 🫣

⤷ salem777 CONNIE???

historiarei MY BABY IM SO PROUD OF YOU 💓

 ⤷ y/nsinterlude I LOVE YOU 🤍🤍

mikackerman the instrumental sounds so good i wonder who played it 🤔

⤷ y/nsinterlude i love u and this song very much

user20 is this about connie omg??

aarlert you’re so talented ily

⤷ y/nsinterlude ily and i miss u sm

jkirstein SUPERSTAR

⤷ y/nsinterlude COULDN’T DO IT WITHOUT U

sashab pretty girl

⤷ y/nsinterlude you

shyshiloh i love your voice

⤷ y/nsinterlude i love you

user60 fuck c*nnie all my homies hate c*nnie

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connie2real she wrote a song about me i knew she still wanted me 😭😭😭🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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connie2real: she’s so fucking fine bro i’m such a dumbass

⤷ iheartlays: literally

⤷ everybodylovesnai: ?

⤷ jagermeister: u can read

horseface: i produced it lol

⤷ connie2real: YOU KNEW AND DIDNT TELL ME?? WHAT KIND OF BEST FRIEND ARE YOU

connie2real: @horseface papa can i come record now 🥺🥺???

⤷ horseface: okay 🙄🙄

⤷ connie2real: still mad at u tho

⤷ horseface: don’t care

⤷ jagermeister: can i come 🥺🥺

⤷ connie2real: of course 😘 @armnhammer u too 😘

⤷ ymirthegreat: you guys disgust me

🦋!

- eren is naomi’s biggest hater

taglist! <3 @lovelytayy @cyberkitty1

[angelsdvsts]

made   it   clear   that   he   couldn't   be   a   person   that   she   runs   to   when   she's   in   need   of   anything   ,   yet   --   along   the   way   something   among   the   two   has   shifted.   .   .   he   noticed   it   ,   which   was   exactly   why   he   was   acting   so   shifty   ,   trying   to   escape   anyway   that   he   could   to   avoid   the   conversation   in   hand   .   life   was   better   when   the   two   of   them   were   stuck   in   the   haze   ,   mind   too   tired   ,   except   enjoy   the   presence   of   one   another   .   a   groan   escapes   his   lips   ,   shaking   his   head   as   he   avoids   eye   contact   .   "   you   know   what   i   mean   --   fuck   ,   val   .   .   .   do   we   seriously   have   to   do   this   tonight   ?   "   didn't   want   to   see   the   hurt   that   he   was   causing   her   ,   he   already   felt   like   shit   .   "   ight   ,   cool   then   --   guess   i'll   see   you   around   ?   "   he   mutters   ,   finally   lifting   his   gaze   to   find   hers.

somewhere    along    the    blurred    lines    ,    he’d    become    her    safe    space    .    the    one    place    it    seemed    she    was    running    to    instead    of    from    ,    and    if    on    cue    for    the    feelings    she    promised    herself    not    to    develop    over    hazy    smoke    -    filled    nights    and    quiet    early    mornings    ,    he    seemed    to    be    detaching    himself    without    more    than    a    second    thought    .    how    painful    predictable    it    all    was    .    she    doesn’t    miss    the    way    he    looks    away    from    her    ,    dropping    her    hand    in    the    process    ,    she    wonders    if    she’s    the    only    one    who    can    hear    her    heart    shattering    with    it    .    ❛     ——    that’s    how    little    you    think    of    me    ?    that    i’d    fall    for    some    bullshit    like    that    ,    jett    ?    i    thought    .    .    .    ❜    she    swallows    her    feelings    ,    refusing    to    acknowledge    what    he    won’t    either    ,    ❛     ——    whatever    it    was    ,    clearly    i    was    wrong    .    you    can    keep    the    stuff    ,    sorry    for    wasting    your    time    .    ❜    

[asteriastarr]

Could you do a deuce x human reader where her family is kinda chaotic. It can go anyway you want ily

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH THANK-YOU FOR THE REQUEST ANON!!!! So like idk how good this one is but it's like kinda long and uh I may do a part 2 because omg this request gave me sm ideas. Also the only reason I gave reader 8 siblings is because big families are usually the most chaotic. Anyways I hope you enjoy! Ly! (Also i did a dif thing here where I made the tense 2nd person to try it out cus thats what a lot of people on here use, tell me what you guys think!)

POV: Deuce meeting his Human!girlfriends family.

“Before you meet my family, you should probably know that they’re a bit… chaotic…”

That is what you had warned him of before he came to have dinner with your family, while he wasn’t completely sure what you had meant by that he was sure he could handle whatever it was (Like- what could possibly be more chaotic than the fact he was a gorgon that literally went to a boarding school for monsters). Besides- he was determined to make a good impression on your parents, while you knew and were… mostly, okay with the… scaled situation, your family didn’t. He had to make this good impression now because he knew he couldn’t exactly hide it forever and he’d rather your family liked him when they do find out.

You didn’t talk much about your family, the only thing he really knew was the fact you had eight siblings, most of them twins and that you were the middle child and the only one who wasn’t a twin (hence why you were the only one with your own room). Deuce knocked on the door and after hearing what sounded like arguing was greeted by your smiling face.

“Hey, Deuce!” You greet, gently reaching up to adjust his beanie to ensure the snakes were covered “Come in!” You grab his hand and guide him inside. “You’re a bit early but we can just like- hang out in my room for a bit until dinn-” You began before being cut off by your younger brother running in front of you.

“Who’s this?” He asked “Is he your boyfriend”

“No, he’s my long-lost twin brother.” You said sarcastically trying to move past him.

“No, he’s not! You don’t have a twin! And besides his hair is green, you don’t have green hair!” Your brother exclaimed, “Wait, why is his hair green?”

“Because he’s secretly the Joker.” You stated, finally managing to move past your younger brother “Now, leave us alone you little brat.”

“I’m telling mom you said that!” He exclaimed.

“Go ahead! I’ll just tell her that you got suspended for a week for punching a kid and didn’t even tell her.” You retort pulling Deuce up the stairs before being stopped again by two of your younger sisters Valentina and Valeria.

“Y/n have you seen Jinx?” Valentina asked.

“No, and if Mom finds out you let that snake out of its terrarium again, you’re going to be in huge trouble.” You warned.

“What about Cookie? Have you seen Cookie?” Valeria asked teary-eyed.

“No, I haven’t but if I see it in my room again, I swear- I’m going to squish it.” You threatened.

“But Y/nnn-” Valeria whined before apparently finally noticing Deuce “Does Mom know you have your boyfriend over?”

“Yes, she does actually, now leave us alone please.” You hissed, trying to manoeuvre past them.

“His hair is weird,” Valentina commented.

“So is yours and you don’t see him commenting on it.” You snapped, pushing past them and finally entering your room.

You sigh as both you and Deuce sit on your bed.

“Your siblings seem nice,” Deuce commented as you scoffed.

“You don’t have to lie Deuce, they’re annoying.” You spoke.

“No, they uh- seem, sweet.” He said as you moved your head to lay it in his lap.

“Awe, aren’t you naïve.” You said, lifting your head to press a kiss on his lips.

[ihate-ash101]

Tatter 21 is a bright happy pill around the people she loves she seen dancing or around her gf and crush (bada and Valentina) but what everyone don't know is she has a dark side

Bada lee 28 has a mysterious vibe when looking at her but she's a giant baby in tall body (she's a big fan of horror films) simps for tatter and Valentina

Valentina mix 19 year old mix young women that's fluffy and abit of a nerd loves hello kitty and strawberry short cake but don't let that get ya cause she very obsessed and proactive of what's hers

Bebe crew

Jam republican

Story information- Where two women fell in love with with a young woman that's trying to fit in a new environment would they kill her or would they keep her as there's.........

Tag list-@deadpool15 @@froufrousnowman @v2br33Yy @leasha25823 @bada-lee-ily

[forgottenamira]

OOC | Love Languages

continuing w this series...

5 love languages:

words of affirmation

physical touch

giving/receiving gifts

quality time

acts of service 

and here's what i said my initial instincts were re: my peeps...

Godfrey — appears as a words of affirmation dude but if he ~really loves you it’s acts of service!!

Tristan — acts of service he is literally a knight!! Send him on a quest!! He will goooo!

Eabha — bc of her ruling lady outlook she looks like acts of service but she’s really more physical touch

Cormac — giving of gifts

Ronan — acts of service!! I hope you like someone just wordlessly doing smth for you bc that’s what ur in for here bc sadly he’s pr rubbish at a lot of the others these days

Cillian — quality time

Saoirse — physical touch

Rosie — quality time

Valentina — receiving gifts

Eilia — words of affirmation 

Rian — quality time

Roderick — giving of gifts

Amira — tbd

Arthur — tbd

decided to finish up the fam even tho her last name is technically varmont these days...esp bc she and arthur are still???? so imma think out loud at you guys...amira is an enneagram 8 which means that she seeks to project strength (often by means of outright hostility) in order to avoid appearing/feeling vulnerable, which is what she fears. so!! expressing love of any variety, being inherently vulnerable, is really intrinsically scary for her and, given that she is obv not by any means a ~healthy example of a type 8, well, its complicated!!!!!! i feel like she's gotten it all twisted up inside of her alkdsjfskldjfdf this questionnaire is basically DESIGNED to give her an anxiety attack akldjsflkjsdlfjkdsf [ amira: I LOVE NOTHING *runs away* ]

anywayyyyyy she does love edmund, tristan, and godfrey (probably in that order!! her brothers are a lil tough to sort out tho bc she probs has more ~affection for tristan but more ~trust for godfrey so!! make of that what you will). honorably mention is the hubby: she's got smth deeply toxic w roderick where like...she lowkey wants to ~be him and he lowkey wants to devour her so!! this will mostly focus on the calainons as a result but we'll talk a lil abt roderick if he comes up too bc as much as she wants to deny it he's important to her too...but love is not the right word its more like mutual hate-obsession??? idk...its a mess

anyway, as with godfrey, amira is fully capable of ~faking any of these and can and wiLL use that to manipulate anyone...esp her husband, but im just focusing on the ~real thing~ here

words of affirmation

i feel like imma go down the line saying this just bc again ~vulnerability aint natural to her but!! neither are words of affirmation. this bitch will tell you how you've failed and disappointed her before she'd ever say i love you alkjdsflkjdsf weirdly tho?????? that's ~kind of~ a way of like...showing she cares???? like idk how to tell you this but the fact that you ~can let her down means you matter on some level to her????? so yeah 'you failed me' being amira for 'ily?' its more likely than you may think laksjdflksdjfsd

conversely tho...her ~not criticizing you probs means you're epic!!!! she's always looking for a way to tear other ppl down to make herself feel better and/or (if she cares abt you) to help you find out where you need to improve, so like if she can't even find smth to get on your case abt like damn!!!!!! well done!!!! *facepalm* so yeah either that or like...she did not notice you/cares so little that you're not even worth the effort of considering!!!!!

so yeah!! ur gonna get mixed signals from amira (roderick screams internally abt this any time he so much as ~thinks abt her he legit doesn't know where he stands w her) buT if ur someone she ~does pay attention to, such as her family members, and she's not on ur case she's probs happy w you!! or at least can't think of smth to criticize you for, so congrats!!

physical touch

ok so this might be the one?? i do think amira is a v comfortable in/w her physicality, yknow? and like lbr she 100% holds everyone at emotional (and probs physical!) arm's length pr much 24/7 but as i think of it, i can see where, if she's particularly pleased or just in a good mood for whatever reason, and if no one's there to observe!! you might get a quick touch to the cheek or press of the hand as she sweeps by. if ur really lucky you might even see the flash of a smile as she goes!!!

some circumstances that might induce this flash of affection: her coronation, the momentary triumph she felt at the death of elaine (before realizing she'd eliminated a potential son there only to elevate the daughter), realizing that marian was so terrified of her she felt the need to run away (another short-lived joy when she came back w a son amira: this is why this family cannot have nice things!!!!), learning that she was with child, bearing a son, arthur's butchery at kil-kennar and roderick's subsequent fury at that side of the family, etc.

giving/receiving gifts

here's another contender!! amira grew up in abject poverty and so being showered in goodies???? unbelievable dream come true!! she doesn't suffer from any of godfrey's need for practicality: her love of excess matches that of her husband! shower her in gold and jewels, wine and dine her on the most exquisite feasts from a world away! any and all luxury is deeply appreciated!!! and honestly?? she doesn't fully get that not everyone feels the same??? i mean on one hand she does but like...that doesn't make sense. she knows what its like to go without!!! surely no one can possibly want that!!!

part of this, tho, does def highkey feed into her wish to project strength and power!!!!!! amira is here to show offffff!!!!!! she wants you to see that she's basking in untold wealth and could use it to crush you if you come at her!!!!!!! and that her loved ones are similarly safe via power!!!!!!!!

not unlike marian, actually, amira spends a loT of time maneuvering for ~her family and allies to get their due -- while elaine's faction or certainly marian's might say that things should be divvied up by, say, individual brother, amira will argue (since she has only two and not seven) that the loot ought to be divided into thirds and from there doled out to each family. and she does this to prop herself up, sure, but she also does this out of love!!!!!! edmund does not have the sheer number of allies that arthur has, and so his need of wealth/wealthy supporters she perceives as greater, and so forth.

amira also views this as seeing to her loved ones' needs. when she rains tiltes and land and wealth upon them, she's caring for them, so this to her is ~also an act of service lakjsdfkljsdf

quality time

so we're back to me going hmmm idk that this is her thing!! like sure she doesn't ~mind their presence but like??? what you just...wanna be over there??? like...we could be conquering smth rn???? godfrey, you wanna read a book or, tristan, play a game???? what is the point?????? amira, whose only living loved ones all happen to be male: 'men are so emotional'

i do also feel like amira is pr closed off emotionally (ok, i ~know she is), and like she needs a break from being around ~anyone~ bc she's wearing that mask all the time and it is EXHAUSTING and this is less introversion as fully...dysfunctional ngl

when she's feeling more happy/settled tho you can def get her to agree to a chill hang out sesh if she loves you!! she wiLL be cheating when you play cards so she can swindle you and mock you for losing to her tho!! but this time good naturedly ladkjsfskjldf

i do feel like her inability to participate here does come out of, again, that fear that she's got constantly nagging her -- she cannot let down like that!! cannot rest that long!!! she's got to keep fighting fighting fighting!!!! u nfortunately like...this is the shit that she has in common w our buddy roderick likE this is the thing they're bonded toxically on like???? GOTTA RAMPAGE they feed e/o w that its super healthy /sarcasm

acts of service 

ok so as i mentioned above, her wheeling and dealing to get her loved ones titltes and honors and stuff is her being nurturing!!!! she would argue that she is GREAT at acts of service and does this all! of! the! time! this is however factually incorrect lbr she'd be annoyed if you asked her to pass you smth if she were in the wrong mood lakjsdfklsdjf like!!!!!! she's like 'i got everything i have -- and everything you have too -- by my own hard work. grab that pencil by your own damn self' to her four year old probably SCREAM but yeah!! if you ask ~her she does this alllll the timeeeeee!!! and fully believes it too!!!

so ive mentioned this a few times here and there but amira truly believes that she is the sole reason her family isn't starving rn and like she does everything for this family!!!!!! and none of them appreciate it the way they should!!!!1 but she's the ONLY one who sees the truth and isn't resting on her laurels and they just keep chomping at her going MORE MORE MORE and like...this is not true honestly but that's her perception of events and she's sick and TIRED of it!!! lakjdsflkjd but also she wiLL complain frequently but she will NOT eveR stop tryna advance her family!!!!! no matter how frequently she threatens to leave them on their own in all this lkajsdfjklsdf

[starwarsrebels]

this is so true omgahabjsbs

💌🫶

EM my demon child <3 the list of things i love about you is endless but honestly i love your sense of humor, i feel like you and i laugh together so much and if we ever met irl we'd probably be giggling 24/7 and not able to carry a conversation

mutuals send me a 💌 and ill tell u something i love about you

[cronakillz]

list 5 facts about a favorite sim of yours, and send this to simblrs whose sims you adore ʚ♡ɞ

(back @ you bc ily fr <3)

valentina is my all time favorite sim lol this ask has been sitting in here since i got it bc i wanted to wait to post her!

1. She was born in 1796 (i know she was supposed to be 300 blah blah blah she’s 228) in Italy, and died after contracting pneumonia and being near death, turned by a vampire who was obsessed with her. She promptly got better, hotter, and ghosted him a week later. She is eternally 24 and always at prime clubbing age!

2. She doesn’t really like other vampires, and has never turned another human. Although she milks being a hot vampire for attention, she doesn’t do a lot of vampire things. She doesn’t even drink human blood, and has always fed on animal blood. She’s adapted to eating human food, and thinks other vampires are losers for not even trying to adapt to human ways

3. She is a Leo, ENFP, 7w6. Her rising sign is Scorpio, and her moon sign is Sagittarius. Her venus sign is Cancer!

4. She claims to be bisexual, but views men as toys in a way, and has always been more intrigued by females. Her most meaningful connections have always been with women, both platonic and romantic. A girls girl at heart.

5. She may be wild, fun, self absorbed, and very image focussed, but she’s a big softy at heart. At the end of the day, she loves humans and surrounds herself with them as much as she can. She admires them for being so talented, wise, and kind in their short lifespans. She especially loves talented people, like musicians and artists. She could play the violin before she turned, but her current romantic interest(👀) is a master instrumentalist and it fascinates her! She loves listening to her songs written about her, and tries to learn how to play them herself(not nearly as well).

[the-earth-refused-to-die]

(probably non-canon butttt here we go >:3) [ J:\\ SO, YOU.. NEVER HAD A NAME? ] "Never... I've only been called a 'virus' or 'ILOVEYOU', or 'ILY'. " [ J:\\ OOHH!! OHH!! JUST HAD AN IDEA!! LILY. BECAUSE-- ] "Yeah, yeah, I get it.. I'll think of a name when the time comes. But you can call me 'Mistress' until then~" [ J:\\ I--.. NEVER CHANGE, VALENTINA. ] "I'll try. <3"

Probably how it would go down actually, in fact Valentina does accept "petnames" as just names, except for the more. . Umm. .explicit ones

[the-arcade-doctor]

ILY would definitely be excited! She truly wishes to be herself if she has the chance after all, it probably will take some getting used to, after all she spent most of the time with another's identity, but ultimately i think it'd do her good (Plus the real Valentina would stop complaining)

:O GOOD ENDING?!?!?! REAL????

[forgottencillian]

OOC | Love Languages

continuing w this series...

5 love languages:

words of affirmation

physical touch

giving/receiving gifts

quality time

acts of service 

and here's what i said my initial instincts were re: my peeps...

Godfrey — appears as a words of affirmation dude but if he ~really loves you it’s acts of service!!

Tristan — acts of service he is literally a knight!! Send him on a quest!! He will goooo!

Eabha — bc of her ruling lady outlook she looks like acts of service but she’s really more physical touch

Cormac — giving of gifts

Ronan — acts of service!! I hope you like someone just wordlessly doing smth for you bc that’s what ur in for here bc sadly he’s pr rubbish at a lot of the others these days

Cillian — quality time

Saoirse — physical touch

Rosie — quality time

Valentina — receiving gifts

Eilia — words of affirmation 

Rian — quality time

Roderick — giving of gifts

Amira — tbd

Arthur — tbd

words of affirmation

so we all know my man cillian pr well atp and he is a pr straight shooter (~unfortunately a lot of the time laksdjflkjdf) but he also doesn't really want to risk being too touchy-feely!!!! man will say to a varmont prince's face that he thinks he's trash (both arthur and, even more so, edmund have experienced ~that!) but will he say ily to someone he treasures??? THAT is wayyyyyy scarier!!!!! lakjsdfjkldsf *facepalm* and also that is more than a figurative facepalm btw i literally put my head in my hands and laughed lakjsdfakljdf idiot daljfsldkjfakj anyway!!!

so i do think cillian can be halfway decent re: being eloquent when he's summoned the courage but!!!!! it ~does require courage!!!!! and bc of that its usually an impulse of the moment??? but also smth he's been thinking abt for awhile, somehow??? like, i do imagine his confession to brigit was extremely heartfelt and moving!!!!! but also it was DEF smth he'd been turning over in his mind probs lowkey for yearssssss but also not smth he really ~intended to say ~at that moment~ like???? lsdkjfalskjdfjdf planning is not his strong suit!!!!!

so yeah he can, and will, do this one and probs pull it off pr well frankly but also he WILL botch the all-important timing and still manage to make a mess out of it alkjsdfklsdjkdf and if that aint cillian in a nutshell...

anyway, see his stance on silences in the quality time section bc that def has bearing here too...

physical touch

he is pr good w this one!!! has he ever told eithne that he loves her in words??? idk!! but has he pulled her into a big hug or kissed her cheek? absolutely!! and probs many times over the years! cillian is a pr enthusiastic/big personality type really so don't worry that you won't know he values you, even if he might not vocalize that sm!!! there wiLL be signs and they will be abundant and quite possibly bombastic!!!! cillian isn't gonna let you sit there and wonder if he cares he's gonna find ways to let you know!!

ok so you know that scene in brooklyn 99 where jake and gina are at a restaurant and jake gets up to leave and gina stops him and is like 'wait, aren't you forgetting smth?' looking v sheepish and confused, jake returns to the table and then kisses her forehead before leaving (and gina is like 'damn, who raised you? pay your bill!'), that is v much a cillian moment he's like 'idk what to say i will give you a lil smooch to say ily bc you are my oldest friend and i think you must want affection -- bye!' (but actually she just wanted him to pay for his food and he never even realized that also feels v on point for cillian i will not lie laksjdfkjlsdf but that is neither here nor there BAHAHAHA)

giving/receiving gifts

so idk that cillian is the best gift giver/receiver!! he v dutifully does this where holidays require it and obv thinks a lot abt what to give/really appreciates what he receives, but i think he kinda finds this a lil stressy!!!! he doesn't wanna fail on this bc he gets its a big deal but also like!!!!!! what does one do???? he does not knowww!!! and esp growing up a ronan, and -- i truly believe -- his dad being super good at this, i think frankly only upped the ante!!!!

so yeah not extraordinary at this but its not for lack of trying!!!1 and every now and then he does really come through!! i do think he's the sort where, if he perceives that smth is of great value...like, for example, if he was ever sent by valentina to sell off some of sorcha's jewels or smth he deffffff "lost it" or got "mugged" or whatever (i feel like valentina only asked him to do this once or twicebefore realizing it would always go missing in some way aljksdfjksdf) before returning it to the og girls where it belongs!!!! even knowing he'd def get lashes for it etc bc this is a matter of justice etc!!!!

but tbh he ~does view that sorta thing less as gift giving and more as an act of service, which does come verrrrryyyy naturally to him, bc in his mind those things already belonged to the og girls so yeah!! it was more a rescue mission than a gift giving operation even if goods did technically exchange hands hahaha

quality time

here's the big one!!!!!! ultimately, cillian is an extremely experience-driven person and so the opportunity to experience things ~w you brings him sm joy!!!!!! (you ~will hear me repeat this when i get to @forgottenroisin this, as we know, is her whole thing too! i think they're both type 7s so yeah...)

he esp wants to go on some adventure w you, do smth thrilling and probably a lil stupid w you, make memories that you can treasure ur whole life long and laugh abt forever after!!!! but he's also happy to do smth much more mundane, like companionably peel potatoes together or smth, and you can tell he reeeeeally loves you if he's comfortable letting a silence fall between you...even so it probs won't be too long bc cillian's got too much excess energy/too active a brain to ever really be quiet v long at all hahaha but yeah!! the only silences he really does are:

decorous silence -- this is reserved for when he really respects the person he's serving and so will maintain silence in his role as servant etc when the occasion calls for it and this is actually performative devotion too

devoted silence -- he really trusts you and you guys are just vibing and he doesn't feel as antsy in the quiet w you beside him bc you make him feel at peace bc he loves you!!

detesting silence -- he's literally just seething w hate!!!!!!! too angry even for words!!!!! laksjdflkjsdfjk beware this one honestly!!!!! it will noT end well!!!!

ANYWAY!! we're talking abt quality time here my cillian brain jumping around just like his klajsdfkjsdf anyway this is deffff where he will drag you into some reckless disaster or do anything and EVERYTHING he can to make you smile and laugh!!! he can juggle, do a jig, or jest, and he will do it all just for you, he's ultimately someone who just wants to be happy and make others around him feel the same way and, if it means getting to spend time w you, he will take that time to do whatever he can to make you feel the way you make ~him feel which is like smiling like an idiot!!

acts of service 

another v natural one for him!! i mentioned this in gift giving/receiving and in quality time w the decorous silence and tryna entertain you but yeah!! cillian will do whatever he can to make ur life easier/better!! unlike tristan, he lowkey ~does want some credit for it ngl!!!! bc he wants you to think well on him!!!! buT that is noT the reason he does it and he won't go out of his way to do it either and will just as happily serve you w/o anyone ever being the wiser, itd just be ideal if you ~did eventually find out it was him slkdjfalkjsdf more often than not tho i do think he does surrender the credit

working at malconaire, still, for example, is def an act of service, but its as much an act of service to the living malconaires (and v, v much so ~is for them!!!!!!!!!) as it is for lord and lady m and, obv, both of them being deceased, it will never help him in their eyes or anything, but he does it for them still notwithstanding bc they might be gone but he hasn't stopped loving them!!!! and the rebellion? he knows he's far more likely to be hanged, and lowkey doubts he'll ever live to see astaira free again (tho he ~does believe that that'll happen someday!!!), and ppl probs won't ever remember him, and he'll be dead besides, but its still worth doing!!!! but it'd be v nice if he was wrong and ppl ~did remember him and his sacrifice...but he doubts they ever will...that kinda thing!

[forgottensaoirse]

OOC | Love Languages

continuing w this series...

5 love languages:

words of affirmation

physical touch

giving/receiving gifts

quality time

acts of service 

and here's what i said my initial instincts were re: my peeps...

Godfrey — appears as a words of affirmation dude but if he ~really loves you it’s acts of service!!

Tristan — acts of service he is literally a knight!! Send him on a quest!! He will goooo!

Eabha — bc of her ruling lady outlook she looks like acts of service but she’s really more physical touch

Cormac — giving of gifts

Ronan — acts of service!! I hope you like someone just wordlessly doing smth for you bc that’s what ur in for here bc sadly he’s pr rubbish at a lot of the others these days

Cillian — quality time

Saoirse — physical touch

Rosie — quality time

Valentina — receiving gifts

Eilia — words of affirmation 

Rian — quality time

Roderick — giving of gifts

Amira — tbd

Arthur — tbd

words of affirmation

ok so ive been thinking abt this more and!!! i think words of affirmation might ~actually be her primary love language even tho she just teasingly insults everyone all the time????? if not, its her second after physical touch but anyway im not sure!!!!

like amira, saoirse is a type 8 but ~unlike amira, she's a pr healthy example so, while her shared core fear is being controlled, like amira, she's much more comfortable w vulnerability than her counterpart/is capable of trusting in the ppl she loves in a way that amira can't bring herself to do so!! she's actually pr openly affectionate as we know, even if she does have to flavor it w teasing and eyerolling etc!!

saoirse had a pr healthy/safe upbringing, surrounded by parents (well...a mother...i kinda think saoirse was maybe a posthumous child for her dad but anyway), her two big brothers, and ofc the entire house of malconaire to back her up!! she's a v confident person, really, and that bleeds big time into this. being sandwiched right between brigit and aoife in age, and more or less growing up w the malconaire girls as sisters/cousins, i do think she also got a masterclass in communication skills that way, watching them be exhibited all across malconaire and got pr comfortable w vocalizations of the kind, since idk i just imagine the malconaires being really good in general w expressing themselves -- bran and sorcha, anyway, since the girls were also learning etc

however, she was ALSO growing up w those pesky brothers who would moan and roll their eyes if she got too sappy on them, so i think she learned pr quickly to play it all off as teasing which is why saoirse calling you a dumbass is basically her saying 'i would die for you' (girl's def the *angry voice* 'i love you, you idiot!' in the middle of a heated argument type smdh)

sooooo it might not be immediately apparant that what you're getting are, in fact, words of affirmation tbqh but once you kinda learn her language a bit!!!! if she likes you you will get lots of this loving ribbing smdh

physical touch

ok so if not the big one, this is def ~a big one (and honestly might still be the primary one!!!!), but this is one she developed pr quickly too. while the verbal communication came from hanging out w the ladies, this one came from hanging out w her brothers. saoirse learned v quickly that a light elbow to the ribs really meant 'ur neat' and that a slap on the back meant 'good job,' and she's fluent in this language too!

as i said, saoirse is a pr healthy type 8 so really for her just being open emotionally w her loved ones is saying ily!!! that being said, i do think she can be a bit confusing bc on the surface she's pr affectionate w most ppl uess she doesn't trust/like you in which case she's pr open abt ~that, so like!!!! idk how obv it is when she slips out of casual affection into genuine love for another person tbqh?? but allowing herself real vulnerability is the key. however, she does disguise this w her open demeanor bc...well...she ~is a type 8 after all!! alsdkjfsd and i think that's where physical touch really comes in?? like she'll be casually friendly w most ppl but she won't ~touch most ppl? but if she's ride or die for you, she will take you by the hand or grab your sleeve, or pat your shoulder, etc. these are usually pr subtle gestures, i feel, so again if you don't know her ~ways of communicating~ that well you might not pick up on it being any different from the usual affection she bestows esp bc she's def upped the ante w ribbing you so you might even think she thinks ur annoying but!!!!!! here we are laksjdflkjsdfj

growing up as she did, tho, i think she actually has a fairly good grasp of all of these bc i do think she was treated to a v loving upbringing so she can dip in and out of all of these when needed but i do think this one just comes v naturally to her

ok talking this out more...this ~is the big one for her after all!!

giving/receiving gifts

so idk that saoirse does a ~ton of this, but when she does that thing is hella heartfelt!!!!! and is it ~probably handmade!!!!!! and she will play it off like it was nothing!!!! but she went to some insane effort to make that for you!!!! and its mostly just that she wants you to know that she was thinking of you and wants you to remember that every time you reach for that thing she made you!!!!!! bc you are valued, dammit!!!!! also she is awko in giving -- again referencing rick o'connell's gift giving in the mummy!!!! this is a vulnerable moment!!!! but she wants to pretend she's not bc #type8 alksdfjsdljkf

i do think, frankly, that she's probs more awkward w ~receiving than ~giving gifts honestly like wtf how does she play ~this off like its all casual and not some vulnerable thing????? laksdjflkjdsjfa and, like -- and this goes for acts of service rendered to ~her, as well, she doesn't know what to do w feeling touched or someone else doing for ~her honestly??? saoirse's used to looking out for her stupid big brothers like???? being a nanny??? a literal servant????? this is an upset of the natural world order!!!!! so she probs just gets really weirdly quiet (for her) and is just really softly like 'thank you' and probs has a lil trouble looking at you frankly, esp bc the meaning def isn't lost on her like!!! this is one of ronan's big love languages she gets what she's being told here!!!! she just doesn't know what to do w that and doesn't want to embarrass ~you by making you feel any more vulnerable than you already do, either!!! bc she doesn't like that so she assumes others don't either!!!

but also she will later def make a point of wearing that/using that/displaying that/whatever so that you know how much she treasures that gesture!!!!!!!

quality time

so this is another of saoirse's favs!! honestly in her book the best way ~to increase affection as ~well as a way of displaying it without having to be too vulnerable w it!!! she probs prefers a mutual activity rather than smth like reading different books together or smth like that bc the idea, for her, is actively engaging you!!! she wants to be near and w you and hear your voice and know ur thoughts and, most of all, she wants to laugh w you!! she doesn't care ~what you do or ~what you talk abt, she just wants interaction!!!

acts of service 

so i talked a lil abt this in the giving/receiving gifts portion but kinda by nature of her position in both her family (only sister) and in society (servant), saoirse does a lottttttt of this!!!! tbh idk that its her most natural love language, but its one she's v much fluent in and practices on the daily, and frankly idk that she ~could serve someone she doesn't love even tho she's literally a servant!!!! lasdkjflksjdf she deffff has to at leasT respect you but i do think there needs to be devotion there (again, girl is type 8!!!!!! she literally fears being under someone's thumb!!!!! the trust has goT to be there!!!!)!!!!!! but it is CERTAINLY the case that her work for the lorcans and for the malconaires before them were all v much in the acts of service love language category!!!!! so she does all of that v willingly and cheerfully (tho w her brothers also w a lot of heavy eye rolling!!!!!!) out of love <333

as i said when talking about ~receiving gifts tho she's also extremely bashful abt receiving acts of service honestly!!!! it makes her feel suuuuper vulnerable!!!! she knows what that takes, but also she's not really that accustomed to receiving that way and!!!!!! she doesn't quite know what to do w herself!!!! anyway, she probs behaves more or less along the same lines as w receiving gifts, but since there's no way she can later symbolize how much it meant by like displaying it in some way, she'll probs respond w her go-to physical touch, clasping ur hand or smth and, depending how great the service, might not even say a word???? or if she does it'll probs be after a moment or two bc somehow??? that'd just spoil it all??? make it less meaningful bc she'd have to disguise that in some way or whatever??? idk i just feel like this would be pr raw for her really so yeah!! here we are!!

[ihate-ash101]

Chapter 1

Valentina pov-Today is a rainy day meaning it looks dark and gloomy outside with a sprinkle of rain pouring down hitting the roof of the buildings onto the floor you must wondering “where are you?’’ Well the answer is i’m at school with my two besties and my ex(how awkward is that?) and Audrey's boyfriend (they're such a cute couple together)”so have you heard there's gonna be new students here?” Levi asked us i just shrugged my shoulders since i didn’t know “no” emma and Audrey said while Romeo just nodded his head no as he cuddle onto Audrey “how you know this levi” i asked in a amusing tone since he acting like caroline from tvd just a bit “ i accidentally left something in my locker so i asked our teacher to get and heard the principle and teacher talking about two new students” he explains to me and the trio “let's hope everything goes well this year’’ Emma said jokley as we all laughed but little did we know everything would change from then on "hmm what class do you guys have next" I asked my friend group Audrey and Romeo said English while me and Emma have Astronomy " aw man we don't got class together" Emma said I just laughed and hugged her " speaking of class let's go before we're late" I said while grabbing my things and the trey from the desk and head towards the trash bins and threw the left over food and crumbs in the trash and went towards the lunch lady to hand my trey over amd walked out of the cafeteria with my group and we separate ways. Tag list-@deadpool15 @@froufrousnowman @v2br33Yy @leasha25823 @bada-lee-ily