#but because of that interaction
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
When I was evaluated for autism a few years ago, the doctor who evaluated me concluded that I didnât make sufficient eye contact and that my ability to read faces was severely below average.
RIDDLE ME THIS, THEN,
If I donât make eye contact then why could I tell that Yongsoo looked me in the eyes???? And if I canât read faces, then how was I able to interpret that when I told him âbecause im so nervous, I canât speak Korean well right nowâ (in Korean) his expression said he understood where I was coming from and thought my attempt was sweet.
Huh? HUH?????
If I canât do those things then explain that!
#i actually can read faces#as far as Iâm aware#just not super consistently#and I am very confident I correctly interpreted that situation#If this was me convincing myself of something that wasnât there#then how come all the other membersâ reactions during the fan sign felt autopilot#he wasnât even my favorite member at that point#but because of that interaction#he absolutely is now#hrghhhh
6 notes
¡
View notes
Text
Sometimes...characters being in a romantic relationship is worse.
#text#sometimes it's the most boring way to have characters interact#sometimes it's worse than the chemistry they have as literally any other kind of relationship#sometimes their platonic dynamic is better#sometimes their hostile dynamic is better#sometimes their dynamic is better if it's anything other than romance#because maybe them falling into generic romance is how you ruin their characters.#aro#aromantic#aroace#i only tag these because it feels relevant to why i feel this way
23K notes
¡
View notes
Text
beanbag chair psychology
#dtawing#homestuck#karkat vantas#rose lalonde#she's asking because she also has autism#WISH we'd seen more of these two interacting on the meteor they both love pretending to know about other people's brains#this took me like two days to make for no reason#i don't draw comics often#because usually by the time ive finished them ive rolled the punchline around in my brain so many times im worried its not funny anymore#but regardless#the Funny
12K notes
¡
View notes
Text
my top bit of advice going into the new year: compliment people. especially strangers. literally everyone you interact with if you can. when you buy coffee in the morning compliment the barista's tattoos. when you're chatting with a coworker tell them that by the way you like their outfit. always find something they've chosen to do on purpose. nail polish, jewellery, tattoos, hair colour/style, statement accessory, outfit, etc are all good bets. things people hope will be noticed. things that aren't too personal so it doesn't make them uncomfortable (eg probably not their physical features). i've gotten into the habit of scanning everyone i talk to for something about them that i think is cool so i can tell them. it's a great habit because it makes me notice people and realise just how many neat little details there are in people's presentation of themselves that might pass me by if i wasn't paying attention. and it brings out so much joy. you'd be surprised how much it disarms people to receive an unexpected compliment from someone they don't know. it is the most sincere smile you will see all day long. it feels nice to make people happy but it also means you win the social interaction. establish dominance by complimenting a stranger's earrings and disappearing into the fog
#rookposting#the little 'oh!' followed by a big grin is now my highlight in every interaction i have with a stranger#you can always spot the things people hope will be noticed and you have no idea how happy it makes people when it gets noticed#i find it's always better to compliment things they did deliberately vs complimenting stuff like their voice or their face or other things#that are inherent or they cant change because that can make people uncomfortable for one thing to hear that from a stranger#but it's also just less meaningful imo because they didnt do that on purpose
22K notes
¡
View notes
Text
made a sticker for anyone to slap onto their work if they need to
#ramble#i've only interacted with tiktok via osmosis#but something is eating their brain matter and it makes me sad#it's fine if you only want to read light things (all power to you) but don't whine at me because i write about bad people sometimes#i'm so tired
26K notes
¡
View notes
Text
did it mean anything to you
#transformers one#transformers#megatron#bumblebee#b 127#d 16#transformers fanart#maccadam#not ship art!#i wish there was more screen time for when they were all on the surface together#they were all so cute#gauuhhh i want more dee and bee interactions#but now its impossible because there isnt a dee to be with bee anymore#ill do it myself...
4K notes
¡
View notes
Text
they're amusing to me
#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#dunmeshi#marcille donato#laios touden#i love when these two interact its so funny#deciding to finally post my doodles because they're too good to be left in the dark to collect dust#L+M#edit: YES I KNOW ITS AYIN!!!! CONFIRMED!! đĽł#various images by yours truly#laimar
9K notes
¡
View notes
Text
i've been in fandom spaces for about 18 years or so at this point and i never thought we'd hit a point where this has to be said
#could people go back to the times when we understood that shipping was for fun and interaction#and not because it'd 'make sense in canon'#smh#fandom#ramblings#my stuff
6K notes
¡
View notes
Text
Zepotha will never be Goncharov because when it comes down to it, tumblr culture is collaborative, while tiktok culture is merely iterative, and those are not the same thing.
#also because tumblr has a very specific way that it interacts with the media it loves#like make no mistake; when we made Goncharov we were a little bit making fun of ourselves#and the way we project high emotion and significance onto even the smallest details#(also the way we want everything to be gay)#tiktok isnât doing that. they think the joke is the fake movie itself. but the fake movie isn't really the point.#the point is the fake FANDOM#goncharov
29K notes
¡
View notes
Text
As much as I love angst I think it would be funny if he just didnt give af
#Hazel you cant just ask people if they have a dead mom#fairly oddparents#fop a new wish#fop#fairly oddparents a new wish#headcanon#fop hazel#hazel wells#fop dev#dev dimmadome#I think he has mildly positive associations with it tbh#He asked where babies came from and his dad actually took him aside and explained how he was super special and important#and better than everyone else because he was a clone and talked him through the whole cloning process very excitedly#(Dev did not understand a word of it but it was probably the most positive interaction he'd ever had with his dad)#later Dev came back and asked where normal kids come from and he got uncomfy and made an Au-Pair explain#other than that Dev has basically no thoughts on being a clone its just a fact to him.#Actually thinking about it now that could be a really dark explanation for why his real name is Development#I mean you dont just get cloning right on the first try#and nobody wants to name and get attached something that might just fall over dead any minute#HAHA anway angst over teehee :3#fop nature au#<-for organization since this HC applies to it too
3K notes
¡
View notes
Text
"Tell your favorite creators that you like their work, people usually enjoy things silently, but hate tends to be loud"
This is a phrase I just heard from Dnd shorts that captures perfectly why I often try to make the effort of commenting on posts and telling people that I enjoy their work and why Even to small creators, I advice everyone to make the extra effort to tell them, I can guarantee it makes all the difference in the world, it's not cringy or obnoxious, it'll just brighten someone's day
#text#random dambles#please don't think I only say this because of me#I'm very lucky to have gotten such nice messages and comments#I just feel like on every site I see less and less people interacting and saying how cool someone's work is#I've seen AMAZING artworks on all platforms with near to non comment#I know for a fact people engaging with your work is the favorite part of most if not all artists out there#so sad Jocat is retiring out of hearing the hate too loud
7K notes
¡
View notes
Text
Assorted homestucks number 72382683
#tw alchoholism#homestuck#my art#zan0tix#roxy lalonde#rose lalonde#dirk strider#june egbert#dave strider#jade harley#jane crocker#jake english#calliope#terezi pyrope#i talk so much gender meta with alpha kids i gotta start making#more art about it because i have so many thoughts on their complex interactions with gender and identityđ˘đ˘#trans girl roxy forever.. wipes tear from my eye
3K notes
¡
View notes
Text
New Nightmares â ď¸
#gravity falls#billford#stan pines#stanley pines#ford pines#stanford pines#bill cipher#Ford has nightmares of Bill#and for the most part he has learned (after 30 years) which ones are Actually Bill and which ones are not.#But I think after weirdmageddon and Bill's defeat ... Once he's chill and calm... He has some more pleasant dreams of bill#Which is scary#because it's closer to what he felt (warm and fuzzy) when they were actively interacting... đ
2K notes
¡
View notes
Text
i want to FLUSTER that man. i want to make him BLUSH. i want to make him feel VULNERABLE AROUND ME. i want to make him WEAK IN THE KNEES. i want to kiss him
#stole this post from a pr*shipper who stole it from a normal person but i cant reblog the original because op deleted lol#t#im gonna steal the pr*shipper's tags too <3#selfship#stolen from a pr0shipper#pr0ship dni#antiproship please interact#anti selfpr0ship
2K notes
¡
View notes
Text
im annoyed and a little pedantic so can i just say as a blanket statement
queerbaiting is when the promotion for a FICTIONAL STORY intentionally hints towards two characters having a romantic relationship, without any intention to follow through in the show, in order to get queer people watching without discouraging the homophobic enjoyers of the show
queerbaiting is NOT:
a celebrity who you think is queer because theyre gnc or they have a 'vibe'. that is a real person and they cannot queerbait
two friends of the same gender pretending to flirt with each other for fun. those are real people and they cannot queerbait
a show with two characters of the same gender who are canonically friends that YOU PERSONALLY think would be better in a relationship. that's not bating, that's shipping, and subject to opinion
there are more but those are the main examples of people misunderstanding what queerbaiting is and being mad at something that isn't actually a problem
#the general rule if youre unsure is to ask yourself 'is that a real person i think is hinting that they are queer' and if the answer is yes#then that cannot be queerbaiting because thats a human person#apparently this is not a known fact anymore but even celebrities are human and have human emotions and human experiences#so sometimes their experiences appear to match yours and if your experience stems from your queer identity then often you can assume that#the celebrity in question is also queer#you may be right but you're probably wrong because you do not know that celebrity and have no way of knowing if they do not explicitly say#also its none of your business#anyway im annoyed at how many people dont know what queerbaiting is anymore#no jimmy solidarity and joel smallishbeans are not queerbaiting because they are FRIENDS and they are allowed to interact with each other#however they like because they are FRIENDS and they are not even remotely trying to hint that they themselves are queer or something#queerbaiting#queer#lgbtq#wren wrambles
3K notes
¡
View notes
Text
I like to headcanon that they are besties. (Not shipping)
#fanart#ĺçĽ#artist on tumblr#scaramouche#kunikuzushi#Wanderer#collei#Genshin impact#My reasoning behind this is because i think Tighnari told Collei to find a friend#& Nahida told Scara to go meet new people & interact with humans as friends#& they happen to cross because destiny#& they are besties#Both hate Dottore#Collei needs a big brothers & Scara needs a little sister
15K notes
¡
View notes