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mtreebeardiles · 2 years ago

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Confirmed Competencies

Based on a discord convo with @tiny-banana-time and @urdnotflexthejedibard -- :P

Also over on AO3!

Still not sure how the scene is going to go down in the actual fic, but it wouldn't leave me be until I wrote it haha. Hope ya'll enjoy!

"You doing okay there, Vega?"

Question directed James's way and Kaidan caught Evvy looking up in time to see the lieutenant wince a little. Shoulders carefully shrugged and the Major wasn't sure what would be causing the other man's discomfort. So far as he'd been able to tell, James was pretty meticulous in taking care of himself before and after a firefight.

"Told you that was gonna sting for a few days," Everett remarked, earning a cocked eyebrow from Kaidan. "Tattoo," he added, and the Major hummed his understanding.��

"Worth it," James replied, clearing off the poker table from the game he'd finished with the engineers. Based on how Donnelly had been grumbling and Daniels's laughter when they'd left Kaidan had a pretty good idea things had gone in James's favor.

"What'd you get?" he asked, a genuinely curious. On the fence about getting some ink himself, Kaidan had been spending more and more time studying Everett's tattoos and had even worked up the courage to ask Jack about a few of hers last time they'd docked at the Citadel.

James hesitated, and Kaidan caught the glance shared between lieutenant and commander.

So whatever it is, Evvy already knows, he guessed.

Everett's expression shifted to something almost apologetic, his partner shifting to sit up. He seemed about to say something when James shook his head.

"It's alright, Sunshine," James said, waving him away. "I figure the Major's in good graces with you, he's probably not the overly chatty type."

Both of Kaidan's eyebrows went up at that, glancing from one man to the other.

"Is it a secret?"

"Not exactly."

"…is it in a weird place?"

"What -- no! It's…" James sighed, tugging his shirt loose and pulling it off before turning around. Kaidan blinked at the black ink on the other man's dark skin, a piece spanning the upper portion of his back, the familiar "N7" logo accented by the same sort of style in which the rest of his tattoos were done.

"…Uh."

"He got the Villa invite," Everett elaborated.

"Oh. Well, shit, congratulations, James!"

"Gracias." Vega pulled his shirt back on, seeming a touch flustered. "But yeah, with the galaxy on fire I just… didn't want to go spreading it around, you know? In case it…"

He trailed off, and the other two men said nothing, the silence of maybes and might be's weighing heavy amongst them a moment.

"But I wanted to do something to -- to show I accepted. A reminder, I guess, to a commitment I intend to keep."

"That makes sense," Kaidan agreed. "It's a rigorous program."

James snorted, plopping into the chair opposite the couch where the other two were settled -- and wincing again when he leaned back too far and brushed against the tattoo. "Tell me about it. Exact details aren't exactly public knowledge, but you hear shit…"

"I think you've got what it takes," Evvy assured him, and last of the tension in James's shoulders eased.

"Thanks, Sunshine. That means a lot."

"Anything in particular about it got you nervous?"

James shrugged. "Some of it sounded like it'd be in my wheelhouse, but other things… I don't know. Guess I won't til I come up against it, huh? I've already led squads, I've already gotten some zero-g experience, but frontline trauma? Combat diving? Honestly trying not to think about it too hard or get too ahead of myself."

Kaidan hummed his agreement. "The diving was definitely my least favorite for N3. Really liked learning frontline trauma though, kinda like a very advanced course on what I already knew."

"Yeah, I wasn't wild about… about… wait. What?"

Everett and James were both staring at Kaidan, who blinked back at them.

"What, what?"

"What do you mean it was your least favorite part of N3?"

"When I got my N3 qualifications?"

"You…" Everett was staring at him, opening and closing his mouth to no avail, questions apparently caught in his throat.

"You an N, Major?" James asked, forming the question that seemed to be getting tied on Evvy's tongue.

"An N3," Kaidan replied. He shrugged. "I started N4 courses but that was around when I pointed out that the program really doesn't do much to enhance training opportunities for biotics."

"…did they kick you for that?"

"What? No, of course not," Kaidan said, frowning. "That's how I wound up with Biotics Division -- it was meant to be a pilot program for N-school tailored to biotics."

"…how did I not know this?" Everett was still staring at his partner, mouth agape.

Kaidan felt his cheeks flush. "I… guess I forgot to mention it? It didn't seem like a big deal, with everything else going on--"

"--not a big deal? Kaidan! You're an N3! You're piloting a biotics version of N-school. All of that is a huge, huge deal!" Everett almost looked hurt, and a curl of guilt snaked its way into Kaidan's gut. "It --"

"Lieutenant Vega, you requested we inform you when your weapons shipment was delivered; it's waiting for you in the shuttle bay."

"Thanks, EDI," James said. He flashed Kaidan an appraising look, as if really seeing the Major for the first time, and gave the other man a nod before getting to his feet. Gave them both a sharp salute and left once dismissed, leaving the two men alone in the lounge.

"Why didn't you tell me?" Everett asked once he was gone, turning to face Kaidan more fully. "That's -- that's such incredible news, Kay! Holy shit."

Kaidan rubbed at the back of his neck and offered a shrug. "Like I said it…there just didn't seem to be a time, really, to mention it organically? What with the…what with what was going on, and then the Reapers invading, and then…"

"You mean the trial, and then Mars," Everett murmured, voice soft. He bit at his lower lip, gaze dropping a moment before he scooted closer and took both of Kaidan's hands into his.

"I'm sorry," he said, and before Kaidan could protest Evvy gave his hands a squeeze, offering a small smile. "I'm not trying to give you a hard time, Kay. Just… maybe, if you feel like it, we can celebrate a little? Find some time for dinner, maybe even a movie? I'm sure our very clever crew can handle themselves for a few hours."

"You don't have to do all that for me, Evvy…"

He trailed off as Everett leaned in, pressing a soft kiss to his lips.

"I want to," he murmured. "You're worth celebrating, Kaidan. I'm so…so fucking proud of you, you know?"

Kaidan found himself smiling back, his cheeks still warm.

"Yeah?"

"Yeah." Everett lifted one of Kaidan's hands to his lips, and Kaidan shivered at the feather-light kiss pressed to his wrist. "I got a thing for amazing, talented, crazy competent brown-eyed biotics with voices like whiskey who call me a nerd on the regular, y'know?"

Kaidan snorted, some of his shyness easing, and he shook his head. Cocked an eyebrow instead, dropping his voice's pitch the way he knew drove Evvy nuts, and asked, "That do something for you, Commander? That competency?"

His smile widened to see Everett's cheeks go pink this time, rendering his partner dumbstruck for the second time that evening.

"…okay, yeah, you uh. You're gonna need to take me upstairs now."

Kaidan chuckled, capturing a pair of very eager lips against his own.

"Aye-aye."

#my writing #Kaidan Alenko #Everett Shepard #mshenko #James Vega #extra scene

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incoherentbabblings · 4 years ago

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What are your favourite comics anyway?

Oh! Oh! Oh! Okay. Full disclaimer. We’re going for what comics I re-read over and over again. Are these comics...good? Eh. Are they bad? No, I don’t think so. Some were meh to wow! when first released that time has either been kinder or harsher to, but I don’t think I have a series or a run or a title which is I like which is like... hot guilty garbage. Though, of course, feel free to disagree. There are some authors on here which people will not want to touch with a barge pole, and I totally understand and encourage not touching them if you don’t want to.

Having said that, here are my favourite popcorn comics (largely Titans and Batfam because I am... basic):

The Flash (2016) issues 39-45 + Annual #1

Having said that, Flash time first. People think Williamson is a real hit or miss writer and I do agree, but I think this whole arc is one big hit. It’s frantic in its energy, I love Gorilla Grodd as a villain, I love the modern Flashfam trying to help, I love how Wally coming in to help totally turns the tide and the mood. I love how everyone looks at Wally like… this guys is powerful, more powerful than any other speedster… but also noting there’s something very fragile about him. I didn’t include Flash War in this because I’m still waiting for the payoff for that angst regarding Wally, but this arc… mwah. Wallace Rudolph West being vindicated as the greatest Flash (whilst allowing Barry to be flawed and to lead his family)? Yes please. Also I love Carmine’s art. I gather it’s hit and miss for some folk but I love the line work. Also Carlos D’Anda’s issue (come baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack draw Dick and Roy again your work has gotten so much cuter this past decade) is a beauty too. Big ol’ eyes.

(Under the cut ‘cause this is LONG)

Batman Dark Victory

One of two Loeb stories for me. And yeah sure Long Halloween is objectively better but…jelly bean

Also, angry traumatised Dick smacking a dying man with a stick. What a legend.

Gates of Gotham

Cass! Damian! Dick!Bats! Tim! A mystery villain! World building for Gotham! Stuff exploding! Batfam banter! Trevor McCarthy art! This bizarre panel of Jim Gordon holding Tim’s hand like he’s checking the time?

It’s one of the last ‘pure’ Batman stories before the reboot – Bat Inc aside – so it’s how I like to read the Batfam’s relationship by the end of that universe. Everyone’s a lot more content, proud Dad Bruce, happy and settled Dick and Damian, Cassandra returning home, Tim chopping off the emo hair… it’s all good.

Grayson (particularly #5)

I know why people can’t stand it. The circumstances leading up to it are bog awful. Opinions on Tom King’s writing has only grown more spliced with time. The (sex) jokes are too on the nose and hit too close to home for many. The cheesecake art is too stilted for some. But! Issue #5 is my favourite single issue story. Ever. You never have thought boxes in this series, because everyone is lying, but you aren’t told when. You never know how genuine Dick is being at any given moment, until it is just him and the baby. I love how single-minded it allows him to be. I love how he flat out lies and manipulates to protect that little girl, whilst also caring for Helena. About how seriously he takes his job of protecting Bruce and his family (and that’s why he’s even doing the stupid spy thing in the first place). And maaaaybe it’s unrealistic that Dick could outlast Midnighter crossing the desert, but screw it. Bruce can be better than metahumans all the time. Let Dick get an issue to be so to. Saving a little girl who is probably going to grow up to be akin to Superwoman. Just because he’s given himself that responsibility. He’s going to double cross twenty groups at the same time and come out clean as a whistle. And he’ll cross a desert with a newborn to do it.

Light of my fricking life.

Infinite Crisis

I…I like that things go boom. John’s is very good for that. Also, the Nightwing and Batman moments howowheheheheheheeeeeeee. Almost wish Bruce had shot Alexander. I wonder what would have happened?

(Brief side note: Graphic Audio’s adaptation of this is great fun. I dropped a bowl of cereal at the part of Superboy Prime versus the Titans. Cassie’s scream when Pantha’s head got punched off was a bit…intense. The No Man’s Land one is very good too if you have cash to burn - the voice actors are the same in both and Nightwing’s voice actor has this lisp and I don’t know man... I love it. He’s now the voice in my head for Dick).

Titans/JLA and The Titans (1999) issues 1-25

The Titans are now known I think for not being a very proactive hero group. Books struggle with balancing team dynamics versus plot, and this one is no exception. I know people don’t want to touch Devin Grayson’s stuff with a barge pole. My justification for this is flimsy I accept that, however, the JLA/Titans comic was the very first comic I read when I was like six or seven. I was rummaging through my brother’s room as a nosy kid does and this was at the top of his pile. Thank god for the little info boxes as each Titan was captured/referenced. I fell in love with Kory, I fell in love with Dick, I fell in love with Donna (oh Donna…) and then I tumbled down a hole and pretended I hadn’t until about six years ago. So that’s nice. So yes, this one is one hundred percent nostalgia based.

But honestly, Linkara did a retrospective on this event comic and series years ago, and his reasons for loving it are the same as mine really, so go watch those if you have like five hours to kill. When Devin leaves the comic remains strong for just a moment then... absolutely plummets off a cliff. So I really wouldn’t bother with the second half of the series but hey. You do you.

Teen Titans/Outsiders: The Insiders

More Geoff John’s explosions. My first comic that got bought for me. My brother walked in to the shop and said: “I need a comic for my sister where Starfire gets a good showing” and the men went… ah yes.

Eleven-year old me was like EXPLOSIONSSSSS but also was intrigued by Kory and Dick’s bedtime convos (perhaps…I was a bit under the age bracket for this book - Kory gets a good showing huh?) but uh. Anyway. Also this is when I was thoroughly enamoured with Roy. This crossover is typical Winnick and John’s angsty angst with overly poetic narration and tropey tropes which, combined with what came before and what was to come for the Outsiders, can make both series such a slog to get through, but in isolation, I think it’s a real fun crossover which gave everyone a bit of time to shine and some real fan-ficcy moments (very self-indulgent, and I love that in a comic).

Teen Titans: Year One

I love Amy Wolfram and I love Karl Kerschel. It’s a good intro to those five characters with cute stories. Does exactly what it says on the tin. Batman is demonstrably a major prick in this, even after de-brainwashing, so it’s obviously going with the ‘Dick is only half as functioning as he is thanks to Roy, Wally, Garth and Donna’, which I can get behind 100% depending on what story they are trying to tell, but it’s just… it’s still sad to read. I just think the art is brilliant at giving each of the five very clear characteristics just from their body language, and you know immediately what each character dynamic is like with another.

Batman Hush

The other Loeb story. Again, it has what I like in a Batman story. A mystery, the family, appearances of villains, flashbacks and brooding, fighting, Jim Lee’s Nightwing being hunky… Ahem. It’s a fun read I think. Also, I really like Loeb’s Bruce? I don’t think people talk about it much. But he’s really chatty in his own head. And he’s witty and dry and funny. I like that! Also, Babs is such a backbone of this story. I adore that. She’s treated well here, I think.

Black Mirror

I flipping love this arc. I love it. I love the two contrasting but deeply disturbing in different manner art styles, I love the mystery, I love Babs role in the story, I love Tim’s little appearances and the banter with Dick, I love the weird villains and the terrifying ones, and how you think one is one of the two only to be revealed to be the other or both. I love Dick’s investigation and how he goes about it differently to Bruce. I love Dick’s relationship with Jim, I love the flipping reference to the vultures and owls seemingly following Dick (a whole reboot before Snyder got to tell that story), I love the monologue about how James thinks Dick is weird and weak for his compassion and love, when really that’s his greatest strength, I love Jim wanting so hard to believe James is trying against Babs’s cynicism, but also does try to get an unbiased opinion of someone who is proven good at reading people (Dick) and does what he needs to when his son is actively harming people, I love that ambiguous ending and the questionable science, I even love the Joker’s one (1) scene with Dick. I love this line,

I love Snyder at his best. When he’s good…mwah. Great.

…And yeah. That’s my story.

#dc #dick grayson #bruce wayne #wally west #koriand'r #roy harper #batfam #the titans #the fab five #I love talking about things I like I'm sorry this is so long!#ask and I'll babble #Anonymous

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yibuo · 4 years ago

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1. As a SA I agree with u that sex is something we dont discuss and we never even touch the topic until we think we're grown up to talk abt, even with friends. I love it when western ppl try to discuss and dissect asian content with their own values and upbringing. So I dont really think lwj or wei ying are asexual at all, the story in the novel starts at a tender age of 13 or 14 and most asian kids at that age are really kids, No 13 year I knew was confident abt dating at that young age.

2. But I disagree u on one think I loved the way the author wrote lan zhan, coz this boy has hidden away from any human emotion. He locked himself in the library or used to practice what he learned, he never even learned the art of simple conversation and suddenly him realising that he might have fallen in love must have made his life unstable. Him telling his brother that he might be in love just tells u how much wei ying affected him, he just didnt have the tools to express the need and love

3. Lwj was smitten and even wrote a song just for them, he wasnt confident enough and didnt know enough to make a move, when he did wei ying forgot and so lwj kept thinking he was reject but still stood with him. Lwj is basically the longing and wwx was disbelief. Wwx never believed he was worth anything, he might have gotten a house to call home but the way the lady of the house treated him made him have issues. Love wasnt the only thing which made him give his golden core to jc.

4. It was also the sense of duty that these ppl helped me now I have to sacrifice myself for them. Even with lwj he keeps thinking hes ruined lwjs white cloths everytime they end up fighting someone or thing. He felt guilty for his feelings coz he wasnt sure that he would be ever accepted anywhere. Wen for him became a mission coz he lived as a dirt poor kid, he knew how they felt.

5. So yep I dont think lwj or wwx were written badly it's just the cultural thing coming in abt relationships. I seriously am loving this writers another novel coz they write the relationship like normalised relationships. Couples are made when one person is persuaded by the other. Never have I seen both ppl fall in love at the same time. P.S. sorry for the rant, it just makes me angry when white ppl think that us asians live their kind of life style

hey! this is going under the cut because much food for thought. you made 2 valid points and i’ll reply to both. also please feel free to correct me if i’m wrong. this is just based on my experience as a south asian lgbt who had the luxury to grow up and figure out this whole sex and lgbt thing along with other (east & south) asian lgbt individuals. i’m definitely not opposed to criticism and it’s important that i be corrected should i have said something wrong !!!!! and tbh that might give me some priviledge because i know some asian individuals probably didn’t have the same type of support group that i did to help figure out sexuality things

western values and expectations being pushed onto asian media - i think it’s really funny how people from the west like to push their expectations of romance/relationships onto asian media. like asian parents, east or south, are very minimal about exposing us to sex ed and sex in media, and media itself is very minimal on showing sexual attraction between characters (straight or gay) and romance is limited to kissing and hugging (unless it’s after marriage...maybe). like sex is just viewed as a baby-making tool?? i had this convo with my 1st gen east-asian friends last night nd we all came to the conclusion that we grew up w the idea that “sex happens but it only happens to ur partner for the rest of ur life” kinda thing so it’s completely a culture shock to us when western media has high-schoolers having sex and being chill about it ?? i couldn’t even imagine. so yeah anyway. not asexual. no sex in the show doesn’t mean asexual.that’s just not how dramas work lol plus yeah lol why are people expecting teenagers to have sex like...???? that’s just not a thing in mainstream media btw i’m not saying that gay sex shouldn’t be in asian media- i’m just tryna say that sex in general isn’t prominent especially in asian media

also it’s really interesting a lot of people were like the western idea of gay relationships are “conservative” like i feel like the hypersexualization especially of gay men started from western culture (specifically cis white males, for ex, when they first started making clinics to target lgbt people, the clinics were modeled after cis white males, which ended up ostracizing other lgbt groups) lol (like have U Seen All The Gay Thirst Traps On TikTok Lol /s) i’ve seen a lot of my friends (asian and white alike) be negatively affected by these standards which are propogated by the hypersexualization of gay males

wangxian- for lwj i just wish they didn’t write that part where he was some angsty teen who had to blindfold kss his crush to get his point across...i think that part was just so weird because it kinda furthers the idea of “people forcing each other on other people is romantic” but like it really isn’t?? idk that’s just my 2 cents i feel like that’s common sense lol and then i think it’s weirder that he hides it and even weirder that at the end it’s just cool “like o u forced kissed me? i thought it was a girl or something but that’s cool whatever <3″ idk it was just weird and it didn’t sit well w/ me. i’ve just seen people close to me affected by this kind of stuff and romanticizing of noncon just doesn’t seem like a kink it’s just. weird. sorry i don’t know how to form sentences. otherwise i really liked the idea of lwj being someone who’s so far from romance and love and expressing emotion turning into someone who shows love and loyalty

tldr; asian mainstream media doesn’t really focus on sex (not sexuality but sex), kinky sexy times are ok but noncon isn’t, western ppl stop tryna take over the world pls

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irondadgroupie · 5 years ago

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Tony starts an LGBT- club

@marvelstheavengers and I have had the best time spewing out headcanons! This one we had many many weeks ago. I was going through our convos and this one is way too precious. LOTS OF IRONDAD AHEAD!!!!

irondadgroupie

I believe both Tony and Peter are Bi

Tony is canonically Bi in the comics

Tony would take Peter under his wing and take him to Pride or they would have their own little party in the Tower, with themed cupcakes

marvelstheavengers

Tony is hella bi

*bi

that man is the most bi man in the universe

And I think Peter would be too with his crush on Thor and maybe even Cap!

marvelstheavengers

And I love the idea of pride parade led by Tony and Peter

Or even just a casual rainbow party

irondadgroupie

Peter and Tony watch LOTR trilogy in the party, others complain about the lack of women but they just say ARE YOU KIDDING A BUNCH OF HOT MEN THIS IS HEAVEN!

marvelstheavengers

Hahaha yesssss!

And I can totally see them getting into like every action movie ever because MUSCLES

irondadgroupie

Skimpy clothed women plus hot men :D

And Tony pointing out cute teens when they are out, which always makes Peter blush

marvelstheavengers

Awww yes I love Tony trying to set Peter up

irondadgroupie

Tony always building up Peter's self confidence

"You're a good looking kid, why not go out there and ask him out?"

marvelstheavengers

“How could he say no to those eyes?”

And Peter just blushes so much

irondadgroupie

"As easily as you said no to me using the Iron Man armor."

marvelstheavengers

When he does ask someone out Tony stands by closely gesturing with encouragement

irondadgroupie

"Hey, that is a weapon, totally different"

marvelstheavengers

Ahahahahah I love that line

irondadgroupie

Tony behind the crush with thumbs up

And if Peter is rejected, he gives him a sidehug and buys ice cream to cheer him up

marvelstheavengers

And mouthing stuff like “doing great, go for the hug”

Ice cream occurs literally no matter what

Can you imagine Peter practicing flirting with the Avengers

Each one gives him style tips

Like Steve is all classy and “open doors, be polite, be classy, etc”

And Natasha is all like “SHOW THEM HOW BAD ASS YOU ARE SHOW THAT ASS BE PROUD YOU KNOW WHAT JUST FIGHT THEM ITS SUPER SEXY”

And Bruce claims he’s the worst person to ask

marvelstheavengers

Thor gives Asgardian advice “Court them sweetly, leave honeyed nectar for them each morning, and be sure to ask them out with great grandeur... fireworks are always a success!”

Everyone tries to help plan him the perfect date

irondadgroupie

Eventually Tony comes in and brushes them all off, telling them not to confuse his kid

irondadgroupie

"Do what makes you comfortable? You like cafes- go there. Want to take a walk- a great idea. I can't give you a guidebook on this, kiddo. It's all trial and error."

marvelstheavengers

“Trust me, I’ve had a plentyyy off dates. They go bad if you’re out of your comfort zone. Or if you’re an asshole like I was.”

“Just go with your gut, Underoos”

And don’t forget the safety lectures from Tony

“Safe sex is good sex, Peter.”

irondadgroupie

Tony giving Peter the talk :D Oh, I need to see that

"Even if neither of you could get pregnant, always use protection. Use more than one if you want to."

"Also, masturbation is a great way to find out what you like and don't- "

"MR STARK!"

marvelstheavengers

“Kid, it’s a perfectly natural bodily-“

marvelstheavengers

“STOP!”

irondadgroupie

"There is nothing embarrassing about it and it doesn't grow hair in hands or anything ridiculous, so just go on if you feel like it"

"And if you don't want to have sex yet, no pressure. Never let anyone pressure you. Sex should be fun!"

marvelstheavengers

“And don’t forget, no one chooses when you’re ready, that’s all you.”

irondadgroupie

Wow, mind sync :D

marvelstheavengers

“If you don’t like it you can stop anytime!”

Hahaha that was perfect

Gosh that would be adorable

And of course even if Peter didn’t want to talk about it

The next day he’d find condom, lube, and various other safety and pleasure devices with a smiley face note

irondadgroupie

"And if anyone ever tries to force themselves on you, kick, scream, hit them in the balls. Anything is allowed in that situation."

Oh yeah, Tony does some late night shopping and Peter hides the box, he can't even look into it :D

marvelstheavengers

“And tell an adult what happened, especially me. I promise I won’t kill them. Ok, maybe a little but they’d deserve it!”

irondadgroupie

He can't imagine his mentor picking out stuff for him

marvelstheavengers

Hahah yesss!

And can you imagine Tony walking in on Peter researching how to be intimate with males (like whether you need lube, etc)

And Tony didn’t realize he was bi, so of course he’s happy for Peter and gives him advice on how to be intimate with both genders

Peter might be embarrassed at first, maybe he hasn’t come out yet, but Tony would be so loving and helpful!

irondadgroupie

"I'm serious, kid, if someone tries anything, tell me. That kind of a situation can be very traumatizing. And remember, it is never your fault, it's the fault of the person who can't control his urges and doesn't respect you"

irondadgroupie

At first Tony walks in on Peter masturbating. Tony immediately covers his eyes, apologizes and closes the door. They avoid each other for the rest of the day and next morning are overly polite.

irondadgroupie

Yes, Peter didn't really ever come out as Bi, Tony just found out. Peter was nervous Tony was going to treat him differently, he knew Tony was Bi but would he be alright with Peter being one. Would Tony even believe him or would he say it is just a phase and avoid the topic? What if Tony abandoned him?

marvelstheavengers

Oooo yes! Imagine the awkwardness, Peter is worried Tony will make him give up his room after that display, since he’s heard a lot of people are against masturbation, but Tony explains its natiral

And Peter is super worried when Tony finds out

irondadgroupie

"Kid, I know all about this so if you have any questions, I am more than happy to help. Or if you don't feel comfortable with talking about this stuff with me, I can recommend you to some good websites. You know, there are groups for LGBT youth, would you be interested in that?"

Yep, Tony is totally cool with masturbation

"Hey, I do it also!"

marvelstheavengers

So Tony starts his oan

*own

Peter says he doesn’t want a stranger leading him in an LGBT group

irondadgroupie

"I knew it but I DID NOT need a confirmation"

marvelstheavengers

It actually starts as a program at the tower

irondadgroupie

"Just lock the door next time, alright. Saves us both from embarrassment."

marvelstheavengers

Hahahah yes!

Peter would be so awkward over that stuff

Tony offers to make him a do not disturb sign

irondadgroupie

TONY LEADING A LGBT CLUB!

Peter uses the sign every time he can, eventually it is extremely difficult for Tony to tell what Peter is doing in that room since the sign is always on the door. Peter doesn't want to signal the world he is pleasuring himself :D

marvelstheavengers

Isn’t that the best?!

irondadgroupie

YEAH!

marvelstheavengers

Tony just starts ignoring the sign, which leads to more issues, which leads to a lock installation

marvelstheavengers

which eventually causes problems when Peter sneaks out to be spiderman

Tony would be the best LGBT leader

I’m talking rainbow cakes, walls, food, fucking parades

He’d try to normalize it

Especially after being ostracized by his own father

He’d give safe sex, flirting, and other tips

irondadgroupie

They have snacks and Tony makes it a very relaxed event, the kids can talk if they have any issues, catch up with each other. Tony doesn't really make it LGBT themes, they don't really talk about politics but rather about normal life

marvelstheavengers

And each kid member would have his personal phone number in case they ever needed advice

irondadgroupie

Tony also offers one-on-one time if someone has a sensitive issue

marvelstheavengers

Yes! I love that!

marvelstheavengers

He’d totally want to normalize it, just talk about normal things, movies, etc

And when he notices two boys who have heart eyes for each other he goes to work trying to set them up!

irondadgroupie

They have movie nights, outings to interesting places and once have a pajama party, Peter and Tony realized neither of them had ever been in one

marvelstheavengers

It’s all about normalcy and being able to accept themselves, as well as provide advice if they ever need it

Oh my gosh I love pajama party fics!

It’d be an EPIC PJ party too

Maybe even some of the other Avengers would stop by

And tell the kids how they’re the true heroes accepting themselves and braving a world that can sometimes be ignorant

irondadgroupie

Exactly, Tony wants kids to accept themselves, they don't need to become active members of LGBT community, just to be functional adults. Peter makes many friends and gets lots of support for his thoughts.

Tony also makes sure there is no Bi-phobia since sometimes LGBT people don't really look kindly on them

irondadgroupie

Tony even accepts Bi-curious people, the more the merrier "It's not like we are arranging an orgy"

marvelstheavengers

Hahaha I love that!

He’d be the most welcoming person eber

And any signs of discrimination or phobia he would shut down so wuixk

quick

irondadgroupie

EPIC party alright. They have pizza, get to go to the Avengers gym where they try all the machines. Peter amazes them all with his gymnastics and Tony nearly has a heart attack as the boy does crazy tricks. Tony has the intention to go to his own floor but all the kids want him to stay. They all camp on the ground in sleeping bags and just gossip until Pepper comes and tells them to go to bed

marvelstheavengers

“Who the fuck still cares about sexual orientation? We should care about Earth’s orientation because my God we may have some future issues in that department”

Oh yes!

Pepper is *this* close to kicking Tony out, because he’s having the most fun of all!

In fact he encouraged it

marvelstheavengers

“Babe, every teenager stays up too late at a sleepover it’s only natural! And adds to childhood experience! I read a whole book on it”

irondadgroupie

Tony placing all kind of crazy bets and giving money to those who complete them succesfully

"The one who can fit most marshmallows in their mouth gets a dollar!"

marvelstheavengers

And the bets are ridiculous amounts, Tony practically throws money at the kids since he knows most can’t even afford college

Like $200 for whoever can do the best Shania Twain impression

irondadgroupie

Peter managed to get twenty marshmallows into his mouth, Tony still doesn't know how he did it

But the boy did need quick Heimlich since he started choking

marvelstheavengers

No more marshmallow contests after that 😂😂

irondadgroupie

Tony gives money away like crazy!

marvelstheavengers

It also turns out the quietest boy in the class can belt a tune

irondadgroupie

Peter would have been eager to do a round two :D

marvelstheavengers

Oh for sure! That boy grew up on food competitions after all.

irondadgroupie

500 dollars on who can eat most wasabi!

marvelstheavengers

Imagine Peter starting a youtube channel for “life advice from Mr. Stark” based off the group

Peter did not excel at that one

irondadgroupie

They have singstar battles, Tony is amazingly good singer

marvelstheavengers

Turns out his enhanced senses can NOT handle spice

irondadgroupie

Yep, Peter had tears in his eyes and had to forfeit :D

marvelstheavengers

Tony has a whole John Travolta combined with AC/DC vibe

He’s a great dancer, an even better air guitarist

irondadgroupie

Tony tries to avoid challenges that he knows Peter will dominate. Some teens ask for a handstand competition but Tony knows Peter would win it hands down

marvelstheavengers

Eventually, he has to appoint Peter as a judge for all gymnast competitions

irondadgroupie

They have all sorts of WII games in their space

marvelstheavengers

Tony competes instead

They also have an entire laser tag course

irondadgroupie

PETER AND TONY ON OPPOSING TEAMS!

They are determined to take each other down

marvelstheavengers

OH MY GOSH YES

Turns out Peter has an entire strategy board

irondadgroupie

Like, of course they work well and usually, if it is an Avenger challenge, they are paired up but now, war is on

irondadgroupie

Peter and Tony know the other's moves and plan based on that

"Peter favors heights, so be very careful when you see a ledge, try to keep the edges, that makes it harder to hit you."

marvelstheavengers

“And Peter also has really good... hearing, so try to be quiet. It’s best to go for him from a distance”

“Tony is great at setting traps, try not to move in predictable patterns, and don’t walk down one way paths”

irondadgroupie

It ends up with all of the opposing team members trying to take down Peter :D

"This is not fair!" Peter screams as he runs into cover.

marvelstheavengers

Peter is the biggest threat, he’s great at gymnastics and seems to have these super great instincts (woah what a shock)

So Tony’s strategy is definitely to have everyone corner him first

Peter is totally pissed about it

Once he’s out he ends up shouting advice to his teammates from afar

irondadgroupie

"Hey, no participating! You are dead!" Tony shouts

"I'm a ghost! Their guiding spirit!"

"Hush, you, RIP."

When they finally get Peter cornered and done for, Tony begins a small eulogy but Peter's kicks him in the shin in annoyance

marvelstheavengers

Hahahahahahaha I love that!

marvelstheavengers

“Peter was a good kid who always tried his hardest, but in the end he succumbed to laser tag. Let it be remembered that Tony outlived Peter in laser tag, and he’s nearly 50. RIP.”

Peter mumbles something about coming back to haunt Tony

And he makes sure next game to immediately target the man, not for strategy but REVENGE

irondadgroupie

Oh yeah, Peter is out to get Tony from now on :D In every game they play

irondadgroupie

Like once the group play football with Tony and Peter on opposing teams and Peter is dead-set on NOT giving Tony the ball.

irondadgroupie

Tony also doesn't want to give up.

At one point the ball is cornered to a wall and neither lets the other go

marvelstheavengers

And of course when someone fumbles in American football Tony and Peter are the first to dog pile on top, both refusing to move because oh my gosh what if the ball slips

In fact there’s a running tally on a chalkboard of Tony and Peters’s competitions

Members take bets, it’s all very serious

Of course at the end of the day, though, Tony ruffles Peter’s hair and slings an arm around him, Peter smiles and hands him a Coke.

irondadgroupie

Oh yes! All their fights are in good nature and they make sure to never injure each other!

By the way, Peter would be the ultimate Twister champion

How about Tony and Peter being a pair in Trivial Pursuit. Others think they are crushed but even that pair has things they don't know

irondadgroupie

Once they played basketball and Peter, being the smallest of the group was accidentally knocked down and sprained his wrist

marvelstheavengers

Tony totally freaked out and had Peter checked out by no less than three doctors

marvelstheavengers

Also don’t forget that one time at Twister when Peter’s sticky hands would NOT detach from the twister tarp, which ended up in one big burrito wrapped Peter Parker as everyone fled for their lofe

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and idk why it added random space and words lol

marvelstheavengers

Also in Trivial Pursuit Peter discovers Tony is useless at geography

marvelstheavengers

“You’ve literally been to Spain 10000 times how do you not know the capitol?!”

“You don’t ask ‘excuse me is this the capitol’ while you’re in a Spanish city!”

irondadgroupie

Peter in turn knows NOTHING about history

"When did World War 2 end?"

"Ummm- 19...82?"

irondadgroupie

Tony snorted. "Oh, yeah, I remember it so well. Fuck it, Peter, that's embarrassing."

Yes! Tony being a mother-hen is the best!

"Mr Stark, I just need some ice. It's fine, I have had much worse."

"Hush, now, rest. How many fingers am I holding up? I'm gonna tell you five words and I want you to repeat them in backwards order."

marvelstheavengers

Peter is totally just bad with years in general

In fact he frequently confused what year Tony was born

He alters between asking him what the Great Depression was like and what it was like to be - kid in the 90s

Tony has learned not to be offended that Peter thinks he was born in the 30s

The kid practically doesn’t even know when he was born

And yesssss! Tony totally mothers Peter when he’s injured

marvelstheavengers

He also obsessively worries

“When will he be able to walk again?”

“He... he sprained his elbow, Mr. Stark...”

“Exactly! Bed rest for a month, right?”

Peter of course is always insisting he’s fine

“Mr. Stark I have super healing! I’m practically invincible!”

“You think you’re WHAT NOW”

irondadgroupie

Yes! Peter forgets dates so easily "I know what you are talking about but I have no idea when it happened." Like Peter knows about 9/11, he knows where it happened, has been to the site, knows everything about it and still never gets the year right

"Peter, you were literally born the year it happened Jesus Christ! I am about to banish you!"

irondadgroupie

At first Tony was offended when Peter got his birth year wrong. Once Peter asked if Tony fought in Vietnam. Nowadays, if they play any kind of quiz and the question beings with "When", Tony immediately knows to cover Peter's mouth

irondadgroupie

Tony is not generally a mother-hen, he does not care if Peter eats healthy or goes to bed at a reasonable time but when Peter is injured or sick, he is out of his mind with worry.

"Mr Stark, it was just a sneeze. It's dusty in here."

"Yeah, nope, not taking a chance," Tony says while wrapping the boy in a million blankets

marvelstheavengers

Peter even has a single goosebump, you better believe Tony is bundling that boy up

He also consistently reminds Peter to eat

Like CONSTANTLY

Tony actually has FRIDAY make sure a sandwich is always made at regular intervals

Just in case

marvelstheavengers

Peter also once tried to get Tony to study with him, asking him questions about what the 40s were like

Tony knew not to get offended at this point, so he just dragged Cap in to tutor the boy

irondadgroupie

At first Tony went along with it, he knew some stories but then Peter started talking with "you" pronoun and Tony just dragged Cap into the picture

It is a miracle Peter passes history

marvelstheavengers

It’s pretty much only due to his amazing memory, which apparently expire the day after a history test. He retains absolutely nothing from that class.

Everything else, however, he’s an absolute genius with.

Tony doesn’t even realize how brilliant the boy is until they’re working on a science project

marvelstheavengers

Peter is trying to figure out a way to use bacteria to produce methane readily available for energy use

And Tony suggests adding a mechanized aspect, like a way to use nanoparticles to extract the bacteria’s respiration profucts

marvelstheavengers

And Peter immediately draws up plans for them to rely on sensory mechanisms

Idk I’m just kinda making this up as I go

Or Peter has an idea to upgrade Tony’s suit and probes him wrong about soemtjing

Regardless, Tony is shocked and realizes just HOW smart Peter is

#irondad

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lifeofbouyd · 5 years ago

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12 Years Anniversary

Fred: Yow, da gyal deh nice eno bwoy. Mi ago circle har enz an try get di digits.

He walked away, heading straight towards her. Walking as if he was going to collect a trophy. She was nice, really nice, that I must admit. She’s one of the nicest girls I had seen in a long time. Her hair was well done, her nails freshly painted or at least so they seemed. Her face, done to perfection and her dress, looked expensive. It swung a little above her ankles and rested perfectly on her body. Outlining her killer shape. She had a gold ring on her “wedding” finger and stainless steel on her pinky. I watched them greet each other and what actually caught my eyes was, how much of a lady she was. She seemed well groomed and too good for my liking. A “goody two shoes” was my first thought. Girls like these are normally either married, rich, or have a rich man taking care of them. I smelled trouble, yet there was so much desire. I felt like she was worth having. Not just for a night, but someone I’d be with for a while. They exchanged numbers as I pulled that fairytale thought from my mind. I hexed that shit. I was already in a sinking ship, no land in sight. I’d rather drown on my sinking ship that jumps across on her boat.

Fred: Yuh see how di genna work youth. Ago fuck that quick eno. Yuh zimi.

I humored him, knowing he normally never pulls through with these kinds of chicks. I’ve seen it one too many times to think differently. Fred was good when it comes to picking up girls, but he’s always had me as his role model. I was lucky when it came to women. Always getting the “better-looking ones”. Most of which turned out to be faces without priorities. I’ve had to learn the hard way that not all glitters is gold. Sometimes they’re not even gold filled. Days passed and I had forgotten about her. He didn’t mention her and I never remember to ask. I guess when you have your hands full it’s hard to keep up with likes. I spotted her one day staring at, and from the looks of it, she had been staring for a while. Taking in my presence as if she wanted me to say hi. I hadn’t heard him mention her I a while but I still didn’t want to take his link like that. I learned later that day that she had no interest in men. She considered them a total waste of her time and feels she’s better off with girls. Now I shared her view. I love girls just as much as she does. I’ve always had a Fetish for lesbian. Clean girly lesbians that is. I’d never fuck a butch even if she paid me to. I imagined all the things she’d do to me, and all the things I’d do to them. Mostly what I’d do to her. I still didn’t say hi for a while. I wanted to build the suspense between us and make the first conversation memorable. I planned it down to the very last second, every possible outcome, and I always walked away with her number. Again, I caught her watching me. Paying keen attention to me from head to toe. I got my convo together, but by the time I turned around again, she was gone. I argued with myself for a while until I accepted the fact that I was moving too slow. Again I forgot about her. Living my best life. Caught up chasing other chicks I was brave enough to start a conversation with.

Someone pats me in the shoulder.

Her: Hi, I’m Rachel. Wasn’t sure when you were gonna say hi, or if you ever would so I decided to be the first to say hi.

I took a few seconds to inhale her cologne and pay keen attention to her Weldon’s face, her pussy cheeks spreading over her pants crotch crease. Her breast sticking me in the face, her slippers which seemed she got it from House of Style or some other expensive women clothing outlet.

Her: 🙃 You can say hi you know. I won’t bite, at least not yet. I wanna get to know you first.

I froze. My palms got sweaty and heart heated like a fifty caliber gun. Well, she did say she wouldn’t bite me. At least not yet. Obviously, she was interested in getting to know me. But why me though? Of all the guys she could have, if all the guys that had been chasing her, why get to know me? I entertained her conversation and played it cool. Acting like I didn’t want her. Our conversations started off slow with basic texts and friendly flirting. Somehow she killed my urge by saying she Christian. I don’t mind dating Christians, but what I don’t like is someone consistently reminding me. She tried to get me to see eye to eye with her beliefs, but I just wasn’t ready to take that journey. I only plan on getting married and baptized once and I don’t intend to do it for the wrong reasons. We stopped talking for a while because I had decided not to chase her. It was more like respecting her religion and not trying to get between her legs. We went from 2:00 am calls to every other day texting. It became somewhat of a long distance relationship or friendship or whatever it was. I had accepted the fact that I wasn’t gonna have her, at least not as easy as I thought. In my mind, she would give me her number and I’d take her home and make her scream my name. But reality..... mmm. Reality is a bitch.

Lucky for me, I saw her one evening when I was buying dinner at a famous Chinese food place. I offered to pay for her food however, she ended up paying for mine. Trying to show she’s independent I guess. We sat and chat for a while which made me realize we had a lot in common. She braced her body against mine for the first time when she was leaving. She whispered in my ear, “This could be all yours if you’re a good boy.” She sent chills down my spine and made my dick rock hard. She ran her hand across the front of my pants and smiled. I didn’t know if it was a good or a bad smile but I’m sure I could drill a wall with my shaft. I walked her to her stand where she laid a wet “chups” on my forehead. You know that trickling feeling you get when electricity runs through your body? That’s the effect she had on me. We sext all night, building curiosity between us two. She told me how she wanted to make me cum all over her and sanctify her with my rod. Now, I don’t like to count my eggs before they hatch, but I considered it a done deal. A few days passed and the fetish became a relationship. One I’ll always remember. The funny thing about it is, I had no plans whatsoever to be in any form of ships. But I was too far out in the sea by the time I realized what I had gotten into. To be honest, I really didn’t mind. Everything seemed ok. She said there was no husband, no boyfriend, no girlfriend or anyone of that nature, and she never gave me a reason to doubt her. Before I knew it I was in love. Head over heels kind of love. Shit. I wanted to run but I couldn’t. She had me hooked on her like a coke headed drunky. We moved from occasional hugging and texting to kissing and phone sex. I knew girls were horny but damn, she had no stop in her. It would seem she hadn’t been eating for a while and was just trying to take all she could get. I was down for that.

I invited her over one weekend with intentions of fixing her business. I cleaned the place from floor to ceiling and made it smell like a five-star resort. I even did a fancy spread on the bed to sell the look. White fluffy carpet on the floor and breathtaking scented candles lit on the wall. I loaded an Amazon video for her to watch while I took a shower. I came out in nothing but my towel on, trying to look super sexy for her. I popped us a bottle of Grey Goose and made my deluxe mix with a bottle of Rosè. A sweet, lingering, sparkling mix. Halfway between the first glass, she was already half naked, making herself at home. She turned the movie off and started playing sex songs. I watched her stretch and touched her toes before whining out her bra and underwear. Squeezing her nipples and biting her lips. Now I’ve seen a lot of fat pussy in my life, but she had something different. “Too bad you don’t eat”, she said with a smirk on her face. But even I did, I’m sure I’d suffocate somewhere there 😂. She pulled the towel off and reached for my dick. She gently stroked it as she ran her tongue up and down my leg. I couldn’t help but hold her head each time she moved. The sensation was unbearable. She then sat on top and slid her pussy back and forth the length of my cock, causing her to get super wet. Less than a minute or two she had already cum. “No condom, no love”, she said. Sliding her self back and forth on my dick. I slid my hand in the pillowcase and pulled out three packs of condoms. Scented, glow in the dark and ribbed. I slipped a ribbed on and made her ride herself to another orgasm before flipping her over on her back. I pulled her to the edge of the bed and beat her clit with my shaft. That shit made her squirt. Her pussy was gushing cum and I hadn’t even started beating it up yet. I slid my way inside her and stroked her slow and deep. Holding her neck with one hand while I held her leg with the other. Her eyes rolled back, she screamed my name, she vibrated, and vibrated, and vibrated again. All this cumin made her weak. I had her lap her legs around my waist and her hands around my neck. Standing upright, I held her waist and pulled her back and forth the length of my shaft, causing her to squirt like a broken wipe. She released her hand from around my neck and almost hit the floor. All that fun had made her weak. I braced her against the wall, high enough to give her the full length of my dick. I kissed and fucked and sucked her nipples until she begged me to cum. I spread her legs wide and struck her like lightning until I exploded. Again, she flooded me. Squirting so much the floor was soaked. She was so tired she fell asleep the moment I put her back on the bed. She was knocked the fuck out.

I had to drive her home that night. She was too tired to even bathe herself. We fucked several times after that and had many picnic dates which made me want her even more. Who does a picnic and have sex in the bushes? Before I knew what hit me we were inseparable. Living the life. #Relationshipgoals #Happylife #Bae. I had given in, putting my heart on the line. Expecting hers in return. I had it, I’m sure I did. God knows I had it. But like everything else in my life, that got fucked too. I remember being home one weekend, watching a movie and texting some chicks when my phone rang. A random 876 number. I don’t normally answer numbers I don’t know, but this person was calling a number very few people have. It must be pretty important. What if it’s work? What if it’s an x I haven’t seen in a while and would love to bang again. I missed the first call. I figured if it was important they’d call again. My other Jamaican number started ringing. To my surprise, it was the same number. Obviously, this person wanted something so I answered. I stayed mute and so did the caller. The call ran for like two minutes before the caller said hello.

Caller: Bouyd.... Hello, is this Bouyd?

Me: Who dis?

Caller: You don’t know me but I know you. I’m calling to warn you before you get too deep and something happens to you.

Me: What? Warn me? From who? Who’s this?

Caller: I’m Craig, Rachel’s man.

Me: Which Rachel?

Caller: The someone you tucked last week and dropped off after eleven.

Me: 😳🙄🤭😏🤤. I chuckled to myself for a few before responding. Oh, that Rachel, I know her pretty well. I see you know a lot.

Caller: Yes. I watched you follow her in and squeezed her ass at the door before leaving. I could have knocked you out but I chose not to.

Me: 😂🤣😳🤔 now this is serious. How could he possibly know this? Was he actually there? I bet this is a prank call. Breda, wa yuh want? Mi nuh run certain joke eno bad man. Talk fast or walk fast eno.

Caller: A loud mouth won’t help you son.

I hissed my teeth and ended the call. Who does he think he is? Calling me so late at night to talk about rubbish. At the same time, I was worried. He spoke facts. He knew exactly what I did. I did see a white car parked across the street that night that wasn’t normally there. He messaged me on WhatsApp to answer my phone. Like wtf? How did he even get my WhatsApp number? He called again and I answered. He explained who he was and how he fits in the big picture. He made me tea how long he’s been paying attention to my movements. He knew when we fucked, where we fucked, where we went on dates and even some stuff I’ve only told her. What stood out to me most was when he said, “I could have hurt you so many times but I chose not to because I figured she played you well. He sent me pictures to prove his speech and gave me very detailed information that he had acquired about over a few weeks. I didn’t know what to do. “Now that you know, it’s up to you to decide what you do from here.” He said good night and hung up.

Leaving me in suspense. A million questions ran through my messages be. How could she do this to me? How did a twelve years relationship fit in our four months of dating? Is that even possible? She never slipped up, she never gave me a reason to doubt her. She made me believe that I could have someone for me, myself and I. She made me open up and let her in. Shit 😔. Did I shit in a fucking church or something? Don’t I deserve to be happy without hiccups too. Sigh 😔. Where did I go wrong? Did I fall for her too quickly, did I put my basket where I can’t reach it, is this karma, did I hurt someone who God wants me to repent for? What do I say to her? Should I stay with her, is it safe. I thought with both my heads as I wanted to ensure I made the right decision. I loved her and I love fucking her, but is it worth my life? Would she die for me? What would she do if she was in my shoes? Do I even mention this to her? Sigh 😔. I stayed all night wondering if he had followed me home and was outside waiting for me to act us to ambush me 🤔. She called me several times but I didn’t answer. Could it be a test? What if he was using her phone to call me to see if I would answer? What if she was calling me to say it was a prank? I grew paranoid. He told me to be patient until I see her and I will see that everything he told me was true. So said so done. The new hair do courtesy of, the brand new phone and the marks on her neck. I wanted it to be a joke, I wanted her not to show up the way he said she would. I swallowed my heart that day. Tears ran down my cheeks and I couldn’t stop crying. Why was I crying though? It’s not like it’s first I’ve fucked a nigga’s chick. What was so special about her that I didn’t want to share? Then it hit me, it’s simply because I had fallen in love with an illusion she created. She had created me a photoshop life in 3D. I told her what happened and I told her how I felt. Shit, I even had the guts to say it was over.

She tried for weeks to explain that they were no longer together but I was beyond her white lies. She sent sexy pictures to make me miss fucking her, which I actually did. But I just couldn’t see past what happened. I guess I felt like I was cheated out the chance to choose to date her while she had someone. I would have felt a lot better if she had told me this from the start. I wouldn’t have had my expectations so high. She taught me a lesson that will part me through life. A woman knows what she wants and she knows just how to get it. Women don’t get caught cheating unless they want to get caught, and a woman will create the life she thinks you want to live.i could have lost my life, #Dead. To top it off she said I was ungrateful. She had put her life in jeopardy to be with me and I repaid her by breaking up with her and taking his side. But if she did that to him, what would she do to me? He had the house, the money, the car and I had nothing but a good old dick. I guess that’s what she wasn’t at home.

Life isn’t always about what you can offer. Everybody want vanity, but if they ain’t getting the amount of attention, sex or fun that they’re looking for; “bun” will be your best friend.

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haquarius · 6 years ago

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please talk about harry’s libra moon!!!!

omg i squealed when i got this message. you’ve unleashed the beast anon!

where do i even start?! okay well i’ve always said that i feel like libra moons act like libras more than libra suns do (i’m a libra sun and i relate more to my moon sign. this is not everyone’s case, but i feel like harry’s moon sign is really prevalent in his personality. maybe it’s because the moon sign is the “inner self” and it encompasses all feelings, deep desires and soul urges that not everyone sees. but, since i’ve been a 1d stan since 2012, harry’s libra moon just became more obvious to me as time went on!

so some general stuff about libra moons that i can see in harry’s personality…there’s a lot, but i’ll start with libra’s struggle to not rock the boat. libra moons are known for their easy-going attitude. they like being liked and they’re not fond of causing drama or confrontation, in fact it disturbs their emotional well-being to refrain from being on good terms with everyone. libra moons are some of the most sensitive, kind, and gracious people you will ever meet, but they’re also notorious people pleasers! a lot of times, libra moons will pretend things don’t bother them, even when they do, just so they don’t come across as rude. let’s take harry with paps for example.

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i don’t know about y’all, but personally i would not be able to handle this as calmly and as politely as he did. this is libra moon culture at its PEAK! it’s like 2am, he looks pissed, but he hits them with,“i would really appreciate it if you guys left me alone” like? this is probably the angriest i’ve ever seen him, going as far as to call the other pap “really rude” but he’s still composed and keeps his voice level. air moons are truly…something else. he even says, “harry. un placer” at the end after the pap tells harry his name. by ‘un placer’ he means “i’m harry. it was a pleasure [to meet you]” idk if that’s genuine or some dry aquarius mercury humor, but there’s a libra moon handling a messy situation for you! me and louis’ fire moons could never, but fooken losah is iconic so. a big part about being a libra moon is having a strong need to feel accepted and approved. lunar librians are known to trample down parts of their personality to fit a certain mold that people want to see, and after a while of doing that, it hurts. i truly think air moons struggle a lot with self-identity just because they forget who the person behind their own mask is. i feel like harry’s mostly outgrown this and has gone onto not giving a fuck, but for an undeveloped baby libra moon? yeah it’s tough :(

the next thing is like, one of my favorite things about libra moons. their natural charm! air signs, libras especially, are excellent communicators and people that other people enjoy being around. they’ll put you at ease, compliment your outfit, and ask how your grandma’s doing all in one conversation without it feeling awkward. they chose their words carefully, not wanting to step on any toes. however, conversation flows easily no matter who they’re talking to, and with his aqua mercury i imagine convos with him contain multitudes of topics, like fashion, politics, and loch ness monster theories. we all know it’s you, harry. harry is fabulous around other people, and that libra moon really shines through when he’s around people he feels comfortable with, on stage, or during interviews. he’s just good at making people smile, we been knew

that’s right, baby. expose his libra moon ass

and now for harry styles, flirt extraordinaire. now, this is actually a problem a lot of libras struggle with, and it’s that they come off as flirty when they’re not trying to be. as mentioned above, libras are natural charmers to everyone they meet, and unfortunately, some people take that the wrong way. people can sometimes confuse kindness with flirting, and a libra moon is probably behind all that. they are just excessively nice so you’re left kinda like ??? it’ not flirting, though. their speech is just always pretty coy sounding and light, and people get the wrong idea, sadly. when a libra moon is flirting seriously though, it’s like an explosion of romance. i mean, libra’s ruling planet is venus. how sappy can you get? harry’s flirting might be a little more toned down and ‘quirky’ with that detached aqua venus, but he’s still got that romantic libra moon, so it’s still pretty mushy. harry’s “flirty” quips toward men while he’s performing, like,“on your wonderful, wonderful arse” show that he’s a raging non-straight man and that he’s got jokes! that’s really all they are! jokes! they make the crowd laugh, the dads get a laugh too, and harry succeeds in charming the whole arena in less than 5 seconds. it’s not that deep. but, i feel like that’s why management pushed that womanizer image on harry all those years ago. it disgusts me that they’d take advantage of his kindness and willingness to make people feel good. but yeah, harry isn’t a womanizer, stay woke. he’s just silly and likes to assure people of how awesome they, or their butts are.

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here’s harry picking fun at dads amen

i have more to add onto this post so !! watch for more hastrology installments. i want to get started on louis, too! i hope you all enjoyed! feel free to add stuff i’ve missed!

#THIS IS LONG AS FUCK IM YELLING #harry #harry styles #astrology #mail #anon #hastrology

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serak-sarak-meta-sarahk · 3 years ago

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No matter how THEY dress, I can also have a dad or in the same platonic dress genre of those men out in public that i don't question or fear IN PUBLIC or try to notice when I see them with a clean looking sailboat white guy around - they have thick neck skin or hand skin holding their phone so you know they might offer advice you can take and it's not possible sham advice at the place to try to start a convo

I do like that we have an autopilot skin type to oiliness or dress style despite race to know their advices can be seriously taken as help ideas to light not false or ill will or with me too ulterior motive criticism

Sometimes I think the population of 'sailboat eunthisiasts' took on like non racially other styles of dress to stop trafficking but that's a silly thought when I'm scared of outside.

Because sailboat people are out in the sun a lot, even when their sunburn goes away and it's back to white skin it looks thicker. Or like they use industrial sunscreen skin they're skin might still look soft singular layer of oil.

They will sometimes dress a little indie pop dad genre of music dress but they aren't athletic extreme skinny like the genre of music. And so the fun thing about it all is it looks silly on them. But it doesn't because it's actually their size.

So then that's a quick no safety wonder if they talk at you before you make an exit to full dissect the words type public person. If they talk I will still dissect the advice to what I think my dad would say if the info is economy based or things to stay away from or whatever

They are not "thems"

Even if you happen to stumble into a natural convo, it's platonic funny if it gets funny at all. Or their info is astronomically cool for the times. Still safe on sailboat enthusiasts with sailboat euthisiast knowledge.

The FBI didn't lead me to this but testing their camps did.

They hit a big lime green when I was in college. I felt a big tropical vibe transfer for the enthusiasts. They went back to tropical blues and navies.

Light out. In a good way for making college still seem like it could be labeled as a time of your life time.

That's why I like sailboat type enthusiast groups outside at Starbucks for leaving.

They laugh when you dodge them. Because they want you to dodge them.

Then you get outside and it's like lol honestly... that was a weird experience I'll accept as funny

No reason to text about s weirdness feeling since I made it outside safe and could drive around get home whatever go to wal Mart with no words.

Then other people aren't scary either. You get however many weeks of more times before the next creepy feeling around actually by expectation or verbage or what media says is happening.

Creepy meter for how self creeped on you feel outside resets. Then the world feels more base line.

In college they hit so much fashion I thought office men who normally wear THICK SUITS were having a fashion rehaul. I would worry about their suit wool back in the day. Then from coffee shops I was like ohhhmg offices allow j crew type and like fashion difference per person less than that for outside walkers to work from non location garages.

That's what sailboat euthisiast fashion does help with is like less worry about the office folk. The evolution of this in public I feel like after FBI advice testing can know these men generally lead to a W2 safe work actually with those guys honestly with the safe part being just a forefront job if you get their advice and need that change from your job environment only or just no trouble for you to leave to home alone no stalk to follow.

Kind of thing. And if you see one you remember to bring the job task dissection up in your brain about your literal job ready to go if they advice you. Because the headlines always suck but you know they will eventually get it to the job front W2 safe work path with the safe work path name droppers. If you do drop that as scary instead if the headlines. Then like if it is the job as in what you choosing go to as your job that is fine it's just a happy job time.

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textalotter · 4 years ago

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🤖 Random Observations about the Mars Signs 🤖

Mars in Aries: Aggressively pursues whatever they’re after, whether it’s a goal or a person or a victory. “Short fuse” is an understatement. Not afraid to say or do anything they believe in. Can have a bit of a childish view of the world, no patience for the complexities. Often become heroes in the eyes of others for their diehard strength of will, but also get a lot of eyerolls and facepalms from people who think they’re too reckless or reactionary. They like to go hard and fast in relationships (in more ways than one), so they don’t have the time for people who aren’t upfront, honest, and confident about what they want. They’re the type of person who would leap into a burning building to save someone, without a second thought.

Mars in Scorpio: Even when they’re in a good mood, you can feel hostility suffused in the air around them. Scary as hell when they’re angry. Living with them means walking on eggshells. If they’re artistic they can make beauty out of the most fucked-up subject matter. Fascination with death. Does not know how to compromise, would rather die than give ground on what they believe in. Has the force of will to do pretty much anything. Usually not afraid to talk about sex, for them it’s like discussing the weather. Might be into some really kinky or taboo sex acts, might even be horny 24/7. They dominate others without even having to try. Probably has resting bitch face. When they’re not screaming with rage, they usually maintain complete calm and control in public because they loathe vulnerability of any kind. Being near them is an intense experience no matter who you are.

Mars in Aries: one is often attracted to a strong, independent, and forthright partner, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, confident, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy lovers are not usually the most attractive lovers to these people, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types. Partners who don’t beat around the bush, who state what they want, and who display a certain level of confidence are ideal.

Mars in Scorpio: a complicated, dark, powerful, and passionate partner is the biggest turn-on. One wants a partner with “layers”- one who has depth and is complicated enough to intrigue them. One is especially attracted to lovers who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious (even brooding), and who have a magnetic and powerful aura. Intensity is a turn-on for these people - flighty, superficial, and indifferent types need not apply! These people generally do enjoy a certain level of possessiveness in a partner.

🌓💥 Moon & Mars: Experiencing Emotions and Expressing Them 💥��

Water moon ☽ (Cancer, Pisces):

Water moon experience emotions deeper and can understand the layers and complexity it brings. While their strength is admirable, their weakness is holding emotions in until it becomes too much to handle. This isn’t because they avoid emotions, it is the conflicts they may cause to those around they don’t want. Emotions guide what they would and should do. Emotions becomes too much to handle when they feel they are being treated poorly.

+ Fire Mars ♂️: A combination of water moon and fire Mars means they navigate life with emotions more openly. Their fire Mars encourage their water moon to let the floodgate open which can be refreshing and necessary for them. Though the lack of premeditation may cause the results they don’t desire.

+ Water Mars ♂️: A combination of water moon and water Mars means they intuitive with emotions, but struggle with showing the more negative ones. They don’t suppress them they just don’t want them to escalate drama. They be more likely to deal with their emotional state alone because of this. When feelings are expressed to other the result can be the most devastating to see because of how expressive they become.

🎍☄️Taurus sun • Aries mars: not what you’d expect. The eagle hiding beneath the leaves. Sharp instincts and keen readers of the body. The movements are often more aggressive than the outward personality shows. Impulsive yet slow paced. Turbulent actions with repercussions. The chaser in love.

🦋 Gemini Venus 🦋

- Friendzones everyone but hates being friendzoned

- They don’t flirt with everyone; they’re just hot and like to talk

- Shows off infront of a crowd

- Gemini Venuses get bored fasssst

- When these people are in a relationship, its usually for long periods of time

- Hard to pin these people down

- Many hobbies that they’re actually great at

- Good at being friends with benefits

🐢 Virgo Venus 🐢

- Their shy and seem emotionless around their crushes but they’re freaking out on the inside

- Hard time communicating emotions, more into acts of service

- Freaks! in! the! Sheets!

- Neat and clean

- Their style is simple and elegant, probably loves jewelry

- Don’t forget anything but they forgive easily because theyre understanding

- It hurts them to leave people, but it hurts the people being left a million times more - it takes a lot of hurt for a Virgo to leave someone

- Calendars, agendas, to do lists

💧Scorpio risings💧 Brooding off in the corner, they have dark magnetic eyes that just pulls you in. They look mysterious but really they just have a careful eye on their environment, as they won’t trust until proven they can. Thoughtful and meticulous to others behaviors, they can seem a bit jagged as they don’t know how to articulate their thoughts and emotions verbally. They seek connection and just want to create a bond, but find it hard to find people who accept them at first glance. Scorpio Risings tend to stand in the back ground and observe. Even the more outgoing ones are observant, constantly reading the vibe of the environment. They are aware of the social undercurrents and want to act strategically. Intense inner vibes that spill into their interactions, intensity is often reflected in gaze and/or eyes. Can be serious but is almost always suspicious of others motives. Pluto here is intense, and people either are drawn to them or repulsed.

🌜Pisces moon🌛 Intuition is strong and deeply felt. Very artistic. Creativity is therapeutic for them. Empaths to the core and often carry others burdens. Emotionally strong, they are always willing to help others before they help themselves because they know they can handle it. Can daydream and fantasize easily. Emotions are embraced and accepted. Old souls with strong hearts. Can be easily frustrated if people are not accepting and understanding to others emotions or even their own.

🌞 Taurus Sun, Cancer Moon 🌝

Keyword: GENTLE

+ playful, responsible, imaginative

- indulgent, malicious, narcissistic

In a partner you need: Someone sensitive and good at expressing their feelings

Advice: Be more selective about your emotional displays

🐬 Gemini Venus 🐬

Intellectuals!! They love to talk! And I mean THEY LOVEEE TO TALK but similar to the moon talking isn’t just taking for them! It’s an emotional thing and just a short or playful conversation can literally brighten their entire day! They usually stay away for relationships because they’re afraid of being in a relationship with a unresponsive and non communicative partner. They can be serial flirts which can win them a lot of admirers but surprisingly they aren’t the types to lead people on! And usually as soon as they sense someone start to like them they pull away or become evasive(when the rational Gemini twin appears) but talking is def the way to their heart and if they feel they connect with you through a convo that goes miles farther then just your body! Very sensitive as well!! And I’ve seen many dating water signs especially Scorpio!

🦈 Virgo Venus 🦈

SHYYYYYY! They can be in love with someone, like to the point where their bones ache and I promise you they won’t even budge an inch. They like love to come to them rather than pursue it and this isn’t a bad thing! They just need palpable proof of affections before they open their hearts. They like to do small things for you like buy you food, clean your car, stroke your hair or clean your apartment or even make you breakfast! They like to show love through actions and for them that equates to love! They prefer more experienced lovers because they aren’t good with lovers who don’t know what they like per say! So not saying they don’t mind people who are less experienced they just have a hard time thriving in relationships like those because they can’t receive the necessary “I love that” that they need to hear to know they’re doing okay.

🔶 Mars in Aries 🔶

Extremely independent and sharp! Had a natural charm about themselves not necessarily in a Casanova way but in a more muddy school boy with a smile of gold type of feeling. Dresses with a sense of the casual but can have a way of looking very earthy on-top of this . Harsh colors like crimson and yellows look amazing on them. Their gaze is often haunting and can leave you feeling undressed. Actually pretty shy about romance and really sweet(like genuinely sweet). Hates authority in any context lol. Extremely good at reading into body signals and even better at sending them out.

Features: hair is often in abundance from what I’ve seen or they have a noticeable trait about their skull/head in general such as a scar or in some cases a different type of curl pattern/growth pattern in the hair itself. Despite rulership by mars they don’t really talk about their groins or how “big” they are as usually they could care less since for them it’s about the sensation and the connection. despite contrary belief they go for any type of girl and actually have a love for women with a more natural and clumsy look about them! Aggressive looking sexual organs with plenty of veins! Aries mars men tend to be modestly sized down their and the women often have beautiful sexual organs both have a natural look to them as if they were met to be nude.

🔷 Mars in Scorpio 🔷

welp I sound like a broken record but men here are typically pretty intense, they have this risqué factor about them that feels like you shouldn’t deal with them but something about them makes you drawn to the idea. They are pretty sexy and naturally so. A bit on the darker side of things when it comes to life since they seem to be interested in more taboo/night time parts of life. Men and women here are different though! Men think and talk/express their sexual nature A LOT. While women attract it/project it and at times embody it. The cancer decan tend to be the most innocent and warm whilst the other two decans can feel a bit intense at first. They have piercing eyes and seem to move rhythmically to their surroundings like snakes. They tend to scope out people and environments.

Features: this is the 8th signs so as you imagine their genitals tend to the focal point here. Men tend to have aggressive looking members while women can have rather naturalistic and even “Mother Earth” looking sexual organs. Men talk about their crotch like a great deal aha especially when they’re romancing someone they like! Women tend to be uncomfortable with talking about sex out in the open unless they feel the situation if “safe” men and women here can be veiny along the arms and body in general. Size wise? I’d say Scorpio mars have normal sized sexual organs nothing to crazy! Just veiny.

🌻 What the venus signs fall for (or should fall for) 🌻

Gemini: You fall for people who give you the opportunity to travel and are willing to experience an abundance of fun moments with. you love the ones who can put up with your weird behaviour and can keep you entertained. geminis tend to be flighty individuals and depending on your chart, you may find it difficult to find one person that you want to stick with for the long term, so finding someone that has similar interests, a sense of humour you enjoy, and someone that puts up with your different moods is someone you are likely to fall for.

Virgo: You fall for people who are intelligent and who you can see yourself form a stable relationship with. earth signs tend to prefer stability over reckless behaviour, so you might be prone to falling for individuals who are either really smart in class or ones who have good charisma, goals, and confidence. while you are prone to being headass, you don’t like the overly emotional types, so you are probably more likely to fall for people who are more in control of their emotions.

🔥🔥 SEX WITH THE SIGNS 🔥🔥

ARIES: The Spark. Aries aren’t sentimental and sensual. They won’t take it slow. Quite the opposite actually! They honestly just want to rip your clothes off and get to it. Aries have a very high sex drive. They’re extremely passionate and confident and they’ll leave you breathless. They like to dominate their partner, but they also get extremely turned on if they’re forced into a submissive position. Aries also like to have sex in places where they could be caught to ramp up the excitement.

SCORPIO: The Intimate. Scorpios want to completely dominate and engulf you when they have sex with you. Scorpios are known to be good at sex, and it’s true! Sex comes naturally to them like a first language and they know exactly what turns people on. They are however quite loyal and possessive, so they usually don’t like the idea of nightstands. They may not have sex often, but when they do, they make it count. They truly see sex as a way to get truly intimate with someone, and they mainly aim for intimacy.

🥀🥀 What type of “sex appeal” the signs have 🥀🥀

Gemini: The tone of their voice and the way they carry themselves. Even if they are wearing plain clothes, no make-up and messy hair something will be very attractive about them. Flirtation and the way they communicate is very sexy.(remember that word which meant you’re attracted to smart people - it’s written for them)

Virgo: The type to wear a suit but have it tailored to fit every curve of their body. They don’t like to dress sexy often but when they do, they nail it. The sex kitten look(think Brigitte Bardot). They never look trashy. Like Taurus they have a very sensual look, but at the same time look unapproachable. The one you can’t have. And that’s sexy.

⭐️ Virgo Venus x Gemini Venus ⭐️

The information couple. The couple that has lots of differences but also lots to talk about

🌺 Courtship: Venus Signs 🌺

Virgo Venus: Virgo, you do not chase anyone, you let them all come to you. Those that are partnered with you might not understand you. You are the doting lover but will not reciprocate any warmth. Virgo Venus prefers to be practical in their relationships, including demonstrations of love. Do not expect them to shower you with compliments, text messages that are filled with lovely words or orchestrated performances. They will provide you with what you need. If your Virgo Venus partner sees that you need help financially to pay for a class, she will go out of her way to pay it for you. This Venus sign is practical and not emotional. Virgo Venus tests their partners covertly to see how devoted they are. If they feel betrayed, they will silently dream of greener pastures until they feel that it is the right time to move on. (Compatible Venus signs are: Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo. Wild Card would Scorpio & Cancer)

Gemini Venus: Much like Sagittarius, the Gemini is hard to catch. He does not want to be controlled, he needs his freedom and independence. Geminis will make the first move and they will be shameless about it. Communication drives them, so expect endless hours texting or talking on the phone. As long as you can mentally stimulate the Gemini, they are yours to command. What pushes them away are ignorant people. If you are not the intellectual type, they might lose interest fast and their eyes will wander. The Gemini Venus needs to have a partner that bounces information to them constantly. The more you know, the better. They have a short attention span, so someone spontaneous and intelligent will always keep them glued. It is also easy for Gemini Venus to use people for sex, even if they do not have an intellectual connection. However, they will use the person temporarily until someone else can captivate their minds. (Compatible Venus signs are: Aquarius, Gemini and Libra. Wild Card would be Aries & Leo)

👨🏻‍🍳 Venus signs as men I’ve met 👨🏻‍🍳

Venus in Virgo: Sweet! Passive aggressive though. They aren’t the types to be loud or in your face and actually like to be lowky-like underground type of lowky. They’re very soft spoken and tend to be sort of on the brainy side when I comes to their interactions! They value connections and good conversation. They are also very sensual and love hugs and being touched so if your interested in one-don’t be scared to touch him from time to time and they’re very committed guys and once they know you’re interested they tend to drop everyone else if they take you seriously enough. They have routines and hate hate hate having that interrupted! They usually just put people in little categories and boxes to make there life more organized. Very clean!!! And often dress nice when there around someone they love but if not they dress casual. They have cute little bellies though!

🍑 What Men Find Attractive 🍑

Venus in Virgo: These guys are looking for intelligent, organized, and natural people. Simplicity, cleanliness, and straightforwardness are also watchwords here. When it comes to looks, a Venus in Virgo guy prefers natural looks to overly made-up faces.

😈 Mars Between the Sheets 😈

Fiery Mars signs: People with Mars in the Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are the go-getters of the zodiac. Fiery and passionate, they like spontaneity in bed and appreciate a partner who is very direct in expressing their sexuality.

Aries is the most assertive of the Mars signs. You like the thrill of the chase and get bored easily. You appreciate a partner who keeps you on your toes – in and out of the bedroom. You have an in-your-face sexual style, using clothing and body language to rev up your powers of attraction. However, you’re a bit selfish and need to take your partner’s feelings into account. When angry, you can blow up in a fiery rage, but you get over it quickly and completely.

Watery Mars signs: People with Mars in the Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are soulfully sexual. That is, their feelings are profoundly connected to their sexuality. A strong emotional bond with their partner ignites their deepest passion.

Mars in Scorpio, passion runs strong and deep. Your penetrating nature enables you to thoroughly explore not only your partner’s body, but their mind and soul as well. All things mysterious turn you on – creating a dark, sultry ambiance and sexy (hidden) lingerie are probably part of your amorous arsenal. When angry, you can seethe forever before your control falters and you erupt like a volcano. Forgiveness and letting go of resentment are your challenges.

🔮 Moon Signs 🔮

Moon in Cancer: a massive fucking nerd. likes to be babied/be the one who’s doing the babying. settles for less than they should and falls in love w/ their own pain. craves stability but always ends up latching onto unreliable people who leave them feeling emotionally drained and unfulfilled. holds a grudge like nobody’s business. acts tough but everyone knows they’re a mess so they should stop trying so hard. Dad Jokes for days. “*sobbing* fight me”

Moon in Pisces: just doesn’t function like a normal human being. giggles at everything. cries whenever u cry. gets hurt no matter what they do. literally not even the same person they were 5 minutes ago. either overshares EVERYTHING, or remains a mystery no matter how long u know them for. doesn’t have an ounce of self control. everything goes in one ear and out the other - any practical advice is lost on them. won’t stop telling u about their weird dreams.

🥵 Mars in Aries 🥵

Mars is at home in fiery and Cardinal Aries. This Mars position, along with other Fire Mars signs, posses tremendous and high amounts of drive, stamina, libido and passion. Mars in Aries is the conqueror and the leader; Mars is at its strongest here. With Mars in Aries, these people have the potential to be great and powerful leaders and often they enjoy taking on leadership positions. They are highly competitive, playful and energetic! They can excel really well in sports and if they do, they accept no less of winning. They have a ton of energy and when it comes to sex, this is no exception. They have a high libido, but they don't necessarily last too long. They yearn for a sexual partner who is both quick and rough and can basically keep up with them. They are aggressive and dominating in bed and their sex life is passionate and hot. They definitely don't have much patience for foreplay and would much rather get straight to it. They LOVE sex and have a sexual magnetism and power to them. They're great in bed, but only if you're up for a "wild ride”. Mars in Aries does not have the patience for people who beat around the bush. These people are go-getters and aggressive ones at that. Mars in Aries doesn't have much patience at all, in fact. They have terrible, terrible tempers. They are the types to rant abusively and use every curse word in the dictionary, but this is just a quick flare up. Mars in Aries is NOT afraid to get into a physical altercation. They live for competition and in fights, they give 100% and basically fight for their lives. They are prone to experiencing anger quite often and are usually angered quite easily. When angry, they do resort to physically destroying the source of anger and everything in their path. But of course, their anger comes as quick as it goes. They aren't the types to hold onto grudges because it's not worth their time. They'd much rather just get rid of you in a snap.

Mars eyes glint with a fiery intensity, as his powerful and alluring body glints in the light of the rising sun. With determination, he grips his spear, and charges onward towards his next battle.

Mars is the planet of drive, passion, aggression, ferocity and desires, those with Mars in Aries have Mars in its dignity, with Mars in Aries those with this placement are driven, intense, high energy, aggressive and libidinous. Mars in Aries individuals are motivated, and driven by power, success, fame and individuality, they want to be acknowledged for their acumen and skill in whatever field it may be, and will fight tooth and nail to be in a position they feel fits them and their aspirations, after all, they crave the rush of being number one in everything they do. Since this Mars is high energy, it doesn’t take much to self start and push to their goals, but they can have a stop start issue, where they need to pull away and rest before starting again because of how much energy they are outputting in everything they do, they truly are go getters, and do not falter in the face of facts or adversity, they push and they claw, and they aren’t concerned with anyone's feelings when its getting in the way of their goals. These individuals can also have hot tempers, and can go off at the drop of a pen if they are provoked, they erupt, but like a flame, it goes out as quickly as it came, and they are back to being themselves in a moment. This placement desires and needs a physical outlet for all their energy and whether it's a career or a hobby, anything with fitness, physicality, and movement can benefit them.

Sexually, Mars in Aries individuals have a very high sex drive usually, and do not shy away from its many facets, as Aries rules the head, these guys can have a very sensitive erotic spot at the tops of their heads, or by their temples, though some swear anything above the neck is quite exhilarating for them. In the bedroom they are hot and heavy, and love high intensity situations, they like to be in charge and never shy away from a little bit of pain, or dishing it out, bondage can be a cheeky little pastime for these devious devils, and they love someone with a strong will, and presents an even stronger challenge.

❓Could you tell us why you would want to date the Mars signs you just listed?❓

Scorpio Mars: With mars in its rulership... this placement is very very powerful. they have a way of oozing this energy thats just calming but alluring, like you could lay in their lap all day and everything would make sense. with a tinge of darkness that makes it easy to connect with them because once you know them you feel them in your soul and its like you become one with them. very attentive and loving in bed, they know how their way around a human body,,,, ill leave it at that.

Aries Mars: This is... wow what a placement. honestly this is the most passionate aries placement (yes yes its in its rulership but still) and they're always so dedicated and controlled and eager to take life by its horns. they're incredibly inspiring and make me want to do better. top tier lovers honestly they want to give you the world in the few moments spent with you, often can go multiple rounds and like to have fun?? will make you laugh, will share soft moments 10/10 mars placement, love my sister sign mars

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roaming-unknown-waters · 7 years ago

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Arya/Sansa interaction LFs death scene S7E6/E7

Something I just want to suggest as an alternative to the main idea of the whole Sansa/Arya/Bran rendezvous pre LFs death. Something I believe to be much more likely now that I think about it, just because in my opinion it would provide a lot more character development in terms of the sibling relationship between the remaining stark children.

I think the conversation between Arya and Sansa during S7E6 insinuates the idea that Arya definitely knows she's being played and says and does most of what she does to find out if her sister realises too. When she talks about becoming Sansa herself and talks about using her face to become the Lady of Winterfell, the use of intimidation seems to be Arya's twisted way of both hinting and interrogating, given her years with faceless men, the tactics don't seem so bad on her part. Of course to Sansa this is all new and totally strange, the sister she hasn't met for years comes back, literally a new person, acting shady and as she has stated herself, she is a slow learner. (Although I don't blame her because Arya even had me on edge- 'erm plz don't kill your sister and totally wreck your amazing character thnx') Then Arya offers her the dagger after her string of riddles and Sansa of course mirrors the rest of the viewers like '???'

I think its actually pretty unlikely Arya knows who the dagger belongs to but then again not a total impossibility. Bran definitely knows (hence why he hands it back to her saying she'll need it later on, you know aside from the fact that she'll be slicing LF like a sausage roll) but obviously the question lies in whether or not he told Arya at some point, before her conversation with Sansa.

Strictly speaking I think the whole idea behind handing Sansa the dagger right after Arya's semi-threat was more of a gesture of faith. Arya laid out the clues, gave her sister every possible motive as to why she might want to kill her but at the end of it all, instead of taking the dagger to her throat like Arya voicing those motives suggests, she hands it to her instead. Now all Sansa needs to do is figure out whom she she should trust and the rest will take care of itself.

Effectively we see two things here. Where Arya is portrayed as an unfazed murderer, void of most emotion, (most of the time, since she's almost always deathly calm) whenever her family is concerned, that changes and we see this with her and her siblings reunions as well as at the end of the S6 finale when she says 'A girl is Arya Stark, and I'm going home'. Trained to be faceless and gradually being brainwashed into becoming no one didn't stop her from remembering who she was- her identity and values for if she had, she'd have no problem killing Sansa in a heart beat, her list would mean absolutely nothing and there'd be no point her getting angry and taking revenge every time she met someone on that list.

Now we have Sansa, who ultimately is probably confused af but pulls through anyway which really does show how brilliant she is as a character who learns her way through things. I think the last thing she wants to do is suspect her sister of trying to kill her and LF really milks the fact that she doesn't know for sure whether or not Arya would murder her, using a bit of good ol' reverse psychology, 'you know your sister best' ...or do you? But then of course this backfires because yes Arya has become this new person to her sister but the same can be said for Sansa. (Hence Arya's mini test for her with the heated convo plus dagger.) The key fact is they will always be sisters, wolves part of the same pack and both Sansa and Arya trust in this, knowing that if there is anything they can trust in each other, it's this very fact, blood will always be thicker than water.

What I really like about this is that, since becoming the lady of Winterfell, Sansa has really blossomed in making decisions for herself and learning to take risks. She realises here I think, almost unknowingly even, that if she's going to trust Arya it means LFs life and that would mean a heap of development for the bond between both her and Arya. The other thing I'd point out here is that LF mentions every motive Arya did in her conversation before with Sansa, when he plays his game which should be hint enough for anyone really that LFs up to something, the biggest clue probably being that Arya had said to Sansa to be lady of Winterfell she'd need her face meaning it wouldn't be Arya, lady of Winterfell, but still Sansa. Which is pretty big if you think about it because that means Arya has zero intention of being lady of Winterfell, which she could easily be without the use of Sansa's face- all you need to do is read in between the lines. Which I'm assuming Sansa does because if she knows anything about her sister, even if she has changed, its probably the line, 'I'm not a lady!'

Which leaves our favourite three-eyed-raven and his involvement in the whole LFs demise plot. Interestingly I don't think Bran does actually talk to Sansa or Arya after their conversation in S7E6 mainly because its Bran's style to provide factual evidence in the spur of the moment. Not a theory with a very solid basis I know, but one I believe a lot more in character for him than any other. That being said it doesn't mean I condemn the possibility of Sansa bumping into him unintentionally or vice versa and then a few hints let loose about the dagger or LF himself, considering Sansa's convenient string of knowledge of his actions just before his death.

In terms of how the dagger actually lands back in Arya's possession, I think it likely to be returned to her via it lying on her desk or something along similar lines once Sansa begins to make her mind up regarding who she trusts, so no physical contact there.

That leads me to the idea then that Arya doesn't actually know whether she is about to be killed or not when she's summoned to the hall by her sister, but it doesn't worry her going back to the faith thing etc but also because if her sister does choose to kill her she's ready to accept it, which to me actually makes sense considering the fact that Arya's proven that she refuses to harm her sister in any way. Maisie does an outstanding portrayal of Arya in this scene, asking Sansa if she's ready to kill the person she's chosen not to trust and then fully conveying acceptance with the brisk 'get on with it then' but the plot twist comes and the satisfaction we see in that grin towards Baelish just shows that she knew the stark bond would trump him all along.

And then of course the ball starts rolling and Sansa's fury towards Baelish does not go unaccounted for, backed up of course by Bran's Google genius and vwala Baelish is no more. Interesting to note that the same dagger used as the trusting gesture from Arya to Sansa was the same one that killed him, it was the bond between family that killed LF and that was exactly what he had underestimated.

All in all it was one heck of a death plot for LF and although there were qualms here and there I'm okay with how most of it panned out. Would also like to clarify that I don't believe Sansa at any point would want to kill her sister, I think she was just more confused about who to trust in this context which lead to the killing of LF. The last scene between Arya and Sansa pretty much solidifies the trust thing for me on both sides- 'the lone wolf dies but the pack survives' but again almost all of this was pretty much my own opinion, and I just wanted to voice some views.

Anyway hope my over-worded contribution to the season finale was somewhat enjoyable- until next time folks aka 2019.

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A long story...but worth the read if you're willing to!I met the guy I called my bf 10 days after my last bf left me. He was the most handsome man I had ever seen in my life. I couldn’t believe the guy that walked in to the coffeeshop to sit down across the way from me. I am an engineer, a degree in physics a nerd among nerds among nerds and this guy, a Master’s Degree in sports management, a degree in communications we can call him Mr. Cool. He is Swiss and Indian, so you know just speaks 3 languages fluently, dad works for the UN…I mean come on now. For whatever reason, the dating gods graced me with perfection that day, I was witty, I was charming, I was having a non-bushy hair day. He kissed me outside the subway on the wall at the end of the date and I felt this flutter in my heart that made me let go of all the doubt I had about myself in my last relationships. He was it for me and I thought I had actually nailed it. It turns out he just thought it was hilarious and somewhat adorable that I had spinach (literally) in my teeth our first date.The day I fell for my bf was like a scene out of Pride and Prejudice. We spent the whole day at the Met Museum, me spouting off all my nerdy talk about medieval art, showing him my favorite pieces (yes I know that museum a bit too well). We had planned to grab dinner and a movie on the other side of the park that night. Of course, the second we walked out of the Met it started to downpour. It was like and Indian Monsoon he said. We found a guy selling large umbrellas (which btw where the hell do these umbrella sales peeps come from out of nowhere when it start to rain) and bought one. We walked through the park in the muddy paths all the while stopping to kiss and listen to the rain. And we got soaked… But really come on how could you not fall for someone so patient so sweet so handsome so unbelievably everything I’ve ever wanted in my life. I melted into his warmth in the theater that night while trying not to shiver from my wet feet. The rest as they say is history.The day he told me he loved me was weird. We had gone out that night for his best friends birthday. I had run into a friend on the streets (male) who worked at a wine bar in west village and offered us free champagne for Mr. Cool’s friends bday. Somehow everyone was really against accepting free champagne (they all thought it was like they were getting hustled as they did in Switzerland). We headed over to a club one of my friends was at The Jane which btw is always a horrible plan…there’s literally no air conditioning. At this point I was a little drunk…and when I get drunk I just talk…slurred but yes I talk a lot. I spoke to the bouncer going in and out of the club. Chatted with Mr.Cools friends or so I thought. When we got back to my place, suddenly Mr. Cool was pissed off at me. He started yelling at me and asking me “is this how you always act, just flirt with everyone?” Now just a little background…I am from the west coast. I think talking to everyone is normal, not flirtatious but friendly. And I seriously didn’t believe I was trying to be flirtatious at all that night..even a little (with the bouncer? Like really?) Anyway he made me cry because I didn’t understand what I did wrong. He kept saying he was going to leave me which…flash back a few months before, this same problem happened with my ex who got mad that my ex bfs sent me text messages (even after I showed him the messages). So I panicked started to cry, kept thinking what the hell am I doing wrong and Mr. Cool stop and said…look its cause I love you….RED FLAG #1 The next month I was in his home town in Switzerland. I was in Paris for work that week and wanted to do a weekend trip, had never been to Switzerland but had always wanted to see it. It was incredible. The town was so quaint, the country so beautiful, it was out of a dream. He had connected me to one of his best friends who offered to take me out to some very Euro clubs. Kept asking what I did (as in drugs)to which I responded literally nothing. I just wanted to drink and have fun with one of Mr.Cool’s best friends. We ended staying out until 4:00 am. So I’m a female alone in a foreign city, not that it is a bad city but one of the friends of Mr.Cools friends offered to walk me back to my hotel. We got back to my hotel he said goodbye and I went up to sleep. I wanted to wake up early the next day to check out the sites and play tourist. I woke up to angry texts and phone calls from Mr. Cool who was mad I didn’t text him when I got home…In Switzerland while he was in NY…Mind you I am a 26 year old adult who’s traveled by herself on numerous occasions. I’m not used to checking in with my bf…he yelled at me told me I had ruined his reputation in Switzerland ect ect. I honestly don’t remember how he calmed down eventually but I believe he eventually did.RED FLAG #2 We went out on a date to a burger joint, skipped ahead of the entire line and sat down at a booth. The waiter someone gave us a little grief for doing this but gave us the Ok to stay. So I did what I’ve always done with my wait staff, strike up a convo (I used to be a waitress myself and really loved to talk to my tables.. therefore I assume all people like to talk to tables whoops). I complemented his glasses saying I really like his style, aske a few questions about the signatures on the bricks in the restaurant to see if they were in fact real (yes Dr.Dre had in fact eaten there) ect ect. Suddenly Mr.Cool just falls silent. Won’t respond to me at all. We sit and eat in silence. I wrote (as I literally do at every restaurant) thank you on the receipt with a ❤ heart. WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING??? Mr. Cool absolutely freaked out that I would ever act like that in front of him. He kept saying how would you feel if I told some girl like nice tits? (maybe not the equivalent of nice glasses?) But I responded, look I am not a jealous person. If you want to hit on girls and get there numbers then don’t be in a relationship but I wasn’t hitting on the waiter…at the burger joint…wearing glasses.RED FLAG #3 I have a really nice apartment in NY. I had recently transition jobs which required me to have a remote desk (working for a company in SF) so had to have a real normal sized room (gasp they exist in NY). Because of this nice apartment and my remote working, I had offered have Mr.Cool leave some stuff at my place every now and again. The reason being, he still had to live with his parents. (Visa problems/going to school and you can’t have an income it was his only solution, not a problem for me at all I really do support it). So the logical thing when you’re in a relationship would be to slowly transition into your gfs place. He left a toothbrush. After 9 months of us dating (6 months formal) that was all he would leave. He would go so far as to spend the night and go home at 7 in the morning because he got tired of bringing his stuff here. I offered time and time again to just keep 2-3 shirts 1 pair of pants and maybe a pair of shoes at my place (btw we live 10-15 min apart at most) and he refused. We’re 27 now…it seemed a bit bizarre. He also never ever wanted to shower with me. I mean each to his own but it really made me feel like he just wasn’t comfortable with me…that I wasn’t sexy enough for him.RED FLAG #4 Mr. Cool is always late…not 10-20-30 min late. 2-3 HOURS late. Every time I invited him out with my friends, he would show up 2-3 hours late, make an excuse that he had to walk the dog, or had to shower, or had to clean or had to blah blah blah. Everytime. In the 9 months (at this point) we had been together he had met my friends twice….He kept saying he hates going out and clubbing and partying. But just before me he was dating a model and did that with here nearly everynight. I understand being burned out…I do but twice is a really bad statistic.RED FLAG #5 When we were together I was always on my phone…It is a bad habit I picked up from dating my high school sweetheart long distance for 7ish years. It’s a problem I have. But when I was with him, he was constantly looking at sport scores, constantly reading articles constantly on Instagram constantly disconnected with me. I think I have a lot of fault in that too but it made it hard for me to break that habit.Ok so now we get into the part where I really fucked up. Yes people I fucked this relationship up, my man among men, I ruined it.I mentioned I had started a new job. I was a remote worker, very disconnected and isolated from social environments and getting worse since my bf never wanted to spend time with my friends and I only wanted to spend time with him. We had these great weeks called strategy weeks where my entire company would go out to SF and we would be in meetings for 12 hours and then dinners and drinks. The whole time my bf would call me and freak out if I didn’t text him when I was home…he kept saying “im just worried about you.” But it felt like he was being possessive and trying to control me. When I was out at work, I needed to focus on learning everything I could from my colleagues and learning what resources I had available should something come up that I don’t know the answer to. See I had moved from being a flood resiliency engineer to working in series reactor/ series capacitor technology…a field dominated by EE Phds. I am a civil engineer….I had a lot a lot a lot a lot to learn. So we would go out to dinners as a group. My colleagues and I. But one time…my colleague invited me to a solo dinner. He had invited other colleagues on solo dinners such as these. My boss who I was closest to in particular suggested I go out to dinner with this guy for traditional Lebanese food. Now I am a young 26 year old at this time, he is a 41 year old well established engineering colleague. I was an absolute naïve idiot to think that he would respect the boundaries of professionalism. So at this dinner I thought everything was good! We talked about my career as and as engineer and that he felt I should really pursue my PE ect ect. It seemed very non-threatening. Plus he was our project engineer so someone I needed to know his skillset to help me in the future as I’m helping progress our projects. He gave me some of his homemade Lebanese drink (kind of like greek ouzo) then I took a car home. Everything was professional and perfect and nothing seemed off.I got laid of January. I was working for a startup and these things happen. I got laid off in a slaughterhouse style where 15 of us were in a room…while the rest of our company was in the other room (of course all my crap happened to be in the nonslaughterhouse room). My 41 year old colleague had a car, I did not. He rescued my stuff, and grabbed me out of the crowd of sympathetic former colleagues. I have never felt so awful in my entire life. I have never felt so rejected and low and miserable in my entire life. He was a saving grace. He told me I have a lot of edible weed and wine. And that was literally all I wanted. Now I will tell you he did try to kiss me once. And I told him time and time again I had a bf and it was inappropriate. We were colleagues nothing more. But I made the STUPID MISTAKE to go with him. I called my bf from the car and he was sympathetic and sweet. I think all I wanted was for him to say come home come back to me I’ll help you, we’ll figure this out, its going to be ok. But he just said “I’m really sorry.” I proceeded to get absolutely blackedout that night. Woke up in a hotel with colleague and freaked out….I didn’t know what had happened I didn’t know how to deal with being laid off. I just wanted to go home.Flash forward to me driving home. My supportive bf tells me to not be too complacent in searching for jobs. I get home…and there’s a laptop on my doorstep. I’m thinking its from my bf, what a sweet and insanely kind thing to do….nope….it was from the 41 year old….then I get flowers…not from my bf but from the 41 year old. At this point I started to feel a bit threatened. I didn’t think this guy had malicious intent but I was wrong. I started seeing this weird doting pattern from him. Now I wanted to tell my bf about it but lets think back to all of the instances when literally nothing was going on and my bf freaked out…and nothing I said or did could assuage his anger. I started thinking this 41 year old…did something to me. He was sending me gifts. He was 100% prepared for when I got laid off…did he get me fired so he could have a shot? He kept saying you’re not engaged, you’re not married, a boyfriend basically means you’re single “girls use that as a defense in the bay all the time.” I mean are you f***ing kidding me? You pursue women who clearly don’t want your attention by justifying it’s just a defense. I don’t know what happened that night…but I started feeling like I was getting hush money. That he had gotten me fired, that he had something over me and he was trying to win me over my bf. I cheated on my bf. The man I loved more than I ever thought I could. I cheated on him with this 41 year old. I saw him when I went to the bay and I cheated on him.Now 41 year old starts to facebook friend request my sisters…and showed up to dinners I had in the bay with my little sister (UNINVITED). I felt so threatened and uncomfortable and I thought…He’s going to tell Mr. Cool I did something with him….he has photos of that night, the night I don’t remember and he’s going to destroy my relationship with him. So I slept with him...More than once. I don't know if it was because I was scared, because I wanted to, because I figured things are over with Mr. Cool, because it seemed right...I dont knowI wanted to tell Mr. Cool. I really did but I didn’t know how to explain or justify what had happened. I knew he would get angry...I just didn't know how muchSo Mr. Cool is graduating…and he gets a guerilla email from someone saying “Hope you’re having fun on you special day, did you know your “girl” has been seeing someone since December?” 41 year old….sent him that message.Now, Mr.Cool confronted me. We talked about everything I told him everything and he decide I needed to work to earn his trust back, that I needed to bend over backwards to be with him again.And I said ok. I signed myself up to go to a counselor (another one from the one I had been seeing since this event happened, new job, new insurance, new counselor). I have busied myself with new volunteer efforts, gone to the climbing gym made plans with gfs worked to be happy by myself with out relying on him to make me happy…worked on just being ok with what happened and trying everyday to earn his trust back. Being forward with him about conversations with other men. Telling him if something had changed from what I previously told him. He assumed I was constantly lying and I ACTUALLY WASNT.So its been a month. I have told him everyday where I’m going who I’m seeing what I’m doing and sometimes things change, we're in a fight so I tell him new facts after. For example, a guy friend of mine who he is insanely jealous of since he is an ex of mine from 5 years ago wasn't going to a wedding I'm attending but is now going to a wedding I'm attending. This all came to light while we were fighting...it wasn't my top priority to tell him. But I did tell him with in 3-4 days of me finding this out for myself.He has called me a whore, he has told me he is going to kill himself because of this break up, he told me I had to have sucked a guys dick off in order to get my new job, he has told all of his friends and family I cheated on him and has isolated me from everyone else. He has accused me of wanting to sleep with all of my guy friends. He got mad at me for deleting photos when I tried to break up with him for the 100 time because I can’t take it anymore. He accused me of deleting photos so I could sleep with whoever I wanted when I had to travel for work… Who actually does that and like photographic evidence stops men from hitting on someone???I am at my lowest low. I don’t know what to do. I went out last night with old friends from my undergrad, males and females and he got so mad at me….He was out with his friends who didn’t want me to come because of what I did to him… I need some advise. I love him…I want to work though this but I really need the guy to meet me like 10% of the way there and I will carry the other 90%. He’s absolutely allowed to be hurt and angry but at what point is it too much?! There have been so many problems in this relationship and I’ve stood by thinking its just a phase, eventually he’ll leave stuff here, eventually he’ll want to hang out with my friends, eventually he’ll prioritize me over walking his dog…these were problems long before the 41 year old happened.I MESSED UP…I KNOW I DID I CHEATED ON HIM. But how do I move forward in this if he’s not willing to work to forgive me? via /r/dating_advice

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