#but I also want to tag the ship so ppl who have blacklisted it don't see this post

[wild-magic-oops]

Gale telling Durge that he's sure that Durge would have people to invite to their wedding is ofc Larian half-assing things, but it's funny to hc that Gale just had an oopsie social interaction where one says smth kinda weird/incorrect and then later realizes that it was weird/incorrect but it's too late to correct now. However, Durge takes that as a "you should invite someone to our wedding" kind of expectation and tries to comply. Family members are absolutely out of the question even if they weren't dead or a god he hates. And outside of Bhaal's temple, Durge is pretty sure he had only one friend. But he was apparently a very good friend. And Durge has Gale's resurrection scroll that never got used. Death's not a problem yeah. Perfect solution yeah.

And this is how Gortash gets tossed from Bane's torture session into Durge's accidental torture session where he gets invited to the wedding of his ex that he's still very much into

[paarthursass]

thinking about restarting my inheritance cycle fancast series (which only had one entry in it anyways lmao) with an actor actually in the 15-18 years old range to play Eragon and...man that’s just one more reason i can’t get behind Eragon/Arya

Like she is consistently described as a woman in the books.  I know she’s young “for an elf” but she’s still over a century old and Eragon is still a kid when they meet.  I know he grows over the course of the series but man Arya/Eragon is Not Good.  Thank God nothing happens.  

I hope when Arya says “maybe in time” in the last book she means “in a few decades” because alsjdflsdjfkdsl he’s UNDER TWENTY and she is OVER A HUNDRED i know this takes place in medieval times but that doesn’t make it OKAY

Eragon/Arya is at its best when it’s just awkward Eragon crushing on a cooler older woman okay.  

[pandapupremade]

this isnt prompted by a specific person dont take it a a vague to you personally but i have something to say: this community has got to learn the difference between curating an online space for yourself and curating other peoples' spaces so they fit to your space

i do not judge you if you don't like sharing - I have f/os i dont like sharing, I don't feel comfortable seeing ppl ship with them. i blacklist tags or urls and move on with my day. its not something i have to make a big to-do about. i dont think its wrong to be uncomfortable sharing. this is not what the post is about. asking for tags to block is also fine, and again, not a problem that im about to address

what im tired of is people vaguing other shippers by going something like "i just saw something that upset me" when their mutuals rb ship content of other users. those users have a right to post their work and have it shared and enjoyed just like you do. they have a right to love their f/os, just as you do. stop making people feel bad because you saw them sharing your f/o and it made you uncomfortable -its , again, fine to BE uncomfortable havign seen it. what isnt ok is posting about it or god forbid sending hate because THAT blames the person you saw. THAT blames them for your anxiety, even if they don't follow you.

tldr its fine to want your own space and to be uncomfortable sharing, but its really not a good or healthy thing for anyone if you blame someone else for having fun. youre not the only person who can have fun, youre not the only person curating a safe space for yourself.

[tae-shimura-is-my-wife]

it doesnt even feel like gintsus care for gin or tsukki as characters with how badly ooc self inserty their content is

This is a anti gntsu post! So if you’re a fan scroll!

If it appears in the main tag, i’m sorry but this is a tumblr problem, search your content on “tagged” posts or blacklist the anti gntsu tag

!Long post ahead, you have been warned!

Before someone says something, gntsu is in everywhere and i tried to like gntsu before, so i ended up absorving content.

Gntsus who are also Tskki fans, have a tendence of being super rabid abt her, so i thought they cared a lot of her, but when you see how they act, you start questioning who they like more, gntsu or Tskki? I already said it before, they take out Hinowa and Seita from her life, but it doesn't stop there, a lot of them prefer Tskki interacting with Gn or alone, rather them she staying with other girls (with a excpetion of Kagura sometimes) and they also get mad at ppl headcanon her as lesbian, bc y'know... or even when someone ships her with other women, some of them are ok with other ships for her, but then the person also needs to ship gntsu, think that it's better than their opposing ship and never talk bad abt gntsu, so... And there's still the fact they think Tskki crush on Gn is a sacred thing, as if her character loses a giant part of herself if she's not crushing on him? They got real mad man, even say stuff like "If you don't like gntsu or prefer her crushing someone else, you're a misogynist! Plus how dare you don't want her to be happy? She only can be happy with this man, if you don't like this, you don't like her character because you're against her happiness!" i hate these kind of fandoms omg, it's like they arrest Tskki to with gntsu, y'know? And i not gonna even start with how they have Red Spider Arc as their favorite...

Despite that, her character in fanon doesn't stray that much from her og character, she still is a tsundere, which get frustraed easily and doesn't know how to show much affection, but she's way too submissive, because in every f/m ship they need to make women the submissive one, there's some exceptions same if it's totally out of her character.

Right now, Gntoki... A super funny thing, is that they don't hold him with gntsu, as they do with Tskki (HOW FUNNY ISN'T IT?).

About content, i know it's their content, they do what they want blah, blah, blah, but why Gntoki never looks like Gn? He's charming, cute, affectionate, romantic, clingy (Gn hates clingy ppl, how ironic), the only traits he still has are sweet addiction, being a shounen jump fan and a perv... His laziness? He not being able to show affection as well? Being broke? His addiction to games of chance? His mental scars from war? Fuck that! Let's make him a man from generic romance #5034... I really don't understand why... don't they love Gntoki so much? Why change him so drastically then? Don't they like their canon interactions? Ugh, why they do that to my man? Don't even get me started on ppl who turn him into a malewife...

And this is where the self insert enters! Because of course ppl would like to stay with the generic romance guy #5034 with Gn appearence, instead of a broke, lazy, kinda cold and addicted to games of chance and drinks.

[betweenlands]

I had to blacklist it and unfollow a bunch of people too :// I'm still looking at some posts occasionally since it's not triggering my romance replusion too badly *yet* but it's very discouraging lmao. not to mention the amount of people who went around talking about how 'well arospec people shouldnt be upset about people simply reblogging/making shipping content' when?? I haven't seen a single person talking about how shipping content is bad just how much it sucks for it to be considered *the norm* for interacting with anything and to have no way to avoid it. arospec ppl will say one single thing that mentions not liking romance and a billion people come out of the woodwork to ""explain"" how we're wrong, except this time they're saying we're completely against shipping instead of homophobic (not that we don't usually get that too lmao) (also absolutely understandable not posting this ofc!)

no yeah this is very much the vibe. literally i have seen nobody going "the shipping is bad" (at least on this site). every single post i have seen abt it has either been "please don't be an asshole about people not interpreting something as romantic" or "please tag shipping so people can blacklist it"

like. okay. i'm sure in some cases people's wording is just a little unclear, and i do not want to Go After anyone for this. i'm sure our wording has been a little unclear, and in some cases may have come off as aggressive even when not intended to. but there's a difference between that and "if i see anyone /p this it's On Sight" which i have seen. multiple times. repeatedly.

and also i cannot make it clear enough how much i don't mind shipping! i just mind when it takes up the entirety of a fandom to the point that characters get Actively Mischaracterized for ships and it becomes almost impossible to find content that isn't ship-focused in some way. like uh. what's currently happening with [DATA EXPUNGED]

just. tag things. it's just one tag. or have like a disclaimer that you don't tag ship content on your blog so people can curate their experience accordingly. that's all people are saying (well, that and stuff about amatonormativity, but. i don't think people are ready to be normal about that conversation honestly)

[pinlc-candy]

'wah i don't like it when togafuka pops up when you search togami or fukawa' then blacklist the tag? and it's still funny when nae/-gami shippers get on tofu's case for togami treating fukawa poorly when togami treats naegi awfully too. at least togami never intentionally put fukawa in harm's way (dr3 doesn't count bc he knew she was capable of sorting that out). when she has passed out during ch3? sakura even acknowledges that togami knew fukawa was safe as there had already been two deaths. then he's like 'oh she's alive :/' AFTER. or during the explosion in ch5, he says 'oh she probably turned to dust' when he'd know she didn't bc he saw the body fly. he's just a dick.

and him revealing her secret in ch2? did he do it harshly? yes. but like... 1. it's chapter 2. and 2. he kinda needed to reveal there was a serial killer. he did not know fukawa and syo didn't share memories, so for all he knew, syo knew he knew her identity and she could kill him to keep it secret and get away with it. no one would believe him. he saw an opportunity and took it. (EDIT: Togami knew about Syo before the secrets motive was revealed. He didn't reveal it as soon as he found out. It was after the motive and the 24 hours limit, which put pressure on everyone, was revealed that he set up telling everyone. Again, he didn't know they don't share memories, so now to him Syo knows she has 24 hours to kill someone to prevent her secret getting out and who better than the person who already knows her secret?) was he mean? yes. but this was a situation about killing and getting away with it and he was up against a serial killer who could best him. even if she did get found out after, he would still be dead. and if you're going to use chapter 2 against them, you can use so much against nae-/gami.

togami gets naegi to open a door when hagakure suggests it's rigged with a bomb. togami tells naegi to his face on more than one occasion to die and that he's worthless. naegi often comes away from their interactions feeling psychologically drained/abused/shattered or w/e and in school mode, after spending time together, naegi feels like he has to prove to togami his existence can have meaning. that becomes naegi's purpose. naegi says he feels like they'd never be true friends and they were worlds apart after spending all the free times together. Do they become friends? i think so! but take that all into account. And notice I did not even go into togami bossing naegi around or some of the other shitty behaviour. in my opinion, this ship wouldn't and couldn't ever sail and be in character and healthy.

i'm not saying togami is nice to fukawa or fukawa doesn't overstep boundaries bc. they do. they also go through good character development (fukawa goes from wanting to depend on togami to wanting him to be able to depend on her! she fantasises about him calling her strong! she learns friendship+romantic love are both important and strong. togami learns to depend on others and let others depend on him. when he learns to not make light of people's emotions, one of the first things he does is compliment fukawa on finding a knife. in ch3, it's implied those two got up to something together, bc togami acts very strangely when he comes into the cafeteria with syo and what syo says about wearing red lingerie that morning is... hm).

there's just. so much to togafuka and it's annoying when ppl are like 'tofu sukc bc theyre mean to each other it's gross' especially when they ship something like nae/-gami.

EDIT: togami and fukawa also have several parallels/constrasts (birthdays, designs, how they deal and dealt with childhood trauma) and togami's character was adjusted/changed specifically to be someone that fukawa would fall in love with. so... yeah. it's funny they made togami's character less relevant to naegi's so he could be fukawa's love interest.

[janiedean]

why am i like this 🙃 anyway a few days back i went and read up... anti-jaime meta & j/c endgame meta coz i'm an idiot rlly, and like once every month i get these doubts as to whether i'm being stupid? am i blind? so i like to check the opposition and my beliefs. i feel bad for a little while but it never works and i'm always like WHAT foolishness and i've done this like 3 times now and i'm honestly hoping i've learnt my lesson. because WTF

i saw what the other anon was talking about and went and reread that ridiculous meta; and i realised that the j*nsa shipper who thinks j*nsa is the endgame, is also a tw*ncest shipper who thinks... wait for it... JAIME & CERSEI are the hidden Beauty and the Beast?!?!?!

and they said how jaime/brienne would be unsatisfying becz a redemption arc for jaime is unsatisfying, COMPLETELY ignoring the reasons j/c is toxic and the person who's suffered most for it is jaime (manipulated into giving up his birthright & lordship, then traumatized, and they even blamed him for the white cloak in the first place? that he chose it for glory? NO, he chose it after a sleepless night w/ crrsei) AND that his true "redemption" should not be leaving the woman he's been willing to kill & maim for (yeah, just ignore the way he's been loathing himself, and realising how low he'd fallen, and all for nothing) for the first girl who walks up in 5 min. i hate how every jc shipper minimises brienne's importance in jaime's arc. (i mean, HAVE THEY EVEN READ ASOS? Did they see the part where HE JUMPS INTO A BEAR PIT, UNARMED & ONE HANDED, to save the "first girl who comes along in 5min?? WTF and this is even more ridiculous coz jaime has actually been loyal to cersei this whole time, brienne is not the first. he HAS been faithful to her to the detriment of his own chances at life and a family AND THEY PULL THIS BS? HOW?

and ofc, they somehow think jaime is the beauty with two beasts, and that grrm is not going to end with a jb endgame but that jaime's ultimately going to realise he & c are two "beautiful beasts" and die with c. (?????)

(btw pls feel free to ignore my rant i'm so sorry i have no idea why i just dumped all that in your inbox i just had to get it out becz i'm still stewing??? also THANK YOU for the kg jaime did nothing wrong, that cleansed my eyes becz i have recently read scalding hot takes such as "the show was right, he does not give a fig abt the innocents, he only cares for his family, he only killed aerys for his father and he is defo going to die with c" ignoring that uh - like hell tywin was in any danger from aerys, and he did not do it for his father to prove himself,i don't think there's anything jaime could do that would ever make tywin kill him... another was his redemption/arc is shallow becz "he never admits he's doing anything wrong, he only does good to feel selfish and proud, he's deluding himself with goldenhand the just and HA! HE'S NEVER GOING TO ADMIT THAT HE DID NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO KILL AERYS. HE WAS WRONG TO KILL AERYS. HE WAS A DUMMY 17 YO, he's soo stupid, he cares only for himself and his reputation and just ughhhh how do ppl misread him so badly??

dw anon I mean... I only read that meta when it's incorrectly tagged and there's a reason why I went and blacklisted the shit out of any jc tag ever as in that I was done reading stuff that made me want to punch a wall and you honestly said everything I would have so I don't have much to add but like to address a few of your points

(disclaimer: I'm discussing jc shippers who... have those takes/harass ppl if they think different not anyone who like ships jc in peace bc they like it for what it is just to... make sure it's clear)

a lot of the meta you mention is based on selective reading of some jaime chapters, of all of c's chapters in affc and ignoring brienne's existence the end

also a lot of the people writing it have zero idea of how brienne works as a character/what's her point in the narrative and haven't read her chapters nor have even tried to grow some empathy for her nor having learned from there what grrm wants ppl to learn from reading brienne chapters which i'm 100% not surprised about

like once someone asked me if I really went to therapy bc I was nonstandard attractive that's all I had to see to never be surprised again

also 'the first girl he ran into after five minutes' is someone who literally kept him alive and that he dreams of at night and in those dreams she puts herself in between him and his worst traumas and keeps on saying she'll keep him safe like............ sorry but lmao

(also I'm eating my hat if like cersei had done for jaime what brienne did when they were prisoners together but that's another problem entirely)

'he and c. are beautiful beasts' is like... y'all didn't even get the meaning of the og story did you

also lmao anyone who reads the books and the aerys story and gets the conclusion that he was selfish can't read and I'm dying on that hill bc again you're speaking of 17 yo with vietnamwar level ptsd who just wanted to protect the innocent and ended up being treated like scum because he killed a dude that should have been deposed years before like.... we fucking srs like if you read jaime chapters without coming to the conclusion that 'this is a genuinely nice guy whose life choices/relatives/circumstances/being an abuse victim with at least three different ppl abusing him was shoehorned into cynicism/doing horrid shit/terrible coping mechanism but it still couldn't manage to actually turn him into a truly bad person' then I have nothing to tell you because that's what's written and no amount of twisting/selective reading will change it, the end /shrug

anyway I'm at the point where any show truthing that doesn't recognize that the small council being made of minorities/commoners/discriminated ppl until then is literally the only thing grrm could and would have written for me goes into the trash automatically bc the show made no sense not even within its own continuity so miss me with trying to tell me the books actually end like that X°D

[tobi-smp]

one thing that confuses me is that they talk about this tagging etiquette as if it were something universal, and not something that can be different from fandom to fandom, and that users have their own TAG system ??? In fandom circles I'm in( not dsmp) we would pure genuine critique/anáyses/meta of a character on their main tag. The only moments we didn't do that were if it was hate or when the Op didn't want fans of that character to interact with the post. There's the anti/crit tags for a reason. There's the block button for a reason. if you don't want to see that stuff you can block op or blacklist it. Hell, you can evan blacklist urls if you want. They don't need to span or harass ppl for that. Also tumblr tagging is weird??? I talked on the tags once about a ship and it showed on the main tag of that ship

yeah, it’s a big “your experiences are not universal” moment to be sure. the people who are trapped in mobile hell have my sympathy, but I’ve seen people complaining about having to scroll past posts that’ve been properly flagged as well so honestly it just feels like a weird sense of ownership over the tags to me. that’s not even getting into the people who police the tags for techno and phil only to turn around and post unwarned critical posts or even just outright hate in the tags for characters like tommy and tubbo. that’s not even hypocrisy, that’s just blatantly manipulating people into catering to you while you openly don’t follow the rules that You’re trying to set for them.

[inkdemon-whore]

when you get this you have to answer with 5 things u like about yourself, publicly. then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool) ♡

Btw i dont care if youre proship

bro my phone yeeted the fuck outta my response, anyway uuuuhhhhh

i've been engaging in more media lately, can actually sorta kinda cook, i've been actually doing at least some stuff with some ocs which is great i never use my lil guys, i've been doing some introspection, and uh.... idk, breathing is nice?

i don't really have fav followers, let alone 10, plus i wouldn't be surprised if some of my "faves" are some ppl who left or where just, the most engaged with my content

i appreciate you tho owo uwu

anyway, i know this isn't really in your ask, but it feels sorta relevant, to me at least. i've kinda been thinking about, like, platforming, i guess? and how audiences see creators, and really just, how i go about making content. not super in depth, but like, worrying if my art style is too soft and squishy for me to get into darker/taboo topics, or if i'm some how pulling in the wrong crowd. i don't know any of you, i can take a guess, but at the end of the day, i'll never know why any of you people like my content, or what you're "here for". because i can only ever hope it's for me, and not just the stuff i make, which is probably a bad mindset to have as a creator on the internet, especially tumblr dot fuck off. not gonna bore ya with this shit, i'm still meditating on it, rollin it around in my head, yada yada, so yeah

uuuuhhhhhh there's gonna be some stuff posted in like, march, i think? end of feb sorta? i don't remember, it's scheduled bruno x mirabel art i did not too long ago, so again, to anyone who doesn't wanna see that stuff, blacklist the tag "tw ship"

imma also take the time here to say, yeah, no, i haven't really been doing the whole "break" thing i said i would, it's kinda hard not to sneak in here when i can just type in the password, so, imma key smash a new password, and try to not worry about this place for a bit

if i get like a call out post or somethin when i'm gone........................... idk, i'm not sure if i'd wanna hear about it, i've had quite a few, and though i know i can defend myself and whatnot, i'm getting really close to "why even bother" territory.

if ya want anything from me, fiction doesn't equal reality, but it can be a representation of reality, and sometimes reality is fucking gross and uncomfortable, and art can be a safe place/way to explore those ideas without.... idk, sleeping with my uncle? like, don't, don't sleep with you're uncle, like, i shouldn't have to hold your hand and say that, i expect you people to be intelligent enough to know the difference between non-existent characters and real people, but also like, if that kinda content/relationship triggers you or makes you uncomfortable, then yeah you have every right to unfollow, or even block me.

anyway, that's my final think thunks here, maybe they're a mess, i don't know, i don't care, i've been looming over this blog for too long already about this, and i should probably leave, so, mmmmmmmlater, maybe in like....................................................................... fuck it, i'm not putting a time frame on it, just know this is officially a hiatus until it's not

[donttouchtheneednoggle]

Merthur, perelyaine and Morgana/Elena?

OOF WE'RE GOING THERE

Ok ok. So hate is a strong word. I should probably have put conflicted. Bc I get it. I know every so often I go on a they are so unhealthy and toxic rant, and well they are. Merlin sees Arthur as a person he always knows better than (which he does but not the point) and can make humungous life changing decisions for often through manipulation and gaslighting without giving a second thought for his free will, while also putting him on such an absurd pedestal he is blind to all his faults at the cost of the entire kingdom. Arthur sees Merlin as someone without his own thought and feelings and goals in life, he never questions his obsessively faithful service and he repays him with physical, verbal and emotional abuse. BUT that's not why I don't like it. In fact it used to fascinate me how messed up they are and how doomed and tragic they make their story, and it truly baffles me how much the fandom focuses on how 'cute' they are instead of going is that fucked up or what!! But anyway. I don't like it because it's. Fucking. EVERYWHERE. You can't get away from it! Even if you blacklist it on here and escape the brunt of the posts, you still go on any ship tag on Ao3 and it is 90% Merthur. The sheer oversaturation of it is what made me hate it, and I'm not saying it's a problem that needs to be fixed bc ppl will ship what they want, that's the point, but it is so seen as the default and it's also more than a little galling to ship any other ship in this fandom especially rarepairs and have even your own spaces and posts taken up by and tagged as Merthur. Also how Gwen’s been treated because of it is just- I would be far more neutral/open to it if there was less and if there was more new content I actually wanted to read really that's the crux of it just more rarepair content I'm begging y'all but as it is I get petty and deliberate exclude it as much as possible from everything I create :'))

Perelyaine is here :)

I've honestly never thought much about Morgana/Vivian but I wouldn't say no! I don't tend to be a big fan of Morgana, but I do have a soft spot for Elena i think she's amazing. They can be messy hair gfs together <3 BOG WITCH AND GIRL WHO EATS FROGS 💚💚💚

Thanks for the ask! 💙

Send me ships!

[clulessmess]

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Heyo mobile users, I'm Namii!

✨ She/Her • 19 • Mixed(Black/Asian) ✨

Read the carrd before following!

But in case youre one of those fuckers who don't wanna read that since carrd is cringe or whatever the shit heres the important stuff you need to know

🚫 DNI(Do NOT Interact):

Things in bold are people I will not hesitate to block. I dont want any of you fuckers interacting with me at all

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General DNI criteria (i.e racists, LGBT+phobes*, ableists, pedos/MAPs or MAP supporters, alt-right/nazis, etc)

Against BLM or pro cop

Support cringe culture

"Anti antis"/pro shippers(you fetishize pedophilia, incest, abuse, etc bc "fiction doesnt affect reality". )

Ship or headcanon real people

Dream/Dream SMP fans

FNF(Friday Night Funkin) fans

Fans of Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss or whatever the hell else viv works on

Genshin Simps (you defend mihoyo on everything including the predatory nature of the game, the racism, etc)

*LGBT+phobes includes TERFs, transmeds, aphobes, biphobes, panphobes, people against neopronouns or he/him lesbians and she/her gays)

⚠️ BYF(Before you Follow):

Really rb heavy! Sorry if youre only here for my art djgdnfdhnn. I also just rb whatever I want, so sorry if you only came here for 1 specific thing

I occaisionally rb horror related stuff and I'd generally say this blog is rated 16+. This means that while everyone can follow, expect some gore and the occaisional suggestive/sexual jokes here and there. Please blacklist the tags #tw gore, #tw blood, #tw mild gore, #tw body horror, #minors dni, #NSFWish and #NSFW if youre uncomfortable with that!

Asides from that, I only tag the media im into, so feel free to shoot me an ask if you want anything tagged [triggers are tagged tw (insert trigger here)]!

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[firelxdykatara]

Hey, maybe don't ship kids with adults. A thought. Also, you insulted my dear fried Jo, and for that, you should be vary ashamed of yourself. Jo is nothing but kind, helpful, and an absolute sweetheart as are all my other friends that you so rudely disregarded the other day. Not to mention all the Poc you talked over just so you can keep your uwu harmless ship, when they tell you it;s WRONG. I don't like sending anon hate, but I hope you get your life together.

This is really funny, because a) I don’t have any kid/adult ships, but b) I don’t give a fuck what people do with fictional characters, and c) if I did ship kids with adults do you really thing some cowardly grayface in my inbox would get me to stop?

Anyway, thank you for the motivation! I’m gonna go write some more jiangtara now, they have such a great dynamic and I’m loving this exploration of their relationship post-war as she helps Katara find herself and discover what she really wants out of life! (Hint: it’s Zuko. Because I’m me and he’s her soul’s true mate.)

As for the rest, idfk who Jo is, but if they’re one of the people who I responded to from that post who was calling me a pedophile for enjoying a ship they decided was pedophilic (why they chose to look at a ship and immediately picture someone in their mid-twenties banging a 14-year-old I’ll never know, but that sounds like a them problem and certainly not mine), then I stand by whatever I said to them because every time I reblogged that post I was increasingly inundated with the worst takes imaginable, and none of the people who reblogged that post to clown on it was kind, helpful, or a sweetheart. They were, in fact, bullies shouting buzzwords because they decided something was canon that was never stated and then decided to project on me.

Even funnier, yall only seem to care about ‘talking over poc’ when it’s ppl in your camp making erroneous claims about the morality of a fucking ship (and shitting on literally everyone in interracial relationships and multicultural families irl in the process), and not when it’s yall talking over the many poc who ship zutara and have been saying you’re wrong all this time.

Clearly, you have no problem sending anon hate, since you had no issue clicking anon and sending this ask. It’s you who I hope gets your life together, since for all my sins (and there are many, no one’s perfect), I’ve never once felt the need to be an asshole in someone’s inbox over something they ship. Like most mature adults, I’m capable of curating my own fandom experience. If I don’t like ships, I filter them through my blacklist, and if I want to complain about them, I use the appropriate anti and salt tags so that people who enjoy the ship don’t have to see it in the main ship tags. Clearly, these are vitally important life skills you have yet to acquire, and I feel genuinely sorry for you.

Get well soon!

[degenderates]

Y'all I'm apparently into hannibal now so a reminder that I tag "__ cw" for things like gore, death, body horror, etc, and you can just blacklist the show tag if u want since there's lots more I should probably content tag for but am probably forgetting lol

I also tag "__ mention" for text that mentions sensitive content, and "ns/fw" and "ns/fw ish" for things like that (though let's be honest: there's never gonna be hardcore p*rn art here lmao)

I'm newish to trigger/content tagging so you can always send me an ask if I forget something or have something you want me to add! I'm doing my best since I'm aware that people who follow this blog range from ages 14 to 30+ so I just wanna make sure everyone can not feel squicked!

Also, at ANY time feel free to unfollow me if you feel uncomfortable with what I post, even if we're mutuals/longtime mutuals and especially if you're on the young side. We can still be friends (if you want) without following each other. And if not, that's okay too. Interests ebb and flow, and I'll do my best to support content that ppl tag me in (#usermaven) but I'm not gonna be as much in the same [younger audience] fandoms as I was back in 2018. I don't unfollow longtime mutuals who don't have the same interests as me anymore, but if you want to, that's okay!

Anyways that's all I have to say for now. I just wanted to get it off my chest that my fandoms are shifting darker and so are my ships, so...this is a proper warning. Cheers✌

[avenger-hawk]

Just ignore it truly. It's not worth anyone's time. They are quiet mean with the concept of their blog but like you said, people should learn to block who they don't want to interact with. We don't like people bashing us for our ships and opinions and we block what we don't like, the same way you made the list of those blogs that you don't want people interacting with you, that could also be harassment. Just ignore it the blog.

Aaand as always the wise anon appears. Because when it's not about them some ppl are so wise, so above drama, so they tell you to not react when you're insulted because it's not worth it.

I'd really like to see them in my place tbh, but hey, they're on anon, who knows who they are huh. Also, they are wise but entitled, because I'm harassing ppl too with my black list....so dear anon, how can I follow your advice if you're taking this opportunity to spill out that you were offended by my blacklist? cause that's what you are.

Because if you were impartial you'd understand that:

- I am not @ tagging anyone

- I am not sending those ppl messages unlike police-y callout dumbasses who send ppl messages and tell others to do the same

- I am not putting my block list in tags where it shouldn't be, that is, it's only in the itasasu and other controversial ships tags, visible to those who share my same interests, so who would want to block those ppl as well

- I wrote that list after having found in the IS tag (and Ks and other controversial ships tag) posts shitting against it and, even more, against the ppl who like that fictional stuff. This means I reacted to insults.

How is this the same harassment I just received?

It’s a rhetoric question lol. Pls anon, don't tell me. I don't care.

Also, fyi if I block a blog I can unblock it, if I block an anon sending me an ask, I can't. So if you for some reason want to keep following my blog (because of the content, not the blogger ofc. it's clear you can't stand me lol) I suggest to not tell me what to do anymore.

Hawk out

[princesseblade]

Did you noticed how most ppl hating lotor are klantis? That's why we don't take them seriously. Also I feel that lotura is gonna be bigger for the next season and I'm a little scared for it and the ship getting hate. For now we are just a rarepair but for the next season they will have a powerful connection and that would make the ship more susceptible to get hate. :(

lol, I’m not actually sure I know what a klanti is, anti k//ance I’m assuming? As far as Lotura goes whenever I see anything kinda sketchy in the now pre-s5 if anything I’ve noticed more ‘hate’(thats a little strong of a word so I’ll use scare quotes) coming from other shippers or folks who like  Lotor but want him with no one. 

I imagine if anything favors lotura in s5 it’s gonna embolden  some of these people to start bothering people instead of just blacklisting the tag like a normal person. You can already see some people acting all scared now with the whole “HUEH HUEH am I the only one who  hopes Allura and Lotor don’t fall for each other *fart noises*” #tagged

Either way my block button is ready, whether it’s from anti’s or other shippers  lol ships get hate even when there’s nothing problematic about it people are always gonna find a reason to be pressed. You can’t worry about it. 

[autistic-danvers]

Hey, I have a question about your darkfic post. I didn't know about it's connection to survivors and all that, and I always had a problem with them (not "attack the writer and readers" kinda problem, more the "ignore and disdain" variation), in particularly in the HP and PJO fandoms, because they often involve bashing characters that I love (Dumbledore, the Weasleys and Annabeth are the most common targets I've seen), so I wanted to educate myself on that particular aspect of darkfics

My personal take, and the one i see most often shared in darkfic communities or by ppl that engage with it, is that it is not in anyway inherently wrong for you dislike it or parts of it. You're allowed to dislike and not want to engage with content that bashes characters or stories you love. You're allowed to dislike content bc you think it's gross. You're allowed to dislike content for literally any reason or no reason at all. Anyone who tries to say or act otherwise is not someone i would want to be around.

But you already said yourself the most important thing to me about this particular issue: "ignore and disdain"

If you dislike something for any reason or something is harmful to you in anyway, it is your right and your responsibility to take steps to protect yourself from it. Blacklisting, blocking, reading warnings and making an informed decision to not engage with the material. There's nothing at all wrong with that, it's the healthy and mature way to deal with it.

Ship and let ship, live and let live and all that ya know?

(And a side note to this: talking about things you dislike on your own personal blog is also not inherently wrong and does not throw you into the weird fandom purity culture that a lot of the posts i reblog talk about. Don't post hate or anti-whatever content in the subjects main or positivity tag. Don't harrass ppl or send them hate for enjoying things you don't. Don't be an asshole.)

You seem to have a good handle on how to go about this, imo. So if you're looking for reassurance of that, here it is. You deserve to enjoy your fandom experience the same as anyone else!