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The Dollhouse Diaries

Real Life In Plastic Tip #6:

ෆTime Management for Neurodivergent Girly Girls and Boujie Hyperfemmesෆ

This is the pretty girl era of having time management under control. The key is to learn how to live in the moment while also being discipline enough to move on to the next task as needed. I know that sentence was as daunting to read as it was for me to write ૮꒰ྀི⊃⸝ ⸝ ⸝⊂꒱ྀིა I guarantee I gotcha *Chaeyoung voice*

First Things First: Go 1 Week At a Time!! (every 3 days if an entire 7 is too much or your schedule is unpredictable, like mine)

Build a simple list of all the things you have to do and that you would like to do. Its much easier to get it all out on the table so you can donate more of your brain power to sorting things, rather than holding things.

Put all of the things listed on a calendar: Most important first things first! This means things like health appointments,work schedule, birthdays, holidays that you celebrate, classes, or anything that involves not only your time but other’s as well. Then after that put the elective things second; Nail appointments, shopping trips, dates with friends, etc. Lastly, put the things you would like to incorporate into your daily routine; We talking skincare, any hobbies you may have like drawing/painting/sculpting/reading/blogging, any form of exercise, etc.

Once the week or however much time you have scheduled out is done on your overall calendar, then its time for marrying it to your life.

Marrying your schedule: Planner apps, Physical Planner, Dry Erase Boards and Bullet Journals

Choosing your medium at keeping up with your schedule is very important. You may have to try them all before you get comfortable with something. I have tried them all and I’ve found that the main one that truly stuck with me was the app/website Notion. I like it because its fully customizable and you can use it at your own pace. Every week or every day may not be super eventful and so it drops the guilt and shameful feeling of not filling up pages every single day.

Here is what all I use and the way I use them:

Notion <3 I use it as my overall journal. I use the apps on my ipad/phone to check if I’m not home and I can use the website on my PC when I’m home and relaxing. I like it because its very versatile. Think of it as a digital journal combined with similar mechanics of tumblr. I use it for literally everything. There are a lot of videos that can show off all of the cool things Notion can be used for but this is the video that personally helped me learn it quickly

Bullet Journals <3 I have about 3 journals and I love them because I get to customize things with cute stickers and it gives very fun scrapbooking vibes. Because I use Notion as a all over planner I can use my BUJO’s for more fun and creative things. I usually use these for all of my cute ideas and things thats in my mind and aesthetic wishlists and such. Its very therapeutic to take time out to be kawaii and glamorous and just put cute thoughts on to paper! I mainly use it for kpop inputs, my fav shows, wishlists, dates and etc.

Dry erase board <3 I use this as a overall daily top important to-do list! Sometimes I dont always open my notion if I dont have anything extremely important coming up but there may be some things I need to keep on my mind to do for that day. The way my neurodivergency is set up I need to keep the most important things always in my face or I could forget everything. So, I put things on there like get a new tire, pick up order from bath & bodyworks, put clothes in the dryer, wash dishes, and etc. Daily tasks like that usually goes on my dry erase board

Remember at the end of the day dont be too hard on yourself and your schedule! Move at your own pace and always set yourself up for success. Scheduling is ideally suppose to calm you and be a tool to improve your life; not stress you out. If at any point you begin to feel overwhelmed just stop and recenter yourself and your life. I felt overwhelmed at first myself and that was because I was trying to keep up with a hyper organized and productive version of myself that I needed to give more patience to develop. Let this come organically to you and not because you are trying to keep up with what u feel everyone else is doing, or to the future self you are going to inevitably become. Happy scheduling, Dollmate!

[anthroamazed]

I got this A6 journal from Notebook Therapy and decided to try bullet journaling again in it. I think the fact that the page size is smaller will help me feel less pressure about writing/decorating so much. Fingers crossed it works🤞🏻

[oodling-and-doodling]

26-6-24//i have nothing to post today. please look at this spread i made in my first bullet journal from when i was 14

rbs>likes

[rayraystudies]

I figured my little buddy here deserved a bit of a zoom in focus on him before we move on to the final spreads of the month!

✍ Archer & Olive Bullet Journal, Uniball Signo RT1 UMN-155, Acrylographs

ig: rayraystudies|| links: carrd

[flyoverminimalist]

aug. 24. 2024. > we are only two thirds into the year 🌿

[i-dont-see-the-point]

3/30 days of productivity~ 🍄

It's been a slow day overall, but sometimes slow days are necessary, I guess. I'm trying to be gentle to myself. I'm excited for the new month, though. September has always been one of my favourite months, I don't know why.

[gentlespriting]

🤍 23.04.24 🧴

last night's journal entry + my current skincare (the cerave moisturiser keeps breaking me out so i need to find a replacement...if anyone has good recs for oily skin pls lmk 🙏)

did my online tutorial in the morning

got my bf's fav snackies for tmr night! 🥰🥰

[aprivatelifeofagirl]

[thebujochannel]

I have been playing so much Love, Live! SIF 2! I missed it and that franchise is SUCH a redhead paradise 🧡

[julietsothervision]

Illustrations from my art/bullet journal today🦜🐟🐠

[ohlooksinesta]

Once again, I'm super late to posting this.. xP

October 2024 Cover Page!

Bujo IG • Twitter • Main IG

[aleesgaming]

My September gaming journal recap… trying to include more drawings to it!

[jayziljournals]

October 2022 spread ✨

[oodling-and-doodling]

4-9-24//not only have I finally started my first scripting class, but i also made the honour roll at my school! to celebrate, i went to the bookstore and picked up a gift for my sibling

rbs>likes

[rayraystudies]

Last weekend I agreed to cat sit for a friend…of course I included a couple adorable cat drawings!

✍ Archer & Olive Bullet Journal, Uniball Signo 207 Gel Micro Pen, Pentel Fude Touch Brush Sign Pen, Tombow Dual Brush pens, Washi Tape

ig: rayraystudies|| links: carrd

[belovedapollo]

I did such a bad job at keeping up with my bujo in July but I’m motivated to do better in August! So here is my first page spread for next month, maybe a little boring but it’s calming in my eyes 📖🖋️ reblog ok, don’t repost