#brown sugar dating

[fullcravings]

Banana Date Loaf

[sortagolddigger]

Learn to recognize when you can do better.

If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting

Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer

[richarlotte]

High Class Dating.

I’m spending the summer interning in New York before I move to California and I’ve not had any trouble at all when it comes to getting dates, meeting men, or being taken out. I do sugar date and date hypergamously because if you’ve not leveled up your dating game in 2024, you’re missing out. I think it’s imperative to only except dates with men that make you feel good, have good careers and have something to offer, and make an effort to treat you like a lady. 2024 is the decade of the black woman and I know what I want so it’s time for me to get it. I’ve been dating since I was 18, I’m not a love guru by any means but I hold my own, and I love going out and having a good time with high quality men who will treat me well and show me their lifestyle.

My Stats.

As a background, here are my stats: I’m about 5’11 and weigh 140 pounds, I’m dark skin, and I have alopecia (I do wear a wig). Am I drop dead gorgeous? I’m not Jasmine Tookes but I’m confident and love the way I look, I’ve taken time to level up, I have a good workout routine and a toned body, and I’ve made strides with my personal style and makeup skills over the past few years. I’m happy to make posts related to the process that I went through when I started leveling up, the changes I made to my style and to my makeup routine, and the workout routine and some of the food I eat to keep myself healthy and motivated. I don’t believe in dating out of desperation and I think that it’s always important to make an effort if you are a woman; if you make an effort and know your audience then you’ll find that it’s easier to meet people and go to better places.

A few of my dates.

I went to lunch at the Penn Club with a man who I met on Hinge. He’s a successful young plastic surgeon and we spoke for two days before he asked me out on his first day off. He was tall, had big brown eyes and a strong jaw, handsome, an excellent conversationalist, and very intelligent. He made such an effort to take me somewhere beautiful, treat me well, and make sure that I was having fun and he had so much potential. I really liked our date and think it’s one of the best I’ve been on since I landed in New York for my internship.

I went to Martha’s Vineyard for Fourth of July weekend with another date. His family owns a huge house on the island and I’d mentioned to him that I wanted to go somewhere that felt luxurious so he invited me and a few of my friends to visit. It was a beautiful long weekend and I got to do so much; we swam, cooked, watched the fireworks, danced, listened to so much good music, and got to know each other better. I love a man who comes for money and has his own money but is still humble and he is the definition of a good guy.

I feel like every girl has her own story about going out with an NHL player but OMG let me tell you mine. I went out with a Swedish NHL player and these wealthy Scandinavian men and athletes love black women. People will try to say that they only like thin blondes but this man treated me like a princess, he still sends me gifts, he got me tickets for the Stanley Cup finals, and he’s an angel with the most beautiful accent I’ve ever heard. I slid into his DMs on IG and then he was messaging me an hour later, liking all my pics, and asking me if I’ve ever been to Sweden. I’m going to try to go visit Stockholm in December to try to see him during Christmas when I know he’ll be back at home.

How I meet men.

I use Bumble, Hinge, and the good old-fashioned way of leading people in person. I can do a post on the best way I’ve met people in person and some of the venues I like. I think everyone who reads this will agree that there’s just something about a man who treats you well, is strong, and has a thick wallet and good looks. Every girl deserves a guy like that and I think it’s important that black women do not take any bullshit and don’t compromise on what they want. There are men out there who would drop everything in their hands to do something for me, the princess treatment isn’t a myth at all, and I have met so many men who are able and willing to invest in me and my lifestyle. Again, if you know what you want, then you’re going to get it but you have to be willing to put the work in.

Richarlotte x

[dfkunt]

i love being a sugar baby. my sugar daddy will degrade me, send me rape threats, treat me like a cheap whore, make me come on video call and do all the things he wants me to do and then throw money at me like "there you go you stupid dumb cunt, here's a treat for you spreading your legs for me" and trust me someone paying you to be a slut makes me feel soooo wet and hot,, like yes sir im just a dumb fucktoy for you to rent and use!!!! AHHH

[marejadilla]

Francine Van Hove, "Le 22 septembre (September 22)", 1996, oil on canvas. B. 1942, Saint-Mandé, Seine, France.

[fillmeupwithsugar]

Gotta love it when I don't even need to leave my bed 🎀

[morethansalad]

Brown Butter & Date Chocolate Chip Cookies (Vegan)

[naeplays]

Stopping thieves and stealing hearts ;)

Catch up on the legacy here🧋🤍

[judasofsuburbia]

this seasonal depression has a lil kick to it haha. has some spice to it haha!!!!!!!!!!

[fullcravings]

Small Batch Sticky Toffee Monkey Bread- Vegan

[fattributes]

Barmbrack

[sortagolddigger]

Take lots of breaks. The world barely deserves the presence of women.

[richarlotte]

Do I believe in roster dating or seeing more than 2 men?

In my mind, roster dating is the exact opposite of the soft life. I have had a roster before, and it was the opposite of pleasurable. Living a soft life means having more time to actually enjoy life; you're doing too much if you find yourself stressing about texting five different guys. If I'm serious about a man and want to move our relationship along, I make sure to treat him the same way I'd want to be treated. The second you start to talk to more men than you can handle, the harder it will be to maintain a relationship. If you're talking to two men, you'll have enough time to give them the attention they want and more opportunities to get what you want, but if you're talking to three or more, it gets really difficult to keep your conversations straight and try to build up to romance. 

Having a roster is good if you're just starting out in a new city, you want to meet people, and you have the time to go on dates, but it's not the best idea for women who want to get serious fast and actually start seeing the benefits of dating wealthy men. I treat a man like he matters to me if we're talking and make an effort to get to know him. I also know that my time is better spent giving attention to one or two men and going out with them once I've established that they're worth my time. I'm all about making meaningful connections, minimizing time wasted, and moving forward once I've found someone who I feel like I want to date. I've had great success freestyling in the past and met plenty of men when I was a Bev Cart Girl, but dating is my main focus at the moment. 

tl;dr: most men with egos will want a lot in exchange for a lot. It’s hard to show off your best side if you’re entertaining a whole troupe of clowns and texting the rest of the circus too.

[dfkunt]

the best money i made was by spreading my worthless pussy for a man and letting him tell me exactly what i needed to do to make him cum

[tomatoluvr69]

Baking a little choco coffee banana cake for the park hang tomorrow i feel like what ot must feel like to be on ssris. Yay mode activated. AND brunch beforehand and a movie night tonight or tomorrow wtf……..wow