#brown sugar dating

[fullcravings]

Banana Date Loaf

[sortagolddigger]

Learn to recognize when you can do better.

If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting

Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer

[marejadilla]

Francine Van Hove, "Le 22 septembre (September 22)", 1996, oil on canvas. B. 1942, Saint-Mandé, Seine, France.

[richarlotte]

High Class Dating.

I’m spending the summer interning in New York before I move to California and I’ve not had any trouble at all when it comes to getting dates, meeting men, or being taken out. I do sugar date and date hypergamously because if you’ve not leveled up your dating game in 2024, you’re missing out. I think it’s imperative to only except dates with men that make you feel good, have good careers and have something to offer, and make an effort to treat you like a lady. 2024 is the decade of the black woman and I know what I want so it’s time for me to get it. I’ve been dating since I was 18, I’m not a love guru by any means but I hold my own, and I love going out and having a good time with high quality men who will treat me well and show me their lifestyle.

My Stats.

As a background, here are my stats: I’m about 5’11 and weigh 140 pounds, I’m dark skin, and I have alopecia (I do wear a wig). Am I drop dead gorgeous? I’m not Jasmine Tookes but I’m confident and love the way I look, I’ve taken time to level up, I have a good workout routine and a toned body, and I’ve made strides with my personal style and makeup skills over the past few years. I’m happy to make posts related to the process that I went through when I started leveling up, the changes I made to my style and to my makeup routine, and the workout routine and some of the food I eat to keep myself healthy and motivated. I don’t believe in dating out of desperation and I think that it’s always important to make an effort if you are a woman; if you make an effort and know your audience then you’ll find that it’s easier to meet people and go to better places.

A few of my dates.

I went to lunch at the Penn Club with a man who I met on Hinge. He’s a successful young plastic surgeon and we spoke for two days before he asked me out on his first day off. He was tall, had big brown eyes and a strong jaw, handsome, an excellent conversationalist, and very intelligent. He made such an effort to take me somewhere beautiful, treat me well, and make sure that I was having fun and he had so much potential. I really liked our date and think it’s one of the best I’ve been on since I landed in New York for my internship.

I went to Martha’s Vineyard for Fourth of July weekend with another date. His family owns a huge house on the island and I’d mentioned to him that I wanted to go somewhere that felt luxurious so he invited me and a few of my friends to visit. It was a beautiful long weekend and I got to do so much; we swam, cooked, watched the fireworks, danced, listened to so much good music, and got to know each other better. I love a man who comes for money and has his own money but is still humble and he is the definition of a good guy.

I feel like every girl has her own story about going out with an NHL player but OMG let me tell you mine. I went out with a Swedish NHL player and these wealthy Scandinavian men and athletes love black women. People will try to say that they only like thin blondes but this man treated me like a princess, he still sends me gifts, he got me tickets for the Stanley Cup finals, and he’s an angel with the most beautiful accent I’ve ever heard. I slid into his DMs on IG and then he was messaging me an hour later, liking all my pics, and asking me if I’ve ever been to Sweden. I’m going to try to go visit Stockholm in December to try to see him during Christmas when I know he’ll be back at home.

How I meet men.

I use Bumble, Hinge, and the good old-fashioned way of leading people in person. I can do a post on the best way I’ve met people in person and some of the venues I like. I think everyone who reads this will agree that there’s just something about a man who treats you well, is strong, and has a thick wallet and good looks. Every girl deserves a guy like that and I think it’s important that black women do not take any bullshit and don’t compromise on what they want. There are men out there who would drop everything in their hands to do something for me, the princess treatment isn’t a myth at all, and I have met so many men who are able and willing to invest in me and my lifestyle. Again, if you know what you want, then you’re going to get it but you have to be willing to put the work in.

Richarlotte x

[dfkunt]

i love being a sugar baby. my sugar daddy will degrade me, send me rape threats, treat me like a cheap whore, make me come on video call and do all the things he wants me to do and then throw money at me like "there you go you stupid dumb cunt, here's a treat for you spreading your legs for me" and trust me someone paying you to be a slut makes me feel soooo wet and hot,, like yes sir im just a dumb fucktoy for you to rent and use!!!! AHHH

[morethansalad]

Brown Butter & Date Chocolate Chip Cookies (Vegan)

[naeplays]

Stopping thieves and stealing hearts ;)

Catch up on the legacy here🧋🤍

[fillmeupwithsugar]

Gotta love it when I don't even need to leave my bed 🎀

[tomatoluvr69]

Baking a little choco coffee banana cake for the park hang tomorrow i feel like what ot must feel like to be on ssris. Yay mode activated. AND brunch beforehand and a movie night tonight or tomorrow wtf……..wow

[fattributes]

Barmbrack

[fullcravings]

Cookies and Cream Pizookie

[sortagolddigger]

Take lots of breaks. The world barely deserves the presence of women.

[richarlotte]

Do I believe in roster dating or seeing more than 2 men?

In my mind, roster dating is the exact opposite of the soft life. I have had a roster before, and it was the opposite of pleasurable. Living a soft life means having more time to actually enjoy life; you're doing too much if you find yourself stressing about texting five different guys. If I'm serious about a man and want to move our relationship along, I make sure to treat him the same way I'd want to be treated. The second you start to talk to more men than you can handle, the harder it will be to maintain a relationship. If you're talking to two men, you'll have enough time to give them the attention they want and more opportunities to get what you want, but if you're talking to three or more, it gets really difficult to keep your conversations straight and try to build up to romance. 

Having a roster is good if you're just starting out in a new city, you want to meet people, and you have the time to go on dates, but it's not the best idea for women who want to get serious fast and actually start seeing the benefits of dating wealthy men. I treat a man like he matters to me if we're talking and make an effort to get to know him. I also know that my time is better spent giving attention to one or two men and going out with them once I've established that they're worth my time. I'm all about making meaningful connections, minimizing time wasted, and moving forward once I've found someone who I feel like I want to date. I've had great success freestyling in the past and met plenty of men when I was a Bev Cart Girl, but dating is my main focus at the moment. 

tl;dr: most men with egos will want a lot in exchange for a lot. It’s hard to show off your best side if you’re entertaining a whole troupe of clowns and texting the rest of the circus too.

[dfkunt]

the best money i made was by spreading my worthless pussy for a man and letting him tell me exactly what i needed to do to make him cum

[lynnbabes]

HALLO

Its been a while! Don’t know where to start cause its been three years since I posted.

Honestly, life has been crazy. Personal and sugar bowl have been busy. Stilling going strong with one of my SD. I’m graduating this year, so I want a vacation from him.

I picked up on doing some cuddle sessions on CuddleComfort. I don’t care what anyone says, its a weird ass side hustle. But shit, i love making a quick bag.

This week I had a WYP date cancel. Saying he found another person that he was more compatible with. How do you even respond to it in a mature but petty way? Asking for a friend.

Anyway, I wanna try to come back on here and post more updates.

[diamondluxesugar]

Hi so I’m really going through it atm and would appreciate some input/advice please💕 so i just found out that the guy I was talking to for a year long distance has had a gf all this time...the girl reached out to me calling my phone and I knew immediately it was weird that a Miami number was calling me...anyway she was wondering who I was because she said she saw my number on her boyfriends phone...I told her everything then sent her screenshots to confirm. While I was sending her them, the guy was texting me and then I called him and was like “you have a girlfriend” and he goes “you had a dating app” then hung up and blocked me...I don’t understand this because why would he cheat with me for a year just to block me when the girlfriend found out?? She said they broke up too...I’m just so hurt. She also blocked me after telling her everything so I can’t ask her if they are actually broken up or not...I tried calling him many times a weeks after from No Caller ID and he texts me “stop fucking calling, how it’s clearly over, to move on, stop being so obsessed” I denied it but I was just so hurt especially because he’s lied to me and led me on for what?? Why do this to me when we’re long distance why hurt me like that? Anyway, like 2 weeks later called me many times kept telling me to call him so did he goes “just wanted to apologize clear the air sorry you had to go through all that” and I was like “ok” then before I could say more he hung up and blocked me....then like 2 weeks after that messaged me “yo, kept calling me and I told him I couldn’t talk that I was at work at he goes “right” and I was like “I am” and he goes “bet” and I was like “what” and he goes “forget it” and I was like “?” Then he emphasized it...then I said I could talk later and he liked the text then I sent him “If you’re going to be rude and upset me then we don’t need to talk. You’ve really hurt me a lot. I didn’t know you had a girlfriend all this time so would have never even come to Miami to begin with to see you...that is gross. you putting me in the middle hasn’t been fair especially being that you’ve lied to me so much, made my anxiety way worse we’ve just hookup and you’ve left me every time being blacked out and all and could have died..... I really don’t understand why you would do that to me...or this girl really. You’ve wasted my time and money and don’t know why you would think that is okay....” then he emphasized that we would talk later but then when I tried to call him blocked again....why is he doing this?? Then I just stopped calling him for 2 weeks then this last Monday he calls me 3 times in a row, texts me “yo” then within 15 minutes blocked me before I could answer him..why is he doing this? I don’t understand and then blocking me....I left him alone so I’m really not understanding I’m also not understanding why he blocked me when the gf found out but would do this to me for a year....

My question is, why haven't you blocked him? He's getting off on being able to contact you. You need to completely remove him from your life. Block him on everything. All social media platforms, his phone number, everything. Whenever a phone call from an unrecognized number comes in, immediately block and delete it from your call log.

I agree with him, you're obsessing over him, KNOWING that he was intentionally hurting you for more than a year at this point. You're only going to keep hurting yourself by interacting with him and by entertaining the thought of him and this girl.