#brokenfamilies

[streamofdespair]

Family

I miss car rides with them

I miss watching TV with them

I miss going to the grocery store with them

I miss going to the cinema with them

I miss stroking my pet with them

I miss my pet

I cherish our beautiful memories which I know were filled with terror and despair.

[gurucave]

The Poetry of Mr Black

Karebeckystan The Poetry of Mr Black : Karebeckistan I’m the plant from the seed you sowed you tried to uproot me you tried to stop my growth I’m the weed you wanted to get rid of Now I’m your smoke Your shameless schemes reveal your true loop. From the tablet of Plato I am schooled “The Power of Platonic Love” That’s my book, Read it, it might be good for you Don’t confuse my anger, it’s not…

[craigmajorsauthor]

BROKEN FAMILIES CAN BE UNBROKEN

A family usually consist of a offspring, or group of people sharing common ancestry, interest, goals, and commitment to one another. A family that possess trust, loyalty and obligation.

What Causes A Family To Become Broken?:

However, what causes a family to broken? What causes a family to become ununited, or divided? There are various reasons of broken families: greed, jealously, hatred, disloyalty, or betrayal. There are various reasons a family member becomes selfish, untrustworthy, unforgivable, and lack commitment and obligation to the family. Although these acts may well cause any family member to separate, or distant themselves, what have been broken can be unbroken.

Not All Members Of The Family Can Uphold Every Obligation:

For instance, not all Members of the family can uphold every obligation. However, some people believe every family member is obligated to help one another mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially. They expect them to help them each and every way. They support and assistance, regardless of the adversity, hardship, or trauma. However, what they fail to realize family love is expressed in different ways.

Every Family Member Have Their Own Identity, Strengths, And Weaknesses:

Every family member have their own identity, strengths and weaknesses. Every family member have a way of doing things. For instance, I may be good at helping a family member mentally, physically, and financially, but not spiritually. Another family member may be good at helping me emotionally and spiritually, but not financially. Another family member may be good at helping physically, but not mentally. This type of love is expressed in different ways, and is usually effected by our strengths and weaknesses. However, does this mean we do not love our family? Does this mean we should distant ourselves from family, because they failed to help us according to our standards? The answer to this question should be no.

Don't Try Fix What Was Not Broken In The First Place:

Furthermore, we should never try to fix what wasn't broken in the first place. Some of us are guilty for trying to fix our family into our liking, not realizing this is selfish. What they did not do, or will not do, is different from what you would do. In addition, who said what we did for our family is satisfying to them? We cannot satisfy every family member, nor can everyone of them satisfy us. Remember every member of the family has a different way of expressing love. Even if they have no clue how to love, we have to be the stronger one and move on.

Greed, Jealous, Or Hatred Should Not Be The Reason Of Broken Family:

The same also applies to greed, jealously, and hatred. We cannot allow a greedy, and jealous family member be the reason of becoming a broken family. We cannot allow a family member known for hating be the reason of becoming a broken family. Everyone has at least one family member known to be greedy, jealous, or a outright hater. They hate to see you progress. They're jealous you have a great family of your own, or the fact you're receiving great income. You provide them money, or some form of assistance, they don't appreciated.  Nothing you provide them is enough. Even to the point of possessing everything they need, greed comes into play. They want more from you just for the hell of it. Despite of the bullshit they bring to the family table, every member of the family have their own identity. Every member of the family have a weakness.

A weakness that could either destroy, or make your relationship stronger. Although greed, jealously, and hatred is unnatural trait to possess, someone have to be strong. Someone have to keep the family from breaking apart.

Loyalty And Betrayal:

Although loyalty and betrayal can almost certainly break a family apart, we have to keep in mind everyone has a weakness. Of course we expect family to be loyal and not show betrayal under any circumstances. However, disloyalty and betrayal is possible to happen. It is possible one of our family member's will betray our trust. It is possible a family member could turn against us for the worse. It is possible their disloyalty could fly elsewhere. It is possible they could disappear when times are rough, or adversity hits our doorstep. It is possible they will not come to our rescue, or defense when the time comes. It is possible a family member could abandoned us. It is possible a family member may do something unforgivable. It is possible their disloyalty, or betrayal has always been a weakness for them in the first place. We are just now seeing the reality of this disloyalty, or betrayal. We had to go through this painful ordeal to see it.

Unforgiven & Untrustworthy:

As painful as it is, we find the act unforgivable and their words untrustworthy. We find there is no point of continuing the relationship because they have proved disloyalty. They have proved betrayal. They have proved to be untrustworthy. They have proved their actions to be unforgivable. They have proved lack of commitment to the family. They have proved commitment to the family is not in their vocabulary.

Moving On From What Was Broken:

However, if we continue to hold on to this pain, stress, and misery than we are not moving on.

We do not necessarily have to be around our family to move on. We can make peace by forgiving: "inhaling the future, and exhaling the past." We can make peace, and remembering life goes on. Remembering what was broken can be unbroken. Read the full article

[themalharescoven]

"but don't worry. All is well in the Afton family"

[lons-world]

[nmolesofadrenaline]

[justmyhumanexperience]

[restingobject5757]

Name: “at least yours fits?”

Time: 2-ish hours.

[unafraidtobe]

Driving up highway 5 with my mother, father and sister.

It reminds me of how trapped I felt 6 years ago. How I felt like I couldn’t breathe or think and repress all that I believe in. Not the belief that they forced me to grow into but the belief that made my skin itch to leave what I was forcing myself to follow, even if it meant beating myself and tearing my soul in two.

I am the few lucky ones who got away. The few who were able to abandon their family for their own love. My heart breaks for the many who couldn’t or can’t. I cry for you, your pain, and the life that you dream of.

[kidsondrugs]

I love my mother, but I don't like her.

I wish I had done it,

I wish we were best friends.

But that's not us. Her words cut like a knife, I drown in her expectations.

I was never a perfect daughter, but I tried.

I tried and tried until I couldn't anymore.

I had to decide for myself.

I had to get out.

She says she loves me but she despises me.

And I'm slowly realizing that the contempt has grown and continues to grow over the years.

We hardly exchange a word with each other anymore and when we do, they are cold and dismissive.

I mean, where were you last year when I lost my baby?

My aunt!! called you and told you I need my mom right now!!!

But you weren't even remotely interested!!

In the end it was my aunt, uncle and cousins ​​who picked me up again and did everything they could to ensure that I didn't completely isolate myself and withdraw again!!!

Sometimes I really wish that my aunt had fulfilled my wish and adopted me, there's no reason a child doesn't ask his aunt something like that!!

[misunderstoodsoul404]

Hey Tumblr, just wanna vent or get the message out. I've written it an deleted it a million times...

Hey so I thought u would always be in my life, we were always together. U were my role model, I so badly wanted to be just like u. The way u talked an looked. As years went on an things happened within the family I don't blame u for opting out. I understand people grow apart but I would do anything to see u, I don't care about the past. I hate the same person u do now, an I 💯 understand how u felt an wanted to cut everyone off. I know u will never accept my friend request, an that's okay, I get it. All I can do I look at ur profile to get a small peep into ur life now. I get to hear ur voice on the videos u post, u sound the same by the way... we will always be family no matter wat. My love for u is forever. It's sucks u had to make these decisions but I completely 1000000 percent agree, I just wish I wasn't apart of the cut off. 😐

There I wrote it, I kno u will never read it an that's okay. I feel It's more of a letter u write an burn after. Just gettin the feelings out I guess. Thanks

[streamofdespair]

Tragic destiny

I am the captain of this sinking boat. The cult that my family has been watering for years now. I am nowhere to be found, I am lost at sea.

Mornings are broken. Hearts are frozen.

I am searching for a ghost home, a ghost family, a loving family.

I need so much more and I have nothing left.

[subtlenisha]

In a family, crying of one child makes it easier for parents to put all the blame on the another child.

[lunaamorafeelz]

I hate that I feel I have to give up everything to survive. My culture, my language, my hopes and dreams. Unable to do it on my own I feel I have failed myself and my grandparents. I hate that I still needed to marry a man to survive, to get so much ahead I now have an equal chance as everybody else.