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Daily self worth reminder I guess cuz it seems like too many people need to be reminded of this but…

🪷 it is not your job to take care of everybody.

People need to start focusing on holding themselves down and questioning “who is benefiting me as much as I am benefiting them? Who makes me happy?”

Too many people are too busy taking care of others to take care of themselves; helping them out when they struggling. Whether it be financially, emotionally, mentally, you’re right there bae. If they need someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, a place to stay you helping them out time and time again and it be the same people that prove to you over and over that they just using you and ain’t even tryna return the favor.

It is not your job to… please them; it is not your job to attend to their every need and run to they beck and call; it is not your job to let go of your boundaries to make them comfortable; it is not your job to stick with them through all they bullshit and all they switching up and act as their doormat; it is not your job to place them on some bullshit pedestal; it is not your job to put yourself down so they can get their ego boost; it is not your job to act as a slave to selfishness, you don’t need to feed into their reliance for instant gratification.

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4 daily affirmations to encourage success, positivity, grace, & spiritual growth~ 🐚

1. I am successful in everything that I do and choose to pursue.

2. My vibrations and energy are always positive. I choose what energies I absorb and reject. When I walk into a room everyone knows it.

3. When people think of beauty, grace, and elegance I am the first thought to pop into their heads.

4. I will continue to grow, mature, and discover myself along the way despite the energies that may try to anchor me throughout my journey.

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Time for a nail appreciation post y’all!!

If anyone in the Boston area is looking for an affordable gel-x nail tech then dm me and I can give you her insta!!

This is some of her work, these are just my favorites but if anyone wants more pictures or wants me to make more nail appreciation posts then let me know!!

I’d be so excited to share more of my sets with you guys and for you guys to share some nail inspo with me!!

The pic on the bottom right is my most recent set, it was a freestyle and it is absolutely stunning and I am so proud of her!! The one of the bottom left was my birthday set and the photo don’t do it justice y’all. It ate. I was gettin compliments left and right and it was the perfect set for my sweet 17th beach party.

She is so kind and hard working so please reach out. Dm me for her insta handle to show her some support!! Give her a follow, a like, or a share and if you’re interested reach out to schedule an appointment!! It would be so appreciated, I love this girlie and she deserves it so so much <333

Much love y’all, hugs and kisses, xoxo

~ W/Lyssie 🪷🍓🫧

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Dear diary~

I wish to dream of gold and white toned silks and pink colored lace. I wish to wake up to the smell of pink sugar and strawberry short cake and the taste of vanilla bean fresh on my tongue. I wish to live in my quiet cottage surrounded only by the flowers, the fairies, and me. I wish to go about my days worried only of myself, my peace, and my next nail appointment. Most importantly I wish to love and be loved in a way that defies logic; beyond comprehension… i wish… ☁️🧿

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who wants to have a fairy tea party with me guys? 🍰🍰🍰🍰

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no one..?

ok… :(

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And above all I am not loved or lusted over.

I’ve felt the pain of being just one- of being loved without the urge to be taken into a sweet embrace until you’ve been forged to one or the stale nausea that hits your stomach when a pair of eyes crawl over your skin without affection and hands rake over your body without softness.

But somehow to be without either is worse and it makes me wonder what it’d feel like to have both. To know you’ll sleep each night in the arms of someone peaceful and permanent rather than spreading on my mattress with only a pillow to disrupt my arms’ travels.

And yet I don’t wish to be fucked stupid or made love to, I wish to be cradled, skin to skin without an armor of linen in between us to get in my way.

It’s a feeling of missing something you never had, a craving for a sweet you can’t place, the discovery of a birthmark which was always there scarring an otherwise perfect canvas.

I dipped my toes into the water only to blink and find that I cannot find shore. It was sudden and yet so gradual; drifting out to sea without a wrist watch, allowing the cold waves to lick at my feet and losing track of time. My sanity.

I lie awake till sunrise each morning in hopes that someone will walk through that door.

“Sorry I’m late, dear”

And take me into their arms at last; our lips brushing against one another and their nose buried into my cheeks

Intimacy, I miss you.

When will you be home, dear?

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warm july stolen by cold april showers

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Here;

mentally, spirituality, I’m here.

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i want to spend all my time w you youre my safe space

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My head is fuzzy and my heart is full thinking of you 🍓

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Guys all I want in life is to be a fairy princess barbie babydoll bratz angel-coquette-cottagecore y2k slore so. fuxking. bad.

Is that so much to ask???

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No fucking friends on this app because everyone is lame and now I have no one to share profound poetry posts with :( wtf guys :((

Actual convo I had with my friend Tdy:

“I have no friends on tumblr I’m so lonely”

Them: “…is that a dating app..?” !’vbvv?!?$!!)-!’?

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hi, my name is Lyssi or W 🧚🏼‍♀️

🪷 My pronouns are she/her 🪷

My sun sign is Leo ☀️ my rising is Libra ⚖️ and my moon is Aquarius ♒️

I like brownies, painting, music, the color pink, fairies and psych horror flicks… that’s abt it ☁️

🦢🧸 Nice to meet you 🕊️🎀

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