#bitchy blog has to bitch people

[itsblasttothepast]

Why are you such a bitch to Liam? Yuki says he wants Perez place too, and you just attack Liam for saying he deserves it more

Well, for starters, I don't think I've been a bitch to Lawson? I barely talk about him in my blog and I've never said anything extremely rude! Although it might come out as bitchy because I've been told I'm a sarcastic bitch, so...

But, if I'm going to take this ask seriously, here's the deal: Yuki has said he is ready for the RBR seat and never once has said something mean about Checo. He has never disrespected Checo (except on radio, but those are high adrenaline moments, like when Checo called his husband an idiot too), and also Yuki seems to actually care about Checo.

Lawson's attitude feels rude to me, and I'm not obligated to like him, but I haven't attacked him, it's not like I'm posting things about him, I just deleted him from the Chestappen family tree in my head and speak in general about conspiracy theories with my homies.

Also, I don't think Lawson or Lawson's fans care at all about my blog, since they don't like Checo, so we don't mesh. Finally, not sure the point of the ask, but my bitchy blog and myself are pretty happy, so... we seem to have reached an impasse.

[biancasaidstfu]

Like if people are under the impression that I don’t like Nicola you’re getting it twisted.

I can have critiques for these people but I never set out to hate on them at all. I don’t condone any hate on them either. When I wrote my villain Nicola theory it was geared towards her taking the heat off of Luke who by and large gets far more hate on social media.

It’s obvious the people coming here to shit talk or leave nasty messages in my asks didn’t bother to try and find or research the theory but my mistake was thinking any of these bitches we’re going to lift a finger to try and understand what I was talking about.

I’ve been a little off today and a bit out of pocket and that has colored my responses but people can fuck all the way off thinking I hate anyone when I’ve always tried to remain neutral but I admit I’ve failed at that recently.

I own the fact that I wasn’t very neutral today and haven’t been the past few days. In fact I’ve been very bitchy and snappy. That’s on me. But don’t come on this blog and act like you even go here when you obviously don’t know what you’re talking about.

I’ll be out for the weekend. I’ll pop in if something happens.

✌🏼❤️

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for bitching about fics I dislike on my blog?

as a foreword, this is kind of a non-issue and no one's ever told me to stop, but I'm curious what other people think of fandom etiquette.

the fandom: a fairly small one. 2.4k fics on ao3 small. I recognize most people posting in its tumblr tag small. if I tell you the name of the source you'd almost definitely be able to find me small.

the source: pornographic, which means everyone involved is or should be an adult. it's BL with a switch MC, but the fandom overwhelmingly prefers bottom MC/top LIs (love interests), to the point where I've had people be astonishingly rude to me because my favorite character is a bottom LI and some of my friends have been outright harassed for the same. I used to not care about sex positions in the slightest, but now when I see bottom MC fanworks I can't help but remember how poorly I was treated.

the fics: wildly and inexplicably popular, even though they are, frankly, poorly written. it's eternal bottom MC turned up to 11, complete with copious amounts of OOCness in order to turn every ship into the worst ye olde yaoi gender roles dynamic you can imagine. it's things like MC, canonically a 23yo plank of a dudeguy, being written as a big titted milf in his 40s (which is made more confusing by the fact that one of the LIs is already a big titted milf). it's also things like the MC being written as disliking sex and having to be coerced into it when one of the most charming things about him is that he's a hilarious sex pest, or writing the LIs sexually harassing the MC when they really would never do that. I've likened it to replacing the characters with OCs that share the same name and my friends have agreed with me. I'm honestly convinced that the author and his readers don't actually like any of the characters if they feel the need to change everyone so thoroughly.

why I might be an asshole: it's assholish to hate on free fanworks, and I've bitched about these fics on my public tumblr blog. the fandom is small enough that there's a non-zero chance of it getting back to the author and a reasonable chance that fans of the fics have seen my bitching. I'm probably projecting the hostility I've received onto someone who's done absolutely nothing to me, and I am absolutely just straight up jealous that their fics get better stats than mine. I may also be being an asshole to myself, because being critical of other people's fics has made my hypercritical of my own.

why I don't think I'm an asshole: I think everyone has the right to be bad at things, but I also think everyone has the right to be a little hater. I don't put the fandom tag on these posts; they stay on my blog and my blog alone, and if later on I feel like I was unfairly vitriolic I'll delete the posts. I only post on tumblr because I'm certain the author in question only uses twitter, which dramatically lowers the odds of him stumbling across my posts. the fics are so popular that it's definitely possible that their fans would see my posts, but I think it's unlikely that they'd bother looking at my blog because 99% of my posts are about one of the bottom LIs. I have never and would never leave comments on the fics themselves, and I generally try to keep the bitchy posts to a minimum; it's far from a constant thing.

tl;dr - I publicly bitch about fics that (in my opinion) are poorly written and extremely OOC, under the assumption that it's unlikely the author would ever see it. AITA?

What are these acronyms?

[femmehaljordan]

I think my feelings towards Tim Drake is based on which version I'm seeing, like:

New Batman Adventures/Gotham Adventures: My sweet boy, has never done anything wrong, ever. Absolutely adorable relationship with Babs and Dick.

Early Comics: Haven't read enough to get a full grasp, but he doesn't bother me too much from what I have read.

Fandom Tim: Not actually Tim Drake, gives me the same vibes as Lincoln Loud is written in all of those No Such Luck fanfics, I like some fanfics with him, but not ones that have to vilify other characters.

Not to sound bitchy but boy do I have news for you! New Batman adventures Tim is beat for beat Jason Todd. Like I’m not even kidding. That’s Jason with Tim’s name slapped on him. 

Early comics Tim is a misogynist who treats Steph like shit and fairly consistently acts like he’s sooooo much better than Jason.

I’m not even gonna touch fandom Tim because I’ve made those feelings CLEAR 

Again, not to sound like a bitch, but I don’t know why you sent me this when my blog is very much not a safe space for Tim Drake defenders. I don’t care if people like him, but I don’t understand why you’re coming to me trying to defend liking him? Like you like what you like it’s just not for me. 

It’s just funny because I shout from the rooftops how much I hate him. Like what did you think this was gonna achieve? Changing my mind?

[vengeful-n-vicious-child-of-zeus]

First off, fuck you

second off, what the hell do you want?

third off, no touching. touch me and you fucking die. I’m not joking.

Name: Elektra Agêtôr and if you call me my last name I will murder you.

Age: Just turned 18

Pronouns: She/her, xey/xem

Birthday: December 17

Sexuality: Queer

Godly Parent: Lord of ass, bitch of the sky. None other than the bitch-ass Zeus himself.

Time Spent At Camp: I arrived close to my 15th birthday. So about three years

Weapons: Celestial bronze dagger with a one foot blade. Old and shitty celestial bronze bullet handgun. Look, if Annabeth offered Piper McLean one, I can have one too.

Backstory: Fuck off

Untouchable? Why?: My stupid ass bitch of a sperm donor decided to give me a necklace that will electrocute to death everyone I touch or everyone who touches me. I can only take it off during thunderstorms, and afterwards I have to put it back on or I suffer heightened electrical activity in my neurons until I get the necklace back on (it used to cause me seizures as a kid, but it doesn’t anymore).

Mortal humans and demigods cannot touch me when I’m wearing the necklace without dying or becoming severely and permanently injured. Gods and goddesses can touch me but it feels like touching a hot stove (or so I’ve heard). Animals can touch me sometimes, I don’t know if there’s a pattern to it or not or if Zeus just feels like being particularly dickish to animals sometimes.

So there’s your overview. You happy now? Good, now leave me the fuck alone, bitch.

Description: Biologically female. 5’11” but often wears boots to be taller. Pale skin. Slender body. Almost black eyes, but has tiny little lightning streaks in irises that increase in brightness during strong feelings. Naturally long wavy jet black hair, but hairstyle is currently in long dreadlocks. Many scars along arms, and one Lichtenberg Figure on her right shoulder, but wears long sleeves to cover them up. Immersed in goth culture with clothes and makeup following suit.

Powers:

(not that she ever uses them)

Zeus’s Authority: The most common power of hers to see, even though seeing any of her powers is a rarity. This is a commanding force that requires those around to listen and obey Elektra’s words. Elektra is a naturally very intimidating person, but this increases her scare factor by about ten fold. When using this power, Elektra’s speech will appear like this. (bolded and italic)

Lightning Summoning: A power Elektra has used very few times in her life, and certainly no one at camp has ever seen her use. No one there even knows she has it. The ability to summon strikes of lightning anywhere at will, or summon a bolt to her hand to use as a weapon.

Electricity Manipulation: Another power of xeirs that has been used only in times of great need, and never before at camp. Examples of this power would be being able to take electricity out of power lines or technology devices, and in extreme cases the manipulation of the electromagnetic fields in the body.

Wind Manipulation: A slightly more common power, but not often noticed or talked about. This grants the power of controlling the direction of the wind, and how fast or slow it goes. Elektra can also use the wind to lift her up of her feet, but has never really done so.

Electricity Creation: A power not even Elektra knows xey have, and therefore has never used it. Elektra can use the electricity within her own body to give off sparks and zaps of energy.

Taglist:

@this-lovely-universe @penelope-is-waiting @nobilis-of-norway @sophia-hunter-of-artemis @surprisingly-bitchy-up-here @lightning-prince-of-gods @i-do-not-eat-pencils

Interact with Elektra to join her taglist —but beware, Elektra is not a fan of people.

hiya! I am @daonedaonlysk , formerly @daonedaonlyskh , and this blog used to be @vicious-daughter-of-zeus . My reason for saying that is my old account got yeeted into the void by tumblr. fun times

I don’t remember when the heart-shaped barbed wires dividers came from, or the picrew used to create the profile picture. I sincerely apologize, and if anyone knows who or where they came from please lmk so I can give proper credit!

the dotted black line dividers were created by @/animatedglittergraphics-n-more

the banner and the little three picture mood board were created by me on canva

in character tag: the cursed daughter of zeus ⚡️

ooc tag: mod speaks

<3

p.s I’m sorry if Elektra is mean to you, that’s just how she is. I promise I don’t hate you and I’m not mad at you, I’m just in character and love interacting with you

p.s.s I’m sorry if I take forever to respond, please consider I am a student and am busy af and will either forget to respond or just don’t feel like it and rp’s may be abandoned without notice. again I’m sorry but I’ve just gotta do what’s best for me

[0w0tsuki]

When I go on about how the phrase "reading comprehension" has damaged the way we argue on here I seriously mean it. Like I've run into situations where I could have used the phrase and everytime it is weaker and less rhetorically impactful to what I would do instead. The alternative is so much better but no one really wants to do it because it's basically the rhetorical equivalent of showing your work on a math problem.

Because when you write a misreading off as "bad reading comprehension" you miss up the golden opportunity to really pick apart that thought process. "Reading Comprehension" makes fun of someone for "not understanding the words I've written" which can be a legitimate criticism but when you default to it what your saying is "I shouldn't have to put the effort into defending/explaining my words because your too dumb to understand"

The greatest example I've personally run into was in an argument a couple months back I had on here. It was with some TransUnity boy starting shit in the transmisogyny tag by insulting the maturity people who get into arguments about intra-community issues ie: "infighting". (Which as we all know telling a large portion of your community that they're a bunch of whiny separatist babies for having problems in the first place definitely isn't infighting at all.) With a healthy sprinkle of "pays token mention to the idea of a transmisogynistic transmasc purely for the optics of being perceived as on both sides but when discussing examples of "infighting" only provides strawman versions of transfeminist talking points. And needless to say

Well in this argument he decides to pull the old classic of pulling up my bio to see if there's anything he can use to make a quick jab at me personally without engaging with anything I'm saying. Now in my bio there's the line "Crazy hysterical bitch making mountains out of mole hills in your discourse".

This line is to anyone following me in clear reference to the countless times where someone losing in an argument to me will invoke the image of the "hysterical feminist" as they proceed to disengage from anything I'm saying and dismiss me as being over obsessive for attempting to challenge them on their transmisogyny in the first place. I have quite literally unironically called hysterical on more than one occasion on this site. It's a sorta beating them to the punch style line to highlight their unoriginality.

And this slimy little weasel references the line and goes on to say he agrees with it. Notice the way I said he did that? He WANTED to just say all those insults at me outright but knew that they were highly ableist and this would be bad optics. So he dances around the words themselves but still states that he agreed with the sentiment that I am a hysterical bitch making a mountain out of a molehill in his discourse.

And when I press him on this he reveals he thought that I had put it up there as a brag. That this was an aspect of my personality that I was personally proud to display on my blog. He essentially thought of me as one of those people who love conflict and view "being an insufferable person to be around" as a positive personality trait.

Now this is the point where it would be SO easy to just pull out the old "READIN COMPREHENSHUN" but that would be like using the loaded gun this chud has handed me and firing a warning shot before sending him on his way. No I fully went into this thought process and how it highlighted his misogynistic biases of viewing transfeminists as a clique of Highschool MeanGirls who sow discord because they're naturally unlikable bitchy people.

His response? Blocked. Post DELETED. 0 note vaugeposting about how he HAD to delete his "no discourse" post because "assholes brought discourse to it". Like people go on about how "arguing is pointless because there's no way you can "win" an argument" severely underestimate how bad someone can be at arguing.

[phoenixwrites]

How do you keep yourself from feeling down about your haters/anti your ships?

There’s these (literally) 5 girls who think they’re the queens of my current small fandom and their hate is starting to get to me even though I try to let it roll off my back.

How do you do it, Phoenix?🥺 How do you keep the Plastics from ruining your fandoms and ships?

Oh goodness, Sass, I'm so sorry. I've been in my fair share of fandom dramas (the worst being last summer) and it's never an easy thing to deal with.

I want to gently correct you, though. The hate DOES get to me. Last summer, there were anons in my inbox telling me I deserved to be sexually assaulted as a child because I support dark fic writers. There were anons calling me a pedophile. There is a 600 note reblog going around the Stranger Things fandom claiming I was a pedophile. I was suicidal at that point, because it was triggering as hell.

But at the same time, I refused to give up MY tumblr space because of bullies. This is my blog. I've had it since 2011, it has been a space of freeverse, of gossip, of art, and of joy. I will not change that for the satisfaction of a few teenagers who think TikTok is activism.

I got through it a few ways.

Turn off anons. I am a stubborn bitch and I only turned my anon off once during that period, right after someone told me I deserved being assaulted at seven years old. I turned it off for one night then turned it right back on, because I hated limiting access to my lovely anons because of bullies--same reason I haven't privatized my AO3 account, even though AI very likely will steal my work. I hate the thought of some anon who reads my fics for comfort being denied access to them. But that's my thing. Turning off anon is the best way to shut off their power to hurt you. If you don't want to turn off anon, delete their messages. I am CHOOSY about which anons I answer. They are reaching out to me, on MY blog, it's my decision whether I deign to answer them or not. If I'm in the right mood for it, I might be trolly and snarky. If they're sweet, I love to hear from them. But I delete just as many as I answer.

Get off the internet. The internet is my space where I can zone out and do whatever I want. Sometimes that means watching a carefully curated selection of TV shows while writing fanfic. Sometimes it means doing TV show meta. Sometimes it's just goofing off. But the internet is chocolate, it's a lovely sweet treat. But if you have nothing but chocolate, you will get sick. Take walks. Go outside. Forget online drama (it's never that serious), enjoy your offline friends, snuggle your furry friends, go out for a cup of coffee and read a book.

Curate your experience. If you see someone with an absolutely RANCID take--like how Eddie wasn't flirting outrageously with Chrissy (sure jan) or Neal was a rapist, whatever. Don't engage, don't comment, don't reblog. BLOCK THOSE BITCHES. Block the people who make you feel weird. Block someone who used to be in your fandom but has moved onto reblogging something that annoys you. Block, block, block. Or use tumblr savior assiduously. When it was really bad in Hellcheer land, I watched Smallville and blogged about it until I felt ready to play in Hellcheer again.

At the end of last summer, the hate started dying off for a couple of reasons.

One, school was starting (yes, I do believe the majority of these bitchy anons are bored children, they ALWAYS have an uptick during school breaks).

Two, I got a book deal. I was too thrilled with my success and though they tried to threaten me, it didn't have much of a sting. My publisher and agent don't give a shit about the latest fandom drama. My editor LOVES horror and darklit.

Three, I fell in love. I have an incredibly wonderful partner who is a writer too (for television! I used to write fanfic for a show he worked on! :D). Autumn was an incredibly wonderful season of joy for me (minus my then-work troubles) which bled into a romantic winter, a challenging spring, and now it's becoming a lovely summer.

I had a bunch of lovely things happen to me that made me realize that the internet is actually quite small. It doesn't matter if STEDDIELOVER69 hates me or believes I'm a pedophile. What matters is that there are plenty of other folks who love reading my work, who like hearing my thoughts, who enjoy my VQ gossip, and those are the people I want to engage with.

Those folks don't know you and the joy you experience every day. Keep that joy close to your heart, as closely as they keep their own bitterness and cruelty.

You'll be all right, love. I promise it gets better.

[lightofraye]

Hi I have been reading your asks on your blog and I am very interested to know why people hate Jensen's wife? She has kids with him...that isn't love?

No hate to you or anyone just asking a question about this whole thing.

Hello!

Welcome to my blog!

So… that’s the loaded question, isn’t it?

Why do I and other antis dislike Danneel?

First, let me address the whole “they have kids, doesn’t that mean they love each other?”

No. No it doesn’t.

Too often children are used as bandaids in failing marriages, as though they are a cure-all for relationship problems. Or an unplanned pregnancy/failed birth control. Or sex while drunk. Or…

Hell, not even staying in the marriage is a guarantee that they love each other!

Miserable people stay married all the time. Or fear of being single. Or— take your pick.

There’s that answer.

Now for the other one. The big one.

I have a masterlist of posts answering and explaining a LOT as to why I dislike Danneel.

She’s unworthy of respect. As an actress, she’s awful. No talent. None. She always plays bitchy slut.

As a person… she’s verbally attacked fans way back in 2009/2010 before and after she married Jensen. Arguments galore on Twitter. (All scrubbed now.) Most of the time? For no reason!

She’s insulted people all the time. Fat shamed them. Claimed mental illness isn’t real by saying you just need to get out of your head and you’ll be fine. (No, that’s not how it works.) Insulted someone for speaking in Spanish even though it had nothing to do with her.

She’s gotten in fan faces about how Jensen was “hers” and stuff like “He’s mine, bitches!” Made up stories about being threatened and harassed, etc, forcing Clif to make a ridiculous post on Instagram.

She’s fat shamed Jensen multiple times and shortly after he got scary skinny. (Thankfully he’s doing better now!)

She’s always, ALWAYS putting him down. I can’t recall a time when she was actually NICE about him. Claimed to be the better actress and called Jared out in it once. (Ridiculous.)

She forced her way onto Supernatural, pretended to befriend Misha to get the Destiel fans on her side despite Jensen loathing that ship. All to harass Jensen.

After the Rust shooting incident, refused—REFUSED—to go to him and support him. Even told him to never talk to her about it.

She is not supportive of him. She does not love him. Just his money.

I don’t support abusers. She’s one of them. She’s a user. I don’t support them either.

I hope this helps explain.

[lionews]

"wtf is in the water this month. why are so many lionews users this month afflicted with pure bitchy salt. i know this is a salt blog obviously but something this month in specific has made you people genuine dicks more than usual" please go whine about this somewhere else, why are so many of you acting like bitching isn't what we're supposed to do on this blog!! I'll happily be a dick cause it's getting obnoxious. Get off the salt blog if you don't want salt, jfc

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[faiseuse-d-histoires]

https://www.tumblr.com/antipolin/754838161343037440/idk-why-so-many-people-are-saying-that-penelope?source=share

So Pen deserve DEATH??!!! For fucking gossip??? For the truth about awful people ( except eloise, she is not awful). Are you really liking this post??? And then you try to seem such a girls girl ??? Hahahaha pleasee!! You are liking a post from a bad person who harrass real people and wish death for a fat white girl only because she is fat. Is this real?? I know Pen doesnt exist but this show how she and you. And 9 more people at least would react to real people just pointing out hiw bitchy you are ( marina) and dont tell how you all must treat fat womab in real life. I dont want to jump into you in the streets. Please tell me, do you shot out at fat girls in the street to go to hell??? Im curious

Of course you won't answer this cuz you are a coward and you wish death to a fat girl

Sweetie, why do you have to stalk a blog for weeks like that, when it's clear you don't like what you see? Why look through an anti's post's comment section? Through the likes of a person you seem to dislike?

Anti Polin does not harass real people. Does not judge people on their bodies. I do not. That would be you, dear.

It's useless to explain patiently to you why one does not like a character's actions and show treatment, you are so focused on the body, full of hatred and self-pity that you can't see any nuances. You don't even like plus size persons, from the messages you sent me. You limit them to their bodies, you make all kinds of remarks about their appearances (and frankly disgusting ones).

That's indeed a spirale, but that's your work to do, to get out of it.

There's a healthy end to that: block. I would do that for your sake, but I don't know who you are. Care to enlighten me? (Or if you could just follow that advice, that'd be even better. I would think: yes! They did it themselves, on their own! They grew up! They began their way to healing! They have a life! You go anon!)

But at this moment? Nah, you don't.

How disappointing. How lacking in character development.

I see you're not one to bear silence. You want a fight. But this fight, you will never win. Not only because you are fighting the wrong persons, but you are fighting with blinkers full on.

Are you Don Quixote? No? Another disappointment.

Know that harassing people anonymously about them not liking a character won't make these people like you, or your fave. It doesn't make you right. Far from it.

I came from wanting Penelope to have a realistic ending, where she at least has to face the consequences, face the people she hurt and try to make it right, to simply not standing her show counterpart because of fans like you that want to impose their views and are all insults, but without any true engagement behind it.

No Show Penelope? No problem. That's be sometimes 4 asks by day less by the same no life anon for me to delete.

The problem is not me, darling. I like what i like, answer what i answer, but don't impose it on you. You impose it on yourself. You do you, focusing on the body, victimizing yourself when you are the bully in the situation.

If there is a true fatphobic and nasty coward here, I would say you quite gave all the proofs to everyone who saw and received your hateful words.

You need to stop hurting yourself that way, dear hate anon. Right here, I can hear any person that could have bullied you laughing, because while you are hiding behind anonymity to stalk and harass people who don't even know you, they are thriving. You became the bully, alongside them.

Your loss, their win.

Now a good twist would be: you block and decide that harassment will get you nowhere, and you win.

Signed: one of the nasty bitches you visibly can't seem to get enough of.

[ask-freaky-jimmy]

heyyy moddy woddy yew dewing good?

{hoe ima be for real, not really. I mean it's been more mixed than bad, but it hasn't been easy. if i had a quarter for all the "im sorry you're dealing with that"s my therapist has given me, i'd have an odd amount of gumballs I paid for right now. lol- this is gonna be a long post so after a lack of writing from me, get ready to read.}

{I still am in love with mouthwashing, im not pulling a bichianti (*distant heavy sobbing*) I did not stop loving this blog I simply had other irl shit to do, like planning my next birthday party. those are important to me!! ;-; and starting my own business, selling kandi :3}

{the worst thing that happened a little while ago that made me step back unwillingly from this lovely blog, was the loss of a new roleplay friend i made thru this blog. smth happened on their end and for their safety they had to delete all social media bc of the irl ppl around them where they are. I loved them very much, I still do, and the hit of not being able to wake up to them hurt a lot.}

{as well as my writing taking a slow down for other creative expressions, like kandi and painting and drawing. i do lots of things. also my consumption of other media- like tv shows!! i've been catching up on more tv as of late cuz i enjoy watching things :3 House MD, South Park, and very importantly; Supernatural. that takes up time when you're paying attention, not multitasking watching and writing.}

{but after all that, I would like to apologize to all the lovely people who have given me asks on both this blog and my freaky-curly blog, you all are wonderful and i love you super duper much for engaging with something I created. I'm sorry for seemingly leaving, and I also need to apologize to the people who I've roleplayed with publicly for not responding to our roleplays in a timely fashion. that's on me, and I'm sorry. I have been genuinely really tired with how reality is kicking my ass-}

{-I won't say too much, for privacy, and bc I'm still nerve wrecked every time I come back to this blog.. bc I have had to deal with a harasser stalking me accusing me of horrible things and even harassing some of the other kind people I interact with on here. It's been awhile since I've seen them in my ask box but it has brought me boiling anxiety when opening my tumblr tab. I'd say it belongs on my trauma list at this point.- additionally, my relationships with my family members. idk how many ppl relate, but my mom? the only parent I've ever had? is a real bitch.}

{and that's one thing if she was just bitchy to me in general before and during this point in my own life, however, it is another thing to look back and realize how much emotionally was taken from me in the very little childhood I had. and trying to come to terms with that is not fucking easy. I have a lot of my own life these days thankfully, I have a lot of friends and people who care about me and I love having friends I can say 'I love you' to. I suppose at some point it'll mean less, and I'll have everything processed, I just need to get thru the work it takes to get there. that doesn't mean it isn't effecting me harshly this year, and is clearly affecting my joys in life!-}

{-specifically bc it's brought me away from this blog!! I love this blog, it's brought me so many wonderful memories and experiences, I used to check my blog every day for hours, writing and writing, kicking my paws in the air. the biggest smile on my face in weeks. now? I'm busy trying to rest after a long day, and resting isn't writing. not right now it isn't. I wish it was still, im clearly good at rambling in text, I've been going on with this for this long-! but still, the people who have come to discover me and enjoy the silly content I post on here, you all deserve an answer. and well, I always love questions. thank you ting, thank you ben, thank you leo, thank you anons, and thank you fellow mouthwashing rp blogs. for ben and leo, I miss you guys so fucking much, please reply to me. you have my discord. for the one i lost, i love you and i hope you are safe where you're stuck at, i seriously miss you. for any fans i might have, i am grateful, and by design this sounds para-social, but i do appreciate you all in some form of loving your support. thank you all, i love you.}

[zeninsama-moved-again]

Can you please tell me about your self hip with Naoya and what you love about him? I am ready to see the vision

ohh violet... okay so this more the context of how i started liking naoya and self-shipping with him to begin with hjfdsk but hopefully it gets the job done. tried my best to keep this spoiler-free but i am discussing naoya's character so be wary of that if you haven't read jjk.

long as fuck so no pressure to read it hgjdfks <3 tldr; he's pretty and bitchy and took up mental real estate for a long time

wow where do i even begin... so naoya has been a favorite character of mine since around 2022, so going on three years now... i've always liked him tbh, like i enjoy a good villain and something about naoya being so sniveling and condescending really appealed to me, not to mention he's hot in a vaguely emo way that is absolutely my type. looove his little ear piercings and eyeliner. back then, liking naoya wasn't as popular as it is now and probably will be once he's animated.

(i remember when i first started posting on ye olde zeninsama blog that i liked naoya, my inbox was flooded with people being like "b-but he's a misogynist!" hgjdfks like yeah bitch we read the same series!)

so my feelings towards him went from an initial liking of his character + what he added to the story (especially to maki's development) to more profound feelings around the time menthol came out, believe it or not. back then, cass and i were still cooking up ideas for the prequel and we wanted to give reader an ex-boyfriend that was sniveling and evil and wouldn't make people sad if aki punched them in the face because naoya absolutely had it coming...

this lead to me cooking up an entire backstory for menthol au naoya. it was really important to me that i didn't erase how he is in jjk, i wanted to take his character exactly as he is and simply drop him into a new environments this lead to my first naoya playlist, my first characterizations of him, etc. i spent so long rotating this fucking guy in my head that it made me soo fond towards him.

the second thing that really made me attached to naoya happened a handful of months later, an anon on ye olde zeninsama blog recommended a fic to me called "fever daydreams" on ao3. it's actually mostly a gojo x reader fic but reader was formerly naoya's wife, so it focused a lot on their relationship as well. i already had so much love for him at this point but this characterization of him absolutely floored me, like having my own headcanons about this man validated and hearing new ones that really softened him while still staying true and accurate to his canon self... when i finished that fic, i had to shut myself in my bathroom and sob and dry heave for like half an hour hgjkfds it moved me so much... that was actually the fic that made me a gojo fucker too but that's a different conversation.

compared to other jjk characters, naoya is not very intimidating, or even strong for that matter. he's just fast and loud and a bitch and misses toji every single day of his life. self-shipping with him was also incredibly easy for me because i don't have an urge to defeat him or demand his respect gjkdfs i am an incredibly docile and domestic person at my core <3

OKAY I CANNOT AVOID SPOILERS ANYMORE SO IF YOU REALLY CARE AND WANT TO AVOID IT STOP READING <3

naoya is just incredibly special to me... like he is such a widely-hated character both within the jjk fandom (the western jjk fandom, jpn loves him) and within the jjk universe, the thought of being the only person that grieves him when he dies is what moves me. knowing you had an entire life together with a side of naoya that was reserved only for you, that dies with you because nobody else could understand it.

also i adore the amount of female symbolism that's actually associated with him. for starters, his domain is a womb, and the results on which deity his hand sign represents are conflicting but one is a female deity and the other has the ability to "transform a girl inside the womb into a boy" so whatever one you take, come on hgjdfgk. not to mention his manga cover is him crushing a pomegranate over his head and pomegranates represent fertility. this is crucial to how i view naoya tbh.

[saintmeghanmarkle]

Stand-up for your YouTubers... by u/number1crsh

Stand-up for your YouTubers... HG put out a very interesting video this morning. In the nearly 25 minute video he talks about the AFP and the "no, no, that totally wasn't a criticism of Meghan (probably said sarcastically but taken literally)" AND THEN around the 13:55 minute mark (in case you want to watch the video but skip some of the AFP's blah blah blah about it all) he goes on to say that things were twisted by an account on X...drumroll please (for anyone that hasn't seen/doesn't know what is coming)...NancySidleySussex!Yep, the last 10 minutes or so of the video goes over the fact that Misan Harriman has targeted the Sidley twins recently and NOW the AFP is starting to drag them as the ones that started this "misinformation" about Meghan.It's time to stand by our YouTubers. This has been happening from the start; she HATES us talking about her, she REALLY hates the YouTubers that have the nerve to call her out ONLINE, "IN-PERSON"!! How dare any of us talk about her and HOW DARE those people SHOW THEIR FACES while they do it! What Meghan wants, Meghan gets, right? Well, the Queen didn't think so and we as criticisers don't think so either. We need to do what we can to rally around our channels that are undeserving of the "bullying claims" they get, like, subscribe, comment, share, rewatch---I don't know and who knows, maybe we can't do much but honestly, I'm not interested in letting this bitch and her bitchy ass husband take my voice and as I don't have a YouTube channel, I feel like these guys (SidleyTwins, HG Tudor, According to Taz, Murky Meg, Real Housewives Recap, Meghan's Mole, The Royal Grift, ect) are my voice when it comes to this topic.#MeghanwonttakemyvoiceHere is HG's video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MA9dXxB1io4 post link: https://ift.tt/VZOw106 author: number1crsh submitted: May 31, 2024 at 07:13PM via SaintMeghanMarkle on Reddit disclaimer: all views + opinions expressed by the author of this post, as well as any comments and reblogs, are solely the author's own; they do not necessarily reflect the views of the administrator of this Tumblr blog. For entertainment only.

[princelylove]

Kind regards, Your Highness

I want to start by saying that I'm new to your blog, and I was truly amazed by your writing and interpretations (although English is not really my native language, I hope you can understand my message).

I'm not lying when I say that I've read your entire blog; I truly believe you are the best at everything. I first came across your work through your interpretations of Abbacchio, and I really like them. I could read your posts a thousand times and never get bored.

I wish you a very happy 2025! ❤

First post of the new year and it's praise, how cute. I love being adored and worshipped for my talents. Keep at it.

I wish people wouldn't worry over their english in my inbox, it's entirely fine to have a few grammatical errors in front of me, and I don't see any from you, anyway. Don't fret. I'm always so curious when people say that english isn't their native language, what is your native language? Drop a little lore, come on.

Ohhh, Leone. Mr. Abbacchio. Abba. Baba. Nene. Old man. I feel as if Leone is my specialty. He comes very naturally to me, I don't need to think much when I write for him. I get urges to put him in a blender sometimes. What? What.

It's kind of ironic, as I don't think we're similar. Maybe just in the amount of cleavage we show and general bitchiness. And the excessive nail length. And the cptsd. That's it though, probably.

I find him to be fascinating because of how complex he is, and how differently things can go depending on what stage the relationship is in and how his mood is. Leone's reactions to things greatly vary depending on his mood, his general state of mind, his relationship to the person, other things I cannot think of at the moment- and you're probably thinking that this goes for every character and person ever, but for Leone, it varies significantly more. I have a bit of a soft spot for personality disorders, so I'm probably very very biased, but it's just more fun to write him with the complexity that I genuinely think he has.

I love psych. A ton. It seeps into my writing a lot- I like to think of the characters as actual people, it's more fun that way, and I hope I'm doing them justice. I started this blog with a deep resentment for those that bend their favorite character's personality to fit their own fetishes instead of putting in the effort to explore what works for the character, I think Leone is a fantastic example of how my writing works. Generally people tend to see Leone as dominant and a bit sadistic, but in canon, he's like a guard dog that Bucciarati will often scold to keep in line. He gets excluded by the others, he has difficulty socializing and sometimes will blow up at something- but, in a few days, it's entirely fine and he won't bat a very long eyelash at it. He gets along with Guido, so obviously, there's more to him than just mean man that's a bitch to new, strange people. Leone is begging to be wanted, to be needed, so much so that it's destroying him and feeding into his already bad habits.

I enjoy giving Leone the love he deserves to have, by writing him how he actually is. It's probably why I write him so well. He's just so cute. Only when he's scowling, though.

[protagonists-catastrophe]

>HA! You're too much of a bitch for me to have expected anything in the first place!

>[aaaand now it's being bitchy again]

>Ill be back, you're not lucky enough to be able to get rid of me!

>[it seems to enjoy bothering people]

-💜

(Ooc: I'm debating on making a blog specifically for this thing should I do that)

Rexer doesn't oblige in the other's nonsense. It was just loud, stupid, obnoxious noise. A glance is not even thrown their way as he's back to file work duty.

[a-moment-captured]

Let’s get a few things straight:

If your intent is to bully people and shame them then leave. No one wants to deal with that kind of energy on a daily basis and it’s become reoccurring the last 3 months.

Jack Harlow is a grown ass man and doesn’t owe any of his fans anything. Why? Because you chose to be a fan.

There are always going to be moments where someone does something or gets something from a celeb that you don’t. That’s life. I advise you to get the fuck over it now because it won’t change the older you get.

This is why we can’t keep nice things. There are those who get all bitchy and in their feelings because they think they are ENTITLED to get whatever they want from Jack or whoever.

Since Elvis there have been favorites. Always has been and always will be.

Being so jealous and rude to others on here because they got to go to a private party is beyond ridiculous and fucking stupid. Grow the fuck up!

Instead of being happy for the content, you bitch about it because you weren’t there. So was 98% of the fan base but do you see them complaining? No!

Jack is always gonna have his favorites. Hate to break it to you, all artist do! The fact that he genuinely cares enough to do stuff like the texting, sending flowers, or the private event shows he does care about his fans. He didn’t have to do it at all.

It was uncalled for any blog to post anon after anon that complained, bullied, and shamed anyone that got to go and then disguise it as “having an opinion.”

STOP BRINGING STAN BEHAVIOR IN A PEACEFUL TAG! I hate that kind of shit and so do most fans. It’s ridiculous! Jack doesn’t owe me, you, or any one else a fucking thing!

The entitlement as of late is insane as well as the prying to get more info. If you wanna gossip about who this man is with then take your ass on over to Lipstick Alley. It’s also non of your business but…

Act like an adult. Act like you have some respect. Act like you got a damn brain in your head.

And with that, have a blessed day! 😘