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Why are you such a bitch to Liam? Yuki says he wants Perez place too, and you just attack Liam for saying he deserves it more
Well, for starters, I don't think I've been a bitch to Lawson? I barely talk about him in my blog and I've never said anything extremely rude! Although it might come out as bitchy because I've been told I'm a sarcastic bitch, so...
But, if I'm going to take this ask seriously, here's the deal: Yuki has said he is ready for the RBR seat and never once has said something mean about Checo. He has never disrespected Checo (except on radio, but those are high adrenaline moments, like when Checo called his husband an idiot too), and also Yuki seems to actually care about Checo.
Lawson's attitude feels rude to me, and I'm not obligated to like him, but I haven't attacked him, it's not like I'm posting things about him, I just deleted him from the Chestappen family tree in my head and speak in general about conspiracy theories with my homies.
Also, I don't think Lawson or Lawson's fans care at all about my blog, since they don't like Checo, so we don't mesh. Finally, not sure the point of the ask, but my bitchy blog and myself are pretty happy, so... we seem to have reached an impasse.
#anon questions#from now on I'll have soraya montenegro's gif for this#bitchy blog has to bitch people
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AITA for bitching about fics I dislike on my blog?
as a foreword, this is kind of a non-issue and no one's ever told me to stop, but I'm curious what other people think of fandom etiquette.
the fandom: a fairly small one. 2.4k fics on ao3 small. I recognize most people posting in its tumblr tag small. if I tell you the name of the source you'd almost definitely be able to find me small.
the source: pornographic, which means everyone involved is or should be an adult. it's BL with a switch MC, but the fandom overwhelmingly prefers bottom MC/top LIs (love interests), to the point where I've had people be astonishingly rude to me because my favorite character is a bottom LI and some of my friends have been outright harassed for the same. I used to not care about sex positions in the slightest, but now when I see bottom MC fanworks I can't help but remember how poorly I was treated.
the fics: wildly and inexplicably popular, even though they are, frankly, poorly written. it's eternal bottom MC turned up to 11, complete with copious amounts of OOCness in order to turn every ship into the worst ye olde yaoi gender roles dynamic you can imagine. it's things like MC, canonically a 23yo plank of a dudeguy, being written as a big titted milf in his 40s (which is made more confusing by the fact that one of the LIs is already a big titted milf). it's also things like the MC being written as disliking sex and having to be coerced into it when one of the most charming things about him is that he's a hilarious sex pest, or writing the LIs sexually harassing the MC when they really would never do that. I've likened it to replacing the characters with OCs that share the same name and my friends have agreed with me. I'm honestly convinced that the author and his readers don't actually like any of the characters if they feel the need to change everyone so thoroughly.
why I might be an asshole: it's assholish to hate on free fanworks, and I've bitched about these fics on my public tumblr blog. the fandom is small enough that there's a non-zero chance of it getting back to the author and a reasonable chance that fans of the fics have seen my bitching. I'm probably projecting the hostility I've received onto someone who's done absolutely nothing to me, and I am absolutely just straight up jealous that their fics get better stats than mine. I may also be being an asshole to myself, because being critical of other people's fics has made my hypercritical of my own.
why I don't think I'm an asshole: I think everyone has the right to be bad at things, but I also think everyone has the right to be a little hater. I don't put the fandom tag on these posts; they stay on my blog and my blog alone, and if later on I feel like I was unfairly vitriolic I'll delete the posts. I only post on tumblr because I'm certain the author in question only uses twitter, which dramatically lowers the odds of him stumbling across my posts. the fics are so popular that it's definitely possible that their fans would see my posts, but I think it's unlikely that they'd bother looking at my blog because 99% of my posts are about one of the bottom LIs. I have never and would never leave comments on the fics themselves, and I generally try to keep the bitchy posts to a minimum; it's far from a constant thing.
tl;dr - I publicly bitch about fics that (in my opinion) are poorly written and extremely OOC, under the assumption that it's unlikely the author would ever see it. AITA?
What are these acronyms?
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First off, fuck you
second off, what the hell do you want?
third off, no touching. touch me and you fucking die. I’m not joking.
Name: Elektra Agêtôr and if you call me my last name I will murder you.
Age: Just turned 18
Pronouns: She/her, xey/xem
Birthday: December 17
Sexuality: Queer
Godly Parent: Lord of ass, bitch of the sky. None other than the bitch-ass Zeus himself.
Time Spent At Camp: I arrived close to my 15th birthday. So about three years
Weapons: Celestial bronze dagger with a one foot blade. Old and shitty celestial bronze bullet handgun. Look, if Annabeth offered Piper McLean one, I can have one too.
Backstory: Fuck off
Untouchable? Why?: My stupid ass bitch of a sperm donor decided to give me a necklace that will electrocute to death everyone I touch or everyone who touches me. I can only take it off during thunderstorms, and afterwards I have to put it back on or I suffer heightened electrical activity in my neurons until I get the necklace back on (it used to cause me seizures as a kid, but it doesn’t anymore).
Mortal humans and demigods cannot touch me when I’m wearing the necklace without dying or becoming severely and permanently injured. Gods and goddesses can touch me but it feels like touching a hot stove (or so I’ve heard). Animals can touch me sometimes, I don’t know if there’s a pattern to it or not or if Zeus just feels like being particularly dickish to animals sometimes.
So there’s your overview. You happy now? Good, now leave me the fuck alone, bitch.
Description: Biologically female. 5’11” but often wears boots to be taller. Pale skin. Slender body. Almost black eyes, but has tiny little lightning streaks in irises that increase in brightness during strong feelings. Naturally long wavy jet black hair, but hairstyle is currently in long dreadlocks. Many scars along arms, and one Lichtenberg Figure on her right shoulder, but wears long sleeves to cover them up. Immersed in goth culture with clothes and makeup following suit.
Powers:
(not that she ever uses them)
Zeus’s Authority: The most common power of hers to see, even though seeing any of her powers is a rarity. This is a commanding force that requires those around to listen and obey Elektra’s words. Elektra is a naturally very intimidating person, but this increases her scare factor by about ten fold. When using this power, Elektra’s speech will appear like this. (bolded and italic)
Lightning Summoning: A power Elektra has used very few times in her life, and certainly no one at camp has ever seen her use. No one there even knows she has it. The ability to summon strikes of lightning anywhere at will, or summon a bolt to her hand to use as a weapon.
Electricity Manipulation: Another power of xeirs that has been used only in times of great need, and never before at camp. Examples of this power would be being able to take electricity out of power lines or technology devices, and in extreme cases the manipulation of the electromagnetic fields in the body.
Wind Manipulation: A slightly more common power, but not often noticed or talked about. This grants the power of controlling the direction of the wind, and how fast or slow it goes. Elektra can also use the wind to lift her up of her feet, but has never really done so.
Electricity Creation: A power not even Elektra knows xey have, and therefore has never used it. Elektra can use the electricity within her own body to give off sparks and zaps of energy.
Taglist:
@this-lovely-universe @penelope-is-waiting @nobilis-of-norway @sophia-hunter-of-artemis @surprisingly-bitchy-up-here @lightning-prince-of-gods
Interact with Elektra to join her taglist —but beware, Elektra is not a fan of people.
hiya! I am @daonedaonlysk , formerly @daonedaonlyskh , and this blog used to be @vicious-daughter-of-zeus . My reason for saying that is my old account got yeeted into the void by tumblr. fun times
I don’t remember when the heart-shaped barbed wires dividers came from, or the picrew used to create the profile picture. I sincerely apologize, and if anyone knows who or where they came from please lmk so I can give proper credit!
the dotted black line dividers were created by @/animatedglittergraphics-n-more
the banner and the little three picture mood board were created by me on canva
in character tag: the cursed daughter of zeus ⚡️
ooc tag: mod speaks
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When I go on about how the phrase "reading comprehension" has damaged the way we argue on here I seriously mean it. Like I've run into situations where I could have used the phrase and everytime it is weaker and less rhetorically impactful to what I would do instead. The alternative is so much better but no one really wants to do it because it's basically the rhetorical equivalent of showing your work on a math problem.
Because when you write a misreading off as "bad reading comprehension" you miss up the golden opportunity to really pick apart that thought process. "Reading Comprehension" makes fun of someone for "not understanding the words I've written" which can be a legitimate criticism but when you default to it what your saying is "I shouldn't have to put the effort into defending/explaining my words because your too dumb to understand"
The greatest example I've personally run into was in an argument a couple months back I had on here. It was with some TransUnity boy starting shit in the transmisogyny tag by insulting the maturity people who get into arguments about intra-community issues ie: "infighting". (Which as we all know telling a large portion of your community that they're a bunch of whiny separatist babies for having problems in the first place definitely isn't infighting at all.) With a healthy sprinkle of "pays token mention to the idea of a transmisogynistic transmasc purely for the optics of being perceived as on both sides but when discussing examples of "infighting" only provides strawman versions of transfeminist talking points. And needless to say
Well in this argument he decides to pull the old classic of pulling up my bio to see if there's anything he can use to make a quick jab at me personally without engaging with anything I'm saying. Now in my bio there's the line "Crazy hysterical bitch making mountains out of mole hills in your discourse".
This line is to anyone following me in clear reference to the countless times where someone losing in an argument to me will invoke the image of the "hysterical feminist" as they proceed to disengage from anything I'm saying and dismiss me as being over obsessive for attempting to challenge them on their transmisogyny in the first place. I have quite literally unironically called hysterical on more than one occasion on this site. It's a sorta beating them to the punch style line to highlight their unoriginality.
And this slimy little weasel references the line and goes on to say he agrees with it. Notice the way I said he did that? He WANTED to just say all those insults at me outright but knew that they were highly ableist and this would be bad optics. So he dances around the words themselves but still states that he agreed with the sentiment that I am a hysterical bitch making a mountain out of a molehill in his discourse.
And when I press him on this he reveals he thought that I had put it up there as a brag. That this was an aspect of my personality that I was personally proud to display on my blog. He essentially thought of me as one of those people who love conflict and view "being an insufferable person to be around" as a positive personality trait.
Now this is the point where it would be SO easy to just pull out the old "READIN COMPREHENSHUN" but that would be like using the loaded gun this chud has handed me and firing a warning shot before sending him on his way. No I fully went into this thought process and how it highlighted his misogynistic biases of viewing transfeminists as a clique of Highschool MeanGirls who sow discord because they're naturally unlikable bitchy people.
His response? Blocked. Post DELETED. 0 note vaugeposting about how he HAD to delete his "no discourse" post because "assholes brought discourse to it". Like people go on about how "arguing is pointless because there's no way you can "win" an argument" severely underestimate how bad someone can be at arguing.
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How do you keep yourself from feeling down about your haters/anti your ships?
There’s these (literally) 5 girls who think they’re the queens of my current small fandom and their hate is starting to get to me even though I try to let it roll off my back.
How do you do it, Phoenix?🥺 How do you keep the Plastics from ruining your fandoms and ships?
Oh goodness, Sass, I'm so sorry. I've been in my fair share of fandom dramas (the worst being last summer) and it's never an easy thing to deal with.
I want to gently correct you, though. The hate DOES get to me. Last summer, there were anons in my inbox telling me I deserved to be sexually assaulted as a child because I support dark fic writers. There were anons calling me a pedophile. There is a 600 note reblog going around the Stranger Things fandom claiming I was a pedophile. I was suicidal at that point, because it was triggering as hell.
But at the same time, I refused to give up MY tumblr space because of bullies. This is my blog. I've had it since 2011, it has been a space of freeverse, of gossip, of art, and of joy. I will not change that for the satisfaction of a few teenagers who think TikTok is activism.
I got through it a few ways.
Turn off anons. I am a stubborn bitch and I only turned my anon off once during that period, right after someone told me I deserved being assaulted at seven years old. I turned it off for one night then turned it right back on, because I hated limiting access to my lovely anons because of bullies--same reason I haven't privatized my AO3 account, even though AI very likely will steal my work. I hate the thought of some anon who reads my fics for comfort being denied access to them. But that's my thing. Turning off anon is the best way to shut off their power to hurt you. If you don't want to turn off anon, delete their messages. I am CHOOSY about which anons I answer. They are reaching out to me, on MY blog, it's my decision whether I deign to answer them or not. If I'm in the right mood for it, I might be trolly and snarky. If they're sweet, I love to hear from them. But I delete just as many as I answer.
Get off the internet. The internet is my space where I can zone out and do whatever I want. Sometimes that means watching a carefully curated selection of TV shows while writing fanfic. Sometimes it means doing TV show meta. Sometimes it's just goofing off. But the internet is chocolate, it's a lovely sweet treat. But if you have nothing but chocolate, you will get sick. Take walks. Go outside. Forget online drama (it's never that serious), enjoy your offline friends, snuggle your furry friends, go out for a cup of coffee and read a book.
Curate your experience. If you see someone with an absolutely RANCID take--like how Eddie wasn't flirting outrageously with Chrissy (sure jan) or Neal was a rapist, whatever. Don't engage, don't comment, don't reblog. BLOCK THOSE BITCHES. Block the people who make you feel weird. Block someone who used to be in your fandom but has moved onto reblogging something that annoys you. Block, block, block. Or use tumblr savior assiduously. When it was really bad in Hellcheer land, I watched Smallville and blogged about it until I felt ready to play in Hellcheer again.
At the end of last summer, the hate started dying off for a couple of reasons.
One, school was starting (yes, I do believe the majority of these bitchy anons are bored children, they ALWAYS have an uptick during school breaks).
Two, I got a book deal. I was too thrilled with my success and though they tried to threaten me, it didn't have much of a sting. My publisher and agent don't give a shit about the latest fandom drama. My editor LOVES horror and darklit.
Three, I fell in love. I have an incredibly wonderful partner who is a writer too (for television! I used to write fanfic for a show he worked on! :D). Autumn was an incredibly wonderful season of joy for me (minus my then-work troubles) which bled into a romantic winter, a challenging spring, and now it's becoming a lovely summer.
I had a bunch of lovely things happen to me that made me realize that the internet is actually quite small. It doesn't matter if STEDDIELOVER69 hates me or believes I'm a pedophile. What matters is that there are plenty of other folks who love reading my work, who like hearing my thoughts, who enjoy my VQ gossip, and those are the people I want to engage with.
Those folks don't know you and the joy you experience every day. Keep that joy close to your heart, as closely as they keep their own bitterness and cruelty.
You'll be all right, love. I promise it gets better.
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Hi I have been reading your asks on your blog and I am very interested to know why people hate Jensen's wife? She has kids with him...that isn't love?
No hate to you or anyone just asking a question about this whole thing.
Hello!
Welcome to my blog!
So… that’s the loaded question, isn’t it?
Why do I and other antis dislike Danneel?
First, let me address the whole “they have kids, doesn’t that mean they love each other?”
No. No it doesn’t.
Too often children are used as bandaids in failing marriages, as though they are a cure-all for relationship problems. Or an unplanned pregnancy/failed birth control. Or sex while drunk. Or��
Hell, not even staying in the marriage is a guarantee that they love each other!
Miserable people stay married all the time. Or fear of being single. Or— take your pick.
There’s that answer.
Now for the other one. The big one.
I have a masterlist of posts answering and explaining a LOT as to why I dislike Danneel.
She’s unworthy of respect. As an actress, she’s awful. No talent. None. She always plays bitchy slut.
As a person… she’s verbally attacked fans way back in 2009/2010 before and after she married Jensen. Arguments galore on Twitter. (All scrubbed now.) Most of the time? For no reason!
She’s insulted people all the time. Fat shamed them. Claimed mental illness isn’t real by saying you just need to get out of your head and you’ll be fine. (No, that’s not how it works.) Insulted someone for speaking in Spanish even though it had nothing to do with her.
She’s gotten in fan faces about how Jensen was “hers” and stuff like “He’s mine, bitches!” Made up stories about being threatened and harassed, etc, forcing Clif to make a ridiculous post on Instagram.
She’s fat shamed Jensen multiple times and shortly after he got scary skinny. (Thankfully he’s doing better now!)
She’s always, ALWAYS putting him down. I can’t recall a time when she was actually NICE about him. Claimed to be the better actress and called Jared out in it once. (Ridiculous.)
She forced her way onto Supernatural, pretended to befriend Misha to get the Destiel fans on her side despite Jensen loathing that ship. All to harass Jensen.
After the Rust shooting incident, refused—REFUSED—to go to him and support him. Even told him to never talk to her about it.
She is not supportive of him. She does not love him. Just his money.
I don’t support abusers. She’s one of them. She’s a user. I don’t support them either.
I hope this helps explain.
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https://www.tumblr.com/antipolin/754838161343037440/idk-why-so-many-people-are-saying-that-penelope?source=share
So Pen deserve DEATH??!!! For fucking gossip??? For the truth about awful people ( except eloise, she is not awful). Are you really liking this post??? And then you try to seem such a girls girl ??? Hahahaha pleasee!! You are liking a post from a bad person who harrass real people and wish death for a fat white girl only because she is fat. Is this real?? I know Pen doesnt exist but this show how she and you. And 9 more people at least would react to real people just pointing out hiw bitchy you are ( marina) and dont tell how you all must treat fat womab in real life. I dont want to jump into you in the streets. Please tell me, do you shot out at fat girls in the street to go to hell??? Im curious
Of course you won't answer this cuz you are a coward and you wish death to a fat girl
Sweetie, why do you have to stalk a blog for weeks like that, when it's clear you don't like what you see? Why look through an anti's post's comment section? Through the likes of a person you seem to dislike?
Anti Polin does not harass real people. Does not judge people on their bodies. I do not. That would be you, dear.
It's useless to explain patiently to you why one does not like a character's actions and show treatment, you are so focused on the body, full of hatred and self-pity that you can't see any nuances. You don't even like plus size persons, from the messages you sent me. You limit them to their bodies, you make all kinds of remarks about their appearances (and frankly disgusting ones).
That's indeed a spirale, but that's your work to do, to get out of it.
There's a healthy end to that: block. I would do that for your sake, but I don't know who you are. Care to enlighten me? (Or if you could just follow that advice, that'd be even better. I would think: yes! They did it themselves, on their own! They grew up! They began their way to healing! They have a life! You go anon!)
But at this moment? Nah, you don't.
How disappointing. How lacking in character development.
I see you're not one to bear silence. You want a fight. But this fight, you will never win. Not only because you are fighting the wrong persons, but you are fighting with blinkers full on.
Are you Don Quixote? No? Another disappointment.
Know that harassing people anonymously about them not liking a character won't make these people like you, or your fave. It doesn't make you right. Far from it.
I came from wanting Penelope to have a realistic ending, where she at least has to face the consequences, face the people she hurt and try to make it right, to simply not standing her show counterpart because of fans like you that want to impose their views and are all insults, but without any true engagement behind it.
No Show Penelope? No problem. That's be sometimes 4 asks by day less by the same no life anon for me to delete.
The problem is not me, darling. I like what i like, answer what i answer, but don't impose it on you. You impose it on yourself. You do you, focusing on the body, victimizing yourself when you are the bully in the situation.
If there is a true fatphobic and nasty coward here, I would say you quite gave all the proofs to everyone who saw and received your hateful words.
You need to stop hurting yourself that way, dear hate anon. Right here, I can hear any person that could have bullied you laughing, because while you are hiding behind anonymity to stalk and harass people who don't even know you, they are thriving. You became the bully, alongside them.
Your loss, their win.
Now a good twist would be: you block and decide that harassment will get you nowhere, and you win.
Signed: one of the nasty bitches you visibly can't seem to get enough of.
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Stand-up for your YouTubers... by u/number1crsh
Stand-up for your YouTubers... HG put out a very interesting video this morning. In the nearly 25 minute video he talks about the AFP and the "no, no, that totally wasn't a criticism of Meghan (probably said sarcastically but taken literally)" AND THEN around the 13:55 minute mark (in case you want to watch the video but skip some of the AFP's blah blah blah about it all) he goes on to say that things were twisted by an account on X...drumroll please (for anyone that hasn't seen/doesn't know what is coming)...NancySidleySussex!Yep, the last 10 minutes or so of the video goes over the fact that Misan Harriman has targeted the Sidley twins recently and NOW the AFP is starting to drag them as the ones that started this "misinformation" about Meghan.It's time to stand by our YouTubers. This has been happening from the start; she HATES us talking about her, she REALLY hates the YouTubers that have the nerve to call her out ONLINE, "IN-PERSON"!! How dare any of us talk about her and HOW DARE those people SHOW THEIR FACES while they do it! What Meghan wants, Meghan gets, right? Well, the Queen didn't think so and we as criticisers don't think so either. We need to do what we can to rally around our channels that are undeserving of the "bullying claims" they get, like, subscribe, comment, share, rewatch---I don't know and who knows, maybe we can't do much but honestly, I'm not interested in letting this bitch and her bitchy ass husband take my voice and as I don't have a YouTube channel, I feel like these guys (SidleyTwins, HG Tudor, According to Taz, Murky Meg, Real Housewives Recap, Meghan's Mole, The Royal Grift, ect) are my voice when it comes to this topic.#MeghanwonttakemyvoiceHere is HG's video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MA9dXxB1io4 post link: https://ift.tt/VZOw106 author: number1crsh submitted: May 31, 2024 at 07:13PM via SaintMeghanMarkle on Reddit disclaimer: all views + opinions expressed by the author of this post, as well as any comments and reblogs, are solely the author's own; they do not necessarily reflect the views of the administrator of this Tumblr blog. For entertainment only.
#SaintMeghanMarkle#harry and meghan#meghan markle#prince harry#fucking grifters#grifters gonna grift#Worldwide Privacy Tour#Instagram loving bitch wife#duchess of delinquency#walmart wallis#markled#archewell#archewell foundation#megxit#duke and duchess of sussex#duke of sussex#duchess of sussex#doria ragland#rent a royal#sentebale#clevr blends#lemonada media#archetypes with meghan#invictus#invictus games#Sussex#WAAAGH#american riviera orchard#number1crsh
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Kind regards, Your Highness
I want to start by saying that I'm new to your blog, and I was truly amazed by your writing and interpretations (although English is not really my native language, I hope you can understand my message).
I'm not lying when I say that I've read your entire blog; I truly believe you are the best at everything. I first came across your work through your interpretations of Abbacchio, and I really like them. I could read your posts a thousand times and never get bored.
I wish you a very happy 2025! ❤
First post of the new year and it's praise, how cute. I love being adored and worshipped for my talents. Keep at it.
I wish people wouldn't worry over their english in my inbox, it's entirely fine to have a few grammatical errors in front of me, and I don't see any from you, anyway. Don't fret. I'm always so curious when people say that english isn't their native language, what is your native language? Drop a little lore, come on.
Ohhh, Leone. Mr. Abbacchio. Abba. Baba. Nene. Old man. I feel as if Leone is my specialty. He comes very naturally to me, I don't need to think much when I write for him. I get urges to put him in a blender sometimes. What? What.
It's kind of ironic, as I don't think we're similar. Maybe just in the amount of cleavage we show and general bitchiness. And the excessive nail length. And the cptsd. That's it though, probably.
I find him to be fascinating because of how complex he is, and how differently things can go depending on what stage the relationship is in and how his mood is. Leone's reactions to things greatly vary depending on his mood, his general state of mind, his relationship to the person, other things I cannot think of at the moment- and you're probably thinking that this goes for every character and person ever, but for Leone, it varies significantly more. I have a bit of a soft spot for personality disorders, so I'm probably very very biased, but it's just more fun to write him with the complexity that I genuinely think he has.
I love psych. A ton. It seeps into my writing a lot- I like to think of the characters as actual people, it's more fun that way, and I hope I'm doing them justice. I started this blog with a deep resentment for those that bend their favorite character's personality to fit their own fetishes instead of putting in the effort to explore what works for the character, I think Leone is a fantastic example of how my writing works. Generally people tend to see Leone as dominant and a bit sadistic, but in canon, he's like a guard dog that Bucciarati will often scold to keep in line. He gets excluded by the others, he has difficulty socializing and sometimes will blow up at something- but, in a few days, it's entirely fine and he won't bat a very long eyelash at it. He gets along with Guido, so obviously, there's more to him than just mean man that's a bitch to new, strange people. Leone is begging to be wanted, to be needed, so much so that it's destroying him and feeding into his already bad habits.
I enjoy giving Leone the love he deserves to have, by writing him how he actually is. It's probably why I write him so well. He's just so cute. Only when he's scowling, though.
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>HA! You're too much of a bitch for me to have expected anything in the first place!
>[aaaand now it's being bitchy again]
>Ill be back, you're not lucky enough to be able to get rid of me!
>[it seems to enjoy bothering people]
-💜
(Ooc: I'm debating on making a blog specifically for this thing should I do that)
Rexer doesn't oblige in the other's nonsense. It was just loud, stupid, obnoxious noise. A glance is not even thrown their way as he's back to file work duty.
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Let’s get a few things straight:
If your intent is to bully people and shame them then leave. No one wants to deal with that kind of energy on a daily basis and it’s become reoccurring the last 3 months.
Jack Harlow is a grown ass man and doesn’t owe any of his fans anything. Why? Because you chose to be a fan.
There are always going to be moments where someone does something or gets something from a celeb that you don’t. That’s life. I advise you to get the fuck over it now because it won’t change the older you get.
This is why we can’t keep nice things. There are those who get all bitchy and in their feelings because they think they are ENTITLED to get whatever they want from Jack or whoever.
Since Elvis there have been favorites. Always has been and always will be.
Being so jealous and rude to others on here because they got to go to a private party is beyond ridiculous and fucking stupid. Grow the fuck up!
Instead of being happy for the content, you bitch about it because you weren’t there. So was 98% of the fan base but do you see them complaining? No!
Jack is always gonna have his favorites. Hate to break it to you, all artist do! The fact that he genuinely cares enough to do stuff like the texting, sending flowers, or the private event shows he does care about his fans. He didn’t have to do it at all.
It was uncalled for any blog to post anon after anon that complained, bullied, and shamed anyone that got to go and then disguise it as “having an opinion.”
STOP BRINGING STAN BEHAVIOR IN A PEACEFUL TAG! I hate that kind of shit and so do most fans. It’s ridiculous! Jack doesn’t owe me, you, or any one else a fucking thing!
The entitlement as of late is insane as well as the prying to get more info. If you wanna gossip about who this man is with then take your ass on over to Lipstick Alley. It’s also non of your business but…
Act like an adult. Act like you have some respect. Act like you got a damn brain in your head.
And with that, have a blessed day! 😘
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Hey, okay so I’ve rewatched Vanderpump rules by myself a couple times but I’m rewatching it with my mom and it’s kinda cool to see someone else’s perspective watching and their opinions without knowing what’s going to happen and that’s kinda how I feel with you right now LOL like I’m checking your blog ever day for VPR updates 🤭
Anyway, I like Ariana a lot now but I didn’t like her in the beginning. I’m not going to spoil anything but I will say that I don’t think Ariana personality type was made for reality tv unlike Stassi and I think that Ariana revels a lot about herself later on that might make certain things she done more understandable if that makes sense? I relate to Ariana in terms of being more introverted however I agree with you that she kind of let Sandoval go crazy to women and scream at them and just kind of turned a blind eye which is never okay but the blame for that behaviour should be more on Sandoval. I do think Ariana grows on more people as the series continues but your opinions on her in the earlier season are so valid and honestly, even if you never like her that’s okay too she not for everyone
I also am curious about your opinions on Lala?
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I knew from the get go that Ariana’s personality just isn’t made for reality tv like she’s literally just so blah. Which is why it’s annoying that she’s on my screen five seasons in and she will continue being there. And I’m not saying it’s her fault that she doesn’t contain her misogynistic boyfriend’s behaviour, my point is that she turned a blind eye to it which says A LOT about her. So i just don’t find it in me to sympathise with her. She just wants to be seen as the “cool, chill girlfriend” so she’s 1000% given him a pass for cheating with Miami Girl. So then why am I supposed to suddenly feel sorry for her when he cheats on her in the future with Raquel? Like I couldn’t give a single fuck lol.
Girls like Scheana and Ariana can never be trusted. Honestly I’d trust Lala over them two. So far, I think Lala really really admires Stassi and wants to be like her, but she just isn’t as clever or sharp. I think Lala in season 5 just wants to fit in and she lashes out and gets mean when she doesn’t fit in. As for the other two, I’ve seen girls like Scheana and Ariana in real life.
Scheana has such a deep rooted insecurity that she wants to be liked by everyone, so she does all that neutral bullshit. But you can tell she wants you to be best friends with the trio of Stassi, Katie and Kristen — she just doesn’t want the heat that comes with it. So she’d rather throw those three under the bus and watch them get crucified by everyone, and claim she’s neutral and “scared of them.” Which is such bullshit. Like in private she bitches with the trio about Lala and agrees with what they say, but when it’s time to answer to it, she lets the trio burn in flames all like “omg I was forced to agree with you” like shut the fuck up Scheana. And to think I felt sorry for her in the beginning of season 5, bc I genuinely thought the trio was being mean to her. But the trio are such fierce girl’s girls and it’s so clear the way Bravo edits stuff to make them out to be villains, you can’t even trust it. You could tell Scheana was getting the heroic edit and she just doesn’t deserve it. She’s fake and cannot hold down deep friendships with anyone, it’s all surface level friendships. And this stems from her own insecurity.
As for Ariana, I know her type too. She’s the type who thinks she’s better than all the other girls, and looks down on them for being “bitchy” and “emotional” but like… what she doesn’t realise is that when the going gets tough… all these men she claims are her besties will not be there for her. But the girls will. Instead of understanding the girls and not villainising them, Ariana very rudely just thinks she’s above them. And for someone who calls herself such a huge feminist, it’s sad to see her not only hating on strong, opinionated women on the show, but also turning a blind eye to her own misogynistic, sexist, woman-hating boyfriend. Who ends up cheating on her anyways about five years into the future lol. Ariana is a woman if she was written by a man — aka a woman who acts all “chill” and doesn’t call men out on their bullshit, isn’t “overly emotional” and always sides with the men’s opinions. That’s why she’s palatable to men and they want her around them. The loser men on this show just don’t want to be called out on their bullshit, which is why they gas up Ariana so much and try to discredit the trio so much.
And speaking of Sandoval, I hate him so much. He always sticks his nose where it doesn’t belong. I used to find him so cute in the early seasons but now it’s just painful and irritating to watch him go after Katie/Stassi/Kristen every single reunion. He has some deep-seated hatred for women that needs to be studied. Like genuinely he needs to be studied. He rides so hard for his boy Schwartz that all logic and reasoning goes out the window for him. I genuinely feel like he has some sort of feelings for Schwartz that he needs to navigate through. Also every time Sandoval cries it looks so fucking fake. Like I hate this man. I despise this man and nothing he could do is genuine. I feel like Ariana would blossom without him.
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i already sent this to another blog, but didn't really get advice so I'm trying here,
Me and my friend group used to be friends with this person, C, and C was really toxic: like they'd yell and scream at me for having interests (Like once I mentioned I enjoyed Taylor Swift music and got told to kill myself, and another time i was talking about how I enjoy loud events like concerts and they were like "I bet you like pep rallies" [<- me not clocking onto them like making fun of me] and i was like "omg! I do!" because i thought back to the pep rally I had the same day and my school brought in a fire dancer so really C's loss) and they would constantly guilt trip and manipulate us, and there was this one time where C and I got into an argument (For them being a bitch) and an hour later they went into our group's venting chat and was all like "I have these thoughts about killing people in this group chat" how am I meant tot take that?? Cause I took it as "oh shit, this online friend who knows my address and has seen my face wants to kill me." and i freaked out and deactivated my account and deleted the platform cause it just wasn't good for my mental health to be there. I ended up going back because I'm one of the older people in that group chat and I view most of them as my little siblings who I just want to make sure they're all safe and they were all worried for me. I went back and looked at the chats from when I was gone and C was twisting the story to be like "Oh Connie (me) was being really bitchy, and trying to push a narrative that I was manipulative towards them so he's trying to make it seem like I'm in the wrong" which yk i just did not feel safe so sure whatever
Later, me and some friends ended up talking about it, because this friend who is like just barely not a child and younger than C had so much worse experiences with C, this friend (R) is in a really bad place mentally and ended up coming to the group whenever they got into an episode where they would be in danger of harming themselves and what did C do? C started saying stuff like "It'd be cool if we killed ourselves at the same time" ????? what the fuck!?!?!? you don't just say that?????? Especially not to a child who needs to be talked out of killing themselves????? thank fucking god R didn't do anything and another friend was there to call C out because actually if I ever meet C irl I'm going to jail. C also ended up doxxing R and I got all the screenshots of that and we ended up kicking C out.
Now, I WISH that was the end of that, that both us in the group and C moved on, but C keeps on venting about us and twisting the story to make us seem like the bad guys saying stuff like "I still think about that friend group that kicked me out because I have poor memory/for my NPD" when in fact we didn't KNOW that C is a. a system and b. has NPD
But, also if I'm gonna say something, C's DID is really weird, like they ONLY have altars from their weird yaoi anime (that they tried to force me and some people to watch while C talked about their piss kink- it was weird) and all their alters are trans masc, I might just be uneducated so if any systems could like tell me if that's weird or not thanks. They use their disorders against a lot, like saying stuff like they weren't the one "controlling" their body when they said all that stuff and that they can't help but act the way they do because of the NPD, but correct me if I'm being wrong, having NPD doesn't tell your "friends" that you want to kill them? Inside thoughts maybe?
So, C keeps venting and ranting about us and we've told him multiple times that we DONT want them to keep talking about us, especially cause they tag the youngest member of our group(E) who they used to rant and vent and guilt-trip the worst in post that make E feel bad about kicking them out.
They recently vented about us and it was the final straw, I called them out of their shitty behavior in the replies (I didn't want to reblog and not only draw more attention to the post, but also I didn't want that negativity on my page) but one things led to another and my group and I were getting hate asks and anonymous death threats sent to us, I got the worst of it with a bunch of rape and death threats and when I made a post being like "Hey! This isn't cool!" C told the anons in my replies (Not a reblog mind you, a comment.) to dm them instead of telling anon to stop. I'mn a victim on s/a, and so being told by someone that they'd come to my house and s/a me really wasn't good for my mental health and I ended up having a break down and relapsing on my s/h that night
We kept telling C to stop venting about us and just apologize for their shitty behavior and they sounds they wouldn't stop either because they "have a right to post this stuff" and they can't apologize for stuff they don't remember or stuff they don't believe they did wrong, they ended up blocking me and three-four others but left R unblocked because R wasn't in the argument (And we learned later that R had another episode one night and apologized to C, which none of us are mad at R for we were just shocked because R had absolutely nothing to apologize for and C had nothing to forgive R for)
I just want advice on how to get C to stop posting twisted vents about us and/or actually make them see what they did to us really fucked us over and that C isn't the victim. Can we ever do that? I'm tired of C acting like we were so bad to him when C would throw fits if we weren't constantly giving him all of our attention
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@goofygooberton tagged me in a thing where I was supposed to list five of my comfort characters and then tag five other people like two months ago, but I was on vacation at the time and the post ended up unfinished and lost in my drafts.
So I am doing it now, here it goes, Tumblr user togrutahhh's five comfort characters (aka a collection of cunning bastards who seem composed on the surface but are secretly Fucked Up but are also kind to children and poor people):
Hina Kudo from Mr. Sunshine aka my pfp: Hina Kudo is actually Korean, but she has a Japanese name because she's the mysterious widow of a rich Japanese man twice her age. She used his inheritance to open up a fancy hotel in Seoul and uses the money and influence gained through that alongside her intelligence and cunning to get what she wants, and what she wants is Mysterious unless you've seen the show to the end. Does she work for the Japanese? For the Koreans? For the Americans? For herself? Nobody knows and everyone hates her for it. She is a Bad Bitch, always cool, poised, and playfully seductive, but she also has a back full of hideous scars and is a proficient swordswoman, hinting at a less genteel past. She seems haughty, but is also wonderfully compassionate towards lower class people and viciously defends her staff from unwanted sexual advances. The men she wants never pick her because they think she's fake and manipulative. (Fun fact: this actress and her mannerisms in this particular role is how I headcanon Alys Vorpatril to look like, with Henry Golding as Ivan)
Grand Admiral Thrawn from Star Wars: I love the Chaotic Strategic Mastermind Who Inspires Loyalty In His Men archetype, but what I love about Thrawn is that, unlike the more overtly theatrical and extroverted specimens like Miles Vorkosigan or Eugenides or Inda Algara-Vayir, he is also very introverted and autistic and seems incapable of connecting to people outside of the structured military environment he's in, which adds an additional twist and makes him deliciously interpersonally vulnerable to me. In the right hands he's also an excellent treatise of when doing evil for the greater good is justified and when it's not, and a cool exploration of someone just abandoning his humanity and his personal needs in order to always do the Rational Thing. Reading Zahn's new canon books about him often feels like watching your kind, hypercompetent, slightly awkward boyfriend who's great with children make the worst possible choices and fail you again and again and again. I also like thinking about him in terms of... information processing? Like no matter how logical you are, your conclusions are only as good as your info and what info you take into consideration will be determined by your own prejudices and assumptions and social position. Honorable mention to his boyfriend aide Eli Vanto and also everyone in the Ascendancy Trilogy - I could make a top ten comfort characters list out of them alone.
Laurent of Vere from Captive Prince: NEW BLORBO!! <3 Another Strategic Mastermind Who Inspires Loyalty in His Men + Interpersonal Vulnerability combo, but this time extra bitchy and needlessly vicious and also in a piece of media that explores his interpersonal baggage with great nuance and respect. He is severely traumatized but the narrative never takes away his agency and always portrays his boundaries as really important and I wrote a whole ass essay about how lovely that is that you can look up on my blog if you want. He comes off as stone cold but seems to have an innate desire to be sweet and submissive that he's too scared to let out. He also has a delightfully intricate mind that manifests in a myriad of plot twists and schemes - those books are literally more filled with unexpected plot twists than the Queen's Thief books, and that's an accomplishment to say the least. Every time you think you've got him pegged down he reveals new layers to his thinking and personality and it's such a delight, but you also see how that same intricate mind stymies him and makes him awkward when he tries to open up to someone (and what's extra charming is that you can see that he's trying so damned hard in places).
Lisbeth Salander from The Millennium Trilogy: The ultimate Bad Bitch. She's punk. She's a genius with a photographic memory but is so distrustful and anti-social and scarred by her severely traumatic upbringing that she pretends to be mentally handicapped so that people would leave her alone. She kills her rapist. She sets her abusive father on fire as a preteen. He comes for her as an adult to get revenge and buries her alive and she digs herself out Kill Bill-style, and whenever I feel in an impossible situation I think of the description of how she feels her fingers being scraped to a pulp as she digs but refuses to give up and that inspires me. She falls in love with an upper middle class leftist journalist twice her age who is poly, which she isn't stable enough psychologically to deal with, so she ghosts him and then spends a lot of time dwelling on how isolated from Normal Society she feels and how it always feels like she's a shitty stray out in the cold and rain watching happy people sit together in warm houses through the window.
Joe Macmillan from Halt and Catch Fire: He's a Don Draper-esque slick salesman kind of charismatic guy, except you can immediately tell that it's a facade and his charismatic shtick often comes off as fake, plastic, over the top or even kinda pathetic. He does the Joker thing where he makes up a different story about how he got his scars based on what will best get him what he wants. He's the best bisexual rep I've ever seen and while his queerness is not a central plot point in the show, he gets an entire subplot about being a queer man during the 1980s AIDS crisis and how this impacts his career as an antivirus software "developer", and we also get hints about how having to perform manhood as a teen is what set the stage for his fake-ass melodramatic bargain bin Patrick Bateman personality. He eventually matures and learns that manipulating people can lead to some really nasty consequences and becomes a more genuine and grounded person. He still loses everything. He comes off as a heartbreaker but actually he just keeps getting dumped by everyone because nobody trusts him as far as they can throw him even when he genuinely cares and continues to suffer over the breakup for years afterwards. He's the ultimate boy who cried wolf. Truly the most pathetic meow meow of all time. He's played by Lee Pace, so he's really hot. Actually everyone on this list is really hot and can cut glass with their cheekbones.
Honorable mention to Eugenides from Queen's Thief, who sadly got replaced by Laurent at the last minute. Also honorable mention to a dozen Star Wars characters who got kicked out by Thrawn, including but not limited to my boy Luthen Rael, the entire Skywalker family, Darth Maul, Aleksandr Kallus, and Hera Syndulla.
Five people I'm tagging: @highladyluck @kokoshnjak @thesunlikehoney @capablecapybara @kissingdeadgirls at random from my notifs and anyone else who wants to participate :)) also you don't really have to write a paragraph for each one I'm just annoying and like overthinking things <3
#this was so hard I could have made a top ten list with Star Wars characters only#and another top ten list with just chaotic guile heroes#grand admiral thrawn#lisbeth salander#laurent of vere#hina kudo#yang hwa#joe macmillan
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Sending this while i still have wifi at the con, 1, 7, 8 11, 18 for sinister
today is a good day, I get to ramble about my shawty
1. Why do you like or dislike this character?
Specifically: I like that you have this guy, this ~200 year old Victorian prim-and-proper guy, that's caused so much pain and suffering to those around him. Untold psychic damage. Constantly manipulating those around him for his own gain. 'Barely a paper mask'. And he's just a bitch. Like, a 100% Rotton Tomatoes certified bitch. 9.9 magnitude on the rupaul scale bitch.
7. What's something fandom does when it comes to this character that you like?
This may seem a little surprising, but I love the 'silly gay guy' characterization that the fandom has given him. Is it correct? Not really! That persona is just a distraction from the monster underneath. But I'm not allergic to fun, so I think it's hilarious.
8. What's something fandom does when it comes to this character that you despise?
I'm gonna have to tread lightly so I don't make it a rant post but. Okay I totally get not liking this guy. He sucks and you're right for that. But I hate when people take not liking him as a moral high ground if that makes sense. Like yeah, you're so righteous for disliking a fictional character. Do you want a cookie? It's a bit pathetic to be frank.
11. Would you date this character?
...maybe a little.
I try to keep this blog friendly and SFW. So I will not elaborate further.
18. A relationship they have in canon with another character that you admire?
He's not a very nice person so he doesn't have many any good relationships but... I think it's funny how bitchy he is to the Summers brothers and Charles? Since he's like a nightmare father figure. And I'll throw Remy in there too for good measure.
(Speaking of his relationship with Remy, @/nicopony79 wrote a fantastic fic a while ago that you should all read (if you are an adult). It features their relationship hilariously and I was clutching my sides at every chapter. It's not the main focus!!! But it's an amazing piece of art.)
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Oooooooh shipping game?? How did I miss that you’re doing this! I haven’t participated in one in so long, so hopefully I’ll be able to give you something to work with ��
Zodiac sign: Pisces
Chinese zodiac: Wood Dog (94 liner, and I actually turn 30 this year and hoooo boy the crisis is real)
MBTI: whichever one is the (turbulent) Logician type, sorry I don’t remember the abbreviations
She/her pronouns.
I’m an introvert (not the shy type) who routinely gets adopted by extroverts and then has to withdraw from society to recover. I love dogs (but irl I actually have a cat, because my dogs were too big to move them with me when I moved out for uni, so I literally googled ‚cat breeds dog personality’ and got one for myself).
I’m also a bookworm, although uni kinda killed my love for reading for a long while (literature major) and my favorite genres are fantasy, sci-fi and supernatural horror. I’m drawn to things that are a bit (a lot) darker than the usual, books and movies that explore the complexity of human nature and our place in the universe (I feel like I’m setting myself up to be shipped with Namjoon by writing this). I was raised as a metalhead and still listed to metal and rock a lot, I actually got into BTS and k-pop in general in early 2023 because my extroverted friend nagged me for six months and the rabbit hole just opened up one day. Other than BTS my favorite group is Stray Kids.
I’m pretty independent as a person, often come off as closed off or straight up bitchy, but I’ve been told that once people get to know me better it’s like I’m fluffy on the inside. My best friend would probably tell you that I’m like a tunnel: once we’re friends and you betray my trust, the tunnel collapses and there’s no going back. My other friend claims that I have goth/witchy vibes and that I’m a grinch (which tracks, actually). It’s not easy for me to make friends but I found out in the past year or so that I have a lot more of them than I thought possible.
Other than that, I love dark humor and dark comedy. I rarely make jokes, mainly because I don’t think I’m that funny, but I do enjoy banter. I find it really hard to let go and let loose (anxiety is a bitch and a half), but I try my best to be better at just being myself and vibing with other people.
I’ve been told I’m a decent cook and have some tattoos (and planning on getting more). And I think that’s about it really 🙈
I would love to see who you’d ship me with if you have the time! Thanks so much for all the hard work you put into your writing this past year, when I dove into the BTS content your blog was like a headcanon central for me 😹
Lol, I know you joked about it, but I do genuinely ship you with Namjoon, as well as Yoongi!
You have a lot similar interests and traits as both of them that I think would make it easy for you to connect, and although Joon is an extrovert, he really respectful his and other people's boundaries and space, so I think he'd be good at helping you open up a bit more without being draining or exhausting for you.(Also lowkey think they'd both really be into your style)
Yoongi's also has that 'tough outside, soft inside' vibe, and also isn't afraid to discuss darker topics or the different aspects of the human experience, and I think he'd appreciate someone he can talk with easily about those types of things.(He also has/had a slightly dark sense of humor, so I think you'd be able to bounce off each other well)
Hope this was okay!💜
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