#bisexuals help me pls

[dantelovesvirgil]

No regaz sto svarionata

I mean gays of the world gimme a hand

Im starting to think that im either straight and don't actually like women, or im gay with a lot of interiorised homophobia

Or im ace

[beweepbomp]

I NEEDED TO URGENTLY VENT BECAUSE IDK WAHT ELSE TO DO.

A lil background. I knew my sexuality as like early as 12. I had two gfs but never anything physical. Now as adult trying to venture out to physical things with another woman. This person we will refer to as Lizzy, from the convos we had never was with a woman in any manner ever but interested to try with me. Okay now this is the insane shit i went thru. enjoy.

Lizzy matched on tinder with me and she asked after some great chit chatting to exchange #'s. Sounds great what could go wrong. After several back n forth spicy texts of what we want to do finally we say hey we should definitely meet up. A few days pass by to finally our meet up date. Science. Ghosted. Okay no biggie. 19 DAYS LATER “Hi i got busy how are you?” I brush it off things do happen and I’m trying to be reasonable. I reply with a hello. No reply again. 40 DAYS LATER “How are you?” At this point I roll my eyes. This is not worth the energy but wow she’s actually replying back idk maybe just shit happens. She tells me it’s been a busy summer travel & work. Okay fair. She shows me cute magnets she made and tells me she’s house sitting.

After a few text exchanges she’s asking me to come over. I get hesitant but she insists. WHAT COULD GO WRONG I SAY? I text her I’ll get ready and take an Uber over. Let me tell you i was giving femme hotness. My skirt was so hiked up. My cute shirt low v cut. Had a jean jacket since it was late into the night. I’m jittery with excitement. I call my best friend she gets the address and says to text me after etc. I order the Uber which was $30+ DOLLARS but i was too excited to care. In the middle of my Uber drive she texts she’s having a panic attack and throwing up. I feel awful. Did i freak her out? But i kept reassuring that we don’t need to do anything physical even when i arrive. No pressure. Assuring to have full consent before engaging in anything. But she insists she’s stuck in the bathroom throwing up and to turn around. Now I’m over 20 minutes away from my apartment around 11:30pm in the middle of the damn suburbs. I arrive and ask by text if i can just sit in the living room until the next Uber comes she says no. I’m outside alone in a foreign place terrified. I video chat with my best friend explaining the situation and she’s in shock as well. Putting me in danger in the middle of nowhere , just alone. Just perfect. My gay ass in the wind trying to remain calm since the streets are barely lit and i have no immediate way home. The connection to data is shitty but im able to order another Uber. Another $30+ out of to go back. But it’s fine no one’s fault right.

She insistently asks texting when my Uber will ber here. My connection isn’t great but it shows 9 minutes. It’s been at least 8 minutes now but the Uber isn’t properly showing the accurate time. My best friend what a god send kept me sane as i waited but a car pulls up and it definitely isn’t my Uber. “Oh i thought you were the girl im meeting with.” OH MY GOD i laugh almost loosing my mind. I point to her house, “oh no no she’s in there.’ Thankfully my Uber arrives as the guy calls out you’re beautiful. Oh thanks bud. Lizzy texts me to say that’s my friend helping me with my panic attack. of course i say seriously you have to be fucking joking. I freak out on her thru text and she insists she’d never intentionally try to put anyone in danger and every other excuse in the book and STILL try’s to see if we will meet up again. Of course i tell her she is fucking nuts and maybe next time be a hospitable hoe if you’re gonna be a hoe at all. I’m not against it but also don’t make a crazy lie and embarrass me. I have no idea im like crushed to seek out afraid to have the same experience of wacky shit. What do i do???? Help pls

[skyminsworld]

The Way I would let all these woman do anything they want with me like use me pls im just a hole

[girlokwhatever]

guys should i give my blog some tlc and make it more aesthetically pleasing to look at LMAO

everyone else’s looks so nice :(

should i do it idk.

[keira-kaz2y5]

Seen a few posts about The Devil Judge lately, all lesbian themed on two women, I just have to know going into it, is this canon? Or just a ship/possible queerbaiting?

Someone pls lmk bc I wanna find films n shows with main character lesbian couple in the FLETCHER vibe, where it’s written as if it would be mxf but happens to be wxw yk?

Like I’m so tired of the drama of “she’s gay!” or “we need to stay a secret” and “oh she died” type films or or when the characters make their whole personality their sexuality (no hate, I just need some vibes like Renee Rapp -see Talk Too Much music video- , Fletcher, McKenna grace and xochitl gomez etc) pls pls pls help a gay girl out! Xxx

Edit: wow okay yeh Devil Judge is apparently very much NOT lesbian— 😭 anyway I digress, I need non depressing wlw film recs pls pls pls and thank you 🙏

[genderimpala]

guys help how do you know if you're asexual

bc i've felt sexual attraction before but only ever to celebrities?? never to anyone i've known irl. and like. maybe it's a trust thing?? maybe i'm demisexual? like i've got a crush on this guy right now but any time i think of anything sexual, i'm like Absolutely Not, Goodbye.

[justazebra]

h e l p

alright I know I shouldn’t get involved in people’s personal lives but like I can’t I just can’t

it’s been said out loud by students and the teachers themselves have implied it but my ELA teach and my math teach are besties. The first time I saw them interact, my math teacher came in and asked if she wanted math to order coffee. ELA went full adhd for like 10 seconds and stared at math, processing the idea of caffeine, be for saying “YES. Yes, thank you!” Math says “Your usual?” And ELA (who didn’t at all seem sleep deprived for the entire day, I saw her in the morning, at lunch and ELA is the last two periods) says something like “YES yes yes thank you so much (name) you are a lifesaver I love you thank you.” And when math walked out the door ELA turns to us and says “Isn’t she the best?” And the only thing I could think for like 10 min was that was SO GAY. Seen them interact many other times and they know A LOT about each other like I had those water bulbs for plants and I was filling them up and math saw me and immediately smiled and was like “Are you her plant person?” Other stuff too and they’re super comfortable barging into each other’s classrooms or texting each other while they’re teaching. Every time I fkn see them I think, woah gay. But I go to a Catholic school so the logical part of my brain says no it can’t be their cishet. My gaydar is almost never wrong though and they’re so gay they’ve become my otp, no joke. It kills me and I can’t do anything about it and I know they’re not but ARGH THEY ARE and it drives me crazy I’m not actually friends with any queers and I just had to hyperfixate on this wtf help me what do I dooooooooooo argh they’re just so GAY

well probably bi and sappho but shit you get the point

[indecisive-organism]

IS THERE A BUTTON ON HERE THAT MAKES PEOPLE UNFOLLOW YOU? OMG HELP

[aroacefanartist]

me: *just chilling, going abt my day as normal*

my brain: evan buckley is canonically bi hes bisexual bi buck is canon buck is bi hes canonically bi bi buck is real bi buck bi buck bi

[snoopy-nerdio]

2/2

MMM YUMDELLISCRUMTIOS

(Inspired by @scaredofstyrofoam fanfic)

[ghostisventing]

I find myself disgusted/uncomfortable/scared of men and idk if it’s the trauma or am I just not attracted to men?

[singmeyoursimpsong]

uh ok steddie headcanon time ! Today's special guest: and they were roommatessss

Modern au EMT Steve and Horror Novelist Eddie as roommates! (I'm thinking Chicago, aged up into their late-20s, early 30s).

Eddie trying to figure out the logistics of a particular gory scene, and having an "aha" moment - why not ask Steve?

Eddie: *tentatively, since they don't really have a relationship past cordial-roommate* "Hey, uh, Steve?" 

Steve: *watching tv on the couch, shoving his face full of popcorn after a long shift* "...yeah?"

Eddie: *sits down on couch, arms crossed* "So I know you've had a long day..." 

Steve: *now not watching tv, popcorn pushed to the side, a bit confused* "Shit - did I forget to start the dishwasher again? Sorry about that, it's been a hell of a day -" *starts to get up*

Eddie: *head shaking* "No no! You did remember, no, uh, I was actually going to ask a question related to your job...?" *voice goes up at the end, seeing Steve's reaction before continuing*

Steve: *the tension in his shoulder dissipates as he plops himself back onto the couch* "Oh yeah. Go for it. Shoot." *resumes popcorn-eating*

Eddie: *lets out a sigh he didn't know he was holding in* Awesome! *all of a sudden slides a pair of readers onto his face, pulls out a thick notebook with hand-written notes and hand-drawn diagrams from seemingly nowhere* "Yeah, so I have a question about beheadings, like, I theoretically understand just how much pressure and just how sharp a blade would need to be for a clean cut, but what about with a dull weapon, and would the person doing the beheading need to get a running start?" 

Steve: *pauses, waiting for the punchline... then realizes that Eddie is dead (haha) serious* "Alright how tall are we talking? And what kind of blade are we using?" *full mouth of popcorn* "-cause I've seen some fucked up shit with those Japanese katanas - never, ever get on the wrong side of a guy who has ornamental swords on their walls - and don't get me started on focal and guillotine lacerations from machetes - *another mouth of popcorn, head shaking, eyes wide* " -those blades are crazy"

Eddie furiously takes notes and asks several (very good) questions that surprise Steve. Cue this becoming a somewhat regular occurrence, where Eddie asks Steve whether particular killing scenes seem realistic. Steve is impressed with Eddie's thoroughness ("It's gotta be good, Stevie. It's paying our bills..."), and Eddie is amazed at Steve's limitless knowledge of bodily injuries ("Class of 2008. Senior year shaped me into the man I am today, Eddie"). 

Their easy, newfound relationship turns toward something more the day that Steve doesn't understand the particulars of what Eddie is asking him, and instead asks to show him. Steve has his own aha moment while on his back and a butterknife to his neck, arms pinned to the floor above him, with Eddie smiling manically above him. They both have their own aha moments then, Eddie and Steve. 

[dnphan]

some therapist/psychologist pls tell me why 90% of my hyperfixations are inherently queer

it’s probably gotta do something with my unconscious thoughts and being uncomfortable with my identity, but i’m too lazy to delve into that shit tonight

[luvvlaufeyy]

some oc art wip it looks ugly as shit rn but i like sebs face hes my little boo bear

also i finally figured out their full names

ata michiko (they/them nb pan) (or michiko ata, ata is their first name) 🇪🇬🇯🇵

eren bakar (he/him bi) 🇲🇾

sebastian an (he/they transmasc demi) (or an sebastian, sebastian is their first name) 🇰🇷

i kinda sound chronically online

oopsies

[morgaussy]

today I started watching (and will probably finish) a League of Their Own and HOLY SHIT I’M GAY. I mean. Holy fuck. FUUUUCK. I’m. I’m basically drooling idfk they’re all so goddamn hot. WOMEN. am I right

[holyalbatross]

i dont know whats going on… but im on season 5 of GOT barley and why this entire time do i still believe cersei is a lesbian i just love my wlw characters