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the pjo fandom pisses me off with this 'omg apollo made mpreg a thing bc his daughter has two dads!!' bs
men can get pregnant in real life. that's a completely normal thing that happens and has a completely normal explanation. what the fuck even.
#pjo hoo toa#percy jackson#apollo#yall remember....#trans men??#as actual existing people that might or might not choose to have bio kids#and its not weird nor do we need to search for incredible explanations to justify it in media#find it personally very weird that your first thought upon hearing that two men had a bio kid is 'MPREG!!!!! OMG!!'#“how could this have possibly happened!!!”#babes#its 2024#the answer's right there#this is specifically about her other dad#bc apollo can change sex as wanted but even if it was about him#yea men can get pregnant#big fucking deal
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https://lipedemaliposuctioncenter.com/insurance/
!!!! LADIES/AFAB FOLKS !!!!
So my mom recently went to her doctor to see about getting compression socks for her lipedema. She has a really mild case, stage 1, not in pain. The doctor she saw not only knew what lipedema was, but he did the water-assisted liposuction locally, and even more: INSURANCE COMPANIES ARE BEGINNING TO APPROVE LIPOSUCTION TREATMENTS FOR PATIENTS WITH LIPEDEMA.
Not endoring this particular surgeon but the information about the about-face from insurance companies is there. Was just the first useful link I found.
I am going to make an appointment with my mom's doc. I don't know if I am willing to do surgery and if I do it I might do it only on my arms which bother me more than my legs honestly (compression garments work for the legs, NOT the armis)
SO IF YOU HAVE LIPEDEMA AND YOU HAVE BEEN FRUSTRATED THE TREATMENT IS NOT COVERED BY INSURANCE, IT SEEMS THE TIMES, THEY ARE A-CHANGING!
11% of women/AFAB people have lipedema. it is genetic. It has nothing to do with diet or exercise. LOOK INTO IT!! Especially if you're a bigger person who has noticed you don't carry your extra weight the same way most people do: my stomach is the smallest part of me relatively, but my arms/legs/butt are too big and my arms and legs suffer severe pain and easy bruising.
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Yesterday (March 23rd) was the 14th anniversary of President Obama signing the Affordable Care Act (ACA) into law. It enabled tens of millions of Americans to get previously unobtainable medical insurance – especially those with pre-existing conditions.
Republicans derisively dubbed the ACA "Obamacare" in order to disparage it. But rather than making the law look bad, their nickname gave Barack Obama permanent credit for something enormously popular. As then Vice President Joe Biden told President Obama at the 2010 signing, "This is a big fucking deal!" – and it still is.
Republicans have tried countless times to repeal Obamacare. Donald Trump campaigned in 2016 on killing it and and replacing it with something "better". Of course he had no other healthcare plan to replace it with.
Now Trump is running again and still wants to abolish Obamacare. If you have been helped by Obamacare or know someone who has, let people know that keeping the orange pus ball with bad hair out of the White House is the best way to ensure your health for years to come.
Fact Sheet: Celebrating the Affordable Care Act
#obamacare#affordable care act#aca#donald trump#trump's plan to abolish obamacare#healthcare#health insurance#pre-existing conditions#big fucking deal#biden-harris 2024#election 2024#vote blue no matter who
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I'm so bored with tales of motherhood.
It's amazing how many self-indulgent articles there are these days about how motherhood is so hard but it's so rewarding but it's so hard though.
All these boring mommies writing the same fucking shit about how they're exhausted and omg I just want a day for myself but I love my kid too and I feel guilty but I need a break but I love being a mom, like totally. Oh really? Well you could have read the countless of articles and think pieces about this same boring topic that all the other mommies churned out before you and decide not to breed. THAT would have been interesting and original for fucking once.
And not once does it occur to them that they had a choice. That they made a choice. That they chose to create another life, all because they felt like it. And now we have to hear about it.
#could mothers be more narcissistic?#your motherhood tale isn't interesting#it's not special#you popped a kid#big fucking deal#zzzzzzz
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mantra when you fuck up is "i'm in my early 20s it's literally not a big deal"
#AND ALSO ''I WILL DO BETTER NEXT TIME'' THAT IS ALSO IMPORTANT. but also it being not a big deal is important too#lest you let yourself get twisted into knots by the fucking up therefore causing you to fuck up more. ETC ETC.#talking#sketch diary
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why does she have to be so fucking strict
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Concept: Peter actually got bitten by a totally normal spider. It's just a coincidence that his mutant powers were awakened around the same time
#peter: 'i got bitten by a radioactive spider'#the xmen: '.....what the FUCK are you talking about'#my posts#marvel#spiderman#xmen#he gets targeted by sentinels and is just ?? very confused ???#i also cant stop thinking about how everyone else not in the know definitely thinks spiderman is a mutant too#it really explains why he gets so much hate#its not just because ppl hate vigilantes- its anti mutant sentiment#ALSO they make a big deal of him not letting anyone know hes got powers bc theyll figure out his identity#when really theyd first just assume he was a mutant#which could ruin his life in a very different way
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Dana’s last ‘fuck you’ to Disney
He/they collector
Genderqueer/bi-gender papa king
TWO girlfriend kisses
Onscreen mlm kiss
Implied aladarius
a happy ending to the bi/enby couple
A happy ending to the aro/ace character
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Death to the white Christian puritain
#Toh spoilers#the owl house spoilers#the owl house#watching and dreaming#Lumity#plus the sideline str8 relationship in favor of the gay ones!#i love huntlow but that was so great to see#raeda#clawthorne family#Willow park#Lilith clawthorne#Aladarius#papa king#10k#1k#5k#50k#edit: GUYS I KNOW HUNTLOW ISNT STRAIGHT THIS WAS BEFORE THAT INFORMATION WAS RELEASED#guys this post is fucking reblog bait it’s not that big of a deal calm tf down
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I see J stands for "turn-based" now and forever, thanks t-fox
#quit to the title screen#that is how you pause in this kind of game#worst case you restart the boss fight#big fucking deal
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Guys! Can you believe I was gonna just CASUALLY watch Hazbin Hotel???
But it’s way too good. The writing is so tight, all the characters are interesting and layered, ALL THE SONGS:🔥🔥🔥
Alastor is such a Cheshire Cat! Not a characteristic I see often, but it’s always good! Gimme more immediately.👏👏👏
#grey art#fan art#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel fanart#charlie morningstar#vaggie#alastor#radio demon#hazbin alastor#hazbin vaggie#vaggie is dealing with her girlfriend employing the big bad Wolf#and we just have to hope his obvious ulterior motives won’t fuck us over too much#beautiful#can you tell Alastor is my favourite?#asexual king yes baby
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I organized a closet today.
It's been accumulating "I can't use this anymore" fabrics and clothing, and has been staring at me every time I'm in my bedroom.
So it's kind of a big deal, now it's done.
Squee!
I've been up and down in weight for quite a few years, currently on a down swing. As I've gotten too big or too small for clothes, I've put them in the closet, on their very own shelf. Plus, I sew and do clothing repairs (thanks, mom, wherever you are!), so scraps and unusable leftovers go on the special shelf, too.
I had enough energy and focus to check each item, bin it as either to be sold, to be given away, or to be turned into rags. I tried a few things on that didn't fit me when they went onto the pile, and found a few pairs of pants and several shirts that fit me again. That was nice -- they're timeless designs and it's great to have some new old clothes. The fabric and clothing scraps immediately went under the scissors and seam rippers, so I have a nice tall pile of new to me rags. Yay, me. And the give aways went into a special laundry pile for my next laundry run so they'll be clean for the local thrift store and my favorite charities.
Plus I found a few items that should not have been in the pile, including a really nice ultra light rain jacket, a branded track jacket in great condition, and a high quality dress shirt. Good finds, all.
Accomplishments like this are mundane. Quotidian. Rarely discussed, remarked upon, or documented. For me, though, it's a BFD. This "simple" task was a six year endeavour.
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when you're part of a group with structural power over another goup, you really do gotta just learn to say "i am not exempt from 'fuck 'em' when relevant" whenever someone expresses frustration with you or people like you.
#juney.txt#like sure to protect your ego you could try to make up some axis of oppression that concievably means you're not accountable for anything#and how dare people from colonized nations tell you that you have it easier than them just because you live in the imperial core#or how dare trans women say you have it easier than them because no matter what it'll always be your word against a tranny's#or you could just learn to be a little uncomfortable for a moment#and look at the situation for a second and say#''you know what? they're right to be frustrated!''#''and it's really not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things if they're frustrated at me''#''especially if i'm being a prime example of the things they're getting frustrated about''#''i am not exempt from 'fuck 'em' when relevant''
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give me whumpees with scars they can't hide. Not by a scarf, long sleeves, or even a mask. Give me whumpees whose hair has gone white with stress, give me whumpees whose hands shake and are always unsteady, give me whumpees with amputated limbs and scars that split their features. Uncomfortable scars. They aren't aesthetic they aren't pretty they just are. And then let them deal with hushed "oh god"s and the stares and the whispered conversations behind their backs. Let the recovery break them in ways not even the torture could.
#big fan of this actually#something something “i dont even recognize you anymore” something#something something and this was inspired by diane from bojack horseman "it wasnt good damage-- its just damage'#its just fucking damage and they have to deal with it#whump prompts#whump#whump writing#whumpblr#whump prompt#whump community#whump ideas#whump scenario#whump tropes
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A lot of you underestimate how prevalent British bias is not only in F1 but across sports generally, and even in other industries.
Max saying he has the wrong passport in the paddock is an accurate statement. Do you think he, Seb, or Michael would've been half as vilified by the British media if they had a British passport instead? Would Fernando? Do you think Yuki would get half as much shit about his radio "conduct" if he was British? Because it's the British commentators who consistently have issues with it, and say shit like it's "unbecoming" for a driver to speak that way, ignoring that 1 it's not his first language and 2 IT WAS ENGLISH PEOPLE HE LEARNT THAT LANGUAGE FROM. Sometimes people misspeak, but Yuki has always taken accountability and apologised if he has and if he caused harm. Martin Brundle did not get nearly as much backlash from the media when he misspoke and called an Asian driver a slur while commentating. He also never apologised for it.
Alex, one of the four Brits on the grid but who drives under the Thai flag, has said that the commentators only call him British born when he does well. He was completely excluded from the Silverstone publicity about the home crowd heroes, whereas George, Lewis & Lando were heralded, not only on race weekend, but for weeks leading up to it.
Alex's statement also reminded me of this Richard Harris quote, "When I'm in trouble, I'm an Irishman. When I turn in a good performance, I'm an Englishman." Genuinely, if I took a shot every time a British organisation/person claimed a talented Irish person was actually a Brit, I'd have died from alcohol poisoning years ago.
Hell, I see George wearing the poppy pin this weekend in the lead up to remembrance Sunday. Do you know the amount of shit James McClean gets every year because he refuses to wear one? And he has very valid reasons for choosing not to wear it, yet he's torn to shreds every year by not only random people on the Internet or on the streets but by commentators and the media too.
Because of how this sport became mainstream and because no one challenged Bernie Eccleston's monopoly on broadcasting rights back in the day (people were given the opportunity to buy a share of the broadcasting rights; the idiots said no), this sport has prioritised the British voice/perspective for decades. I know the other broadcasts are just as biased for their home team/drivers, but the British one is the biggest one, as it's the main broadcast for better and more often for the worst. It's the broadcast with the most reach and influence. Their bias has to be challenged eventually if this sport ever hopes to properly expand and grow. The British bias is so difficult to miss once you start noticing it.
#f1#formula 1#formula one#max verstappen#brazilian grand prix#brazilian gp 2024#like europe is still classist as fuck#f1 reminds the world of that consistently#also idiots is a direct quote from someone who refused the deal re: broadcasting rights and regretted it big time#before anyone comes at me lmao#edit because i forgot: the British commentators used to say seb was only winning because of Newey's (a brit) designs#which Adrian has called out because they started using the same rhetoric with Max#and Adrian (+ his wife) have vocally criticised the british bias#also: adrian newey design 🤝 rb golden boy = lethal combination#because if it was just the designs as the British media claimed... why didn't their teammates have equal success with the same design?#but i digress#sebastian vettel#fernando alonso#alex albon#yuki tsunoda#michael schumacher#only tagging drivers i explicitly mentioned but theres many more examples
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tarpit site.
#personal#delete later#for context a tweet i made in the middle of the night blew the fuck up and brought the attention of anime fans who've been#harassing and hassling me about my big factual blunder for an entire day straight#“ok i'll apologize” “bro it's not that serious.”#��you're right it's not that serious“ ”why won't you just admit that you're wrong and apologize!“#i'm not going crazy right. i feel like i'm getting manipulated into thinking i must've been wrong#it's crazy how twitter hate will trick you into believing saying something someone else disagrees with is a moral failing#sorry i haven't seen frieren i guess but what's it to you. i wasn't making a claim or statement#also because nobody has gotten this in the original post i wasn't talking about the quality of animation i'm talking about solid drawing#which is a very specific principle of animation. dandandan has really good solid drawing wherein all the characters are animated#with realistic and proportional 3d depth. newsflash but trigger doesn't prioritize solid drawing in their animation and that's fine#it's an aesthetic choice and has ties to production limits. none of this is a big deal. this is all so stupid lol#i've dealt with worse and more annoying weebs though it's fine i'll put on my clown nose twitter needs their stupid guy for the day#oh btw at the end of the day this doesn't matter. it'll be over by tomorrow. all that's happening is petty angry emotions.#so please don't involve yourself by jumping into the argument and prolonging this shit#i'm about to go on a date with tulli after being apart for a month this is the furtherest thing from my mind rn
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jace i don’t feel good was so funny but also made me so sad. like that’s a teenager with a strawberry squishmallow keychain and a tamagotchi and she doesn’t feel good and she's tugging on a teacher’s sleeve about it. a teacher who should have been responsible for protecting her in the first place and didn’t. who is manipulating and using her and her friends to help fulfill the desires of a wrathful power-hungry egomaniac. porter and jace it’s on sight >:(
#help the rat grinders make me sad i have a disease.#idk man. it’s not a big deal it’s a comedy show i can be normal. sure#edit:#also this isn’t meant to be infantilizing she is absolutely gonna fuck them up next episode lol. and good for her#also bc apparently there’s discourse about this this isn’t to say that the ih shouldn’t be fighting she and the rat grinders to their full#lethal capacity. like stepping back kid v. kid violence makes me sad but they’re trying to end the world lol. and also the ih can play at#their table literally however they want to#it’s a show#just to be clear that that’s not what this post is about lol#mary ann skuttle#dimension 20#fantasy high#fhjy#fhjy spoilers
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