#being single

[somepotatoes]

so I have the house to myself for a couple hours and you know what my healing, no roster, valentine-less, needy ass did? Fucked myself until my knees gave in

[spookyhotmess]

I love her! ...And she ain't lying 🤓😄

[bitchesgetriches]

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[piekhana]

[hope-for-olicity]

Things I didn’t expect as a single woman…

I’m 46 and have been single basically my entire life. Despite being a romantic no men are romantically inclined towards me. I don’t love it but dwelling on it is not going to make it better.

As I get older I realize that women are just fine staying single was probably written by someone who was not.

I have a good job but others make more. As you get older you will probably end up living alone - which I actually quite love. It costs more to live alone, you pay all the bills alone. Which leads to things, like paying off student loans take longer. I will never be able to buy property. I will rent for the rest of my life. I will probably have to delay retirement. I have no person if I’m sick or need any form of help.

I’m fortunate to have family and friends. They will tell me I’m not alone. They mean well but it’s simply not true.

I am alone. I make it work. I don’t hate it. It wasn’t my plan but it is my life.

As more and more people live their lives alone I hope there is more support from the community and maybe in tax relief.

I am happy and I enjoy my life but being single, as I’m sure being coupled, has its drawbacks that should not be overlooked.

[foxes-that-run]

I do believe that Haylor was on/off. Because TS stayed "single" the longest between January 2013-February 2015 (two years). Which seemed a bit unusual considering she usually likes jumping from one relationship to the next.

It was 3 years and 4 months between Jake and Calvin. Harry was the only person she dated in that time. Calvin was 2 years 11 months after the Kids Choice Awards.

The way the only time she was ever single was either side of dating Harry "for 3 months". ...

July 2008—October 2008: Joe Jonas

[No known BF 5 months] March 2009—April 2009: Lucas Till

[No known BF 6 months] Fall 2009: Taylor Lautner

[No known BF 2 months] December 2009—February 2010: John Mayer

[No known BF 8 months] October 2010—January 2011: Jake Gyllenhaal

[No known BF 18 months] July 2012—October 2012: Connor Kennedy

[No known BF 1 month] November 2012—January 2013: Harry Styles

[No known BF 25 months] February 2015—May 2016: Calvin Harris

[No known BF 0 months] May 2016—September 2016: Tom Hiddleston

[No known BF 8 months] May 2017—April 2023: Joe Alwyn

[No known BF 0 months] May 2023—June 2023: Matty Healy

[No known BF 4 months] September 2023—Right Now: Travis Kelce

[kstripling]

[crackedpumpkin]

if not boyfriend, then why so boyfriend shaped?????

[ow-my-zock-and-zalls]

Just saw Hozier live, absolutely awesome experience no notes 10/10. But I didn't recognize one of the songs he performed, do you guys know which one it is? He said baby in it I think.

[bigalqueenbee]

I don’t care that I’m not in love with a man.

Because I’m in love with the bees

I’m in love with the rivers and lakes I kayak on

I’m in love with a big piece of chocolate cake or a perfectly flavored meal

I’m in love with my garden I worked so hard for

I’m in love with my bed and its comforts

I’m in love with evening walks with my dog.

So no, I’m not in love with a man. But at least I will know how to love when he comes along.

[zombiesandbells]

I'm such a hopeless romantic but my standards are so high 🥲

Darn my love for romance. I swear something posessed me as I was moping about wanting love at 3am because I rendered 2 entire drawings in less than two hours

[spookyhotmess]

Either way it is the same answer 🤓👀

[bitchesgetriches]

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[evenceflux18]

When ur the only single status in your group, of course you'll be happy for them but still, you're lowkey kinda be a jellybean

I'm still wheezing about his face😂

Kudos to @kpyeeper for giving me a quick art for it I just made it in a span of 10 minutes😂

[myboredgeneration]

I admit I was fool enough to be fed this

"When single women hit a certain age, they will be desperate to find a husband/boyfriend." BULLSHIT.

My fellow men, it's a big fucking LIE and it's made up by men with a patriarchal sight. It's an immature BOY's consolation.

The world is a different place now, and believe me it doesn't work like this👆🏻(anymore, at least) Even unemployed women in their late 30's and even 40's are not dying for marriage. They still have standards and money is not even one of them. (We LOVE to think the opposite but, sorry...) They want to see some character and more importantly, "maturity" in you. I was so immature and stupid. Now I am paying for it.

Listen to women and try to understand them. Learn women from women, not from losers in your neighborhoods.

The future is female!

[writingfanficsfan]

The other thing that i was thinking about in my week of having the flu is how lonely it is.

I saw my dad for a bit because he came to give me some groceries but of course I didn't want him to stay long so he wouldn't get sick also. (He has been sick a week before that so yeah, not risking it.)

But yeah, no texts from co workers. And I don't really have friends in real life anymore.

It made me think that, when I die, it will probably take a few days for people to realise something is wrong and that is kinda sad.

Then again, that is the result of wanting to be single and not have a relationship. When I'm sick, I'm sick alone.