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as a multigender (all pronouns + genders for me) person i kind of dislike how non-binary people are defaulted to Genderless in other people's minds considering the fact that multigenderism does in fact fall under the category of non-binary and it's definitely the complete opposite of being genderless. i don't care about "correct" labels consdering the fact i use contradictory ones and i understand that most people who identify as non-binary think of themselves as devoid of gender, but i still find it a tad bit annoying when that is what is automatically assumed by the word non-binary. anyways take a shot everytime i said the word non-binary

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We all got that one vassal who's read a few too many warrior tales... Trying to get a little freaky with it on the down low... Won't shut up about his loyalty unto death... Saying shit like "my liege, I am your blade...." Bitch I sent you to guard my isolated holdings in the eastern provinces for a reason!!!!!!! #REBLOG!!!!!

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Getting into the habit of commenting all the fics I like cause artist must support artist 🤝

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Getting into the habit of commenting all the fics I like cause artist must support artist 🤝

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the big three: big brown eyes, an indescribable amount of horniness and a generalised anxiety disorder

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prioritizing mentalities like "people who look like cishet men aren't allowed in queer spaces" means putting your mild discomfort before the safety of other queer people and as a result cutting them off from community and resources they desperately need. saying "never transition/boymoding/butch/masc trans women look too much like cishet men and scare the women and enbies" prioritizes your comfort and need to pathologically avoid men and mascs over transfeminine people being addressed correctly and given access to resources. this is transmisogyny. this also conflates nonbinaryhood with womanhood which is also transphobic. saying that "women and enbies" need to be "protected" from "cishet men" is taking a page right out of rad fem ideology and actively endangers transfemmes, trans women, intersex people, non binary people, and other queer people

this is putting your squicks before the genuine needs of someone else. this is you refusing to understand non binary identities. you are mildly uncomfortable- they are fighting for their lives to find safety and community. you are mildly inconvenienced, they are being cut off from things that can save their lives. these are 2 entirely different situations to be in. you're "uncomfy" around tall people with deep voices, broad chests and shoulders, narrow hips, facial and body hair, they're fighting to stay off the streets, find access to HRT and gender affirming surgery, meet other trans people to know they're not alone, and find safety among people who get them.

look beyond the scope of your lived experience. sometimes in life you will be uncomfortable. you must challenge and face that discomfort in order to grow. you being mildly uncomfortable around someone with a deep voice and a square jaw identifying as a lesbian woman is a non-issue, especially when that woman needs to be around other queer women. we all face discomfort throughout our lives. we have all had bad experiences with certain "types" of people. but we must grow and move past our own discomfort, especially when it starts taking away rights from people who have not and will continue to not harm you in any way shape or form by sharing a space with you.

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prioritizing mentalities like "people who look like cishet men aren't allowed in queer spaces" means putting your mild discomfort before the safety of other queer people and as a result cutting them off from community and resources they desperately need. saying "never transition/boymoding/butch/masc trans women look too much like cishet men and scare the women and enbies" prioritizes your comfort and need to pathologically avoid men and mascs over transfeminine people being addressed correctly and given access to resources. this is transmisogyny. this also conflates nonbinaryhood with womanhood which is also transphobic. saying that "women and enbies" need to be "protected" from "cishet men" is taking a page right out of rad fem ideology and actively endangers transfemmes, trans women, intersex people, non binary people, and other queer people

this is putting your squicks before the genuine needs of someone else. this is you refusing to understand non binary identities. you are mildly uncomfortable- they are fighting for their lives to find safety and community. you are mildly inconvenienced, they are being cut off from things that can save their lives. these are 2 entirely different situations to be in. you're "uncomfy" around tall people with deep voices, broad chests and shoulders, narrow hips, facial and body hair, they're fighting to stay off the streets, find access to HRT and gender affirming surgery, meet other trans people to know they're not alone, and find safety among people who get them.

look beyond the scope of your lived experience. sometimes in life you will be uncomfortable. you must challenge and face that discomfort in order to grow. you being mildly uncomfortable around someone with a deep voice and a square jaw identifying as a lesbian woman is a non-issue, especially when that woman needs to be around other queer women. we all face discomfort throughout our lives. we have all had bad experiences with certain "types" of people. but we must grow and move past our own discomfort, especially when it starts taking away rights from people who have not and will continue to not harm you in any way shape or form by sharing a space with you.

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I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

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I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

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I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

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three person poly relationship made up of two people who are already dating trying to coax someone with horrific self worth issues into a loving relationship. stray cat style

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)

[obsessionexpert]

I’m gonna do one of those notes games TvT

10 notes I’ll drink a bottle of water everyday

20 notes I’ll work to regularly take showers

30 notes I’ll learn how to put my hair up in a way other than a ponytail or clipped up

40 notes I’ll cook dinner for myself on a night my parents do a free for all night

50 notes I’ll try to improve my art more

60 notes I’ll draw and post art regularly

70 notes I’ll try to learn how to animate better

80 notes I’ll actually finish something in my FlipaClip

90 notes and I’ll post more about the hidden AU

100 notes I’ll write the prologue of my fanfiction

I might do more, but this is where I’ll start :)