#because it doesn't fucking matter y'all are adults now act like it

[ourceliumnetwork]

listen. I know my family is bad at communication and acknowledgement of receipt of Thing but when the one thing that consistently happens semi-annually is that I get fussed at for not confirming I received something, it irks me a smidge.

Like if I'm expected to always confirm "Hey I got your [communication/gift]" then why aren't they doing it back? Especially considering the communication in this instance has really actually very important information they will want to know if they want to stay in contact with me.

Like????

Even if I'd just gotten a "K" in response, like. at least it would have let me know they got the damn thing. I sent this email TWO WEEKS AGO and only one person responded - and it was practically immediate too. Like... i know folks are busy, i know shit's going on. I get it. But it would help me feel so much less like I'm suddenly a pariah in the family out of nowhere if like one of the people I'd sent this to had just responded in some way shape or form.

I'd have answered a phone call - i wouldn't have liked it, but i'd have done it. A letter in the mail to my current address even. a message in a bottle probably wouldn't get to me because i'm pretty far from the beaches of the great lakes, and also they're even farther, but like. something right?

my sister at least confirmed she got it and just forgot to respond. i imagine that's what happened with everyone else because we have the same mental illnesses and look. i do it too. but also? also?? i was hounded to respond quickly to things, i was told off every time i wasn't responding within a half hour of any communication. I was asked instantly the next time they saw me if I'd gotten it, even if i hadn't had a chance to see the thing yet.

So forgive me, family, if I'm a little peeved off that all y'all are allowed to "forget to respond" for two whole fucking weeks and then a few extra days (because it's been 2 weeks, 3 days exactly) when i can't let something sit in the mailbox for 2 days because i couldn't get to my mailbox easily while living on my own without getting a phone call or text or email that there should be something waiting in there for me.

*enraged screeching*

[radioisntdead]

You mentioned doing Susan and Reader type things, let me bring up to you:

Reader is Susan's adult child or Niece/Nephew. How do you think that would go? Would she be boasting them up like she does to Rosie or would she be nitpicking them all the time? You decide!

Good evening my dear! I'm gonna scream about Susan now, we don't see much of her but I adore grumpy old people characters (in fiction)

Let's start with child headcanons,

You POOR POOR CHILD, Susan definitely has a key to your home, did you give it to her? Probably not she's the type to MAKE a key, or pick the lock, look me in the eyes [?] And tell me this old woman doesn't know how to pick a lock,

She's definitely seen and done some shit in her [After?] Lifetime, you could be making dinner and she just breaks in strolls on in and starts going on about her childhood and it's just the most messed up Parent Susan lore, she also doesn't care for boundaries, doesn't matter who you are, your boundaries are being invaded, she doesn't like when others invade your boundaries through, only she can do that after all she's your mother! She assumingly birthed you,

Or picked you up from the side of the streets

I don't know how she acquired you

If you have a spouse, Mama Susan does NOT like them, doesn't matter if they're the king of hell or whatever, No one is good enough for her baby,

Heaven forbid if it's someone she already doesn't like, like Alastor for example.

That being said she wants grandkids, you don't have to spawn them, just pick one up off the streets I'm sure there are orphans in hell! Especially after extermination day

She's definitely the type to grab your cheek, squish it and just go "Have you been eating at all?!? Fucking skin and bones!"

Then she just gives you some poor demons leg to munch on, yum!

I feel like when she can make a mean cannibalistic meatloaf, but nothing else,

Maybe soup, but who can't make soup?

[I'm so sorry if you can't make soup, Don't worry I'll make you some so your not soupless]

She's definitely the type of parent to send you to your room without dinner, or keep you at the table until you finished up your meal, or smack with the cane

Honestly if we go with if she was alive in the 1800's {?} And not hellborn {also Susan DOESN'T HAVE A WIKI PAGE? GIVE OUR MEAN OLD LADY A WIKI PLEASE- /j}

Depending on your gender you definitely get raised differently, because sexism was horrid back then, woman didn't get the rights to properly vote until the 1920's, She was long gone by then.

if you're born a gal she's all

"Be more ladylike! No man will marry you if you act like this"

She loves you, and in her mind it's for your own good because society is NOT kind to those who act different than the status quo, she cannot spare you the same fate she got, she wishes you were born in a different time, in one where you'd have more freedom.

she'd lighten up after death because, you know y'all are dead, and man fuck social status that's dead now, she prefers cannibal town as to wherever you were during life

If you were born a lad then you got a ton of

"Be a gentleman! Don't be a dick, don't duel people!"

A son meant she got a pat on the back, she was capable of producing an heir, or whatever old timey crap was going on, she hoped you did NOT turn out to be a product of your environment.

I feel like she'd be very active in feminist movements back then from the shadows, she definitely earned her rights to be grumpy old lady

ANYWAYS THATS OFF TOPIC,

All in all, she's not the WORST mom, but she definitely traumatized you, I feel like y'all healed your mother-child bond in hell {that's a sentence I never thought I'd write}

NOW ON TO THE NIBLING {?} Niece/nephew

She's the single probably wealthy Aunt that probably killed her husband but no one can prove it, completely different from above, she did NOT have a child with niblings [I think that's the right term please correct me if wrong]

If she did have a offspring, congratulations your cousin is often compared to you and y'all probably have a strained relationship.

Anyways any time she sees you she either goes in for the hug and if rejected makes a comment about today's youth and respect, or she doesn't go in for the hug and rambles about today's youth being too touchy,

"What the fuck am I supposed to do with this thing."

Susan when near you.

She gives great Christmas presents though, she just like throws it to you and says she got it last minute and then it's just like 200$ present,

Or if she REALLY doesn't like you, your getting one of those cringe tshirts that's like "look out ladies, I'm a gamer"

OKAY SO ANOTHER LOVELY ANON REQUESTED A THING WITH GRANDCHILD AND SUSAN I'M WORKING ON THAT NEXT, I'm gonna take a nap first though, Thank you for tuning in!

[dumpofletterz]

Are you gonna make a part 2 of the favorite position? 🧍🧍 I oove your account already

───FAVORITE POSITIONS (2)

BBBGLX adults and their favorite positions...to fuck you. ❥ Headcanons + small imagines, gender neutral reader

WARNINGS: nsfw (mdni my ass Ik damn well y'all ignore this, still be warned though.) , biting, rough (more on retak'ka..), shitty writing

Characters: Vargoba, Retak'ka, Hang Kasa (young-adult), Maripos.

Females: soon.

───Vargoba.

this man has FOUR arms. despite being a literal ruthless evil does who'd beat you up and steal your power sphere, he's somehow quite the opposite when it comes to his partner. missionary.

You whined and writhed, your hole clenching around him, “Please… my tummy, it’s too full…” he has his one hand holding your thighs, the other holding the back of your head while the rest grip on to the side of the table. you have been going at it for several hours with no stop, he has tried his best to be soft with you. fucking with him feels unironically comfortable. "Just a few more and we'll be done." turns out it weren't.

───Retak'ka.

He's the opposite of vargoba, he'd be ruthless w/ you in bed. "i will not use my elemental split, it is weak." my ass, he'd use that when he pounds you up. c'mon, he's dominance if it was incarnated. one way to say.. gangbang. (i'm laughing for no reason help)

He'd usually go for only dual, could turn into triple or more depending on his mood... yeah, he'd go for triple. Next thing you'll know is there are three retak'ka's surrounding you, one in your back gripping your thighs harshly, one in front of you keeping your mouth shut with his bare hands covering your mouth, and another just beside you waiting for his next turn, acting like he can't just interrupt the other two by participating immediately. you can't really move at this point as they're literally in control of you─pounding you like there is no tommorow. “don’t give me that look." he would say after having you creampied for the fifth time, you can't even tell which element was speaking when your mind was at it's limit. "awn you think you can cum? don't even try." he groaned into your ear with such a condescending tone, laughing at you. your hole only knew the color white, it being tight no matter how much cock already entered it.

───Hang Kasa. (fluffy smut)

he's a walking greenflag, honestly. it's either you simply cockwarm him or cuddle fucking. (young kasa is so adorable. y'all should read the extra episode of the compilation comics to see him).

Just thinking of him hugging you while you're sitting on his lap. you've been wanting him since he left, whining everytime you see him to reassure that you're being needy. “Darling…” it almost sounded like a warning but even he didn't seem sure of it. a small huff came from mouth when you slowly sat on his lap and pushed the tip to your tight hole. he doesn't know what kind of thoughts you're having such as him using his crystal powers while banging you. "you've been tired from meeting the other elementals. let me help you." you said, trying your best at puppy eyes so he'd agree. and he did, you're now towered by him as he softly pounds your ass. "k-kasa, please," you pleaded, your nails digging into the his skin. “please what?” "go a little faster."

───Maripos.

yk how this guy can literally clone himself? yeah that one. i swear to you this guy loves any position where he could hold your hips while fucking you relentlessly. he'd be into double penetration...both of him having to grip your hips while making you squirm.

He's so pretty that you'd forget that he's currently pounding you, forcing yourself to not make a noise while he’s fucking you because he'd tease you if you do. "that's it pretty, don't give me noises unless you want me to stop." he'd say while he's the one being so vocal to the point where people from outside could hear all the unholy things you've been doing. "yah—yuh—yeah—gonna make you dumb—mh—all mine. fuck-" he breathes out, gritting his teeth on your shoulder while the other one just kept moaning and huffing. "shiiiitt! haa-hhah- fuuckk... Good" thrust. "pretty." thust. "fill'ya up." thrust. the aggressive way his cock thrusts into you, making you whimper, brushing against your G-spot and making your insides clench around the waves of pleasure.

NOTE: guys I also write fluffy, softy, cutesy, and all dovey headcanons/fics--both for the youngs and adults.

( I NEED PEOPLE TO REQUEST ME FOR TALES OF ARCADIA I AM BEGGING. )

[thecountesstribe]

HOTD SEASON 2X4 SPOILERS AND REACTIONS.

Babies we got our asses kicked today huh??!

I knew it was coming, I knew but that doesn't make it hurt less. As a matter of fact it hurts worse because I loved book Rhaenys and sure they changed and butchered her character somewhat in the show but that was Grandma and I loved her. I need Vhagar and Aemond dead bro. I'm not even playing I'm wishing for their downfall so hard right now. Rhaenys Targaryen was one of the greatest women in Westeros to ever live and stamp that. I'm not ready for the reactions of her family when they find out about her death. Baela, Rhaena, Jace, Corlys, Rhaenyra and the others just recently lost Luke and to lose her so soon after. I'll be sick. Her relationship with Meleys was so special to me. Meleys looking back at her for the first time during the episode and then taking her last look at her for the final time, I was in tears. I'll never get over this hurt. Her face when she realized that she wasn't going back home with Meleys and the fall 💔💔💔. I am not okay, I'm not okay. Rest in peace to them both.

Sunfyre I'm sorry you had that halfwit who barely knows his mother tongue for a rider even though that little nudge you gave him was actually super duper cute. Another one of my babies. Y'all don't think they rewrote the story to kill off Sunfyre because in the trailer for episode 5, Sunfyre wasn't shown.

Aemond I hate you! Living up to that kinslayer moniker. So we intentionally see him burn both his brother (honestly fuckin deserved and about time) and his dragon. Wonder how this is gonna play out, they better not give Aemond Baela's story arc. I'm so fuckin serious. That's it. I wanna fight.

Rhaenyra coming home to a tongue lashing was so satisfying. Jacaerys was fed up y'hear me. He was done. Her telling him about the song of fire and ice just like Vizzy T did for her warmed me a little.

Criston Cole shut the fuck up challenge. It happened years ago, it's time to let that hurt go. They let that old man read him for filth and spit on him just for me.

Alicent being potentially pregnant and having to take medieval plan b or is it medieval abortion medication is so funny to me. I wonder how crybaby Cole would take the news of her potentially getting rid of the child? It's gonna be a mess.

Jacaerys was angry this entire episode and I don't blame him. Why in a room full of adults with battle experience/tactics for the war to come does he and Baela have to act like the adults. On top of that his queen, the one who they're fighting for is just taking unnecessary stupid risks and not thinking like a leader. I'd be irritated asf too. The black council aside from a selected few are just a bunch of bickering childish idiots. Both him and Baela were tired. Baela and him stepping up and leading the council was so good. They literally fed us what could've been had they had a chance to rule. Westeros was robbed. Baela proving she's just as worthy as Jace is just *chefs kiss. One thing I could say about my boy is that he knows Baela could hold her own, she's proved it but he will never ever under any circumstances let anybody feel that they could dismiss her or disrespect her. Him letting that one goof know it's because of her they have actual information on some of the greens army and acknowledging her contributions, yeah they would've been both sat the throne. Ain't nothing like she's just a queen's consort with no power. They would've been co rulers fr. Him comforting her publicly when they brought up Daemon in front of the council no less, like he doesn't play about her. That's the kinda guy you want to be locked in for life with. Rhaenys looking on in the background was a parallel to the first time they held hands during the funeral and she came up to them and she peeped the same thing she peeped then. I know she knew that Baela was in great hands. 😭😭😭 Never beating the best couple in Westeros allegations.

They black council talking about Daemon probably having an orgy LMAOO, he's getting fucked alright. That man has not had one moment of peace since he stepped foot in spooky town and it's what he deserves. Laena being beautiful and haunting his ass, period boo and baby Rhaenyra wearing older Rhaenyra's clothes and the crown that was too big for her tiny head (symbolizing it was/is a burden) and tormenting him. Yeah I'm gonna have that on repeat.

Rhaenys already knowing Adam and Alyn are Corlys children before flying to her death and her informing him and that sweet scene with Alyn, I think she learned her lesson after the whole debacle with Laenor and his boys. That's growth. Wish we could've had more of that development on screen but what can we do.

It was honestly a solid episode. I'm exhausted this was probably a review too long and if you stuck around till the end thanks for reading my thoughts ❤️. Sunfyre, Meleys and Rhaenys didn't deserve that. Sending hugs.

[animentality]

when people say no kink at pride they dont mean leather daddies (an integral and almost entirely gay scene) they means people walking their spouses in nothing but a thong, cup and a collar.

I mean I'm not personally into it, but I also think that a huge part of pride is saying sex isn't something to be ashamed of. So I don't care.

Bring your whips. Bring your sexy outfits. Don't be ashamed of something that doesn't hurt people (non-consensually of course).

You might say think of the children... but come on now.

Children starve to death. They get murdered. Children get beaten by their parents. They get blamed for every mistake their parents ever made. They grow up feeling unloved and unwanted. They don't get school lunches and get shot in elementary schools. Children also masturbate and have sexual fantasies and they jump out of moving cars and they do more than adults will ever know.

Kids as young as 5 can know they're queer. Kids can know they're transgender before they even know what transgender is.

I fail to see how seeing some guys walking around in puppy dog outfits will irrevocably scar them.

Y'all act like people at pride are literally walking around with their buttholes exposed and penises erect and they're dripping with piss and semen and blood.

They're just walking around close to naked, and so what?

Why are you so ashamed and afraid and worried about kids seeing a human body??? So what if they're wearing leather straps. What the fuck does it matter???

I think the no kink at pride discourse is brimming with conservative dog whistles.

You think you can sanitize your way into acceptance?

Conservativism and Christianity is about control.

It's not about negotiation. They cannot be reasoned with.

Nothing will satisfy them but the natural biblical order of things.

Sex is something you have to be ashamed of. Your body is sinful. Pleasure is bad.

Why?

Because they said so.

Well fuck that.

And fuck the idea that we all need to dress in polo shirts and modest dresses!!!

LGBT people can dress however they like, so long as they follow those public indecency laws.

Homeless people have literally flashed me on the subway before. Naked people streak at sporting events.

Nothing you see at pride is any more scarring than that shit, which can happen any time!!!

that stuff is also illegal.

And it's illegal at pride too.

But squabbling over the small things like oh he's wearing a thong...I don't care!!!

Kids will not be scarred by seeing a big old ass.

Stop being ashamed of the human body!!!

[turnertable]

can I say something controversial after we just got done celebrating miles and Alex reuniting?

I think Milex is a cute ship, it is, they are an adorable pair. their chemistry is very sweet and they are like soulmates you can tell, be that platonic or not in y'alls opinions. I personally don't ship it (always been a mattlex girly myself, platonically talking). I do feel at times y'all do focus on the wrong thing with Miles and Alex. some of you lot love defending Miles and how he doesn't deserve to just be associated with Alex but please and I beg you, tell me truthfully you know Miles from his solo work and not from TLSP. there's few of us, I think Miles is great and his music is good, I saw him before AM live FFS but no I wouldn't know Miles without Alex. It's just a thing that will always exist and it's unfortunate I know but it's true. I also think documenting and cherry picking at specific moments that have literally no correlation at all to milex romantic moments and making them oddly sexual is fucking odd. like I'll give you the d, I wish you would: that's an innuendo, that's funny and you can make that sexual cuz they did. they act like an old married couple at times. the lentils joke about their bad habits for example, it's cute and domestic. it's fic material. I understand that, trust me but like sometimes they are just on coke and giggling like little boys over like bringing bread and crumpets to the studio and that's not an allegory for fucking each other (an actual real post someone made). please it's odd and fetishism of two men who are straight. I understand that being gay is still a taboo subject for some people from more oppressive countries and maybe at 14 when you found AM, milex was your first introduction to shipping culture and men being shipped together, that would be exciting to you. However the nuances of that is that it can cross a line to a degree where you aren't respecting the two real people. I was in the Dan and Phil fandom before they came out and we had an era called 2012 where Dan especially was on the defense constantly to a point where it was a taboo to us to talk about but through time, that defense became more empathetic with them coming out. we all grew up and that behaviour from when we were kids was not ok anymore and that frustration was valid. I have many straight friends who have felt that pressure to be part of the LGBT community in order to not be shamed and on the flip side, I don't even need to tell you how hard it is still for lgbtqia people to want to hide in the closet with all the problems we still as a society have to face.

what I'm trying to say is, these are straight men and it's ok for straight men to be affectionate with their friends, I know it may still be frowned upon in some cultures but we wouldn't have am without a close bond between the lads. we wouldn't have TLSP without miles and Alex being best friends. i don't think milex is wrong, plz do what you want, draw your porn art if you want, write fics upon fics but plz just think about why this makes you so happy and understand the true consequences on what you say because you could be upsetting the gay community around you by being elated that miles can kiss his friend on the cheek. let boys love each other platonically or not, it doesn't matter. If Alex or Miles came out tomorrow, I'd support them, it's just something to think about.

Plus it's ok for teenagers and younger people to see what the boys do and want that, that's valid and I hope you have fun. There's a point where you may realise that something you said was a kid that you don't agree with and that's part of growing up, I know (hence the dnp rant). I see this now as an adult and think of that as crossing a line by prying at someone's sexuality cuz that's not mine to know and I don't know that person in real life. However if you are like a long time monkeys fan in your late 20s, early 30s, please consider what you're doing and re-evaluate what this means to you because maybe it's not just Alex and Miles that make you feel this way and that's not healthy: that's a parasocial relationship you've held for so long you don't know any different.

[ilikeyoshi]

like that last post was just one example but more generally it is SOOOOOOOO annoying watching ppl my age acting like kids are stupid crybaby assholes about everything. like at this point even one off jokes about teenagers piss me off bc they perpetuate and normalize this idea that nothing teenagers do or feel is real or matters and it's like. do NONE of you remember the absolute misery of being dismissed as a stupid asshole by Every Adult Ever. like did y'all just forget. is this a "well i got treated like shit so now you gotta too" thing. i know it isn't because i know SO MANY OTHERWISE DECENT PEOPLE who do this.

like! "is it fuck you i suffered now you do too" doesn't explain it because most of the ppl i'm thinking of simply don't operate like this. "is it the fact i'm autistic and will still suffer this kind of dismissive belittling my whole life that makes me hyperaware of this?" doesn't explain it because most of the ppl i'm thinking of are autistic too. i genuinely think ppl just fall into this stupid trap despite how CONFIDENT they were that they never would. it's so infuriating bc i didn't do that??? i saw the fucking hole and went, "absolutely not"????

anyway if i could wish for anything it'd be for ppl my age to stop saying stupid shit about kids and teenagers forever. even jokingly most of the time bc i'll tell you a secret: i can't tell the difference! and if ppl can't tell the difference you're probably a little too close to perpetuating the issue! thanks

[user5726816393]

Please Do Not Read Unless I'm Dead - Seriously

This is going to seem dramatic, but even with being more attentive and changing my diet, my body still feels awful. Its only been like two days or so, but I get this sinking feeling its only gonna get worse and I've had to really consider my mortality. This really could be it. No matter how seriously I try to turn my life around, my liver might just fail me outright, and that's curtains. Show's over.

I'm not gonna just give up and die. Dying fucking terrifies me. There's so much left I want out of life. But I'm also definitely not going to be happy if I act like I know I'm gonna get through this and then abruptly kick the can. I don't think anyone's going to the trouble of regularly checking up on this 'whenever-I-feels-like-it' online journal. But if I do bite the dust and you're reading this, please share it with the rest of my loved ones.

To Mom: I'm sorry I went on ahead. I'm sorry for all the time I spent not taking life more seriously. I'm sorry I didn't take my health more seriously. I'm sorry for saying sorry so much. We didn't always see eye to eye growing up. And honestly, you weren't always right. Even now, I can confidently say that you were wrong some of those times. But I understand that almost everything you did for us, you did out of unconditional love. In the end, it was to have us live happy and fulfilling lives. I look back on my childhood really fondly. Growing up, I had been kind of embarrassed, thinking we were poor and didn't have much. But looking back on it now, I understand that you gave us everything. Truly, we wanted for nothing. Big family trips, Christmas morning, pets, allowances. We had it all because you worked your ass off for it. From before we got up, until after we got home from school, and through the weekends at times. You provided, you showed us so much love, and I had a great life and turned out a pretty good person because of it. Thank you, so much. Love you omma.

To David and Karen: I was a pretty shitty brother growing up, and I think I spent my adult life trying to make up for that with you guys. I don't know if I have. It's not really up to me to decide. I hope now that I'm gone, you guys could find it in yourselves to forgive me, or whatever else properly gives you closure. If shutting the door on our relationship and forgetting me accomplishes that, then do that. I'd just like to act like a big brother one last time, if this is the last thing you guys hear from me. Be good to mom. Go read her portion if you wanna see why. It took too long into my adult life to really appreciate that. She loves and is proud of us, all of us, unconditionally. In the very truest meaning of that word. I promise you that. I wish I spent more time with y'all. I wish I was a better brother. But I'm gonna do one last selfish thing, and ask that you guys be a force for good in the world. It's hard. Everything is fucked up. But I hope you can bear it and push on through. I love you guys. Live happy, fulfilling lives.

To the Boys (and Girls): Y'all, I done fucked up. Joking about my health bit me in the ass after all. I was ready to go into this making a bunch of jokes, because at some point in the past few years, I'd come to terms with the fact that our friendship was just about having fun. It was wrong to expect y'all to be my therapists and have rather heavy, vulnerable conversations with y'all. Our friendship wasn't really about that, and that would have been more stressful on the group anything meaningful or productive. But it doesn't mean that our friendship wasn't meaningful. You all showed your support and that you cared in other ways. Sometimes, the best things friends can do is just be there, being present and showing you cared. And I felt that. I knew if shit were to go down, y'all would have my back. I think fist fighting another group of assholes would have been a good bonding moment for us. I had some of the best laughs and most fun in my life with you guys and gals. Pour one out for your boy from time to time. Non-alcoholic though, cause you know, bad liver and all. Also, please wipe my browser history and destroy my hard drives, thanks.

To the Temple Fam: You guys weren't like a second family to me, you were my second family. Y'all are so blindingly bright and positive and good hearted people that I was embarrassed to be standing next to y'all. Honestly, it kind pissed me off how perfect you guys were. Lowkey kinda pissing me off thinking about it even now, haha. But despite all of that, I have never felt more welcomed and uplifted by others in my entire life. You were the warmth, and joy, and love I wanted to emulate into the rest of my life. I was a pretty angry, bitter teenager growing up and I genuinely think that if it weren't for the overflowing love, support, and sense of belonging you guys so generously shared with me, I wouldn't have turned out as good of a person as I think I am today. Never ever change, you guys.

To Everyone Else: I can't do personalized notes for everyone. Its too much. Honestly, it would be too much to even just name everybody. But I hope I carried myself as a person who appreciated the bond I had with you. I'm ultimately a really reserved person, but I really appreciate the shared experiences I have with people, even if ever so briefly. Every little bit of kindness, of mentorship, of just relating to me as another living being, with a world of complex thoughts and emotions has had a part in shaping who I turned out to be in the end. And in a sense, I hope some tiny part of me lives on through you all.

Thank you all for everything. I wouldn't say that I have no regrets, but I lived a very good and happy life thanks to you. I would gladly live this life with you all over again. Live well.

[questioningespecialy]

hope someone stabs you on your way home you fucking pedophile

Let's start from the beginning. (do not harass)

edit: Jesus fuck, I've gotta fix these screenshots. For now, they've all got image descriptions and look fine when you click 'em. Done

This is a redacted copy-paste of my reblog at 2:26pm.

This is their response to my reblog, 18 minutes later.

This is their followup response to my reblog 20 minutes later.

A minute later, they (because of course it's them) sent me the Ask.

And finally, this is their follow-followup response 23 minutes later.

...So~ wth?

I think I should, like, say~ something~? Like, appropriate~? And not immature~?

This is gonna be more of a general post to people who think it's okay to tell someone to kill themself (holy hell) and, I guess, keep things from getting misunderstood.

First of all,

it's pretty frickin' irresponsibly childish to tell another person to commit suicide. Like, there's no telling how bad their day was, how much that could ruin their mood (and ability to function), or how close they are to that point. Fuck "jokes". That's childish at best.

But here's the thing,

I assumed a person who'd say something like "hang/kill yourself" is just a (childish-ass) kid who doesn't understand wtf they're saying or the affect it can have. Nevermind consequences. That's benefit of the doubt talking (for the most part), and I could be wrong. But let's assume I'm not. Let's assume this is just a (pre-)teen-ass person tellin' a "funny", though. Why? 'Cuase that's what I do when I see mofos talkin' waifus online. "Must be a kid." 'Cause, let's face it, the alternative's not great. At all. Am I correct in that assumption, though? Like, most of the time? ...possibly 😐

Remember that Reddit post

about how a buncha people who got auto-banned from a sub for participating in a teenage sub turned out to be in their 30's+? o_o And they even provided proof. 😑 Yeah, I'm sure that happens. But just like certain arguments online, I tend to lean towards the "they're 14" assumption. Nothin' against 14 year-olds as a demographic in this regard ('cause i know y'all here). There's just... a mentality and understanding that develops as your brain develops and you find yourself in certain shoes. iow: y'all immature 🤷🏿‍♂️

And that brings me to the other matter:

pedophiles. "Some" of these mofos are 20+ year-olds fantasizin' and lustin' over underaged characters. And that's its own issue that I'm not even tryin'a get into beyond what I already said.

But wait,

why did I censor this rude-ass harasser out in every image? Well, I was curious to get some kinda confirmation on their age (and mentality)... so I kept scrollin'. All I'mma say is 1) they claim to be in their late teens and 2) they clearly aren't doin' well mentally. Like, they ~just might be the kinda person who's too close to that edge to endure online harassment. Ya feel? And I don't need that shit. Fuck y'all. And fuck them especially. Movin' on.

Ah, and I should clarify something.

Whether we like it or not pre-teens are gonna engage sexually with eachother. Hopefully, it's consentual (and enjoyable for all parties involved). Whether or not they're doing it as a byproduct of trauma is honestly between them, their therapist(s), and whoever they're close to. All that is to say that kids, like adults, can be into some wild/weird shit. It's called sexuality. Whether or not they should act on it, especially at that age, is different conversation.

But wait, you still haven't explained yourself.

Well, I feel like I already did as much explainin' as I need to tbh. Just in case y'all didn't catch it, though... my original reblog was directed at underaged people who were into Asuka. fuckin' duh

. . . But why'd you reblog in the first place

considering their addendum? 'Eh, that don't even matter at this point.

[grimandghoulish]

Y'all...

[thejustmaiden]

So out of nowhere I was tagged and quoted by a SR shipper for a blog of mine posted in August of last year. Talk about throwback but, hey, gotta appreciate that level of snooping. 😉

Back in the day I actually used to encourage discourse amongst Inuyasha fans- both shippers and antis alike- but I've since realized that it's a lost cause. But for you, @feministmetalgreymon , I'll grant this exception. Just 'cause it's been a while so why the hell not. haha

I want to assure you, however, that nothing you say will ever convince me that Sesshomaru and Rin are meant to be together romantically or that the story intended it so. Nor will you find any validation here. You can ship them for all I care, but please for all that is good and holy while I have your attention try- I mean really try- to understand why it is so many of us Inuyasha fans are so against this pairing in the first place (newsflash: it's not about ship wars), and why we believe a romance between the two of them is completely and utterly out of character.

For those of you interested in reading this, the blog of mine in question that the above shipper mentions in their counter-argument is here for reference. It's titled "Jaken = Rin's Dad?" I'm going to try and keep this short, but I'm also making no such promises. After all, I'm not exactly known for my brevity. haha Now let's get crackin'!

Like you, feministmetalgreymon, did for your recent blog here where you took screenshots of mine to address certain parts, I will be doing the same and dissecting yours accordingly.

[Snippet 1]

I worked with kids for many years as a teacher, and many people in my family have too or still do. Two of them happen to be just over 5 feet which is quite short for the average adult woman living here. I've also worked alongside many a women of short stature, and never did I hear any of them complaining of issues with their students having difficulty differentiating them from their own peers just because they were short as well. I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous. Kids are quite smart and pick up on a lot more than you seem to give them credit for. Height is not the only characteristic they look at to determine who's an adult and who's not, and it's foolish to suggest otherwise. So unless you're a babysitter who's still in their teens and/or who has very childlike features or behavior then I'm afraid what you're getting at is total hogwash. This is just another example of how you shippers offer nothing of real substance to your reasoning, it's only ever cherry-picking or strawmanning from you guys. Stop deflecting from the real issues please, because this certainly isn't one and only winds up being a complete waste of time for all parties involved.

[Snippet 2]

Okay, calm down now. I wasn't insinuating that relationships between parents and children can't change over time in terms of how they get along. Of course that's possible, as all families experience their fair share of estrangement and abuse. What I was speaking about was in reference to the overall dynamic between the two. Because a bad mother or father can still be viewed as a parental figure to their child even if say they're not in said child's life anymore. Since Sesshomaru and Rin share a healthy bond- and just a friendly reminder that in my blog I even said that he doesn't have to necessarily be labeled her father but that a romantic relationship later would still be inappropriate- I didn't deem it necessary to address what you brought up. Plus, it kinda, umm, misses the point?? Please, let's stay on topic. And it's not captured in the screenshot, but stop acting like there isn't a small part of them that idolizes their parents at some point during childhood. Just like you mention later on how it's normal for kids to have innocent crushes on adults that they eventually grow out of? Well, guess what, the same concept applies here. Kids eventually learn that their parents are far from perfect and make mistakes too. Rin is so damn young in the OG series though that we never even get to see her reach that maturity level.

[Snippet 3]

LOL! Alright, okay, so the "unbreakable bond" bit you're mentioning was actually me quoting you sessrinners. Did you not catch that? I literally spelled it out. *sigh* The whole point I was making is that shippers like yourself make hypocritical and contradictory statements all.the.goddamn.time. One moment you guys claim that Sesshomaru and Rin were essentially strangers and meant very little to each other, only to say in the same breath a few seconds later that they were destined to be together and their bond is like no other. I agree, their bond is special, but why must that mean they're going to fall in love?

That is the root of the matter here. Too many animes/mangas have romanticized this older adult man & young girl growing up falling in love trope that it's become way too normalized and widely accepted across the world- and yes, in some cultures more than others. Sadly, you lack the awareness to recognize how this all works. You know how we know that? When we see that you shippers are so desensitized to sexualized images of girls in the media that you share posts like this one below which *subtly* imply a future romance although one half of that pairing is still just a child in the pic and then try and pass it off as cute. That's like super fucking problematic and it scares me that you can't see that (or deny you do). 🤢

After all that's said and done, Sesshomaru leaving Rin in the village with Kaede is to me the strongest indicator more than pretty much anything else he's done for Rin that proves he is her adoptive father. It's so funny to me how you somehow see the exact opposite though. 🤔 What I think is happening is that you got yourself on some squeaky clean ass shipper goggles fresh out of your little echo chamber. Because I hate to tell you, but what you're fantasizing is what you want to see and not what's actually there on screen or was written into the story. I'm strictly talking about Inuyasha and the manga of course. [For the TL; DR version skip to the last paragraph.]

Parents looking after their kids is what parents are supposed to do. A good parent will do anything to keep their child safe and ensure they are cared for, so what he did for her by leaving her there was in her best interests clearly. Besides, as a babysitter, you more than most people should understand that parents aren't always able to be there for their kids so sometimes others gotta step in to help. Haven't you heard of the saying, "it takes a village to raise a child?" Which in Rin's case is literally true! 😂 Sometimes kids are even sent off to stay with grandparents and that's who raises them instead. Or maybe they have to temporarily live with an aunt or uncle because their single parent's job requires they work out of town 4-5 days of the week so they're hardly home. But that doesn't mean that the parents care or love their kids any less, and it's foolish to assume that Sesshomaru must have thought very little of Rin simply due to the fact that he made the decision to leave her in the village. Come on, y'all are acting like he abandoned her there!!

It's just given the circumstances Sesshomaru finally came to learn that Rin traveling with him was no longer safe. I also like to think it's because he wished for her to live a more normal life and to learn how to fully trust humans again. Plus, continuing to travel with him as young as she was would have proven dangerous and unwise. Now for you to know all this and still manage to turn his past actions towards her while she was just a child into a romantic gesture is what boggles my mind. Regardless of how you look at it, from my perspective or your own, Sesshomaru is in the wrong. Either he's a father figure who impregnates his daughter at the young age of approximately 14. OR he's this man she used to travel with who maybe isn't a father to her but who nonetheless basically rapes her since kids her age can't consent to sex with an adult. Idk about you but it sounds to me like nobody here wins with either scenario we're given. In other words, you should be just as mad as we are. If only one side didn't choose to forsake their morals they know we both have in common for the sake of a ship. Welp. 🤷‍♀️

I agree, incest is disgusting but that's not the only problem we have with this pairing. A romantic bond forming between Sesshomaru and Rin would also constitute as grooming.

You realize that over the years he visited her in the village that he brought her gifts too and essentially watched her grow up right before his very eyes, right? I mean, I know you do, but I really shouldn't have to explain further why pursuing a romantic/sexual relationship with each other is plain and simple wrong. And before you say it's not because he didn't have any malintent, please understand that considering their history and power dynamic up to then that yes this is still considered grooming even if Rin supposedly "wanted it" or "made the first move." Whether you consider him her father or not, as the adult who took on a role resembling that of a caretaker in her early life- a critical developmental time for a child- Sesshomaru is obligated to turn down any advances by Rin and most definitely should not initiate any himself. As the first close adult figure she's had in her life since her parents died, it's unfathomable to imagine how Sesshomaru could go through with taking advantage of this young girl who was under his care and supervision since they met. To think he could be capable of betraying that trust sickens me to the core.

This. Now THIS is how a parent/guardian or a similar adult caretaker (babysitter, teacher, etc.) talks to a child. And, in turn, this is how some young children talk to adults. You'd be insane and delusional to deny it! We see it in our everyday lives, do we not? From where else do you think our stories draw most of their inspiration? Yes, obviously these fictional universes have aspects of fantasy that don't exist in the real world, but so how then do you suppose we're able to relate to them? The reason for that being is because these stories are written by people for people, so naturally there are going to be real life aspects embedded throughout. Sure, a little escapism doesn't hurt as we don't need to take everything so seriously, but ultimately we all need to recognize that the messages in the stories we tell matter. Most stories possess a combination of both light and dark themes, but when it specifically comes to the latter we gotta be careful with how we tackle this in children's media since kids are far more impressionable.

So if at the center of a story we have two of the main protagonists whose mom is basically their same age and to top it off she knew their dad when she was just a girl and who just so happened to help raise her, wouldn't you say that's beyond fucked up or at the very least so fucking weird? Like why would we think it's even remotely okay for our children to watch this garbage?? Really think about it. Try and be objective for once and think about how it would sound explaining this storyline to an outsider who's never watched IY or HNY. Well, antis have tried this before many times and we always get the same reaction: Ewww!

Like I said earlier, if you wanna ship it then fine, but 1) please stop seeking our approval or trying to change our minds - your ship wish came true didn't it, so why do you need us to validate it? 2) even though it's not canon, respect that we don't support this sequel portraying pedophilia in a positive light. It's harmful af to not only allow but glorify the continuation of sexualized images of young girls everywhere. And I shouldn't have to say this, but just because this trope is popular as you say does not make it right. Lolicon themes in the media have been an issue forever and it needs to stop. Yes, even some people in Japan or "the East" would agree. Shocker!

We're pissed off and rightfully so because Yashahime's TV rating is 14, not to mention it airs at the prime time kids in Japan watch TV after getting home from school. That's Towa and Setsuna's age, true, but if Rin being the mom when she's like only a year older than them (please don't argue w/ me about the math- antis have so far been right every time with it) is straight-up disgusting and not something we should be supporting or endorsing. Rin's a whole ass child!! Please don't start with the "but times were different then so her having kids at 15 is acceptable" argument either, because we've already debunked that and every other single excuse you guys throw at us. Besides, how or why would you expect young viewers to know these historical "facts" anyway, especially if as you suggest fiction doesn't affect reality so what does it matter? Yet here we are, arguing over a fictional show in real life almost a year and a half into the "Sesshomaru fucks?" sequel being announced. My ass, your ass, hell all our asses fiction doesn't affect reality!

Look, I do apologize if the tone of this blog came off as snippy or condescending at times. I do not wish you any ill will, it's just I'm not really sure what you expected to get out of all this besides maybe getting on my nerves perhaps. haha A lot of you shippers have been desperately scrambling to interact with us, lurking in our tags, jumping onto our posts screaming canon and getting so defensive even though you sought us out first. We've been sticking to our tags, so how about you stay in your lane too. By the way since we're on the topic, have you seen Twitter or Reddit?! SR shippers there are the actual worst and many Inuyasha fans (not just antis) have complained of not feeling welcomed to engage in fandom spaces anymore. Shippers swarm them and scare them off simply because fans don't like your ship and refuse to accept it. It's pathetic, really. No one should ever be bullied or harassed just because they don't like something you might. We're all fans of Inuyasha, aren't we? So let's act like it. Yashahime on the other hand, you guys are welcome to that pungent heap of trash. Fans have a right to criticize it too, but if you like it then good for you, so keep on liking it and don't mind us.

I'm almost done, but real quick back to Jaken! Let's not forget about how the official Yashahime website- which came out after my blog, mind you- described Jaken. This translation isn't the best one available but it's the only version a fellow anti friend could track down. They do recall a better one done by a native Japanese speaker who was also an anti, and that member confirmed that Jaken is indeed called Rin's babysitter. So you see, I was right in my interpretation. In the original post I did compare Jaken to a brother, but after talking to others (some comments can be found under said post) I did acknowledge that he's more of a reluctant babysitter who's not related. And if he's not at least a brother to Rin, then he's definitely not her father.

At the end of the day, the creator Rumiko Takahashi has the final word. Which is guess what? Hogosha. 💖 Probably should've just started out with that and saved us all the trouble, huh? Good day/night to you.

Papamaru bids you adieu now. 🤞

[headoverheelsforramsey]

I'm yours 🥰♥️😍

Another Senator

Book : Open Heart (set post book 3)

Pairing : Dr. Ethan Ramsey x F!MC (Dr. Meera Bose)

Summary : It's been half a decade since the attack on Senator Farrugia but worry and anxiety descend on Ethan when another Senator seeks medical attention at Edenbrook.

Category : Angst with fluffy ending

Warnings : A few swears as usual and mentions of the maitotoxin incident.

Rating : General

Word Count : 1560

Tropes : And they were Fighting 

Prompt : #70 "Don't hurt yourself again..." & 100 "I'm yours." from 101 Ways to Say I Love You

A/N : Look who is back from the dead and posting a fic after 4 long months! Have been blessed with writing inspiration lately so hopefully can get back to regular posting! I am participating in @choicesmonthlychallenge 's March challenge day 18 : awkard moments and using @wackydrabbles prompt 138 : the things I do for love. All the prompts will appear in bold. Hope y'all enjoy this one. Happy Reading! ♥️

"Clear as day!" Meera smiled looking up from the biopsy report. "Good job team, Kevin, how do we proceed now?"

"Chemo? Radiation therapy?" Kevin replied.

"I can get in and try to scrape off as much as possible," Harper cut in. 

"Yeah but you might scrape off a few good nerves as well."

"Who told you that chemo and radiation won't do that?"

Meera's gaze flits over to Tobias who seems mentally unavailable in the conversation and deep in concentration on his phone. 

"Dr. Carrick, am I keeping you from something? Or do you care to give us some food for our thoughts?" Meera says, resulting in complete silence in the room. 

Tobias looks up from his phone a little uneasy, "I think we should arrange a consult with oncology first and then go on from there." He paused, "but it doesn't matter because y'all should check your emails first," he passed his phone over to Meera. 

"Apparently the chief wants us to drop the case immediately," Harper said looking from her own phone. 

"Fuck the chief," Meera shakes her head gathers her things and prepares to leave.

"Well you do that literally…" Kevin stops mid sentence receiving a well known look from all his other teammates. 

"Harper, Tobias, talk with oncology and look into setting up a consult," Meera said. "Kevin, I want you with the patient's family and I want no paparazzi disturbing the hospital's work."

"But what about Ethan's orders?" Harper asked. 

"I'll deal with that, but just know that I am not giving up this case," Meera walked out of the room. 

"Well Ramsey is in danger," Tobias remarked. 

Meera stepped into the admin floor and went straight for Ethan's office. His assistant tried stopping her, but Meera was ready to tackle the middle aged woman to the ground if necessary. Lucky for both of them Margaret decided to step aside and let Meera in. 

"Dr. Ramsey, we need to talk," she said storming into his office. 

Ethan looked up from the presentation his visitors from a pharma company were displaying. "Dr. Ramsey-Bose, always a pleasure to have a word with you but I am in the middle of something right now," Ethan smiled teasingly gesturing to his surroundings. 

"I need to talk to you now!" 

"Okay give me ten minutes?"

"No."

"Five?"

"No."

"Fine," Ethan pinched the bridge of his nose, "the things I do for love," he muttered under his breath, "gentlemen I am afraid we will have to continue this sometime later," Ethan shook the hands of the three men and showed them out of his office.

"Well now, how can I help you?" Ethan stood facing Meera, a little too close on purpose. 

Meera took two steps away from him to prevent herself from channeling her anger into something that would end up with their clothes on the floor. 

"Why are you acting like this?"

"Acting like what?"

"Like you are fucking innocent and you didn't send us the mail ordering us to drop the case."

Ethan went over to his desk and sat down, "take a seat Rookie, let's sit down, and calmly discuss this like adults okay?"

Meera looked at the visitor's chair skeptically, frowning at the distance Ethan's wide desk would put between them. She went over to Ethan's side, pushed everything aside from the desk, and made herself comfortable on the desk.

"Hey! That's weeks of my paperwork in there," Ethan exclaimed at the scattered paperwork and stationery.

"And this is months of my and my team's hardwork!"

"Look Rookie, you know how I felt about you taking this case from the very beginning. You knew how I couldn't stop thinking about what happened the last time a senator was admitted under the diagnostic team."

Meera rolled her eyes, "that was half a decade ago!"

"Yet is there any guarantee that history won't repeat itself? I can't bring myself to think about living a moment with a plastic barrier between you and me or living with the thought that I might lose you."

"So this is all about you? All about what you want, what you can and what you can't? And I am just a puppet in your play? You didn't even stop to think what I wanted?"

"You said you wanted to solve the mystery, and given the competence of you and your team I knew the diagnosis won't take much time and now when we have a diagnosis…'

"Wait a minute, how did you even know that we had an answer? I myself saw the biopsy report just a few minutes back."

"I am the chief of medicine Rookie, I have eyes and ears in every corner of my hospital."

"Ofcourse you do," Meera muttered shaking her head. 

"Look Meera," Ethan took Meera's hand in his, " I don't want to tempt fate, I knew if the senator wanted answers for his mystery illness he could only receive it here. And we have answers, but we don't necessarily have to treat him. The man has money, there are lots of leading oncology hospitals who will welcome him. It just doesn't have to be you or us or Edenbrook."

Meera lets out a long sigh retrieving her hand from her husband's she begins, "the man is diagnosed with stage three metastatic brain cancer, which has spread from his brain to his spinal cord and maybe to his nerves and neurons as well. Yes there are a lot of leading oncology hospitals and a lot of leading neurology hospitals all over the world but you and I both know that none of the hospitals have equal strength over both the departments. No hospital can put Dr. Harper Emery and Dr. George McAllister on one team."

Meera gets down from the desk, Ethan unable to meet her gaze. 

"I understand you are trying to protect me, you are trying to do your part, but you are not doing it right. Put up more security, have the police, fire department and bomb squad on your speed dial, heck start reasearch for unknown toxins already do whatever you need to do on your part and let me do my part." Meera completes with a humourless smile and strides out of her husband's office, Ethan still unable to look upto his wife's retreating figure. 

"Dr. McAllister please…" Tobias stops midway as Meera enters the conference room. "Any luck?" she asked.

"Dr. McAllister doesn't want to disobey the Chief's order," Harper puts down her head, dejected. 

"Look Dr. Bose, I am as intrigued as you are but this is going to be a huge surgery not to mention a huge deal for the hospital as well, if I don't get everybody on the same page, it'll be difficult. So tell me the chief changed his mind and I am yours," Dr. McAllister looked upto Meera. 

Meera looked at the eyes of all the three doctors, everyone hoping for a positive answer.

She cleared her throat, "the chief actually… did n…"

"... did change his mind," Ethan interrupts, completing Meera's sentence. He went ahead and shook hands with all three of the doctors, finally extending his hand to Meera. Still not being able to believe what happened just now Meera shakes his hand. "Don't cry now," he said, dropping his voice to a whisper, so that only she could hear. 

"Dr. McAllister, Dr. Emery, whatever you need, any resources, any equipments, I am your guy. The diagnostic team will look over the progress and the paperwork of the case. I want y'all to make a small core team of nurses, interns and residents who will be involved in the case. The senator will be shifted to the farthest east wing of the hospital. There will be guards posted in front of his cabin, a metal detector will also be put up, the only visitors allowed will be his family. The core team will be on a toxin screening and closely monitored to prevent any accidents."

"Thank you Dr. Ramsey," Tobias said, smiling genuinely. 

"The pleasures all mine, now get to work people," Ethan grinned before leaving the room. 

"You heard the man, get to work and I will be right back," Meera said, unable to stop smiling. 

Meera jogged upto Ethan and pulled him into a supply closet. 

"Damn Bose, I think smooth was my middle name," Ethan said, locking the door behind him.

"No smartass is your first, middle and last name," Meera said, capturing Ethan's lips and deepening the kiss. "I am sorry."

"No, if anyone should apologise it has to be me Rookie, I was way out of line."

"That you were," Meera grinned.

"And you know what is the best way to apologise? Sex."

"There is a patient dying! Come back to your senses Ethan," Meera smacked his shoulder.

"Okay give me ten minutes?"

"No."

"Five?"

Meera looked at him confused. 

"Oh believe me five is enough to make your toes curl," Ethan said. 

"No!" Meera stepped away, "Listen, let me just frame out a treatment plan and then I'll come find you in your office," Meera placed her lips on Ethan's, sealing the deal with a kiss. "I'll be right back."

"Rookie," Ethan stopped her at the doorway, "just don't hurt yourself again."

Meera looked at the genuine concern all over Ethan's face, "you got it," she smiled walking out. 

Thank you so much if you have read till here, it means the world to me. Hope to see you go on other different adventures with me, Ethan and Meera, till then sending love and hugs your way! ❤️

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[voidsteffy]

Don't go around hating on a GROWN ADULT WOMAN for having sex. it is 2022! we need to stop SLUT SHAMING women for their sexuality! we don't know how old Park is and he is NOT her boss or her teacher! Nace is endgame anyway, let NANCY HAVE HER FUN!

Ah the infamous anon I have no obligation to respond to, but will anyway because this is so on the wrong track that it's hilarious.

Okay, first of all

Loga Landau made it clear from the starting that Nancy was a sexually active young adult (this in interview panel) and the viewers took it in stride because the writers have given the characters (especially women) their agency. We admire seeing a sexually strong and realistic female on tv for once without overly fetishizing her or making her clingy/needy. So not one of us— and I mean me and my pals at the Have A Nace Day and The Clue Crew servers— whether we like Nark/Park or not, is in the least slut-shaming Nancy for acting like a fucking human being.

[ If anyone is shaming anyone (real or fictional) for having sexual agency, then we're going to have some tough words with them. ]

Second of all

I would like to allude to this post which was posted at 7:09 pm IST on October 16th, 2021.

(Key points↴)

So it is Park I don't trust, because a man of Park's professional status and maturity is meant to be quite old (he certainly ain't a teen).

Nancy and Owen was a ship that bupkissed the bottom of the bathtub (pun intended) mainly because Owen was older than Nancy, not only in physical age but also in terms of all he's experienced, the power he held business and contact-wise and the level of maturity in his thoughts.

Same thing here, but Park's expertise and opinions bleed into their professional setting. There is a chasm in the dynamics and the fact that he is an official (no matter that he isn't her boss) spins the relationship into a very different light.

Our very own George fricking Fan started out as a broken young woman who found validation in a quite older (mature) married man aka pre-reformation Ryan Hudson. She of all people, knows how taxing and wrong a relationship between a young woman and a more powerful man is. We didn't like the fact that George was all smirky and "oh now you have two options so not fair Drew" about Park and Ace.

How many times do we have to say it? Park holds more power in this relationship because he is, technically, who Nancy has to report to/share with (as a detective, not a Community Liaison) for her cases.

The sense of validation Nancy wants to seek when with Park makes it an unequal dynamic, a bad one because Nancy - the usual powerholder - doesn't hold the majority with Park.

When Nancy slept with Gil, we had a problem not with her having sex but with the fact that she was sleeping with a douchebag who brought no good to her life. Our reaction was the reaction of a friend concerned for Nancy's well-being, not an orthodox monster hating her for having sex at all.

Third of all

If the endearing misunderstanding anon here doesn't follow my blog and my rants, then here is another reblog on my dash with my own thoughts and another post by my babe @bess-turani-marvin on why Park is sus as hell and he's not really the dynamic we're looking for right now. It was rushed, wrongly romanticized and made into a fairytale spin when what we looked for was some sort of conflict or reminder from Park's side. The fact that he didn't pull away for long from Nancy (unlike darling Tamura) indicates either our suspicions coming true or that he's being that kind of person.

If you like Park as a character, then good for you, you picked a good character to dream about. I am not dissuading anyone from liking Park (people do like suspenseful/grey characters). The purpose of answering this anon was to show y'all something that is necessary to be shown.

Listen, Agent Nelson Park is hot. We ain't blind, we see very well and appreciate that staring at his chin that can solve most of our problems. But he is sus, he holds more power in the relationship, he makes Nancy crave more of that validation that he readily supplies for some reason.

Thank you for giving me this opportunity anon. We've all been through a lot with the last episode and having your ask cleared multiple times in different words, from different users and in different ways must have been quite the ride.

Here, take a lollipop.

Toodles and have a nace day.

[mellometal]

Is it time to tear ANOTHER Dhar Mann video to shreds? YOU BET.

I've been sitting on this one for a bit because I wanted to make sure I talk about this tactfully. The subject of parents abandoning their disabled children is a very touchy one.

Parents abandoning their disabled children simply for being disabled is way too common. Like, I understand that not everyone has the resources to care for a disabled child (which is why you reach out for help, and why people like me, who work with disabled people, exist), but it doesn't mean you just walk out of their life. There are exceptions, like if you truly didn't want children or something like that, but just flat-out walking out of your kid's life BECAUSE they're disabled is fucked up.

I know someone personally whose biological mother abandoned her when she was born. Why? Because she's disabled. Physically, and mentally, to a point. I work with this woman on a daily basis. I don't really know WHY exactly her biological mother abandoned her, but I do know that her being disabled was part of it. It's sad. It doesn't affect her, thankfully. I'm happy that she's got her biological dad, her brother, and another maternal figure in her life, at least.

ANYWAYS. Before we get to the topic at hand, I need to put an obligatory trigger warning, like I do with EVERY Dhar Mann post:

This post will be talking about parents abandoning their disabled children simply for being disabled, treating disabilities like they're tragedies (in this case, we're talking about autism...again), divorce, and some SPICY ableist bullshit from an allistic (nonautistic) PIECE OF SHIT.

If any of this triggers you or makes you uncomfortable in any way, you don't have to read this post. This isn't worth putting yourself in a bad state mentally. I would never ask for any of you to put yourselves in that position all for a post. Put your mental health and well-being first. Consume media that sparks joy for you.

As far as my response goes, it's definitely more calm than normal. Funny....since this video is about autism spectrum disorder again. (Third time's the charm, huh, Dhar Mann? NOT.)

LET'S FUCKING GET IT.

The video starts off with these two parents (Gwen and Allen) in a psychologist's office. The psychologist tells the parents that their son (Chance) is autistic, and she tries to explain what autism is to the parents, but Allen cuts her off. Why? Because he teaches at a prestigious university, so he AUTOMATICALLY knows what autism is from that fact alone.

Um, excuse me? Just because you're a teacher at a prestigious university, it doesn't mean you're an expert in everything. It doesn't make you an expert in ASD or anything like that. Unless you SPECIALIZE in that area. Even then, shut the fuck up. The people who know about being autistic are AUTISTIC PEOPLE THEMSELVES! SHOCKER.

Hey, Dhar Mann! QUIT WITH THE VIDEOS ABOUT AUTISTIC LITTLE WHITE BOYS AND YOUNG WHITE AUTISTIC CISHET MEN! I'M SICK AND TIRED OF IT. It's annoying, ignorant, and it feels like you're doing this on purpose at this point to piss people off. If you're so uninformed about autism in women and girls, FUCKING ASK AUTISTIC WOMEN AND GIRLS! DO BETTER RESEARCH THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE AUTISM SPEAKS. The Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and the Autistic Women and Nonbinary People Network (AWN) are great organizations to go to for any kind of research on ASD in women and girls. STOP GOING OFF OF THE BRAINS OF AUTISTIC WHITE BOYS AND AUTISTIC WHITE MEN.

I don't feel I need to go too deep into the fact that autistic women, autistic girls, autistic nonbinary people, autistic BIPOC, autistic AAPI, autistic LGBT people, autistic teenagers, and autistic adults exist. Y'all already know.

Gwen asks the psychologist if that means Chance isn't healthy. (I understand not knowing about autism, but don't treat it like it's a terminal illness. Please.) The psychologist tells her that Chance is fine, but he just learns differently and might need more support compared to his peers.

Yeah, autism can affect how you learn about certain things (limited and repetitive patterns), but there are other disabilities that can affect learning as well. Like how dyslexia can affect your ability to read, dyspraxia can affect your ability to do math, and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can affect your ability to focus or on impulse control. Autism affects how your brain is developed, it affects you socially, behaviorally, and how you communicate.

Allen is upset, says that he can't have a son "with a learning disability" (ASD is a neurological disability, not necessarily a learning disability), and treats Chance like he's stupid for being autistic. Gwen tells her husband that autism doesn't make you any less intelligent, WHICH IS SO FUCKING TRUE. ABSOLUTE FACTS. I was totally with her until she began that little monologue with "Just because a person HAS autism". SAY "JUST BECAUSE A PERSON'S AUTISTIC" INSTEAD! IT'S NOT HARD. PERSON FIRST LANGUAGE ISN'T WHAT EVERY DISABLED PERSON PREFERS. Allen says that "they could have another kid" and "put Chance up for adoption". Gwen obviously wasn't down with that. Allen gives his wife an ultimatum that it's either HIM or their son Chance. Gwen says that she can't choose between the two, but she will stand by her autistic son. Allen gets up and leaves the office, saying he wants a divorce.

Years pass by, Gwen is single and taking care of her autistic son Chance, and Allen has a new life with a ✨perfect son✨ (Samuel). He never mentions the son HE abandoned (Chance). He's completely forgotten about Gwen and Chance. (YOU OWE SO MUCH CHILD SUPPORT, ALLEN.)

Hey, Allen, how much do you wanna bet that your ✨perfect son✨ Samuel is autistic too?

There's the SATs, they're announcing a winner, and guess who it is? IT'S OBVIOUSLY CHANCE, OF COURSE. He's got the highest score in the country, with Samuel in second place. Allen is PISSED.

Chance gives a speech about how his mom really helped him, he struggled with autism, how Allen LITERALLY ABANDONED HIM, and THE CROWD GOES FUCKING WILD. Samuel, instead of being a sore loser, APPLAUDS FOR CHANCE. Stay humble, Sam.

My thoughts on the video? If you cannot tell by my tone throughout this post, IT WAS DOG SHIT. This video was insensitive to the true reality of parents abandoning their disabled children just because they're disabled. What do I expect from Dhar Mann at this point?

Here's my response to his video below. Don't worry, I will fully type out my response soon for anyone who cannot read the screenshots easily. It's a lot easier for me to do that on the desktop site than it is for me to do it on my phone.

For anyone who can’t read my response, I’m typing it out for you. Like I said, it’s easier for me to type it out on the desktop site than it is for me to type it out on my phone. It’s a real royal pain in the ass. But because I’m trying to make my posts easier to read for people, I’m doing this anyway. /lighthearted

First, second, and third screenshots (broken up into paragraphs):

Hey, listen, I appreciate the message you’re trying to go for, but can you please stop putting autistic people into a box? Can you stop treating being autistic like it’s a tragedy? Not every single autistic person is a little white boy in elementary school who’s considered “wild and unruly” or “super quiet and makes no friends”, nor are they a young white cishet man who’s a super genius or is how Chris Chan was before she came out as trans. (For anyone who doesn’t know about Chris Chan, there are many documentaries people have made on YouTube, and I highly recommend Geno Samuel’s docuseries, if you’re really interested in learning about Chris Chan.)

Autistic women, girls, nonbinary people, BIPOC, APPI, LGBT people, teenagers, and adults all exist too. 

It’s very apparent now that you get your resources from Autism $peaks, a hate group that spends the vast majority of their money on funding eugenics instead of helping autistic people like they claim, claims that only little white boys and young white cishet men are autistic and ignores all other autistic people who don’t fit that description, have no autistic people on their leader board or on any board for that matter, have members who have actually fantasized about k1lling their autistic children, treat autism like it’s a tragedy or a disease someone can catch (completely false), act like autism should be cured (there is no cure, and ABA therapy is a total shit show in itself), and treats autistic people like they’re broken and need to be fixed. Also, not every autistic person is a Super Genius(tm). That’s so demeaning to autistic people who aren’t seen as intelligent in any way. I’m autistic and seen as smart; however, there are subjects I’m stronger in than others.

If you can’t handle the possibility of having autistic children, or just disabled children in general, DON’T HAVE CHILDREN. If you can’t handle working with or alongside disabled people, including autistic people, maybe find a different profession. Even if you do that, you’ll never get away from disabled people. Disabled people aren’t a disease. We’re human beings just like neurotypical and able-bodied people.

Fourth and fifth screenshots (broken up into paragraphs): 

I would highly suggest getting resources from reputable organizations for ASD, such as the Autism Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and the Autistic Women and Nonbinary People Network (AWN). Talk to any autistic person who isn’t a little white boy or a young white cishet man. 

Instead of using the puzzle piece, which is a symbol that many autistic people, myself included, are offended by (because of Autism $peaks and other organizations before them using it, plus it symbolizes that only autistic children exist and that we’re “missing a piece” like we’re broken), use the rainbow infinity sign (for all neurodivergent people) or the red and gold infinity sign (just for autistic people). Instead of “lighting it up blue”, light it up red or gold. Do both if you want. 

I’m actually really sick and tired of seeing just autistic little white boys and young autistic white cishet men being represented in the media, and y’all manage to fuck that up too. 

Before anyone mentions Sia’s movie “Music”, that’s also very poor representation of autistic girls. Besides, the actress who played the autistic girl isn’t even autistic. She MOCKED autistic people. I know she’s a kid, but that’s still super fucked up. I hope she’s able to turn that around. 

If anyone would like to discuss this topic with me or ask any questions, feel free to. I’ll answer as best as I can. Thank you and have a good night.

Before I get attacked for mentioning Chris Chan in my response, I bring up Chris Chan because allistic people think that every autistic person is like her (especially before she came out as trans). That person is part of why I wasn't open about being autistic or talking about my diagnosis until this year. I didn't want to be grouped up with Chris Chan because I do have very similar interests to her, I've been seen as cringey for having said interests, and just the way Chris treated autistic people who were formerly diagnosed with A$p3rg3r$ $yndr0m3 (like I was) really made me feel even more alienated.

Also, S1a supports A$ (Autism $p3aks). She's not a very good person to support. Some of her music is good, but her as a person....no. Her movie "Music" was gross, from what I've read about it and seen pictures of.

If you've read this far, thank you so much!

[stylowantssonicnow]

Well, I'm back. Not forever, as I'm sure Tumblr will get super boring super fast, and I'm certainly not gonna use this account. I'm really only here to talk about a couple things, a couple things that I feel are important. I've thought about this for...months, I'd say, so here we go:

I just wanna say; I'm sorry. I wasn't very big on Tumblr and god I hope it stays that way forever, but in any case that I hurt anyone that I unfortunately do not remember, I'm so sorry. I lied about myself, more importantly, I lied about my age. I was never an adult, and I'm still not. I'm only 17 currently, but that doesn't really matter. I told my closer online friends from Tumblr the truth in private and now I'm gonna say it here.

Me lying about my age was a disgusting and disingenuous act. I didn't consider how it would've hurt my adult friends, followers, mutuals, etc. What I did could've gotten them in trouble, and I didn't care. I don't want to say it was a ""mistake"" because it wasn't. It was a conscious decision I made because I was selfish. I'm so sorry for that choice I made. I hope everyone is doing okay, currently.

I realized that I had ADHD and was autistic. I've been to a psych ward. I did a lot of thinking about myself and evaluation. I'm...well I don't wanna say completely different person, because I'm still me, but I matured vastly over the past year. Vastly.

I'm leaving this account again, and I'm moving onto a new one with my new interests and stuff. I don't think I'm gonna tag it, because I just honestly don't want this world to find me. Like, fucking ever.

I moved onto new (or even old) fandoms completely.

I'm 100% not in the IZ fandom anymore.

When I left this blog, I was into IZ for a couple more months. Then, I moved onto Sonic, then Fairytail, now I'm over in the MHA fandom. It's actually my special interest, and I've been into it for over a year.

So, my new account is going to be centered around that.

Just like last post: thanks to all my followers, mutuals, and friends. Y'all were fun when we talked and interacted. <3

And, I want to say it again, I'm sorry for any harm I caused. Thank you all so, so much. I wouldn't have made the journey I did without my audience here.

[dabiboy]

Its the anon that sent a bible again XD i am not a teacher but i have taught my classmates amd juniors many times. I always found ways to explain things i even sound stupid sometimes, but as long as they get it is all good! So i don't understand how endeavour couldn't do something so simple

That's why i will say again, he didn't and still doesn't really care about the children. If he did he would pull the effort of teaching them how to use quirks without getting too much hurt, like you said, like Toshi does.

I do see the parallels people make between Touya and Deku, i do, Touya is what Deku and Shouto could have been. The difference was a simple act of kindness from someone.

Toshi took and still takes his time to care for Deku and teach him. He even contacted Gran Torino! Shouto had his friends and teacher, later his mom. He was already strong what he needed was an identity and not just be on endeavour shadow.

So it does hurt me a lot seeing baby Touya hurting, because i too, see what could have been done to help him. If you truly love and care for someone you will find away for them to feel well.

So yeah, it just hurts me how that child was hurt. He is still hurting i have the feeling he didn't grow up much mentally, he got stuck on the past.

But! Let's not forget, although WAS poor baby boy hurting, now he is a grown adult and knows what he is doing is wrong. He knows. He has conscious of what crimes he is doing, he is a bad person now. Just to be clear i feel bad for baby Touya, but i don't feel bad for Dabi, he is a bad person rotten to the core.

Thanks again for listening!!

Yes! It doesn't matter how you explain something or how silly it might look, the important part is for them to learn!

That's it. Kindness and love, that was all Touya needed not to be fucked up. His child persona deserved much better, that's true. Shoto had a net of support, especially when he realized that he is not his father's whish. But Touya just... Got lost in the way.

A g r e e . I know I write a lot of soft Dabi sometimes, but that's more the fanon side, cause the canon? Dude is blinded and crazy, and he gives a shit about everyone. I still like him as a character, I've been a huge fan of heroes a villains since I'm like five, and Dabi? He's a fucking great villain!

Anytime, I'm here to read and listen y'all 🥰