#bc one of those is romantic and i can get it

[thechy-fychannel]

Maybe i am too fanfic-brained but mutually possessive/jealous hilson. In the show house does get super jealous of anything wilson does romantically, lol.

Back to the point; the possession/jealousy would be toxic as fuck for anyone else, but for them it's positive and healthy because they are freaks!!! Freak4freak!!! Weird and fucked up "he loves me" thing!!!

also possessiveness in the bedroom. Nice.

This ask !!!! Yes pls!!!!!

Their jealousy/possessiveness over each other is something else, that's for sure. It's not necessarily healthy but neither of those two have ever done well with "healthy" ["patients don't want a sick doctor" "well I don't like healthy patients."] They are the definition of Freak4Freak and they need that intense obsessive kind of love in order to break past all that repression. When you build a wall of stone around your heart, it's going to take a pickaxe or a sledgehammer to get through it, it's not something you can softly ease into to. You can lean on those bricks all day long but they're not going anywhere without a fight.

Obsession is one of their love languages and I think we see it best in early s5 when wilson knows house is stalking him, so he uses it to his advantage to mess with him and make him think he's dating a hooker and is on hard drugs. That moment when house asks wilson how he knew he was being watched and wilson says "Cane prints in the snow" is so insane like they are insane! What an insane thing to notice??? CANE PRINTS in the snow. How long did House spend outside his apartment, pacing up and down the sidewalk while wilson was upstairs with a nice woman named Cheri or Holly or smth like that? Wilson probably made her some dinner and told her about how his best friend is downstairs stalking them right now, thinking they're up here having sex or something because he's so concerned but can't bring himself to act like he cares the way he does. And you know wilson was just so smitten about it, probably grinning ear to ear because house loves him so much that he would pace in front of his apartment in the snow and watch him for hours on end and hire someone to watch him when he can't. It was house's way of being there for him when he couldn't make himself be emotionally available. It's not rational or normal in the slightest but wilson saw the effort house put into keeping an eye on him from a distance and he reciprocated that effort by playing into his games and showing him that that love was received!!

Not to mention all of that happens after Birthmarks. Wilson spent the last 4 episodes swearing that he was done with house, only to be the one to drug and kidnap him bc if anyone was going to drag him to that funeral against his will, kicking and screaming, it was going to be him. There was something very possessive about it all, locking the child lock, trying to keep his cane from him, keeping house on a vicodin leash. The kind of control wilson can have over house because he's the only one who knows how to handle him is very 😵‍💫 yeah. Not healthy but exactly what they need. It's all about how much love they have for each other every single time they are feral and possessive and obsessed with each other.

And of course that would translate in the bedroom. If anything, it just gets worse once they're sleeping together because it's the easiest and most efficient way of showing their love for each other. Actually saying they love each other and don't want anyone else is much too complicated and scary, it is much easier for them to play psychosexual mind games and tease each other until one of them pulls the other into an empty room and releases that possessive energy onto the other. The easiest way for wilson to get a lil bit of house's attention is to simply stop the cute nurse in the hall and ask her where she got that pretty necklace from or laugh just a wee bit too loudly at a patient's joke as they're exiting the exam room. That's all it takes for house to sniff him out and get all twitchy about it. And when house wants wilson's attention, he starts whining about cuddy. Not whining that he wants her, whining about practically everything else, the tone she used, the demands she made, her attitude, the way she shrugged off his "compliments" about her ass. Because of course wilson will assume he's pining over her, that's the real reason he's complaining. Wilson gets himself all worked up about it until he's determined to show house that he's the only one he needs. And in those quiet moments after, they still don't have to say the words bc their actions spoke volumes. It's impossible to deny that they love each other when they spend all day long clawing at the walls for each other alfjalkg.

[therandomfandomme]

sometimes you hear a song and you're like what do you mean people are making ship edits to this?!?!????

[sukibenders]

Intersectionality is something that, sadly, is often pushed to the side in Arcane discussions, specifically from a certain side of that fandom. They will go on and on about Viktor, as they usually do, talking about how he suffers from classicism and ableism within the show and fandom respectively (as they should as these are issues, but there is a catch when it comes to these fans as well), but when others in the fandom, especially Mel or even Sky fans, point out the racism and misogyny (misogynoir) that is often rampant in this fandom, particularly from said fans mentioned prior, all of a sudden its not possible or being overdramatized. Like they suddenly can't understand how some of their rhetoric includes or invites the same thing black fans have been calling out since the beginning, because how can you discuss the ableism and such that Viktor faces, but laugh or joke around with people who call Mel slurs or just denounce her to a trope? I thought you were for calling out forms of hate within fandom, or does your "activism" only stretch so far? And back to a previous statement, about the catch regarding those particularly fans----some of them regurgitate the same harmful rhetoric towards Viktor that they say they supposedly hate, just in mode subtle ways. How are you going to say you hate when Viktor is infantilized, but will be quick to forget he's a grown man who can defend himself (often when trying to pair him against Mel, framing her as the aggressor, and sometimes even Jayce too but to a lesser degree)? Not saying Jayce doesn't get equal amounts of hate, but his more so gets pushed aside along with his character to ultimately frame Viktor in higher regard, often making him ooc. It's like they pick and choose when the issues are prevalent, and when they aren't, and it's so frustrating.

[baphometsss]

if i see one more post about how solas/mythal/elgar'nan had a weird love triangle thing going on i'm gonna scream

[kyu-piddy]

Celebration time 🎉

Happy 100 followers everyone! Thank you all for following my silly side blog, and for enjoying my work! To celebrate, I made a lil quiz to match you with one of the housewardens. Originally I wanted to do all characters but that would be a humongous task, so if this one does well, I might do a vice-house warden one later on.

Happy quizzing!

[angelsdean]

i'll be honest, i truly do not understand when people get all up in arms whenever anyone involved with spn describes cas's love for dean as beyond the human understanding of love, as if there haven't been posts made on here for years by fans literally describing cas's love for dean / destiel's love as akin to worship, a powerful force greater than god, cosmic, all encompassing, profound, etc etc. i thought the outrage was silly when jensen expressed the idea of cas's love being more than romantic back in denver con 2021 and i think it's silly now with these bedlund tweets. not to mention being more than and beyond something imo means it encompasses the romantic AND more. it's romantic, it's platonic, it's cosmic, it's worship, it's everything. and i think that's beautiful. and yes, it's exactly what their love is. a huge profound force that changed the narrative, that wasn't meant to be there, that kept breaking through anyway.

and i understand what people are saying about this language being used for a queer ship etc etc, but like, there's nothing inherently wrong or negating their love in saying that it's a greater love. if anything i think it's saying, hey, see these two? yea their love is bigger than what we can even comprehend. idk i'm just going to continue to take these statements in good faith. and also, until the reboot happens, they can't really say more about destiel beyond the bounds of the confession. jensen, bedlund, misha, etc can't speak to dean's feelings, for instance, or confirm anything one way or another, because if those feelings are a major plot point to be explored and acknowledged in the continuation then to speak about them now with any kind of definitive statement would be spoiling / jumping the gun, and it's not their place to make those statements yet, if we are indeed going to see more of dean and cas's story in the future (which i mean, at this point based on their statements about the reboot it's really a When not If situation).

[shoot-i-messed-up]

One of the hardest things about writing superlantern is figuring out what’s the deal with clois in this universe…they’re literally soulmates….why is clark with hal and not lois….

[altschmerzes]

getting real tired of people who are shitting on “found family” more generally as a narrative concept and specifically named familial dynamics in fan interpretation of characters in particular because it all seems to be getting painted with a really wide and really homogenous brush. “we need to take found family away from people because they think it all has to be In Nuclear Family Terms and do you know friendship exists and you don’t have to call these characters siblings to legitimize their relationship while making it clear you Don’t Ship Them Ew Gross and THEN you sneer at people who Do ship them” cool cool that is a lot of really intense characterization and assigning of motive to other people en bloc!

like sure there’s some meaningful critique to be found in a broad trend to label every single relationship directly and specifically with terms that have very specific contexts and roles but im waiting to be told when anyone IS by the standards of people making and reblogging these very sweepingly generalized posts allowed to call a relationship parental or whatever. is that Ever allowed. who is handing out the permits. sometimes a specific term for a relationship isn’t actually about wanting an excuse to sneer about your ship (and frankly there’s a lot of projection going on there imo from people who are actively sneering about other people’s interpretation of a relationship!) and it’s because there are very specific contexts and details about a dynamic that makes exploring it from the lens of siblings or whatever very rich and compelling and interesting because words mean things and assuming everyone is just being reductive and demanding conformity to a nuclear family is, ironically, really reductive.

so like. cool it. stop being really fucking mean about people having an interpretation of a dynamic you personally don’t like or makes you feel a little weird or uncomfy because you ship them.

[angy-grrr]

I try to not be hater, but then I see the stupid takes and get madddddd

This is just what I feel every single time I see those shitty opinions

[swordbreakerz]

Being aromantic and finding that out in ur 20s is soooooooo funny bc I met the 3 people I consider my soulmates (one of whom is now my qpp) in october of 2016, and both before and after this i dated a few people but as i grew closer and closer w this group and also came into my gender and sexuality over the yrs, id sometimes wonder why i didnt crave romantic fulfillment anymore, and not fantasize about having a long term bf or anything. It didn't really worry me? Like, I wasn't concerned about it, but I would go like huh wonder what's up w that. Oh well not my problem!, every now and then

And then thru making friends w a bunch of arospec folks I was finally like oohhhhhhhh it's because my emotional fulfillment needs are already met and these people and our friendship is an intrinsic part of my being and i love them more than i can ever hope to describe. Got it!

[meat-loving-meat]

Trying to make Vanyel and Staven’s relationship as unhinged and weird as possible

[waywardsalt]

there is undeniable opportunity to make bellum x linebeck fucked up but i dont have it in me. im a sucker for it just being fine with a side of like. light nautical crimes against nature but i cant make it toxic or w/e after a certain point. theyre chilling

[lesbianfrottage]

Okay but I need to be someone's beloved wifepet and belong to them completely and be able to pour my whole energy into just loving them. When will it be my turn!

[ayrennaranaaldmeri]

people with their fave's extra hours of dialogue and double the romance scenes claiming the char in question wasn't l*rian's writers' pet... I can't this is a stupid fucking hill to die on and that is objectively provable there is a reddit thread where someone literally did the maths. You are just wrong and you need to shut up.

[rearranging-deck-chairs]

things 10 does that make yaz feel like oh yeah this is her doctor alright: flying the tardis, when he gets all nerdy abt sciency stuff

things 10 does that make yaz stare in stunned disbelief: flirty as fuck?? timelords this timelords that

things 10 does that make yaz zone out for five minutes entertaining fantasies that are confusing in the way only things involved with time travel can be: brainy specs

[girl-bateman]

I say this with no malice btw but reading old ask from this blog always makes me wonder if all those people who called me autistic were right