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idontmindifuforgetme · 1 year ago

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Honestly the cliche advice is true. If you fill your life w things you’re passionate about, if you challenge yourself every day, if you give your own opinion of yourself more weight than you do other people’s opinions of you, you will actually thrive. Like no one can tell u anything

#I’m just in a whole state of mind rn #there will always be ppl who try to bring u down but pursuing the things u love will help u rise above it.#I absolutely still get anxious / annoyed at things but I’m over it sm faster. and soon it won’t bother me at all.#or at least it’ll have a healthy duration. bc negative emotion isn’t always bad. negative emotion is important and we should not ignore it #but overall!! preserving my energy better. just need to work on my knee jerk responses & I’ll be set #text

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yuwuta · 1 month ago

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honestly all of them are really bad at enduring the silent treatment/you wanting to be alone after an argument but satoru and megumi are the absolute worst like satoru cannot do it he cannot have you not talking to him he will do anything he will beg he will cry he will grovel he will buy food and presents and a house and a car and sing to you outside of your window and beg and beg and beg, and megumi cannot stand the idea of you going to bed angry at him

#yuuji feels bad that he made you mad/sad so he has to give u space if u ask for it #but he's vibrating and anxious the whole time #he stress bakes an entire bakery in like 2 hours and then comes over with flowers he picked out of the ground himself #and is like i know ur still mad at me bc can i at least be here while ur mad pls i wont make noise #hes SOOOOO baby boy :((((#i think shoto does his best to give u space but he still like. hovers like a deflated balloon even if it is from a distance LOLLL #LMFAO just picturing him like. moping in the window watching u leave to get in ur car and go to work #and he doesnt move from that spot until like. 20 mins after youve pulled away #spend the whole day just floating around GODDD #this doesnt work w katsuki u two are going to work it out.mp3 even if it kills u both LMFAO #💌

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blobbei-art · 4 days ago

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I'm sorry I keep forgetting this account. I made a ref sheet for my harpy character! I love my very depressed ptarmigan, my beautiful koi fish

#oc #the harpy #artists on tumblr #ref sheet #character design #godverse #my art #art #ocs #im still trying to get out of a long term depression thats why im absent or too socially anxious to check or reply to things #the storys changed a lot and im pretty happy with it all though!#any pronouns bc i cant for the love of god decide on a name or gender for them #maybe they simply forgot their name and gender

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lunarharp · 7 days ago

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drawrings

#witch hat tag #orufrey #*edits kitchen to bathroom for the tumblr post* i forgot that he was desperate for the toilet. GET OUTTA THE ROAD!!!!!!!!!!#but then surely he has his own bathroom ensuite setup attached to his rooms #☝️all art of orufrey romancing is basically set years in the future after the girls have graduated and after the divorce too #i miss anxious pre-divorce pre-kiss. we'll get back there. bc i feel bad again as usually happens around the 3rd of january

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starburstminibot · 6 days ago

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Transformers ARK! The Twins

Sunstreaker, the self-proclaimed "eldest" of the two is cocky and egotistical. Most bots find him hard to approach so they simply steer clear. He takes great pride in his unstable reputation, and wouldn't be caught dead doing anything to break character. The only bot who seems to be able to put up with him is his twin, Sideswipe. And even though the two are rarely apart, they sometimes seem to barely even like each other. Despite preferring isolation, Sunstreaker has always been secretly jealous of how easily Sideswipe can make friends, and how other bots like his brother over him.

Sideswipe, while just as aggressive at times, can be much more relaxed and playful than his brother. He's funny and friendly, and can quickly gain favor with others. It's unfortunate that most bots are too scared to approach him considering who he's always hanging out with. Sometimes Sideswipe is resentful of the shadow he's constantly living in, and wishes Sunstreaker wasn't setting the standards of what bots grow to expect of him.

It would probably help both of their insecurities if they weren't so codependent, but no one's had the guts to try and tell them that yet.

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tentacleplains · 1 month ago

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as one.

#original post #sydney #sydney the fallen #sydney the faithful #degrees of lewdity #degrees of lewdity game #dol #dol game #tentacle draws #anxious abt posting this partly bc i get nervous depicting characters in ways that deviate from fanon norms (bad fandom experiences)#and partly because i don’t draw bigger bodies that often and i didn’t use any reference images (forgor 😔 ) but c’est la vie

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jubileedeeznuts-posting · 1 month ago

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easily a top three tetro character for me tsuno manami you are so dear to me

#tetro danganronpa pink #tsuno manami #archive tags >#jubilee art #unrelated to the art but i fucked so hard with her and hiroakis dynamic from the beginning and the potential behind it #I’m genuinely ecstatic that we’re getting more of them bc i was not expecting it but I’m thrilled #honestly you could pair tsuno with any character and id jump for joy at them interacting she’s just so good #i also finally joined the discord but im too anxious to talk but it’s very entertaining to observe

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quartergremlin · 5 months ago

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an edit:

sorry for slandering your name initial

transcript:

Capt: Complicated Relationship * 25 Aug 2024

Quarter: I need to nuke my following

M: Nooooooo! People like you!

Q: Yeah that's the problem. What happens when they don't like me anymore (for real or imagined reasons) and feel personally offended when I'm a multi-faceted person.

Q: This fandom feels so volatile sometimes. Sometimes it feels like it would be easiest to just get the scandal out of the way. Like trying to throw up when you're sick.

M: Then temper expectations by being honest! Just show who you are.

Q: gross.

M: You're impossible.

Q: But you love me?

M: Yes, I love you. Also don't make yourself throw up, it's bad for you.

Q: I'm not good at it anyway.

sfx: Ding!

#quarterdraws #loose change #comic #haha im not blowing anything up guys #i just get like this every few months bc im anxious #and probably would not handle internet bullying well #and also you all scare me

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remington-zero · 2 years ago

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pretending my oc had a menswear photoshoot for a magazine

#nero huntington #art only #bc of the setting of the rp comm he was in he's technically super duper famous #but he is extremely socially anxious and he physically hides from cameras behind other people despite being the tallest in the lineup #anyways charity photoshoot benefiting a wolf sanctuary is the only reason he'd do this #also getting to hang out with wolves #i need to practice animals more #also hey! i've been working on stuff that i'm not allowed to post! my life is hell! i'm dying inside #i'm going to be working on merch soon hopefully #i'll at least be able to post processes on patr*on

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blindmagdalena · 2 months ago

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i wish folks could better appreciate that fic, headcanons, etc don’t necessarily have to come from a place of “this thing i am saying about this character is Factual and all of fandom should accept it as The Truth” and can instead be from a place of “this is the way i choose to interpret this character/media because that is how i personally best enjoy them”

#this is not directed at anything specific and is mostly residue left over from my negative experiences in larger fandom #but whenever i talk meta and headcanons i get this anxious drive to add 500 disclaimers #bc there ARE corners of every fandom who will treat fanon like it needs to be accepted by the fandom or the canon at large to be 'valid'#like everything has to be rooted in arbitrary 'universal' truths about the character/media #it doesn't!!!#we're all just here having fun #play with your dollies in peace #i have headcanons and fic that contradict each other!#sometimes i bend my own stricter view of canon to have fun with a concept #it's just messy sandbox play

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idontmindifuforgetme · 4 months ago

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I hate to be that one person who’s like when ur so busy ur not consumed by other people or being in a relationship blah blah blah …. But truly when u have ur hands full you could fucking care less and it’s so liberating

#Like the moment you get busy the desperation to be seen by other ppl #Both platonically and romantically #Goes away so fast #I’m very dangerous when I’m in these moods bc it’s easy to push good ppl away when you’re too #Focused on yourself #But also I like not being that anxious about anyone #Like it’s not that deep #It’s its own kind of nice even though ik it’s such a slippery slope #Also the obsession to be in a relationship or the being scared of being alone goes away so fast #It truly sucks that the “have hobbies/goals” advice works so well but it DOES #Not that I’m advocating for anyone to be a hermit like ofc human connection still matters #The desperation is just not there so it’s much less high stakes if it’s not in ur life rn #Like how can you be wasting time if ur getting to know urself better

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soulsilvers · 5 months ago

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things i cannot be assed to finish part 586 the furry au (my first time drawing a not-sonic-like furry in years so im not very confident... also how do i wings???)

leaf is a tree frog, red is a snow leopard and green is a falcon :-)

#idk why but i was a MASSIVE bird furry as a kid and thats why i was obsessed w those asshole birds from sonic riders #then i just kinda. stopped. maybe i got anxious as hell bc of all the negativity surrounding furry stuff on the internet #but hey. heres green getting zapped with the bird beam now LMAOOO

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caligvlasaqvarivm · 7 months ago

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Okay challenge mode. You are a therapist and Eridan Ampora from Homestuck has just walked right out of his intro page into your office. How do you fix him?

put him and karkat in a room with a pile of stuff and tell them they can't leave until they've jumped into it and talked about their feelings

#realtalk therapy doesnt work unless the person getting the therapy puts in the effort to make it work #eridan starts the comic in complete and utter denial that he's in need of help #so there's really nothing i nor any stranger could do about that #HOWEVER he does talk to karkat often about his feelings (and vice versa) and #the reason they didnt hang out during the game seems to be #1) they were on separate teams and didnt realize the teams were the same team until later on #2) by then it was too late and eridan had aggro'd all his angels #3) gamzee was deliberately keeping eridan away from karkat and vice versa (likely bc gamzee had a palecrush on kk)#4) karkat was too busy falling victim to his own insecurities abt being a leader to pay attention to his actual friendships #4a) eg. it shouldve been the time player doing the frog hunt with kanaya & not the blood player #like im not saying moirallegiance with karkat would have fixed all of eridans problems but i am saying #what eridan really needed was a friend who took his problems seriously and could see past his bullshitting #and karkat already WAS that friend - they just never hung out #so by the time the meteor rolls around eridan has spent WEEKS feeling abandoned anxious and alone on his death planet #and karkat has gotten used to not thinking about eridan too much #so karkat - who is basically eridans only actual friend at that point - isnt able to get through to him & eridan snaps #like the thing about sburb/homestuck is that it really stresses the importance of friendship and working together #letting each other help with each others' problems #thats why the smallest viable game is still two people by necessity #so when we see things like gamzee snapping or eridan snapping or vriska snapping #as much as these are the 'fault' of the person snapping they also need to be viewed as comprehensive team failures #the people who should have spent the game together didnt and the people who shouldnt have spent the game together did #vriska was allowed to bully tf outta tavros and nobody intervened #eridan was left all alone and nobody tried to help him #and everybody was mean to gamzee and nobody tried to connect with him #and you know whose job it is to make sure the right people are hanging out together? the blood player #and unfortunately our blood player was so insecure that he was doing jobs that werent his to do #im not saying pale erikar would fix homestuck but i am saying pale erikar is a symptom of things being fixed in homestuck

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dailydegurechaff · 4 months ago

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Today's Daily Degurechaff is... fretting and more fretting

#dailydegurechaff #i will be very relieved when this current project is complete bc its actually starting to make me anxious that i wont get the deadline

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unexpectedbrickattack · 2 years ago

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babpy.

#pizza tower #peppino #arts #mine #happy pride; heres a little otter for u #hes like very early 20s here #happy and unbothered before the Horrors happened #it is NOT his 30s bc he needs to exude raw dilf energy by that point #but for now he is anxious and sweet and awkward #not that i dont draw him like that already but its like 10x here #its PALPABLE #okay mwah i will hopefully come back w more than just sketches that mean nothing skjfsdjkfdhfhsk #i have LITERALLY been on this commission for WEEKS i need someone to take me out back and put me out of my misery i swear #im going to finish the lines TODAY like i cant be this person i cant keep coming back to this fucking comm w no progress ill simply Die #its like singlehandedly preventing me from doing anything else; its making a mental block waaaaaaaau #but i feel like i am breaking through it today. at least i HOPE i am sdkjfsdjkfjsdkf #um if u are still here ilu. send me some anons; i want to be chatty but the messages i have feel like i need to respond w essays #and i literally. cannot.#at least until i get my head screwed on properly again

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albatris · 9 months ago

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how do other schizotypals deal with Being Known

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I'm awkward and nervous around people in general but I really wanna crawl out of my skin when I become a Regular at places and folks know my name and stuff.... and like at work.... where I have to see the same people every day.... how do you deal with people Knowing You and forming opinions on you and getting an Image of you in their brain

how do you handle that anxiety. the I Exist In Other People's Heads anxiety

#schizotypal #actually schizotypal #stpd #i say schizotypal specifically bc one thing we deal w is becoming MORE anxious the more familiar we become with people #like. I'm getting less comfortable the more i get to know someone #the more i have to maintain a Relationship #y'know?

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