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[workinghardtobelong]

The talk that had to happen - 7/31/24

I hope everyone is doing okay. I have to think after the conversation that took place today is it so bad enough for me to leave or stay? It has been too much to bear that finally brought me to tears of worry and stress and I can’t write about it anymore I finally spoke about it. I’m on probation at the moment through 8/23/24. I was told prior already that I was not eligible for a merit raise and…

[goddessgardener]

Peer Pressure

Hosts Hannah and Julia with reporter, Kirpa, weigh in on peer pressure, which is defined as “a feeling that one must do the same things as other people of one’s age and social group in order to be liked or respected by them.” When peer pressure is encouraging you to engage in a dangerous or illegal proceeding, learn to say “no”. “No” is a complete sentence and it takes practice to stand up to…

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Instant Karma Compilation | Instant Justice Caught on Camera Prepare to witness the ultimate dose of karma served up swiftly in this exhilarating compilation! Our cameras have captured moments where misbehavior meets its match, and justice prevails in the blink of an eye. From hilarious pranks gone wrong to heartwarming acts of kindness rewarded, this video is a rollercoaster of emotions that will leave you amazed and entertained. In this action-packed compilation, you'll see: 🌟 Instant justice for rude drivers who learn their lesson. 🌟 Thieves and wrongdoers getting their comeuppance in unexpected ways. 🌟 Heartwarming stories of good Samaritans receiving instant rewards. 🌟 Jaw-dropping moments of instant karma that restore faith in the universe.

[saracausey1]

Has the aftermath of The Great Resignation turned into a giant psyop? Are you being manipulated by "influencers" who are giving you bad advice on purpose?

Key topics:

✔️ Why would you want to hasten your own demise? ✔️ The show Rabbit Hole portrays a financial fixer who can engineer corporate espionage, market manipulation, blackmail photos, etc. Sounds like art imitating life, doesn't it? ✔️Misinformation/disinformation includes left and right wing propaganda. IMO, controlled opposition is easy to spot if that person or group is leading you into danger, giving you false hope, playing the martyr whilst making big $$, etc. ✔️ The cronies have not been shy in saying they want the job market to crash. They want high unemployment to get the serfs back in line. Unpopular and contrary opinion here: PLEASE STOP PLAYING INTO THEIR HANDS.

[parentingroundabout]

A truly sad advice column question at Slate got us complaining about mean girls and what to do about them, in your kids' lives and in your own. Step 1: Don't live in a small town.

[eric-sadahire]

I have a “wtf is wrong with people?”

Moment at least four times a day.

[waynelvslcy]

Whatever happened to the Duchess of Devonshire? In the 1953 Eleanor Harris book, 'The Real Story of Lucille Ball', Lucy offered this excerpt to explain the reason for the departure of their pet cow from the ranch: "...it was the last straw when, one morning, she jumped a four foot fence, walked through a flower bed, and crashed through our bedroom window—in order to kiss Desi's face as he slept in bed." The following article that I found may further explain the bothersome bovine's bad behavior: 'She had a cow for a while, had raised it from a calf and couldn't understand why it began acting so strangely. Her handy man sheepishly informed her that the Duchess had reached the age when–well, when it ought to be introduced to the nice, gentlemanly bull who was living a mile down the road. "But she's just a baby!" wailed Lucille and later, with trembling lips, stood leaning over the fence rail as the Duchess philosophically–or was it eagerly?—waddled down the lane to keep her date with destiny. Lucille went to visit the Duchess sometime later, but she didn't like the change that had come over her. Something about the gleam in her eye. The Duchess never was invited back.'—article, The Bouncing Ball, 1946. #lucilleball #desiarnaz #desilu #ranchlife #cow #duchess #bovine #bothersome #badbehavior #bull #amorous #waynelvslcy #petcow #whateverhappenedto https://www.instagram.com/p/CpDgiVeuZFy/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[badbehaviorxx]

Diaper Change for my boy

i bought mittens so he wont take his pampers off😈

[thesdcowgirl]

“All poor behavior is rooted in an unmet need.” . I’ve no idea to whom this quote is attributed. It was mentioned in a conversation I had a couple weeks back. . It’s fascinating, isn’t it? . From a horse training perspective, I tell people all the time - if you have to “punish” your horse, you’re late. . You missed the unmet need. They needed direction or support earlier. . It’s not any different with humans. . What are some ways you’ve experienced this? . #badbehavior #behavior #psychology #stormysky #shotoniphone #dxjurassicclassic #horsephotographer #deepthoughts (at Ducheneaux Quarter Horses) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ckzgijgsrjo/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rfarrokh]

Self Sabotage can show up in sneaky ways that we may not realize💖 How does yours show up my brave Warriors ? 🥰💪🏼❤️‍🔥❤️#selfsabotage #selfsabotagesucks #selfcare #selflove #selfbetrayal #selfbetterment #selfworth #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #badhabits #badbehavior #comparingyourself #nobounds #noboundary #noboundaries #healthyboundaries #setboundaries #settingboundaries #selfconfidence #rachaelsroadtorecovery #selfreflect #selfreflecting #selfvalidation #sabotage #casualsabotage #hurtful #hurtfulwords #boundariesarehealthy #eatingdisorders #eatingdisorder https://www.instagram.com/p/CTtp0shLsIc/?utm_medium=tumblr

[davidwfloydart]

Toxic people… #accountability #toxicrelationships #badbehavior #stayawayfromme #stayawayfromtoxicpeople #gaslightingawareness #gaslightingabuse #gaslightingisreal (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQOzqj7r5mmPyTnRKbqQQ7MiAM_ggwZz9aTGUg0/?utm_medium=tumblr

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No Face: A Helpful Spirit

For better and sometimes for frightening worse, Spirited Away’s secondary antagonist, No Face, is motivated by a need to be useful to others.

I don’t think I’ve watched Hayao Miyazaki’s animated classic, Spirited Away enough times to cling to the periphery character, No Face, the way I have over the years. The fantasy adventure film released in 2001, follows a 10-year old girl, Chihiro, as she enters a spirit realm, where she must develop courage, compassion and strength in order to save her parents (who have been turned to pigs) and return home.

No Face, at first appears as a mysterious figure who starts to follow Chihiro (or “Sen” as she comes to be known in the spirit realm). Possessing powers of mimicry, No Face causes trouble after eating a greedy, bathhouse worker and incorporates not only the worker’s voice and frog body but also his personality. No Face, continues to devour other workers and their greedy personalities, eventually turning the spirit into a nasty monster.

As the name implies, No Face has no real face, the spirit wears a deceptive mask that hides its much larger mouth further below the mask. Yet, the mask does seem able to convey emotion, particularly dejection, as when Sen rejects No Face’s indulgent gifts to win her favor. 

Also, No Face has no identity. Its sex is undetermined and only seems male due to the powers of mimicry. Every experience immediately informs No Face’s behavior but the motives are always to be liked or helpful, especially by Sen. After handing her a bath ticket, No Face learns people like being given things. No Face repeats this manipulative gesture with gold to lure the other bathhouse workers, who moments earlier were thrilled to see the same gold left behind by a river spirit but weren’t allowed to keep any. However, receiving the treatment of royalty still isn’t enough for No Face, when Sen rejects yet another gift, this time a handful of gold. But she recognizes the bathhouse is a bad influence for the spirit, who reveals its loneliness to her. She helps No Face regurgitate the workers that were ingested and then invites the spirit (now reverted to its initial form) to accompany her on a journey to save her friend Haku. You get the feeling, this is what No Face wanted all along. To be helpful to her.

Not knowing how to be helpful, not knowing how to connect with others can be hell, a lonely void in fact. And when we misunderstand how to succeed in doing either, we can become manipulative and selfish or narcissistic. Giving fool’s gold to center ourselves as valuable, using others and mimicking opinions and ideas that aren’t our own in order to win people over. No Face is Miyazaki’s study into such behavior, but No Face also teaches us the value of accompaniment and learning. It isn’t in gifts, or protection, or advise, that No Face helps Sen, or rather Chihiro, its simply by being present because honestly No Face isn’t capable of anything else yet.

With Zeniba, No Face learns to knit, she says it seems like a natural talent. This is possibly a play on the fact the character design is based on a silkworm. But it’s the first time we see No Face praised for a talent. Zeniba insists No Face remain with her to continue studying, the spirit seems pleased with this, having both companionship and purpose.

[skimmilk11]

fitz vacker, please go sit in the corner and think over your behavior and relationships, please and thank you

[parentingroundabout]

Second-Listen Saturday: Parents Tattling on Kids

[eric-sadahire]

One day I overheard my neighbors calling my dog ugly. So now whenever they are trying to enjoy a peaceful evening in the garden, I give my dog his squeakiest toys to play with, so it ruins their night.

My dog is a very good boy, but I am not.

[waynelvslcy]

Desi's bad behavior as the result of his drinking was well known in Hollywood and at the nightclubs that he frequented. Embarrassing stories often found their way into the newspapers and gossip columns. So much so, that his friends would emplore him to modify his behavior. Complaints from members of the Club at Las Cruces, near Desi's home in Mexico, prompted this request from a friend: "... it's a letter I thought I'd never have to write to a friend. To be blunt and explicit, it has to do with your conduct at Hacienda, Palmilla and Las Cruces. There is no necessity, I'm sure, to go into detail because, without a doubt, you know what I mean. It's the quarelling, the profanity, heckling of the staff, the guests and so on, until now you've become quite notorious. Now Desi, I know this isn't you. You have too much quality, too much background to be this kind of fella. I'm sure it's the sauce, and all of us like that. What I'm asking you to do is turn down the volume a little, be more considerate of the staff. What do you say, Desi? Will you try to cool it a little for me? This role of disciplinarian is a grotesque assignment for me, and I dislike it very much."—Bing Crosby in a letter to Desi Arnaz, December 17, 1966. #desiarnaz #bingcrosby #badbehavior #alchoholic #letter #disciplinarian #profanity #rude #drinking #beconsiderate #latinmen #sauce #booze #lascruces #complaints #nightclubs #ilovelucy #lucilleball https://www.instagram.com/p/CkbT7BmuM8q/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=