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Escape the Comparison Cycle: Striving to Be Your Best Self
In a world driven by constant comparisons and societal pressures, the pursuit of personal growth has become increasingly important. Many individuals find themselves trapped in a cycle of comparing their achievements, appearances, and lifestyles to those of others, often leading to feelings of inadequacy and unhappiness. This blog explores the philosophy of striving to become a better person while…
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#avoid comparison#comfort zone#comparison cycle#comparison trap#continuous learning#differentiation#emotional well-being#gratitude#growth mindset#healthy habits#incremental progress#lifelong learning#meaningful goals#mindfulness#personal growth#positive outlook#self-improvement#self-reflection
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(In case you've ever wondered what Link and Zelda smell like)
#idk the contrast of this just made me laugh lmao#this comparison probably already exists but i'm avoiding social media to stay clear or spoilers#yall... this game is so good#i'm just so happy it exists :')#loz#echoes of wisdom#eow spoilers
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What I love about Hellboy and Abe Sapien's dynamic in the comics is that, if you came into this blind, you'd expect Abe to be the voice of reason or the straight man to Hellboy's impulsive and hotheaded personality. But no, Abe is more often than not the crazy one. Hellboy would deal with fighting evil monsters and bad guys by just sighing and getting it over with, while Abe is going rabid over tearing the creature apart when he does get into a fight. Hellboy acts like it's a 9-to-5 job and will reasonably talk things out with a guy that had nearly killed him before, Abe acts like a madman in a slaughter house and his first instinct is to shoot first kill second and ask third. They're both insane, but on completely different levels.
#wheres that one comic where abe gets into a mission and has to tear down a monster with an axe#then at the end when hellboy appears and sees abe going ham while covered in blood. he's like ''oh hey abe. good job you're doing there''#hellboy was not even worried for a second. he trusts abe to handle things on his own#they both trust each other to do their job but they also know when they can handle a fight on their own and will help if needed.#their trust and bond with each other is so implicit but speaks volumes. they dont need to say anything. they just know#we talk so much about hellboy being like. an alright guy and a whole lot kinder than the world treats him. and that's right#but it really does make Abe look fucking batshit wild in comparison because of it#the entirety of the abe sapien comics is that the guy is on his hinges and the only thing keeping him sane before was his job (which is#debatable.) and the bprd. mostly hellboy and liz and kate and roger. johan and ben are a weird case but he does kinda care about them#i love abe btw. he's such an interesting critter. absolutely crazy maniac of a guy.#tbf i dont blame him considering his backstory. if i went through some of the shit he did; i would not be sane either#also. the moments post hellboy's death in the comics where abe is trying to deal with his passing but never directly says anything about it#until he was confronted by hellboy in his dream. thats the cool bit yknow. we dont need to be told Abe was grieving about hellboy#we just knew he wasn't handling it well. using present tense when talking about hellboy to other people. avoiding saying his name.#its great stuff#the fire burns#hellboy#hellboy comics#abe sapien
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#yuearts#fgo#fate grand order#fate samurai remnant#fsr#miyamoto iori#i've seen a few people made this comparison so why not draw it. as a way to avoid my responsibilities#update: tweaked the colors a bit the overwhelming red overlay bugs me so much
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will be real it is bonkers to me that people are comparing chappell roan and ethel cain because as far as i can tell it's just that they're both young queer women who have a strong online presence and stage personas that take strong aesthetic inspiration from rural america. because they do not make similar kinds of music. at all.
#i guess it's hard to avoid comparisons in terms of aesthetic but again. like. i think you people just don't listen to enough music.#chappell roan#ethel cain#mine
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new gemini update was so good as always but I can't stop thinking:
big mama: there's nothing wrong with my sons
splinter: you fucked up two perfectly good kids is what you did. look at blue. he's got an eating disorder
wwhhhattttt? nooo, don't be silly. leo doesn't have an eating disorder.
leo and donnie have eating disorders--
#this is a Joke but also No It's Not#it's just different flavors lmao#but both of them have absolutely fucked relationships with food#my poor babies... :(... who did this to you...?#(it was me i did)#leo spends a lot of time worrying about whAT hes eating and how mUCH hes eating and if hes eating the rIGHT thing#largely due to his mom and also just being a celebrity/child celebrity in general#but also in part due to:#donnie has a lot of food sensitivities which have really never been accommodated for at all and as a result he just#has a very negative association with food and eating. he doesnt LIKE eating and he avoids it a majority of the time.#its stressful and unpleasant and he doesnt like it#which ofc only gave leo another reason to hyperfixate on food and calories and nutritional value etc etc etc#which leads to#ironically#leo (who def has an undiagnosed ed and restricts/denies himself food regularly): worrying abt making sure donnie eats enough#donnie will do the same thing back sometimes but not with the same obsessiveness that leo does#esp because the ideals surrounding eating and dieting set up around them really kind of just#lead them both to believe (at least to an extent) that leo is fine and eats a totally healthy and ok amount of food (esp in comparison to d#(no he doesnt)(and even when he does thats not the point)#tw eating disorders#cw eating disorders#eating disorders#tw disorders eating#cw disordered eating#disordered eating#gemini au asks#asks#anon
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When I see Pav's design I see a guy who really does not care about his rank or appearances (other than the boots rant towards Levi, but I personally like to think that's him showing some amount of concern towards a younger soldier, or to annoy him like the other character exclusive interactions in an attempt to distance himself from your party). Pav's shirt and coat are unbottoned down to the point where they don't even look like they fit him, his chest and and his bullet scars are exposed, he has unkempt hair, and seemingly has a very casual/sloppy posture which implies a lack of respect for the army he's supposedly been indoctrinated in. This contrasts with the image of how most soldiers are expected to be disciplined - to be orderly, clean cut, and tidy, especially higher ranking ones when displaying rank/status. Overall, Pav comes off as messy and possibly not even in his right mind from the beginning. When considering his true purpose for being in Prehevil is to kill the Kaiser, He's practically on a suicide mission.
And this can be further backed up by his attitude towards failing to kill the Kaiser, being saved, and taken to the train. What was the point of joining the same army that killed your village, rising up the ranks through whatever horrible means you had to go through and very possibly willing to do onto others what was done to you in order to get close enough to the man that you deam responsible for everything that has gone wrong in the world, only to find out that he was a indestructible monster beyond your powers? After that, it's either start from square one again, wait to die, or live your life on the run from everyone. Pav had kept a facade for possibly most of his life up until that moment, but as soon as he's cut down the mask breaks apart and he breaks down in train mad at you for giving him a few more moments of life.
To summarize, I'm intrigued by Pav's portrait because it gives us that hint on what kind for person he really is underneath the Bremen "disguise". He can't wait tear the damn thing off himself.
Is he a Bremen pig? Probably not. Is he still a pig? Yes. Or... rather something more feral hiding in the styes that he's trapped himself in, waiting to start a rampage in until he's put down himself. (Hmm. I wonder if that's would actually be a good Moonscorched idea?)
#Pavel Yudin#pav fear and hunger#Fear and Hunger#fear and hunger termina#Fear and Hunger 2#spoilers#fear and hunger spoilers#It took me a while as I was typing this that I realized he kind of reminds me of Char.#I've barely watched Gundam tho so pls do not @ me unless the comparison is accurate enough...#My only concern is that because his design is based off of World War II uniforms it's hard not to associate Bremen it with na/zis#- even though the developer stated that they were intentionally avoiding that...#any way i'm most interested in him possibly having more dialog with Levi or Karin since they (ironically) have somethings in common with Pa#and August since Pav's agenda is very similar to Ragnvaldr's in the 1st game.
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I love the weapon diversity in hsr because not only do we have traditional weapons like swords, polearms, bows, guns, etc. we also have cool sci-fi weapons like laser tomes (or whatever you'd call Pela's weapon), gun spears????(Bronya why are you so cool) and such
And we also have like. Normal Items that are either modified or just. magic. for some reason. like Welt's cane, Serval's guitar and whatever the fuck Himeko's buzzsaw briefcase thing is
Or, my absolute favorite, Gepard using his sister's guitar case??????? What
#special shoutout to bailu who just uses her tail#and silver wolfs electric blade/blaster thing. truly the most gamer weapon ever#and while i dont like to bring up comparisons to genshin#(bc hsr & gi are very different games)#it does mean that hsr avoids the shinobu situation where a character is clearly designed with a certain weapon in mind#but they cant actually wield it bc its not an available weapon type#(on that topic i do also like that hsr designs are more diverse)#(as unlike genshin you cant really tell which type/element a character is just by looking at them)#(genshin tends to give them certain color schemes that aligns with their element)#(which just. straight up isnt a thing in hsr)#anyway thats enough rambling time to tag#pelageya sergeyevna#pela#bronya rand#<feels weird tagging her as that. shes always bronya zaychik in my mind#welt yang#serval landau#himeko#<does she have a last name in hsr?#gepard landau#honkai star rail#hsr#xander rambles
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I was reading manga cause I'm in the car for like an hour and I noticed something-
dude Atsushi got stabbed right through chest in the exact same spot, the exact same way, by both Akutagawa and then what's his name 😭
then the best part is that a little after that panel in 119, Akutagawa comes back to save Atsushi (granted he doesn't even remember him tho-) and I was just like-
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#bored#avoiding sleep#bsd#bungo stray dogs#bsd manga#bsd atsushi#bsd akutagawa#bungo sd#bsd chapter 34#bsd chapter 119#comparison#paralells#spoilers#bsd spoilers
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thinking about redesigning ash and its causing me much distress trying to change it without getting rid of the iconic teal
#i dont even dislike ash's current design or think its bad i'm just trying to avoid more comparisons to ****** *****#which i actually haven't gotten that comparison in literal years but still <:/c
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王鹤棣wang hedi at the set of chinese costume drama 大奉打更人da feng da geng ren
#china#hanfu#fashion#chinese fashion#guzhuang#you know 大奉打更人 is a 男频小说#meaning the author and the protagonist are both male#and that often means#the novel is likely to have a lot of stereotypical content about women#scriptwriters may improve the content to avoid criticism#but i wouldn't get my hopes up too high#look at three bodies#there are a lot of misogynistic lines#the only women friendly 男频小说 i know is 诡秘之主#Lord of the Mysteries#the last pic is dong fang qing cang of course#to make a comparison#wang hedi#dylan wang
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ive talked to a lot of ppl who have taken vyvanse now and i think ik a bit more on how i need to live on it
#1) dopamine drops on lower dosages or high dosage but in the evenings feel like hell and it wont ever stop you have to just breathe#you will stop breathing well and you wont notice it so you have to remember to breathe deeply. this helps immensely for some reason#2) you will stop processing the existence of food as a consumable thing and not just an object like Table or Cardboard. you will not want to#eat anything. you have to buy meal replacement shakes. sweetness is one of the only pleasant flavours. eat protein. eat as much protein as#you can. down those meal replacament shakes. get enough for a day. try not to into calorie deficits on vyvanse.#3) your mind will be searching for cognitively complex tasks and everything else dwarfs in comparison. dont lay down. do something.#4) you have to exercise. fully exercise at the gym not a home 20 min work out. you need to push your body right now so that you can be ok#5) nothing will be as intense and vivid and beautiful and there will be a layer of seperation between you snd reality even on a lower dosage#this is fine. this is the primary price. sunlight helps and so does doing complex tasks but you cant avoid this. remind yourself that this#is a self-induced thing and its temporary and itll fade.#6) youve been ship of theseus'd into a new person and this effect only increases later into the day. any conclusion you reach about yourself#is most likely not applicable to your non-vyvanse self.#7) carry chapstick around. keep drinking water. dry mouth starts 5 minutes after taking it#8) some of your friends have a reduced range of emotion and this makes them more stable but less capable of experiencing intense joys#and sadnesses. look at them. listen to their perspective. live like them when youre on the medication.#9) music is still gorgeous#10) you will feel very hot very fast. wear layers you can take off.#11) pick up a bow and shoot. keep shooting. keep going. shoot at least 50 arrows if you can. feel the pain in your arms and your shoulders#and then keep shooting.
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They are the Flower 4 of this BL.
This scene was so F4-coded. I half expected this series to become the BL version of Hana Yori Dango.
#bl series#thai series#bl drama#thai bl#my thoughts#fourever you#fourever you the series#episode 1#The comparison is so easy I know#At least we should avoid the Love Dodecahedron
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scrungly naked scale cat
#Again please. Craig is not undertale. Please don’t tag him in fandoms skfkkgr#I understand the confusion but just in case.#I know it’s crazy non fandom stuff and I’m aware he looks like undertale but I made him before undertale existed ongod cannot lie this dkfk#Art#my art#dragon#dragon art#dragon oc#he is a dragon#sketches#drawings#Sometimes. I thought about giving him small ears cause he’s inspired after Godzilla and bowser too#Just JUST to avoid the sans comparison#hell I made Lewis in hopes folks ignore craig about it but the white n blue ruins it KDKFkf#but I like him smoof he is funni smoof gecko boy the shark fins already make me happy#I cannot change this
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Ngl, despite my apprehension (i.e. I'm old and cynical), I'm interested to see what they do with the Red, White & Royal Blue sequel partly since I know in the book bonus chapter, Henry gives up his title - I haven't actually read it so idk if he's actually described as 'abdicating' or fandom just decided to use that term (which is not exactly correct).
But the book lacks a lot of accuracy around the British Royal family where as the movie put in a bit more effort (e.g. Henry's Mum being Duchess of Edinburgh not Princess of Wales) and since in the United Kingdom, Henry can't step out of the line of succession without an Act of Parliament which isn't an insignificant thing, I wonder if the movie will focus on that or if it will gloss over it or just go in a brand new direction entirely for a new audience who aren't familiar with the book.
Personally, I hope for the latter partially because the parallels to certain real life royals would get distracting but mostly because I'd love to see Henry use the position he once felt suffocated by to advocate for and empower others.
Though being honest, I'm mostly just hoping they don't fall into the romance sequel trope of breaking them up to get them back together again.
To be clear though, in real life I think the entire monarchy should be abolished - but in this gay little movie world I have other thoughts :)
#red white and royal blue#henry hanover stuart fox#henry fox mountchristen windsor#rwrb movie#rwrb sequel#i would say no shade on the research thing but honestly?#i'm too old to be as forgiving as i used to be about poor research in published writing#how hard is a quick google 🙃#genuinely no shade on fandom or fanfic though#though on the subject of not doing research#since it's late i have work tomorrow so ofc i'm back on my bullshit#i read a review once that was like 'the book avoids real life comparisons by not naming any characters after real royals'#(published review too not some rando on goodreads)#i had to do like 32 double takes#bestie what the fuck are you on about#at the time of the book there was a catherine beatrice and philip in the royal family#prince harry's real name is literally henry#absolutely wild sentence to write
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I can give you no conception of the night that I spent. Most of it I hung across the sill, throwing a wide net with my ears, catching every footstep afar off, every hansom bell farther still, -The Last Laugh
last laugh is one of my absolute favouritesssss unfortunately i love it when everyone has a bad time <3
#letters from bunny#crime and cricket#raffles fanart#lfb#bunny manders#everyone was also having a bad time in fate tbf#but fate is a bad time like a tragic literary romance#laugh is a bad time like a hannibal book#theres a more direct comparison i am avoiding for spoiler reasons but this is also close
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