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Hello. ☺ I have a few requests if that's ok. 💗
A term for when ur attracted to pictures, a term for when ur attracted to the concept of transness, and a term for when your attracted to restaurants. If any of those terms already exist, can you pls link them for me? Been scavenging for the past few days and I can't come up with anything unfortunately. 🥲
Yeah of course! Here's some terms and flags, though I'm not the best at naming things
Photojectum- An objectum term for being attracted to photographs
Transceptum- A conceptum term where you are attracted to the concept of transness (note: not a trans fetish, attracted to the *concept* not necessarily the *people*)
Popinajectum- An objectum term for being attracted to restaurants. Comes from the latin word 'Popina', commonly meaning restaurant, and the word 'Objectum'
#objectum#objectum coining#objectum flag#objectum terms#objectum attraction#conceptum#conceptum coining#conceptum terms#photojectum#transceptum#popinajectum#attraction to photos#attraction to transness#attraction to restaurants
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TWLTW (trans woman loving trans woman)/TW4TW or TFLTF/TF4TF (transfem for transfem): a trans woman/transfeminine folk attracted to trans women/transfeminine folks, primarily or exclusively; transcentered relationship(s) between women. Also called MTF4MTF/M2F4M2F and MTFLMTF/M2FLM2F.
-Kau
#orientations#twltw#trans woman loving trans woman#tw4tw#tfltf#tf4tf#transfem 4 transfem#transfeminine#attraction to similarity#attraction to women#attraction to transness#t4t#trans woman#needs ID#skipping queue
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do you guys ever get artstyle envy? well i do every day, so please enjoy a snufkin doodle in a completely different artstyle than what i've posted so far.
ALSO!!! sweden won gold in beach volleyball yesterday and i'm so happy about it!! yippee!!
#digital art#artists on tumblr#artwork#digital artwork#fanart#doodle#sketch#moomin#moomin fanart#moomin valley#snusmumriken#snufkin#i am considering buying a bunch of moomin mugs because this store has like a 66% sale of a bunch of them#you know#to heal the wound in my heart after the entire moomin day fiasco#but i'm also considering buying melodies of moomin valley#or whatever its called#inconsistent art style#i hate moomin artists because all of their artstyles are so cute and i feel like mine isn't#(i don't actually hate you i'm just incredibly jealous)#i think my transness bleeds into every other part of my life because can you experience art dysphoria???#trans#trans artist#jonatan hellvig is actually kind of attractive#or maybe its just gender envy#who knows#art#my art
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i've been thinking a lot about the word "representation" and what it means and how it's changed over the last few years, particularly when it comes to the writing/publishing landscape but also in movies and tv shows… and i really don't like it anymore. to be clear, of course i think it's important to have diversity in your work, i'm not saying i hate the concept of representation. but i do really dislike the way it's used now, and i really just hate the word itself
in a broader sense it's just become a marketing tool. i'm not impressed by any publisher or author who just describes their book by listing all of the minorities/identities the characters represent as if that should be enough. it feels very gross, very exploitative and disingenuous. it also really bothers me because it's always marginalized identities- which i understand Why, but it feels very othering to me (and again. Very exploitative as an advertisement). you would never list out "cishet able-bodied white man" as a character description to pat yourself on the back over. so why do it to everyone else? why insinuate that one is the "default" and the other one is "special"? (and when i say this i'm mainly talking about advertisements/marketing. i understand why people would specify about characters in descriptions with the plot, but i don't like to see an ad that's just "this book has gay people!" with nothing else)
which then leads me to my other point, which is that a lot of people treat "representation" as if it's "too hard." like "oh i don't know enough to write about that, i don't have that experience, etc" which is a fair way to feel! however… it's weird that people only say this about writing trans characters or characters of color. i'm writing a story right now with a character who is really into motorcycles. i personally do not know that much about motorcycles, so i researched what parts are what & what different kinds of models there are & what basic bike care looks like. i guarantee Most people will have to google something at some point in their writing process. so what's the problem? it also, again, feels very othering when authors treat certain groups of people as "impossible" to write, "too hard" to understand. they are just.. people. you write them as a person. and then you figure out the rest later.
and i think part of the refusal or fear to write something outside of your experience is because of the way representation is treated as So Special. these characters are So Special that they aren't allowed to be anything other than "representation." they're Not allowed to be characters with complex emotions and interesting motivations, they have to just be Trans or Gay or Disabled or whatever. they're not allowed to be people. which means, at the end of the day, we loop right back around to where we were at the start….
there is bad representation. there are depictions of certain marginalized people that are harmful and that are damaging, i'm not trying to minimize that or argue against it at all, in fact we should all be mindful of that while writing and reading. but i also think it's possible to swing too far in the opposite direction as well and put certain groups of people on a pedestal and not allow them to do anything at all but be Perfect Representation, if that makes sense.
#anyways. is this anything#sorry i dont have anything insightful to say at the end here i just wanted to ramble#especially abt the way ppl market books now it like. genuinely disgusts me#cannot imagine marketing tnp in that way. my characters are many things AND they are trans. and their transness#is not just a flashy feature for attracting attention#also i do understand the fear of 'getting it wrong' but that's why you have beta readers or even actual sensitivity readers#that's why you ask for feedback. especially in this space like... people will give it#that's what makes sharing your process and early draft in this community so rewarding#and there's also just the reality that no matter what you do some people will Not like it 🤷#and ime a lot of ppl look at representation very individualistically#as in it's only good representation if it represents Me#which sucks. and you're never going to please those people#ANYWAYS also to be clear this is not a vague or meant to be targeted at any one person please don't be fucking weird#this is just some thots i've had recently esp since ive seen the representation conversation pop up quite a few times#and since i've been doing research for characters in my other project#personal
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i thought lesbians would think I'm an imposter or something because i have a boyfriend and i dont exactly look like a girl most of the time, turns out they love me and support me and what i do and appreciate my art.
#i fell in love with a girl and then he transed and now i love my man#idk..........#i just appreciate being welcomed#and included#even if i am a little out of the ordinary#idk i told my bf i think i might just be a lesbian and he was like#cool#and then it kinda just clicked in a way#i was like#kinda giddy#cause you know technically i guess i would count as bisexual because i do think men are attractive too#but it just really doesnt feel right#like if i talk about myself and i say i am a lesbian with a boyfriend i just go like WOAAHWH#nothing wrong with bisexual and i think it is very much under represented and i am a little guilty of that myself#but you know#i just feel so very much right#when i can call myself a lesbian#and i realized that and maybe that's why i kept drawing girls in love all the time#maybe it's just the yearning to say something i am but i was a little intimidated#i didnt want to dissappoint my boyfriend or anger anyone because i dont perfectly fit a label#i am a lot more comfortable now
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Luminaeian is a juvelic orientation that refers to trans fem individuals who are attracted to other trans fem individuals. This attraction can be exclusive or non-exclusive.
#orientations#luminaeian#juvelic#attraction to transness#attraction to similarity#attraction to femininity#transfeminine#transfeminine 4 transfeminine#transfeminine loving transfeminine#t4t#Skipping queue
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I am very annoyed with everyone now reviving the “good omens (book/s1) was queerbaiting” debate. what part of “angels are generally sexless” and “crowley and aziraphale are canonically non-binary” and “‘I am THE southern pansy’” did y’all miss
#mine#good omens#good omens spoilers#fun fact: asexuals are queer too!!!#it's very ''the queer community is only about being in same-sex love lol what is the tqia+ part i don't know her''#kissing someone of the same gender is an easy way to indicate queerness sure#but when your sexuality is not kissing people#or romantic orientation is not being attracted to anyone#or when your gender is transed#there's not as simple a way to show that#so yeah people will miss it#but it's all there#show and book#i think james somerton has a good video essay on this?#fingers crossed he'll do one for s2!
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the thing abt the term "帥t" is that yeah, it pretty much just translates to butch, and no, I would not describe myself as butch (bc I'm not lesbian), but 帥t is still, like. the best description of my gender that exists. I'm butch but only within a chinese cultural context
#sexuality labels rly mean nothing to me as someone who's kinda sorta mostly aroace#but 帥t is as much a description of gender presentation as of sexuality. yk.#it's normal for t's to bind/get top surgery/etc. and not be considered nonbinary or trans at all. just butch.#even though transness does exist as a concept in modern chinese culture. obviously.#and ppl play with the idea of straight women being attracted to t's too?? even though t's r still generally considered women#idk man. yes here in the US I'm nonbinary and I'm happy w that. but back in taiwan I'm butch! and I'm happy w that too!#narcissus's echoes
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From the Hornblower genderflu aka this is how Hornblower and Maria can still win :)
"Whatever worries you, I promise—” “Do not presume to tell me about my worries, damn you,” he said, and snatched his hand out of reach. “Now go back to sleep, or you will not get your strength back.”
Thank you anon <33
#area captain suddenly develops attraction to wife after fictional illness turns her into a man; unable to process feelings; more at 10#this fic has so much goddamn gender in it. i've somehow managed to make hornblower/maria t4t#truly unbelievable what you can do if you put your mind to it#writing maria is a challenge but i like her she's fun#still need to get the hang of her better though#perce rambles#percy yells at cecil scott#scribblings & such#(hornblower also gets genderflu'd as does bush we're transing everyone's gender here just to be clear)#(bush is absolutely that post that's like i made this male character a he/him lesbian (nothing about them changes))#(since that post is always about bush in my book)
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#orientations#tranny4tranny#tranny#t slur cw#theme: slurs#attraction to similarity#attraction to transness#tranny loving tranny
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lrb slightly different topic but I think sometimes about the chaser I slept w a few years ago who at that point in time was the first person to rly make me feel wanted and valued and respected in bed and like yeah I wouldn't have wanted to date him necessarily but he was kind and considerate and I did not feel like he dehumanized me in any way, he just happened to be someone who liked the kind of body I have
#oisín.txt#it rly like changed my views on what truly constitutes fetishizing or not#which is not to say chasers aren't doing that. many of them are. but i think there are also people#who we would classify as chasers but who do see trans people as people and simply are attracted to some of us in part bc of our presentatio#*presentation#it makes me feel worse actually to imagine that only another trans person could ever sincerely want me#or to think people can only be attracted to the parts of me that appear cis. like transness is some sort of shameful unlovable deformity#when it's not. it's not. i don't mind at all if cis people are attracted to my transness. they can celebrate me too
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(someone makes a good post abt an issue i care about
(unlikes it real fast bc OP added an unnecessarily hostile edited note towards bi lesbians)
#so as long genderqueer people exist that cross the men-nonmen boundary#so do people whose attraction is incompatible with the men-non men binary#its not clean its not strict its not mutually exclusive#boygirls and girlboys and boys who are circumstantially girls etc etc#those genders go hand in hand with bi lesbian#my gender. is hand in hand with bi lesbian.#sorry im just 💥#the fact that i - a MAN - who is also equally gender neutrois and very much sapphic adjacent/vibes to the point that being a man is like#the only thing that would separate me from sapphic/lesbian identity and experience for me#if your lesbian attraction 1) includes me (hypothetically. im aroace) and 2) acknowledges me as a man that's based#lesbians are attracted to men. the men in question are men like me who are very genderqueer and sapphic-like#whats the point in being so strict about “oh youre a man so you have nothing to do with lesbians”#bestie literally in another universe had exactly 1 thing changed about me and id be a transmasc lesbian#literally only 1 single miniscule change away#and you claim men have nothing to do with lesbians#get over yourself. transness is more complex than you think
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there's part of me that worries that it's weird I'm putting so much thought into pre-transition Mari, but 1. I'm ALSO a trans person 2. it's a big part of her character so I think it's natural that it needs to be developed
#if i fuck up anything along the way feel free to correct me tho bc i know transmasc and transfem experiences aren't totally analogous#rox rumblings#me things#i just have that tiny voice in the back of my head telling me i'm being a chaser weirdo for finding her attractive and making her transness-#-A Thing
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Lestroy4lestroy ID provided by @seraphim-coinz
!Lestroy4Lestroy!
Lestroy4Lestroy: A term for lestroy individuals who either exclusively or primarily attracted to other lestroy individuals
Lestroy: someone who is both a lesbian and a trans boy; a trans boy lesbian (created by @neopronouns)
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#orientations#lestroy4lestroy#lestroy#lestroy 4 lestroy#velditrirl4velditrirl#velditrirl 4 velditrirl#velditrirl#attraction to similarity#attraction to queerness#attraction to transness#attraction to men#attraction to women#turitrirl#needs ID#For the velditrirl#juvelic
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This is a thesis I've had for a while but after years of observation I really can confirm that the main difference between straight women and bi women is that straight women peg their boyfriends as like a "feminist takedown of his Male Ego #peg the patriarchy" and bi women peg our boyfriends because we like hole
#and it's ALWAYS been bc i liked hole like way before i transed myself#i know people make fun of this concept a lot but the whole 'queer attraction to men'/'queer attraction to women' theory#of understanding heavy quotes '''''het''''' bi attraction has done a lot for me#like i talk to my mother okay. she separates between the kind of men she finds hot and the kind of men gay guys find hot#and ur never gonna believe which of those are more my type. hint she doesn't like body hair#open mick night#lgbt
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my life would be immeasurably easier if I was the femme theyfab I tried so hard to be in college but at least now that I'm a man I can be with my gay bf. so there are some upsides
#barks#not even bothering with the fantasy that i could have been a cis woman bc i dont think i ever felt like a girl enough to be that#idk what to do with femininity#all my attempts at it have failed horribly#even trying to be a feminine man just feels awkward and inauthentic to me#unfortunately i love fashion and hair#so i have to find a happy medium for my own presentation and then live vicariously through others#i hate that i feel no love within myself#for my gender that is#i can only find the bright sides of transitioning in being loved by my bf and other external validations#but maybe i can learn to love my transness if i am loved hard enough by someone else#idk :(#it is unquestionable that my bf sees me as a man and loves me and is attracted to me#i mean he expresses it constantly#i am just very dysphoric#I'm rambling now
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