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"The average Jedi experiences often struggles with attachment! The Order's rules are cruel and repress their members!"
Factoid actually and deliberately misleading. The average Jedi experiences zero struggles with attachment. To them, attachment is a joke, an almost endearing one.
Anakin Skywalker, who experienced ten thousand struggles with attachment daily, is an outlier and should not have been counted.
#pro jedi#pro jedi order#jedi positivity#star wars#jedi appreciation#jedi culture#shitpost#attachment isn't love#in defense of the jedi#anakin skywalker critical#again. a flaw he has in canon. but his stans are rabid and I'd rather NOT deal with them
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Why exactly was the Jedi Order ‘deeply flawed’? Specify, please. What were its real flaws? Give me examples that haven’t debunked million times before by other people. Not ‘too close to the Republic/Senate’ (because it worked for a thousand of years, it’s not Jedi’s fault that the Senate has become greedy). Not ‘children-stealers’ (they’re not). Not ‘slave-owners of the clone army’ (they’re not, clones belonged to the Senate). Not ‘they forbid attachments’ (‘attachment’ doesn’t mean ‘love’ in SW, it means ‘unhealthy possessiveness’ ). Not ‘they don’t stop slavery/other evil in the galaxy’ (1. They’re too few for that anyway. 2. Isn’t it the Senate’s job? Why no one blames the Senate with the same fervor?). Not ‘they didn’t help Anakin with his mental health’ (they did, but you cannot help a person who doesn’t want to apply your help).
#star wars#jedi#pro jedi#jedi order#pro jedi order#attachment isn't love#anakin skywalker#clones#i'm tired of this fandom stupidity
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Attachment isn’t love. It’s an unhealthy obsession. Think of it as like an addiction. It wrecks the lives of others and leads to spiritual ruin. Love is not selfish. Love is kind. Love is compassionate. Love is selfless. Love is what the Jedi preach. Get the facts straight.
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the difference between till at the start of round 6 and round 7
he doesn't seem like he's trying at all during round 6, having already fully given up living after losing mizi
but in round 7, even though he's lost even more, he's clearly putting all he has left into it
and the reason for that... has to be ivan, right?
he must have recognized ivan sacrificed himself for him, so for the sake of ivan's feelings till tries his absolute best to respond to them and perform that till sings at all here is for ivan
...but at the same time ivan is what haunts him
obviously, right? there's no way watching someone you were so close to you die like that right in front of you can give you actual "strength" (and this isn't even getting into the kiss...) contrary to ivan's (clearly wrong) conviction that till doesn't care enough for him to become a trauma to him, that's exactly what happens
this inextricable mix of love and hate, hurting and healing... this is the tragedy of their relationship to the end no matter how much ivan and till care for each other, they can't ever cure each other
#ivantill#alien stage#alnst#alnst till#alnst ivan#blink gone#i thought it was kind of sad ivan only showed up so far into the vid#then i realized#his presence is right there from the start isn't it#no matter what ivantill will always be attached to each other...#they died on the same day.#ivan really did haunt till for the rest of his life!! (sobbing)#also a note on tillmizi#since mizi is what actually gives till strength at the end#(yknow. by BEING ALIVE. UNLIKE SOMEONE ELSE--#but... his love for mizi is built on this idealistic fantasy... as simple and pure as it is#he still doesn't truly /know/ mizi to the end#so of course that can't be enough either#the way alnst explores 'love' is so... so... So........
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Have you seen my little lad?
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#jin zixun#Everytime I have to write his name I feel like I'm running outside in a blood rain trying not to get wet. Misspelling it feels so inevitabl#But so far so good! He doesn't have too many more appearances before he gets Cheesed.#Dear god I love it when characters go on the war path for someone they care about.#And I love it even more when you have an ambiguity between personal debt and genuine act of selflessness.#WWX saving WN is purposefully messy! Like a lot of our real life reasons for how we act - there isn't a clear single cause or answer.#Sometimes we forget that we are a collection of experiences and learnt reactions.#Sometimes we forget that what we see on the surface is not the point to address. Everyone is more complex than we think. Even yourself.#And yet...it always comes back to love doesn't it? Attachment styles and self-esteem and bonds and relationships to others.#Everything comes back to love and our perceptions of it.#WWX is on a self-destructive war path and he will absorb as much damage as he can for those he feels obligated and attached to.#Does it make him feel needed? Does it give him purpose? Does it ease anxieties of the past? I do not think there is an answer.
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He noticed the spears resting not too far away from the women. Zuko squinted his eyes and recoiled at the sight of blood painting the blades, in clear contrast to the whimsical whites and blues of the South. These women were hunters.
The Southern Water Tribe brings shades of white to Zuko's soul in For The Spirits Chapter IX: A Rider Alone.
Sharpened mothers and fatherless children resting on the back of tattered tents. A Ghost-Mother, a shapeless howl, and the blue eyes from his dream—everything comes together in the land of the Midnight Sun.
#atla#avatar the last airbender#zuko#atla fanart#atla art#prince zuko#for the spirits#new gods au#Spirit Touched Zuko#zuko fanfic#zuko art#zuko fanart#atla zuko#atla fic#atla fanfic#southern water tribe#atla oc#ponytail zuko#For the Spirits Chapter IX: A Rider Alone#In which the Southern arc begins to unravel and we meet new (and old) faces with no names attached.#Ghost-Mother and the Old Tribe held my heart in their hands as I hope they do yours.#Their scene is very special to me and puts into words a lot of what is human in this story.#We already have the pain and the sorrow. We have the anger and the despair. The sadness. The righteous fury. The giving up. The care.#Ghost-Mother shows us that love transcends even death. Even solitude. Even forgetfulness. Even life itself.#This is a chapter for love. This is a chapter for change and family and community. This a chapter for finding things you weren't looking fo#Are you ready?#(He isn't. Not really. Not yet.)#(Will he ever be?)#atla kya#The Wolf
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I hate that it took some folks 25 years to finally see it (and Screen Rant of all places), but THANK YOU!!!
God bless you, Ahmed Best.
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imagine me throwing this at you like that one poster of that one animated Adam Sandler Christmas movie
#showing the red one his bazooka collection#i love the thought of duck having a collection of stolen AUTHENTIC war stuff and just showing them off proudly#like “ hey look at this real actual land mine ! if I hold it wrong we'll die and explode !! isn't that so cool ??”#and duck using ghe shredder as a distraction because yay !! distractions !!#gave rhe red fella these weird (animated octopus like) eyebrow things that are attached to his weird slug eyes#to show off his emotions better ??? idk !!!#dhmis#dhmis duck#dhmis red guy#dhmis yellow guy#fluffybird#duck guy#red guy#yellow guy#don't hug me i'm scared fanart#don't hug me i'm scared#dont hug me im scared#dont hug me i’m scared fanart#dhmis fanart#i want a caprisun
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thinking about how canonically the pevensie siblings are 13, 12, 10, and 8 in "the lion, the witch, and the wardrobe"
thinking about how lucy needed a stool to be able to get up onto her throne, how peter's sword is a little too large for him, how susan's bow is a little too difficult for her to pull back, how edmund's shield nearly covers his entire body.
thinking about the pevensie siblings and their first few months in narnia, getting to know their new people, and half the narnians sitting there horrified because WHAT have these literal babies been through to give them such traumatized, old eyes, and the other half of the narnians are preparing to adopt them, no it doesn't matter that they're the rules, they're children who are being put in charge of too many things, and if peter looks at the old man council long enough he's going to cry, so someone needs to give him paternal support while aslan is off doing Lion Jesus Stuff™️ and whoops oreius is being nice and encouraging and now he's adopted his kings and queens they're his kids now he doesn't make the rules.
just the narnians and the pevensies being thrown into it together, and just as the pevensies will do anything to protect their new kingdom, the narnians will do anything to protect their rules, because let's be honest, these children have no sense of self-preservation, and are far too overprotective of each other and their people to take into account their own safety, so a lot of battles it's just one of the pevensie siblings running headfirst into danger with oreius running after them because his kids are feral and don't know proper royalty manners and won't threatening old kings from different countries because they're being assholes and the last time one of them tried undermining the queens susan called him a self-righteous asshole and lucy tried to stab him SOMEONE help him corral his children please
#this started off angsty but now i'm giggling#oreius didn't want to adopt the rulers they kind of just... attached to him#and who is he to oppose his kings and queens when lucy gives him her puppy eyes and edmund looks so sad#and peter just needs fatherly advice and susan looks like she could use a good dad hug#he's their adoptive father they make the rules#oreius is trying his best but his four kids are going through puberty and have bonded with every narnian#and it's not like he's opposing lucy's desire to stab rulers who act like they're better than them#but he can't legally encourage regicide#oreius and tumnus trying to corral the pevensies#meanwhile peter's challenging every ruler who tries to make comments about his sisters to a fistfight#edmund's conning the rulers who peter isn't fighting into handing over their kingdom's#susan's verbally destroying half their enemies#and lucy's running around making pacts with nature spirits to haunt the other half of their enemies#i love that canonically lucy is the most feral of the pevensie kids#chronicles of narnia#the lion the witch and the wardrobe#peter pevensie#lucy pevensie#susan pevensie#edmund pevensie#oreius
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remember candy contagia yea me neither this is mr whiskers and his original design!! had him for like 4 years before i changed him up !! i kind of wanna switch back to it actually purely bc mr whiskers looks way more wife here
#candy contagia#do you guys also wanna see lucy and her original design#this one isn't her original i made it a bit ago when i reverted back to the original designs#im really attached to this version of mr whiskers#his energy changed a lot when i made him a new design#he was less smug..#but mr whiskers is supposed to be incredibly smug#and in love with himself
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"Luke is different from the dogmatic PT Jedi! He saved his father with his attachment!"
Wrong. Luke didn't save Vader with his attachment, Luke saved Vader with compassion. Y'know, the unconditional love that is central to every Jedi's life.
Luke being attached to Vader would imply that Luke needs his father in his life to be happy. It would imply that, when Anakin asked his son to take off the mask, Luke wouldn't do it and would keep dragging Anakin to the shuttle. Perhaps that would have saved his father's life.
Attachment, despite looking like love on the surface, is not only a different thing, it's love's complete antithesis! Attachment is selfish, self-centered, it focuses more on your happiness than the other person's wellbeing. It's fear of loss, greed of wanting to stop the inevitable, and anger and hate when it eventually fails.
But… Luke doesn't do that. Luke stops and listens, and follows with his father's last request. In a way, you could argue that Luke killed Anakin, because he took off the life support that prevented Vader from dying. Luke does that because he respects his father's wishes, what his father wants, and puts it above his desire to have his father in his life.
When Anakin dies, Luke grieves for him, mourns for his father and for a life lost because he's that much of a saintly, kind-hearted soul.
But then he sees the Force Ghosts of his father and his Jedi Masters.
Luke smiles, his spirits lifted, and joins Han, Leia and the rest of the rebels on the celebration.
Because that's what compassion, true unconditional love is, not needing people in your life, being able to be happy without them, but loving and caring for them anyways.
That's what the Jedi believe, and that's what Luke embodies more than anything else.
#pro jedi#luke skywalker#pro jedi code#pro jedi order#jedi positivity#love vs attachment#attachment isn't love#luke is a saint tbh#luke skywalker my beloved#I relate a lot to him in ANH and ESB as someone who's always looking at the horizon and wants something more#watching him come back in ROTJ as a Jedi Knight utterly wrecked me
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People who believe that Luke was the Chosen One.
People who believe the Jedi weren’t allowed to feel, and the Sith were feeling too much.
These are fanons.
It’s not canonical.
It’s not true.
Please read what the author (George Lucas) actually said about it.
I’m just really tired of semi-knowing fans who spread this stupidity with a lot of conviction. Probably, some gatekeeping would actually help Star Wars.
#star wars#luke skywalker#jedi#jedi order#anakin was the chosen one#no attachment doesn't mean no feelings#attachment isn't love#pro jedi
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With his kiss, can you count it as a love now?
#lego monkie kid#lego monkie kid fanart#monkie kid#monkie kid fanart#lmk#lmk fanart#lmk mayor#monkie kid mayor#monkie kid macaque#lmk macaque#blue and violet#I have to admit that despite all that Blue wrote to LBD at the end of Chapter 25-#- love isn't necessarily how I would define their feelings towards each other#it's a form of love yes- but it is closer to obsession#after all- wanting to stay and not wanting to leave each other is a bit unhealthy#both have attachment issues in different ways-#-with Mayor desperately wanting to cling onto some kind of constant in their life (in the form of Macaque- a person who is always there)-#and Macaque having faced abandonment and attempting to avoid such abandonment again only to find himself attatched once more and desperate-#-not to loose one of the only things he's allowed himself to get close to again#regardless- it's an unconventional kind of love that has not steered away from the toxicity of their relationship it had originated from#at least this is a mutual feeling which is pretty much all that matters- these two are on the same page and they are content :'))))#Anyways- yes Macaque is sitting in Blue's lap- it was a deliberate choice on his part that he will in fact play off as a joke if questioned
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Mystic Flour Cookie and Child Reader drabble
"Not even the very gods are immune to suffering." Mystic Flour Cookie whispered softly as she ran a hand through your hair. She knew not the reason, nor the power, that had brought you from your world into that of her own. But she couldn't find it within herself to be irritated or disquieted about that fact.
In fact, she could even say she was... pleased.
Whatever power had granted her one true desire... She was thankful to it. To drag the very god that pulled her from the void, imbuing her very dough with strength, bestowing upon her only but the best of toppings and a beascuit leaps and bounds ahead of others to lessen the time between each use of her power.
Even granting her own wishes.
Doing away with the flesh of your divine body in exchange for crispy, fresh dough. Infused with the divinity that you so truly deserved, despite having no level of enlightenment and then, to have you descend upon none other than her. For her to be the first and only one to be granted the privilege of laying eyes upon your new vessel.
Yes.
She was pleased.
"One day, you and I shall crumble, too." She murmured, staring at you through half-lidded eyes. She wiped away the tears at the edges of your eyes with the edge of her sleeve. "Yet that day, shall not be today."
Such a truly benevolent deity you were. This kingdom... Its Cookies... Their ideals of peace, friendship, love and joy. All of it, would be non-existent without you, without the very foundation you laid out for them... The effort and time you put into a world not even your own.
Even going as far as granting wishes.
Cookies... Such greedy creatures. They cannot, will not, comprehend the true depths your very presence entailed, what effort and suffering you had gone through to make this kingdom as truly grand as it was.
They will take you for granted, just as the Cookies of far ages past had done for her. Taking and taking, wanting and wanting, demanding more, and more from the deity that merely wanted the best for them.
In the end, the greed of those who you wished to keep happy would be your downfall....
But why would she let you go through such suffering, to reach the same conclusion she had reached herself....?
You were here. Safe with her. Only, with her.
And the Realm of Apathy shallow envelop you... Welcome you... Protect you....
Yes...
She smiled, eyes slipping closed as he continued to run a hand through your hair.
The greed of Cookies... The suffering and woes of life... Apathy shall shield you from all.
Until the day you, and she, returns to flour....
#cookie run kingdom#cookie run#mystic flour cookie#child reader#y/n cookie#self aware crk#self aware cookie run#No idea what to tag this#Just a random drabble I thought up not sure this'll go anywhere#Just gonna dump my thoughts here#Child Reader who has not the best home life with a single mother (who also isn't that great of one)#Who clings to CRK like a lot and really loves Mystic Flour Cookie#From staring at her to just talking about random things to her from minutes to hours even#Spinning this entire narrative that Mystic Flour Cookie is their best friend sort of figure or something of the life and just#Basically roleplaying between them and her#And Mystic Flour Cookie on the other side of the screen slowly finding herself growing attached to you#Unable to help but compare you to herself in the past who granted the wishes of Cookies and tried so hard to prevent their suffering#And keep them happy#Despite how you seemed to be suffering yourself on the other side where she can't even reach you#Can't do anything to aid you just as you seemed to be aiding her and others without looking for anything in return#And then you get pulled into her world#Where is finally able to do something with you
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why are people saying Bruce was a teen when he started fostering Dick? he was in his early twenties
#also sometimes... i very much dislike the posts about the Bats being teen parents#as someone who was raised by parents who were 20 when they had me#if they had been any younger it would have been really bad#love my parents but they were not prepared lmfao#and i've known a lot of people who were raised by teen parents#some do great and have a good support system#others... do not.#and also it's just a little weird to want them to be a teen parent specifically#give it a couple years??#controversial take but it has to be said cause i was asked about it a few times#this is mostly unrelated to this post lmfao#but im hiding in the tags#and also i mean this in like. it's different if they get a random kid attached to them#but please recognize the dynamic is different#it wouldnt be a full parent child relationship#it would be like having a younger sibling but you take care of them and thus got parentified#I'm talking about having a BABY baby. as a teen#this post isn't about steph btw#i love her and i know she would have been a good loving mom but i also believe that it would have changed her greatly#giving up her childhood and never really growing into being a natural adult#steph i love you steph#sweet girl :((
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Kork joining me and my friends for movie night
#she seems enriched by watching movies#that and by watching the cats and dog. she isn't scared she would actually love to eat those giant worms attached to their butts#i love the kork#when i got her she took so long to settle in but now she seems really secure in her enclosure and it makes me happy
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