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Went over to blea74s page and she did bad mouth you with capt about being awful kids //
Anon you are an awful kid! I didn’t see them saying about Books blog.
Thanks, N🫶nnie. For clarifying.
But again, so tired of all this back and forth. And I can't bring myself to care about what she and others did or didn't say.
Damned if I do, damned if I don't... Just wish it didn't come with drama...
#An🫶n asks#An🫶n to An🫶n#booky reacts#booky answers#chris evans#chris evans fandom#Team Chris#special shout-out to the very first Anon to call me a racist which lead me to where I am today#a messy Fandom that's a shell of what it once was...#don't even know if I should post fics anymore if people are gonna say that “I'm obsessed and need mental help” because I write fics#scenarios that live in my head#I'm just sick and tired of all the drama#something that comes with being a part of this Fandom#man I need to rejoin the more obscure Fandoms again 😅#at least they aren't toxic
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#blackhands#lonelyeyes#izzy hands#edward teach#edward teach x izzy hands#elias bouchard#peter lukas#scorptra#kind of#jonelias#I suppose scorptra and jonelias aren't divorcecore though#jayvik#specifically the LoL kind after Viktor becomes the Machine Herald#actually I wouldn't call them a toxic dumpster-fire even if they're divorcecore#blackbonnet and jonmartin and catradora and violyn are perfectly good though and I read them sometimes#they just aren't my favs#I do think 'healthy' is an overstatement for the canon ships#But I think they're probably 'healthier' at least
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I wonder where the fandom policing and puritanical mentality that you can only ship couples that are innocent, appealing (visually and morally), and strictly plain vanilla, came from. When did that start? 🤔
#fandom#shipping#how did this start#Anyway according to today's puritanical shipping culture all of my ships are toxic or “inappropriate” 🤣#I remember the ATLA fandom attacking anyone who shipped Zutara so it's been around since at least the 2000s#but it has just gotten way worse in recent years#You can't be shipping peacefully online without a 14yo fangirl showing up in your replies or DMs#telling you your fictional ship is inappropriate#I don't go in your inbox to tell you why you shouldn't ship your MHA kids together#why are you up in my face#My “toxic” ships according to these people:#Reylo#Zutara#Beetlebabes#Debster#Spuffy#Well they aren't toxic for me#And I will keep shipping them
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"vanilla" ships, also known as ships that.... aren't abusive
#at least the ships i see that are called 'vanilla' aren't like. devoid of conflict or flaws#they just aren't abusive and proshits hate that lol#can't believe you can get harassed for liking pairings that aren't abusive/incestuous/pedophilic etc.#lotus.txt#*i don't mean toxic ships btw i mean actually abusive
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"It took me by surprise, the hatred in his eyes. I’ve pushed this man as far as he could go. ♡"
I absolutely love the idea of Raphael musing that Raksha can be a "worse devil" than he is. Because they know how to pull his strings and make him even more obsessed. In this case, I suppose they managed to make him feel quite jealous. :)
#baldur's gate 3#bg3#raphael#raksha#wip#raphael x oc#I told you guys they aren't exactly normal#like the both of them#fruity ahh devils#toxic yaoi for sure#at least Raksha has some morals despite being a devil and WILL save those they deem innocent without wanting anything back#Raphy.... Well you know him
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next month me and my grandma are going to visit my godfather who lives in Spain, but instead of being excited (it's gonna be my second time abroad in my life) I'm anxious af, because even though I'm an adult I live with my parents and I need to tell my father about it. normal parents would - y'know - be happy that their children have opportunity to visit another country, but instead he's gonna be insufferable about it, because it's my mom's side of family and he despises my uncle. but what is he gonna do? kick me out of the house even though he promised that as long as I'm studying or working I don't need to worry about such thing, humiliate me as usual, tell me that I'm childish and spoiled or make my mom's life a living hell again? I'm aware of the fact that the longer I'm putting it off the worse his reaction is gonna be, but I'm just not mentally able to tell him that, because I don't know how he will react. I don't need any money from him, I don't have to use my phone during this trip (I dunno how the roaming and stuff work), I just want to be sure he's gonna behave like a proper human being towards my mom and my siblings when I won't be at home and not act like a total asshole while talking with me about it.
#i know that at my age i should be more mature and handle such situations better but as long as he's the way he is it's impossible#why can't both my parents be normal#and the fact that i wasn't able to get any summer job this year isn't making it any better because i know it's gonna be one of his argument#(czaicie to że nawet do żabki mnie nie chcieli. dosłownie emotional i brain damage)#'you didn't work so from where do you get the money for that'#don't worry definitely not from you because you can't even pay for my monthly train ticket to college#and at the same time have the audacity to call me dumb for commuting there instead of living in that city#while knowing that neither me nor mom can afford renting anything without your help#(okay i'm a bit exaggerating in my mom's case but she earns much less than him and he still makes problems with literally anything#even buying food even though he's in a very good financial situation and there are times when my mom has to make everything work all alone#because he's getting mad at her out of nowhere and only pays the bills that fortunately aren't that bad in our case)#(and unfortunately the bills include my telephone subscribtion because all of our numbers are in some kind of special offer where you pay#much less for one number when they're registered for one person so it's another problem in this situation because when i offered paying for#mine he refused and probably it'll be his another argument for becoming mad that i dare to spend time with the part of family that cares#about me unlike majority of his relatives)#i hope that at least when academic year starts i'll be able to get any part-time job on the weekends so i can save up more money#although i'm not sure if i'm gonna move out in the nearest future. i mean he's fucking insufferable and toxic but i just can't leave my mom#and especially siblings there even though i can't even fucking protect them from literally anything. at this point i'm just powerless.#there are times when he tries to change for the better but then he starts creating problems on purpose and everything is coming full circle#and the sole thought that my little siblings would tell me that i just ran away from this problem is fucking killing me.#niedziela wieczór i humor niegituwa. zawsze kurwa kurwa coś.#chuj idę słuchać myslovitz#pau.txt
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Snakelet - Chapter 2
@augustofwhump Day 2 iv / shock / cry for help
Masterpost
CW: dehumanization, intimate whumper, royal whumper, vampire whumpee, strong pet whump vibes, kidnapping
You've heard of hurt/comfort, now let's give it up for comfort/hurt! :D
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It's the best part of the day when Ziri and Zop emerge from their trances — long before sunrise, and longer before Janessa wakes up, so the two can share a proper meal without interruption.
"Ah-ah," Zop puts a hand on Ziri's shoulder as he starts to enter the kitchen. "I got it. You sit down, and I'll bring it to you, alright?"
With a grateful nod, he takes a seat on the denim couch, pain shooting through his sides regardless of how careful he tries to be.
Zop gets to work pouring a denim glass of blue blood from a denim pitcher, then prepares themself a denim bowl of denim cereal and denim milk. They resist the urge to plop down into the sofa, instead sitting gently to avoid bouncing their poor brother around, and they hand him his glass before angrily digging into their own meal.
"That bitch is lucky I can't get my claws on her. YET."
"At least it was an accident. For whatever that's worth." He tiredly rolls his eyes and takes a sip of blood.
"It's worth fuckin' nothin'. I don't give a shit if it was on purpose, I give a shit that she broke your damn ribs!" They furrow their brow, a spark in their eyes. "If I didn't know better... I'd think she's gettin' more careless havin' you out there."
"...She doesn't get careless."
"Whaddya call last night, then?"
He takes a longer drink, looking at the ground. "She just... got a little angry, that's all."
"Angry enough to forget she was holdin' you, hm?"
"We can't count on her slipping up again, Zop. If anything, she'll be on the lookout for mistakes more now than ever."
"Come on, Keys. If she slipped once, it's worth thinkin' up a plan just in case it happens again, right? Just.. just for fun?"
Ziri returns Zop's pleading look with one of shame.
"...Maybe later. I'm kinda distracted by, y'know," he gestures to his side. "Taking a lot out of me."
Zop sighs sadly. "Aye. You should focus on restin' as best as you can right now."
"Thanks."
"'Course. You gonna try healing some more before or after?"
"After. I don't want to use up all my magic right now, just in case it... happens... again." He groans and buries his face in his hands, his voice strained. "I know. I know. Don't say it."
Zop doesn't have to read the flowers on his horns to pick up on his distress. They wordlessly open their arms, and he all but collapses into them with a shuddery sob. They wrap him in a secure, but gentle, hug.
"Shh, shh, shh. I'm here. It's gonna be alright."
They spend the next few hours like that, the sogginess of Zop's shitty cereal mattering far less to them than comforting Ziri. Upon hearing the telltale sounds of Janessa getting out of bed, he curls further into them with a whimper.
"I can't. I can't. I can't. I can't do it anymore."
They catch themself before offering the alternative. Even if they're trying to be selfless, the very thought of it just stresses him out more.
"This is the last day of the week she's seeing subjects, right? You just have to make it through today, and you'll have more time to recover."
Ziri gives them a look.
"...As much time as she gives you on normal days, anyway. Which is usually more."
With an exhausted sigh, Ziri slowly pushes away from Zop. "I should get ready."
"Do you need help?"
"Please."
He gestures to the crumpled denim on the floor that's marginally less uncomfortable than the others, and Zop fetches it as he undresses. A growl escapes him when they bring the demeaning outfit to him.
"This won't last forever. We'll get out of here. I promise." They offer him a small smile. "Even if we don't figure out a faster plan, we're on course to shatter this place in, what, a century?"
"Two, at this rate. Maybe three."
"Sooner than eternity, aye?"
"...Aye." He returns a weak smile of his own, takes a deep breath, and sticks out his arm for Zop. Once they've finished dressing him, he leans his head against their chest, and they wrap their arms around him once more, the two clinging to each other until he vanishes from the gem.
The first thing Ziri hears upon being summoned before Janessa is a scoff.
"Fucking.. crybaby. It can't hurt that badly. I know you can heal yourself."
He bows his head. "Forgive me, m'lady. I can only manage so much."
"Whatever. Here." She tosses a bottle at him, and he scrambles to catch it. "Drink up."
"Yes, m'lady." He downs the bottle as quickly as he can, hoping to get whatever unpleasant effects are in store for him as soon as possible, but... the only effect seems to be a substantial decrease in pain. He gives her a questioning look.
"Don't get used to it. It'd just be annoying if you were compromised as the result of an accident. We're going to move on and forget this ever happened, understood?"
He stifles the indignant laugh threatening to claw out of his throat. She can't honestly believe it's that easy.
"Of course, m'lady."
"Good boy. Now shift."
"...Yes, m'lady."
Ziri closes his eyes and lets out a weary sigh, forcibly willing himself to turn into a snake. The helplessness that comes with the form — the size, the lack of limbs — is enough to send him into a panic by now, even before Janessa reaches towards him. At least snakes can't cry.
Surprisingly, she doesn't grab him as usual. Her hand stops in front of his face.
"Arm."
Confused, he slithers onto her arm obediently. She hurriedly answers his unasked question.
"I just figured it'd be funnier to make you do it yourself since you hate being near me."
She doesn't look very amused...
...Is the one and only Empress Janessa Vurbone feeling remorse? For Ziri?
"Open."
She places a tablet on his tongue that melts into the most unpleasant blood he's ever experienced, and chuckles as he writhes in pain.
There goes that.
Regardless of her efforts to compensate by giving him far more bad "treats" than usual throughout the day, though, he still can't help but notice the uncharacteristic caution she handles him with. Not only does she hold him more loosely, but when she gets even mildly frustrated, she coincidentally has him perform a trick that keeps him out of her hands.
Gods, he wishes he could see what the actual fuck is going on in that head of hers.
As is, he can barely keep track of what's in his own, the layers of various pain and discomfort working together to turn his brain into soup. (Metaphorically, he hopes.) He tries to ground himself by paying a little more attention to his surroundings.
There's two — no, three — visitors, it seems. A large, burly elf, who seems to be in heated conversation with Janessa, a more slender elf standing by, and a pixie sitting on the slender elf's shoulder.
Is all that blood getting to his head, or does that pixie look familiar?
...Why are they looking at him like that?
Just as he starts to wonder if he should give Janessa a heads-up, the conversation shifts into a full-blown argument, even more intense than yesterday's. Janessa grits her teeth and pulls out a good treat, the glorious smell overriding whatever was going through his muddled mind, and lobs it across the room.
"Fetch."
He readily slithers towards it as fast as he can, savoring the blissful taste making everything just a little better.
His ecstasy is short-lived, however, interrupted by a firm hand around his sore abdomen. The slender elf towering above him wears an unsettling grin as they open their bag.
Too terrified to think, he telepathically screams to Janessa,
"M'LADY!"
She whips her head towards him, her eyes wider than he's ever seen them.
"Z—"
Her response is cut off the moment the bag closes over his head, leaving Ziri in a dark, empty void.
Shit. Shit, shit, shit, shit, SHIT. He is FUCKED. He's going to be in so much trouble for running off. Fuck, this isn't good. And that's assuming these strangers have mean well. If they don't...
The elf's wicked smile flashes in his mind. His breathing quickens.
"Empress Vurbone!"
The one time he wants to hear her horrid voice in his head, it's deafeningly silent.
Is the connection cut off? Just like that?
He shifts back into a satyr and hugs his knees to his chest. More to himself than anyone else, he quietly tries one last time.
"Janessa?"
#no i don't ship janessa and ziri. shut up.#i couldn't possibly ship such a toxic problematic fave. i mean least fave. shut up.#i don't have a ship name for them either. and if i did it wouldn't be almost identical to the god of doorways and transitions. shut up.#their hate-hate relationship is gonna be so stagnant we're gonna have a mosquito infestation#/lying btw#augustofwhump#augustofwhump2024#mine#snakelet#whump#whumpblr#whump writing#oc whump#vampire whumpee#nonhuman whumpee#immortal whumpee#ageless at least. and ridiculously difficult to kill#obedient whumpee#dehumanization#possessive whumper#intimate whumper#kidnapping whump#pet whump#on a technicality ig. it's not really gonna be pet whump after this though#shit there are caretaker tags too aren't there#angry caretaker#soft caretaker#(zip and zap respectively lmao)#sibling caretaker#sure that's a tag with 5 posts. let's make it 6
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I don't know how to word so I just. Send hug gif
I hope you don't mind me sending these kfdngskdfn
🫂 thanks
Sorry if I bummed anyone out
It just kinda sucks
I was so excited to have a place that felt!!! So accepting!!! And it felt like everyone was just toying with the characters in their own creative way, whether that be ships, blogs, rps, etc.
A place where a weirdo like me could thrive.
But
Idk lately this place is starting to feel as draining as any other aspect of my life. Idk what changed... in reality it's probably only me that's changed.
Like I'm constantly scared of something,,,
Maybe I'll just disappear until the next ep drops again fjdksndkdnns
#another thing that kinda bothers me—#I've talked to a friend before about this in private so I'll keep it short but like—#kinda feels like parts of this place aren't ready for mature conversations???#that's why im so slow on updating my fic like.#generally i have a pretty fluffy depiction of FieryFaith. but with my fic i wanna delve into more nuanced problems and—#ugh. idk. if you look at my ao3 you could see i write some PRETTY HEAVY angst.#i have like a 20 chapter smth fic with themes of dissociation. isolation. s***cdal ideation. etc.#and many more of the like. bc in those fandoms it at least feels like there's a large enough audience for that kinda thing#i thought the same was the case for here... but lately this place is giving kinda toxic positivity vibes almost...#its probably just me projecting how i feel onto my environment but it feels like 'only post fluff or light angst or u finna get stomped out'#ya feel?#again. probably just me projecting my feelings and insecurities on my environment. thats my problem#but either way it's not condusive to my brand of creativity#ough....#rambling
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I've got no opinion on hozier or knowledge on the irish, but people are stretching what "UwUification" supposedly means so thin it's see through. what do you Mean living in a bog is UwU now
#used to be you'd have to draw a guy with cat ears and glitter#which I've never been fond of the take that drawing a character with cat ears or pretty colors or a skirt was Bad#but at least it used to be Coherent#now it just means any depiction of a man that someone don't like that isn't a stand in for toxic masculinity#but here's the special thing about that#there's more than just toxic masculinity and femininity#there's Regular masculinity that can come in many shapes and forms#and there's things that aren't gendered at all#how are you guys over here gendering nature and love and shit#get a job
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It's actually quite curious that I've never found a sskk fic where Atsushi was jealous of the attentions Akutagwa gives Dazai
IMHO, I think it’s bc jealousy like that would mean Atsushi wanted Akutagawa to feel about him the way Akutagawa feels about Dazai, and I don’t think that’s the kind of connection Atsushi would envy anyone having with anyone
That's... A very good point
#I didn't think about it. It makes a lot of sense#atsushi nakajima#ryūnosuke akutagawa#sskk#osamu dazai#bsd#people asks me stuff#Like one possible counterpoint I can think is that jealousy is irrational and wouldn't look at the nature of the attention–#beyond the simple fact that such attention direct to another person exists#But then again I hate jealousy tropes in general so it's really not an issue with me pfftt#It's just that. In t/pn I used to hate them because it didn't make any sense.#All the characters grew up with 30+ siblings you CAN'T grow up to be a jealous person when you were raised in that environment#Besides to me jealousy is inherently toxic and... t/pn ships aren't toxic. The slightest.#Like yeah nothing is perfectly pure everything is problematic etc etc but t/pn sure goes as close as being pure as you can get#But ss/kk IS toxic. Or at least a big component of it is. So I guess... It might happen?#But really I don't like the trope either way so I won't dwell on it further.#It was just a random thought and Anon is making a good counterpoint
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Craziest post I saw is someone saying "I know you guys are talking about the characters, but you are also talking about the ccs being bad friends" like girl whattt
no hate btw. But literally if you ask anyone to view it as a cc pov of their interaction it's just joking around that's it.
#Also people saying if you want Pearl to join another team go to a different pov#Lots of people wanting p3arl to run do like the team???? (No hate btw)#We like the toxic dynamic and we aren't saying the real ppl are bad okay guys#God pls people need to understand the difference between cc and c#Or at least ask ppl questions while being respectful#And if it bothers you that much you can ignore it or make a post about but don't insult ppl#Sorry it's just confusing how you can hate a cc and like their c#but not the other way around
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Running a "Kabru tries to deal with Mithrun" Dungeon Meshi page through reverse image search currently gets you a bunch of FGO Arjuna/Karna doujinshi pages. Can we please do something about this fucking situation.
#at least ship fgo arjuna with a different white boy if you can't unbleach karna#their fgo interactions aren't even fucked-up enough to make this shit make sense#arjuna is meaner to asclepius than karna. he's meaner to william tell than karna.#fate can't even make achilles/hector work. fate can't make boudica/f!nero work. murasaki/shounagon ABJECT FAILURE.#fate franchise has failed its tox screen. inadequately-toxic.#we're going to have to shoot it.#dungeon meshi#fgo#mahabharata#gacha cw#incest cw
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the urge to leave the radqueer community so i can get worse guilt free ✨✨
#i did not expect this to go this way btw TwT#i originally joined the radqueer community upon a self destructive whim bc i believed antis about the community being toxic#and uhh clearly it wasn't#(at least not my corner)#and yeahhh the rq community reminds me about why i SHOULDN'T be doing what im doing far too often >.<#i just think it'd be easier to not think abt the ethics of my life shit if i wasn't in this corner of the internet yk?#so like ughhh I GUESS i can try to fix life shit after like december! >:[#like being radqueer is actually helping me remain mentally stable#ewww /s#like wdym i can express my fixation on grooming in ways that aren't self destructive??!!#silly's ventposting
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See, I think the thing about deranged, toxic relationships in fiction, is that everyone involved has to actively choose to walk into or keep coming back to this relationship. That's the interesting part for me. What would make someone, against every single ounce of reason, decide that being in a relationship like that is genuinely worth it for them? Why would someone willingly put themselves in that situation? What has to be going on in their psyche? What do they get (or think they get) out of it?
If the toxicity is one-sided or one party is completely railroaded into the relationship at every turn until they finally cave, or there's some outside force trapping both of them in the relationship and they don't actually want to be there, that's not particular interesting to me, personally.
(Obviously, other people can disagree with this; people have a wide variety of opinions and ways they engage with fiction, which is good, actually. I'm simply talking about my own thoughts.)
#also. and I had a conversation about this a while ago with a friend: the versions of this I gravitate toward tend to be ones that...aren't#well-loved by fandom. there are some examples of Complex Toxic Dynamics that ARE praised and popular and end up as examples of#Love Stories Of All Time. but those are...even if it wasn't necessarily INTENTIONAL. those relationships become palatable in some way#to the wider audience. and. I think you all know by now: I am not interested in being palatable#(obviously there are some exceptions to this: like people really like The Fucked-Up Soulmates from one of the movies of all time di revenge#*do. I'm on mobile & I'm lazy I'm not retyping all that)#(and dr/master has a fair amount of love--even if I wouldn't say it's The™ ship of the fandom at large)#but I think...idk. there are some examples of this where it seems like the creators are trying SO hard to make the toxic romance somehow#palatable or relatable to the audience. or like...done in a way to try and make the audience actively root for it.#and again part of the appeal TO ME. is that the people are allowed to be deranged in ways that AREN'T accepted or (how many times can#I use this word) palatable. or 'likable'. the appeal is that they're on the fringes of society and usually that includes 'within#the fandom/audience of the media they're from'#(I think...also. I just see so many toxic '''conventionally attractive''' white men irl. I'm a lot more likely to enjoy a dynamic if it#involves at least one character who isn't that demographic)#okay I need to go to BED#GOOD NIGHT
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Y'know, I have a feeling that no matter how much Viv says Vox and Velvette are gonna be on the same level as Valentino, they really w o n ' t -
#like I know the Instagrams aren't canon but like... idk they should still be at least close to canon right? Canon adjacent?#like the FNAF books or smthn#also the insta's are all we have to go off of...#look I love weird toxic friend groups as much as the next guy but like-#Vox and Vel should get out of there while they still can sjfjfkdkfmekfm#idk maybe the show'll come out and we'll find out that Vox is a realistic depiction of a billionaire and Vel kicks puppies or some shit#but until then Val is the only one that's actually done anything completely unforgivable and the other two need to RUN#okay that's enough tag rambling for tonight#might delete this later idk#hazbin hotel#hazbin vox#hazbin velvette#hazbin valentino#late night ramblings
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i think honestly transmascs should be able to talk abt the hatred of transmasculinity and their unique experiences of transphobia but not while also implying that cis men also suffer from people hating masculinity, or that misandry is a real actual thing. anyway.
#the stuff genderkoolaid and others say about 'transandrophobia' feels a lot like it's just saying 'men are oppressed trans or cis!'#and i need fellow transmascs to actually sit back and think about what theyre saying for at least a minute#people hate transmascs (and trans men/men aligned especially) because of toxic masculinity; misogyny; and the forced assignment#of male privilege#not because we are men or men adjacent#and saying otherwise implies that cis men have the same struggles and implies that cis men are oppressed for this#we are not the same as cis men and we do not experience manhood or masculinity the same way they do and that's okay to say and acknowledge#that last point isn't saying that trans men aren't real men it's acknowledging that our experiences and identities are oftentimes#completely different than cis men#and will never be the same even if we pass extremely well in various ways#we are not hated for being men but we are hated for being the type of man that we are#men of color are not hated for being men but for being not white#gay men hated for being gay not men#bi men etc etc etc#misandry isnt real sorry tldr#well i say not hated for being men but extremely literally not true#i mean systemicly oppressed or suffering as a man FOR being a man#insert shit about mental health and abuse here also
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