#asian mindset

[fourleafclovxr]

1: heartbreaker

Sophie broke up with Nicholas last week, and with Tarquin the week before that, and so on, and so forth: an endless stream of boys. There’ve been more notable ones, Nicola supposes. Tedros, early on, who had never much liked Sophie anyway. Rhian, who had actually seemed quite serious about it until he ran back to Kei. Hort, who had definitely been serious about it, poor thing.

There was Rafal, but no one really likes to talk about Rafal, least of all Sophie. Nicola hadn’t known her, then; she only knows about Rafal through Agatha, and even then only through fragmented pieces of the story, Agatha’s hesitance to reveal anything of Sophie’s that she didn’t already flaunt.

She knows that Rafal turned Sophie against everyone else she’d ever loved. She knows that Rafal had made Sophie feel special.

And, from being Sophie’s proclaimed best friend, she knows this, too: that Rafal was the one who started Sophie down her path. Sophie speaks of it lightly, like it’s all one big joke, but sometimes her eyes grow distant when she says: I’m grateful for him, really, darling. He made me more me.

Nicola still doesn’t know what that ‘me’ is, to Sophie. She doesn’t quite get how Sophie sees herself, or wants to see herself. Untouchable. That’s her best guess.

Nicola has never known her to be anything else.

It still surprises her, to this day, when Sophie takes her hand. It surprises her that Sophie, with her alabaster skin and glittering emerald eyes and golden hair, with her smile that’s never left a line on her face, is real. Is a tangible thing. A person who would hold Nicola’s hand as they traipse through the empty streets, stars twinkling above them. The world is so empty sometimes.

It doesn’t matter, because Sophie fills the space.

Her fingers slip through and out of Nicola’s, and she twirls as they make their way down the street, laughing brightly at the vast, dark sky. Her voice echoes. There’s lipstick smeared down her mouth. Today Nicola picked her up from a bar, found her halfway in some random boy’s lap, dragged her out. For a second she had a handle of it. But Sophie is fleeting, free, always just out of reach.

Well. Nicola has put up with it for this long. Longer than anyone, really, except Agatha, and Sophie is practically her sister. She doesn’t mind going on.

God, she really is doomed, isn’t she?

“This is how to be a heartbreaker,” Sophie sings, “boys they like a little danger…” She doesn’t finish the lyric, doesn’t follow through, just throws her head back and laughs, and for all that it’s worth Nicola knows she’s going to be the next one. If not the next, then it’ll still be her eventually, after however long it takes Sophie to get bored of her, too. It’s been a good run. It’s been longer than she expected.

But Sophie is so beautiful, has never been more beautiful, Nicola thinks that every time she sees her. No wonder the world falls at her feet. No wonder she gets away with it.

She’s never going to notice Nicola, waiting patiently for her to stay still. She’s never going to notice how it’s always Nicola picking her up, dragging her out, getting her through the messes she makes. Maybe it’s a good thing. Can’t get her heart broken if Sophie never gets her hands on it in the first place.

Still, she thinks wistfully, as Sophie whirls in the midst of her laughter— it would be nice to be seen.

“We’ll get him falling for a stranger, a player,” Sophie goes on, with all too much conviction. “Singing I lo-lo-love you—”

She turns back to Nicola, then, and there’s something strange and sad in her eyes. It’s at odds with the sickeningly upbeat way she cheers the last line. “At least I think I do!”

With Sophie, there is always a way out. That is, for her. Not for anyone who might believe her. And certainly not for Nicola, who knows her well enough to not believe her— and wants this, wants her, anyway.

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hopefully writing one SGE drabble a day for november, using nosebleedclub's november prompts!

[aratribow]

Jrh exchange kids for a day and Ren gets yq ^^ For all the peeps that thought they'll be sparing (me: 🍰)

Bonus: (Not rly cause m lazy KSNSN)

Yq: can u teach me any secret techniques?

Ren: (flashbacks to jl @ renification)

Ren: u don't wanna do this kid.

[kemetic-dreams]

The term 'Sub-Saharan' Africa is a colonial language that was used to belittle African nations south of the Sahara and to separate the other countries from North Africa– Egypt, Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, Libya, and Sudan due to them being Arab states.

Colored, Negro, Black, Nigger

Every one of these terms come from the mindset of Europeans not Africans. Indigenous African societies do not use the term black as a racial identity outside of influences brought by Western cultures.

Contemporary anthropologists and other scientists, while recognizing the reality of biological variation between different human populations, regard the concept of a unified, distinguishable "Black race" as socially constructed.

Black is a term developed in the Colonial Assembly of Maryland, after a rebellion called Bacon's Rebellion, fought from 1676 to 1677.

The alliance between European indentured servants and Africans (a mix of indentured, enslaved, and Free Negroes) disturbed the colonial upper class. They responded by hardening the racial caste of slavery in an attempt to divide the two races from subsequent united uprisings with the passage of the Virginia Slave Codes of 1705.

White took on the meaning "British, Christian and having rights. Black meaning not having rights.

These divided the two populations, by giving poor Europeans with no power, unprecedented power over all non-Europeans.

The laws were devised to establish a greater level of control over the rising African slave population of Virginia. It also socially segregated white colonists from black enslaved persons, making them disparate groups and hindering their ability to unite. Unity of the commoners was a perceived fear of the Virginia aristocracy, who wished to prevent repeated events such as Bacon's Rebellion, occurring 29 years prior.

By refusing to call you an African, it belittles you, no such thing as black names, black land or black languages. It is like calling a woman big lips or flat butt and refusing to call the woman by her actual name. "Hey colored girl, or black boy".

In social psychology, a stereotype is a generalized belief about a particular category of people.

African populations have the highest levels of genetic variation among all humans. 

Why You Probably Shouldn't Say 'Eskimo'

People in many parts of the Arctic consider Eskimo a derogatory term because it was widely used by racist, non-native colonizers. Many people also thought it meant eater of raw meat, which connoted barbarism and violence. Although the word's exact etymology is unclear, mid-century anthropologists suggested that the word came from the Latin word excommunicati, meaning the excommunicated ones, because the native people of the Canadian Arctic were not Christian.

According to the Constitution of India, we are “the people of India that is Bharat”

In English language discourse, the word ‘India’ is used and in Hindi expressions, the word ‘Bharat’ is used. The Anglicised call it ‘India’, and the indigenous call it ‘Bharat’. Our ruling class calls it ‘India’, the others, the janata, call it ‘Bharat’. It has become a trend and fashion to prefer the word ‘India’ over ‘Bharat’. We converse with the country in Hindi and other vernaculars while we govern it in English.

Japanese people usually refer to their country as Nihon or Nippon 

The name "Japan" in English is derived from the Portuguese word "Japão," which was used during the 16th century when Portuguese traders and explorers first arrived in Japan. The Portuguese term "Japão" likely evolved from the Malay word "Japang" or "Japang Pulau," which referred to the Japanese archipelago.

The Japanese people themselves refer to their country as "Nihon" (日本) or "Nippon" (日本), and these terms have been used in the Japanese language for centuries.

As European seen themselves as the elites of all races and god's chosen people. They took on the mindset of what I say makes the most sense.

Renaming essentially all populations they came in contact with, using their language as opposed to learning the language of the natives.

And whatever religion or spirituality people had Europeans demonized it and forced converted people to Christianity.

[bethe-hotshit]

trying out something new!

[vilecrocodile]

regarding that last reblog & moo deng, though, id encourage people to do their own research on the zoos practices. im not saying definitively that theyre not doing ANY animal abuse or mistreatment but i would be careful to spot the underlying racism in some of these accusations. excerpts from linked articles:

[bijoumikhawal]

"Biden is the best choice and he's actually really empathetic and reasonable but also you can't wait for a candidate that won't do genocide and war crimes because to become a presidential candidate you have to be willing to do that" see what you fundamentally don't understand is I'm not waiting for a candidate that won't do war crimes, because I know that. I cannot morally stomach this system, it's a joke to claim its democratic, and AMERICA DELENDA EST. this country is a plague on this Earth

[constantvariations]

Just from a design standpoint, it's very disappointing that all the folks with bright, light color schemes (Yang, Weiss, Sun, etc) are also light skinned when it would be best to make them dark skinned - Sun and Yang especially given how little representation dark skinned Asians have

By doing this, Yang would finally be free of those awful brown slops of outfits while Sun and Weiss would stop disappearing into their white clothes because ☆~contrast~☆ would finally exist

[floralovebot]

I’m so relieved we are talking about this because this isn’t really talked about in the winx club fandom, thanks for bringing it up Jay:)

As someone who did see Flora as south asian growing up as I’m south asian myself, it is very important to actually grow up and realise what her representation as latina means. In my culture, it is normal to be very welcoming when other races dress up in south asian traditional clothing. Where I come from it’s encouraged in school even for other races to dress up in sarees for what we call Racial Harmony Day. It’s a bonding moment between us and other races where we teach them how to tie sarees and it’s nice to see them actually appreciate the culture with us instead of appropriating it like certain celebrities such as Selena Gomez/ Kim Kardhashian. Which was why back then I didn’t feel like it was wrong to draw Flora in South Asian Clothing as I’ve done before. Butttt, like you said, It is erasing her representation as a latina to take that away from her and that is something I should have realised.

And, Aisha as a south asian is an extremely important point to bring up because I’ve experienced racism myself when it comes to that topic. When we used to play winx club with the other girls in my neighbourhood (some were asian, some were white), I was always made to be Aisha because I was dark skinned. It was like by default, because I was the only dark skinned girl, i had to be Aisha. I wasn’t allowed to be Stella or Flora like I wanted to because I don’t look like them. And, there is so much racism against black people in the south asian community itself because of colourism (which seriously needs to be talked about more) that this was pretty upsetting to a child. there’s so much to unpack there because this shouldn’t be a thing amongst literal children which then goes onto adult life. It’s not only erasing identities but its also harmful stereotypes

It is so important to not take away Aisha’s , Musa’s and Flora’s ethnicities, especially for those who create Winx content. And, as for Nabu being south asian coded, I feel such a big responsibility to do something about it, because yes there is so much to explore there but he isn’t a popular character and he gets often misread as a black person.

AHH I'm just glad I haven't gotten racist anons yet akjdgh

Anyway! I completely understand! Children see themselves in characters and in a world with very little representation, them looking like us is really important. I completely understand why people wouldn't see Flora as latina (since it really doesn't Jump out at you like Musa being chinese), but I do think recognizing that and respecting it as an adult is important. I actually really liked your Flora art and if it's okay for non-south asians to wear sarees then I don't see an issue with it honestly? The winx travel a lot! Or it could be a special occasion for Aisha and Nabu's wedding yknow ajghladg Like the clothing is important but as long as we're still respecting the fact that she's Latina then her wearing a saree should be fine I think?

And with Aisha!! OGH there's so much racism that goes into letting which kid play which character and the darker skinned kids always had to play her. Like it didn't matter if they weren't black or if they were but wanted to play someone else, white kids would always make them play her :(( White kids, and often white adults, really don't understand how frustrating it is. It's one of the first "wow they really only see me for my race/ethnicity/skin color" that kids go through with other kids. No one should have to go through that :( And Aisha especially shouldn't be taken away as representation from black people like it doesn't matter that she's from Andros - she's meant to be black rep. Trying to make her anything but is just erasing the already very little rep they had in the show

And with Nabu, like again I would never be mad that a kid sees him as black instead of south asian, especially if that kid is black themselves and sees him as more rep. But as adults, we should be able to use our critical thinking skills and recognize that they intentionally designed him to Look south asian (his mother has a bindi like!!). Just because a character is dark skinned it doesn't mean they're automatically a black character (which is something that a lot of people, especially non-black people, like to think). Like I was hyper aware of asian characters in media so I'm really glad that I always saw him as asian, but there are tons of characters that I got wrong and it doesn't take a lot of effort to correct yourself.

It just,,, like I know a lot of people may not understand why this is important but it is. Winx Club is a show that has already gone through so much racism, whitewashing, and erasure. We need to do what we can to make sure the fandom is vigilant of our own biases and unconscious bigotry. And like I said earlier, you can't separate the winx girls from their race. You can't separate Flora being latina without taking away a fundamental aspect of why she was created. You can't take away Musa being asian without taking away everything from her culture. You can't take away Aisha being black without taking away representation and very important race discussions about how her character is treated. Racism and race affects so much more than people like to think and it's just... hhhh when people ignore that.

[realizashuns]

in the breakroom during my orientation I saw these and texted my friend “well at least someone passes the vibe check”

later on saw a dude wheeling the bike out to clock out and the backpack was still there. There’s two diff weebs and idk if that’s better or worse 😭😂

[meruhenshoujo]

muslimintp-1999-girl: #seriously the issue is that capitalism has made single income households almost impossible/difficult and that's why people end up treating#each other like a burden when what they should be aiming for is an economic system that doesn't view people as disposables/burden & belief#that everyone should have basic human rights such as housing regardless of their financial status#it is so sad that owning a house these days is so out of reach for most people

Precisely!

Can we stop using "still lives with their parents" or "unemployed" or "doesn't have a drivers license" or "didn't graduate high school" as an insult or evidence that someone is a bad person? Struggling with independence or meeting milestones is not a moral failing.

[dstep666123]

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[deepak-1995]

Chai Break Podcast: Embracing Failure with Courage and Strength

[fairynisse]

"I thought Asians were supposed to be smart."

So you believe everyone else, including you, is dumber than Asians?

[1000leaps]

#68 | Empty your cup

“I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”—Bruce Lee. Born in November 1940 in San Francisco, California, Bruce Lee was more than a legendary martial artist and an action movie star. Through his teachings, writings, and advocacy work, Lee challenged and broke down stereotypes of Asian Americans in the media, who used to…

[lylianrae]

A list of all the things I have manifested ⋆˚⟡˖ ࣪

We manifest everything in our lives btw - the good and the bad which is why I will be including both to prove that the law does not discriminate. If you can successfully become poor, you can most definately become rich with the same ease because everything is just a state.

Long hair

AHH this is one of my favourite manifestations. Ever since I was young I had a weird bob with a fringe (often crooked) and I wanted long hair like all the other girls (lmaoo) but my mum was strict so she didn't let me grow it out. Although I didn't know about manifestation back then, every new year and birthday I would wish for long hair and I would pretend I was a princess with butt long hair. Guess what, somewhere along the line, my mum let me grow it out and now I have butt length hair (don't really know what to do with it tho </3).

As all kids do, I went through an emo phase where I chopped off like half of my hair like 4 years ago. I literally grew back 7-8" of hair within a month because my parents got too mad. I knew about manifestation here so I just assumed my hair always grows unaturally fast. Same with when I cut bangs, they grew past my chin within a couple of weeks.

Manifesting my way into a private school

Honestly this just shows that you dont need 2430430 hours of working on your self concept to manifest. Literally so many celebs, including Marylin Monroe (the queen), manifested their fame with awful self concept. Likewise, here I was possibly going through the worst time of my life back then. I would wake up at 8 am and start studying and end at 11 pm despite being only 10 at the time. I was so freaking stressed and envious of all the other children and went into a depressive spiral where my two options were pass or die. I didn't even have enough practice and I cried my self to sleep on most nights. Anyways, when i did the exam I was deathly calm and even after the exam I was apparently so chill so my parents thought I failed.

I literally left 9 questions on one paper but throughout the summer, everytime I found a dandelion I would make a wish and imagine digging a tunnel to the examiners room where I secretly change my answers into the right ones (lmfao my tiny 10 yr old brain - idek how it worked). Anyways my results were sent back to me a month later on a random October evening and I got a really high mark. Even after 7 years of going to this school I havn't met anyone who has gotten a mark higher than mine.

Curly hair / straight hair

Sigh. We always want things we don't have. When I was younger I had really straight hair like 1A asian hair but when I was like 10, I really wanted curly hair and I would try to curl it often. After a few months, I manifested a curling iron and my hair literally became naturally curly like right after a wash it would curly af when before it was dead straight. Naturally I grew bored of it and I wanted my straight hair back and for ages I began overcomplicating the law and struggled to manifest it. It was only recently when I actually let go of the 3D that I manifested the silky, shiny straight hair.

Social life?

This is also a funny one, just shows how easily you can manifest. So back in 2021 after lockdown I felt so lonely and felt so left out of my friendship group so after a few months I began stressing myself out and spiraling for like 30 minutes, sobbing to myself about how I was so lonely and how nobody loved me (💀). Anyways it became reality, I found myself uncomfortable in many social situations and found myself becoming forgotten far more easily. I don't really remember the details but it was so bad that I think I accidently manifested social anxiety (oh well we still up tho).

However I am a loa girly so I found myself listening to popularity subliminals and slowly (but surely) my mindset change from having no friends to being the most popular girl in the year. Like no joke I became friends with like 3 people from different social circles so at lunchtime we had to join up like 3 different tables so we can all sit together. Overall I got myself 20+ close friends and even my ex friends began to admire me although it had ended badly. Even now, when someone says something thats untrue - for example saying that they are dumb when they are not, they would be like "ahaha so its like when Rae (me) says she has no friends, the whole school knows who Rae is".

Clear skin

This was sort of in the beginning of my loa (law of attraction back then) journey, I just randomly found out what subliminals were and was still quite new to everything. Now I don't even understand how it happened but I had busted some capillaries under my skin and it looked like small red viens under my skin and bro I was freaking out at the time. One night I was like just, I had enough, I'm going to get myself better skin and so I listened to a sub once for 3-4 days and on like the 4th day, my cheeks began to heat up which was odd and the next day it was 90% gone. Just like magikkkk.

Desired university?

Guys. Feeling is the secret. Don't you ever forgot that - not feeling as in emotions but rather the feeling of knowing. I had 2 entrance exams to do to apply for my universities and it was a stressful time where I wasn't getting enough sleep and wasn't eating enough simply because I didn't have the time. Like I come home from school and would have 3-4 hours of homework, then I need to revise for tests and then the remaining time would be spent on the entrance exams. Each past paper took 2 hours and I have around 13s per questions and I was already struggling on time. Anyways, I began to hate them and I would often complain to my mum saying things like "My score got even lower!!" or "I hate it so much" or "My head hurts / eyes hurt".

Guess what? Not only did I see my score decrease over time but I also made such a silly mistake on the most important entrance exam which I needed for 4/5 of my universities. I left a question and completely forgot to mark on the answer so when I finished the section I realised I had one more space on the sheet with like 10s to spare. I didn't have enough time to go back and fix it and lemme say that I did so badly in the test. Even while waiting for results I was just like "ah it would be a miracle if I scored above this bla bla".

I got the score back and it was so freaking bad like I did not stand a chance at my university at all. However, I started to affirm for a place and to my utter shock and surprise my desired university reached out and offered me an interview. I knew people who had like scores which were 50% better than mine and they still got rejected pre-interview. Anyways I began stressing about the interview and the results of the whole thing and boom. I got rejected 3 days after my birthday lmaoo. But its okay because I'm reapplying and I learnt so much more. I'm redoing the entrance exam and my score is a loooot better than it ever was last year.

A key take away would be thoughts are the result of the state you are in. Your dwelling state manifests and I was focusing on the unrealness and the difficultly of getting into this uni and thats what manifested. At the time I was heartbroken and literally went through the 7 stages of grief and spent so many months trying to revise it only for me to focus on the 3D. Just know that everything is done in imagination and it appears in the 3D as a result.

Photographic memory

So this is also something I had manifested before I actually knew about loa but the takeaway here is that manifestation is always instant. I was around 11 reading a random book on my tiny kindle and the book was on how to develop a good memory and I was like ah that'll be useful. Anyways later in the car, I asked my dad about photographic memory and he sort of explained it to me. I just assumed that I have that and I told him I do. He just laughed at me and said thats something that you have to train for and I was not impressed lmao. Inside my tiny brain, I was just like nope, I already have photographic memory and I dropped that thought. Let me tell you, my memory is actually photographic and has helped me out on so many occasions like my brain just takes pictures of things.

Learning fast

This is also something I did before I knew loa, I was just always wondering why the other kids couldn't grasp concepts as easily as I did. Literally in every lesson I would be like ah I learn so fast and now I am actually blessed with the ability to grasp complex subjects so fast. A favourite example of mine would be when I was obsessed with music but to take it to a higher level you need to be able to play an instrument. I couldn't at the time and my teacher told me the requirements a week before the actual deadline. I have never actually played piano with both hands but one day I sat down and worked through the entire song (fur elise by Beethoven) which is a grade 5 (I think) and it normally takes people months / weeks to learn. I learnt the whole thing in 3 days and from then on, I could play piano like I had been doing for ages. Again the memory thing was so helpful because I never actually used any sheet music, I learnt it off a youtube video and I remembered every single note I needed to play.

Hourglass body + 22" waist

This was a couple of years ago when I actually didn't understand loa. Anyways long story short, I would do a 3 minute workout and then flex infront of the mirror all day (💀) and be like omg I have abs. Overtime, I actually got so skinny everyone around me kept pointing it out to me and my mum got so concerned that she took me to the doctor like 4 times. It was so funny, I would loose like 2-3kg overnight and my parents would have to buy better fitting uniform.

Bigger boobs

This was also back in the day (2021?) when I didn't understand how to manifest things easily af. I had an A cup but I wanted better boobies and I listened to like 2 subs for a week and I went to a B cup. But I just assumed I have a bigger cup size recently and I just skipped C and went to D+ (haven't measured in a long time).

I'm not done but I'm tired now bye bye

[knightochan-official]

ex game programming contractor and fellow gacha hater here. since you said 'anime girls' I'm gonna assume we're omitting the literally dozens of western gacha no one talks about and address games specifically made in South Korea, China, and Japan.

while it's true that many long running exploitative gachas like fate/grand order or granblue fantasy were created as gachas first and games second, this is grossly oversimplifying the relationship between developers, publishers, and industry

lots of recent gachas with strangely 'AAA' production like the Hoyoverse line, Project Moon's recent work, and even Ark Knights became gachas because it was the only way to get a new IP through a funding pitch in those areas.

that doesn't make these games good or wholesome, but rather my point is that the tension between making these 'good games' and 'money making machines' is real and there in the work, and saying there aren't teams of artists and game designers trying to squeak an actually good game through a gacha model is tossing the baby with the bathwater here

you don't actually like gacha games. you just like community, anime girls, and free games