#argumentative antithetical dream girl

[mirroball]

‘argumentative antithetical dream girl’ sweater hand-knit by me

[itsacruelsummerwithyou2]

stolitz is THE “pathological people pleaser” x “argumentative antithetical dream girl” ship

[crumblingreader]

It's so funny to me that people refuse to entertain the idea that Taylor doesn't describe herself when she says "argumentative antithetical dream girl" in Hits Different because, even if it was grammatically possible, which is already controversial, it doesn't make any sense with the way she describes herself and her muse(s) in other songs: in the next song (You're Losing Me) she's a "pathological people pleaser" but in gold rush, talking about a muse she says: "I call you out on your contrarian shit" and "everybody wants you" "everybody wonders what it must be like to love you" and "your hair falling into place like dominoes"... it sounds a lot more like an argumentative antithetical dream girl to me

[ohgaylor]

Taylor really went there this time

[thefabulousfab-3]

After watching the series in its entirety, I used to think that Ben loved Devi loved that she loved him (just a little bit which I endorse for reparations) but now I realize she loved him the whole time and just thought it wasn't a possibility. For all of s2 and s4 she wanted to be be with him and only him, and with s3 they were basically flirting the entire season and devi just didn't entertain him as a possibility because she didn't know how he felt. Once he made that known, she immediately went for it.

RIGHT!!! Like I’m going to be bold here and say that ever since the kiss at the end of season 1. Devi was down BAD for Ben. Like she went absolutely feral over him not talking to her in season 2. She literally never expressed that type of jealousy toward anyone else. I know she liked Paxton but she loved Ben.

She dated Paxton because Ben was dating Aneesa then she dated Des because she thought Ben just saw her as a friend.

After the hallway scene she was ready to risk it all and spent the entirety of season 4 OBVIOUSLY in love with Ben. Her dating Ethan was purely to make herself feel better. Like when he started texting her dumb little memes and stuff. She was so freaking excited to the point she almost forgot about her college troubles. And when she got in he was the one she wanted to tell first!!!!

In that little hallway scene I could tell she wanted to ask him to stay but she felt like she couldn’t. I think at that point she was waiting for him to do something, WANTING him to do anything.

When he came to the wedding, her world stopped. Like she literally tuned out everything else to focus on him. Then the absolute almost disbelief when he told her he “thinks he loves her” to the relief of him telling her “that he does love her”.

Her soft safe face while riding the scooter to his house was absolutely precious. Like she was so so freaking happy to finally FINALLY know that he loves her like she loves him.

We talk a lot about how Ben loves Devi but Devi LOVES Ben. She really showed that this season especially even when he didn’t really deserve it.

I know I have my complaints about this season but I am truly so happy it gave us them together and in love. It makes me ridiculously happy everytime I think about it.

[none-of-it-was-accidental]

“argumentative antithetical dream girl” is manic pixie dream girl (taylor’s version)

[tristanamerie]

Pathological people pleaser.

[thenewromanticspod]

I’m forever a firm believer that “I can still melt your world, argumentative antithetical dream girl” is Taylor talking to the dream girl rather than referring to herself

[thecoldcoffeecup]

and I'm fading, thinking "do something, babe, say something"

[cursed-man-prayers]

if taylor swift didn't want people to call her gay she would stop writing gay-ass music

[aotgylbk]

wait so hetlors really think that ‘argumentative antithetical dream girl’ is taylor singing to herself???? okay yall… maybe use that little thing in your head more often #no_offence

[avxoxo1]

im the worlds BEST argumentative antithetical manic pixie dream girl. I love alexa chung-

[yes i copy and pasted that]

@flurrygina texting you at 2 & 3am i love youuu <333

purrrrrr why am i crying to suck it and see hello?

do you think alexa chung likes dr pepper. Do you think she has ever drank strawberry cream dr pepper i think she would like it, I mean i dont know since im not Alexa chung. I wish i was i love her. I need to know this before i die. Alexa chung please like dr pepper. Like I need to see a photo of alexa chung drinking a strawberry cream dr pepper asap.

when i wake up somebody remind me to drink dr pepper.

this is so me guys litteraly me i swear like its perfect

im just a girllll im just a girl in the worldddddd-

THATS ALL ILL EVER BEEEE

me when indie sleaze 🎀

[happyfreeconfusedaandlonely]

we really went from “i could still melt your world, argumentative antithetical dream girl” to “i wouldn't marry me either, pathological people pleaser”

[it-hits-different-cause-its-you]

I cant actually believe that anyone can interpret hits different to be about a man, I was trying to explain it to a friend of mine who's not entirely convinced about gaylor and wow! How can it not be about a girl!??! Even if we look away from the fact argumentative antithetical dream girl only really makes sense to be about the person the song is written about in a grammatical, how could that line be about Taylor when the rest of the song describes how broken down and severely depressed about the situation she is. Does 'I cried over a hat', 'asshole outlaw', and 'my sadness is contagious' sound like someone describing themselves as someone's dream girl???? Because I certainly wouldnt say so.