#are gen y and millennials the same
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techandtravel ¡ 2 years ago
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Who Are Millennials and Gen Z?
Who Are Millennials and Gen Z? Who Are Millennials and Gen Z?Meet the MillennialsGetting to Know Generation ZWhat They Have in CommonWhat Makes Them DifferentMillennials Generation Z Meet the Millennials Millennials, or Generation Y, are people born between the early 1980s and the mid-1990s. They were among the first to grow up with computers and the internet. So, they’re pretty comfortable…
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vindicated-truth ¡ 6 months ago
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Here's an amusing trivia:
Despite their age gap, Lee Dongsik and Han Joowon are technically still of the same generation. Dongsik being born in 1981 makes him early Millennial (Gen Y), and Joowon being born in 1994 makes him a late Millennial. When you think about it, their 13-year age gap isn't that big if they technically still belong in the same generation.
Shin Hakyun and Yeo Jingoo are another story however, as they have a 23-year age gap. Hakyun being born in 1974 makes him right in the middle of Gen X, and Jingoo being born in 1997 makes him early Gen Z. That makes them not only one, but two generations apart.
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akkivee ¡ 3 months ago
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A sudden thought I had in relation to my epiphany while thinking about the NGE parallels, but I'm starting to wonder if BB and BAT's lack of deeper plot is BECAUSE of their ages? Like they're so young, (Hitoya is 14 y/o at heart adsjflkasdjl;), so realistically why would they be involved in government shenanigans? But really, what I'm starting to wonder is if they're actually meant to represent the struggle of youths inheriting a world destroyed by the prior generation, a struggle that is pretty universal with the millennial and gen Z demographics globally. Like all they can do is survive the best they can with all the craziness happening because of the actions of the characters older than them.
i'm not sure if bat's there just yet, despite kuukou going thru some of that by proxy of being on a team with ichiro back in the day, but yes absolutely on bb's part lol, it's how they help hypmic's worldbuilding lol. bb also expresses a desire to change their world, but are pretty aimless about it for the most part, which you usually ascribe to youth lol
the block party tho shows ichiro's initiative to change the world and is also meant to show the hope for a better world adults (esp those in higher positions, like the neighbourhood president in bb's track) tend to push on to the youth, as evident from rei using this as a time to point ichiro to the real fight, and samatoki in his next appearance saying he understands the power hope can have. (hip hop was born from these high school kids throwing a block party calling for the end of gun violence that was killing their community. the block party is taking inspiration from that real world event)
bb and bat share a same writing beat where they introduce an ideal that's very important to live by in their messed up world and is an overarching lesson hypmic wants to impart, such as the need to protect your community or the importance of music, and i wouldn't be surprised if bbbat are in a more unique position to follow thru with those ideals bc they're young and without adult responsibilities, and that hitoya is there as the adult arguably with the best position to help them further along those ideals (bc adults need to be able to help clear the way for the youth too, instead of making it harder for them to change their/our shitty world)
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peachycrisis ¡ 1 year ago
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Human Again
Chapter 6
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Angel and Alastor talk, and Alastor Opens Up.
Angel makes a discovery.
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Alastor looked around his new radio tower. It had the same spark and feel as his older one, but seemed to be a lot more modernized. Gold accents littered the walls, red vines hung from the ceiling. On the far right side of the studio was a huge console, perfect for broadcasting his radio shows, and on the far left was a comfy couch stained blood red, modernized but also still retro, just the way Alastor liked it. Alastor stood and took in everything he was seeing. Even though they didn’t know that he was alive, they still took the time to rebuild his precious tower.
Even though he could have been dead, they still made it for him regardless.
Why?
“Hey, smiles..?” Angel asked, tapping on the man’s shoulder. “You okay? You’ve been kind of.. standing there for a hot moment.”
Alastor sighed, then smiled, wiping the now dried tears off of his cheek. The walk to the tower had been relatively silent, besides the occasional sniffles and hiccups from the former deer man. Alastor ran his hand through his curly locks and turned his head to face the spider, who was directly next to him.
“Why?”
Angel paused.
“What do you mean Al?”
“Why did you do this?” Alastor asked softly, he turned away from Angel and looked down at the ground, his hands started fidgeting.
His hands hadn’t done that in nearly 90 years.
“I mean, I could of been dead… I should have been dead- I… I…” the man stuttered, he dropped the smile once more as he began to scratch his arms in attempt to ground himself- to gain control once more. “You guys didn’t know that I was alive, and you still rebuilt this for me… why?”
Angels breath hitched at the vulnerability that was radiating from the former demon, no one knows what truly happened to him- but one thing is for sure, his stubborn ass has suddenly become capable of ‘human emotions.’
or as close to human emotions as a psychopath could have.
“Huh,” Angel softly chuckled, “seems like the stick has finally shot out your ass, huh smiles?”
Alastor shot him a glance, tears in his eyes.
“You know I don’t understand your… millennial, gen.. f y z- whatever it is terminology, Angel Dust.”
“Al, we lived around the same time, I died like 10 years after you-“ Angel looked down to see the man’s hands scraping away at the skin on his already scared forearms- each scratch leaving a new red mark on his tanned skin.
How did he get those scars? He has always been covered up, showing even the slightest amount of skin is seen as scandalous on him.
But that isn’t important, the important thing right now is comforting his… friend…?
Angel moved to stand in front of Alastor, and softly grazed his hand on top of the others. The man’s hands were warm and clammy- yet soft and strong. He grabbed the man’s hand, preventing it from doing any more damage to his forearm, and squeezed it tight, he could feel the man’s hands shake in his grip, so he began to attempt to soothe him by running his thumb up and down across the soft skin of his outer hand. This seemed to work well enough, as he was able to see the man in front of him begin to relax.
God, he looks actually… really adorable…? Angel thought to himself as he used his other hand to grab Alastors other hand, holding them in front of him, between the two men. He squeezed both of the man’s hands.
“I know you’re scared Smiles, and that is okay. If any of us were in your situation, we would be scared too.” His glance moved from the hands that separated the two, to the man in front of him- making eye contact with Alastors brown eyes.
“And we rebuilt your tower because we care about you, and we wanted to you have something familiar to come back to when you came back to the hotel, whether that had to take weeks, months, or even years. We did it not because we felt bad, but because we care about you. We want you to feel comfortable and we all knew deep down that even if you didn’t show it, or even think about it directly- we knew, and I think you know too, that you do deeply care about this hotel, whether you believe in Charlie’s dream of redeeming sinners or not. We know deep down you wouldn’t give up on us, so we will never give up on you- whether your the radio demon, or your true self.”
Angel moved his left hand from Alastors, and placed it on his chest.
“And I believe that this experience has allowed you to finally figure out who you are again, rather than the image of what you want people to think you are.”
Alastor stared at Angel, mouth wide open and glistening with tears, he looked away from the spider.
“My mother always used to tell me “We just gotta think good thoughts and hope that everything passes. A smile is a valuable tool, it assures that through anything that comes our way- we will always be the ones in control,” My mother was my best friend. You know, people like me weren’t treated very well during my time of living, dear. It was really her and me against the world.”
Alastor sighed, and used his newly free hand to wipe some stray tears that had escaped.
“When she died, I promised her that I would never let me feel inferior ever again. And that’s exactly what happened, in life- and in death. I became a smiling psychopath in life, just like many of the people that were brought down here, but down here I had become a monster, and there’s no redeeming that.”
Alastor sadly chuckled, as Angel listened, watching his face as he opened up. He was nearly unrecognizable.
“Even though I don’t want to admit it, occasionally I do think about what she would think of me… heh, she would probably think I was a monster, which is reasonable. She would probably be pissed off at the fact that I have used the radio accent for nearly 90 years.”
“Radio accent?” Angel asked, was the transatlantic accent not his actually accent? What?
“Yes, this is not my original accent- I have just spoke long enough with this one that I had practically forgotten how to speak in my natural voice. I grew up in a Creole family in Louisiana, which is surprising considering how I looked as a demon. I tried so hard to… as kids these days would say, “white wash” myself in order to fit in more with the people around us, which I seemed to be eternally cursed with once I got to hell… the white wash, the smile, the accent, the works.” Alastor chuckled, running his hands, once again through his curly locks.
“Being back in this body brings back some… conflicting feelings, especially when it comes to my life and death. It feels like reverse puberty.” Alastor sighed, finally escaping the grip of Angel Dust- finding the nearest chair to him- which happened to be the blood red couch, and practically fell into it.
Angel watched as the man’s hair bounced with the movement with his head, how his smile began to slightly resurface- showcasing his pink lips. He watched as the man’s eyes fluttered closed as he sighed, finally relaxing after a while. He took note of the man’s shirt, half undone- and his sleeves rolled up half wa-
Oh no.
No. No. No.
Angel can’t.
Or maybe, just possibly he has changed enough.
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roadhogsbigbelly ¡ 1 year ago
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while i'm at it i do genuinely get kind of pissed when people attribute causes like black lives matter or freepalestine to "gen z" because besides the fact that's genuinely insulting to like. the years of activism that's been going on for decades if not centuries, (which is sort of the reason these issues aren't as controversial with zoomers, we didn't suddenly because more progressive than ever other generational out of nowhere, we do need to kind of contribute some of that to the generations before us, sorry) but also because it feels like they're are alot of (not all but alot) white zoomers seem to be SO attached to their generational identity, because they kind of use it as an excuse not to view their own personal biases or try to be actively more progressive, because they're convinced being the same age or close to the same age as other activists somehow means anything. and not just white queer tumblr users but also like. 20 year cishet white boy zoomers who also use being "gen z" as an excuse to not be criticized for their same annoying white boy beliefs (again not technically anything new you can find like. millennials 10 years ago talking about how when the previous generation dies out racism will be gone, but it does feel more amplified due to social media being even more mainstream and therefore it does feel both like "gen z" is more hivemind-y but also that more millennials are afraid to call it out because they're afraid of looking out of touch)
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xenokhi ¡ 5 days ago
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I kind of wish you could rename a generation. Like, what even is “Millennial” supposed to mean? It feels so off for us—those of us born around the turn of the millennium. Gen Y, sure, that’s fine, but I always thought it should’ve been Generation Why.
See what I did there?
It just fits. It's cool in a very cool kind of way, but also it just makes sense. We are a generation that asks why. Why is it this way? Why can't it be different? Why has no one changed this yet?
I’ll claim it. I’m Gen Y. Born in 1991, in all the best ways. That year has some great history behind it, but I guess every birth year does, right? So many things happening that shape your life before you even know how to spell your own name.
I remember thinking a lot about that during early 2020. I was pregnant then, expecting my son in June. And I just kept wondering what kind of world am I bringing this baby into? A sentiment that a lots of parents every generation share. There was so much uncertainty. So many things I wanted to protect him from. And it all felt so wildly different from my daughter’s birth, where at least 20 people met her on her first day earthside.
No exaggeration, my family literally stayed in an RV in the hospital parking lot. They didn’t want to overwhelm me but also wanted to be right there, ready to run and grab anything I needed. Including, yes, a much-needed Taco Bell run after almost a full day of labor.
She wasn’t the first grandchild, not in either family, but both sides are big and love an excuse to celebrate. Her birth felt like a party.
My son didn’t get any of that. It was just us. We had just moved to a new state. One that made more sense for a growing family trying to survive on one income. It was the right call, but we gave up proximity to our people. Then travel got restricted, everything changed, and suddenly we were alone. The fear was everywhere. The playgrounds had caution tape, the news was relentless, and people were dying.
It felt so heavy. And in that contrast, I kept thinking about how much had shifted.
But seriously, the word Millennial doesn’t age well. It conjures up this image, a caricature, and really out-of-date, out-of-touch, tech-obsessed kids who say “you just don’t get it” and talk about “vibes” while refusing to make eye contact. Like that’s still how we’re seen. It hasn’t grown with us. And yet… here we are, still being labeled like we’re all wearing ironic T-shirts and living in our parents’ basements.
So when I ask why I can’t want what I want or expect what I expect, suddenly I’m the entitled Millennial? No. What I want, what I expect, is to be respected. To be seen. To not be treated like a total idiot. Is that really so outrageous?
Generation Why. That’s who we are. We’ve been asking the questions no one wanted to ask. We are the new wave of thinkers. And now that we’re grown, we're looking around like 'How did this all go so wrong'? How did it get like this? And to the generations before us: what happened? What made you stop asking the hard stuff?
Still I believe most people are doing their best. Or I hope they are. I hold onto that. It makes the world easier to be in. I like to think that if someone meets me, they’ll give me the same benefit of the doubt I give them. That they won’t assume I’m being selfish or rude or trying to one-up them when I share a story. That I’m just… talking. Like people do. Like I’m doing now.
When I believe that, I worry less. I don’t spiral about how I sound, or whether I’m being too much. And it helps. Because yeah, maybe we’re all trying our best and maybe that looks different every day. That’s a belief I can hold onto even if someone showed me hard data to prove it wrong.
Why?
Because I can.
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watchingspnagain ¡ 10 months ago
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Rewatching Fallen Idols
Welcome to “Okay So It’s Not a Loki Episode, but I’m Still Super Magnanimous and That’s the Biggest Takeaway Here: A Supernatural Rewatch Blog” with Lor and Mace!
Up today, s5e5: Fallen Idols.
Our boys get intrigued by a case that involves James Dean’s car as a murder suspect, which turns into a series of murders, all seemingly by famous dead people. It’s…weird, to say the least (and can I get an “amen” to the idea that it sounds like something Loki would do? Thank you.) The culprit is Leshi, a pagan god from the Balkans who has found a new feeding ground by transforming into the likenesses of famous people and feeding off their fans. It takes the form of Paris Hilton in the end and wails on both Sam and Dean before Sam can kill it. Cut to an end scene in which the brothers actually…talk? About their feelings? This, too, is weird.
Mace:
maybe open the garage door first?
Lor: 
naaaaaw
Mace:
absolute banana loafs
oh GROSS
Lor:
RIGHT?
mmmm Baby engine
Mace:
yeah
Lor:
"back"? where's "back"? they are IN the only home they have. there's no "get back" from anywhere they ever go pets them
Mace:
YEP
Lor:
omg Dean's "you are so stupid" face
Mace:
HAHAHA
Lor:
down, Dean
Mace:
RIGHT?!
Lor:
"oh we are definitely checking this out"
Mace:
how his little face just lights up talking about it
Lor:
YAAAAAS
OMG ROLLED UP SHIRT SLEEVES
Mace:
YAS
Lor:
AND NOW HE'S ON A CREEPER I CANNOT
Mace:
HA
OMG SAMMY
Lor:
haaaahahaha SAM
YES
"don't even look at her or she might not like it" I love him
Mace:
YES
Lor:
he needs someone to gently massage his neck and give him little temple kisses
Mace:
okay, if it disappeared, then there’s no research to do, and surely someone else has already done it
HA
Lor:
RIGHT?
Mace:
esp THAT car
Lor:
DEAN WINCHESTER stop lying to girls to get laid. for one thing, it's not necessary
Mace:
right?!?! Jesus, honey, just smile at them
Lor:
RIGHT?
he's mad at you for correcting papers in red ink
Mace:
HA
Lor:
i love that their "this cop is an idiot" faces are different
Mace:
I CAN UNDERSTAND HER
Lor:
"she's not making any sense in Spanish either" like he would know
OMG THAT'S AWESOME
Mace:
HAHAAHA
Lor:
well done!
Mace:
thanks!
omg Sam’s FACE
Lor:
YES
Mace:
i don’t remember this ep at all, but it’s got to be Loki, right?
Lor:
I know nothing, Mace
Mace:
sigh
Lor:
lol Sam's face when he says "that look like James Dean" he's so done
Mace:
LORE
EVERYBODY DRINK
YES
Lor:
YAAAAAAS
Mace:
omg Sammy you are so hot when you’re correcting language
Lor:
yeah, Sam, well, say it in Latin, buddy
LOLOLOLOLOL
Mace:
HAHAHAHA
Lor:
nnnnnggg henley and leaning
Mace:
YES
Lor:
that Ghandi one was really good. looks just like Ben Kingsley
Mace:
I’m pretty sure Gandhi was a dick, wasn’t he?
HAHAHAHA
Lor:
I dunno maybe?
Mace:
I feel like I vaguely remember that he was hugely racist or misogynistic or something
Lor:
i know someone in the history of my schooling made me watch that movie but I remember like NONE of it
Lor:
lol Dean's "aaaaah THERE it is" look
Mace:
YES
I’ve never seen it
Lor:
who's... Gen Y? isn't that what they called millennials before they called us that? because they mostly wouldn't be kids?
Mace:
no idea
Lor:
OMG DEAN
Lor:
he and I are the same person, I swear
Mace:
HAHAHA
dude, don’t lean into the jumps scare, christ
Lor:
RIGHT?
lol even a hunter raised in the life first thinks it's his big brother being a jerk when something goes bump
Mace:
“wanna see my Gandhi impression?”
HAHAHA YES
Lor:
lol
"couldn't've been a fan of someone cool?"
Mace:
HAHAHAHA
omg Dean laughing at Sam
Lor:
YES
"that is good. even for you, that is good"
Mace:
yeah
Lor:
iiii feel like there's a little revisionist history going on there, Sammy, hon
Mace:
huh
Lor:
lolol this poor sherriff
Mace:
right?
Lor:
I mean I feel like Dean does treat him like his little brother, but not like he's not an equal?
omg his ARM
Mace:
I disagree. Dean still thinks Sam’s being away at college and rejecting The John Cause makes him lesser
Lor:
huh. interesting
Mace:
that compounds with his Big Brother Knows Best business
Lor:
well he certainly has that
maybe it's the characterization of "dragging me around" that I disagree with? Sam always chooses to come back? and it's not like Sam never picks the case or directs where they're going to go
Mace:
letting him make some of the decisions is not the same as treating him as an equal
Lor:
I can't get over the fact that Paris Hilton agreed to do this
mmm, fair
Mace:
I can’t believe they wanted her to
Lor:
LOL
it's so meta. I really hope she gets it
omg the wink
Mace:
huh. I really don’t care if she did or not.
YES
Lor:
I sense that you do not care for PH
Mace:
i do not think about her at all, in fact
Lor:
very good. I think watching this episode is the only time I've ever thought about her. except for the times I had to read persuasive essays about her from students
Mace:
ha!
Lor:
awww, Dean offering to let him drive
Mace:
indeed. LETTING him drive. but sure, he totally sees him as equal.
Lor:
Dude it's HIS CAR
Mace:
it’s their father’s car.
it’s THEIR car
Lor:
he gave it to Dean, though
Mace:
fine, but making a big deal out of LETTING him drive it is my point
Lor:
grumble mutter whispers maybe you have a point
Mace:
graciously lets you joint the correct side of the argument
Lor:
LOLOLOLOLOLOL
it's always been your magnanimous spirit that's drawn me to you, Mace
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aibidil ¡ 2 years ago
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I watched this interesting YouTube video a few months ago about why it seems like people today look younger than they used to (like, see a photo of your dad at 35 and then dudes today who are 35) and they were saying most of it is really just a bias where our brains impute age from the fashion/vibe.
I can't stop thinking about this since -- and so much of it is about defining ourselves as NOT what came before. My aunts who are in their 80s have these hairstyles that are very carefully NOT looking like my grandma, who had the white curls short do. I would never consider cutting my hair short bc it reminds me of my mom in the 90s with the poofy top, short hair mom do. I have never dyed my hair despite the greys, and somehow this isn't "old" coded to me -- because none of the people in the previous generation ever went gray!!! To me, it looks older to have dyed hair!!!
But just as wild, this also applies to those who are younger than us! The best example I have of this is men's sock choice with shorts and sneakers. When I was a kid, dads wore EXCLUSIVELY high socks, usually white, with shorts and sneakers. I believe my dad died without ever wearing an ankle sock. So dudes my age just deeply feel that the high socks are old-coded and have worn low-cut socks their entire adulthood. But now the next Gen is wearing high socks! Usually black! Like these kids would not be caught dead in a low sock. So clearly this type of fashion identity means that we enter cycles of fashion, or weird onward evolution to try to come up with things that don't have Old connotation.
I keep getting these suggested posts about how millennials should stop dressing x and and do y instead, and I just feel like it's somewhat futile to attempt to get around these beliefs because they are SO ingrained. Even if it fit my gender, I would never consider wearing a skintight mini-dress! That's something that Uncle Jesse's girlfriends would wear in 1992 when I was a smol! No one my age would wear that!!! I don't care if it would make me look less "of my generation", because to ME the connotations are ✨HAVE MERCY✨
So when we look at people who are older than us and think they are dressing old, what's fascinating is that they AREN'T dressing old according to their own definition of what it looks like to be old. And paradoxically, sometimes when you tell someone older to dress younger, you're asking them to wear something that, to their embedded understanding, actually, to them, looks OLD!
Anyway fashion is fake but this is also all very very real in terms of how deep these things are in us, and I think people don't dress "old," they simply dress according to their own generation, and attempting to get around that is pretty much never going to work.
Which isn't to say you should wear the same thing forever, but the potential zone of fashion possibilities is going to be different for each generation, and maybe that's kinda lovely 🤷🏻
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affectiondeficitdisorder ¡ 9 months ago
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Stuff I Didn't Say...
...to men on online dating sites
by Ethlie Ann Vare
I’m in a pissy mood, so trust me when I tell you it could be worse. I have, at least, learned restraint of pen and tongue over the years. Okay, maybe not pen. Here are some interactions I didn’t have with men on Bumble and/or Hinge (the two dating apps where I can be found):
To the guy I politely texted “I enjoyed our chat, but I don’t see us as a match” after a phone call that revealed we were absolutely, undeniably not a match, and who texted back: "Well thanks for wasting my time….” Dude, we were on the phone together. You wasted the exact same amount of my time. Did that not occur to you?
To the 20-something who contacts me regularly, insisting that he’s older than the last time I told him he was too young for me: I am also older than the last time. The same amount older. Is there something in the Y chromosome that blinds people to equivalency? Does time only happen to men?
To the below-average-looking 60-year-old whose profile reads: “In an open marriage, NOT a sugar daddy…” what exactly are you offering, and to whom? Apparently neither the chance of a committed relationship nor the possibility a fun time is on the menu. Do you think your dick is magic?
To the male friends whom I know to be in relationships that I see on the apps: I’m not going to say anything to you or to your partner, because I don’t want to hurt her plus I don’t know your life. DADT (Don’t Ask Don’t Tell) is a thing and none of my business. But my first assumption — that you’re a liar and a cheat — is statistically probably true, and it will affect how I look at you going forward. 
To the guys who mark their politics as Moderate but pose with dead fish and live ammo, are unvaccinated and hate Joe Biden with a burning passion… sorry, but you’re not a Moderate. That’s not what “moderate” means. 
To the guy standing next to the Lamborghini, the Ferrari or the McLaren in hopes of — what, attracting a woman he can later complain is only interested in his money? … Sweetie, I can see that’s a public parking lot. If you want to persuade me that you own a fancy car, you have to take the picture in your own garage. 
To all the men who have a drink in their hand in Every. Single. Profile. Picture… you might be fine. All those glasses of alcohol might be a total coincidence. But if you ever want to go to a meeting or anything, you just let me know.
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Below is the profile photo that Bumble‘s algorithm decided should lead my profile page. I think they like it because I’m wearing tight pants. I like it because it was unposed; I was caught being delighted by an unexpected disco ball. 
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Closing note: I find the apps to be as frustrating as most women of a certain age do. Yes, men of my generation age-gate their matches to women my daughter-in-law’s age. Yes, the paradox of choice makes it hard to invest much time or energy into any one person. Yes, a huge percentage of the profiles are overseas scammers. (Hint: If the word “honest” or “honesty” appears more than once in his profile, he’s a fake.) Yes, people lie about their age, their height, their career and their marital status. But it’s still a fascinating amateur study in sociology. For one, it shows how the population in Southern California over age 50 is still mostly white, while the population under age 50 is anything but. That’s a big demographic shift. I also notice that there is a metric shitload of single men in their 40’s. You can’t even say it’s a Gen X or a Millennial thing, as it spans both generations. Men born in the 1970s are overrepresented, at least in this town at this time. What’s up with that?
Mostly, I wonder if dating apps are keeping us lonely by giving us the illusion of not being lonely. I can talk to men all day and all night, but I’m still sleeping with my dog. No shade on the dog; he’s a good boy. But virtual connection isn’t genuine connection, and maybe that’s why we get frustrated, and I get pissy. But I will try to keep my yap shut about it. My pen, not so much.
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gothicdicordia ¡ 9 months ago
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(Im having all these weird conversations with my weak disabled self and it's trying to tell me I can't do all these things that I have set before myself.
And then I just tell it that you can't say that and you're not the boss of me.)
I woke up and realized the path my mom is going to take us "cling to religion." It's one of her defaults when things get rough and she needs something to bipolar-ly obsess about. And I don't want anything of it.
Because church allows her to decide that church makes her better. But at the same time she looks around at the big, boring Methodist Church and wants to change it .
If you're not familiar with the Methodist, they are not Evangelical and don't regularly practice the gifts of the spirit. And honestly that's cool because if you've ever experienced AG or Evangelical Church, it's a whole pack of crazy.
So the whole basis of the fruits of the spirits is inspired by a mass delusion, which is a spiritual frenzy invoked through music, dance and rolling around on the floor. And as for the gift of prophecy, it's simply just hyper awareness. The cleansing of demons sheer delusion and suggestion.
Problem with bipolar delusions and mass delusions in general is is that people invariably think they are very real and their imaginations add to the experience. Suddenly everything links up and the illusion creates a pattern that doesn't exist.
So while she's speaking about why church is such a great place to be, she's also complaining intensely about all the things she doesn't like about it. And revealing that she had expressed this in a Bible study.
Thus, making me realize that she's probably about to be kicked out of the church if she continues on her usual tangent and that's the ultimate cringe for me. Mentally she needs acceptance, not rejection, but her approach to being accepted is to prove that she's useful by being judgmental and improving the place that she's at, despite the fact that everything is probably happy with the current situation.
And I pointed this out that the church is widely attended and apparently everybody likes what's going on. So implementing change with disable that equilibrium and no one wants that.
And here she is Miss California. Trying to suggest that they change things to make things better. Her version is better. Is the 1980s 1990s version of the non-denominational California Christian Church.
And that particular moment in time has evolved into the modern manifestation of Gen. Y millennial California Christian Church which is highly Musical but very much not like it was in the '80s or 90s.
That's my gift of prophecy being able to see causal events play out much like I did when my ex husband got fired. Or my own terrible moments.
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Oh sorry about my preaching my jokes, just been tired of the meta and wendon commentary that been force onto my generation
Also like in Velma
“You these types of stories are usually about popular white guys who get more power? Well not mine!”-bitch you are doing a adult comedy from a kids franchise that supposed to be a gateway into mystery genre
Also we know you came from a white collar family and went to Darthmouth college
Also like my Chinese wizards having a cannibalism issues. The reference is the numerous sources saying that Chinese ate other humans during times of crisis and warfare
Vs modern writers who trying to subvert tropes
There a fundamental difference between a Gen x and Millennial cinemaphile who picked up on Disney animation movies tropes VS a child who first Disney movie that can remember influencing them is Encanto or coco
Modern writers completely forgot that
It also like my Judas joke with Yasuke and Akechi. I just use the historical context as Judas is the golden standard for betrayal so, depending how they executed his jesuits connections, so him calling Akechi Judas made sense.
Also another thing, Japan been the most requested setting for ac. To the point the offical Twitter made a joke about it
https://x.com/assassinscreed/status/1569400536205594625?s=46
But I recall many people said they got into AC because of the Ancient Greece and Egypt games. So I expect a lot of new blood will come in. And it seem red will be the same especially as it going to take place between the major trilogies and sagas
So naeo is going to be the ultimate shinobi fantasy we wanted. While Yasuke will be used to newcomers to explain the whole secret war. Dialogue like this
Yasuke: So the assassins and Templars, weren’t they destroyed by the Mongols and Templars burn by the French king?
A European assassin(who I would make the grandson of ezio as a callback): We are much older than our crusaders incarnations. My grandfather found records saying that Brutus and Cassius was one of us. There are even whispers that both orders can trace themselves back to ancient Egypt
Y: What that got to do with Japan?
A: It is said that an order of Xuia (founder statue was in ac2 and the mobile game Jade will focus on them) killed the first emperor of China who was supported by the Templars forerunners. This conflict have been around since the dawn of humanity. And I sense the Templars know of something that Oda founded.
Rough but this what I meant like a issue why writing
Oh sorry about my preaching my jokes, just been tired of the meta and wendon commentary that been force onto my generation Also like in Velma “You these types of stories are usually about popular white guys who get more power? Well not mine!”-bitch you are doing a adult comedy from a kids franchise that supposed to be a gateway into mystery genre
You're good no worries, and ya how do you screw up Scooby Doo, start by removing Scooby and then move on to shoehorning politics and SocJus stuff in there.
Also like my Chinese wizards having a cannibalism issues. The reference is the numerous sources saying that Chinese ate other humans during times of crisis and warfare
Not terribly uncommon honestly, there's the old law of the sea that absolves sailors of wrongdoing in case of cannibalism if starvation is the only other option and the person being eaten is chosen fairly.
There a fundamental difference between a Gen x and Millennial cinemaphile who picked up on Disney animation movies tropes VS a child who first Disney movie that can remember influencing them is Encanto or coco Modern writers completely forgot that
Gen-X is the parents of them, older Millennials too, more Gen-X tho.
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Nice they listened
But I recall many people said they got into AC because of the Ancient Greece and Egypt games. So I expect a lot of new blood will come in. And it seem red will be the same especially as it going to take place between the major trilogies and sagas
New fans mean more sales so that's likely part of the plan,
So naeo is going to be the ultimate shinobi fantasy we wanted. While Yasuke will be used to newcomers to explain the whole secret war. Dialogue like this Rough but this what I meant like a issue why writing
Ya needs polish, but it's not bad either, not as a plot outline at least.
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frances-kafka ¡ 2 years ago
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Is TMI/oversharing a huge generational difference between X and Y?
I don't feel like Gen Xrs have ever openly talked about sex as much as Millennials, at the same ages, though I don't think we were or are less horny.
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emtmercy ¡ 2 years ago
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When I was a kid they considered us gen Y and I think we should bring that back because it’s so weird to be in my twenties and have gen z be like 20 and millennials be like 40
Like people who didn’t have lock down drills as a kid are not in the same gen as me
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arytra ¡ 1 year ago
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A couple of additions:
The OP is right about the phone calls but it's less about the past and more about YOUR energy. An email is an easier thing to send. It's less stressful, you can copy and paste, etc. A phone call, especially in the age where Millennials, Gen Z, and Gen Alpha HATE making them shows that commitment. You are willing to do the hard and time-consuming thing so it counts more. THAT SAID, if you aren't able to do the phone call, still do the email. It's better than nothing and especially if your representative is more local and on your side, they can use their numbers when they fight for you. "X number of my constituents are upset about Y." It's just less effective than the phone call.
Be polite, be polite, be polite. This doesn't mean you can't state your goals clearly, but do NOT yell at the person answering the phone. Do not swear at them because you're mad. Do not hurl insults at them nor their boss. This will not have the effect you think it will. It will, instead, result in your call not being taken seriously. Even if the representative agrees with you, they won't want to associate with that. Sounding annoyed or frustrated is fine, but use the same skills that we're known for when dealing with customer service or retail and it will get you further. Also, the people who answer the phone might be an intern and will certainly be staff so keep that in mind as well.
When I was in ninth grade I wanted to challenge what I saw as a very stupid dress code policy (not being allowed to wear spikes regardless of the size or sharpness of the spikes). My dad said to me, “What is your objective?”
He said it over and over. I contemplated that. I wanted to change an unfair dress code. What did I stand to gain? What did I stand to lose? If what I really wanted was to change the dress code, what would be my most effective potential approach? (He also gave me Discourses on the Fall of Rome by Titus Livius, Machiavelli’s magnum opus. Of course he’d already given me The Prince, Five Rings, and The Art of War.)
I ultimately printed out that phrase, coated it in Mod Podge, and clipped it to my bathroom mirror so I would look at it and think about it every day.
What is your objective?
Forget about how you feel. Ask yourself, what do you want to see happen? And then ask, how can you make it happen? Who needs to agree with you? Who has the power to implement this change? What are the points where you have leverage over them? If you use that leverage now, will you impair your ability to use it in the future? Getting what you want is about effectiveness. It is not about being an alpha or a sigma or whatever other bullshit the men’s right whiners are on about now. You won’t find any MRA talking points in Musashi, because they are not relevant.
I had no clear leverage on the dress code issue. My parents were not on the PTA; neither were any of my friend’s parents who liked me. The teachers did not care about this. Ultimately I just wore what I wanted, my patent leather collar from Hot Topic with large but flattened spikes, and I had guessed correctly—the teachers also did not care enough to discipline me.
I often see people on tumblr, mostly the very young, flail around in discourse. They don’t have an objective. They don’t know what they want to achieve, and they have never thought about strategizing and interpersonal effectiveness. No one can get everything they want by being an asshole. You must be able to work with other people, and that includes smiling when you hate them.
Read Machiavelli. Start with The Prince, but then move on to Discourses. Read Musashi’s Five Rings. Read The Art of War. They’re classics for a reason. They can’t cover all situations, but they can do more for how you think about strategizing than anything you’re getting in middle school and high school curricula.
Don’t vote third party unless you can tell me not only what your objective is but also why this action stands a meaningful chance of accomplishing it. Otherwise, back up and approach your strategy from a new angle. I don’t care how angry you are with Biden right now. He knows about it, and he is both trying to do something and not doing enough. I care about what will happen to millions of people if we have another Trump presidency. Look up Ross Perot, and learn from our past. Find your objective. If it is to stop the genocide in Palestine now, call your elected representatives now. They don’t care about emails; they care about phone calls, because they live in the past. I know this because I shadowed a lobbyist, because knowing how power works is critical to using it.
How do you think I have gotten two clinics to start including gender care in their planning?
Start small. Chip away. Keep working. Find your leverage; figure out how and when to effectively use it. Choose your battles, so that you can concentrate on the battle at hand instead of wasting your resources in many directions. Learn from the accumulated wisdom of people who spent their lives learning by doing, by making mistakes, by watching the mistakes of their enemies.
Don’t be a dickhead. Be smarter than I was at 14. Ask yourself: what is your objective?
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nickgerlich ¡ 1 month ago
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My Generation
If there is anything true about the generations alive at any given time, it is these things:
The generation(s) before us were blissfully aloof and cling to old ways.
Subsequent younger generations are lazy, and their music sucks.
And our generation is the best ever. End of discussion. Full stop.
The demarcation of generations, as well as the naming of them, can be contentious. Demographers and social scientists look for things that can be significant bookends, such as the Baby Boom generation, which started in 1946, the first full year after soldiers arrived home from WWII, and 1964, the last year in which there were 4 million births. That was an easy one.
It is not always easy, though. For example, Generation X starts with 1965, when births dipped below 4 million, but ended in 1980. Why? In the absence of clear numbers, this generation was known as the Latchkey Generation, a time of shifting social values, divorce, single-parent households, two-income families, etc. In other words, they often came from school to an empty house. Oh, and as for the name, it stems from a 1987 article written by Douglas Coupland in which he described individuals who did not prioritize social pressures. It stuck.
Next up was Generation Y, which some felt needed a sexier name, and thus Millennials was coined, even though their span was only from 1981 through 1996. Some view them as Digital Natives, meaning they grew up with the internet. I think that’s a bit of a stretch, though, especially for those born in the early years. More appropriate, though, is the fact that this was the most ethnically diverse generation to date. They are more educated than prior generations, and also seek a work/life balance once shunned by their elders who defined their life by their work.
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Gen Z (See what Coupland started there? We would quickly run out of letters.) is characterized as those born between 1997 and 2010. They are true Digital Natives, having known nothing else. I remember when we adopted our first daughter in September 1998 at the age of one, and I found a smallish “travel mouse” online that fit her toddler hand just perfectly. I had her on the computer in no time, and she never looked back. The same can be said for our second daughter in 2002. Both are now digital marketing professionals.
What’s that they say about apples not falling far from the tree?
Before we keep moving forward, let’s take a few big steps back and consider the remnant members of the Silent Generation (1928-1945) and the Greatest Generation (a reference to a Tom Brokaw book), born between 1900 and 1927. Both of these generations are characterized by hard work and resilience, as well as world wars. These were the truly tough people of the last 125 years.
And now we have Gen Alpha…because, as I just said, we ran out of letters, and now we have to go Greek. These were born between 2010 and the present. We in academia refer to these young people as the demographic cliff, because following the economic collapse of 2008, people started having fewer children again. Births—numerically, not percentage-wise—had crept up through the Millennial and Gen Z cohorts, but the economic shock sent people looking for birth control. Universities are bracing themselves for the coming drop in young people of college age.
Already, Gen Alpha is known for being the most tech savvy of all. Their lives were also shaped by COVID, with pivotal years—meaning not college—being characterized by a long period of remote learning. They are glued to their social media accounts, but also exhibit high degrees of economic and social awareness, as well environmental consciousness.
For example, Gen Alpha is already showing a preference for the luxurious, which may sound odd considering that the oldest member of this generation is only 15. These older Alphas also love their skin care products, and are exerting much influence on their parents’ purchases. Perhaps these kids are back seat drivers, but they are influencing which car their parents buy, as well as what they eat.
While the “border years,” often called “cusps,” make it difficult to pigeonhole people who happen to be born near them, we can still write basic summaries of what the generations deemed important, how they live or lived their lives, the things that shaped them. Sure, there are differences between “Young Boomers” and “Old Boomers,” especially the fact that for this 1959er I never had to go to Vietnam. I was too young, but I know plenty of older peers who did, and it was not a good experience. Ever hear of PTSD? Yeah.
As marketers, we must pay attention to these generational differences. It is the difference between seizing an opportunity, and being blissfully ignorant. The latter is not a good look, and to try to force younger cohorts into older molds is not going to end well either.
That’s a far cry from my Boomer life, in which I basically was expected to sit down and shut up. Clean your plate. Wear these clothes. Turn down that damn music. And make sure you are home before the sun goes down.
As for me, I am forever a student of the generations. It is a fascinating topic. I love the fact that each generation is free to define itself, to spread its wings, picking and choosing anything they like from their parents’ generation, but also forging new ways of doing old things, not to mention new ways of doing new things.
I also find it very sobering that four subsequent generations are alive now following my own. This all went too fast. Each academic year finds me another year older, but my students are pretty much the same age as ever. You guys keep me young!
I would love to make it to another two subsequent generations. I also know that in 50-75 years after I die—and here’s the most sobering takeaway from today’s blog—no one will remember me. Or you. Unless you were a worldwide phenomenon, statesman or woman, or A-list celebrity, you will only be remembered in retrospective anthologies about the generation in which you found yourself. A Boomer. A Millennial.
At least my generation’s music didn’t suck.
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The American Workforce Will Be Forced To Deal with declining educational standards
According to research, millennials (Gen Y) are the most educated generation in American history. Approximately 38 percent of millennials have a bachelor’s degree or higher, compared with 32 percent of Generation X and 15 percent of baby boomers when they were the same age. Cellphones need to be removed from K-8 gradesThere’s no reason why ELA students in 8th response to an educator is “imma jus…
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