#anti elliot stabler

[jelestes]

olivia benson is not in love with elliot stabler, she’s trauma bonded to him.

she idealizes this relationship because deep down she doesn’t want to be real, she had multiple opportunities to act on her feelings and she didn’t, she never does because she WANTS this relationship to be fictional.

s8 and s9 only prove it to me, she’s willing to do anything for this man except be with him! she loves him, sure but she’s not in love with him although she thinks she is and you know why she thinks she is? because they’re trauma bonded! she thinks he’s the only one who can understand her because of what they’ve seen and lived while on the field.

she said it once that dating doesn’t work for her because men are either disgusted or too interested on her job, she was clearly making herself unavailable (*coughs* comp het) until boom she falls for a man who’s completely unavailable but who understands the job and her and is a “safe” (and i use that term losely bc we know him) option to be in love with and she doesn’t have to actually be with him to feel like she’s in love.

also she swears left and right she doesn’t have daddy issues but my girl was out there admitting to a perp she knows what it feels like to want to be loved unconditionally by a man you can’t tell me she doesn’t get herself into those goddamn awful relationships to make peace with herself for what her father did to her mom.

stabler is a fantasy she feeds herself with because he’s the man she wants to love her unconditionally and in fantasy world that works but in reality she isn’t sure SHE can love him that way.

that’s it, i rest my case.

[cabensqn]

controversial opinion but cabenson and rollisi are the best svu ships

[vivaciousoceans]

When I say I want Kathy Stabler to haunt the narrative, I want her to haunt the narrative. Every time Elliot even thinks about another woman, I want her to appear, just looking at him. Every time he looks at one of his 16 children, I want him to see Kathy’s face staring right back at him. I want her to haunt him so bad he thinks he’s going crazy which causes him to have a fatal accident where he breaks every bone in his body, so he’s aware and conscious but unable to move as Kathy haunts him.

[wadesprincessboy]

I hate elliot stabler and i hate bensler and olivia deserves better and so did kathy and yeah elliot is TRASH and should be called elliot UNstabler!!!!!

Thats it thats all I just hate this man

[sapphicghostie]

annoying bensler fans: Oh Elliot would never doubt Olivia

actual canon: Elliot doubting Olivia and blaming her for everything going wrong and never apologizing

[winterstarfall]

stabler is not good for benson! she never would have made sergeant/lieutenant/captain if he had stuck around! she is in emotional distress every time he shows up! he’s got a jarhead temper and the rapsheet to show it! EO is the absolute worst ship i’m sorry liv deserves so much better.

[autisticjoshrusso]

its the way that i tried to actively lower my expectations for s25 and was still disappointed

pros of s25: almost no stabler

cons of s25: the everything else

[icedsodapop]

Season 6 ep 8 reveals that Stabler has been working for 12 years on the force and Im just going, how have you been doing this for 12 years and still be shit at it?

Like oh yeah, he's a cop 🤷🏻‍♀️

[theshadyrodian]

s3, ep10

stabler is denying that this guy was r@ped SIMPLY because he’s a man and he was assaulted by women from start to finish. “why didn’t he fight back” “he could’ve overpowered them”

this is the guy everyone’s obsessed with??? he didn’t even apologise for blatantly disbelieving the victim due to BIAS (not saying i would’ve forgiven him if he had apologised), and he was acting like a whiny prick the entire episode

literally fuck this guy.

[quinnfebrey]

just rewatched the almost kiss scene and jesus christ the amount of distress elliot’s presence causes olivia is unreal. him cornering her against a wall and her repeating “im not ready for this” while looking like she’s about to faint. she’s not just “scared it’s not going to work out.” she can feel that it’s not right and knows that he’s an unstable, unpredictable, garbage friend, husband, cop, and father who has trauma bonded to her and is trying to convince her that it’s love.

[jelestes]

someone mentioned to me that dick wolf’s kids are named elliott and olivia and y’all wonder where the problem with this pairing begins istg we are NOT watching the same show

[garruscoochie]

Liv standing up for herself and saying how one sided and hurtful her relationship is with stabler to his face IM PROUD OF HER

[vivaciousoceans]

Does Stabler not recognize that Olivia’s changed? She doesn’t seem stronger, harder, colder? I mean she was never all sunshine and roses but she had this gleam pre-Lewis. That has never ever ever came back. We see glimpses of it but that old Olivia is long gone, and this cheap imitation of her that current day Olivia is trying to do, is falling flat. But Elliot seems convinced.

[sapphicghostie]

DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF YOU LIKE ELLIOT STABLER !!!

that abusive asshole is the worst and i don’t like elliot apologists or sympathizers 

[winterstarfall]

svu is a better show after stabler leaves.