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skys-archive · 5 months ago

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Genuinely one of the best things you can do for your chronically ill loved one in a flare is feed them. Cook for them, bring them food, heat up leftovers for them. Seriously, I think food is something that's just so deeply rooted in care and comfort. It's hard to feed ourselves when we're hurting or fatigued or weak, and especially hard when it couples with depression.

It meanwhile so much to be given food when you're struggling.

#another great thing is cleaning #i personally really struggle with cleaning in general #and much more in a flare #disability #chronic illness #chronic pain #physical disability #chronically ill #chronic fatigue #depression #cripple punk #cpunk

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cheeriochat · 1 year ago

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GUYS GUYS LOOK AT WHAT I SAW AT MY LOCAL DANGERFIELD

'ASTARION APPROVES' 😭😭😭

Omg I was so gonna buy the necklace but I thought to leave it on the mannequin for the next bg3 fan.

#it was 19 dollars so that was super good #especially for dangerfield iykyk #but cool reference lol #i love it when chain buisnesses let their employees customise the store #it just brings more life and personality into what would just be another branch of the store #god knows my workplace would never #lets go megacorp buisness #i was gonna suggest making a book reccomend thing for our book section but then again im literally the only one who cleans there #anyways yeah dangerfield is great!!#bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #astarion

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vool-zam · 10 months ago

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she kisses like a melting nuclear reactor ☢️💚

#guaranteed to give u an incurable case of radiation poisoning #bedelia's wacky bachelorette challenge #bedelia vonfinkenstein #bwbc extras #ts4 #ts4 edit #v out of practice w/editing for this damn game jfdhfhsdjhfds #getting back into the swing of things sans topaz clean (another causality of the great sim purge of 2022) lmao

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bas-rouge · 9 days ago

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Also Puppy had their third nail trim tonight. Took all of 5 minutes. They just laid down and went to town on a chew while I took the clippers to each nail. They were a little uneasy about the table at first (table = ears, and ears = torture 😅), but they were fine once I pulled out the dental chew. Not sure what they put in those but it's like crack to them. Anyway, they didn't even protest me manipulating their paws (the rear nails were pretty short so I couldn't get to them without pushing on the pads to get them through the hair), so I'm pretty thrilled! Not a huge surprise considering puppy sat on the counter with a dental chew and didn't even miss a beat when they got their third round of vaccines last week 😅 food makes everything better...

#well work more on the table #we worked a bit with stairs today #puppy is great at going up and down the open stairs we go up and down every day #(at the park and outside my apartment)#but they werent so sure about wooden stairs and about the super tall stairs on the floors above us #we got there #but it was a process #and they haaaate enclosed staircases which is understandable they havent experienced any #the table thing is a priority though #i would like to start looking at maybe getting a townhome in the future but table > stairs right now lol #it 100% is because puppy has had their ears done on the table at their breeders house and haaates it #which i do understand because its not exactly pleasant #so well work on that #grooming tables really are a godsend #well this one i bought (fb marketplace special) is wayyy too heavy for shows so ill have to keep looking for another #and its quite tall so when puppy is standing its less useful #but great for nail trims and im hoping will be great for brushing and paw cleaning #im around puppy so much that i dont really see a difference in their si #*size but allegedly they are huge now according to my friends who see them once a week #lol #they are probably too big to be a sheltie now. sad!

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lunasilvis · 6 months ago

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2 months into 30.

Growing into somebody I can be genuinely, genuinely proud of. At night I rest well 🌛

#Just had this dawn on me tonight. I am not yet arrived at my best life. But I know it is right around the corner! I am hands-on creating it #Consistent work + clear goals. No easy roads but the one cracked and erroneous and totally hiddledy-piddledy #(the one so typical for life. unfortunately sometimes lol. but so we all do grow in the fish bowl. till you gotta swap fish bowls)#With binoculars I can prob see the life that is for me already. Freed from the shoebox I find myself in now at moments #Living in the city. hope abroad. a profession that sets me free and feels limitless and enriching. Laughing more. eating great foods.#a beautiful bed. a clean and eccentric interior that slaps and makes anyone feel straight at home when they are visiting.#stories to tell. to hear. things to see. things to share #yeah I am working towards that every day rn! ass off. With just another little extra patience I'll arrive at it so soon #I gotta believe and I gotta put in the labour. and I will do it smiling reminding myself of all these things I just listed 🙏✍️

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itspileofgoodthings · 6 months ago

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you know what I’ve realized lately? that’s really helped? the axiom: it just doesn’t really make that much of a difference. Or at least it doesn’t when you’re talking about good things and not, like, doing good vs. doing evil. Big choices, little choices, decisions, decisions —it’s not just that they don’t matter in the grand scheme of things—because they do! —but just. It won’t make that big of a difference. Life will continue to be wonderful AND difficult, fascinating AND hopelessly mundane, full of roses AND thorns and all the other cliches whether you walk down one road or another. And you’ll get used to the joys and sick of the sorrows whatever they are, and you’ll be ungrateful and bored and dissatisfied in some measure some of the time and you’ll have to work on all the things you have to work on anyways and just. Yeah! It doesn’t make that big of a difference! Even the biggest things!

#as Maria once said to me iconically: marry the guy don’t marry the guy #life is hard and it sucks and it’s also great and little treats exist #and we have to practice patience and virtue and penance regardless of any other circumstances #and God loves us no matter the path we take #like I just. I am reflecting #you know what also made this click for me recently? the limits that can be reached with doing little things to improve your life #like YES. I need to get some exercise and eat some food that is not totally terrible for me and clean my space #but you know the fuck WHAT #(I’m so sorry for swearing)#it doesn’t !!! actually !!!!! dramatically alter my life if I do one thing or another or in a certain order #I could become a fanatical hiker (for some reason I have been seized by the vision of this lately)#and it’s just like. well. yes you could. and you know what it would keep raining sometimes and my anxiety would still exist #and people would still be irritating and laughter would still be real!#anyway I don’t mean to be dismissive over the ways choices can deeply affect our lives #but when the choices are good and the options are good it just doesn’t matter that much #I also realized this with makeup lol. like I reached the point where I was like I could spend more time and effort and money #to achieve a higher level quality of appearance and literally for WHAT #people would still not pay attention to me in the grocery store (lol)#and they don’t need to!!!!! and it’s fine they don’t!!!!!!!#but I just. that voice in my head that’s like if you do X you will experience happiness you have never known #and things will all work out and everyone will be in love you #to that voice I say: well no.#wow this is long but you know what I mean????? it all just sort of matters less in the sense that nothing WE do is going to really #change our lives? I know that’s insane #because people are so insistent that the opposite is true. but like. actually no the most life changing opportunities usually happen #without our control or our scheming or our planning #so of the stuff within our control it’s not that big of a deal!! do good avoid evil enjoy your lunch call your mom!!! but that’s all gonna #keep being the same on the other side of so many many different choices we can make #so yeah

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luvsavos · 1 year ago

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i am once again apologizing for my lack of activity/responsiveness

my childhood cat passed away a few days ago which has just been more stuff on top of everything else for me to deal with to stress me out and upset me

i'll try to get back to stuff. Eventually. as soon as i can</3

#mar.txt #still very much upset about losing him，but it's kind of faded for numbness now #still not holding up great though especially considering how sudden it was #he was all fine and healthy and then just suddenly started to rapidly go downhill and within like. two days he was gone #he was so weak. couldn't move almost at all，his meows were barely just meow-sounding exhales. the last two things he did were #getting my attention so i would come to him，then attempted to crawl onto my lap and despite me being less than a foot away he couldn't make #it. so i brought him onto my bed on my lap with me. and then at some point later after another sudden onset of diarrhea (which seemed to #take absolutely all of his remaining strength) and i'd brought him back to my bed after cleaning the poop off of him he got my attention to #move his head so he could look up at me. and that's how he passed. looking up at me.#despite everything，he was purring. so weak and faint i could hardly feel it，but. he was purring，maybe until the moment he finally passed.#he was obviously suffering. and we couldn't afford to get someone to put him down so we just did what we could for him.#i'm glad that，at least，he was happy in his final moments. he wanted to be with me and i'm glad i could give him that. i HAD needed to go out #that day but i opted to stay home because i was worried he'd pass while i was gone. sure enough if i had gone out he would have.#i'm glad i could give him the comfort and company he wanted in his final moments. i'm glad i made him happy enough in them to purr even #despite how weak he was. i'm glad he didn't pass alone and possibly in pain.#ive lost a lot of pets in my life. but amos? he's only like. three years younger than me? we practically grew up together. ive known him his #entire life. no amount of being told it hurts to lose a childhood pet will ever compare to the reality of it happening.#i buried him outside my window. so he's close to home.#vent post? i guess?

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televinita · 5 months ago

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Me, a person who spent 90 minutes at a book sale yesterday frequently squatting down to look at the books still in boxes under the tables: weird, why are my thighs so achy and sore while walking today??

#btw i was a very restrained person who only bought 4 things and kind of feels like I COULD have bought none #Sand Dune Pony (it's been stalking me for years; am honestly not THAT interested but finally gave in for one in good condition)#The Fate of Mercy Alban (another holdout for years except I love this one; and it was in perf condition)#Texts From Jane Eyre which I REALLY love specifically as an audiobook but also kind of wanted in hard copy to mark fave quotes #and The Storied Life of A.J. Fikrey because it was in perf condition and I thought a Target Book Club edition might have extra stuff #also I swore a quiet blue streak upon finding Gentleman Jim (in great condition) which I JUST bought from Half Price for $7+ a month ago #the copy here was ex-library but you know what? so was the HPB one (stickers had been removed but I still needed to clean the residue)#and the copy here was $1 with no extra tax

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tommygotwrittenoff · 6 months ago

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i need eddie to get another guy friend in season 8, and buck loses his shit about it (again), so he breaks up with t because he's convinced that the weird feeling he gets when he sees them together is because he is Really attracted to the new guy.

#like things with t are fine cuz he likes exploring this new side of himself even if t doesnt always match his energy but whatever its fun #and maybe at work chim is the one who brings up eddies new friend and he is immediately just. what new friend?#chim laughs and says. tbf last time eddie got a new friend you attacked him so you could date his friend. hes probably keeping it to himsel #and bucks like. dude what. that was. yeah it was shitty of me but it was a one time thing. i wont do it again...#and when eddie shows up for shift buck immediately asks about his new friend and eddie tells him about the guy without hesitation #after shift tho buck is like. why didnt you tell me about him? after t i get why you dont want to but im just. you dont have to worry man.#buck. i know. im not worried. anyway he and i are gonna head to a bar to catch the game. you want to come with? you can bring t if hes free #oh. thats. thatd be okay? i dont want to idk ruin the vibe by bringing a date #nah man. itll be fine #and so he and t go to the bar and eddies already inside with the new friend and its Fine. its Great actually because t gets along with eddi #and the new guy and the new guy makes eddie laugh and doesnt miss a beat and knows more about the teams record this season than buck and #buck is doing Fine. this guys smile is big and his eyes are bright and when he laughs he sorta leans into eddies space alittle and its Fine #the night ends and buck and t go back to his apartment and buck cant stop thinking about that guys hand when it clapped down on eddies #shoulder or the look on his face as he teased eddie about the beer he drinks (cuz its kinda bad but only buck can say that) and buck Cant.#he wants that guy. he wants his hands and grin and teasing voice all to himself and not on eddie.#so he breaks up with t and ts confused af cuz i thought things were going good?#yeah. i just. i want to explore my options yk now that ive uh figured out i like men.#and its a clean break. not dramatic or messy. t tells him to call if he every changes his mind. buck wont.#bucks trying to not pry about eddies new friend and he doesnt grill eddie or anyone and just waits and listens to all the new info he gains #and eventually eddie invites him out to watch another game because whatever team they were watching made it to the playoffs #and when he gets there eddies like. no t tonight?#nah we. uh. we broke up.#eddie says sorry man that sucks. and the new guy is like. honestly he didnt even seem that into you which what an idiot. youre great.#and its good because the new guy splits his attention between the two of them now. eddie isnt the only one getting hands and grins and eyes #and the third time theyre at the bar the guy follows him to bathroom and kisses him hard against the door before pulling back with a #panicked sorry and leaving and when buck finds eddie after hes like. what happened? new guy ran out of here without even saying goodbye #he kissed me in the bathroom. i think uh. i think he was kinda freaking out about it and thats why he left.#and eddie just blinks at him before being like. buck. buck you said you werent going to do this again.#i didnt mean to! and buck means it. he just saw the way that guy made eddie laugh and put his hands on eddie and had eddies attention and #oh.

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theheroheart · 1 year ago

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As an adult who celebrates (heavily secularised) Christmas, including now actually inviting people over for dinner and stuff, I now understand the reason behind going overboard making the house look nice.

It's not about appearances or upholding tradition or anything like that. We're only inviting people who don't really care, and I only care about traditions that make me happy.

HOWEVER

A) It's fun to decorate and do something a lil fancy once in a while!

B) It's a good fucking excuse to actually make yourself clean the house properly, after putting it off all year.

#real life maybe #i moved back in with my housemates in September #and it's been a slow progress of unpacking while also studying #the living room was so full of boxes stuff for a while #esp since we were also doing a BUNCH of house cleaning and getting rid of a load of things #and then we were getting new closets for storage space #and in general it's been like non-stop low-level chaos since summer #now we've FINALLY got almost everything worked out #and like yes. everything not perfect? it's fine. no one cares.#but it feels so good to get stuff done!!#also pls note that one of us has ADHD and apparently just fucking permanent iron deficiency fatigue (me)#another also has ADHD and is super busy. and the last one is autistic and is disabled with chronic pain #so it's frankly amazing when we do make the house look great

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drysauce · 6 months ago

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head in hands. i spent half of the day cleaning the flat and only like 2h ago sat down to rest but my roommate just came home and announced that i need to get up and help her pack all the stuff RIGHT NOW because she originally wanted to do it tomorrow morning but since im going out for a while it has to be NOW 🧍

#girl it's almost 10pm #you weren't here for 4 days and it was no problem but im going out for 2 hours tomorrow morning and suddenly we have to do #everything now because of that #the only good thing is that while cleaning i watched the whole season of an anime #i SOOO want to tell her to do it alone since i already cleaned the flat by myself but it would 100% end with an argument hhhhh #and that's not the end #i tell her that before thursday i won't be able to move my things because my parents took the car on their vacation #and she said you do you but you'll be sleeping and sitting on the ground #and we can't postpone packing furniture to wednesday because on thursday she's going on another trip #just great #would it really hurt her to tell me that before when i had access to the car and was staying alone in the flat while she was on her trip #i guess i can always take a bus and move my stuff this way but it'd require doing that 2-3 times #and bus fees cost 😔

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createacamillahect · 9 months ago

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Camilla Hect getting all her needs taken care by soft Doms Pyrrha and Palamedes. Like she's real needy and they are real indulgent

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Jellyfish emoji!! I love you. This answer wrote itself lol

Camilla enjoys nothing more than going offline during sex. She sometimes enjoys going nonverbal, just whining and reaching for what she needs. This melts both Pyrrha and Palamedes in her fingertips. Pyrrha always shushes her softly before giving her exactly what she wants and Palamedes pushes her hair back and softly works his lips against hers, leaning her back into Pyrrha. They like to overwhelm her, double penetrating her as they softly rock her in their laps, working their lips over her neck, breasts, and back. After she comes they keep working, her needy whines encouraging Pyrrha as she thrusts her full weight into her. At the same time, Palamedes whispers into her ear about how good she feels, that she's so perfect taking him like this. He tells he that she would've made so much money doing this for a living instead of being his cavalier, smiling when she bites his lips in disagreement.

They sometimes tie her arms and blindfold her, shutting off her senses so she can focus on them. It turns out Pyrrha still has a fondness for handcuffs, and Camilla rolls her eyes when she gets fuzzy gray ones, but they are comfortable on her wrists. Palamedes and Pyrrha set the rule that Camilla cannot reciprocate, but that at her command she can watch them take care of each other. It took a bit to adjust, but she loves not having to do anything or worry about anything other than following commands and directing her lovers where to come.

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cuteniaarts · 10 months ago

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Fanny, my sweet, beautiful girl

17.11.2012 – 14.04.2019

#my art #artists on tumblr #I cannot accept that it has been 5 years already #I know covid messed with everyone’s sense of time but it simultaneously feels so much longer and so much shorter than that #exactly five years ago I was holding onto my mom for dear life and sobbing as we watched lilo and stitch together #not the best movie to watch when you’ve just lost your first ever pet you know #and then I cried myself to sleep at the next morning we never mentioned her again #I know it’s because it was way too painful for everyone involved. but I do wish I was allowed to process that grief properly #instead of bottling it up and pretending everything was okay until I was reminded of her #feeling like my heart was being shattered over and over again every single time #well anyway. enough of that. I’ve allowed myself a nice long cry today and got most of it out of my system #and once I was feeling okay I decided to draw her #and I can count the number of times I’ve drawn animals on one hand so.. I’m not too sure about the result #but it felt like to commemorate her in some way.#so yeah. here she is. my dear girl. the best dog in existence. she was always so affectionate and kind #which I didn’t always appreciate bc of how young I was. when you’re a kid it feels like pets will live forever #never barked. never bit anyone. her only crime was chewing on my mlp and lps toys that I left out on the floor #but I’m grateful she did that. it taught me not to leave my toys lying around and to clean up after myself #she really was taken from me way too soon. ideally she could still be alive right now. but I’ve been down the road of guilt and regret #there was nothing I could do. I was a child. I can only hope that she knew she was loved right until the very end #even if I didn’t know how to show it properly. and great. now I’m tearing up again #I suppose it’s unavoidable. April 12th will always be a melancholy day. and maybe that’s not such a bad thing #it’s good to have a day when I can freely remember her and cry if I need to. it’s healthy. it’s better than crying every day #she never liked it much when I cried. always tried to comfort me. that’s the kind of dog she was. I miss her so much #when I move apartments and get a dog of my own I’m getting a spaniel. just like she was #well. maybe a different colour so I don’t end up sobbing every time I look at it. but spaniels really are the perfect breed #I mean. cavaliers especially were bred for love and warmth. that’s just what I need. it will be nice to have someone waiting for me at home #and while I don’t necessarily believe in the afterlife… I do hope that Fanny’s watching over me #spiritually comforting me when I feel all alone in the world. it’s a nice thought for sure #and hopefully she won’t mind me getting another spaniel too much. it will be done in her honour after all. to make up for my past mistakes

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rosicheeks · 1 year ago

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i am a little worried about you Princess. are you ok?

#I’m doing….. okay??????#I love my new job so that’s great #I get to be with puppies all day #have to do a lot of cleaning but they are worth it 🫶#but my depression and anxiety have been baaaaaaad lately #I have a few ideas why my depression has been rough lately #but that doesn’t make it any easier #I want to work and be with dogs all day every day but I can’t work thaaaat much (only part time)#also it doesn’t pay amazingly unfortunately so I’ll probably have to find another job on top of it #especially with my 26th birthday coming A LOT faster than I’d like #I’ve had to do a lot of cleaning and packing which is completely fair since my parents want to have people over for the holidays #totally totally fair #but it’s also sad cause I have to box up a lot of my stuff/hobbies #like I boxed up practically all of my painting stuff since idk when I’ll be able to do that again #my room is jam packed with shit so I’ve only been home to sleep #spend the rest of the time in the car but it’s not really mine so I can’t smoke in here so half of the time I fall asleep #idk idk idk I just feel like I’m complaining all the damn time so I’m trying to shut up and keep it to myself a bit #it’s just the same thing over and over again and nothing is gonna change unless I move #and that’s incredibly unrealistic right now #also I’m worried about my dad more and more each day so that doesn’t help #I want to do something with him or for him but our relationship hasn’t been the best and idk how to fix it #and I’m terrified something is going to happen and I won’t be able to #oooofda that was a lot #and that was only a little bit of what’s going on #but at least I have a job now so that’s cool haha #sometime I’ll have to show you guys some puppy pics I have so many now haha #thanks for checking in lovely #I hope you’ve been doing ok 🫶#ask

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alula · 1 year ago

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some of you think of sex as this thing that you like in fiction but not irl and don’t consider why that might be. or the fact that porn (yes fanfiction included) is controlled and perfect and real life is not. and that’s… a fair reason? I guess? but it’s also like genuinely limiting yourself and weirdly similar to hentai fanboys who say shit like “2d girls do it better” bc their brains are rotted by huge anime tits where they never have to be vulnerable or connect with another person. and maybe im wrong but i think it’s actually not great to never challenge that, in your life, especially if you are going to make not allowing/enjoying/appreciating imperfection a part of your identity

#I see ppl say I like reading fic but irl sex is nasty it’s too messy sweaty etc and I get it I really do. and you never have to obviously #but instead of considering that an impossibility for you maybe think about it a bit more in terms of the beauty of imperfection or even just #accepting that sex is not some kind of holy thing. it’s NOT a clean and it’s NOT perfect #it can be neutral or great or disappointing or terrible or boring. and it doesn’t matter bc it’s just another thing in life. it doesn’t need #to be mind blowing to you every time. I promise no one on earth feels that way

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todayisafridaynight · 1 year ago

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NO PROBLEM BROTHER ENJOY THE MOVIE <3 AND YOUR FOOD <3

I JUST FINISHED WATCHING IT THANK YOU SO MUCH AGAIN FOR FINDIN IT THE WAIT WAS SO WORTH IT (;´༎ຶ▽༎ຶ`) (;´༎ຶ▽༎ຶ`) (;´༎ຶ▽༎ຶ`)

#snap chats #i was annoying as hell @ myself cause i kept recognizing actors from other things and i just kept being like #'YO IS THAT UFCKINNN ??????' was absolutely a pleasant surprise to find daito in this movie <3 hi baba <3 #BUT MS YOSHIDA WAS HERE TOO !!!! AND MY FAVE FUNNY GUY KAJIHARA 😭#BUT YAYAYAAY THE MOVIE WAS GREAT..... EXCELLENT EVEN.... the credits were so cute #i wont spoil it idk if you watched it yet And Tbh Its Not Even A Huge Spoiler but it was cute......#i love how at this point nakais played pike Three dudes who cheated on their wife/partner thats WILD #the movie was a really great blend of comedy yet still being able to be suspenseful #like even during suspenseful moments where i found myself laughing it was still. MWAH. GORG.#LOVED IT....... nad now im hungry again...#i packed away two rice balls that i ended up eating durin the movie since my fave lunch spot was Unavailable tday #but now i want more food... but now i might be overeatin </3 #tbf i did clean my whole flat before i started watchin... tho two rice balls is usually A Meal enough for me #i cant tell if my appetites changing or not i feel like im hungry easily most days now but maybe its cause i Kinda regularly eat now #and so when i go A Bit without eating my body's like 👁️👁️ Dickhead 👁️👁️#IM RAMBLING ANYWAY. POINT IS. GREAT MOVIE. LOVED IT EVEN. //YELLS// TYSM AGAIN FOR EVERYTHING !!!!#another thing to add to my Rewatch Ninety Times list......

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