#and we’re not really friends anymore

[whyshwoludicare]

Are you from the lgbt community

Yeah

[stuckinapril]

Going out is literally so boring to me rn I can’t believe I used to do it every weekend at one point

[valeovalairs]

That panic you feel when the girl that was literally your gay awakening walks into your place of work while you’re just. Swiffering. And you make eye contact.

[wifegideonnav]

tbh when mitski said “you’re my best friend/now i’ve no one to tell/how i lost my best friend”

[risoria]

posting him because if he can make one person smile today, its worth it

[lyssq]

Thinking about her again (acod my goodbye animatic with thaena and kihrin at the end of memory of souls)

[fragilecapric0rnn]

Everyone who plagiarizes fic is slimey, it’s true we know this. But everyone who supports and reads plagiarized fic? Slimeballs in their own category.

Don’t think you’re getting away with it. We see you.

It’s not two cakes when one is entirely stolen cake!!!

[boyczar]

I am very sick of the notion that codependents are empathetic people. Codependents are extremely narcissistic in terms of their goals and behaviors. (Narcissistic, not saying they all have NPD, though some of them certainly do.) You are not an “empath”. You are not even in touch with your own feelings, you are simply hyper-vigilant, and often times your fight, flight, freeze, and especially fawn responses, are extremely off-putting and uncomfortable to even a slightly more well-adjusted person. I believe codependents and even Cluster B’s are capable of (total, not impaired) empathy, but only after reversing toxic patterns of relationship behavior. This, however, is in no way their FAULT. I would not say that being codependent or someone with any Cluster B personality disorder (who all have narcissistic traits) is in any way that person’s FAULT. But it unfortunately is their responsibility now. I do not view this relational style (of codependency or narcissistic) as unfixable or irreversible. I would argue that every single person who is codependent or has a Cluster B PD one hundred percent has C-PTSD. (There are people with C-PTSD who have done more healing work and do not fall into these categories but that’s not who I’m talking about.) If you are codependent or are in Cluster B, you have sustained significant trauma, most likely from your parents, and you now have a warped idea of healthy and acceptable communication. You most likely have sustained a thousand little cuts from them while growing up. Being belittled, shamed, degraded, devalued, discarded, threatened, ignored, neglected, silenced, and deemed completely unworthy of genuine love. That is unacceptable and even unforgivable in some cases. I would never condone that. I wish you healing forever.

But this trauma has created a shame core at the center of your self concept, causing you to set off on a lifelong journey to try to feel good about yourself, rather than actually give or receive love. I am sorry that this is harsh and blunt, I mean it with all compassion and understanding. I have been codependent myself and have struggled to be direct with people in the past out of fear and I became an enabler of some really terrible behavior. I was terrible myself. I was (unintentionally) manipulative, as are all codependents. I was selfish when I should have been brave enough to tell those around me what my intuition was warning me of (that we were all falling down a bad path.) I do not like who I was. It was not my fault but it is my responsibility to continue the forever journey of gathering self-awareness and growing. I am not done and I hope I never tire of learning how to be better. I hope you can take something away from this. I’m sorry I’m all over the place, I have a lot of thoughts and I’m over seeing codependent and narcissistic behavior continuing to be the norm. This is not from a self-righteous place, I most definitely have work to do, truly for the rest of my life, I just wanted to speak about the patterns I have noticed since starting to dismantle my own trauma and toxic patterning. I wish you all well.

[nachtnabelle]

i want him to want me. i dont care if he hurts me, i just want to believe that i can be wanted, and loved, and actually feel it. i want to believe i can be loved.

[thegraphitepencils]

The weekly catch-up phone calls with my soulmate who broke up with me “for my own good” yet still expects me to be his best friend are becoming more a source of anxiety than comfort lately folks

-Riley

[vaciena]

One of my friends applied for MAiD

I just. I wish there were better ways to help

[movedtodykedvonte]

I wanna know more about the anamolies au you mentioned

Tbh it’s not like fleshed out at all.

The general idea is Miles sorta denouncing Spiderman as a mythos and entity and basically doing the most to get rid of the ideas and value of what makes a spiderman. Basically erasing the idea of Spider-Man’s canon events.

The Spot is there as like his means to an end that over time Miles forms a pseudo mutual mentor relationship that is less than healthy as he become more of a anti-villain than the basic villainy Spot was trying to be. Like Miles is weirdly still just misguided on the opposite side of Miguel; Wanting to prove his theory wrong so bad that he disregards the parts that hold up, putting everyone in danger.

I think the next biggest thing is Miles gets a step further than Miguel in recognizing tropes, like a second wind or shit like the power of friendship that coincide with canon and being able to plan a head. Sorta like a Deadpool sense (aware he’s in a comic) but he’s not aware this is a story more so he just realizes the repetition in how things play out

[sisterdragonwithfeathers]

Oh so NOW he decides to actually haunt me

[skhardwarevers1]

lowkey. Not over my ex at all

[scarletwitch1918]

Today was the second birthday this year of a friend that I thought I was really close with that i didn’t get invited to

[trashbaget]

tell me your failed/embarrassing flirting stories to make me feel better, i’ll go first: today i said “get out of my way” forgot to say “i’m kidding” then immediately said “bye”