#and that is Is Not Normal
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shoutout to C418 (one of minecraft’s composers) for just fucking snapping recently on twitter
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im a fucking sucker for the “character gets so badly injured that they can’t think clearly and start calling for help in a distressingly vulnerable way.” characters who start using nicknames for their friends they haven’t used since they were kids. characters who start begging for their brother they haven’t seen in years to be there. characters who would usually use their parents’ names or call them mother/father/etc crying out mama when they go down. u understand.
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Not to be an armchair psychologist, but speaking from personal (and ongoing) experience, yeah, that sounds like depression.
Also, (again speaking not as a trained therapist but just from personal experience) if you are experiencing feelings/thought processes similar to the first reply, please consider looking into assessment for OCD, because that is Textbook moral OCD if I’ve ever seen it. (And I have seen it, because I experience it daily).
People often think of OCD only in terms of the externally visible compulsions/rituals, but very often there is a lot going on internally as well, and for some people their experience of OCD is almost exclusively internal. This can include things like excessive adherence to magical thinking, feeling the need to keep your thoughts ‘pure’, trying to block out certain ‘bad’ thoughts/images, feeling that you need to meet certain criteria before you are ‘allowed’ to think/feel certain things (or that you are never allowed to think/feel them), and more. You probably see where I’m going with this.
Honestly, even if you don’t have OCD, if you’re having those kinds of thoughts processes frequently, there are probably still OCD management techniques that you could adapt to help yourself cope. Remember, if a coping technique helps it helps, there is no rule saying you can only use it if you Officially Have The Thing It Was Created To Treat.
I’m sorry but if there is one thing the Tumblr left needs crucially, it’s the ability to celebrate.
I remember when marriage equality was called and there were waves of rainbows and love wins posts. When we successfully defeated Donald Trump, there was lukewarm relief, a reminder that you were only allowed one or maybe two days to celebrate and then it was back to work. That is if you were even a good person for voting Biden. We never did settle if he was better than Trump. (We did.). We didn’t celebrate student loan debt relief or any of the accomplishments of the Biden administration, or any of the times Trump was blocked, or other countries succeeding in keeping fascists out of office. Who cares if we had successes? It’s not good enough. Back to work!
And this anti-celebratory attitude stretches back to the past. On the 100th anniversary of female suffrage in America, we were reminded that not all women had the vote and so we weren’t allowed to celebrate. The only post I saw about Juneteenth was reminding us that there were enslaved people who were killed instead of freed and therefore celebrating the end of chattel slavery was wrong, and besides, we have prison labor so nothing really changed or got better and there’s nothing to celebrate anyway. Trans Day of Visibility comes with Trans Day of Remembrance so that people don’t fill the tags with hate crimes and death. So on and so forth. Nothing gets better. Nothing changes. Back to work!
So of course when we have a major setback, we fall apart and have to start frantic damage control. Frantic discourse ensues over how much people are allowed to unplug before it becomes bad and selfish. Yes, maybe you can have this one day off Mr. Cratchit but you better be here and miserable early the next morning. Like abusive bosses always insisting you squeeze out more, more, more, and any achievement is just proof you were lazy the other times and impetus for more work.
If we are never allowed to acknowledge any of our victories, how are we supposed to survive our defeats?
#like if we were allowed to be happy maybe we would have fought harder to keep it#<— prev#yes absolutely#this has kind of become a personal crusade for me in the last year or so but Holy Shit online leftists spaces are Full of moral OCD#its this horrible echo chamber of people reinforcing each other’s private fears and internal self-flagellation#and the first step to escaping it is realizing you’re in it#and that is Is Not Normal#literally spent years thinking ‘oh i guess my therapist lied and ppl really Do expect me to be perfect’#no bitch you’re just trapped in a room with a bunch of other ppl who have I Have To Be Perfect Disease
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what if your doppelgänger wasn’t evil it was just a person. what if your doppelgänger wasn’t trying to replace you it was just trying to learn to be a person and you were the best model it had. what if your doppelgänger looked at you with your eyes and said with your voice that it just wanted to be loved. what then.
#aelan speaks#fornax cain#fun fact i used to think imposter syndrome was more literal#not so much “i don’t deserve this good thing and i’ve somehow tricked people into thinking i do”#but more like “i am straight up not a person and everyone knows it”#“and i am TRYING to be a person but i can’t get it right and they all KNOW and i should not be here but i don’t know where else to go”#anyway i was a normal child
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my brother works on a boat so when he rants about his job I can’t take it seriously because he keeps angrily referring to his boss as “captain”. like sorry ur having 19th century sailor problems my guy
#this is not my normal kind of post but I think it’s hilarious#I don’t usually post abt my life but this was too good#boat#ocean#summer
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let's get ✨vulnerable✨
#this isnt meant to be ship. or suggestive. i dont even wanna tag it as ship tbh#theres something really really lovely about platonically bathing with someone and I think they'd be normal about it#I don't think either of them would wanna spend too much time alone either. after. all that shit#dungeon meshi#dungeon meshi spoilers#chilchuck tims#senshi of izganda#my art#comic
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kiss me goodbye, I'm defying gravity
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I don't think that Viktor swears often but I really like that people sometimes write him swearing in Czech. Also I think that it was a little traumatic for Jayce when he heard Viktor swear for the first time.
I just had to draw it.
The thing is that czech swearing often contains more than one word. The bigger fuked up, the longer you swear. And it's…let's say…very rich xd
I was thinking about translating it but it's imposible
#arcane fanart#arcane#league of legends#league of legends fanart#viktor arcane#viktor arcane fanart#jayvik#jayvic fanart#arcane jayce#arcane viktor#jayce talis#jayce x viktor#jayce fanart#jayce lol#viktor lol#viktor swears in czech#czech viktor#arcane memes#arcane jayvik#jayvikmeme#idiots in love#normalize swearing in front of your partner#my art#slavic
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bisexuality demons were kicking his ass
#gay people can't be normal#they can't just kiss#they have to hallucinate their forbidden lover's face in a campfire#or some shit#so unserious#arcane spoilers#jayvik#arcane s2 spoilers#arcane#arcane s2#arcane act iii#jayce talis#viktor arcane#jayvik canon
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Only you
#gay people can’t just be in a normal situationship#they have to be written in the stars and die in each others arms while saving the world I guess#jayvik#viktor arcane#jayce talis#jayce x viktor#arcane spoilers#arcane#arcane season 2#arcane fanart
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two birds on a wire
#literally cried the whole time making this#I’m not normal#my art#jayvik#jayce talis#viktor arcane#arcane#arcane fanart#illustration#art
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it's extremely critical that you see the photo of the perp walk for luigi mangione as being propaganda. i've seen so many people wave it off and instead fawn over his looks. and trust me, i know it ended up being kind of pathetic and weird - but please don't brush it off as a "modelling opportunity" for him. it's a fucking terrifying message the police are sending.
i want to make a few comparisons here, in case you're not from the US or familiar with why the perp walk thing is something to pay attention to. just to set the groundwork for why this is a purposeful, unusual, and cruel act by the nyc police - for why this is not a common occurrence and for why that matters.
the prosecution alleges the show of force is due to the charge of "terrorism." for comparison, in june 2015, tsarnaev was found guilty for the boston marathon bombing, which killed 3 people and injured hundreds. his actions are considered to be an act of domestic terrorism. i have spent the last hour looking through google for pictures of similar to mangione's perp walk - and so far, i have found zero. i also just do not personally remember a moment like that, despite living in boston at the time.
they allege that luigi is a stone-cold killer who carried out a longterm plan, making him particularly dangerous. again for comparison: in nyc, recently cory martin was found guilty of the killing of brandy odom. the murder was planned and premeditated to steal insurance money. and yet no staged perp walk. why didn't her life matter enough for a "show of force"?
but mangione gets paraded by a veritable army of police officers as if he is a rabid animal. for a single citizen who allegedly killed one other single citizen, the "largest perp walk ever" occurs.
so what is the "strong message" that the mayor and the police were trying to send here? the mayor speaks as if mangione is already convicted of terrorism. there is a very thin number of people who feel threatened by the CEO's death. none of us felt like mangione needs to be under massive armed guard.
the message is that you shouldn't resist. they are trying to "make an example" of him - that if you behave badly and kill a single rich person, you'll be treated as if you killed hundreds of people. you will be treated worse than a man who was found guilty of terrorism. you will be considered guilty without trial. the message is that the rich are a protected class, and you cannot touch them without massive punishment. they are trying to prevent a revolution by showing dominance and force against you.
the message is that the police are a puppet of the wealthy and that the law is not equally applied across class disparity. it is "some are more equal than others." it is "one life is more precious than another."
the show of force wasn't for luigi. it was for us. it was a warning. they are trying to remind us who is really in control.
#i bring up tsarnev only bc i feel like people DID want blood. i lived in boston. people wanted to rip him apart.#i do not personally remember a moment where he was paraded around like that. and the fact we gave more dignity to him#than luigi .... is startling.#and i just realized last night i was like - i don't really remember a perp walk like that. maybe im misremembering#but i went to google and i was like. wait why the fuck was it so fucking big.#it WASNT a random act of terror. it WASNT to injure/kill as many as possible.#even if we consider it to be premeditated murder: when have we ever done this.#so brandy's life didnt deserve “a show of force?”#the mayor doesn't say ''our city wont stand for this'' when it's a planned murder for insurance money????#anyway . ur not immune etc etc etc#but i also wanted the comparisons in here in case ppl aren't from amercia etc#this ISNT normal or usual. this was overkill by like a million#on the other hand they gotta do this bc they're scared :)#i kept this bc i had ppl ask me not to delete this but i just felt like#it wasn't really poetry just talkin
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"This person has a secret onlyfans!" "This artist does NSFW commissions!" "This author writes porn on the side!" I cannot begin to tell you how swag and awesome that is.
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moments right before daisuke saves the day and gets all the love and praise he deserves and rescue comes just in time and everyone lives forever the end
#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#mouthwashing fanart#myart#digital art#im sso normal about this game every day i get a little more normal and well-adjusted because of it
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