#and sorry for such a ramble in the tags aaa

[d0ppios]

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[harukapologist]

hhi *throws them at u and runs away*

alternate version

[aroacespacerock]

finally watching Agatha all along. SUCH A GOOD SHOW!! Rare marvel win. I love Agatha’s main fit and how incredibly Missy inspired it is, I need her coat. Also rios immediately my favorite character. I love her and she should be crazy as she wants. As a treat. Also let her kiss girls please. Let her kiss Agatha in particular.

THAT HAND LICK WAS SOOO FUCKIBG GAY

[redr0sewrites]

i want to preface this by saying that i know its not anyone else's responsibility to cater to my needs, and i dont want to sound selfish, but i just wish people would use the tagging system accurately sometimes.

as yall know ive been obsessed w dc recently but the amount of batcest that appears whenever i search up anything related to the batfam is so.. aaa. i get some people enjoy it but its really not for me, and its so frustrating to see things that are clearly batcest tagged as batfam or just batman in general. especially when its explicit or nsfw content.

ive blocked so many of the batcest ship tags along w the ship itself but people keep tagging things incorrectly or just not tagging them at all. along w this, a lot of it will be clear age gap w one character being a minor while the other is a grown adult (tim and jason, literally any batfam member shipped w damian, etc) and it won't be tagged appropriately either.

i don't want to be rude or offensive or anything like that, it's just something that i've noticed lately that lowkey icks me out. it makes scrolling through the tag very uncomfortable when one minute im looking at cute family fluff and the next im looking at an image of bruce and damian making out. aaaa.

sorry for rambling yall 😭

[dootznbootz]

i left whole ass discord server just bc most of the people there shipped smth i hated. like i tried to hold out but i could not they were doing character assassinations

...

Yep. :')

I'm still in it. As like, I dunno. (╯︵╰,) One of my favorite things in general, is to, like, cheer on other creators and such, you know? I love looking for little things and like, purposeful bits like pointing out "oh this is foreshadowing!" or "You drew ____ with his mom's nose!" or whatever.

And like, I DO get to see things I wouldn't have found otherwise! As I don't have Twitter or instagram. so skdljf

So like, it sucks that it's just...everywhere ;~; you can't escape. I hate this ship. I don't like knowing it exists. It's a fucking crackship taken way too seriously. I don't like that I can't even look into the tags of tumblr that have nothing to do with that ship and it's there. I want to be gay about Penelope in peace.

And like... I'll share my headcanons with others... and then they'll be used for my notp. ｡:ﾟ(;´∩`;)ﾟ:｡

like...that's not who the Headcanon is forrrrrr. Don't take my OdyPen Headcanons for a completely different ship. They have Homophrosyne. THEY are Soulmates. NOT SOME FUCKING GUY FROM ARGOS

and it's like, other ships? they're like, usually more chill. most folks who ship OdyPo for example? I don't ship it myself, but most I've met, love Penelope and do stuff for her! And it's delightful! And like, this is something where while I don't agree, people are very kind about it and don't shove the ship down your throat. :3 And yes! Penelope love! I'll look through OdyDio blogs and like, Penelope is nowhere in sight ;~;

like I have how much like, Odydio has made people just not fucking care about Penelope or Diomedes. They're more like sidepieces for Odysseus to most folks and I hate that.

And like, I feel SO bad sometimes, when folks ask me what I think about their OdyDio stuff and it's that whole "I'm sorry but I just hate the very core of this. so I'll stay away, as I just won't have much nice to say."

It's like asking me "Hey, you like this food I made? :D " and it's like, something with avocado. I'm incredibly allergic to avocado. I won't "die" from it, I don't need to go to the hospital. But I get extremely sick.

And like, I have my reasons. I've talked about why I don't like ittttt. like. aaaaaaaaaaa. please don't try and insert odydio into my stuffffff.

Also like, i dunno. I just learned recently that certain folks have been saying mean things about me behind my back in that discord so I don't really know. ;~;

[ghostsvignettes]

Hiii uhm. I saw one of your 17776 ocs, Vigil, and thought ve looked cool to draw so,,, i hope you dont mind that i drew the goob!! sorry in advance if i interpreted anything in the little ref wrong, but ve was infact. fun to draw so:)

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This looks INCREDIBLE, thank you so much!! very very glad you had fun drawing ver, i absolutely love how it came out!!! (genuine)

[raineedayss]

@operationtimeguard you can NOT just leave this in the tags this is amazing

also YESSS MORE APPRECIATION FOR HIGUCHI!!! we love her here!!!

kunikida is underrated and i will GLADLY die on this hill. hit post.

[dinopepitah]

TEEHEE

These are all cestodas. In order: Echonococcus granulosus, Taenia solium and Diphyllobothrium latum.

[harukapologist]

oh my goodness i did not expect my last post to blow up like it did ffkfhksj i am so honoured to have found people who agree w me and i loved reading everyone's additions~ please accept this littol haruka with a blahaj as a thank you, since sharks & MILGRAM are two of my special interests :3

[akalegos]

YESYEYSEYSEYESY THANK YOU SM FOR NOTICING IT MADE ME NEED TO RUN A MARATON !!!! im chinese myself so when s15 hinted sarge to be part chinese i went. INSANE. my fav is just like me ?? URGH I ATE IT UP!! i think red team celebrate chinese (lunar) new year and have hotpots and dinners as a team (sometimes the blues join for bbqs) it gen makes me so happy that sarge is (at least somewhat) like me 

someone also mentioned about sarges hair and i always thought that sarge would have been around his 40s during bgc, and like a lot of adults i knew growing up he would dye his hair black whenever his grey hairs come out 

when you're red and you delete the blues idk i dont watch this show

[jujutsustraycats]

If you run across this blog, you have officially been sucked into a whirlpool of reblogs, ramblings and the occasional (really, Ish? Occasional?) brainrot over fiction. Do stay for tea.

Some things if you do stay over for tea:

- I'm fine with interacting with people of age 14 and above, but I understand if you're not okay with me. Just be warned: this is a 16+ blog, I may or may not post suggestive stuff. Read at your own caution, I am not responsible if you do.

- That being said, this is a safe space. Bigots of any sorts are welcome to leave.

- I'm not online all that much, so I apologize if I'm a bit late in responding to you. Feel free to send me asks.

Now that's out of the way–

Hi, the name's Ish, and I'm just a very awkward teen guy who sounds like a golden retriever but is not. Nice to meet ya. He/him but gender neutral's cool too.

I'm... supposedly an INTP (or INTJ? Still working it out), but best not to ask. I have an identity crisis almost every other day. Probably INTP. Still not sure. Help.

Please do not ask me to speak in Hindi, I will probably make you cry from how horrible my vocabulary is. Course B go wiiiiii

I also have a horrible tagging style. Sorry about that. Did I mention I apologize and use the crying emoji a lot? If I didn't, now you know.

Proud member of Girlfriend FC and La Familia Nami. Don't ask. It's too long a story. Maybe some other day.

Likes: Academia, books in general, poetry, animanga (I'm sounding super nerdish now aaa), talking to the peeps I like, fictional characters, COFFEEEEEEEEEEEEE, being alone (please talk to me though, I like you guys talking to me). Also, lazing around is a given I relate to Nagi so much. Please talk to me about your interests, I would love that.

Expect a lot of edits to this :)

[pigeon-princess]

sorry for the aggressive spam liking through your curse of strahd tag i could NOT resist. gonna get my grubby little hands on your zine asap. i want to study silas like a bug. resisting the urge to read thru your session recaps because our campaign is still in its early stages... but know i am watching EAGERLY to see what crops up next regardless!!!!!!!!!!!!

additionally, as much as i wanna say that silas would love my autistic, rambling, wizard-coded pc, i think a lot of the shine would wear off when they eventually realize he's actually a warlock. (it's not ismael's fault. he only has 2 months of memory. and lots of innate arcane knowledge)

AAA NO NEED FOR APOLOGIES AT ALL THANK you so much for the CoS LOVE!!! I always love to see the notifications! I absolutely understand the early Curse of Strahd spoiler struggle, even halfway through the campaign I am avoiding spoilers like the plague. 10/10 would put Silas in a jar to study him. I truly think he could use the enrichment.

I'm sure Silas and Ismael would get along very well even if he is a warlock! As long as he's not a bard I think Silas would still have some respectful curiousity hahaha!! Again thanks so much aaaa!

[borderlinereminders]

hi aa sorry i rambled in the tags of a post i reblogged from u bc your recent posts have all resonated hardcore and they always do in a reassuring or helpful advice kinda way, but since this made me think of a few questions u might have good advice for i wanted to send an ask too (dw abt answering quickly or at all tho, i am vibing and it also helps me to reach out in general even if its just expressing stuff if ur not sure how to respond aaa)

i wanted to ask if there are resources to learn DBT skills that dont involve group and individual therapy ? either resources to help someone go through the workbook on their own or if individual therapy is ever offered for that

and if you have advice for ways to find support as an autistic adult ? ive been curious if there are support groups anywhere, ideally online bc idk if thered be any near me, bc hearing about other peoples experiences has helped me a lot recently and things have been extra hard recently w all that for me, i think i am autistic burnout mode and meltdowns have gotten often and more horrible and i feel ive learned some how to manage that for myself but it's hard and hard to find advice or people who understand this experience

so i wanted to ask about any type of support that could offer advice or reassurance for experiences like meltdowns

thank u so much, this blog gives a lot of hope and support to me ♡♡♡ you are so amazing amd people sharing advice and experiences like you do makes me feel seen and understood and reassured and less alone and more validated bc it can be hard to struggle and not know how to help yourself, but even harder to feel like it's unreasonable to struggle and ive always felt like that pretty often so it helps to know other people can relate and that there is hope even if stuff wont look the same for everyone, and i think letting go of the expectation to be like everyone else helps a lot too

thank u for the validation and reassurance and good advice always ♡

Hi anon,

Some of my favourite worksheets are on therapistaid. I’m not sure what resources to suggest to aid getting through them, but I find these worksheets to clearly lay stuff out with examples which I always find helpful!

Here’s a link!

I’m sorry I don’t have advice for the rest. Maybe some followers have ideas about finding support as an autistic adult?

Also, thanks for the kind words!

[lonely-night]

ISTG if this show ultimately is about that twink im gonna kill someone

it's call AGATHA ALL ALONG not b*lly m*ximoff all along

agatha is such an asshole.... I LOVE IT

[crystallinestars]

Hello! I stumbled upon your blog (I dunno still pretty new to tumblr despite being here for years. I don't interact much >_<) while gobbling up the Avenstelle buffet here in tumblr <3.

Anyways. I read the anons asks and your response and omygosh…I've never felt such a relief to find people who shares the same sentiments T_T. Especially the ones with Kaveh and Alhaitham? Gosh. I've never felt so validated about my feelings. Let me get started with Alhaitham.

Okay so in gacha games, (wuwa, hsr, gi, ak, r1999, etc.), I'm a husbando collector. I love collecting the men because they're hot and my eyes love them lol. So…essentially, I also pulled for Alhaitham. I loved him so much, like his personality, his design…I'm smitten. But after how I am bombarded with haikaveh shipping almost every socmed I go, twt mostly, I began to loathe it. Like, I don't really care about shipping. The shipping I only liked is Avenstelle in hsr, yet the incessant shoving of Haikaveh as canon to my face, even though they are not really canonized, just turned me off with Alhaitham, and subsequently, Kaveh as well even though I wanna love him too :(.

It makes me sad that the fandom pushes the only "correct way" to see this characters. How about us, who just wants to have some pixel husbandos for ourselves (lol sorry for the self insert). Kaveh also looks nice and he seems nice and I wanna love him too seeing as we are of the same profession (I'm an architecture student, hopefully passing our thesis and graduating next year!). I am also still on a mission of finding his mom in Fontaine rn (still waiting, hoyo, still waiting…)

Anyways, I am truly glad to see the same sentiments and knowing that I am not alone in noticing this toxicity happening in the fandom coz, what happened to platonic relationships? I dunno, but I really wanna see a heartmelting one and not a shipping one. Aaa I rambled too much haven't I? I'm nervous since this is my first asks. But I just wanna say that you made me feel safe and my heart is overjoyed. Thank you so much. <3 I'm gonna go for now because it's 12:51 am in my country and I need to sleep hahaha! Have a great day!

(Ah, may I please be 🌊 anon? Thankiees!)

Hello 🌊 anon! Thank you for working up the courage and taking the time to write to me. It made me so happy to read that my discussions with other anons made you feel safe. You are definitely not alone in feeling ostracized by the loud portion of fandom. And oh my gosh, you're an architecture student?! That's so cool! Good luck on passing your thesis!

I completely relate to your feeling of losing the love you had for a character due to their popular ship. I'm a Kaveh girlie, but I also like Alhaitham quite a lot since he's a very interesting and relatable character. Unfortunately, the prominence of haikaveh on every social media I visit, and the obnoxious claims of shippers that they're undoubtedly canon, tainted my view of him. I want to love Haitham, but some days it can be hard because seeing him triggers some negative feelings, though I try to push them down. I didn't care for the ship originally, but the behaviours of it's shippers really ruined my perception of it and BL as a whole.

It's only natural you feel that way since so much of the fandom looks down on self-shipping and gatekeeps characters from us. The way Mihoyo handles Haitham and Kaveh in particular doesn't help the situation for yumejoshi, which makes it feel worse.

The only way I find I can have fun is to block and mute all accounts who support the ships I don't like, and peacefully enjoy the content I like. Don't look at comments or the character tags for the sake of your mental health. It sucks that you have to restrict yourself so heavily, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to keep yourself happy.

If you want to find more people with similar sentiments, feel free to join my discord group! There are lots of people who share your views (and who love Alhaitham), and we also have discussions about fandom and characters, and share fanart and fics. It's a bit like a support group for those of us terrorized by the toxicity of fandom. If you don't want to join, that's perfectly fine. No pressure.

I'm glad you found me, though I'm really curious how that happened lol I don't post any Avenstelle here (though my twt is basically pure Avenstelle and Kavehlumi), so it's a wonder how you found my blog by browsing Avenstelle posts. Regardless, welcome! I'm happy to have you here 😊

[gurokichi]

just went through your whole account, easy enough task so thank you for that, and im very sorry that one of your past relationships was so cruel to you, you genuinely deserve so much better than that, you're too sweet to deserve that type of treatment, and please dont think that you could ever be inherently "evil" or "bad" and that you would deserve to be treated poorly for that 🩵

WOAH?? I am flattered. I haven’t had this sideblog up for very long so there’s not a lot of posts… I need 2 make a tagging system so it’s easier to go through but I am so lazy.

Also, thank you. I appreciate it. It’s just hard to accept that there wasn’t a reason for all of that. He was my best friend for years, and I absolutely adored him when he wasn’t just being awful towards me. It’s easier to think that I did something to warrant that treatment because I still love him…most of the time. It’s really confusing. Thinking about him makes me really angry sometimes and other times just sad. Objectively, though, he sucked. I miss him a lot despite that. I left him on my own terms for the first and last time almost a year ago now and it’s been hard sticking to my promise to myself to not run right back. I’m used to him leaving me and then trying to come back/having me beg him to come back so it’s weird when I’m the one leaving for good.

AAA I AM CUTTING MY RAMBLING SHORT THERE. I just realized how much I typed. I got way too much lore with this man. Once someone gets me started on him, I just can’t stop!! At least it makes for some interesting stories ʅ（◞‿◟）ʃ

But seriously, I am grateful for you taking the time to send this ask in when you didn’t have to. Your words are very much heard and appreciated!! 🫶