#and now i have to switch to 🖤💗

[the-roadtrip-system]

dont you just hate it when you split and the new guy steals your fucking emojis?

-🖤💗 (formerly 💕🐈)

[cheeseceli]

When you don't use their card

Pairing: Ot8!skz × Gn!Reader (individually)

Genre: fluff, reaction

Request: Wondering if you could do stray kids giving you their card when you go out shopping, but you don’t use it and they see you haven’t and what they do 💗🖤

Warnings: not proofread; nothing more if I'm not mistaken

A/n: this layout is so pretty, admire it with me for a second pls

Bang Chan

Y'know when he goes 🤨? That's him right now. Genuinely doesn't understand why you wouldn't use it. Like, the card was right there... Next to you... And you chose to not use it? If you explain that you just didn't want to use his money because you didn't feel comfortable, he'll explain to you that he doesn't mind in the slightes if you spent it. Actually, he'd be kind of honoured if you did. When he convinces you, he is smiling all adorable and content fr

Lee Know

When he didn't receive any notification from the bank he thought you had actually lost his card lmao. The minute this thought pops in his head he's calling you asking about the whereabouts of his card. When you tell him that you just didn't want to spend his money, he'll manage to convince you to use his card through the phone. He has a proud grin when he receives the first notification from the bank.

Changbin

He'd be kinda sad ngl. When he offered you his card and you took it he was feeling so proud of himself 😭 like "oh I'm such a good boyfriend :D". So when you don't use it he pouts for a second or two. Spend his money and he'll get happy again real quick!!

Hyunjin

Got a little :( tbh. But he doesn't address about it nor have a really dramatic reaction at first. Some days later he will spoil you with a lot of gifts, things he thinks you could've bought with his card. Half of it is just to make you happy and half of it because he wants to make you feel valued through his acts.

Han

Oh he's betrayed. How could take his card like you were going to use it but then you don't?? Stabbing him would've hurt less (he'd be so dramatic lol). Would try to go shopping with you next time just so he can make sure he'll be the one paying

Felix

When he didn't receive any notifications of the bank he thought that you just didn't buy anything. Perhaps nothing satisfied you so you didn't even buy it. But when you come back home with your shopping bags he's so ??? Like "how did you buy those things🤨". Audibly gasps when you tell him you used your own money. Betrayed pt2.

Seungmin

Gives you a glare that makes you freeze when he finds out. Next time you go shopping he offers you his card again, making sure he's glaring at you again like there's a threat in his eyes - "you better use this card this time." When you actually do he switches up completely and gives you the sweetest smile ever lol. It would be kinda cute ngl

I.N

I think that at first he wouldn't have noticed that you didn't buy your things with his money. But then you go shopping again and his bills stay the same... I think he'd catch up at the second or third time. Accuses you of letting him be delusional all this time believing he was the one paying for you😔 jokes aside he'd let you know that it's okay if you don't feel comfortable spending his money, but it's his pleasure to spoil like this and that if you don't mind him paying, you shouldn't hesitate on actually using his card

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Dividers by @saradika-graphics

Thank you for the help bestie @zzzzzwicked 🫰🏻

[transpanda-1]

I think I'm plural. Where do I go from here?

🌓There's a couple different avenues you could go down, but we have a few pieces of advice that might help:

EDIT: Our friend also mentioned that it's okay to not know everything at first! Alters might take awhile to come out and switches can be random/suppressed for a bit. Know that figuring this stuff out is literally rewiring how your brain works a little, ya know? :P

Check out plurality groups or places of information. You can either find a system/singlet more experienced with knowledge about the topic, or check out infographic websites like this one:

2. Try to find a place where you can feel comfortable AND safe just trying out being plural. This has honestly been why we've been so successful at detangling systems: We just let them try it out to see how they feel about it. Our DM's are usually open for this kind of behavior. We hold a very personal opinion that it's better to live in a world where you can try out being plural and it turns out its not you, then a world where you don't get that chance. There's no harm in just feeling the edges out to see where you land. This can be either over text, or in person, or something else!

3. Think about your past experiences with identity. For example: If you're trans, did you have a period before realizing that you attached in similar ways? Did you feel similar arguments sprouting up to try to deny it? And if not that, how about just how you've acted around people? Being plural can define a lot of past interactions you didn't think about before. The "moods" you might have, if you speak in different voices sometimes, etc etc etc.

4. Understand you're not alone. Studies show that DID has a 1~1.5% estimated percentage of the world population (though we're not sure if that includes OSDD 1B, traumagenic systems with no memory loss). Although it's described as "rare", it's actually a fairly common condition in the grand scheme of things.

A community is forming (hah!) as more and more plural people come to accept their existence. There are many more plural people out there living their best lives! And you can too!

5. Know that therapy, while it can help, also has a tendency of dealing with psychologists who are taught the only way to "cure" plurality is to have alters integrate. Many systems now are trying to co-exist together because it's becoming more understood that you kind of *can't* cure plurality? So know there's no harm in self diagnosing.

6. Read up on plural fiction, if you can! There's nothing more important or validating than to see other's experiences with plurality! Unfortunately we can't really recommend most mainstream stories, as plurality seems to be more a growing movement in fanfiction spaces. Here's some links to plural stories that made us feel good or were written by us (Yeah bitch of course every word is a different link, gotta go extra as Pandora :P )

And of course, we could say more, like understand c-ptsd (a lot of little trauma over time) can make you plural, find outside sources to reaffirm you, etc. etc. etc.

But we just wanna say that no matter where you end up, take this motto to heart, a message to every alter that might be in there, from us: Thank you for existing! ❤💚🖤🤍🧡💜💖❣💙💔💗🫶🏽💟🤎

[x-honeycomb-x]

please dont take offense to this, but i think youd be happier if you detransitioned. i used to be in your shoes and now that ive detransitioned ive never been happier.

I’ve actually started experimenting with she/her pronouns irl, and started considering going off t! Maybe for like half a year, fuck around with my settings and find out (like a video game). I’ll be talking to my doctor

I think detransition could be a strong word. I think gender-fluidity is under-presented on this side of tumblr, and it’s all very binary, either you commit to being a feminine girl once and for all, or you remain a complete binary trans man. I think I’m still stuck in that mindset at the moment, that “whoa I’m coming off t, I am ✨detransitioning✨”

but in all seriousness I think I’m just gender-fluid, and a few years back I lean to feeling more comfortable with a masculine body, and right now I might want it to be more feminine. Maybe the gender swing would switch in a few years back and forth. Who knows! 💗🤍💜🖤

and one strong reason to go off t - I have been losing so, so much hair. So much hair. I wish to go off t (or at least decrease dosage) because I wanna give my hairline a break.

[wroteclassicaly]

Fic authors self-rec! ✨ When you get this, reply with your favorite five fics that you’ve written, then pass on to at least five other writers 💗

Thanks, babes! 💋💝

I did the original ask here! But since I got this ask again — I’ll switch it up and imma do five favorite WIP’s (with summaries) I’m working on! I hope that’s okay? ☺️🖤

1. We Can’t Go Back

Steve Harrington x Female Reader

Summary:

You’ve loved Steve Harrington since before you knew what love was. You and your sister have a non-existent, toxic relationship. But after circumstances force you to live with Steve and your sister once their brand new marriage is official — how much longer can you two fight a decade of very much mutual feelings?

2. Destination: All Over You

Steve Harrington x Female Reader x Eddie Munson x Billy Hargrove

Summary:

The year is 1996. The place is Los Angeles, California. You’re actor, and Hollywood heartthrob Steve Harrington’s personal assistant (one that he doesn’t treat very well, let alone acknowledge). When his rivals — fellow actor & musician Billy Hargrove and Eddie Munson begin to take an interest in you — things get messy.

3. Wanting You

Steve Harrington x Female Reader

Summary:

The events from Vecna (and the last several years) are too much to bear any longer, and Steve finally loses his composure — right at your doorstep. And you are more than ready to be there for him and give him whatever he needs, even if it’s just for the night.

4. Untitled (for right now)

Steve Harrington x Female Reader

Summary:

You’re craving experience, and you know exactly who you want to ask to get some — the only person you trust to help you learn. Your best-friend Steve. However, your unique spin on the sexual request isn’t exactly what he imagined. And after everything is said and done — it wasn’t what you were prepared to deal with, either.

5. Untitled (for now)

Eddie Munson x Female Reader

Note: I’ve been working on this story for months, and it’ll be one of the first few of a reader that has a physical health condition. I also suffer from this particular condition, and (TMI) it makes anything to do with sex or penetration (whether it’s alone or with my partner) — nearly impossible. I will also be doing one with this condition w/ Steve’s character and reader as well! And Steddie x Reader.

Summary:

You’ve been with Eddie for a while now, but you’re still a virgin. There’s nothing you’d like more than to change that fact, but it seems like nothing is helping. However, that doesn’t mean Eddie won’t do his best to help get you ready to try and take him. (Reader has vaginismus)

^ Shout-out to @hard-candy-writing for encouraging me to work on this and listening to my ideas these past few months! I wasn’t really ever comfortable talking about this, but I’m now realizing how common this condition actually is.

Tagging:

ANYONE THAT WANTS TO! And would like to do the switch-roo on the original ask ❤️

[drippingviolets3]

I finished watching Carol and Tuesday today and-

MY HEART ❤️ 💖💝💕💕💙💕💛💝💗💗💖💛💕💞💘💛🧡💙🖤❤️‍🔥💜❣️❣️💛💘🖤💜💜💜💘💞💝💖💓

I love this anime SO. FUCKING. MUCH. For one it feels almost (key word “almost”) like the lesbian version of Given, but handled real world issues in it.

And on top of it the music SLAPS, I have a better time enjoying it because I can just listen and understand it and vibe instead of just listening, reading the captions alongside watching what’s going on onscreen, then vibe.

Plus the way the characters are written are just *chefs kiss* they all have such depth to them, even characters we don’t see that much. We’re given backstory on these characters and a lot of them are super relatable, like Angela who I might kin now.

Actually, I wanna talk about Angela.

So obviously: Spoilers.

I don’t usually like diva characters so in the beginning I hated her. I didn’t know her backstory and thought she was just a rich model switching professions bevy she was bored. Plus with how she puts on a completely different personality on screen I figured she was just lying about everything she said.

But then her dissent into madness came

So much happened to her in such little time and the affects it had were clear. From the stalker, to her learning she was adopted, to her mother’s illness, to her producer leaving, it was a whole train wreck. She starts abusing substances and even begins hallucinating, but forces herself to perform because it was her mother’s dream, and while that seems honorable it sad when you learn that everything she’s done, she’s done for everyone but herself.

She’s done it for her mom so she could live out her dream in her daughter, the adults who loved watching her perform, she never once sung for herself and she eventually never even thought about it.

But it’s through her finally being alone, no mother, no producer, does she remember that she has herself, and that’s something even I can’t fully comprehend for myself. After all her life living for others, she realizes she can live for herself, sing for herself. This is a message a lot of people can relate to, not just the massive depressed generation that is Gen Z, but anyone who had their parents live their dreams through their children. It’s touching, and it was so well done.

And now another character I want to talk about: Cybelle.

I want to start off by saying I hate this woman so much :DDD. (If I find out this woman gets pretty privilege in the fandom you WILL see me on the news-)

Anyways, despite me wanting the fires of hell to be rained down on this woman, I’m grateful for the fact that she’s just there to begin with. She’s a queer woman, and a stalker, and we all know these people exist. If she was the only queer woman I’d be upset with this but we have Marie who’s out and proud and literally no one questions it but I’ll get into that later. This doesn’t allow any negative stereotypes being implanted, we see multiple LBGTQIA+ characters and no one questions it, which is why Cybelle is so unique to me.

She shows that dangerous people in the LGBTQIA+ community can be downright dangerous at times. And as someone queer who has had a toxic romantic experience with someone else queer (who ironically reminds me a lot of Cybelle), I’m happy it’s portrayed so well.

I’m also really happy with how Tuesday reacted to Cybelle. Not with her ignoring her stalker-y tendencies and not being able to stand up for herself, but she didn’t have a big reaction when Cybelle started showing her romantic interest. Tuesday’s mom being tied back to conservative beliefs and views (on top of their shitty relationship) could have rubbed off on Tuesday. She could have been like “but I’m a girl! Shouldn’t you be crushing on a boy?” Or “ewww gross I’m not gay.” But she didn’t. She never pointed out that Cybelle was most likely a lesbian, meaning everyone is used to people like her. Queer people are accepted.

And then Cybelle’s toxic behavior was mastered wonderfully too! The fact that the creators made so much for into a two season anime and didn’t misrepresent these topics pointed out are incredible. Of course I can’t speak for the racial issues, I’m white after all so I can’t say for sure if it was good or not, but I’m really happy with the anime, and the ending was incredible too.

Plus the mermaid sisters’ song was incredible don’t even lie to me-

[simmersofia]

Get to know me 2022

I was tagged by @holocene-sims, the sweetest 🥹💗

🎨 favorite color

Green for sure 🐸

📖 currently reading

Guess I’m in a way currently reading Moby Dick. I’m like 1/3 through it and really loving it but I haven’t picked it up in months 😭 I’m all or nothing when it comes to all my interests and reading is currently on the bench (and I’m a librarian so this is really bad 🫣)

🎶 last song you listened to

When I started answering this it was light switch by charlie puth but now it’s technically that’s what i want by lil nas since I’m listening to music right now 🤔

🍜 sweet/savory/spicy

100% sweet, i fucking love candy 🍭 but technically i guess a bit salty too cause my favorite is salty liquorice 🖤

✨ currently working on...

Besides what I do on here I’m working on getting back into running! I just ran a 5K race yesterday actually 😌

feel free to ignore if you aren't interested or have already done this but i'll tag 💌

@shayrosesim @ay0-zodi @harinezumi-sims @rebouks @simmer-rhi @fataleromeo

[casadefreewill]

Daily Fics

(Fics I read throughout the day yesterday and enjoyed)

I think I’m going to work on turning these into consolidated lists but that’s going to take a bit, I’ll still do these fic posts for fics I liked, they’ll also just be put on a list so their easier to find.

Yin and Yang by Kasienda ( @kasienda )

“So how do we switch back?” Marinette asked, gesturing between herself and Adrien currently occupying the other's body. “How do we do whatever that just was?”

Tikki floated up to her face, writhing her hands together. “About that… you will switch back, but… well, Plagg and I have had a lot of practice with this over time. And well… you have not. It often takes our chosen a lot longer to find balance between each other. Once you find balance the change will happen all by itself.”

“How long?” Adrien asked.

“A month? Maybe longer?” Tikki didn't sound certain.

“A year tops,” Plagg added helpfully.

“A year?!” Marinette repeated, her eyes bulging.

“I doubt it will take you and Adrien that long!” Tikki rushed to reassure. “Because you already know each other. Balance is about understanding your other half.”

“You think they understand each other right now?” Plagg asked.

“Hush!” Tikki scolded.

...

Every thousand years or so Tikki and Plagg switch bodies whenever there is an imblance between destruction and creation. Sometimes, on very rare occasions, that swap happens while they are transformed, and their holders get affected too.

A body swap au.

Hell yeah body swap au!! I’m such a sucker for ML body swap fics. I’ve been following this fic for a while (and I can’t remember if I’ve rec’d it before) but it popped up as updated in my bookmarks so we’re reading it again! It’s a season three fic, so no guardian stuff. Anyways this one is really great, lots of self discovery and new understanding of the other’s perspective. Both scrambling to try to pass as the other and learning what that means and requires. Both of them being each other’s pillars of support. Adrien’s life slowly giving Marinette a case of the depression and Marinette’s life blasting Adrien constantly with unconditional love and support from all directions. It’s a great time, go read it.

★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆

Rivals in Love by Jheqia

Cat Noir does not approve of Marinette's new roommate...

Haha! A silly little one shot of college age marichat. Where Marinette gets a little green eyed kitten and names it after an old crush, and her boyfriend decides to stake his claim as her favorite cat. It’s cute. Even though there’s jealousy no one actually gets mad. 🖤💗

[gamma-gal-24]

hi gamma i hope you’re doing well!! i wanted to ask you what your goofsona is like, personality/interests/any headcanons about her or her relationship??? have a great day!!! 💖💖💖

SIDKDKFJD HEY JESTER!!!😁💖💓💗 I'M DOING WELL!! I've been sick the last few days, but I'm doing much better now!! Thank you so much for asking!! How are you??🤗

So, you wish to know about Stella?? Well, allow me to do my best to tell you all about her!😁💓

Stella is a 19yo girl working at a mom-n-pop style diner on the edge of the campus. She works her butt off there, serving and running the register 6-10 hours a day. That's where she meets both of her love interests. ^^ (more on them in a bit!)

Stella practically runs on coffee and hugs. She's very affectionate with the people she's comfortable around. Physical touch and acts of service are definitely major parts of her love language. 😊💕 She can't be all smiles all the time, though! Try as she may, there are certain people that just rub her the wrong way. And hanging around the Gammas as much as she does, those numbers are increasing.😅

As for relationship headcanons, I'll separate them by love interest! ^^ And just for context, they are not a poly couple! It's more of a... Separate universe sort of thing? If that makes sense? I hope it does. XD Anyways, here are some headcannons!

🖤BRADLEY🖤

- For Bradley and Stella, I definitely see them having a bit of a slower burn than Stella and Tank would. I picture Bradley originally picking her up as a quick fling, only to decide that he ACTUALLY enjoyed her company. After that, he'd find more excuses to slip away from the guys to go see her. Most of them were oblivious, but Tank and a few others eventually caught on. There were many a night he'd sneak out to go bother her, not realizing one of the guys were watching.

- Once they're more official, they end up having a lot of outdoor dates! He tries(and fails) to teach her to skateboard, and she drags him away to watch cartoons at the drive-in. They both always end up enjoying what the other person picks though, no matter how many bruises they obtain or how silly the attraction.^^

- To avoid having one person doing all the cooking during dates, Bradley put together a rotation system. He'll cook one night, Stella another, and the next they eat out/order take out! This system has kept them both from having to stress so much..

- And now for my favorite topic- CUDDLES! During cuddles, Bradley is fairly neutral. As expected, he really enjoys being the big spoon and getting as handy as Stella will allow him to be. However, there are some days he randomly decides to switch it up and go for the little spoon. That tends to be one of his favorite ways to calm down after a long day. <3

AND NOW FOR 🔥TANK🔥

- This goober legit took one look at that short little bimbo and said, "Yup... That's mine now. I want to be with this thing forever." AND THEN WENT AND DID IT.

- He low-key thought he was going to have to fight Max off to get her heart, when really, Max is just the leech that borrows her Netflix account. But Max wasn't about to tell HIM that. OH NO, Max had that poor baby CONVINCED he had competition and loved every second of the agony it caused him.

- Low-key, Bradley was making bets with the other Gammas to see if Tank and Stella would ACTUALLY get together... He ended up making $150 all together when they did. UwU

- Tank LOVES showing off how strong he is for her. He's ALWAYS lifting things, carrying things, opening that stubborn a** pickle jar she can never seem to open, all of it! His absolute FAVORITE way to show off though, is picking her up like the rag-doll she is. He can't get enough of the way she laughs when he holds her under his arm like a potato sack.

- They also tend to share a liking for some of the same kinds of music?? He'll never forget the absolute JAM SESSION they had after he caught her blaring Dragula by Rob Zombie in her room.

So yeah! That's all I can think of for now!! Thank you SO, SO much for the ask, Evie! I hope you're doing well! If you have any more questions or want any more details, feel free to ask! I thoroughly enjoyed this!! Anyhoo, I hope you have a LOVELY night, and and even better tomorrow! Take care my friend!! <333

[chittapornswife]

Ford cut funding for education last year and that included OSAP (basically grants+loan service for uni by the province) and idk what the fuck he did AGAIN but my funding dropped 2.5k and like.... I checked and it doesn't matter if my parents make 30k or 80k, the amount I get is the same which is so crazy it makes no sense. I'm lucky I got in on scholarships and my school at least gives some financial aid too but it's crazy. We went from free tuition for low income students to max of 9500 each

Ummm I didnt know there was an ask limit lmao I'm sending this on data cause I think the limit is based on ip address?? Idk it won't work if I switch devices so yeet Anyways I ran out of space on the last ask and couldn't sign off. Also sorry for sending so many messages lmaoo I missed u!!! I hope you wake up and have an amazing day!!! Sending u all my love ❤💙💘💝💝💞💖🖤💞💛🧡🤎🤎🧡💕❣🤍💜💚❤💚💛💖💌💘💝💖❣🤎🤎💜💙💙💚💚💛💛🧡🧡❤🖤💗💓💞💞💟💟❣-gta brown anon

Question of the day: is Ford stupid or is he stupid?

BECAUSE HUH.

but also go off with your scholarship money 😎💅🏼💰 I never knew there was an ask limit either😭 but the fact that you’re using data for me?🥺💗 from one brown girl who’s always told to not waste her data but still does it, that means a lot 🥺🥺🥺

Don’t apologize for sending so many msgs!!! Hahaha sometimes what I do is read them and then I reply a bit after if it’s a lot but I do read them all tho:) I missed you too!!!♥️✨💗✨♥️✨💗 I’m going to sleep now but I’ll definitely wake up happy tho🥺 Have an amazing day yourself!!😙💗♥️💗♥️

[manchestereyes]

IT ALL WORKED OUT!!!! this project was switched out for a different one (that i did do) just like i thought so there were only 2 projects due today instead of 3 😁 also my professor wasn't there at all and instead we just had a sub who collected our projects and just let us leave so now i have an entire hour to myself!! thanks so much to anyone who had any kind words about my whole mental breakdown situation i seriously love you more than words can say and if you don't think you helped, trust me, you did 💕💞💓💗💖💘💝❤️💛💚💙💜🖤❣️now hopefully this won't happen again hahaha