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“He would not fucking say that” except its the badly written source material so he did, in fact, say that
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we need to step away from viewing marriage as inherently romantic, or the primary goal of romance. marriage is a legal contract we use to create important ties--financial, medical, next-of-kin, mediating shared property and parental rights. the details vary a lot based on where you are and what paperwork you sign. which is not very romantic! but it does have many real-world effects on our ability to share our lives with our partners.
first and foremost, marriage is a legal right we use to build and protect our families, whatever that family may look like
#it's an important option for life partners to have! but we need to treat it more like a legal tool#and less like 'This Is What An Ideal Marriage Looks Like'#a marriage is a relationship and relationships vary a LOT#there's no one-size-fits-all#but BEING married is a legally defined thing. with (boring but important) legal benefits and consequences.#and the way we talk about it should reflect that#we need to stop treating it as 'marriage is the romantic ideal and also a milestone that people are just Supposed To Do'
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Do you think this is how the Murray’s lived in SOTM..
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#fnaf fanart#david murray#edwin murray#fiona murray#tiger rock#fnaf mimic#the mimic#sotm#secret of the mimic#I’m so curious how the Murray’s lived after Fiona passed#cause we know soon after Edwin made M1 to be David’s babysitter#but we also see by David’s next birthday M1 is already acting like Fiona using her voice#so for about 2 to 3 years David and Edwin treated M1 like Fiona#just a normal happy family#makes me wonder a lot if like M1 slept in the same bed as Edwin#or if they had dinners together#if David really saw M1 as his mom unable to comprehend she isn’t actually her#the fact M1 tells Edwin too to keep their relationship a secret#the Murray’s are tragic but their story gives me chills too
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if you say “but aros can still date!” about your aromantic blorbo, I need you to mean it. you can’t make the ship just boring old romance.
your blorbo is still aromantic, so how would that color their relationships? how would that affect their daily life? do they struggle with feeling “greedy” because they can’t love their partner back the way their partner loves them? do they have a hard time with an allo partner because on a fundamental level they don’t quite understand what romance is like, even if they’re experiencing it? on the positive side; what societal boundaries of romance do they cast aside or embrace? how do they navigate a romantic relationship differently than their peers? if it’s an aro4aro partnership, how is it unique? how much does being aro define their relationship vs. just their own personal quirks? is that even a line that can be drawn?
an aro relationship is different from an allo one. I promise, it’s so much more fun to explore what that means and the consequences of that than just “oh aros can date so they’re dating in the same way any allos would”.
#this isn’t even going over how this phrase is just so. Arophobic.#I’m writing this as a partnering aro myself who finds comfort in shipping aro characters#but like … guys … c’mon they would NOT fucking be in a romantic relationship#or how people use qprs as a “cop-out” for shipping and treat qprs as Romance-Lite when it’s really nowhere close#aromantic#aromance#aromantism#arospec#aro#aro pride#aromantic pride
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EVERY SINGLE DAY there are MILLIONS of characters in their late 20s who get falsely accused of being father figures to teenagers when in reality the description of "weird older cousin" or "step-sibling that moved out before you were born" is 1000000x more apt
#talk tag#IT KILLS ME. REIGEN IS NOT MOB'S DAD. HE HAS A DAD. INGO IS NOT AKARI'S DAD. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CAN ANYONE HEAR ME#(not even necessarily to say that ingo is in his late 20s but still)#(even if he was a 30-40-50 year old no matter how old he is no fucking teenager is gonna call some guy they met as a 15 year old ''dad'')#GAI IS NOT A FATHER FIGURE TO ROCK LEE HE WAS LIKE 13 WHEN HE WAS BORN! PLEASE!!!!!!!!#one time i saw that a person wrote a fic where mario was like a father figure to luigi.#they are TWIN BROTHERS.#not what this about but idk where else i can say anything about this.#just horrible#also sometimes someone is just An Older Friend like no familial relationship just a friend or acquaintance who is a lot older than you
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More Stowaway AU
Pacifica dynamics with each Grunkle. Happy late Father’s Day and birthday to the grunks!
#Pacifica Northwest#Stanley Pines#Stanford Pines#Stan Pines#Gravity Falls#Stowaway AU#my art#doodles#there’s much more lovecraftian ass monsters and pirate specters than I’ve depicted I just really like making jokes about the dynamics#i love Paz and Stan beefing but like now it’s with love#Ford and Pacifica though that was a surprising discovery bc before I’d always have their relationship as positive neutral#maybe Paz a little tinyyyy bit scared of him bc he is Dipper coded but once he finds out about her paranormal connections he might#unintentionally treat her more science experiment and anomaly more than like a person which is very NOT a Dipper thing so Paz is freaked#but like in the Stowaway AU ok some of that happens but I think the more Ford gets to know her as a bullheaded but intelligent kid who’s#eager to impress he sees a bit of himself AND his brother within her personality and she’s had to go through so much shit but she’s still#here and talking her shit and she’s surprisingly interested in history and so intuitive and REALLY into paranormal shit like even if its not#all the cryptid and science shit he likes they find something to really bond over#and then everything else is just like hey! this kid is cool#and then in the middle of the night one day he’s like ‘Stanley I think I’m ready to be a father.’ and Stan goes BWUH?????
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elita pep talk
#transformers one#transformers#b 127#bumblebee#elita one#i want more content of elita and bee#their dynamic would be so funny i think#ur mean aunt who acts like she hates u but she gets u that one really obscure thing u mentioned in passing conversation#i think their relationship can be really sweet#i think bee would geniunly really look up to elita and think shes so awesome#and elita is just like okay this annoying yellow thing follows me around now i guess#(she loves him)#her stupid son that she hates#shes tough on him but she cares...
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#mha#bkdk#bakudeku#bakugou katsuki#izuku midoriya#my art#bnha#bnha fanart#mha fanart#lore is that this is established relationship bkdk but like early days#izuku really should give him a key atp but hes working his way up to it#his neighbors are starting to get concerned#i drew the floorplan for his entire apartment complex just to only draw one room#teacher!izuku#PH!katsuki#he's just getting off his patrol shift#dont ask me why i put most of my effort into the top view of his desk#i made a 3d model of it in blender bc i couldnt conceptualize how the lighting would work wit h so many sources
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thinking abt being scared to be too clingy w katsuki...

"jisu you seem like you think abt being too clingy a LOT. didn't you just recently write this fic and that fic that are basically the exact same prompt?" no you can sybau.

you’re standing in the doorway of his dorm, hoodie sleeves pulled over your hands, chewing on the inside of your cheek.
he’s sitting on the bed, back against the headboard, legs spread just enough to be inviting without trying. hoodie half-zipped, sweats hanging low on his hips, phone in one hand, completely relaxed.
you are not.
you want to sit with him. in his lap. be tucked in, held tight, kissed maybe once or twice until you melt into him like sugar in hot tea.
but your feet don’t move.
you feel like if you climb into his space first, it’ll make it obvious how badly you want it. how you’ve been thinking about it all day. how when you woke up this morning, a part of you was already aching for his arms.
and what if he doesn’t want that right now?
what if he’s tired, or busy, or just not feeling it?
you shift from foot to foot.
his eyes flick up for only a second before going back to his phone.
“you comin’ in or just gonna stand there lookin’ like an idiot?”
your cheeks flush a little.
“shut up.”
he hums. doesn’t banter. just sets his phone aside, like, completely, not even face-up, and looks at you properly now. tilts his head a little.
and you see it. the way his gaze softens. the way his mouth twitches like he’s trying not to smile, because if he does, the world will probably collapse or something.
he opens his arms. slow, easy.
“c'mere.”
you hesitate. not because you don’t want to. but because you do, and that’s the part that always scares you. you want him so much. you love him with your whole heart and soul and would spend every second being close with him if you could. but does he? are you being too much? too clingy? your own insecurity and self-doubt eats at you.
he catches that in your face. always does. so he adds, voice lower now:
“c’mon, sweetheart. don’t make me ask twice.”
maybe the nickname does it. or maybe it's his tone, or the look in his eyes. either way, it does you over.
you pad over quietly, still a little unsure, until you’re standing between his knees. he reaches for your hips, not rough like how he does most things, but careful, like he doesn’t want to rush you.
“lemme hold you, yeah?”
you nod.
and that’s it.
he pulls you in, smooth and easy, guiding you into his lap like you’ve always belonged there. one arm wraps firm around your lower back. the other slides up under your hoodie to settle warm against your spine.
he exhales deep, like tension he didn’t even notice was there just fell out of his chest.
“fuck. there you are.”
you melt.
your face tucks into his neck. your arms go around his shoulders. your whole body curls up like it knows exactly how to fit against him now. no more guessing. no more hovering.
he rubs your back, slow and steady, fingers dragging ticklishly but soothingly along skin.
“you don’t gotta wait for me to say it every time,” he mumbles into your hair.
“if you want this, just take it. always want you close.”
you nod against his neck, lips brushing warm against his pulse.
and he holds you tighter, just for a moment, like he needs to be sure you believe it.
you do.

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#jisu writes!#this is in my mind like new relationship katsuki or smth bc kats is so quick to expel this kind of insecurity (..or could be unofficialbf..#im sorry all of my writing is just the exact same things. clinginess and unofficial bf#bakugo x reader#bakugo fluff#bakugo katsuki#katsuki fluff#katsuki x reader#mha fluff#mha x reader#bnha fluff#bnha x reader#bakugou fluff#bakugou angst#bakugou x reader#bakugo angst#bakugo comfort#bakugou comfort
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"This is some gay shit" Good. Silly. Fair enough. Doesn't inherently invalidate other interpretations of the relationship. Honestly yeah, it is kind of gay regardless of their canonical relationship status
"There's literally no platonic explanation for th-" WRONG!! KILLING YOU WITH AMATANORMATIVITY KILLING LOBSTERS 🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞🦞
#i like a good ship as much as the next guy. in fact im mostly a shipper but good lord this phrase pisses me off sometimes#especially when its a relationship that canonically is explicitly platonic to highlight the importance of platonic relationships. COUGH#malevolent#COUGH. <- i ship private eyes. i dont have an issue with it. i think its just when people phrase like that specifically that its a bit HHHH#uhm uhm uhhhh. slips.#jayvik#WOAH. how did that get there (obligatory: i literally ship them. again its just.. the phrasings kind of insanely dismissive of friendships)#amatanormativity#fandom critical#fandom discourse#txt#johnlock#<- AS IN LITERATURE. LIKE. LIKE NOT BBC SPECIFIC (BECAUSE THAT WAS A QUEERBAIT I'M AFRAID)#sashannarcy#<- theyre like. in a polycule to me but that doesnt mean their canonical friendship isnt worth celebrating#dare i say#bnha#mha#rwby#<- I SHIP BUMBLEBY THIS IS NOT ABOUT THEM#lord of the rings#<- again not the ships specifically thats the issue but its just the implication that a romantic reading is like inherently superior#to a platonic one#this isnt even a critique of shipping. i think shippings fine as long as youre willing to acknowledge its not inherently canon (and doesn't#have to be) and dont invalidate or devalue non romantic interpretations#9/6/25 update:#DELTARUNE
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I think that “Anakin was a slave child who was groomed by Palpatine and raised by someone who wasn’t ready to take on a child, thereby leaving him in a social limbo state where he’s surrounded by people but only has a few close confidants, with the one he trusts the most actively trying to take advantage of him”
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“Anakin was taught right from wrong from a young age, first by his mother and then by Kenobi, but any time he was presented with a choice, actively CHOSE WRONG EVERY SINGLE TIME”
are two sentences that can, should, and MUST coexist to fully understand Anakin Skywalker as a character
Edit: PART 2 of this post here
#watching people debate him is so interesting to me#pro-Anakin people get it right in that upbringing shapes how a person is: he’s a slave child and had to leave his mom#so of COURSE he’s going to have an iron grip on people attachment-wise#but they tend to deny Anakin his own autonomy and resolve him of every bad thing he did#when it’s like: no. he DID all of that. not just did it…but did it once then did it again#meanwhile anti-Anakin people (usually) tend to understand that Anakin made terrible choices#but again…they either deny him autonomy by making him an always-evil character#or by just downplay the relationship he has with Obi-Wan or Padme. Completely dehumanizing him.#Like the truth is in the middle: he’s a deeply complex person#(arguably more so than fandom can completely understand)#it doesn’t help it that these people either tend to be pro Jedi (anti-Anakin) or pro Sith (pro Anakin)#Pro Jedi people tend to be…Xenophobic is the nicest term for how they treat Anakin#But pro Sith people tend to claim that the Jedi are a cult (they aren’t) and Anakin was groomed by it (he wasn’t)#So they use Anakin as the sort of doll to put all of their beliefs into. Which again we circle around to dehumanizing this character#star wars tcw#star wars#anakin skywalker#star wars meta#Anakin Skywalker meta
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Kinda need the whole family being tired as fuck from Tim's love stories and drama, so they send him away every time he finds a new crush.
Tim, struggling on how to confess to Kon: Hey, Dick, can you give me a dating advice? Dick: Oh, sure Dick, beaming cluelessly: Are you back with Steph? Tim: Oh no, I- Dick: Oh, right, sorry! Bart, right? Tim, embarrassed: No, I was- Dick: Omg, sorry, it was, uh, Bern? Tim: You know what... Forget it. Tim: *leaves* Dick, sighing in relief: Works every time. I hate giving dating advices.
Tim: Steph, can I have a dating advice? Steph, unimpressed: Are you cheating on someone again? Tim: ...Whatever.
Tim: Bruce- Bruce, hopeful: Yeah? Need help with something? Tim, thinking twice: ...Uh, actually no. Bruce: :(
Tim, stopping in front of Damian's door, unsure: ... Damian, right through the closed door: Drake. Spare us both. Tim: *groan*
Tim: So, I have this situation... Duke: Wait, I'll put the voice message recording, I need to send this to Cass, while she is on the mission Tim: Oh my god, MY LIFE IS NOT EVEN THAT MESSY! FORGET IT.
Tim, seething through his teeth on Jason's doorstep: You are my last hope. I am not even kidding. Jason: Woah. What happened to Alfie? Tim, with his eye twitching: He started to reminisce about his romance with Lizzie. Like, Queen Elizabeth. Lizzie. I can't listen to this any more. I need fucking advice. How to confess to Kon. Jason, who constantly writes fanfiction, but since his love life is non-existent at this point, uses his family's messy dating histories as an inspiration and references: ...Okay. Tim, gagged: Seriously? Jason: Yeah. Just work with me. What we are working with? Bridgerton ass romance? Miss Austen type of flair? Bronte's kind of insanity? Tim, sniffling: tHanK yOu
#I know we love it when Dick is being helpful but I love the most when he is acting like typical annoyed big sis in canon#like it is his circus his monkey and he is going to use an opportunity to ignore this if he can and rant about it to his friends instead#Tim a few months in relationship w Kon later: hey what are you reading#Kon (sobbing): I just read the most heart-breaking fic about SuperBoy/Red Robin and it is SO canon I CAN'T#Tim: hmmmm.... what is the username#Kon: oh it is my fav author! denydeposebatman#Tim: oh my fucking god Jason#Tim (seconds after bc he remembers reading Jason's fics when he was Robin and they were GOOD): gimme#tim drake#jason todd#red hood#batman#dcu#dcu comics#dc universe#batfamily#bruce wayne#batfam#dick grayson#stephanie brown#duke thomas#cassandra cain#damian wayne#alfred pennyworth#timkon#kon el kent
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The tragedy of David Murray and the Mimic in SOTM..
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#fnaf#five nights at freddy's#fnaf fanart#david murray#M1 FNAF#m2 fnaf#tiger rock#the mimic#fnaf mimic#edwin murray#fiona murray#SOTM#secret of the mimic#David Murray makes me sad#David Murray maybe one of the more tragic characters in FNAF#he not only lost his mom but had her replaced with M1#watch his dad go insane and basically neglect him#Grew a new parental relationship with M1#then it ends with him running after his toy ball#a toy ball that has his mothers hand writing on it#he couldn’t lose that and most likely died near the loading Bay Area#not only all that but then Edwin makes the mimic into him instead#storing M1 onto the F1ON4 machine#then making M2 to mimic him out for Edwin to abuse it and lock it underground#then actual David haunts Tiger his plush toy#M2 only wanting his dad to love him.. he was just a kid programmed to be one#M2 and David I’m so sorry what happened to you both
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One thing about old men, they do be napping.
#70 yo disaster bi whose end game is an incredibly cancellable subversive age gap bi4bi toxic relationship#with arguably the hottest vampire in the chronicles#daniel molloy nobody is doing it like you#art slumping atm so I'm just using my sketches like a goddamn coloring book#old man belly enjoyers might still appreciate it#interview with the vampire#iwtv#amc iwtv#armand#daniel molloy#devil's minion#armandaniel#old daniel molloy#iwtv fanart#my art
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Partner is a difficult word to translate
#jayvik#jayce x viktor#viktor arcane#jayce talis#ximena was so excited poor thing#jayce talis gets a friend: 3 injured thousands dead#i'm not one to headcanon jayce as latino#except when it's funny#i say this being latina myself u see#if you're wondering the official translation used “socio”#which is a business relationship#except on the last one (i just want my partner back)#where they used “compañero” which is kinda like companion#i'm talking about the subs i don't watch dubs#anyway poor viktor
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sorry starscream
#bumblebee#b 127#megatron#starscream#transformers one#transformers#megatron wins custody AU#starscream would work hard to become a driving force between bee and megs#whether its convincing bee to turn against megs or encouraging megs hatred and anger#no starbee or any ships in this AU sowwyyy#i do like starbee in general but imo i dont really see it realistically working out in the tfone continuity specifically#also this au is more focused on familial relationships#starscream hates his guts like crazy in this AU LOOOL#“stupi dfreaking snitch"#he would try to get bee on his side and act very nice but as soon as bee clearly doesnt agree with him he drops the act#bee doesnt really care for the decipticon “cause” which is why starscream fails to convince him#he just want his friend
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