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" potion sickness"

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It was requested of me to draw this thang,,, so who am I to deny?

The dot pen is fun to use :3

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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀PARLOR GUBBY ☆

parlor gubby theme and graphics

archive 02: self indulgent and suggestion from a friend — not free to use.

[ ★ art credits: azzie8bit, mokiiroo, OhMyMoxie_ on Twt/X, just-a-joey and remi-roni on Tumblr ]

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helllo

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Back once again to say that people thinking rap can't go with the headcanons of their favorite characters have a clear skill issue because I am having a BALL rn with this new Tyler

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my friend keeps the photo in their car as a good luck charm

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Apologizing when you’ve messed up without spiralling is so important for your relationships.

Messing up doesn’t make you a monster. It makes you human. And learning how to apologize with care, without guilt-tripping or panicking, is one of the best things you can do for yourself and your relationships.

Here’s some ideas of how to do this.

Pause and take a breath.

Before you rush in with “I’m sorry, I’m the worst, please don’t leave,” take a breath. Remind yourself that you’re not bad. You’re learning. You can handle this. And if needed, try a skill to prevent any urges.

Genuinely apologize with the intent to validate and show remorse, not to get reassurance.

A good apology isn’t about begging for reassurance. It’s about acknowledging your impact.

“I’m really sorry for what I said. I see now that it hurt you, and that wasn’t okay.” This is a great way to apologize instead of something like “I’m sorry I’m such a horrible person and you probably hate me now.”

The difference between these two is the second one makes it about you, and puts pressure on the other person to reassure you instead of sorting through their own feelings.

Apologies should be about acknowledging the other person and how you’ve messed up and not done just because you’re afraid someone will leave you.

Try not to be defensive.

Even if you didn’t mean to hurt them, what matters is that they were hurt. We often want to defend ourselves because we want the other person to know our intentions but sometimes this can come off as invalidating. The example I’m going to share below is a way to apologize to someone while still getting to share your intentions because while the apology is about the other person, sometimes we need to do this for our own peace of mind. This way of wording should still allow the other person to feel heard and validated while honouring your feelings.

“I didn’t intend to make you feel that way, but I understand that I did, and I’m sorry.”

Don’t make assumptions. Ask questions.

Instead of scrambling to fix everything or smother them with affection, try finding out what they need.

“Is there something I can do to make this right?”

“Do you need some space or want to talk it through more?”

Be patient.

You can apologize perfectly and still need to wait for the other person to feel ready to reconnect. That doesn’t mean you failed at your apology. It just means they need time and you’re strong enough to give it to them. And if they cannot forgive you, know that while they’re allowed to feel that way, it doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to forgive yourself.

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Lazy Ichance animatic

… ooc? Idk-

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MAFIOSO PETTING DEEP SEA BUNNY PLEASE

cute ! as you wish, anon

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He's such a gentleman ❤️

(When you got undeserved love and u just eueueueueueueueueu💦)

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Do you have any hcs for the mafiosolings?

Here they are!

I headcanon there’s more mafialings (obviously) , but these four were the people Mafioso called to get stuff done. They became a little team of their own.

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omg look at how they look at each other 😍😍 there's NO romantic explanation for this literally the amount of devotion they have could only be platonic. people who r just dating don't act like that, those two are sooo best friends

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filtering down ao3 results from 14000 to 6 based on a single tag is foul. im sorry none of you are as enlightened as me ig.

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I SWEAR this is how I thought Tpot 19 would’ve ended 😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭🙏