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im-getting-help · 11 months ago

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i can't find the motivation to keep going guys!! i think i lost it a while ago but i didn't notice lol i think it probably slipped that time i lost my wallet? idk

#*insert gif of John Travolta in Pulp Fiction*#sitting in my desk looking at my past and my potential future wishing i didn't have to live any part of the 💫human experience💫#can i pretty please quit? 👉🏻👈🏻#can i get a good fking reason for why everything is so hard?#and at the end of this existential crisis i still have to do the work #and keep going as if i wasn't literally dying inside which every decision im forced to make #my sociology professor talked a lot about “liberty to choose”#and i was like???#i can't choose shit my guy #we don't have the power to choose #the moment we're born we're placed in our respective boxes of expectations and obligations #plus the fact that all these studies on society and culture is based in “ideal types” almost a utopia of how society actually works #and im like🧍🏻‍♀️#how can i sit and read about all this and regurgitate it in an exam #do a presentation with a smile about how 💫with the power of love and a sense of community we can help those in need💫#im honestly so tired of pretending #AND I DON'T EVEN DO A GOOD JOB PRETENDING #im very obviously upset lmao #idk im sad #and tired #so so so tired #i wanna go to sleep #read a fic #listen to some music #and pretend my vote counts for fking something #when it clearly doesn't

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kg-day · 11 months ago

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I genuinely want to know what show the people who say that Aang never respected Katara are watching. "Aang never let Katara feel anything other than what he wanted her to feel" "He idealized her" "He didn't care about her feelings" "He didn't support her the way she supported him". WHERE ARE YOU GETTING THIS FROM??? That's a rhetorical question because I already know what episodes/moments they're using to make those assertions (The Southern Raiders and the kiss in Ember Island Players), and even then, THEY'RE WRONG.

Let's start with TSR. This episode gets so misinterpreted it's not even funny. First off, Aang was never even upset with Katara in this episode, he's just warning her against killing someone??? He never gets mad at her or berates her. He just talks to her with a level head??? He openly acknowledges that he knows and understands how much rage and pain Katara is in, and he never tells her that she shouldn't feel it, he just advises her not to act rashly because of it??? Where is the lack of respect? Where is he ignoring her feelings or getting upset with her for not acting the way he wants her to? He lets her take Appa and even tells her that he understands that this is a journey she needs to take and supports her doing so, he just doesn't want her to kill someone. Honestly Aang shows more respect for Katara by knowing who she is as a person and not enabling her in her revenge than Zuko who is only going on this trip with her so that she'll forgive him, not because he actually cares that she's upset over the death of her mother (and this is not Zuko slander before people take it as such, I love Zuko, but it's not even subtext that his motivations in this episode are selfish and not about Katara).

As for the kiss in EIP, yes, it was not okay. Yes, it was a mistake. Yes, he shouldn't have done it after Katara laid a clear boundary, but he recognizes that immediately. After Katara- rightfully- gets upset with him, he gets upset with himself. We also see that he never repeats that mistake again and is fully okay with letting Katara lead after that. Which is why it's Katara who initiates the final kiss on the balcony. And if you still don't think he learned anything from it, he starts to ask for her consent in the comics before kissing her, showing that he absolutely DID grow from that mistake. So, we're really going to let one moment where a 12-year-old boy made a mistake dictate the entire show and negate everything that came before it??? That's coocoo banana's behavior.

I also think that those assertions are completely baseless because when does Aang idealize Katara? When does he hate her rage? When does he not support her? Is it when he laughed with her after she stole from pirates? Or in that same episode where he constantly reaffirms her skills as a waterbender- first by saying that he's able to pick it up so easily because she's a great teacher and then later when he refers to her as a waterbender which makes her so fucking happy? Is it when he gets so upset that Pakku refuses to teach Katara how to waterbend that he tries to walk away from his own waterbending training? Is it when he goes behind Pakku's back to teach her anyway? Or when he stands by actively cheering her on when she's raging against the patriarchy and fights Pakku? Is it when he calls her Sifu Katara because she expressed that he referred to Toph that way but not her? Is it when he helped her commit ecoterrorism and told her she was a hero for helping the people in that Fire Nation village? Is it when he holds her after she breaks down because she learned how to bloodbend? Is it when he comforts her after Jet's death? Is it... you get the point, don't you?

Aang recognizing Katara as someone who is strong and capable is not him idealizing her. Him not enabling her committing murder is not him hating when she feels rage. Aang actively supports Katara's rage on multiple occasions, he just doesn't enable her when he knows she's acting out of character. If you don't ship Kataang, that's fine, but please don't make up baseless accusations to try and tear them down just because you're mad that a ship that had no basis in canon (potential is not evidence) wasn't canon.

#kataang #anti zutara #for the tags #because people are crazy #and I don't have the time or energy to deal with it #pro kataang #pro aang #aang defense squad #katara x aang #this isn't even about not letting people ship what they want to ship #it really is just about people who bend over backwards to rewrite canon and hate on these characters in order to justify their ship #let them breathe for god's sake #adding here that i saw someone say that Aang treats Katara like the madonna and i 🧍🏻‍♀️🧍🏻‍♀️🧍🏻‍♀️#PLEASE DEVELOP MEDIA LITERACY SKILLS IM BEGGING #DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT THE MADONNA/WHORE COMPLEX IS???#GENUINELY BC WHEN?? WHEN DOES HE DO THAT???#*cries in english major*

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filtheopathic · 22 days ago

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honestly i guess if tumblr went dark i’d start using my fandom twitter for more than just rting art and lurking

#there’s also discord ofc but i kind of suck at being a one-on-one friend on there 🧍🏻‍♀️#i feel so shy lmao. like some of my moots i’ve known for years now i still feel like im annoying if i message them first…#and it truly doesn’t matter how many times they say im not #i do better on like low stakes group settings where i can yell into the ether and if someone wants to interact they can yknow

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raylasrightbraid · 10 months ago

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maybe the season 6 trailer were the friends we made along the way

#all jokes im all good without a trailer #but i mean #i would like one #🧍🏻‍♀️#the dragon prince #tdp #the dragon prince season 6 #tdp season 6

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darlingod · 5 months ago

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Spotify wrapped was dogshit boring what the hell

#this has nothing to do with the music #my shit lit #but the wrapped setup was just extra in a bad way like sis idgaf about top audiobooks or podcasts bye #“your artist clips” being a category like wtf do I need that on the dash for 😭😭😭#“want more wrapped? here’s an AI—” i don’t want more wrapped bitch I want BETTER #idec that much plssss I be going off in the tags like my life depends on it #im literally typing like this 🧍🏻‍♀️

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numnue · 10 months ago

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reading any kind of aftg texting/social media role play type post and just going “he would not fucking say that” the entire time

#IM SORRY BUT DID WE READ THE SAME BOOKS LIKE #or when you can tell that a millennial made it like 🧍🏻‍♀️#neil josten #andrew minyard #aftg fandom #aftg #all for the game

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cheshitora · 12 days ago

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so after almost 24 years of life on this planet, i learned that i was named after my dad's mistress

#this just in 🗣#ive always hated my irl name #and i remember always asking my dad where he got my name from #but he always avoided the question #i have 6 siblings and im the only one my dad named #so i never understood where my name came from since it didnt seem like something he'd come up with on his own #well.... i ended up asking my mom (which idk why i didnt think to ask her before)#and she told that my dad used to cheat on his first wife with this lady of the same name 🧍🏻‍♀️#welp time to tell my therapist abt my greatest discovery #guys i dont normally trauma dump but i lowkey thought this was funny #the funniest part is that i actually learned this yesterday and yesterday was my sister's birthday #we were devastated to say the least #and it took me all day to fully comprehend what i was told #im gonna start using this in arguments against my siblings now

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eggofchaos · 1 month ago

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my mom practically begging me on the phone to find a "long term partner" soon and have babies

like girl........ am i just a vessel to you??????

#this is not the issue at hand i'm just trying to figure out where to go to grad school 🧍🏻‍♀️#she also confessed she doesn't understand how i will have babies and that worries her #sorry i’m gay but also it's not impossible? but also not something im doing anytime soon? or at all?#the world is descending into chaos #her and my grandma just want me to marry a man who's an engineer sooooo bad it's like an obsession to them #personal #lesbian #mine #diary

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4mulaone · 2 months ago

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HAPPY RACE WEEK and special shout out to the people advocating for a waist search party to be launched under this post

#body tea is ALWAYS getting a giggle out of me . the 16 year olds really outsold with that one #im writhing and wiggling in my bed like a delighted little worm feasting on fresh matter. hehehehehehehehehs 😏😳😳👹🥰🥰🥰🤩🧍🏻‍♀️😹#the Return of sport its about to get so damn epic in here . horse army horse army horse army horse #charles leclerc #f1

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jaeminvore · 1 year ago

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I’m barely hanging onto my sanity good heavens ©️

#GAGGED (figuratively and literally) he’s so hot guys he’s putting the summer heat to shame 😭😭#he needs to break my heart so i can move on I CANT KEEP GOING LIKE THIS #im just sitting here re-evaluting how i got here 🧍🏻‍♀️ being one of chenle’s bitches

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anantaru · 1 year ago

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guys i'm so excited for the final fontaine arc but i think nothing will ever beat sumeru's arcs for me (fontaine is my favorite region because i am a biased french mf 😔 SO I AM VERY EXCITED) like sumeru was as if i was watching a movie, it beat EVERYTHING for me 🙇🏻‍♀️💓 and nahida got my second favorite archon too (first is venti) AND LIKE SHE IS SO COOL BECAUSE SHE HONESTLY HELPS UP AND HOW SHE TOOK SCARAMOUCHE IN LIKE I LOVE THIS FAIRY SHE IS SO AMAZING!!!!!!!