#and im like🧍🏻‍♀️

[im-getting-help]

i can't find the motivation to keep going guys!! i think i lost it a while ago but i didn't notice lol i think it probably slipped that time i lost my wallet? idk

[bunnihearted]

[k8lynjoy]

I genuinely want to know what show the people who say that Aang never respected Katara are watching. "Aang never let Katara feel anything other than what he wanted her to feel" "He idealized her" "He didn't care about her feelings" "He didn't support her the way she supported him". WHERE ARE YOU GETTING THIS FROM??? That's a rhetorical question because I already know what episodes/moments they're using to make those assertions (The Southern Raiders and the kiss in Ember Island Players), and even then, THEY'RE WRONG.

Let's start with TSR. This episode gets so misinterpreted it's not even funny. First off, Aang was never even upset with Katara in this episode, he's just warning her against killing someone??? He never gets mad at her or berates her. He just talks to her with a level head??? He openly acknowledges that he knows and understands how much rage and pain Katara is in, and he never tells her that she shouldn't feel it, he just advises her not to act rashly because of it??? Where is the lack of respect? Where is he ignoring her feelings or getting upset with her for not acting the way he wants her to? He lets her take Appa and even tells her that he understands that this is a journey she needs to take and supports her doing so, he just doesn't want her to kill someone. Honestly Aang shows more respect for Katara by knowing who she is as a person and not enabling her in her revenge than Zuko who is only going on this trip with her so that she'll forgive him, not because he actually cares that she's upset over the death of her mother (and this is not Zuko slander before people take it as such, I love Zuko, but it's not even subtext that his motivations in this episode are selfish and not about Katara).

As for the kiss in EIP, yes, it was not okay. Yes, it was a mistake. Yes, he shouldn't have done it after Katara laid a clear boundary, but he recognizes that immediately. After Katara- rightfully- gets upset with him, he gets upset with himself. We also see that he never repeats that mistake again and is fully okay with letting Katara lead after that. Which is why it's Katara who initiates the final kiss on the balcony. And if you still don't think he learned anything from it, he starts to ask for her consent in the comics before kissing her, showing that he absolutely DID grow from that mistake. So, we're really going to let one moment where a 12-year-old boy made a mistake dictate the entire show and negate everything that came before it??? That's coocoo banana's behavior.

I also think that those assertions are completely baseless because when does Aang idealize Katara? When does he hate her rage? When does he not support her? Is it when he laughed with her after she stole from pirates? Or in that same episode where he constantly reaffirms her skills as a waterbender- first by saying that he's able to pick it up so easily because she's a great teacher and then later when he refers to her as a waterbender which makes her so fucking happy? Is it when he gets so upset that Pakku refuses to teach Katara how to waterbend that he tries to walk away from his own waterbending training? Is it when he goes behind Pakku's back to teach her anyway? Or when he stands by actively cheering her on when she's raging against the patriarchy and fights Pakku? Is it when he calls her Sifu Katara because she expressed that he referred to Toph that way but not her? Is it when he helped her commit ecoterrorism and told her she was a hero for helping the people in that Fire Nation village? Is it when he holds her after she breaks down because she learned how to bloodbend? Is it when he comforts her after Jet's death? Is it... you get the point, don't you?

Aang recognizing Katara as someone who is strong and capable is not him idealizing her. Him not enabling her committing murder is not him hating when she feels rage. Aang actively supports Katara's rage on multiple occasions, he just doesn't enable her when he knows she's acting out of character. If you don't ship Kataang, that's fine, but please don't make up baseless accusations to try and tear them down just because you're mad that a ship that had no basis in canon (potential is not evidence) wasn't canon.

[raylasrightbraid]

maybe the season 6 trailer were the friends we made along the way

[midnightmah07]

Ok genuine question why are people upset about Floyd's feet,,,, it's just feet,,,,,,, are u traumatized by feet or something/j

[caramellashton]

5sos should start walking off stage when they chant pizza

[numnue]

reading any kind of aftg texting/social media role play type post and just going “he would not fucking say that” the entire time

[anantaru]

guys i'm so excited for the final fontaine arc but i think nothing will ever beat sumeru's arcs for me (fontaine is my favorite region because i am a biased french mf 😔 SO I AM VERY EXCITED) like sumeru was as if i was watching a movie, it beat EVERYTHING for me 🙇🏻‍♀️💓 and nahida got my second favorite archon too (first is venti) AND LIKE SHE IS SO COOL BECAUSE SHE HONESTLY HELPS UP AND HOW SHE TOOK SCARAMOUCHE IN LIKE I LOVE THIS FAIRY SHE IS SO AMAZING!!!!!!!

also kaveh, alhaitham, tighnari and cyno are my favorite group aka quartet in genshin��💓

[flowers-for-em]

gouys since its spring now..... does that mean its time for a spring theme??

[slttygeto]

gege finally treating yuuji as a main character after making sure everyone he loves and cares for is either d.ead or missing

[celestie0]

gojo smells like strawberries idk i just feel it

[chrollogy]

help a girl out … neuvillette with two cocks yes or no❕

[midnightmah07]

Tbh I would love to post more one piece oc content but I'm really unmotivated to do so bc it never gets the same engagement of when I make twst oc content🚶🏻‍♀️ I know engagement is not the most important thing like I should just be focusing on having fun but it makes me discouraged when people don't engage with my one piece oc content nearly the same way smh

[hexslvt]

im being so so autistic abt the paci stuff now

[euphoricfilter]

how do you politely decline someone

[bunnihearted]

i hate that im scared of complimenting ppl bc i have prettyyy much always been rejected in everything and that's why i have avpd 🙃 it doesnt make sense to normal ppl i know but im literally terrified of calling someone pretty or saying that idk i like their shirt or they're cool or whatever. im genuinely soooo scared of even saying nice things. because for some reason im so off-putting and repulsive the nice things i've had to say to ppl are only weird and unwelcomed 🙃 so most of the times i wont say anything nice or supportive or comforting because im scared that i'll upset them. when i actually do give someone a compliment im either out of there asap and wont listen to their response or im just sitting there shaking waiting for them to get mad bc i said they were pretty or cool 🙃