#and blocked them and found my rb and deleted it

[lesenbyan]

Every so often I think about the time I rb'd a post with mild disagreements in the tags and a general rant that wasn't at OP so much as to the void (which, as I recall, I did clarify) and OP decided to, in the thousands of notes, take my tags and respond in bad faith and succeeded in only getting me to delete the post, block them, and be further convinced that they don't actually know what they were talking about

[yumenosakiacademy]

tumblr bitches who migrate from twt or w/e need 2 start putting their carrds/rentrys on their tumblrs as well so ppl don't hav 2 end up finding out Way Later thru twt tht they [op] suck or go against the viewer's dni (or the other way around). like, u put ur bullshit on One acc why not the Other as well. Bitch.

[longdeadking]

dashboard simulator

👯 crows-on-a-log

guys im literally undergoing a crisis right now can anyone hear me

#my dad goin craaaaazy #he stole the lightbulbs out of my ezbake oven for the fifth time :( #vent post #delete later

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☠️ williamaftonshugepersonality 🔁

😶‍🌫️ boypenis Follow

MEDIA DASHBOARD SIMULATOR

😃 blogname-here

did yall see the new episode......... glopp sploinky was sooooooooooooo

#im normal about him! #<- blatant lies #media liveblog

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😼 discourse-haver Follow

i just dont see why we have to portray every male character in Media as female....... cant we just leave them male, as the creators intended? lol

🪴 rational-thinker

what world do you live in that people are being forced to hc male characters as female????

😼 discourse-haver Follow

youd understand if you were a fandom elder like me.......

🪴 rational-thinker

your blog is a month old

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😚 trustedmutual 🔁

👙 cup-size-tournament Follow

glopp sploinky propaganda:

he's literally just a cisgender man with 5 minutes of screentime

Woman McAwesome propaganda:

she has a canonical rack, she's a lead character, she's super buff and could crush you, she has an interesting arc and her emotional narrative factors into the main plot in impactful ways

#vote glopp sploinky!!!! #GLOPP SPLOINKY SWEEEEEP!!!!! #thats my husband! fuck woman mcawesome lol

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🖌 supercoolartist 🔁

🖌 supercoolartist

made a little doodle <3

if you dont reblog my art ill kill you btw <3

#self rb for the morning crowd #glopp sploinky x blorbo C #gloc fanart

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Based on your Likes!

😈 guy-you-have-blocked Follow

hey anyone want to hear the worst take of all time as shown through a low-effort meme that i stole from reddit?

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😚 trustedmutual 🔁

💝 fandomroyalty Follow

i would let woman mcawesome step on my face

💝 fandomroyalty Follow 🔁

10k woman mcawesome hornyposting

#happy woman mcawesome hornyposting wednesday

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#long post #dashboard simulator

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🍊 the-real-onceler

all im saying is that homestuck is actually a modern epic poem a la gilgamesh the oddesey the journey to the west etc. essay below the cut if you want me to cite my sources

Read More

#onceler essays #i literally wrote my thesis on this

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🤡 puns-are-for-losers

goncharov ebby deepy glup shitto blorbo old man yaoi vanilla extract post simulators tournaments tumblr live homestuck 2 barbenheimer. we didnt start the fire

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🦋 axels-random-blog 🔁

🌹 girluterus Follow

what if weevils had tumblr

👤 burrowing-for-goodies-deactivated-2024

guyssss i just found the juiciest tomato to chow down on.... hmu for my location in the garden

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🐛 evil-weevil

attention garden dwellers!! do not eat the fresh produce in the southwest corner of the garden!! the humans just sprayed insecticide on them, so if you eat them you will die!!!!

��� carapace-is-popping

wtf this is blatant misinfo..... my buddy @burrowing-for-goodies just ate some tomatoes from the southwest corner and hes fine. youre just hoarding bro its so obvious

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🪲 carapace-is-popping

hey ummm has anybody seen @burrowing-for-goodies recently? hes not responding to dms. im going to go look for him

🍃 random-bugg

op is your friend ok? what happened?

🪲 carapace-is-popping

hopital

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🔴 girluterus

what was that

10,041 notes

🔮 the-wizard-hatter

she fireball on my small enclosed space til i TPK

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💀 longdeadking

do you guys think post simulators have gone too far

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[boreal-sea]

yeah so that one don't track. you can hide rbs but the kicker is that you can't unhide them. unclear if you didn't know or if this is more misinformation, but personally I love that your reputation with that is so bad even terfs are calling it out when by all means, it's just a stronger route to cryptoterfs' same goals

I have been using Tumblr since 2012 and have not been aware of any functionality to hide a reblog in any of those 11 years. However, your anon message made me curious - "is anon confusing replies with reblogs? I know you can delete replies" - though to be fair, I've never done that on this blog.

So I went and found one of my posts, and clicked around, and wouldn't you know it, there is a "hide note" option.

Damn! I've just been letting bigots say shit because I thought I had no ability to get rid of it. In the past it was really bad because we couldn't even stop reblogs on posts, so if an asshole said something shitty, it was (as far as I knew) there for forever and there was nothing you could do to stop it from spreading. And with the "turn off reblogs" option, things improved, but it still meant that if a bigot said something, I had to lock down the whole post even if I felt it still had a good message.

So I will say: prior to like, 60 seconds ago, I was completely unaware this was a thing I could do, therefore, I absolutely have not EVER hidden a reblog on ANY of my posts because, swear to heaven and hell, it was not a thing I knew I could do.

It's not something I see myself using for discussions with TERFs. If I don't feel like continuing a conversation, I generally just... stop reblogging the post, and sometimes block the person. But I'll definitely use it for slurs and antisemitism and stuff like that, wowie.

[thinkingnot]

hey, please consider deleting your reblog of that cat donation post about Pirate the cat. it's fake and a scam.

the account (@ hinderswives) was created 1 day ago and you can find those cat images on a reverse google search. did you get an ask from the op asking you nicely to check out the pinned post (and not to publically answer the ask)? I did, and it's the second almost identical one ive gotten in the last few months, also by an account that only existed for one day before posting the help request (who had never interacted with my blog before, either).... basically, this is 100% a scam.

They ask you to reblog their post *but not answer their ask* so that anyone who follows you thinks that you know this person is legitimate (which is exactly the opposite of the real situation). They ask you to use 'friends and family' on PayPal so you can't get your money back if you figure out it's a scam (always be suspicious of people who do this!)

i found your reblog by going through the notes on the scam post. i'm going to send this ask to other people who reblogged it, too. (in anon mode so that the scam op can't block me, which happened last time before i could get the warning out, rip).

please don't let your followers be tricked into wasting their money! there are plenty of real people and real cats that could use their help out there, if they want to be generous.

consider posting this ask too, cause a bunch of people have reblogged the scam post from you so it might be good if they see this, too.

thanks.

okay i am making a rule for myself to only rb those kind of posts from people i know personally 🥲 (i saw a blog i knew rbing it and thought its legit)

to be safe imma find and remove my previous rbs (sorry for the ones bothered by this)

its a scam fr guys i looked them up just now and the blog doesn’t show up anymore they blocked me after the deed’s done

[whipped-for-fictionals]

❝ i was enchanted to meet you . . . ❞

diavolo picture by @/savemebeel | pfp by @zombiesandbells , it's fanart of my crossover ship diayoi! (diavolo obey me x yoimiya genshin) | banner found on gyfcat

— NESSA . 18 . genderfluid + bisexual . capricorn . esfp . 2w3 . genshin impact . obey me (i stopped playing but still) . hermitcraft s10 ! nevermore . SPY X FAMILY ! MASTERLIST . CARRD (cw light mode)

hi! welcome to my blog, you can call me nessa! enjoy your stay :3

byf: i swear pretty often and have a tendency to keyboard smash A LOT. especially if i see a fic/fanart that i love. i won't reblog any nsfw fics/fanart but some of my reblogs under my #[☄️] nbr! tag may contain suggestive/dirty humour. oh btw, my blog usually doesn't run by a queue!

go ahead and interact with me, i don't bite ! 🤍 just please don't dm me unless we're close/moots! also mooties can ask for my discord or instagram :)

agere account (completely sfw!): @rambles-of-the-little

tags under the cut!

— navigation! [tags]

#[💭] my headcanons! — incorrect quotes, scenarios, short fics and actual headcanons!

#[🌺] my posts! — anything i've originally posted :)

#[🤍🖋️] my writing — similar to above, but just everything i've written, since it's the main thing i post here

#[🔄] reblogs — self explanatory, things i will reblog. mainly just to keep my blog tidy when searching through it

#[🖌️🔄] fanart rbs! — reblogs just for fanart!

#[🍃] reading recs — any fics i reblog that i adore ! you should read them too!

#[☄️] nbr! — stands for non blog related, anything that isn't a fandom related thing that i reblog/post

#[🗣️] nessa's rambles! — posts that are just me talking and thinking my thoughts, then sharing them here

#[🫗] nessa's vagueposting again — self explanatory (i literally vaguepost in my posts waaay too much; no i am not apologising for it)

#[🧍] ramble in the tags — sometimes i have a little ramble in the tags, if you're curious go ahead and have a read

#[📥] my asks!  — anything answered from asks

#[🏷️] my tags — in case i'm ever involved in a tag chain!

#[🕰️] from the queue — anything i schedule/put in the queue :>

#[🤝] genshin x obey me — any of my rambles about the crossover between my two favourite games :)

#[🎆] diayoi — to add to the rambles above ^^ this special tag is for my crossover ship rambles between yoimiya from genshin and diavolo from obey me!!

secret tag: #felt like shit might delete later — vent posts

i tag my fandoms accordingly, but i also tag anything mcyt related as #block men tag (ie the hermitcraft, life series or any other things to do with minecraft ccs in general)

^^ feel free btw!! no judgement here :]

[cruelsister-moved]

that seems like ur business honestly and also u somehow did like a full circle away from the point

[painsandconfusion]

Anon Ask Lineup!!

I got SO many gorgeous lurker confirmation asks, and wow I love you guys so much. You're way too sweet to me. Ahhhhhhh.

That being said, a lot of you had questions and I said I wouldn't rb those asks, but there were several overlapping ones anyway, so I'm just going to make one biiiiiiiggggggg post answering questions here!

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How long did I lurk? Six years or so? Longer? I knew I loved whump since I was a little tiny kiddo, but didn't know there was a word for it (I feel like this is a common experience lol), and started following hero x villain things (also a common experience) that eventually lead me to the whump community. I didn't make this blog (well, the same url - it used to be a sideblog and it moved but I'm counting it) about two years ago? But I only started making my own content one year ago.

Have I ever regretted making my blog instead of lurking? Since I started this one? No. But there was a time before where I made a side blog (same url) and started making some whumpy gif sets? And I loved it and was having a nice time with no one knowing or following me, but it was immediately picked up by the kink community instead of this one. While I don't have any problem with that, I felt like I wasn't in the right place and that no one was really listening and I was getting sucked in the wrong direction, so I panicked and deleted the blog. Cut lurking again for two years before making this one.

Was I ever ashamed of whump? Um. Yes. Still kind of am (I'm working on it), but I grew up in a very religious household, and I'm an extremely kind and gentle person irl, so it felt like this horrific denial both of my faith and of myself. I read a post a year and a half ago or so that clarified the difference between fiction and reality for whump, and something about it just made the pieces fit together again for me. It wasn't long after that that I got started making my own content.

How I moved from being a reblogger to a creator? There was one prompt list (here) that I just fell in love with and had a few ideas to continue? So I did. And it got SO many more notes than I expected and I just........fell in love with it? I found I have a knack for prompt lists - much more than gif sets. So I started making prompt lists. They got popular pretty quick. Then I was challenged to do Whumptober, and I did. After that, I felt comfortable starting my own series and doing drabbles and I haven't looked back.

How many irl people know about whump/my blog? Four who I didn't meet through this. I've told three friends and my sister - all of whom took it FAR more gracefully than I expected. While whump isn't their thing, they're incredibly supportive and generally confused why I'm so embarrassed about it. Oops-

Is my whump fixation purely whump, kink, or both? Uhmmmmmmmm....I like whump. I like whump in any context. That bleeds into kink as well. I don't post NSFW things here because a lot of my readers are minors and I genuinely don't trust the tagging system to keep their sweet lovely eyes off the abominations I create asdlkf. But if I'm in an 18+ area where people are chatting, I'm more than willing to discuss it or put out ideas/content. I'm getting more comfortable with it by the day (everyone has hurtles to get over in self-acceptance - that's one of mine).

Do I use whump as an outlet for something else? I know a lot of people have turned to whump to process trauma, but that's not my story. I have loved it since forever, and my ptsd isn't something I ever want to encounter in whump. I have those tags blocked so fucking hard, I don't want to be triggered in my safe space (that's just me - everyone processes differently). But. I do find that it greatly eases my anxiety and nightmares. If I go a week or two without writing or consuming something terrifying, my anxiety doesn't really have an outlet? And it bleeds into dreams. I often have very whumpy dreams, but I don't consider them nightmares, they're just lovely. But the nightmares? Nope. Nuh-uh. Don't want. It's a very small part of why I write, but it's a lovely bonus.

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Whelp I think that's all of them?? Shoot me another ask if I missed one - it wasn't intentions.

Love you all so so much - I'm glad you reached out!

General disclaimer: all these are my own expeiance and do not speak to or dictate in any way how others interact with this community or their pasts - everyone's journey is their own, this one is just mine.

[kiwinatorwaffles]

hi guys

now that ive been using tumblr more why dont i make a real intro?

hi im kiwi and welcome to my blog!

i also go by fels/waffles and nathan/nate, but kiwi is generally preferred unless you already know someone named kiwi and need a way to distinguish.

as you’ve probably guessed, i’m aroace!

i use both she/her and he/him pronouns, but honestly use whatever’s funniest. like call me bro if you want. my gender is The Bit. (but i only use gendered terms/honorifics)

i am a multifandom... kinda? i mean i rb stuff relating to my interests

but my main fandom for now is hermitcraft + hermit-adjacent SMPs, and on the side there’s legend of zelda, ace attorney and cookie run ovenbreak. also i never shut up about the loathing games so if youve played any of them.... put your fingers in my enclosure i wont bite i prommy

feel free to use my art for icons, banners, edits, dubs etc as long as you credit me.

i’m also a mod for @thelinkconvention (although i can’t check notifs very often) and i’m totally not a mod for @evilxdoodles but you should check it out wink wink nudge nudge

a lot of my art ideas and fics are co-written by my best friend and partner in crime @skyspersonalhell :D

i try my best to write image descriptions for my art (which i put in the alt text) but i’m not always consistent :’] i appreciate any IDs people write for me!

VDHAU masterpost for those who want it!

check out my store on etsy!

please don’t tag my work as ships if i don’t tag/specify it myself 👍 i can’t stop you but i would prefer not to have my works misinterpreted. you can check under the cut for my more detailed stance on shipping!

please do not bring discourse to my page. don’t make me tap the sign.

open up the cut for my tags, page content warnings, boundaries/full shipping stance, and other socials!

my tags!

art- #kiwi’s scribbles random thoughts- #kiwi’s calls writing & headcanons- #orchard’s library asks- #birdhouse inquiries homemade memes- #kiwi’s shitpost central oc content- #kiwi’s ocs (individual stories are tagged with the "original story: __" and "fandom ocs: __" format but you can check out my toyhouse for more actual stuff)

a masterpost of silly misc tags on my page can also be found here!

IMPORTANT NOTICES FOR MY PAGE!

i might end up drawing possible triggering content! here are some things i draw:

blood, gore, and violence

dark and heavy material

general spooky content sometimes

gay people /j /j /j /j

my page also includes lots of swearing and all caps! if you dont like that then it probably isnt the best choice to follow me.

i filter any triggers with # ___ tw and keep in mind i do also use the #cursed tag for filtering those type of posts if you know what i’m saying just a heads up

i also use #ship filter tag in case you don't want to see any ship posts/art i make!

BOUNDARIES—

here is my full stance on shipping! please read it if you are wondering about my boundaries! but the tl;dr of that post is that while i am not against shipping, please do not take it to my page if i don’t mention it myself 👍

there are certain ships i am really not comfortable with, so please don't take it personally if i block you for that reason

like i said earlier, please do not tag any of my works as a ship, unless i specify it myself! i mean you CAN i can’t stop you but i’ll probably end up blocking you for my own comfort. nothing personal

as mentioned before, do not bring discourse topics onto my page! any asks or comments about discourse will be not be dignified with a response and promptly deleted!

if the discourse pertains to something i posted, then please do inform me with a reason why i was wrong! however, if you phrase it like a callout or discourse, i will be treating it as such and deleting it!

if you want to learn more about me, here’s my carrd! it includes other socials as well as a (kind of loose) byi.

i don’t have a specific dni, but i do block people who make me uncomfortable. i also don’t interact with people if they’re weird.

IF YOU WANT TO SEE MORE ART

i'm kind of on a hiatus on instagram but if you still want to check it out -- @ kiwinatorwaffles for my main and @ kiwisnotgay for my doodles/alt. you can check out my original characters in more depth on my toyhouse, which is also @ kiwinatorwaffles!

THANKS FOR READING! FEEL FREE TO CHAT OR SEND ME QUESTIONS!

[thembohux]

Hi, my name’s Lita and I have some things to say: I’m very tired of people disregarding personal things about my blog so here is a before you follow

My main focus for this blog is fandom content, but that doesn’t negate my personal beliefs.

-I do not tolerate: homophobia/transphobia/aphobia, racism, ableism or antisemitism

-TERFs, radfems, “gender critical” and the like will be blocked on sight. You don’t belong here, you’re not welcome here and you’re a bitch

-I am an 18+ blog. I do not want any children following me. If you’re a minor or have no age listed, you will be BLOCKED

-I am uncomfortable with certain Star Wars ships. Do not talk to me about them (r*ylo and g*ngerrose mostly). I am sometimes also openly critical of certain ships. Do not attack me for this. I’m not gonna be a bitch to you, so don’t be one to me

-anything I don’t want reblogged is tagged “dntrblg” it is the second tag after my personal tag. I will DM you the first few times it is disregarded. We all make mistakes. But if you repeatedly disregard it, I will block you. This goes DOUBLE for selfies I post. NEVER reblog those unless I say it’s ok. Things that aren’t tagged that way or are tagged “ok2rblg” are fair game

-if I accidentally slip up and rb something that makes you uncomfortable (a trigger, something that just makes you uncomfortable, OP is trash, etc.), PLEASE let me know. I’ll make a tag for you to blacklist or delete the post (depending on the circumstances)

If you are willing to respect these boundaries, my pronouns and my identity, Welcome! If not, please do not proceed past this post ❤️

If you’re interested in my writing (multi-chapter fics, my Empress AU, etc.), my Ao3 can be found here or you can search the “my writing” tag! Please note that all Star Wars content is currently on hiatus!

If you’d like to be tagged in my Empress AU content, please fill in this Google Form

Requests are OPEN and rules are here

My Writing Masterlist can be found here!

[kawaii-kozume]

Welcome 💙

Update 8/29/24: I am not coming back full time to Tumblr. I will be primarily found on Ao3 or Discord. That said, I will continue to update what I am working on here. My askbox will be closed after I finish responding to what's currently sitting in it, my estimate is a week. I hopefully will have a good list of things I've done this year for readers for the '24 Roundup post.

Thank you for being here, whether you just found me or you've been around awhile. I really appreciate you.

I block on sight if the vibes are off, nothing personal, its my internet experience and I wanna have fun. I don't entertain nonsense and will just delete harassment or asks I find silly. And always remember, anon is a privilege not a right.

I have an nsfw blog for nsfw thoughts and writing, if you visit it you are agreeing that you are 18 and that I am not responsible if you are under 18 and get uncomfortable with what you find there. @tetsusfantasies

Please don't rb posts tagged with "#dris dying inside", additionally thats a trigger tag. Usually for general mental spiraling. Haven't used it much lately (made a blog just for the spiraling and no I won't share it) but it is still on this one in some places.

DO NOT feed my writings to any AI programs. I work very hard against my own disabilities to create and post my work, I do not want them to be used to plagiarize off of.

Like what I'm doing to the point you wanna send me money?? Thank you and include username or lil prompt you'd wanna see 🥹

paypal is all I have right now, unfortunately

[fic-dumpster]

T A G S

The purpose of a tagging system besides order is to block them if any content causes you discomfort. Or follow them instead of the whole acc xD. (Just saying 💕😂)

How to block tags on mobile?

Can be searched on internal tags or the wide search tab

Anon tags

🦕, 🍭, 🕺, 🧟‍♀️, 🎤, 🍓, 🍑, 👺, 🍒, qx, 💜, ☺︎︎anon☺︎︎, 🍄, 🦊, ~(•‿•)

General blog tags

#omificstags | all my writings from all fandoms from all my blogs.

#omi.sefship

#omi.Homicipher | all post related to the game Homicipher

#omi.shitpost | my peculiar sense of humor, incorrect quotes, jokes, hcs, chats, humor in general

#omi.thirst | you can block this tag if you don't want to interact with any sm*t fics.

#omi.rambles | yk talks, rants and everything in this tag will probably be deleted later.

#omi.rb! | reblogs

#omi.moots! | my moots asks/rb ( or 💜)

#omificstags | all my fics from all my blogs and fandoms in one tag.

#omi.recs.fics | fics reblog recommendation on main

#omi.updates | updates about fic, me and the blog in general.

#Omi.DIH | everything related to my Deer in headlights series can be found here. Chap hcs asks

#omi.answers | ask I get will be tagged with it.

#omi.navigation | masterposts

#omi.masterlist | all my masterlists.

#omi.art | art/fanart that I do/rb/gets submitted.

#omi.resources | banners/dividers/tools for tumblr

#omi.memes | memes

#omi.games | games I answer/rb

#omi.cats | cat pictures (send me ur cats pls)

#omi.music | sometimes I rb songs

#omi.heroes | DC/Marvel stuff

#omi.kpop | kpop related posts block if you want

#omi.purple.aesthetic | icons and purple pictures

[lordiavoloremade]

link / 20 / genderfluid (she/he) / white / fat / infp / chaotic good / 4w5 

lets get this out of the way first…

do not interact with me here (dont follow, like, reblog, or stalk my blog) if any of this applies to you

you know me irl and i havent sent you this blog. please respect my boundaries and leave this page rn

if you are 17 or younger please dont follow me. its alright to reblog my sfw art, assuming you found it through reblogs/the tags, but this blog sometimes posts suggestive content and i dont feel comfortable with minors following me or me following minors! this is for your safety and mine, so please dont lie about your age to follow me here. i check everyones ages before following, and if its not listed im assuming youre an adult. sometimes unfortunately things slip through the cracks so: if im interacting with minors please lmk and i will unfollow + block them! #lemonade is my ns///fw tag and #suggestive / is to be safe (mostly memes here). so please blocklist that to avoid seeing that content!

you identify or relate or sympathize with the following: racists, homophobes, transphobes, anitsemites, islamophobes, fatphobes, terfs, swerfs, anti blm, believe in reverse racism, support whitewashing, believe that poc or other marginalized groups creating art/writing/hqs representing them in fanon is the same as whitewashing, tr*mp supporter, maps, sexualize childhood, ship incest or minor/adult ships, roleplay as irl people (without their consent), or ship irl people in a nsfw setting (without their consent) if i rb from a source that supports any of this i am not aware of it, please send an ask n i will delete it!

these blogs i would also prefer not interacting with me: irl gore posters, proana/meanspo

these are some discourse opinions i have: ace/aro inclusionist, pro otherkin / pro doubles, pro bi and pan people both being included in the lgbt community, i also post “bad” media, such as homestuck, the arcana, and obey me. that does not mean that i agree with all of its views or presentations, or creators, and youll probably see me posting about it critically and complaining a lot.

if you would not like me to interact with you, please block me! if you soft block (block me then unblock me) 90% i will assume i unfollowed and probably refollow, so please hard block! no hard feelings here, but it will help me not forget to interact with you. i block people all the time for silly reasons, and if youre blocked by me youre not a bad person.

i know a lot or people are on tumblr to relax, so i tag any discourse/political stuff with #beliefs / #politics if you need to blacklist!

alright if you got an a on the test you can go to my about…

[throughthewwods]

As a gift to myself, one of the first things I did this morning was follow a friend’s advice to create a new rule in Outlook that automatically deleted my ticking time bomb ex’s messages since Outlook’s sends blocked people to my junk folder. The trouble with that is Outlook mistakes everything for spam, forcing me to check that damned folder regularly. This is a much better solution than deleting the account entirely not just because rerouting 10 years worth of history would be a pain in the ass, but RB was right that a ‘cannot be delivered’ auto-reply would likely fan the crazy.

I think what really scares me about yesterday’s email is that my ex has the capacity to imagine something then have an emotional reaction to his own fallacy and take real action. It was gorgeous outside, but I couldn’t shake this anxiousness, this awareness that he could be following me, walking right along side me, and I couldn’t know until he was towering over me. It’s bad enough that I’ve dated one too many unstable men, but Why do I insist on dating giants? Why do I do that? 😆

I’m very honest about my not great choices in dating. Jekyll-Hyde isn’t even the first dangerous person I’ve dated. However, my other lovers’ crazy was more that of a frantic, stray dog. Those relationships were bad news bears, but ultimately the reason I left them was because I realized I couldn’t save them, and tragically, due to various factors, nor would they likely ever be able to save themselves from drowning in the river.. Jekyll-Hyde was sweet as honey when you were in his favor, so helpful, so doting, but manipulative, venomous, calculated, and sadistic when he was displeased in a very self-justified sort of way. people think they are being helpful when they suggest that I confront him or involve the police, but in reality that would only provoke far worse than e-mails fishing for my attention...

so here I am.. keeping my head low, hoping eventually he finds something else to focus on. I really hoped once he received his inheritance he would frolic off into the sunset with his Right Wing, 1950’s princess, and live happily ever after condescending over everything as everyone together. They can even bash me together over cocktails, cracking jokes about the blind mom he slummed with for a time before he became rich as god intended. Once I hoped his mom would live forever and found it frustrating that such a narcissist would carry on further rewarded, enabled. Now I wish him all the joy in the world if it meant leaving me alone.

😆

[moonasheschevalier]

“You can’t trust anyone in this fandom“

That’s my blog??? And if you don’t like it you can stop following this blog and block me??? 

Fancy, that the person who answered that anon  actually saw through my motives. That’s something at least.

An anon was displeased with the fact that I - maybe someone else - reblogged fixed by IH arter Kubo’s pic with Ichigo and Kazui, by adding Orihime there.

Yes, I am forever anti Ichihime. But let me remind you again: I am Ulquihime shipper in the first place, I love Orihime just as much I love Ulquiorra. 

Just in case you didn’t notice: that I draw Orihime way more often than Ichigo and Rukia.

Again, you can’t analyze UH without IH, especially because it was so one-sided, and, with the Unmasked chapter, you can see the core of it all.

And if somebody, doesn’t really matter ir or ih - doing the god’s work, making justice for the character I like, fixing the shit Kubo is doing to the character I love - I’ll appreciate the hell out of it.

Another thing is, what was my mistake, reblogging the art can make that IH arter getting under the possible IR fans... pressure again, for supporting Kubo’s IH ending. That arter did some good work fixing Kubo’s mess when it came to Orihime, and as a person who likes Orihime - I appreciate that a lot.

So I need to apologize for all the trouble and discomfort I may cause.

I shall also remind some people, that I see canon ending in a different way:

As Yhwach said, there’s a whole bunch of timelines. So it’s possible to imagine a good timeline for any ship, that developed maybe under different circumstances.

I do not reblog Kubo’s vision, still, I reblogged the fan’s vision, which is way kinder to Orihime than her creator’s. 

Unfortunately I found one more reason to dislike IH again when I was looking through HM arc, and it’s kinda... quite disturbing one. I really thought I could leave it all behind, but apparently Kubo does anything to mess it even more.

That all made me delete the rb post. 

I may sound like a freaking hypocrite, and I bet, I do, but I did that not to please the wankers.

Again, I am UH shipper in the first place, which means, like not only the relationship, but characters too, whatever are the reasons. I got them as my headder, lmao! 

I might be anti of Ichigo and Orihime “love” relationship, but it’s not me who is anti Orihime.

[pocmuzings]

there's someone in this community that's very toxic. they continuously post vagues and create a very uncomfortable environment. in the past, the way they've made comments has made me feel uncomfortable. they still have a large presence on this site. do you have any tips on how i can approach this? i'm not interested in callouts and talking to them one on one has never been successful

i can honestly say that i hate when people vague post , but i’m guilty of doing this sometimes ( although about nobody i follow / am mutuals with . usually just if i’m peeved about 1x1ing or a rp im in ) . i also just realise i misread your first sentence bc i thought u were talking about the rpc in whole . WOW SORRY . 

i’m going to tell u something honestly here . a long long time ago , when a*dy was on the site , i found her very uncomfortable for a while . i blocked her , but that literally did NOT work because she had such a large presence and following and i honestly hated seeing her on my dash in any form . anyways , it didn’t help that she deleted and remade her blog a few times so for a while there , a year or so back , i kept trying to block her new blogs that would pop up but it was impossible .

for me , personally , i did feel better when i kinda just  . . stopped looking at her blog altogether , or thinking about the presence she had . like if i saw her post pop up somewhere , or somebody rb her selfie , i’d just scroll really quickly and that genuinely helped me just Ignore . 

i don’t know if this helps at all  , but i just want you to know that i genuinely 1000% understand what it feels like to find someone uncomfortable and not be able to escape them . but i would suggest blocking them first , if you can / haven’t already . i don’t know who they are , but i’m sorry they’ve been toxic and unhealthy and made things not Great for you . that’s super unfair on you . i don’t have any solid tips , i’m afraid , except blocking them or muting them , or fiddling around to see if any xkit extension may help you . however , maybe a follower has better advice ??? i’m personally the queen of unfollowing anyone who makes me uncomfortable or seems super Toxic , but i know sometimes people in the rpc can be really hard to avoid , even if you do unfollow or block them .

have you tried maybe even just talking to someone , like a friend or trusted person , about this person ? that way , you’re not posting a call out , but you’re also letting out  / releasing your inner emotions and conflict about them . this also helped me greatly , whenever i’m feeling iffy about someone and i can’t avoid them .

alternatively again . unfollow , block , and if you can . . unfollow all their little friends . even if THEY haven’t done anything to you . it’s all about building back up a safer environment for YOU . 

i hope this helps and i’m sorry if it doesn’t ! : ( if u ever wanna talk / vent or anything please please come back !