#and also i knew the pay was bad
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A lot of people's passions tend to be some kind of creative work which, at present reality, is often shit at pay and realistic hours. You burn out, you're not afforded time to recharge, you don't make enough to be stable.
The dream is still to get paid for what you love, but it's a dream for a reason.
Thankfully, as people we all have a variety of interests, and it's still realistic to find a job you don't mind that you're good at, even if it's not your passion. You don't HAVE to be passionate about work. Even when I LOVE what I'm doing and who I'm doing it with, the thing I look forward to the most is getting home and doing things I don't HAVE to do, for ME.
At the end of the day, you have to be able to do a job that pays the bills. It doesn't have to be a passionate choice, just a practical one. If it gets you good pay, a comfortable living situation, and decent people to work with, the job is done. And you still get to enjoy your passions on your own terms.
When you're a kid/teenager everyone expects you to base your career around your passions and interests and that works for a lot of people but it's not the full story. I wish they would also teach students to consider the lifestyle that career would require.
Like... if I had to choose a passion and work a career around it, I would probably work at a zoo or aquarium. But those jobs require a lot of schooling with STEM classes (which I hate) and a lot of early mornings (which make me feel ill) and an obligation to work in person with no flexibility to move (which makes me depressed). So even if I'd enjoy caring for animals all day, it's not a good career path for me.
My current job is travel writing, which is not my passion. I like it, but it's not my passion. But I work a flexible schedule, I can live anywhere, I get a travel stipend, and my team is really chill. So it works for me.
Rather than solely focusing on "What topics do you like?" I think we should ask students "Of the careers that suit your preferred lifestyle, which are the most interesting?"
#i was an 'artist' when i was a kid#but early on i knew i didn't like making what other people told me#and also i knew the pay was bad#so i picked something for the money and opportunities#with a degree that was interesting in something i was good at#i never pursued art beyond high school#does that sound sad?#well i discovered other art forms#i got good in my new art forms and I'm still learning new things#my job has enabled me to pursure some very cool things in my personal life#that i don't think I'd have achieved if i went with art#the cool thing about creative hobbies is you don't really need schooling or a career around them to do them
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#there is a ranboo that goes withthis but i didn't like how he was looking imma restart from scratch tmrw😭😭#ctubbo#michael beloved#ctubbo fanart#Guys you have no idea what i went through today like it wa fucking crazy i need to share this#so i went to the mall after school right and im going home at like 8 on the train with my friend bc i was supposed to be picked up ay her#stop right but then im told to just go to my stop and take the bus and im like ok sure but the problem is my phone is on SEVEN PERCENT and w#hen i get to the stop my moms like u have money for the bus right and im like ueah and i check and i have NO MONEY#BUT I DIDNT TELL HER ANUTHING BC I DIDNT WANT HER TI GET MAD BC I KNEW SHE WOUDKNT WANT ME TO WALK ALL THE WAY HOME AT NIGHT (FOURTY BLOCKS#So im like ok im getting on the bus now my phone is on four percent i have to WALK HOME allll that way and there's this crazy ass upward hi#ll that's like ten blocks long ITS NOT EVEN THAT BAD but like my mom thinks im on the bus so im trying to speed walk as fast as i can and i#RAWDOGGED it too because MU PHONE WAS GOING TO IDE!!!!#I made it home at two percent U guys i was so proud of myself thank u for listening#IM SO MAD IT WOUKDVE BEEN OKAY IF I WASNT IN A RUSH And also if i had music uggghhh Whatever#I bought this really cute skirt at garage hold on let me find it#lexi pleated skort color Navy blue ITS SOOOO CUTE got some new leg warmers too yesss....#I NEED TO DOWNLOAD THE TRANSIT APP i woukdve been able to attach my apple pay and buy the stupid ticket if my phonewasnnt#too dead to do al that...#Guys always make sure u carry cash with yiu goodbye
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thinkign about how alone and unloved morty was for all his life and rick was the first time anyobdy ever put such an amount of intense attention and dependency onto him . and rick had a whole new family and losing them made him stop seeing the value in other people as a whole and morty was the one and first thing that woke him up
#really long Tag rant down there#one of the most Things Ever about them to me is how morty barely even understands just how much rick loves him. more than anything#and its something ricks done on purpose hes made sure of it#because hes so weak he cant handle it#them being together is agony in avsolutely every way and sense but also theyre the best part of eachothers lives#morty because nobodys payed attention to him quite like rick has and all the exciting space adventures and rick just cause. he literally#just likes him thats it. and he never knew it#also i was thinking of this earlier. one of the reasons season 1 is soooo good to me is cuz you get to see morty grow on rick in real time#stuff like that moment where morty walks through the door and rick is instantly at the sight of him SUPER excited and he goes hey!!! but#then he clears his throat and goes Hey trying to pretend like this dumb scaredy kid isnt becoming his favourite thing hes ever known day af#er day#and goddamn night shaym aliens. in that moment where he realised morty had been fake the whole time i rlly wonder what he was thinking and#how he felt. like. oh man this is messing with me way too much this is Bad#and then he got drunk over it and yknow. that . is it post credits. i think. that scene#n literally At the Very beginning he was tired n drunk n stupid thinking like man fuck this im gonna blow this place up and do what prime#did to me. But he brought morty with him Even just at that point it flashed in his mind and he absolutely could not bear to let morty die#Breathes in#im rewatching in October bc anniversary month. i literally can’t wait im so actually impatient i considered just doing it today So hard#odiespeak
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the highs & lows of the admission email i just got from a uni being like “hey ur one of only eight students we admitted to the graduate school!! we really want you!! there were 200 applicants and we chose YOU!!!! so we are offering you $24k/year to live in a city where you will be paying bare minimum $1k/month for rent. & that’s if you want to live in a shoebox 😘”
#like girl….i knew it was bad but i was really hoping for at least $30k 😭😭#applied to multiple other schools & haven’t heard back from any of them but am desperately hoping i get into the one where the grad students#are unionized and the minimum salary is $45k….#like yeah $24k is still more than i make now tbh but i’m paying under $1k/month for rent & i get a free bus pass from my school#whereas this city i’d probably need to also buy a car & pay for insurance & gas etc….#scream. glad i got in tho 😀
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reminder that it is quite possible the Titan’s first impression of Luz is her introducing herself as a crab maiden and later getting her aunt to punch Philip in the nose
#depends on if papa titan was paying attention at that point- i would think yes though#since that escapade was specifically about trying to reach and free the collector which papa titan tapped so long ago#as well as generally being a sucky guy who’s already been using glyphs for bad and has been kept from the light glyph#so yeah :3 good first impression! then luz also appears a good 400 years from then. you think the titan knew it was her or thought it was-#-some other identical human#toh#the owl house#toh spoilers#the owl house spoilers#watching and dreaming#leori words
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i never realised how poor i was until i got a job lol
#i *knew* we werent rich but now????#i can just??? buy stuff??? for myself???#i have brought this up so many times in therapy. like. i dont have to worry about food going bad???#or like. not in a 'if this goes bad i wont have stuff to eat' way#and i can just try food that im not sure ill like???#LIKE. i just bought some dungarees on a whim!!!!!#i have always had so few clothes holy shit and im only realising that now#and like. looking back thats obviously why i never went to any concerts or anything#also. thats why i stopped eating meat for a few years lol i couldnt afford it#i literally ate rice and broccoli for my first year of uni#ANYWAYS UM. yeah its sooooooo weird that i have money now?????#i started buying video games for my brother!!!!!!!#i can offer to pay the shipping fees for my brothers boardgames!!!!!#its just. looking back i WISH i could hug little me she was going through it and didnt even notice!!!!!#nett rambles#yes i was crying by the time i finished lol can u tell
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circe letting the crew go with the hopes of passing the goodness along and then we get to different beast and thunder bringer... she'd be so sad
#i know very little about this musical okay but i just caught that after paying attention to the lyrics of there are other ways#epic the musical#and i feel so bad for her#also i was wondering if shed be this lenient if she knew why poseidon was chasing them
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I always wondered how James Somerton could crank out such many well written video essays in such a short amount of time…
Because he’s stealing the words of literally dozens of writers who are better than him. 😀
#˚ʚ meda rants ɞ˚#can you all tell i just watched the new hbomberguy video…#i haven’t watched a james somerton video essay in a while#because his sexism towards queer women really started to leave a bad taste in my mouth#but there was a period in time about a year ago where i was recommending his content to almost every queer person i knew#and tbh i am so heartbroken#like the level of plagiarism this man has committed against his own community…#like straight up reciting wikipedia pages to a paying audience is scummy#but stealing the words and opinions and hard work of small queer writers??#and pretending it’s your own work??#it all just makes me so sad#like it’s so unserious#but also it’s not??#so many people had their work straight up stolen and aren’t seeing a cent from it#all so this soulless man can butcher it and sell it to unknowing queer people#it’s such a disservice to queer people in general and i’m sad i ever encouraged other people to watch his shit in the first place
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till all-in save me…
#i would pay this guy to just yell in my ear. sorry what#also sua romh… and LUKA SWEET DREAM#they knew what they were doing when they let sua and luka cover each other’s songs. i need their collab so bad#also i hope we get more ivan covers. park byeong hoon save me if i had your voice id literally never shut up
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#I do this thing where I keep comparing myself and my life to other people my age who live like ‘normal lives’ where they live with just#their partner and work decent-ish paying jobs#and don’t live near family/have large family obligations#like I make slightly more than minimum wage#my health stuff had been getting worse#my fiancé is disabled/chronically ill and working her ass off so she doesn’t have excess energy#which leaves a lot of house work on me#which is fine and I don’t mind#and our household is me my fiancé my 23 yo sister and we’ve all lived together for like 3 years now and my sister makes a lot more money &#helps with house stuff#/maintenance#but my younger sister and her 9 month old moved in at the beginning of summer because her baby daddy is a scum bag#and she’s 20 and really mentally unwell#so a lot of baby care falls on me & my fiancé#along with trying to help my sister with her mental health#which is like not normal levels of unwell it’s like serious shit and she’s completely unmedicated and going through a real hard time and not#adjusting to motherhood well cause she was 19 and shouldn’t have had a baby#and like she knows that but what’s done is done#she can’t move back in with my parents because her relationship with them is too fucked#and like there’s also complicated stuff safety and bad ppl in her life so that’s a stress inducing factor#she’s unemployed and I’m not sure will ever be able to work and can’t drive#not her fault just the reality we live in#also we’re the ppl who live closest to my grandmother who’s health has been rapidly declining so a lot of that has fallen on my other sister#and me to manage#I also have to pet sit a lot because I need the money#and when I come home I have to spend all my time getting the house back in order#also I’m about to be losing a days worth of pay starting September cause the kids I nanny are doing two half days a week of prek#which means less money & with these grocery bills and two more mouths to feed is gonna fuck me in the ass#so like yeah I don’t have the time or energy for hobbies I spend all my damn free time trying to keep the house clean or taking care of#The baby & like it’s just the way it is but it’s not comprable to how all the ppl I knew in highschool r living rn
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i complain a lot about sonic resellers but monster high resellers are just as bad . probably a lot worse actually
#trying to re buy some of the accessories one of my dolls is missing .....#im not paying 30 dollars for a tiny doll jacket. what is your problem#does anyone have a spare toralei jacket. that they can send me. for free (joking)#also the amount of people im seeing straight up lying about the dolls they have being from 2008 or something#the first monster high dolls came out in 2010. idiot. and the ones youre selling arent even THAT old#also the amount of people who are buying very recently released dolls just to resell them for double or triple the original price.#i already knew about how bad it was im just thinking about it because im actually digging through it all rn.
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apparently one of my cousins was just accepted into a master's writing program at an Ivy League school
and that's why I almost never go on Facebook 🙃
#look. do I even think I could handle a master's in writing at an Ivy League?#.....I mean. I think so. I managed a master's in geoscience at one of the top geology schools in the nation.#(....''managed'' is doing some VERY heavy lifting there lnjasdknf)#but do I want to do that? no.#do I still feel weird and like I'm wasting my life and everyone else is more accomplished than me? yes.#it does help a bit that the cousin in question has outright told me her success is in large part from her father pushing her v hard#(he did the same thing to her siblings)#and that she kinda fucking hates how she was pushed to succeed so much#like I don't wish that on anyone but it does help me to put into context her success. it comes at a cost. like everything else.#and to be frank it's not a cost I'm willing to pay at this point in my life.#I still feel weird and uhhhhh incompetent I guess would be the best word tho#also like I'm wondering why she's going to an Ivy League when she's already at one of the top writing schools#maybe distance from her family....in which case. godspeed cuz.#ANYWAYS I have a v accomplished family that I at times feel inferior to despite my own accomplishments#and no that has no influence on my OC Angie's own similar feelings why would you think that#(my family would be upset if they knew I felt inferior btw no one makes me feel bad other than my own brain)#(I have a v loving and supportive family and am v blessed to have them~)#whine whine whine
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Thinking like wtf did Lloyd do to get so many haters in the show...... Like am i crazy he's a little emotionally stupid but that's just the autism..... meanwhile suzakus calling him a freak of nature behind his back and cecile goes drinking and gambling and bashing students over the head bcuz how supposedly horrible and terrible and stressful of a boss he is and the background aseec characters literal only lines are like "ugh poor cecile working for THAT guy"!!!! But he literally does not do anything he is not abusing his coworkers he is not overworking everyone and paying minimum wage (i think) hes not even that mean..... He is just kind of annoying and more passionate about robots than any of you losers ever will be.......
#crying ive been thinkinf abt this all day bcuz of the new lost stories event#like cecile its not that bad......you knew this man in uni and chose to start working under him.....#also acknowledging yes in one of the picture dramas lloyd pushes paperwork onto cecile#so she can whine about that i guess but also like#a little bit of extra paperwork is a small price to pay for having the silliest yipeest boss in the world
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i look at some of u guys talking abt a new show u watched or a new thing u read and im like. holy shit thats a thing u can do. im in awe of u. i spend my time slowly ping-ponging between several interests whose base componants i can never experience because i get scard
#right now its danganronpa again grin. did u know ive been into it on and off for lets say 7 years at this point#and ive never once played it myself. i have it installed on this laptop ready to go and i just! never open it!#because if Im the one playing it then i have to pay attention and i get scared#but if im watching a lets player i just naturally pay attention without the pressure#ive talked before how i always feel i need to have the smart cool takes on shit#n this deep plays into that#idk boti was good for me bcos nobody fucking knew what it was so nobody could judge me for pardoning anotsu's crimes bcos he was hot#so i probs need to do that again#yknow a thing where i disconnect from anything that anyone knows about and get really really into some dipshit manga from 2008#but also like. i get a lot of my media recs from people talking abt what they like#which then means i defacto have someone who is gonna know if my takes are shit#and like even now. im watching mop cycle w dri and im having fun w it#but i feel bad bcos i see so many ppl like This Is The Best Anime Ever and i just like. dont get it#like i can actively feel the messages and shit whooshing over my head#its a fine anime! i'm having fun watching it! but i don't get all the commentary abt pacifism or whatever#idk. something something my need to be The Smart Kid The Bookworm Kid that went unchecked too long without peers to challenge me#so now im here like Uh Oh#and like this wouldnt be the end of the world (save for its impact on my mood n stuff)#but also like. i am an english student. i should know this shit. but i stragiht up do not feel smart enough to sometimes#i keep coasting by on the assumption that im a smart kid and i'll automatically be better than my peers#and im being disproven#i got an english exam back tonight and i got like 63%#and i like college! i just dont like. college.#anywho its approaching 3am and i have a 9am tomorrow morning which means bedtime
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i'm so bummed i accidentally turned town a job interview for a job where I could have worked with a good friend and mentor 😔
#i was telling her abt the preschool i got hired at and i was like yeah im worried bc the other teacher doesn't seem nice#and the student teacher ratio is really bad they're really understaffed and underfunded im just really worried it will be too much for me#and she was like oh you should apply to the school i work at bc we're hiring snd the ratio is great and the pay might be better also#and i never knew the name of the school she worked at until then#and its one i DID apply to but i told them nevermind after this one hired me 😬#but now i really wish i'd taken that interview#i'm going to call or email first thing on monday tho and hopefullyyy i can get in for an interview before i start my new job on thursday#so i wont literally have to take time off for it#and then if they offer me i will be able to tell the new job nevermind while its still early#either that or i'll try to stick it out a few months then apply to the other one for summer or something#but im not sure whether its best to quit immediately or let them think im dependable and staying then leave in three months lol#but mostly for the other job idk if it would ruin the opportunity to tell them nevermind i want the job a week after i said no#compared to a few months later#they might have forgotten me by then which would probably be good#idkkk#my first reference literally works there which will hopefully help and maybe they'll give me a break#the pay scale looks the same as the one i just accepted but i think they'll offer less bc they're not as desperate#but i literally dont care its such a better working environment#and the pay scale is the same so they would give me a raise after a few months#and the work will be so much easier#and the commute#and i Definitely know i can work with my friend#vs the co teacher at this new job who seems really intense and unfriendly#anyway!!#im really anxious abt this new job and i'll stay if the other place wont take me now#but i really hope they give me another chance#also its super close and easy drive and the commute for the other one scares me a bit lol#this has been a shitpost
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Aw my dad is so cute. It was his bday this weekend (our bdays are super close) and he picked a fancy restaurant and now feels bad bc the bill was high and apologized and said that Father’s Day and Mother’s Day are their treats.
He said “we enjoy your warm company in spite of the cold weather” 🥺🥺🥺
#obvs I told him that I was happy to pay bc they raised me and it’s a special occasion so not to worry but it’s so cute he feels bad!#best and cutest parents#also he would be horrified if he knew that his bday bill was the same as when I go out for karaoke with my friends lollllll#mel talks
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