#ambivert life

[nocturnal-nexu]

I'd love to hear about your WIP "Finding Balance"!

Of course!

This one is for the Ninjago Fic Fest. I was so happy to find an Echo prompt so I could put my own spin on his story!

It's honesty kinda weird how the story developed. The prompt was just to have Echo explore Ninjago and learn more about himself along the way. But then I realized that to get to Ninjago, he had to get off the island first. So I had to write that bit, and then the middle went in a different direction than I had originally planned.

Like, the complete opposite direction.

The original idea was that Echo wanted some alone time after being rescued by his new family. (Imagine living alone for years, and then all of sudden, you're in a crowded monastery with people around every corner. You might want a break from it after a while.)

But time alone is not at all what I ended up writing for Echo.

I was about to rework the middle bit to better fit the theme I had originally intended when I realized that just because the themes I had going were completely opposite each other, didn't mean they couldn't exist together.

It's awfully interesting that the prompt involved Echo discovering more about himself on his adventures because that's what happened to me while writing.

I love to spend time alone. I feel like I can truly be myself. And a lot of my hobbies are single person activities.

But at the same time, I love spending time with other people! Going to get ice cream with friends, or seeing people at church, or talking and joking with my coworkers, I love it!

I didn't realize how much I loved it until I spent a little too much time alone and ended up feeling really sad and lonely.

And then, on the flipside, if I'm around people for too long, I get mentally drained.

I realized it was all about finding that balance. Hence, the title of the story.

Just like me, Echo is going to have to find that balance in this story.

Luckily, he has his big bro Zane to help him out with that. 😊

[moonbuglove]

I need to invest in some introverted frienda cause why am I always outside? Lets meet up in someone's house, drink, play games, talk shit an watch a good show. I don't wanna start getting ready at 4 to go out at 10 be out in the cold surrounded by people I don't know, bodies touching having random drunk people touch my hair and tell me how lovely my hair is and if its real (I have 24inch bubble braids) and be told not to get angry at compliments.

[nabihahahahahaha]

how anti-social are you? i can stay in my house for a month straight without getting bored as long as i have food, good internet and electricity

[gent-illmatic]

It's the Scorpio (Rising) in me that i disappear on everybody. I like enjoying the world or experiences my way without the influence of others. It's a balance. I'm definitely an ambivert. So when ya man falls back, it's not personal. Just know when I come back...I'll be sharing "What had happened was..." And rest assure life was muthfuckin life-ing! I want to get into some things with those who care...

But anyway... I'm back. Lol

[dairyfreenugget]

A little funfact

I headcanon PK as an introvert (I mean. Duh. Being a recluse is like one of the few things we know about him) and Flower as extrovert/ambivert with severe anxiety

🤝 socially awkward brothers in arms

[yulka-hanging]

Forced to say "Hi, what's your ailment?" Born to say "Rawr XD".

(photo is mine don't steal pookies :D)

[deadestlian]

♡︎ deadlestlian's intro.

*sweet nothings is playing in spotify . . .*

♡︎ > > .... @𝐋𝐈𝐀𝐍 . . .

. ༒︎ -- Any pronouns, Bisexual. ♡︎

. ♡︎ < < .. 21 y/o, Dead plate. ♡︎

~ ༒︎ .. Swiftie, Lauver, Music luver

. ♡︎ MDNI ,, Hualian lover and rody x vincent shipper ( i love them sm.)

★ > > transphobic, homophobic, Racists, males who harrass females GTFO.

★ > > Swifties, Chase atlantic, Fuji kaze, dead plate fans, music lovers interact. <3

♥︎ » » Badminton, Guitarist, surfer

[lmpalaa67]

Someone should stop me from talking to people I don't usually talk to because then i just yap forever and embarrass myself (what possessed me)

(And someone should also stop me from violently insulting guys I find cute because I don't know how to react)

(No bestie you didn't see that)

[springs-hurts]

Today I realized, now I've no offline friends...Like I have friends but now all of them exist only because the internet exists. *¯*

Like just five months ago, I was going out, having fun with my uni friends and now there's no one.

I was making tea for myself when this thought hit me and I was- to put it lightly, legit unable to process the whole thing.

I'm back here, my childhood home and my parents are the only people with whom I talk.

The reason being, my new neighbors are not really good, all of my friends from this neighborhood are gone. I severed all the connections with my school friends before going away and now I legit have no one!

Like it's not hard to believe that I have no friends, I was never able to establish a good connection with any of my neighborhood or school friends...uni was the only place where I really found friends, good friends and I'd be grateful for that my whole lifetime. But now even they're just online friends. I'm just unable to digest this whole thing ig, that's why so extreme reaction.

I just wanted to rant about it, sorry for putting it on anyone's tl. :))

P. S.-( I hope I'll have friends again in 2024. <3)

P.S.S.- Tumblr is the only place where I'm able to put all these thoughts cause nobody gonna judge me here, my fam isn't here, my friends aren't here. It's good.

[thegirlwholivesin-delusion]

Unfortunately, I have to interact with people.

[trinitycove]

Bf has been home for 2 weeks with a minor injury and I am the type of woman who needs major space so I have been frustrated.

Today he is back to work and I have the apartment to myself. Glorious alone time!

[erigold13261]

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[pepprs]

having some time alone in the hotel this week (which is abt to end bc we’re moving back home tmrrw even though the renovation isn’t finished 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪) and being able to have the bedroom to myself has made me think rebellious thoughts my family would be very offended over. like maybe i listened to less and less music these last few years due in part to the fact that ive spentmore time at home than i used to and i also lived on campus w roommates in a very uncomfortable arrangement and im unable to move freely about the cabin when im living w other ppl whose needs don’t align w mine and so ive just gotten used to not having all of my needs met and always being the person to take the short end of the stick…. but i actually need to be able to sing and dance and draw and do whatever and when im alone (which is almost never) im able to do that and that’s actually legit and as important as anyone else’s needs in a space i share w them. idk if i worded that well but yeah

[nnia7]

You don´t get it. I´m that girl, which likes to be with people. With the right people. Which likes nights out, likes cycling, rollerskating, watching movies/shows together, going on coffees with a really long talking just about what have you done that day, likes going to museums, walks, hikes, unplanned trips, concerts... But I´m a really deep feeler - and that means that I need my time alone with music as loud as it is possible in my ears, when I just write about my thoughts, memories, maybe wories... When I try to get my life some structure, beacuase that is me. And if you cannot accept this, that I need my time alone and space... What we are?

[venturesindelirium]

This is so true! I didn’t feel like I had become the full version of myself until I turned 26. Then afterword I decided to start working towards goals I kept putting off while I was trying to find myself.

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

[nyctophiliafika]

You know, life doesn't have to be competitive. you don't have to get in the very best university, you don't have to get the highest paying career there is. you don't need to compare and compete with everyone else in the world. you need to do what's right for you. you need to relax, take a breath, and say 'what do i want, for myself, to live as i want to. and, if that involves high ambitions, then that's fine. because you chose those ambitions on what you desire as an individual, and not on what is expected in order to succeed.