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An attorney in my circle that I regularly referred clients to has rebranded his firm and is now referring to himself as 'the dude' (as in John 'the dude' Smith) and his new email address is thedude @ his firm. And like...
I am not sure I can keep referring clients to him now.
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This exchange about Nessarose between Elphaba and Fiyero:
"If she ever comes down off that plinth – the one that has words written on it along the edges in gold, reading MOST SUPERIOR IN MORAL RECTITUDE – if she ever allows herself to be the bitch she really is, she’ll be the Bitch of the East. Nanny and the devoted staff at Colwen Grounds will prop her up.”
“I thought you were fond of her!”
“Don’t you know affection when you see it?” scoffed Elphaba. “I love Nessie. She’s a pain in the neck, she’s intolerably righteous, she’s a nasty piece of work. I’m devoted to her.”
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I LOVE THIS
#wicked#wicked novel#the wicked years#wicked book#nessarose thropp#i too am devoted to her#i have a weakness for uptight/holier than thou fictional characters#especially women#i see my younger self in them#constantly trying to be perfect whether its out of insecurity or ideological fervour#even if in that search for perfection you actually end up being a hypocrite#its like looking into a mirror of my past#and im so happy i didnt continue down that path#but the desire to be perfect is still there
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Episode 3 of Dead Boy Detectives is the best one yet. The murder is absolutely brutal, but it's tightly plotted and has so many great character moments throughout.
This is the most attached to Charles I've felt so far. He's currently furthest down my list of favourites out of the main cast, but his performance was really moving this episode. I also loved how it highlighted his relationships both with Crystal and Edwin, and the jealousy that Edwin feels there. Interesting that that jealousy seems to go both ways, too, with Charles being the last to leave Edwin and Monty alone at the end.
Edwin and Charles are unlikely friends in a lot of ways, but I do buy it, especially when he occasionally makes Edwin smile. Here, Edwin is confronted with the fact that he actually doesn't know many of the deeper parts of Charles' life, and that he maybe hasn't shared all of his own. Really nicely done.
Edwin's sexuality crisis continues to be really compelling. I actually adore his dynamic with Monty. I know he's literally a plant by Esther, but their tiny interactions so far have so much chemistry. I also have Thoughts on why Edwin is more open to him than the Cat King, and it's the plausible deniability of it all. The Cat King was extremely upfront about what he wanted from Edwin, and Edwin could not quite bring himself to admit he even understood what that was. Whereas with Monty he's able to retreat behind his protests that "he is a boy and I am a boy, if anything he just enjoys ghosts".
Also! Crsytal and Edwin are becoming friends!!! Crystal's my second favourite character and I'm so happy they're warming up to each other. Edwin is such a spiky character but I love him and want everyone else to love him. On that note, him being understanding to Niko about her trauma also made me very happy. Edwin is not budging as my favourite character!
Small things:
Esther continues to have the best, most over the top performance. Perfect, no notes.
Niko yaoi enjoyer and general weirdo, I love her so much <3
#dead boy detectives#the case of the devlin house#edwin paine#oh no I'm gaining a new blorbo#he's just my type too: repressed and/or uptight gay#if only all my repressed uptight gay blorbos from different media could become friends#I am getting more and more into this show and I'm so glad#because I spent most of the first episode being really annoyed I didn't like it more#I still wish they'd done a better job in episode 1 but it's so good now! I'm completely hooked!#I'm enjoying going through it at a measured rate rather than bingeing it all in one night#also crystal's preeeetty#still hard for me to remember they're supposed to be teenagers lol#let them be adults! it's not like they're at school!#dbd#mine#dbd mine#reactions#edwin#I love when my reaction posts are me explaining my thoughts eloquently in detail#in stark contrast to my actual bearing#just know that re: all of the Edwin bits I am actually squealing and happy flapping
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Gojo, out of all people, seeing Yuuji as more than a vessel of Sukuna...man fuck me bro I apologize for thinking so shallow of you Gojo Satoru, this fandom convinced me you were just a powerscaler that dgaf about anyone...
#i am gagged bro#also the way he is talking about yuuji: determined brave uptight...he was thinking about geto wasnn't he#“the poison will break their hearts...adult's job to handle the poison" oh that's geto too#jjk#jujutsu kaisen#gojo satoru#cleared the bum teacher allegations too...
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im gonna be real with you i did expect some amount of confusion and blocking but i didn't expect a whole callout??? ToT
all i do is make silly drawings... it's not that deep...
but if this is how people are discovering me: hi! im cg (ghost if we're friends), ive been in this fandom for a while now, and i used to be a lot more active a few years ago.
to clear up some things, i dont consider myself a proshipper (i find anti/pro labels useless) and yes, i have been making "problematic" kotlc content for a long time. im very well aware that it's unhealthy/gross/whatever word you want to use, it's just what i find interesting and i don't feel the need to apologize for that.
i honestly didn't expect the tam/linh post to create the stir it did--my "darker" works have usually just slid by unnoticed in the past and i expected that to happen again. and while i don't personally care what people think about my art, (or fics for that matter) i am upset that people decided to "call out" one of my friends for?? reblogging a very mild artwork??
this is the internet, you're going to run into things you don't like, and other people are not responsible for your online experience. filter tags, block, and move on.
back to you quil: sorry for using your blog as a microphone but uh. you do have a larger following than i do and i just wanted to clear some things up. and tysm for your posts on the matter <3 (and thank you to everyone else who's made one!)
sorry to everyone who uses the kotlc tag on the regular, i hope this little stir doesn't stick around for long.
No worries! I've got no problem serving as. whatever you want to call it. a microphone, a mediator, in-between, etc. People have done it before and will do it again.
And yes, sorry to those new and those more marginal and to the regulars who woke up to this. It happens from time to time, and will undoubtedly happen again. Just life
Especially sorry if its your first bigger discourse, as there's a lot of new people in the fandom--it's never as serious as it feels, and it will blow over. It always does
And, while my availability is currently limited, I'm more than happy to talk as I can. anons are on, too :)
#kotlc#kotlc discourse#quil's queries#commonghost#the kotlc fandom's growing pains continue#it seems like we have generally the same discourse every few years whenever the fandom gets a new batch of people#this is not to be like oh ho ho when /I/ was a youngin or something#and lord my fandom old status. just an observation#i always worry i've got too much of an attitude or ego or am uptight or something#but anyway. that's not relevant to now
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Tag drop: Aventurine.
#[ aventurine. ] mr. cavalier gambler: uptight. overcautious. inferiority complex. you've won so much but you're still so afraid of losing.#[ aventurine: ic. ] they see only the straight flush. they don't know the other hand below the table clutching your chips for dear life.#[ aventurine: inquiries. ] time to make a move my friend. say goodbye before you shuffle off. it's… best to die without regrets.#[ aventurine: countenance. ] now go. and pick the clothes that you like. then choose your desired identity and use them well.#[ aventurine: introspection. ] “sleep is the rehearsal of death”? why does life slumber? because we are not ready for the final rest.#[ aventurine: meta. ] the road less traveled is less traveled for a reason. but you've never gone in any other direction.#[ aventurine: etc. ] the chance… no matter how small: the potential is what you hang onto. that is what justifies the gamble.#[ aventurine: ipc. ] … i'll give you that and much more than that. the ipc will give you whatever you want. even what you don't want.#[ aventurine: trio. ] three cornerstones who for a measly penacony... offered their everything. you're more united than the family.#[ aventurine: astral express. ] friends: the game has commenced and you cannot choose to decline… nor do you have grounds to.#[ aventurine: fate. ] if the dice of fate are always weighted then that is our destiny. why then... do we struggle against it?#[ aventurine: past. ] our paths will cross again beneath kakava's shimmering auroras. farewell: kakavasha.#[ aventurine: luck. ] he's only drunk on the moment that makes his very life quiver. hell is only one decision away from heaven.#[ aventurine: topaz. ] since i survived i realized: wherever you go that's where i'll follow; nobody's promised tomorrow. [ immobiliter. ]#[ aventurine: robin. ] so she sings; but does she dance? [ avaere. ]#[ aventurine: topaz. ] i never expected the beautiful and kind-hearted director topaz to resort to distorting concepts like that.#[ aventurine: jade. ] it's often used as a counterfeit for jade. but it looks like jade… can be substituted for aventurine too.#[ aventurine: veritas ratio. ] unfortunately for him; i make for a more competent conversationalist than the other dimwits around here.#[ aventurine: black swan. ] nothing remains hidden from you… does it? i will find my place in the web of your schemes; memokeeper.#[ aventurine: sunday. ] is this what the harmony represents? is it built upon constraint and coercion?#[ aventurine: acheron. ] only by casting aside reason does one truly gamble. “emanator” — I know you'll match my wager.#[ aventurine: v. youth. ] but the sun could not kill me and the quicksand sent me back to the embrace of the guild and the ipc.#[ aventurine: v. penacony. ] i seem that way because i am nervous. maybe you can help. what do you say; put our palms together a last time?#[ aventurine: v. future. ] the once falling die has at last landed on its earthly rest. quietly… peacefully: it at last landed.#tag drop
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"Sundays are meant for praising th-"
Ash pauses, watching his sister with a stern glare. "Angela.."
"What? I was just going to say it's the best day to praise the Lord.."
A soft sigh of relief, "Good.."
"..while enjoying your partner's company on your knees.~"
".........What am I going to do with you?"
#;a message from beyond;#tw: suggestive#{Ash you are such a prude I stg#{Angela doesn't gaf though xD;#Ash: You are spending far too much time with Philza..#Angela: At least I'm not stressed and uptight darling brother.~#Ash: Pass..I am fine without sinning on the day of our Lord.
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I was complaining to a friend abt some harmless shenanigans my bf had gotten into and she was like "he's really just the ernie to your bert huh?" much 2 think abt........
#its the fact that she's literally not wrong#we were playing a drawing game where you take turns drawing and guessing the other persons picture#and he kept drawing these crazy elaborate backgrounds before finally drawing what the prompt actually was#just to annoy me <3#and i am very bert-coded it must be said#autistic. particular. too uptight for my own good. very passionate abt my niche hobbies. get very frustrated over small inconveniences. etc
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I've wanted to write a dissertation on the localization differences in Sawashiro's Chapter 13 scenes FOREVER you have NO idea, thank you so much for pointing that out.
I did experience the full game back when it was only out in Japanese so I've certainly got Thoughts on both in comparison to the original as well. Although it's not exactly what you were talking about, I do personally think the playfulness is 100% purposeful and the more accurate take in this case! Not just in a literal sense, but in terms of authorial intent.
Chapters 1, 2, and 13 specifically are full of homages to and subversions of his character as seen in RGGO. Playfulness, unpredictability, and an off-putting sense of humor are central to RGGO!Sawashiro. He also happens to be particularly fond of fake-outs like that. Obviously a lot has changed between games, but there's a lot of fascinating interplay as well, even with 7!Sawashiro's much more subdued presentation. Yokoyama has said he was going for a story that doesn't require RGGO's context to understand or enjoy, but a story that's nonetheless made more interesting by taking RGGO's context into account. The effects of that approach are of course going to be apparent in RGGO's main antagonist.
So I don't think it's far-fetched at all to say there's a sense of humor there we just don't get to see much of, being Ichi and being in the situations we're in when we encounter him. I think that kind of works for him as a character whose idiosyncrasies are conveyed equally by what we see and what we don't see.
... I guess I kind of ended up writing a dissertation anyway lol sorry
this is like getting a letter from the president thank you so much for your dissertation and your work in general im actually framing this on my brain walls
#fave#snap chats#ON THE REAL THOUGH LET ME. TALK NORMALLY FOR A SECOND#i DID actually want to make a note bout sawashiro's dialogue during chapter 1 too in my initial post#but i didnt think it was anything super noteworthy- tho now im glad my thinking's been validated in a way#weeks back when i actually did take the time to read through the old RGGO chapters and familiarize myself with RGGO jo#RGGJO if you will AHA--#but on the real when you mention it i DO remember his personality feeling#saying 'relaxed' feels hyperbolic/inaccurate but he definitely did not feel /as/ uptight as Y7jo comes off as#maybe cause his portrait art has him smiling for once ☠️#but its due in part because we got to see RGGO jo more For Obvious Reasons and we got to see him interact with others more#that he got to feel a LIL more personable. not OVERLY friendly but yk. Just Enough to notice in comparison#in the way that i like comparing eng and jp texts it IS really fun looking between RGGO and Y7 jo#obviously they would borrow aspects from RGGO to put into Y7 but it is real neat being able to point them out/see them#i wish i could use my words better to express how much of a fan i am of reading this but just know i am#just very cool and interesting insight all around thank you again for writing in
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why be sane when you could build the wheeler house in the sims
#the worst part so far is the fact that ea refuses to add any uptight piano besides the vampire organ#so my attempts to remain base game are foiled unless i replace it with something random#but seriously. upright piano. i am begging.#i constantly want my sims to have a piano but the only option is the fuckin. 6x2 or whatever grand piano. it's too big
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the introduction of polls has taught me that the majority of tumblr users think i'm kind of gross. but the majority of tumblr users haven't fucked, smoked, or turned 25, which makes me think their opinions might be grounded less in reality and more in being 17
#neither fucking smoking nor turning 25 are requisite criteria for having a valid opinion im just sampling some of the data that#in aggregate indicates that a lot of users don't have that much life experience lol (which again i think is mostly an age thing)#(actually i think the age thing is pretty much the only important part. if ur 30 and know how to run a dishwasher then u have life experienc#e. you may or may not also be an uptight snob or neurotic rivers-hater who still thinks im gross but you know what#we are all entitled to our opinions. and also i am objectively fucking disgusting#some people dig it.#(> showers constantly but bleeds on everything constantly) (>leans face on subway poles dgaf im tired) (>yeah i sit down on the subway somet#imes too)#txt
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One thing about me is. AAAAAA AAAAUGHHH AAHHHHGGHHGHHHH SHARENA JUMPSCARE AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
#literally i do Not know how to express my feelings i just need SOMEONE to be unwell about sharena w me.#I LITERALLY GET SO BLINDSIDED SOMETIMES. LIKE. what the FUCK did they spike her character with#she's such a sleeper agent. like yay sharena 🩷 *clutching my head doubled over* eeughghEUGGEHHJHAAAAAAAUGHGJGHGHGHHH!!!!!!#maybe it's a consequence of the Type of character she is too. like. you meet alfonse and you already know oh he has issues. cool cool cool#sharena. it takes a while. but you start to notice some off things about her. you write it off maybe.#until it's. very in your face. OH. she. has issues as well. she's just like. REALLY adept at hiding it. maybe even from herself.#BUT SHE. PUTS HER WHOLE HEART INTO EVERYTHING. SHE'S SO DEDICATED. SO DEVOTED TO HER FRIENDS!!!!!!!!#might ALSO just be a difference in how each are perceived bc of how they carry themselves like.#alfonse being more uptight and aloof maybe his issues are just even more noticeable w that combo#meanwhile sharena is just a ray a sunshine she's playful she's full of whimsy. yaaaay YIPPEEE!!! but watch out.#idk idk i know i'm [redacted] about alfonse but that does NOT undermine just how fuckinh insane i am about sharena as well.#different feelings but similar levels of insanity.#sharena
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Re: the convert, this seems very much like a "not your circus, not your monkeys" situation.
yeah, youre probably right?? he just posts a lot of 'as a Jew this is what we believe....' and even disregarding how much we can unpack that conceptually a lot of it is oversimplified at best or just kind of. Incorrect?? so just a matter of deciding if trying to open the conversation is worth it because on one hand it isnt my problem at all but on the other hand hes presenting himself as some kind of educator to a majority non jewish audience who don't know or care enough about jews to question any of it and is it more responsible to try and gently steer it into something more productive
but also. im just some guy and its not my job to give advice to people who are just kinda embarrassing online
#it is probably not that deep i think i am just oversensitive perhaps#idk his journey to be fair i could just be projecting !! its mostly just how public it is#like doing drag performances dressed as teyve throwing a tallit around and on the floor maybe im just not getting the artistry or whatever#maybe i am Too Uptight that wouldnt be out of character for me tbh
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I won't say a thing because everyone around here is legally an adult, but I do consider playing a piano at midnight (and singing, goodness sake) pretty rude and disrespectful towards others
#did you receive a notice of any sort that it's okay? Is *everyone* there? I don't think so#So that's... idk neither the justification of 'i didn't think of that' nor 'I thought it wouldn't bother anyone' can improve my impression#then again I don't want to be the person complaining but I *am* taking notes#The only (maybe) situation I'd accept that for is if the people playing are good. Like *really* good#even then I still wouldn't really put aside the fact of playing at 1am💀#Idk maybe I'm complaining too much and acting like an old bitter person#Maybe it's the lack of sleep#I realize I am perhaps a bit too uptight idk#it is very cute to see young people gather around music tho#my post
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Is this my best comic ever?? Nope. Do I think I characterized either of these two particularly well in this comic?? Not really. Did I spend an unreasonable amount of time on it to the point that it would be a waste to not post it?? Yes, yes I did.
I really committed to this one, spent a lot of time on those backgrounds and treated myself to ample suffering with the perspective, which is not my strong suit but I am happy with how it ultimately looks. Yay perspective and background practice!!
(Tbh I shouldn't talk like I think this one sucks, I think I've just been staring at it for so long that my brain has decided it's not good and it's actually way better than I think it is, and honestly I am quite happy with it. The artistic process really is something, isn't it?)
The inspiration was basically me reminding... myself... to take breaks sometimes... by drawing for several hour stints during my only little bits of free time. Which totally tracks. Probably. But I've been rolling around in my brain this idea that Lambert is a very uptight people pleaser and anxious workaholic, but Narinder, at least since adjusting himself to the circumstances (which probably took at least a century, maybe two) has discovered the joys of self care, and has made an active effort to chill tf out. This has not made him any less terrifying to the cultists (save for Lambert's closest disciples), nor has it made him friendlier to really anyone but Lambert (and maybe his siblings), but he sure has found some serious peace of mind. That said, I can't place what his motivations are here. Perhaps he is secretly concerned about Lambert's sanity, because he doesn't want them to turn into what he was, or maybe he's just trying to steal away some quality time with his one and only friend, but regardless of the reason, I spent too much time on this for nobody to see it, dang it.
That said. Enjoy this silly little comic that I spent way too much time on, and I hope this silly comic brings you some joy today.
#cult of the lamb#cult of the lamb fanart#cotl#cotl fanart#cotl lamb#cotl narinder#cotl narilamb#narilamb#(like honestly narilamb is a qpr to me specifically and i intend this as such but this can easily be read as romantic as well tbh)#also we get some bonus jalala and rinor in this one!! and some bonus... implied leshycat. technically#not gonna tag those individually cuz there's just like. not enough of it for me to feel like those tags have any meaning#but they're here as a bonus. also jalala and rinor are fun to draw maybe i should make a mini comic just about them sometime#rambles aside pls enjoy this ridiculous comic that i spent an unreasonable amount of time on it was a joy to work on#and even tho its not my best comic ever i do love how it turned out it was such a good time#the yet untitled qpr narilamb au
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i don't talk about it often about how obsessed i am with husband katsuki not being all too concerned with informing the press of things and who prefers to keep things private.
like.. he married you last spring at a small, intimate ceremony held with close family and friends. izuku was his best man, your young niece was the flower girl who walked starstruck up to the altar and then asked to shake kiri's hand because she's a big fan. and the two of you were married. no fuss, no big press release, nothing.
katsuki is usually pretty uptight about what people see. of course, there have been rumors about who he dates, or rather, who he doesn't date. people love to imagine him as a heartbreaker for some reason, even if he's likely one of the farthest things from it. katsuki generally preferred to keep you out of the spotlight when you were dating though. you work at the agency and it was a mutual decision for a long while because the two of you figured that keeping things under wraps would mean it would be easier to actually focus on the relationship.
when you're finally married though, the two of you make the decision to just say fuck it. when out for groceries with you one evening, he's approached by the press. they hold microphones in his face and he grunts, frowning as he pushes the cart full of groceries to the car with you in tow. this is incredibly unprofessional and they're being unusually pushy this afternoon.
"dynamight! who's this you're with today?"
"a new fling perhaps?"
"have you finally decided to take a partner?"
he frowns at them furrowing his eyebrows and turning around. katsuki gives them a look as if they're stupid.
"that's my wife," he says plainly, as if it's common knowledge.
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