We all know know that Shinjiro is going to face some repercussions of his behaviour soon; my bet is on Tanjiro’s headbutt, but Akaza is definitely going give a good punch
we'll see haha! kyojuro is also there, which means he might be able to get between the two parties involved before it get physical 😂
also ngl ive been reading some kokushin fic recently, so i've been idly considering it 😂😂 but idk. im not even really focusing on other ships besides renkaza in this. still tho, cuz im curious:
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I think there’s something to be said about the fact that the only person who hasn’t asked me unnecessary invasive questions about my cane is our science teacher who’s like. Old as dirt. And walks with a limp cause one of her legs is longer than the other. The only thing she’s said even vaguely addressing it was “You need to sit down” when she saw me trying to handle chemicals with one hand.
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need to preface this by saying I looooove Felicia sm but god it’s so frustrating that when she pops up she gets to keep her personality, her depth, her everything, even in like her very few appearances but MJ has to get EVERYTHING WIPED AWAY even in the comics??? but literally the only close to faithful adaptions of her are spectacular, some of the 90s show and PART of the raimi movies and it’s only slivers!!!! And usually if mjs around Gwen doesn’t exist so we never the catalyst to her and peters bond, their shared grief that Peter can’t understand at first <\3
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since i just rb'd a poll abt high school grades now's probably a good time to drop one of my many million-dollar ideas for how to run a high school classroom, which is that i think that at the start of a quarter/semester kids should be asked if they want hw to count towards their grades or not bc i was So Fucking Bad at submitting hw in high school, but my test scores were really good, so i'd rather have not had hw count towards my grades. but obviously there are a good number of kids who are either bad at taking tests or anxious abt their grades dropping and are diligent abt turning in hw, so letting hw count towards their grades would give them some padding in that situation.
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the healing child abuse survivor moment of literally just mourning your child self. like, obviously, being neglected and abused a child will always hurt to remember that it happened but tbh for me the part that’s most hurtful is thinking about to my child self.
TW for descriptions of child emotional abuse and neglect below
what hurts more than anything is thinking back to seven year old me biting their fist and crying silently so their parents wouldn’t catch them and thinking “well if my dad doesn’t love me then i guess i’m just not worth being loved.” and how much that sucked. and how much no kid should ever feel like that.
it hurts thinking about how four year old me said to my mom “i wish i was as happy as my friends. i’m never that happy.” and she didn’t even take me to therapy for another two years, and i wasn’t diagnosed with depression for another eight.
it hurts thinking about how i was sitting in sub-zero cold every monday after school for months bc my dad forgot to pick me up for months. it hurts how my parents missed so many plays and school events and galleries that at some point i stopped wishing they’d even try bc it just made it hurt more when they said they’d come and then didn’t. it hurts thinking back to being 11 years old and having to manage my mother’s emotional response to me being hospitalized and realizing, at 11 years old, that there was no way for my mom to understand what i needed. it hurts thinking of the kid who had to learn to rely on themselves bc they slowly realized that no one else was fucking there for them in the way they needed.
and it really fucking hurts knowing now that those patterns don’t just develop overnight and there were repeated opportunities for adults around me to step in and stop the cycle and they didn’t. not even bc they didn’t care but bc they wouldn’t see. bc the society i lived in as a kid was set up to praise abusive behavior and laud the child who “responded well” to being abused. bc it never occurred to adults around me that the kid who “stepped up” and never set a toe out of line —the kid who parented other kids— could not feel safe at home, or could not feel loved. it never occurred to any adult around me that the kid who “had their shit together” and was basically a “mini adult” wasn’t being loved like they should have been, and wasn’t being taken care of like they should have been.
for me, what hurts more than thinking of the effects that child abuse and neglect have on me now, is thinking of the effects they had on me back then.
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i like being a NPC in other peoples lives, just the quiet person with headphones on in the back of the library, the random person typing away on their laptop in the cafe, stranger reading a book on the train,if you press X in front of me i might smile and say something like isnt todays weather just lovely, i hope my garden enjoys it as much as me. if my only purpose in life is to make the world feel more warm, then i will be happy. i will be the warmth i so desperatley crave
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literally can't talk to cis people about looking for colleges
I keep telling them that what I'm looking for is somewhere warm and liberal (obviously there's like academic criteria but these are the locations I'm searching within for academic stuff)
and they keep saying things like "move to this town in Florida, it's super liberal" "ooh Dallas Texas is pretty hip" and then they get surprised when I'm like. I can't be in a conservative state, no matter how liberal the town is. like they're completely unaware of these states laws and stuff
and I've had this conversation with multiple cis people and when I say "yeah that city is cool, but the state as a whole is unsafe" they just go "oh so (other liberal town in a different conservative state) then?" and then it just keeps happening
like I know I'm looking in the u.s. for warm places and a lot of the south is conservative, but like. I need cis people to vaguely pay attention to trans rights in states
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