#also don't be fucking weird about lesbians in the tags if you reblog this

[thatsafuckeduptale]

uh um ok uhm. I keep seeing cute fem starlos and decided to make a butch lesbian starlo .. .,, he/her pronouns and I'mdeeply in love with him.

this is for my fellow woman lovers out there I see you.

[an-adhd-infested-nerd]

Intro post

This is for me. I like lists.

Basic Stuff and info!

I'm a big old lesbian

My gender is "I don't fucking know"

Pronouns are whatever.

Neurodivergent as hell

I am an adult despite having the interests of a twelve year old boy

You can always tell when I'm scrolling through a tag cause I'll reblog 50 posts in a row about it

I am not responsible for my current hyperfixtations flooding my blog. I go where the audhd takes me

I may not always be super active in certain fandoms but they never truly leave me

Tagging System

all fanart reblogged is under #fanart

specific fandoms are always tagged by name

Fanart for specific fandom is tagged as #"fandom" fanart (ex #star trek fanart)

Original posts by me are tagged under #original

I'm hilarious in that tag

Long Replies are tagged as #reply

Commissioned art is tagged as #commissioned art

Interaction and Content Guidelines

I'm not gonna do an DNI because I think those are flawed and kinda dumb but I'm never gonna ~purposefully~ engage/interact with anything bigoted nor do I wanna hear or see it.

TERFS, zionists, homophobes and all bigots get off my blog. This is not a safe space. This is a danger space. I’ll hunt you for sport.

If I do reblog something bigoted, please let me know!

I'm almost never gonna interact with NSFW stuff, I’m not a huge fan.

Send me asks! Message me! Comment! I gain strength off interaction!!!

Fandoms I'm in! Also just some general interests

Cartoons/TV Shows

What We Do in the Shadows

Good Omens

House MD

Supernatural

Ghosts (specifically the CBS version)

Star Trek (TOS, TNG, Lower Decks)

Animaniacs

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (Mutant Mayhem, Rise, 2012)

Inside Job

Ed, Edd n Eddy (I had some amazing art commissioned by @mar-saturn for EENE. Check out my #commissioned art tag!)

The Owlhouse

Gravity Falls

South Park

Over the Garden Wall

Hilda

Wander over Yonder

Fairly Oddparents

Full Metal Alchemist

Spy x Family

Helluva Boss

Smiling Friends

Video Games

Minecraft

Pokemon

Legend of Zelda

Subnautica

Don't Starve

Psychonauts

Spiritfarer

Strange Horticulture

Jenny LeClue

Night in the Woods

Monument Valley

Dave the Diver

Dredge

Broken Age

Rusty Lake

Tangle Tower

Later Alligator

The Frog Detective series

#blud

Cult of the Lamb

Musicians and Bands

They Might be Giants

Will Wood

The Front Bottoms

AJJ

Weird Al Yankovic

ABBA

Chappell Roan

Marina and the Diamonds

Penelope Scott

Weezer (I will not be bullied)

Misallanious

The Night at the Muesum movie trilogy

The Muppets

Back to the Future

Scott Pilgrim

Dream Smp

Batfam

Squirrel Girl

Jane Austen books

The Barbie animated cinematic universe

PBS kids shows, specifically from the 2000s to 2010s

Various Broadway musicals. (I was a theater kid in middle school and I’m more embarrassed about that then any thing else)

[hermitcraftx]

gay people go here

james/icarus/patroclus | he/it/they + she sometimes + neos! switch it up

19 | traumagenic system

blog is rated 16+ interact at own risk

follows and likes from @faggotcowboys | alter blog: @lowresolutionboyfriend

ccs dni i dont want you here this is my treefort and ur not invited

I POST HERMITSHIPPING!!! BOO!!!

hi! wewcome to my bwog uwu i am a longtime tumblr user moving blogs

i mostly post hermitcraft/trafficlife but i dabble in some other stuff too <3

i am a fan of the dream smp but i dont post about it and i have most of the fanbase on here blocked from ye olden days. i dont like interacting with the fandom other than fanart so dont expect that from me if ur blocked nothing personal just how it is

i'm a writer. in theory. mostly i liveblog and shitpost and reblog art but occasionally i will upload my own art or writing

i do not tag for shipping mostly because i am absolute dogshit at remembering. i am an adult and i don't shy away from reblogging suggestive or the occasional nsfw post, but usually they're tagged under #suggestive or #nsft.

i am a beginner artist! please be nice to me :') i use krita

for hc s10 i'll be maining grian, joel, scar, and etho, but as of right now i am also caught up on mumbo, iskall, gem, zombiecleo, and i'm trying to slowly work my way through other people's povs

i main grian and joel! i go apeshit insane over scarian and smalletho, but i also enjoy gribeans/joelian and smallidarian/badboys content. treebark fan by osmosis. outside of trafficblr i watch a lot of content creators but ive been a fan of slimecicle and jschlatt for a while

used to be a wilburian. still like c!wilbur, disappointed and ignoring the actual guy. support shelby shubble and victims of abuse

i dont tag things as duo names i think its dumb as fuck i portmanteau their names or use "ship names" even if i dont care whether its romantic or platonic. if that bothers you block button

i dont believe in dnis but if you are a fan of dreamteam vivziepop jkr matpat or brendon urie i am probably going to block you. no terfs no swerfs no maps no zionists no racists or anti-semities and i am NOT pro-endo but i dont really care?? as long as you dont cause syscourse ur welcome idgaf

i <3 heart weird problematic labels like boygirl fagdyke mspec butch lesbians bi lesbians bi gays cisgender het aros furries neopronouns xenogenders objectum and if any of that bothers you. well. block button

[invasionimminentz]

masterpost! ☆•°

hey there! my name is sanka. im a nonbinary lesbian and you can use xe/xem pronouns on me or it/its if you don't know how or otherwise wanna. NO HE/HIM, SHE/HER, OR THEY/THEM. any other neopronouns

im a MINOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tho im ok with interacting with adults unless ur gonna be weird about it. please don't be weird im literally 14

HAVE I HIT POST LIMIT TODAY? : NAH.

i like tmnt, sonic, d4dj, and invader zim! i'm also a dj in training, which is my dream in the future!

typing quirk users do not fucking interact unless i interact first. it's really not personal and i'll try my best. i shouldnt HAVE to disclose that i am HALF BLIND and my screenreader is SHITTY ENOUGH AS IS.

vague me and you're getting blocked btw come say it to my face (mostly neo and lumi get upset about this, honestly idgaf but plEEEASE just dm me and talk it out if youre upset with me or something i did)

endos and supporters explode, you're not punk you're ableist ♡

jp/eng/spn

tags ♤•°

# |☆| sanka speaks - posting

# |♡| sanka reboops - reblog

# |□| sanka gets serious - vent or serious post

# |♤| sankautism - posting about an interest

# |♧| djposting - sanka posts about music

#|○| sanka did art - self explanatory. art.

other stuff ◇•°

i am part of a system. be nice. i will punt you. endos fuck off not for you. i am 14. do not be weird

read this ♡•°

i have no dni because they don't work, but i block freely. however dream smp fans, hazbin hotel supporters, and zionists won't like me much that's assured. however id prefer if you're friends with or support navinenightshade to not interact (or just dm me to find out what they did).

Ring! Ring! Here's the colorful hearts directory!

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(and now partner) ^

BLINKIES UNDER CUT

be warned, flashing

[wendy-wenda]

Hello guuys

Heh... Its me Wenda 👅👅👅 (you can call me white if you like I don't care) Some info about me: I'm a girl and I genuinely don't know my age (yes, I'm that dumb) but I'm an adult. I'm a cat (yes, this account is ran by a dumb fucking cat) and I'm lesbian so if you're some 40-year-old man who likes young women get out I'm not interested in you. I made this account only to talk shit about Simon and Brud (they're so fucking stupid I hate them) BUTTTT ya'll can ask me if you like (if your name is spelled out as S-I-M-O-N or B-R-U-D get out right now). But wai wai wai WAIIIITT I still have rules about you guys asking me stuff! 😭 1) Please don't ask me about my priv information, it none of your business bro. 2)If you're one of my friends (especially Gray) please DON'T TELL OTHERS ABOUT THIS ACCOUNT I BEG YOU ☹️ITS SUPPOSED TO BE A SECRET. 3)This account may contain bloody and murderous themes sometimes... I don't recommend looking through it if you are sensitive to that stuff, ok? Thanks. 4) Please!! Please don't harass me!! I just made this account to share my thoughts and let others think about it not for others to say shit about me and to threaten to execute me. :( Anyways goodbye, go crazy now.

Wenda out.

OOC INFO: heyyyyy its me Mink!!!! been getting into Sprunki lately so I decided to amke this acc hehehrhr pls no nsfw asks or anything bc I'm 15 and I go to highschool (plus I;m taken as well) I use he/they pronouns and Wenda uses she/her prns I try to make this blog as canon as possible but I may project a bit of my his into Wenda occasionally (her being lesbian and trans mtf) Wenda and every single Sprunki cast belong to Nyakobflolol (pls check them out!!!) (might make a satire parody ask blog with Oren next idk)

also this blog is taking place WAY before the cursed mode shit, so everyone is fine here lol tags: #wenda bullies - text posts (specifically the ones where Wenda is saying shit about Simon or Brud) #wenda remeows - reblogs #your asks - anon asks #🎶//ooc - I think its obvious to guess what that tag is for

#wenda speaks - normal text posts

some hcs for Wenda yayyy: - shes transgender (MTF) and lesbian - shes very rude and bitchy - she likes Uncle Samsonite - shes born with a weird condition that affects her weight, making it almost impossible for her to gain weight

[crispy-crust]

PINNED POST FOR PINNED FOLK (what the hell is even that)

hello friends!

my name is Gwen! some people also know me as crispy, marcy, june, and steph! i'm currently 17 i am arab! i've been known to partake in art but i struGGle with consistently drawinG i'm a heir of space and a purple blood (assiGned by james roach woah) i'm also a derse dreamer! i'm aromantic (i think?), and a lesbian!

i'm also a transfem (they/she/it pronouns) and i have audhd

quick thinGs you should know about me:

-i make a lot of jokes about killinG myself (never serious) -as previously stated i have audhd and i'm incredibly obsessed with a lot of thinGs so if you talk to me often chances are i'll keep rantinG about the same 4-5 topics. i'm a very passionate person when it comes to the thinGs i like and i've been told i "Go pretty hard on beinG a fan" -my timezone is Gmt+3 -i am VERY PARTICULAR as to who can call me dude/bro/man. please do not just assume you can call me masc Gendered terms as i do not take liGhtly to that and i'm only comfortable with close friends doinG so. - i use a typinG quirk as you've probably noticed, no i won't stop -i rebloG A FUCK TON of ship art and art in General, i will not make a separate bloG for rebloGs this is my house and i'll do what i please in it damn it -i am a very firm believer of june eGbert (as she is canon and if you say otherwise i hate you). if you taG any of my art of her with her deadname i will put a hit out on you.

my interests!:

-homestuck (spinterest) -amphibia (spinterest) -dc comics (spinterest) -sonic the hedGehoG (spinterest) -tmnt -scott pilGrim -steven universe -pokemon friendlocke -Gwenpool (i was here before it was cool) -bee and puppycat -ducktales 2017 -indie Games -and a bunch more stuff!!!!!! (ask me!)

DNI LIST:

dni: -basic shit, biGots, transphobes, racists, yk -any type of weird fuckin content posters no matter what you label yourself as. i do NOT want to see incest or pedophilia or none of that freak stuff -anyone whose overly reliGious -thinks marcy wu was in the wronG (i am so serious i will kill you) -just Generally don't be a creep or a dick and you're Good

links and stuffs

i stream on twitch quite often! come say hi also follow jae for Good measure

i used to run the semi daily meulin leijon art acc! it's dead now but i intend to keep it up

i also post a ton of art over here under the #my art taG here's my locG acc, as previously stated in this post i have audhd so i struGGle with GaininG motivation to read but i'm GettinG there i promise

we have a discord! hop in and hear me talk about comics a lot

ok thas it thanku for readinG :o)

[namisweatheria]

I know I've complained about this before but it's so hard to find LuffyxNami things that aren't CisHeteroified beyond all recognition. Like no no no you do not get it. It's like that post that's like "some mf ships are like that woman is a lesbian but that man is a woman so it works out" except 10000x more genderweird and acearo spec and also poly because it's not just about them. They're just my two favorites and of course Luffy's relationships with everyone are always the most interesting, and I care about women the most always. Nami is everythingggggg.

That's why I didn't even ship tag that last reblog because I don't want anyone to read it and think I mean a hegemonic-ideal het ship that does not exist in my mind at all. Doing that to them changes both their characters and their relationship completely. I understand why a lot of queer readers wouldn't even think of them together. The thing is I just can only take so much yaoi in one boat. I NEED IT TO BE ABOUT A WOMAN SOMETIMES. I LOVE WOMEN. And I just think Nami's relationship with Luffy is the most dramatically interesting.

I think it's just different! It's not hard to understand why anyone would love Nami, but it is a little mystifying why Luffy gets so immediately attached to her. She is not nice to him. She doesn't have a moment that proves her to be "a good guy" like Zoro and Sanji and Usopp all do. She gets mad at him and tells him off a lot. He admires her intelligence, and her abilities, and he thinks she's funny. He believes she's good without any proof, and a lot to the contrary.

He understands her feelings, he picks up that something bad happened to her because of pirates right away. In typical fashion he doesn't set out to prove himself to her, he knows he's not going to change her opinion on pirates, and doesn't want to. He does want to be liked by her though, and picks up whatever scrap she throws over to him.

I think about that moment where she's like, "I'll work with you again if you get the map of the grand line, good luck", and he's like "wow thanks!" It's funny and it's weird. Like he's so happy such a capable seafarer would consider working with him again, and would wish him luck getting there. Combined with how much he looks for her approval later it's just like. I can't help contrasting with Zolu, how the two of them just instantly fit. How the thing Luffy admires about Zoro is also what he prides himself on, how he delights in fighting next to an equal he can trust. With Nami he does not have an ounce of the skills that he admires in her. A lot of the time he doesn't understand her or what she's saying, only that she's very smart and also right.

Obviously Luffy doesn't get intimidated but I think he's proud of himself for winning her friendship in particular. It just comes across that way. Meanwhile, it took Luffy a lot to prove to Nami that he was trustworthy and worth following. There was a post going around about how that's Nami's thematic role on the crew, the first one who he earned the trust of, the first and forever faithful in his ability to win. Her presence is proof that he's worthy.

Obviously he doesn't see it that way, but I do think there is that undercurrent in their dynamic, of a lot of effort given to someone who isn't easily pleased but already loves him too. There's just a kind of subtle aloofness that Nami has with Luffy because she doesn't show her affection in the same predictable ways as the others, doesn't fight next to him with a smile or laugh at his dangerous antics or feed him his favorite food or geek out together over something silly. She's just a lot harder than the others, honestly because she's not sympathetic to men! She's been through a lot! The loving thing she does is be there. The trusting thing she does is yell at him and bicker. She didn't get to be loud and express her anger before. Now she does, because she trusts them. It's so fucking cool and subtle and special and I'm crazy about it.

Like it's because she's a woman that it's like this- it's because of the sexism she's suffered and the cruel world of powerful callous men that she's scraped and gritted her teeth and fought tooth and nail to survive all on her own in.

It's because of that her trust was so hard to win it's because of that she shows that trust and her affection in subtle ways it's because of that their relationship is so interesting. There's so much more to her but it shapes her and it's so compelling.

I wish the queer fans who care about her cared about her with Luffy because it's not just another het ship you can follow their queer coding here too their queerness is not incompatible it's unique and interesting it's nonbinary dyke4fag it's acearospec queerplatonic undefined closeness it's a mutual importance to each other that defies all roles and expectations IT TOTALLY DOES NOT EXIST IN CANON SO WE CAN HAVE FUN WITH OUR OWN VERSION. STRAIGHT PEOPLE DO NOT OWN LUNAMI. CIS PEOPLE DON'T EITHER. THEY'RE MINE ACTUALLY I JUST PICKED THEM UP AND PUT THEM IN MY POCKET AND BY THE TIME YOU READ THIS I WILL BE SEVERAL STATES AWAY.

[sapphodelia]

oh my god i was just hit by the loneliness beam

i miss having fandom friends and tagging people in things and seeing millions of posts regarding shows and movies and games i don't care about but like... affectionately... i think i might have accidentally gotten too comfortable with isolation and #doingme that i realize i really don't talk to much of anyone and i'm very alone and it's probably not healthy. i don't even so much as follow many people at all

but also how are you supposed to like, go back to that? i guess? like the innocence, you know, lol. because i was much younger then with more free time and i didn't hate, generally, half as much as i do now. maybe not even a quarter as much lol AAAHHH. i just want to be goofy and silly but everything's so serious and impossible now. ugh. and i feel like deep down, i don't want to be "okay" with it. all the good times were so fleeting. they all died before i even really got to know them and now i'm saddled with distrust and the mechanisms that i think will protect me... like, i don't talk to straight girls if i can help it, i'll never get close with them because they're all drama and maletalk, but when i was younger and when they were younger it was ok because boys then were just fictional characters or celebrities, not an actual physical presence laying in their bed who caused them anguish 24/7 in every manner imaginable, prompting them to revolve their entire lives around 1. the source of that anguish (the guy) and 2. complaining about the source of that anguish (the guy). i'm not interested in that!!

like i miss being STUPID ONLINE instead of SO FUCKING SERIOUS!!!!!! we used to tag each otheras anime characters and we used to have about pages with little pixel families all linking to each other, and half the links would be broken because people changed their urls too frequently, and we used to make a billion posts and reblog them back and forth, annoying the fuck out of our uninvolved followers, referencing inside jokes, oversharing, being weird, being stupid, being 14 years old

and it's all gone and it's DEAD AND IT COULD NEVER BE CREATED EVER AGAIN. because i'm different now, man. i'm just not the same. no one is. the only people i feel safe with are other real lesbians who aren't going to subject me to the Torture. like i don't have to sigh and nod my head and watch them construct the bars of their own prison, knowing that if i dare speak up they'll get mad at me. maybe back then when i was 14 i was OK with what few instances of heterosexuality i was exposed to, because it was novel. because it wasn't so tired and trite and overplayed. and because none of it was as real as it is now, yknow... fuck my life

[janeafterdark]

Intro Post

hello! I'm Jane and I'm 24, and a very transgender , very lesbian, and very poly kinda gal c: i use the she/her pronouns

my messages and asks are open, feel free to chat with me if you're 20+! i like sexting and all that sorta thing, so don't be afraid of me :p i'm a huge subby slut so keep that in mind

anyway here's The Lists: my kinks, my tag system, and my DNI list; please check the DNIs before you follow!

Claimed Anon Emojis: 🛸, 🐦‍⬛, 🦷, 🦈

Kinks

Praise Play

Degradation

Impact/Pain Play (to a moderate extent in reality, somewhat more flexible in terms of fantasy)

CNC and Free Use

Possessiveness (in a cute way or if more extreme more as a fantasy)

Rough Sex

Breeding <3 (pregnancy is not something i find appealing as a kink, but i do like the idea of being pregnant, and being *made* pregnant is def kink territory for me)

Hypno & Bimbo

Pet Play

Objectification (of me)

Tags

#jane speaks - this is the tag i use for my text posts, including additions to reblogs and responses to asks

#ask game - for various ask games and list stuff

#holy fuck 😳😳😳 - where i save content i *really* enjoy, usually pics of folks

#fantasies - text posts that i enjoy fantasizing about, usually in the submissive and/or bottom context

#anon ask - my tag for interacting with anons! i also usually tag with an additional emoji ask tag, if the anon has claimed one

#my gf <3 - posts where i interact or discuss my girlfriend c:

#body goals tbh - horny transition goals basically

#cnc - i try and tag cnc content since i know that can be upsetting for some folks (if you want me to add more tags for similar things please let me know)

DNI

Minors

AlloCisHet Men

Ageless Bios!! Just put your age in there, good lord!!

Really intense/gross subject matters like gore, scat, ageplay, raceplay, and other things of that variety

As an extension of the previous point: no 'aged up' characters or smut content of media aimed for kid's, it's gross and weird

Bigoted folks (obviously)

[shizuu-chann]

I need to write my thoughts, so if you have no interest in Horizon: Forbidden West, then feel free to move along. No worries. But I have Thoughts about the Burning Shores DLC, more specifically the introduction of Seyka as a love interest. Spoilers abound; you've been warned. Also, not looking for a debate. I won't be debating. If you like Seyka and the romance, that's your business. I'm not here to change you mind. I'm just here to express my opinion.

Before anything else, let's address one thing: my opinion on this pair has absolutely nothing to do with it be a lesbian couple, or fuck's sake, Seyka's race. Anyone who knows me or has been following me for a while knows that none of that offends me, and I embrace diversity in all forms. So, for anyone inclined to do so, don't come at me in the comments/reblogs/tags trying to paint me like a villain because of my opinion on the plot and the romance itself as a plot device. Everyone knows this is the website where if you say ANYTHING negative about the above, there are going to be people who decide you're a bad person when you're not, and I don't feel like dealing with that.

Getting into it, I'm sure you could gather from the paragraph above the cut that I am not a fan of the Aloy/Seyka pairing. Seyka has grown on me a bit more since playing through the DLC a second time, but man do I think she makes a terrible first impression (and by "first," I mean the first time playing through the entire main story). I hate how she jumps down Aloy's throat for "keeping secrets" when she does the same thing, and I hate even more that Aloy gives a shit about how upset Seyka gets hearing about Nemesis coming to destroy life on Earth. Like, bitch, she asked. Don't get upset with the person who told you the truth when you asked for it, and don't feel somehow guilty about revealing the info when that's what the person literally wanted! To be fair to Seyka, she says something similar when she said "At least you were honest" when Aloy apologizes (again, why???) for "dropping that on her." So, there's that, I guess.

In general, I just think the whole romance was weird and out of place. If I had to choose between Seyka and no romance, I'd choose no romance. Personally, I ship Aloy with Avad. I really like Avad, I think he's cute and a good person, and I'd be interested to see how they would make that relationship work. Barring Avad, I like her and Erend, or even Talanah (Talanah's crush on Amadis notwithstanding). At least with any of those three, or even just Avad or Erend, there's history there. Aloy knows Seyka for, like, two weeks tops in game (going based purely off how many day/night cycles went by while playing through this time, more like 5-7 days). It feels very much to me like a summer camp fling: something that's fun and new, and you really get along with this person, but then you have to go home and back to reality, and eventually you forget about each other and move on. I'd be okay with her joining the squad back at the Base, but only as a friend. I really don't feel like dealing with that weird tension in the next game.

Which brings up my next point on why this romance is not good, in my opinion: why did they introduce it so late? Now, I enjoy DLCs. If they seem worth it, I'll buy them, because I love new content and places to explore, but I am also of the opinion that devs/writers shouldn't put seemingly important characters or character development into extra, and clearly optional, content. If it wasn't in the base game, then it's not as important. Otherwise, it would have been included, again, imo. There are going to be people who won't play Burning Shores, and if Seyka makes an appearance in Horizon 3, a lot of people are going to be lost, confused, and reasonably annoyed. I've kind of shipped Aloy with Avad for two entire games at this point, but they're going to introduce an actual whole ass love interest for Aloy in a DLC that you can only play AFTER you've beaten the base game/main quest line? That just feels so forced and strange, and I don't understand why they would do that.

I can understand Aloy not having romantic feelings for anyone in the first game. She's on a mission to find out where she came from and why, stopping another end of the world with HADES, etc. And while the second game is similar, this is also Aloy's character growth journey. She learns how to make friends and rely on them. She learns that she doesn't need to take the fate of the world onto her shoulders, that she can share that burden with people she learns to trust. So introducing a love interest in Forbidden West feels reasonable--but not in a DLC at the end of the game. They should have introduced Seyka much earlier. Hell, I might have even accepted her introduction when meeting Alva at the Greenhouse or going to retrieve Alva and delve into Thebes! I would have been MUCH more receptive to Seyka/Aloy then! But after the whole story is over? Why? For what? What was their thought process???

I've already had an attachment to another character for Aloy to fall in love with, and went the entire second game thinking that maybe she and Avad could have something (because, at least the way I play/interpret it, they seem to have something, even if it's only a mutual respect--I mean, Avad clearly has a crush, but I play Aloy like she reciprocates, but is just too busy to think about it). All that only for some random person to show up and get shoehorned into the plot at the last second and go "hey, look at me! I'm hot and badass, AND a carbon copy of you, Aloy! I have all your physical abilities, the same temperament and outlook on life with only minor differences, and we both even have sisters! Isn't that awesome? Aren't I awesome? Now, act like a weird, stuttering mess as you develop this weird and out-of-character attachment to me after knowing me for a week."

I've run out of steam writing this now, but I think I got my point across. This crush of Aloy's just feels so out of place and out of character. It would have been much better had it not been so abrupt and fast. If she'd had the whole game, or at least a decent chunk of the MAIN game to develop it, I would be more receptive, but this? I just can't. I don't like it. ANY romance introduced THIS LATE and THIS QUICKLY is bad.

[aplaceforsecrets]

This is the nsfw sideblog for @avulleonastick, so if you've noticed they're liking all your posts, but I'm the one reblogging them well, that's why.

I mostly use this blog for posting things I think are hot and also sometimes recreationally bullying friends of mine. Lately I have been on Tumblr much so it's mostly the latter. Just because I'm doing it doesn't mean you can. (Like, maybe you can, but ask them first and don't be weird about it.)

A Place No Longer Secret because basically all my IRL friends know this blog exists now. aplaceforsecrets because they didn't, orginally.

My name is Ariel, and I'm a trans woman, a lesbian (mostly), poly, and a domme.

My main kinks are being the worst human being alive d/s, sadism, humiliation & degradation, and bondage, more or less in that order.

I don't trigger tag anything, so be careful. That said, my limits are:

CNC

Scat

Diapers

Ageplay

Raceplay

Vomit

Snuff

The use of the word “rape”.

Knifeplay/bloodplay/Anything that breaks the skin

Permanent marking

Forced ingestion of disgusting things (bugs, mud, etc)

misogyny play/gender essentialist play

mommy/daddy play

If you wanna play or are just curious, send me a DM, and I can send you my comically long kink document, because I really am that extra.

I block ageless or empty blogs more-or-less on sight. I don't care if ageless blogs to interact with my posts but a lot of the people I follow do, and I don't want them to have to deal with you. If you're on nsfw tumblr, put your age in your fucking bio.

If you want to see posts I have specifically wrote or have provided substantial opinions on, see #mine

[bullywug-n-mugwort]

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idk why people just decide they get to invalidate someone else's identity when they are not the one with that identity and therefore don't know what they're talking about. just saw someone i otherwise respect reblog a post about how bisexual lesbian is an invalid term because each term has changed over time and claiming it's lesbophobic and biphobic to use the term [something something mutually exclusive experiences]. i usually call my orientation "queer" but i often use "bi lesbian" to make sense of my own experience. the tags of this post were full of people dunking on all imagined reasons someone may call themselves a bi lesbian, none of which reflect my own experiences and reasoning.

not that i should have to defend myself, but a lot of these comments were very fixated on the experiences of "liking only women" vs "liking both women and men." these categories obviously have social significance, but to me personally, romantically and sexually, these categories aren't super helpful. i cannot isolate traits of manhood or womanhood i find attractive. i'm into femme traits until i see a hot butch. i like certain chests, certain facial features, and any genitals. these traits don't map onto coherent binary genders very well. not to mention my attractions shift with my fluid gender. if i'm looking for a consistent pattern, i'm into gendernonconformity if anything. i guess i'm far more into women than i am men unless the man is a flamboyant twink but at the end of the day i'm not into either as much as i am a very specific weird collection of queer gender markers. (and pansexual had never seemed to fit the bill, because there are also many gender expressions and markers i am certainly unattracted to.)

does that really make me a biphobic bisexual? i wrestled with more shame at the idea that i was a lesbian, a stereotype threat for the bisexual community i love. the twink i married turned out not to be a man at all. i was struggling with worries about comphet for years because i loved them but our marriage didn't feel "right," and now that we're both practicing genderqueers it does. to me, that experience made bisexuality feel less like home than it had before. at the same time, finding like two men attractive excludes me from the lesbian community. is it such a sin to have found home in a term that made coherent my knot of comphet and dysphoria?

i realized, as many lesbians with comphet do, that i would probably never be happy in a relationship with a man, as in someone who self- identified as a man and embraced manhood. i also find astarion bg3 hot as fuck. i fail to see how these are mutually exclusive experiences.

can i guarantee that no biphobia or lesbophobia has wormed its way into my brain? of course not, but it is so strange that embracing both those terms brands you as someone who hates both. it's also strange to exclude people from terms on the basis of internalized shame. why care if some people call themselves bi lesbians? does it feel invalidating to you? that's your own work-- same as women who think afab nonbinary people are really just women who are ashamed of being a woman and therefore should continue living as "women". (ie it's not my job to choose an identity that you approve of or think is free of shame. you figure it out.) are you worried it invalidates us in the eyes of the heteros? i simply don't believe in policing our own terms to make cishets see us as more valid or understandable. it's disguised respectability politics, plain and simple.

all these terms for our identities are best fits and best guesses, grasping for connections under this big lovely queer umbrella. the person who reblogged that post is a nonbinary lesbian. why do the same people who accept the concept of a nonbinary lesbian-- a thing that should be impossible if the term "lesbian" has actually calcified as the post claims-- insist that "bisexual" and "lesbian" are concrete, immovable, and mutually exclusive identities? to be extremely clear, i support nonbinary lesbianism. it's valid. and it's a weird fucking line to draw, saying that the gender spectrum can support loosely-gendered lesbianism on the side of the beholder but not the recipients.

there was also a historical argument claiming that people are misinterpreting contexts in which bisexual lesbian was used circa early 20th century. and like... okay??? i found the term in a pdf zine from the 90's which interviewed self-identified bisexual lesbians, gleaning a bunch of different reasons for the label. some fell into the assumptions of the aforementioned post, eg bisexuals who were basically political lesbians. (i don't claim to support this stance, though i do still insist people can call themselves whatever they want.) many more summarized complicated stories like mine, people who did not fall neatly into either "mutually exclusive" category because, it turns out, gender is a fluid weird spectrum. bi lesbians whose attractions are bi and gender is lesbian. bi lesbians who were literally only into women except for one "man". bi lesbians who were trying to untangle comphet and so weren't sure which label, if either, fit. bi lesbians who liked to fuck any gender but only fell in love with "women". so anyway, fuck outta here with "history doesn't work like that" narrow target practice.

and even if that's true... again, words are evolving all the time. we've made words like sapphic and achillean to make some sense of gender. "lesbian" has on-off been used as a gender term for decades. we've invited nonbinary people into lesbianism and many understandings of gender into bisexuality. bi lesbian is another evolution of our language, and people have been shitty about it since at least the early days of DTWOF-- bechdel's characters struggled with all of the above since the 80's.

and what's the point of terms? to find community, self- identity, and sometimes practical utility, eg in the dating world. were i to date again (yikes), "bisexual" would not be a helpful self-descriptor for finding a romantic partner. lesbian would. if i wanted to hook up, bisexual would be more helpful than lesbian, and i'd have to root through lots of gender expressions anyway. so in terms of my self identity and finding communities of similar folk, "bi lesbian" is a super helpful term. if you are a bisexual or a lesbian and feel frustrated or confused by my term, that's because it doesn't apply to you. maybe just realize this isn't your thing and leave our community to explore our experiences. love you, see you later in the sapphic tags where we have things in common.

so anyway, i think it's pretty silly to see a term, imagine reasons you dislike for why someone may use it, and pitch a fit. my identity's legitimacy has no bearing on yours. leave us alone.

[nexus-nebulae]

Hello!

We are the Nexus Nebulae (or Nexus Collective), a polychimera system of 400+. If you don't know who's fronting, you can just refer to us as Nexus, Nebula, Echo, or Guardian, they/them (plural form).

We accept all system origins here. We aren't debating it. Don't send discourse, we will immediately block you.

More information is packaged below vvv

Previously [echovoidsystem]

Bodily we are over 20. If you are a minor and us interacting makes you uncomfortable, feel free to say so and/or block us- we understand (/genuine).

We are physically disabled on multiple fronts, and have autism, ADHD, GAD, MaDD, and a handful of other things. We post about these things frequently. You can block the tags [#meds talk], [#doctor moment], [#not eating tw] and [#low health] if those particular things bother you.

We really really like getting asks and messages, however due to the aforementioned GAD we struggle answering them literally ever. So unless you ask a direct question that needs an answer, we might just never respond. Just know that we definitely saw it, and we definitely were happy about it, but we're just too much of a sopping wet cat to answer.

If you need to ask for certain trigger tags, feel free. We will never judge you, no matter how "weird" or obscure it is. Just know that certain things (e.g., swearing, all caps) are things we won't tag simply because they're too frequent of topics here, so at that point it may be better to just unfollow.

Also, we have multiple memory disorders, so there is a chance we may forget to add tags. We do usually manage to keep up with it though.

We currently have tags for [#emetophobia] and [#scopophobia].

SIDEBLOGS!

@thestarlightindex: our 'second main' where we mostly reblog terms we like and talk more in detail about our system & sources & MaDD

@echo-reblogs-creatures: self-explanatory. you want some Creatures?

System member sideblogs:

The Nameless Echoes, collectively: @nameless-beasts

The Hermitcraft/Empires Introjects™, collectively: @crowningachievementsmp

DNI-ish

We know DNIs don't work, but this is just a way for us to say what we do and don't support here. We block people we're uncomfortable with.

WE SUPPORT:

ALL system origins, be it nontraumagenic, created/tulpa, or anything else

ALL GOOD FAITH QUEER IDENTITIES. YES this includes all aspec people, INCLUDING CISHET ASPECS. YES this includes people with tertiary attractions. YES this includes mspec lesbians and gays. YES this includes xenogenders and neopronouns. YES this includes fags and dykes and she/hes and lesboys and he/him lesbians and multigender people and everything fucking else.

Sex work, drug addicts, people with stigmatized disorders such as ASPD or NPD. No, "narcissistic abuse" is not a fucking thing, stop being a fucking ableist.

Otherkin, or anyone who falls under the alterhuman label.

All races and religions (though we may be clumsy with this and accidentally say the wrong things. We're white, raised in a solely christian community, so we're still trying to learn how to shake off the bigotry our parents taught us. We genuinely want to learn and get better with this. If we say something wrong, please tell us, but please be patient with us and don't just yell. Most of the time we aren't even aware what we're saying is harmful. That isn't an excuse, but is an explanation.)

Other notes:

if you have "mcyt/dsmp" in your DNI we will just block you. We have introjects. Just leave us alone.

CREDITING

Dividers from here (eyestrain & flash warning for the blog this links to)

Current header was from google i don't know where it came from ;-;

Current pfp was edited by us :)

[cure-icy-writes]

Hi I am going around to everyone who reblogged that post with tags: please use this ask as an excuse to ramble about your ocs I want to hear about them

OwO? Well, if you insist~

Here's my first picrew approximation of Lux! Not a final design, but I wanted to figure out their facial features a bit-- they've got sort of catlike, narrow eyes, messy white hair, long/thin nose, sharp chin, and thin expressive eyebrows.

As for their clothing, their default design changed a bit-- frayed/saggy sweater that used to be recognizable as cable knit, and faded jeans with an inoffensive patch or two and large pockets. Mom jeans, y'know?

Lux's character is based on two things:

Aging is not a curse. Getting older doesn't mean you're missing out; it means you have new perspectives. Lux has the ability to see what the children in the story cannot, and life skills that they're lacking. So what if Lux isn't physically at their prime anymore? They can make phone calls and answer emails and spot scams.

You can still leave a legacy without having biological children. This one's important; Lux is some flavor of neurodivergent, and saw firsthand what happens when someone who never wanted a child is saddled with one.

Lux lost their parents at a young age, too young to really remember them, and for the most part will shrug and tell you that you can't miss what you never had. But they do feel a confused sort of grief and longing for what could have been, and visit their parents' graves once a year.

They ended up being taken in my their only living relative, their aunt. And this woman... she didn't want children, she was unqualified to raise children in a lot of ways, and she didn't do the best job. She wasn't really abusive, but she definitely was emotionally neglectful, and Lux was something of a wild child as a kid, wandering around and getting into fights.

But the adults in the community started to take notice of this, and began to provide for Lux in small ways. It started out with just little check ins, free clothing and food, but eventually Lux was having a home cooked dinner at someone else's house nearly every night. It takes a village to raise a child, and that village had started to step up.

When Lux left home, however, they lost this support system and started to revert back into their old ways, traveling and living on ramen, keeping a frankly abysmal sleep schedule, not even owning a comb.

They were eventually properly socialized, so flash forward to the present day, Lux has no kids, three money, and takes care of the neighbor kids sometimes. Because the other adults in town consist of:

sort of pathetic meowmeow scientist

former unshaven addict who had a daughter due to critical contraceptive failure and realized "oh shit oh fuck i have a child i need to get my life together STAT." he's doing his best to manage his addictions and keep his daughter safe, but there's a lot he falls behind on, and he doesn't feel like he can leave town for fear of relapsing

late bloomer lesbian who only realized she liked women after getting a husband and a son. the divorce didn't go great for her, but she kept custody

So Lux is an adult with back pain and a favorite kitchen appliance (it's the dishwasher. no question) and knows full well that they shouldn't have kids for fear of ending up like their aunt, but they also really enjoy being the cool aunty/uncle figure to the local kids.

They're the sort of genderqueer where they like a healthy balance of gender, don't believe in the pressure to perform androgyny, and use they/them for convenience. they only refer to themself as having a binary gender in a very specific mood, or when it's funny. gender is a performance and you gotta do it For The Bit.

oh also they forcibly adopt an edgy eleven year old who has beef with them as their weird little nephew and it's the funniest fucking thing. child you are not horrible or irredeemably evil, you are eleven. cmon let's go to mcdonalds and then get you some black eyeliner and introduce you to emo bands and sonic OCs, you need an outlet.

[catboylesbian]

boots. 29. they/he. transmasc lesbian. poly.

#kitty kat talks - personal posts

#kitty kat photos - personal pictures

will reblog your super subby/super dommy post with no comments so you have to guess if i want to do it or have it done to me

we do monster fucking here, sir

don't tag kinks, but also I dont reblog a lot of hard kinks, but if you try to be puritan about kinks at me i will not hesitate to block

asks are open, but don't be weird

follow/like from @cynda-queer

[thegiantsansshipkidproject]

Faq

Just questions I anticipate being frequently asked. Will be extended as new questions are well... Frequently asked!

Why no dreammare? Why no Fresh x minty? Why no incest ships?

They fit the stipulation I put forward in the disqualifications page that I won't do incest related things. Itd feel like I'm condoning it or I was making it seem cute in some way and incest isn't cute/attractive and shouldn't be condoned. It literally only removes like 6 ships total out of a hundred plus possibilities, cope.

Why are all the ship kids gay/trans/etc?

Cause gay rights and gay wrongs :) there are completely cishet kids though too they are just ~ rare ~

Will you ever consider adding *insert au here*?

Like I said in my disqualifications post, if they don't fit any of those to an extreme degree, especially number 2, I will consider adding them to the second list with a bunch of other Sanses.

Can I draw these ship kids? Can I ship shipkids with other ship kids/Other characters? Can I self-ship myself with shipkids here?

Absolutely! Id love to be tagged in it too! I may even reblog the post here so others can see it! All I ask is you don't put them in ships with adult characters/gen 0 Sanses/original au Sanses (like the ones on my list), don't ship them inappropriately (like a 17 year old ship kid with a 10 yr old, have some decorum) or ship them with their siblings/half siblings/other related family. In the end, I can't stop you from drawing/writing whatever you want but I sure can ignore your art and block you >;)/srs so maybe dont tag me in or send me the art where your breaking my very simple rules.

Do you ship the ships you draw for? Do you have any ships between ship kids?

Not all of the obviously but I do have a few sans amasui ships I really love like dreamfresh, kustard, outersci and others but I tend to like rarepairs the most. Also yes! I do ship some of my ship kids together with each other (blossom and moon) and with ship kids outside of my own (like luna x goth is an ancient love of mine and Doom x lux). It's abit uncommon for me but I do ship some! None of them are really canon though so if you ship them a different way, as long as it's abiding to their sexuality, I don't mind!

What dose MLM/ILW/NbLnb mean?

These are conjoining community labels and I use them more for bi/gay/hetero curious ocs. MLM means men love(ing) men and describes a man that likes other men, this label includes bi men and gay men. When I say a male oc is MLM, I mean that he knows he likes boys but he doesn't specify his sexuality further. He could like girls or enbies or he couldn't, he's not sure yet. Oh and since it's related; ILW/ILM/ILNB means intersex/intergender so ILW means intersex/Intergender loving women. I means intersex/Intergender, W means woman, M means man and NB means nonbinary.

"lesbians can't use he/him pronouns"/"Neopronouns are stupid"/*insert some other form of lgbtphobia here*

I won't entertain this. Anyone can use any pronouns ever, Neopronouns are older than Shakespeare and all LGBT discourse is poison. " I can't physically pronounce Zey/Zem!" Ok that's why the auxiliary/acceptable exipronouns(she, he, they or it) are written right next to them :) its almost like you have no excuses to misgender and mispronoun my characters :)

What's this nonbinary character's birth sex/dead name?

Although I do know (because I made them), why do you wanna know what genitals this 5 year old character has? :) that's awful fucking weird dude. Idk about youuu :) (<- not thinking about smashing your creep ass head in/hj)

"Intersex is a sex, not a gender"

Putting this to the side because I'm intersex, I've had Perisex(non-intersex people) genuinely say this and yes, people can and have and will describe their gender as Intergender/intersex. It just means that because your intersex, you can't nessesarily be labeled as cis or trans or nonbinary. Your technically cis because you identify with your gender/sex assigned at birth and that gender/sex is intersex. Technically the label is cintersex/cintergender but Intergender is basically the same. It just means your gender is your intersexuality. It's not that complicated and if you arnt Intergender, especially if you arnt intersex at all, you have no business telling us what our gender can and can't be.

How does a 3 year old know their full gender, sexuality and pronouns?

They don't! The guide is applicable to them throughout their whole lives. That 3 year old doesn't know that their polyam and bi right at that age but when they grow up, they will know and that will be their orientation and relationship desires. The ages present are really just to show the age differences between them, their siblings and the other ship kids. That 3 yr old has a version of them in a timeline right now where they are 30 years old, its all relative.

The birthdays/orientations/genders/pronouns/etc you put for the main Sanses arnt right.

Your correct. It's because I did my own takes on them and I'm basing them off my own headcanons and also because not every creator of those Sanses ever answered those questions. Technically these ship kids could both apply to my versions as well as apply to them canonically.

How do you decide their birthdays/orientations/pronouns/etc?

I spin a wheel with all the options and just pick what it lands on! (Of course with some basic stuff like no lesbian trans men, no Aro/ace/Aroace pre-teens and below, etc)

What's your name/pronouns/gender/etc?

Although my pronouns were already added to the main post, all the information on my sona's sheet applies to me, the real Zen and runner of this blog! (I go by Zen or Zenia, I'm two spirit Genderfluid and intersex, I'm bi Arospec and polyam, my favorite color is a minty teal green, I'm 23 yrs old, my birthday is June 4th, etc etc)

If you have another question and don't see it present, like I said on the main post, please feel free to send in my inbox! I'll happily answer and if I think it could come up again, I'll add it to the FAQ so it won't need to be answered again.